How does gay sex work in prison?

Men.com and Falcon Studios have produced many documentaries on this subject. Surely you'll find many answers in their movies.

r1

I don't watch either and don't feel like watching a bunch of movies. Can ya'll just answer the questions please? This is very serious for me because I believe I may be in prison one day.

R2 Do you expect to be the dominant top or the bitch bottom? If the first, we need pictures of your dick. If the second, of your ass (and mouth).

Wishful thinking OP?

You've never heard of spit?

Are you prepping for when you inevitably get caught killing your parents and patients?

Ugh, John-Boy is back witth his fucking stupid questions again!

Here you go, ya fat whore.

OP Did you stab DL Fave Joey Comunale?

OP = Cockgobbler Aaron Schock

I too have wondered about the douche situation.

r10, Jack Nasty never worried about it.

It certainly sounds like it could be very- primitive!

Ohhh.... OP, what did you do? Did you get charged with something?

He was charged with excess poo on his shoes.

Ye buggery was happening well before the invention of Boy Butter (tm)

OP, it ain't going to be Chris Meloni in there waiting to fuck you.

OP If it were Chris Meloni waiting to fuck you in there, would you be more peaceful about the lack of lube?

If you are an at risk fish, choose whether you will be a cocksucker or a bottom. Cocksucker is the safer choice.

Lots of oral...no need for lube. Face fuck that bitch!!

At first I thought the title was "Who does gay sex work in prison"? Interesting venue for prostitution, thought I.

This thread has me rolling. This is the post-election cheer that I need 😂

Poppers would help.

What makes you think that anyone in prison would want you? Even cagemeat has standards.

This is one way you'll be introduced to the workings of gay sex in prison.

And here's another

Prison rape shouldn't be allowed.

pre-lube per r24

[Quote]"You got a bunch of mens locked up, all of them hard ... all of them got sexual desires ... what are they gonna do? ... somebody's gonna have to give up some booty, and it's just that simple."

Damn, Fleece Johnson in r25 is explaining it loud and clear! After hearing something like that, you'll know, without a doubt, that you WILL get fucked up your ass once you're in jail.

It's easy to be good

It's hard to be bad

Stay out of trouble

And you'll be glad

Why do the prisons allow this extra-judicial punishment?

I wonder if James and Larry are ready after they get out of solidarity? Larry's asshole will end up looking like a baboon's butt.

[quote]It certainly sounds like it could be very- primitive!

Niiiiiiiccccceeeeee!

The best sex is nasty sex.

To answer Op's questions, based on the videos and other internet research:

[Quote]Is there any lube?

Spit, or some apparent hair grease, or other type of greasy substance.

[Quote]Does the dominate top just stick it in with no preparation?

Generally, he'll lube it up first, to varying degrees.

[Quote]Do the bottoms bleed often?

Tight virgin holes, yes.

[Quote]Do they get treatment if their anus is ruptured?

Yes.

[Quote]With no douches and no condoms, does that mean the top gets poopy dick?

Yes.

[Quote]Do they just not care?

Yes, because they're horny and want ass now. They also want to establish their dominance over you for future sessions with your ass.

[Quote]Do they get treatment for STDs/STIs while in prison?

Yes.

[quote]They also want to establish their dominance over you for future sessions with your ass.

I'd also be willing to bet one guy's top is another guy's bitch bottom.

We knew a young cute south american sister in LA who was sent to LA county jail.......we and a fabulous Mexican eldersister would speak with her by phone once per week and learned that she was getting so much good pinga that she did not want to leave!

The better prisons sell Astroglide in the commissary.

OP... did you just kill a younger Italian guy in your rich jeweler daddy-friend's house? Is this why you're wondering?

[quote]I'd also be willing to bet one guy's top is another guy's bitch bottom.

I'm sure ALL of them started off as booty bitches. I've heard stories of even the toughest and baddest new inmates getting butt-fucked by gangs of long-timers.

Dear Lord in Heaven!

John you naughty boy. This thread is a guilty pleasure. Have a tale to tell about an amateur boxer who went to the pokey, and got pokey'd. Nightowl here, running on fumes. TYL.

So, maybe prison won't be so bad after all.

[Quote]So, maybe prison won't be so bad after all.

Well, r42, you'll certainly gain a new perspective about black cock.

I did a 4 year stint as a teen,got out at age 20. Bear in mind I was an open flaming queen,so my experience was different from someone who was a reluctant sex partner. I was avidly pursued (thank God I was good looking ) ,courted if you will,and during my time there I had well over 500 sex partners. I was "married" a few times,but I found it inhibiting so I mostly free lanced. If you are white,you have to stick to white guys only or else you will be roundly rejected . I never understood that,but its just how it was so I rolled with it. Though I made up for it in work release,where I had sex with lots of hot black studs. Most prisons sell lotions like Jergens ,so you used that as lube,or spit when there was none available. Once you emptied a lotion bottle,you smoothed the threaded edges off and there was your douche bottle. You had to douche,as shitting on someone guaranteed you didnt have them again and gave you a very bad rep. I always used warm water and vinegar,as an old con queen told me the vinegar kept you tight (must have worked,no one ever said I was loose!) What always shocked me is how many of those boys LOVED to make out! Youd think,being straight,kissing would be the last thing theyd do,but I found it the exact opposite. In many ways its like the 1950s in there,when you were with a guy,you didnt flirt,or cheat on him,as they saw that as major disrespect and that could lead to painful consequences.Thats why I mostly stayed single. Who needs that shit when youve got 800 men to choose from? In many ways the relationships echo the streets,theres persual,seduction,jealousy,etc. I often thought they were acting out the roles they had left behind. BUT,above all else when it comes to the men,you must chose carefully! You might hook up with a hot,built stud with a 4 inch dick,and if he falls in love your stuck with him! I always checked the cock size,no matter how hot they were,after all, a girl just cant act in haste and repent in leisure! You must NEVER show fear,they are like animals,they can sense fear and your life wont be worth living. My very first day there,I was swarmed by about 200 black guys who were determined to "sample my wares" . I was petrified,of course,but I looked the head honcho dead in the eyes and said " The first one of you motherfuckers that stick your dick near my mouth will be pissing through a tube the rest of your lives" . And I had a few fights as well,once with 5 dudes in a bathroom who were trying to rape me. I kept my nails long,and polished them with floor wax so they were wicked tough,and 3 of those 5 assholes walked out of that bathroom with deep gouges on their faces. Yes,I got my ass whooped a little,but those bastards knew I wasnt ever going to be an easy target. And I never got raped,though I knew a few weakling white boys that did. Most prison systems have a medical center,so if you got raped theyd send you there to get sewn up. They didnt treat std's that I was ever aware of,in fact,hiv wasnt even tested for so there were many drug addicts etc that were poz.They called it "revenge of the ninja" . Like in life,when you slept around you took your chances. My time went by fairly pleasantly,but then again,I was a pretty young thing who took no bullshit so I had plenty of respect from fellow cons. I saw plenty of scared puny boys savaged and sexually exploited,but I had no pity for them as it was preferable to get your ass beat down than to be a "pressure punk" . Pressure punks had the worst lives,were treated like dog shit and had no respect. There stuff was taken,ass as well as commissary ,and they were tormented night and day.Mainly ,the whole thing is one giant mind game,and you have to be aware of your surroundings at all times.

I typed thats hit out asp aragraphs! Why did it come out as one long sentence?!?

[quote]I kept my nails long,and polished them with floor wax so they were wicked tough

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Fleece Johnson is outta jail y'all! Hide your b-holes!

Will they do fat guys in prison?

Details about Fleece's 'business' please!

R48, like on the streets,they have to pay for it. I had one regular fuck named " Fat Frankie" who had a surprisingly big cock but was 350 lbs on a 5'4 frame! He always gave me money for sex,though I didnt really need it. I enjoyed his dick and his gratitude far more. Typical fat jolly guy,everybody liked him. I often wonder if hes long dead now considering his obesity even then.

If you use the word "poopy" you will have a very difficult time in prison. I suggest telling the authorities that you suddenly feel like a woman. You will receive special attention and get to bunk with the gals, or, at least, you will get solitary and access to hormones, surgery, and possibly, attractive medical staff.

More prison sex stories!

Thank you, R44.

Sex inside and outside of prison is quite similar except for the privacy factor, which is really annoying and awkward.

R44, tell me more about these "pressured punks". I am sort of fascinated by the way the prison ecosystem works. I can believe that quite a lot of men in prison would want to make out extensively. The need for intimacy must be so great and that isolation has got to wear people down after a while.

R44 Wow! Thank you for that! I'm glad you are out now and I wish you well. Prison life is so fascinating. I was once held in a cell with all types, even murderers, overnight (my only time ever). There were some really hot guys in there! I can only imagine the pickings you got while in there. Did you yourself ever fall in love with someone in there? What were the guards like towards you?

Well R55, "pressure punks" aka as "fuck boys" are on the lowest rung of the ladder in the prison system hierarchy . They submit to being used sexually out of fear or pressure ,they dont enjoy it and arent terribly good at it,so the other cons see them as contemptible because they are sacrificing their manhood out of weakness. A guy can be overpowered and raped ,but if he goes down fighting and seeks revenge once hes able its not held against him later on. After all,anyone can be raped if its 12 against 1 and they all know that. I knew one guy who had been raped by six others,and as soon as he was able he stabbed 3 of them ,killing one. He was never touched again,and he had big respect on the yard. An open homosexual is considered a "woman" and treated as such by other convicts,especially if they are pretty and femme. Some plucked their eyebrows,wore makeup made out of colored pencils,skin tight blues (thats what they call prison uniforms) ,shaved their bodies,the whole nine yards. I never had to resort to all those tricks,I never shaved anything (thank God I wasnt too hairy) nor went to all those extremes. I think they found my self confidence attractive enough and respected the fact I didnt need all those tricks to lure a man. Being good looking didnt hurt,and I was so naturally femme that it made some of the other queens exaggerated gestures almost like caricatures,wich some guys didnt care for. Not knocking my black sisters,but they were the worst with that shit.I got respect because I was unashamedly gay ,and even in there some gay men tried to hide it out of fear of the guards or inmates,where as I didnt give a shit about either. I never give my bastard father credit for much,but that redneck ,drunk made me one tough bitch and that stood me in good stead during my "unfortunate incarceration" (Yall know who said that !) . You know,thinking about kissing those men I remembered one who never wanted me to go down on him or give him some ass ,all he wanted to do was make out while he jacked off! It used to frustrate me to no end because Id get all horned up and he simply wouldnt go through with it! he was a fantastic kisser though,so I always indulged him. Prison is really a lot like outside,theres social hierarchy that must be obeyed and the more money you have the better. Its a compressed version of the world,just no women,but very much the same rules.

R44, many on DL scoff at the idea of male bi-sexuality. Do you believe that the men who made out with you were bi?

Italian mobster types say they don't do it r44, throughout the hierarchy. I know that's not true for at least two mid level types I used to know. Both hot in a greasy hairy thug sort of way, very talkative in bed after the deed and lots of scotch or cognac, or Armagnac.

Both claim they had their first blowjob from a guy, experienced their first time fucking a guy while incarcerated.

Anything to add r44? Is it typical or was I being given a story?

R59 don't do what?

R58 , I know that many of them had wives,and children on the outside and were VERY enthusiastic in the bunk . Ive always believed that sexuality is fluid and labels were meaningless. Many of those men would fuck me silly,eat my ass,suck my nipples,finger my hole .Some would even go further,they called it "swapping out" .Yet Ive ran across many over the years and more than one said they only do it in there.

I find that so interesting, R61. What is "swapping out"?

In Canada, lube and condoms are made available as a way to prevent the spread of disease. One can also get dental dams. These items must be accessible to the inmates in a way that the staff don't know who is using them. This is done for privacy reasons. Also, although drugs are technically illegal, in order to promote safe injection, bleach is dispensed. This is also to clean tattoo needles.

Let me put it into perspective for you R59. I was in two different camps over a 4 year period ,interacted with 1000s of boys and men ,and only 4 times did I run across a man who was totally uninterested in gay sex. From my personal experience,99.9% of them ,once that door banged shut and the lights dimmed ,were as easy as taking candy from a baby. They NEVER said no. No matter their race,social class, or educational background. If they thought no one would ever know they were all over it. I had many men who swore that I was their first time,and I believed them .Mostly because they were awkward .

They have to make the condoms and lube in the license plate shop, Rose.

R62 ...Swapping out was a term used for guys who sucked your dick or let you fuck them . Most guys just liked to pretend your cock wasnt there,and you took pains to hide it with your hand or a washcloth,but of course they saw it and felt it. I rarely bothered with that shit, I always got off when I had sex with someone and I made sure they knew it. They LOVED when you made them feel all masculine and like a masterful cocksman .

[quote]the dominate top...

WHY, oh WHY do so many chowderheads not know that the word "dominate" is a verb ONLY, and there exists an adjective "dominant"? Do people just mispronounce it and figure it works for both, I see it all over the place. Are we really all brain surgeons who are aware of this? I think so! It's very "Craigslist" to see this incorrect usage!

R64 You were in "camps"? Like Boy Scout camps? Concentration camps?

R56 Just remember this,for every one hot built guy there are ten others you wouldnt fuck on your worst day. And they hit on you, all day,every day .Most of those guys came from a lower class background,orthodontist wasnt a word bandied about much. As well as the ravages of drugs and hard living,even on the younger ones it showed. But there were more than enough cuties to play with so it all balanced out. I fell in "love" a couple of times,but in there you never knew how long it'd last because of transfers and parole coming up or the like. Thats why I preferred to stay single ,plus it was lots more fun being unencumbered! As far as the guards,most were okay,even indifferent,but there were also a lot of those losers who had no real power in their lives so they tried to lord it over the inmates. I was pretty much left alone by the guards ,I tuned them right out.

R68 , its called slang,dear.Thats what we called them,I dont know why.

R69,

What do you mean when you talk about being rejected, re: black guys? Are you saying that white guys are rejected by black ones (seems unlikely), or that if you fuck black guys, you'll be rejected by whites?

So, tell us where you did time, and a little more about swapping out... I know a couple of very adept, street smart guys who did time. They said that gay sex/relationships were the norm, and that even some of the toughest guys would eventually get involved in one. These relationships would be based on a somewhat equitable relationship, and "swapping out." They said that the other cons just accepted these pairings as the natural outcome of close friendships, and finally being used to the gay scene.

R71, the latter part of your first sentence. Racial lines were strictly drawn ,and if a white sissy slept with black guys then he was considered tainted. Only the very prettiest of white queens could get away with it,and not that often. Yet a pretty black queen wasnt judged if she slept with whites. Go figure. I slept with more than my share of men,and Id say 30% were okay with being truly bi,but the majority wouldnt suck dick or get fucked. They might play with it a little ,They used to say "Prime the pump when you drill the well" ! I had ones that would stick their tounge all in my asshole,then refuse to kiss after you sucked their dicks! It was all a game,you pretended to be a woman and they pretended not to see or feel your raging hard on.Like I said, I only met 4 guys that flat out refused sex. Out of 1000s. I hear its very different now in florida prisons,that cameras are everywhere and disease is a real fear,but in my time it was a big old fuck fest.

That's crazy that they rimmed you---I thought that getting your salad tossed was an established "dominant" activity in the world of prison sex, and by extension, hip-hop. I thought that getting a prison bitch or a girl to lick your ass meant that you were the man...

r72,

I'm not surprised that they didn't want to suck your dick or you to fuck them, seeing that you're gay. But what about the guys who weren't, but still hooked-up? Did you hear about these relationships, or see them?

Also---were at of the gays or trannies bad-ass cell block leaders? It sounds kind of ridiculous, but I swear I've heard of such a thing...maybe it was unique to a certain place and period of time (New York, 1970s).

^^^^that should read "were any of the gays..."

A taxi driver ex-con (heavy duty) once told us: "nobody gets butt-fucked unless they want to".

End of 'stories'.

Inmate #1: Fuck, no women around and I'm fuckin' horny. Guess I'm gonna have to find a pussy boy.

Inmate #2: How long you been in?

Inmate:#1: 30 minutes

I don't think anyone posted this, yet.

An older story, not a good time

It's sad.

The name of one of the Amazon books on the subject is Prison Pussy.

Who came up with that title?

reality

Prisoners call ass "pussy".

I met the guy in R79's link multiple times - he was a really fucked up person. While I don't deny some of that is true, he had serious mental issues - not all from what he had gone through.

He was definitely an 'avoid at all costs' kind of guy. He roller-skated down 5th avenue in cutoffs and dildoes strapped to his body - very attention seeking individual.

He was repulsive.

R81, no such book.

Sick

R83 Clearly, they've never met Momma.

Prison rape definitely occurs. It ranges from common to rare (being reported a few times a year, probably occurring five times more often), depending on the prison and cell block someone inhabits, and the situation inside. Prisons go through violent, chaotic episodes, and then things calm down.

The taxi driver in r76's link might have just been someone that nobody would ever target.

I Know Why the Cagemeat Sings

[quote]I'm not surprised that they didn't want to suck your dick or you to fuck them, seeing that you're gay. But what about the guys who weren't, but still hooked-up? Did you hear about these relationships, or see them?

There are quicker ways for you to get off, creep.

Sex is dirty

Most of these stories are about rape, not sex.

[quote]I kept my nails long,and polished them with floor wax so they were wicked tough

You go bitch! I bet they looked good too!

^^^^Hey, r44---did you watch Oz?

While recovering in the hospital after having his arms and legs broken, protagonist Tobias Beecher grows his nails long, and files them into sharp claws. He then attacks a CO who assisted in his assault.

R7 I would definitely do this if I went to prison.

Lots and lots of pruno, Rose

The man go up inside the man. Often without asking, always without a nice dinner.

[quote]The man go up inside the man. Often without asking, always without a nice dinner.

I'm here boys. You're wrong if you think I'm a top. My hole is ready. Here is a picture of my with my fuck buddy.

Now look at this

There are matchmaking and dating services in prisons that assure the partners are well suited.

Also dances were you can get to know prospective dates without pressure, so everyone feels safe.

THIS DOCUMENTARY-------->>>"Estimates are that 20 percent of all men serving in US prisons have been raped. This film looks at the social system within prisons that allows this violent sexual behavior to occur."...........Narrated by Danny Trejo (who has been to prison).....

I have heard from those who know that the man goes up into the man.

From what I've read on the topic many prison guards are in on the game, in that they stand by and allow prisoners to have their "fun time" with each other. Some prison guards are more criminally minded than the convicts. They're only outside the cells because they've been lucky enough not to get caught committing crimes.

Don't worry, Trump...they'll explain it to you

Ooooo Lawdy did I spill my tea in this ancient thread !

Why oh why doesn't Love After Lockup show the homosex?

Write him

r104 prisoners would be able to leverage that in court . . and prisoners are at risk for having more serious charges attached to their records. even masturbation can get prisoners charged with a sex crime that will put them on the registered offenders list. not that it doesn't still happen.

though there are select lgbt prison wards

remember these words:

the article at r79 is really something to read. gang rape after gang rape after gang rape.

I remember an episode of The Sopranos where Tony and the guys talk about how the man going up into the man was understood in prison and didn't make a guy 'gay' -- ???

If you do go to prison, is it just better to immediately find the most attractive, muscular guy there and let him designate you as his bitch? Or is it better to play the field? Or should you try to not have sex at all?

Scared

I find a small dick guy inside so he can’t hurt me

Dear they don’t have sex in prisons.

R117 We’ll see.

we used mayo

Straight prison sex

Fantasy

I came across this really cute video recently. Even in prison, you can find attentive tops.

That’s nice, I love how he caressed his body. Soft kisses. That’s how gay porn used to be. Gay porn today is so unattached and violent.

Don’t pretty boys get their front teeth knocked out for easy bj access and so they won’t bite?