So many bottoms thirsty for total tops

The laws of supply and demand dictate the terms.

Guys with big dicks are ALWAYS in demand. And I should know..

not in my community. lots of tops looking for sloppy bottoms.

He didn't say he was hung, R1. He just added the word "Total"

OP - TOTAL top means you're a real man and are going to aggressively throw the bottom around like a rag doll. "Top" means you might have let a penis touch your bung hole so you're not fucking around with no faggy shit....and doesn't that just make a boipussy moist!

What country, R2?

I fucked up my post

OP - TOTAL top means you're a real man and are going to aggressively throw the bottom around like a rag doll, so you're not fucking around with no faggy shit....and doesn't that just make a boipussy moist!

"Top" means you might have let a penis touch your bung hole once...maybe...and you might actually be not be as masculine and aggressive as the "total" top.

I only top on hook ups and specify it clearly on my profile. Like shooting fish in a barrel. :)

Because, we, the total tops are less likely to carry the HIV.

I've always LOVED that there are more bottoms than tops.

Yeasss

I've done the math. My slide ruler tells me there are 689 bottoms per 1 top.

[quote]Because, we, the total tops are less likely to carry the HIV.

Lol, as if guys give a fuck about diseases. What an optimistic dream world you live in.

Many bottoms are turned on by their "alpha male" fantasies and being a "total top" is part of that. We all remember the sad old bottoms who actually got upset when pornstars like Brandom bottomed for the first time.

And yes you can get a 100x more messages if you are looking to top than if you are looking to bottom.

[quote]not in my community. lots of tops looking for sloppy bottoms.

On what planet is there some lack of buttoms? Not in any gay scene I have ever seen.

My ex was a total top. Except on the rare occasions when he got really drunk and stuck his ass in the air after I rimmed him. After the first time I learned not to mention to him the next morning that I'd fucked him. He didn't like that at all and denied it.

I'm middle of the road, I want a guy with an active sexual imagination, can top, bottom and simply make out. "Total top" sounds like something only appropriate for a bathhouse trick

Do total tops look down on bottoms?

No, R12, we don't. I've never been anything but a total top and I love bottoms.

Why are gay men having sex- period? Can you spell P-L-A-G-U-E?

I find telling guys I'm a total top turns them on and gets me laid more easily. They don't need to know that sometimes when I travel I do the old "door's open" trick at the hotel and get royally banged.

Hmmm

OP is not a top.

Well, he’s definitely not a top. Some say a versatile top or possible top is not a true top. Many desire extremes.

I honestly don't understand these very hyper specific roles people adhere to.

It's so....hetero.

BOTH topping and bottoming are fun.

Why just enjoy one layer of cake?

[quote]not in my community. lots of tops looking for sloppy bottoms.

Where do you live? I only know one place like that

I've found "total tops" are usually liars or at least not 100% truthful.

I've had "total top" bfs who either 1)after we broke up admitted they got fucked "because you know, it was a black guy with a huge dick" or 2) when drunk loved me rimming and fingering them and prob would've let me stick it in.

I prefer a total top but have come to realize it's prob a fantasy and if someone is at least willing to be total top 95% of the time, that's cool. (esp if they dont want to suck, but that's aother thread!)

R19, because everyone is not you. Some people naturally like being absolutely always submissive or receptive, others naturally only desire to always be dominant or penetrative. Stop trying to make all likevyou.

^^^ R22 thank you

I am a total bottom and I only want a total top. Versa you' re out. I want my total bottom to be uber masc, selfish, aggressive, heartless, and throw me around like a rag doll. I honestly prefer to be fucked by straight guys, or bi guys. I look down on bottoms, unless they are masc like me. At the bathhouse, even if I have been gang banged in plain view, I won't speak to fem guys. I'll ignore them if they look my way or speak to me. I am proud to be masc, muscular and hot

WHERE was I trying to make everyone be like "me" you stupid shit head?

I've found that BORING people adhere to these BORING "roles" of top and bottom.

Once I hear "total top" or "total bottom" I know I can easily avoid getting close to dull stupid people.

Fascinating. R24, so how do you meet dudes? Please give details and examples. How hot are your partners?

R24 Can't even speak to fem guys? YAAAS! You do you, you "masc" self-loathing, gym bunny! Life is truly a banquet.

R24, you go to bathhouses? In 2018!!!

R24, do you think it is a contradiction to claim to be “totally masc” yet desire for another man to “throw you around like a rag doll?”

R28 bathhouses can be awesome in other countries sex isn't considered shameful. With the advent of AIDS, some countries actually spent money to help bathhouses educate their clients on safe sex and best practices. This is part of why you can find a fun, clean, and well-run bathhouse in most major European and Canadian cities abundantly stocked with lubes and condoms.

Wondering if others run up against the same problem I have. I am exclusively a top - I never bottom - but, (1) I’m sort of skinny, mild-mannered and soft-spoken so I get pegged (no pun intended) as a bottom plus (2) I also like to suck but some bottoms immediately shut down if they get wind of that. So then when I meet another bottom I forego the sucking since I’m ok without it and then I get spit for not sucking.

The weird thing is that despite my personality, when I’m having sex I tend to be ruthless and demanding. But I’m not into describing myself that way upfront.

Oops! That was shit. I get shit - not spit - for not reciprocating oral.

Autocorrect is a prude.

Oooh

"Bottoming a little uncomfortable. .."

It's a pain in the ass.

[quote]I am a total bottom and I only want a total top. Versa you' re out. I want my total [bold]bottom[/bold]

I think you made a mistake there.

Back in the '70s we were mostly versatile. It took being good bottom to understand/appreciate how to be good top. We loved it all and we got around.

R31 if you have a big dick (preferably uncut) you'd be a good match for me!

Hey, R37! Yeah, it’s big. And thick. But cut.

This will probably never change for gay dudes. I don't bottom and I love bottoms, and MOST gay dudes are bottoms or vers.(which is usually 90% bottom anyway).

We all have to share the few tops, OP.

Oooopps yes R35. You are the only bright bulb here. Of course it's total TOP. R26, I am a pro sports coach. Not like fitness but real sports. So all my colleagues are super fit hunks. I work in stadiums and gymnasiums. So endless supply of super hot young dudes. And what R30 says

For R26 ( I already posted this in another thread) Let's say, when I go out for a fun evening, I will do an average of 7/8 guys. 3 or 4 MAX will full fuck me, fuck my ass AND mouth, the rest will only fuck my face. I don't even swallow all the time. Maybe 1 out of 3. I have a very good pozdar, so if the feeling is right, I bareback, even do ass-mouth. And clean the dick.I don't trust Prep, and I don't want to poison my system with chemicals.

For R26 But my favorite is the soccer field at night in summer. It's a remote training field near the river. The guys are a.m.a.z.i.n g. You can meet total hunks, just kneel in the grass naked with your mouth opened, and two, three of them will come while the rest are watching and cheering. You can be fucked against a tree trunk in plain sight, anything goes. Fantastic.

I have no problems getting lots of messages as a bottom here but im under 30.

Are there really more botroms? Every single video I see on xtube the bottom is basically hideous and the top is average to good looking.

You know, I'm a bi woman so completely unrelated and yet if I advertise myself as "girl on top" (which I like best), I get swarmed by requests from both girls and guys. It seems no matter what sex/gender you prefer, people are the same.

top:

What masc dude under 50 says “hunks”?

R47 Or "built".

....

What do you say then DL ?

There is someone for everyone

Division thread

Top vs bottom.

Can anybody make a thread that doesn’t put two members of the gay community against each other?

Can anyone make a positive thread? Not even one?

THREAD CLOSED

'Top vs Bottom '...Somebody is REALLY stupid. The are not 'against' one another, have you ever fucked moron ? Are you even gay ?

True

Its bottoms vs bottoms and nothing else.

People who identify themselves by what sexual positions they prefer are damaged.

I find both total tops and total bottoms to be utter bores in bed.

You can have 'em all.

What R56 said

R58 Spoken by a 98% bottom.

Post some illustrative personal ads

Craigslist is over

Unless it's just a marketing move, total tops are in demand 'cause it's not a choice, it's an animalistic drive to fuck anything that's moving. That kind of drive is something not considered polite or p.c., moreover in the current climate, so sex with a total top is an experience on the wild side. It's not uncommon that total dominant tops are the kindest people in everyday life, to add a sort of jeckill/hide vibe. The fuck is in the brain, as always. I know this 'cause I'm one.

I'm a total top and I'm considering taking crossfit classes. How many chances to find muscular bottoms there? And since we're among friends, how can I spot a muscular bottom willing to focus on the anus alone and interested in having his cock caged? Psicological or phisical giveaways? Forums or online chats?

Even better if the Top also fucks fish!

Fish is moving. I draw a line there.

R64, total bottoms are found on the butt machine and glute corner of the gym

"There are more bottoms than tops and they're desperate for big dick" is a total internet lie.

I'm reasonably good looking, a top, and more hung than the average guy, but during my Grindr days hardly anyone wanted to actually let me fuck them. They'd all change their minds once we started fooling around and want to stick to oral only.

The ideas that "bigger is better" or that "all bottoms crave endless cock" or that "real tops get the pick of the litter" is, in my experience, total bullshit.

A total top is seen as a real man, equivalent to a straight guy.

I’m a total top and I’ve never bought into the myth about there being more bottoms than tops. Seems like every profile I read on Grindr, Scruff, etc. is either a top or a versatile bottom (looking for a versatile top).

THats because pf the perception bottoms Aeschylus less masculine and unattractive

Supply and demand. Most gays are bottoms, so don’t get fucked as often as they’d like. Top here, also in demand for saying I’m a top. My experience is the bigger the dick, the greater the chances of being a bottom. 7.5 here, total top. Don’t look down on bottoms, just their preference.

Total anything bores the fuck out of me

I have yet to meet a true total top. They’re all liars

A true top never looks down on bottoms. Why would they? Without bottoms, tops would never get any pussy. It's bottoms that shame other bottoms.

Exactly, R75.

R68=tinymeat

Of course

Here's a gift r24 can go fuck himself on.

The masc douche thinks there's a "pozdar" and that tops can't get AIDS!

He's going to get what's coming to him.

Maybe r52 should take advantage of r24's "pozdar."

Gold star top here. We do exist.

There are absolutely more bottoms than tops, everywhere (at least in the US). How this point can even be up for debate is astounding to me.

Just look at the posts on Doublelist (formally craigslist m4m), and compare how many posts are looking to suck dick/get fucked vs get sucked or suck.

In some areas the ratio of bottom posts is 10 to 1, 20 to 1, or in Austin, where I live 50 to 1. There is no way that there are enough tops to “service” all these thirtsty, desperate, greedy bottoms, who aren’t satisfied after one dick and continue posting over and over, day after day.

As far as bottom shame, I have always maintained that it’s jealous bottoms bashing other bottoms. No top, who actually is attracted to bottoms would bash them or look down on them. Since most gays are bottoms, it makes sense that out of sexual frustration with all the competition, that these guys would bash each other.

R83 tops tend to not make ads, they respond, especially the dl ones

I Am A bottom who has never had problems finding tops so I can’t relate to the “not enough tops too many bottoms” whining some Bottoms love doing..

Well then R84 you must be in an area where the ratios aren’t so imbalanced. Because even as a young guy, good looking and fit, I found that posting an ad on craigslist or now Doublelist looking to suck cock many times receives zero replies. If I’m lucky, I’ll get one or two low quality replies, from guys outside of my age range.

Do you only meet tops off the internet?

Get off the internet occasionally. Nobody cares about this juvenile crap in real life.

"Division thread. Top vs bottom."

And the bottoms are hoping that it's LONG DIVISION.

You sound like you're a new top if you're saying this is a new revelation. It's always been this way for us tops. 97% of gay dudes are bottoms, and that's what we tops love.

The reason why “total top” matters to a bottom is because on more than one occasion a “top” that showed up for a hook up...all of a sudden in the middle of the hookup wants too bottom for the first time because they think you’re hot or masculine. Bullshit! Essentially they weren’t really a top in the first place and bottom is left unsatisfied. So when a total top is advertised...it’s seen as a guarantee that the bottom gets his ass pounded as he’d hoped for.

R88, I’m not doubting that there has been an imbalance for a long time, but I’ve been sexually active for the past 10 years.

Back in 2008, 2009 there were way fewer ads on craigslist looking to suck dick only or get sucked in my city relative to how many ads there were severa years preceding craigslist’s personals demise.

I definitely noticed way, way more total bottoms coming out of the woodwork. And my thoughts have been echoed by a gay black YouTuber who said that in the 80’s and 90’s, it was expected that a gay guy be fully verse and that total bottoms/cocksuckers were rare.

Also, a gay guy who prefers sucking only told me that in the 80’s on gay phone/chat lines fin he said he was just looking to give a no recip BJ, he’d get hundreds of messages. Guys were incredulous that someone was willing to do that. Now, he says there are so many cocksuckers, it’s an oral tops market.

R90 all the bottoms were dying in the 80’s mary.

I've had vers guys call me "boring" because I only top. I was top shamed!

"Do tops look down..."

R12, it depends on the position.

"I've had vers guys call me "boring" because I only top. I was top shamed!"

By 'boring', they may be using THIS meaning of the word: --The act or process of making or enlarging a hole

Total yops who know how to own it are definitely in demand.

.........

My experience is that a masculine bottom (such as myself) is always in demand. Never had a problem finding dick and I'm 39.

I'm a bottom but I loved getting sucked. Don't other bottoms get sucked too? People love to fuck and suck a hung bottom.

Division thread. Top vs bottom.

[quote]TOTAL top means you're a real man and are going to aggressively throw the bottom around like a rag doll, so you're not fucking around with no faggy shit....and doesn't that just make a boipussy moist!

"boi"

Ugly people's problems.

Never had an issue.

BUmp

Are you really that naive OP?

Try adding "DL Bi" to "total top" and you'll double the number of responses you get yet again.

Better still, try pretending you don't know what a "total top" is but say "I only get sucked or (if the vibe is right) fuck. No kissing."

If there's room add in "girlfriend out of town"

So, so many gay men love the idea that they're being fucked by some straight guy who doesn't do "gay stuff"

And you're just fucking them, not dating them, so the way I see it, it's a win all around.

Pro Tip: Wear baggy basketball shorts and a t-shirt with the name of a local sports team on it, plus some kind of running shoe with white socks. Unless you know nothing about sports, then just a t-shirt with an UnderArmor or Nike logo

I'm not into anal either way.

Total Tops are viewed as more manly, closest to straight males

Everybody wants an Alpha

I’m thirsty for doms to control me!

I’m thirsty for the CORNY PUNS to stop!!!

When are they going to bottom out?!

I can’t Top that one bro

I say I'm a total top just so guys don't even ask if they can fuck me but honestly, I'm not a big fan of anal, I don't mind it in porn but in real life, I'm fine without it.

Total Tops are most desired

Bump

Fascinating

[quote] I'm a top but will bottom in a relationship at partner's request

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Competition

Bump

I feel like total tops are just more masculine and yes, I know that is probably some self loathing whatever, but it's hot. I've met semi fem, but very nice, hung, good looking total tops it's been more the exception.

OP is a RAGING bottom.

Bump

Bump

More!

[quote] On what planet is there some lack of buttoms?

NYC. It's hard to find a bottom here. I'm in heaven when I visit Los Angeles and have my choice of endless bottoms.

"I honestly prefer to be fucked by straight guys"

Unless you area girl, there is no chance a straight guy will fuck you. These guys are bi sluts that fuck everything with a pulse, but insist on being calling straight. Straight man will want to fuck a man as much as you want to fuck a frau.

Explain prison. And the Middle East

R42 is a risk-taking idiot.

It’s so vile. No sense of healthy restraint and selectivity

R124 Let's start with Middle east. There is a lot of sexual abuse of boys in the Middle east. Pederasty is ingrained in that culture. For eg. in Iraq much more men reported to have been abused than women. Girls are kept locked in the houses, so boys are much easier targets. Many of these abused boys have confused sexuality and behave in the bisexual manner later in life. Also, the sexes are divided and many boys have their first sexual experiences with each other. Later in life, when they lack females, they would get involved in homosexual behavior easily.

I have read an article, published in respectable magazine how it is completely normal for young boys to be wolf whistled by groups of grown up men, which would be hard to imagine in western culture (where the pederasty happens on down low).

So, these are highly bisexual cultures. It is hard to believe that in the most homophobic societies there is the most homosexual behavior happening. But human race is a very hypocrite.

As for prison, it is possible that perhaps some men practice situational homosexual sex. But, many men in prison come from the problematic background where a lot of sexual abuse of boys happen. Many have been in juvenile prisons where they got accustomed to homosexual behavior. The gangs are no strangers to bisexual behavior.

Bottom line, these men are not heterosexual men, even though they like to present themselves that way.

💯 total top. All I think about is booty, eating it and pounding it. Don’t really like to suck.

Nothing but love for bottoms, want them all.

However I find it much hotter when i gotta hunt/ work a little harder to get a bottom. He’s aware he has something I want really bad and expects a drink, dinner, compliments etc.

Wow, such an old school gentleman

I don't care if a top is verse or bottoms sometimes, but I don't want to hear about it. But the truth is, you can usually tell verse guys. They don't fuck the same way that total tops do. And you know what they say about verse guys anyway.