Is it a problem on the DL?
|by concerned top||reply 153||06/10/2021|
Those filthy bottoms should be ashamed.
|by concerned top||reply 1||10/14/2016|
Recently a DL top guy referred to manginas as "turd wombs."
|by concerned top||reply 2||10/14/2016|
It would be helpful to hear from some of the TOPS out there.
|by concerned top||reply 3||10/14/2016|
I'm a top and I love bottoms. LOVE them. Nothing whatsoever for them to be ashamed about.
|by concerned top||reply 4||10/14/2016|
Top here. I love and admire bottoms. The ones who can take it for a long time and with enthusiasm get my utmost respect.
|by concerned top||reply 5||10/14/2016|
[quote]It's absolutely ludacris that a top would be the ones bottom shaming.
The writer at OP's link is too dumb to fuck.
|by concerned top||reply 6||10/14/2016|
Yes, it's a big problem and it's been greeting out of hand - especially due to the recent proliferation of PBS - (Power Bottom Syndrome).
|by concerned top||reply 7||10/14/2016|
Here's somebody who might help.
|by concerned top||reply 8||10/14/2016|
Please. Bottom shaming in the gay community isn't a thing considering the vast majority of gay men ARE bottoms. If there is any shaming going on, it's disgruntled bottoms having to compete with other bottoms for the handful of genuine tops. Supply and demand.
|by concerned top||reply 9||10/14/2016|
Well total bottoms are notoriously slutty.
|by concerned top||reply 10||10/14/2016|
Top here. Absolutely no shaming from me. Love to spend hours working and worshipping a bottom's bottom.
Best thing in the world.
|by concerned top||reply 11||10/14/2016|
Top here as well…I encourage bottoming! Bottoms are God's gift to me, and I thank Him for their existence.
|by concerned top||reply 12||10/15/2016|
Most of the jokes made about bottoms are from other bottoms.
|by concerned top||reply 13||10/15/2016|
Bottoms rule. There's nothing sexier to me than a man who sincerely likes it up the ass.
|by concerned top||reply 14||10/15/2016|
Re R8, there was trepidation when I first started to watch the video of this guy, but the lighted candles in the background put me at ease. Then I let him fuck my mind, and it felt WONDERFUL, SUBLIME even.
|by concerned top||reply 15||10/15/2016|
^ I love lady Miss Psychologist. You know she knows her way around a cock.
|by concerned top||reply 16||10/15/2016|
[quote]Baby, if I'm the bottom, you're the top.
Can't have one without the other.
|by concerned top||reply 17||10/15/2016|
What if you don't like anal sex, either way?
|by concerned top||reply 18||10/15/2016|
^ There are other threads, doll!
|by concerned top||reply 19||10/15/2016|
Anal has always kind of weirded me out, so guys who really enjoy it kind of do the same.
|by concerned top||reply 20||10/15/2016|
The only FB commenter.
Eric Collins · MSU, Mankato This is fucking gross. Top, bottom, who cares? Any guy who is a fag is a disgusting piece of shit. How you can prefer the rough, hairy asshole of another man to that of the nice, soft pussy of a woman is beyond me. I mean, how fucked in the head are these butt slammers?
|by concerned top||reply 21||10/15/2016|
^ 'disgusting piece of shit' describes him perfectly
|by concerned top||reply 22||10/15/2016|
It's interesting that when I warn a potential hook up that " if they try anything disrespectful....things won't turn out well for them"....they don't try and pull any bullshit. I swear, it would be the last fucking thing they ever do. The fuckers were warned.
|by concerned top||reply 23||10/15/2016|
The only bottoms that need shaming are of the BB variety.
|by concerned top||reply 24||10/15/2016|
|by concerned top||reply 25||10/15/2016|
The author spelled "ludicrous" like the rapper.
|by concerned top||reply 26||10/15/2016|
I feel like this term is used all the time now. When did it start gaining popularity? Was it from "Looking"?
|by concerned top||reply 27||10/15/2016|
Bottoms are the only guys I'd consider dating. When I hear that a guy I'm attracted to is a bottom, I start to fall in love instantly.
|by concerned top||reply 28||10/15/2016|
What are you paranoidly ranting about R23?
|by concerned top||reply 29||10/15/2016|
Why is it bottoms seem to end up needing more and often bigger things stuffed inside them as they age?
|by concerned top||reply 30||10/16/2016|
I only shame my bottoms when they cum too quickly.
|by concerned top||reply 31||10/16/2016|
Well, some of us go through a phase, R30. But many of us end up (as it were) quite contented with a nice dick.
|by concerned top||reply 32||10/16/2016|
That phase seems to last a lifetime for a lot of bottoms.
|by concerned top||reply 33||10/16/2016|
"Why is it bottoms seem to end up needing more and often bigger things stuffed inside them as they age?"
I always wondered about this, too.
If you watch fisting vids, most of the bottom guys seem to be in their thirties and up.
|by concerned top||reply 34||10/16/2016|
Do their holes loosen up and get sloppy with age or from over use?
|by concerned top||reply 35||10/16/2016|
R35, the hole is remarkably elastic. It returns to its wonted tightness in time, unless you completely wreck it. Which, yes, some FFers do.
|by concerned top||reply 36||10/16/2016|
As a top nearly all the derogatory or shaming language I hear about bottoms comes from other bottoms!
|by concerned top||reply 37||10/16/2016|
^ Competitive juices, R37
|by concerned top||reply 38||10/16/2016|
Juices is a bad word to use when discussing this particular subject R38...Bleech!
|by concerned top||reply 39||10/16/2016|
As someone once told me, "Bottoms want to be shamed otherwise they wouldn't be bottoms." Charming, really.
|by concerned top||reply 40||10/16/2016|
What's really bad is when a full grown man refers to his asshole as his pussy or even worse his man/boy pussy...Instant boner killer!
|by concerned top||reply 41||10/16/2016|
I like bottoms who let themselves be completely feminized, that includes referring to their asshole as a pussy or cunt. If we must have roles in the bedroom, why not get into it?
|by concerned top||reply 42||10/16/2016|
[quote] Eric Collins · MSU, Mankato This is fucking gross. Top, bottom, who cares? Any guy who is a fag is a disgusting piece of shit. How you can prefer the rough, hairy asshole of another man to that of the nice, soft pussy of a woman is beyond me. I mean, how fucked in the head are these butt slammers?
How does Miss Collins know what another man's asshole feels like?
|by concerned top||reply 43||10/16/2016|
I also think it's hot when the guy calls it his pussy. I mean, when the guy is hot.
|by concerned top||reply 44||10/16/2016|
Topping a nice tight ass gives me my greatest experiences and orgasms. Really pushy power bottoms who won't STFU, and constantly bark commands during the act, are hard-on wilters. In my mind, I'm thinking that I'm not taking care of business and satisfying my bedmate. Too much chatter makes my concentration scatter and interrupts my..... flow.
A little pillow talk to inform me if I'm tapping that booty right is appreciated. The non-verbal cues...moaning, eyes rolled back, provide me with all the inspiration I need to double down and really try to please my bottom. I'd never shame or humiliate them but I will ask them to refrain from the bitchy "drill instructor" routine. Baby, I got this.
|by concerned top||reply 45||10/16/2016|
R45 is right. The only shame in being a bottom is being a bossy one. You're not in charge. Accept that and gladly welcome your role.
And, for Christ's sake, just suck it up if it hurts. No pain, no gain. Remember, you're doing this for him. It's not about your pleasure: Part of being a bottom is learning to be submissive.
The sooner you accept your role as the bottom/sub, the sooner you'll both be happy. Embrace the idea that your purpose in life (in the bedroom, anyway) is making your man 100% happy. Suck his dick the first thing in the morning and bend over the second he gets home from work, and he'll treasure you like no one else ever has.
|by concerned top||reply 46||10/16/2016|
|by concerned top||reply 47||10/16/2016|
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|by concerned top||reply 48||10/16/2016|
Danger Will Robinson..Danger Will Robinson...
Trigger alert ^R48. Needs a quick dick fix...STAT !
|by concerned top||reply 49||10/16/2016|
|by concerned top||reply 50||10/16/2016|
😵 EEK !
|by concerned top||reply 51||10/16/2016|
I read Eric Collins's article comment also. I wish I had a Facebook page so I could explain to him in great detail what guys like about having sex with guys, and offer him an alternative to Mankato cow-and-pig fucking.
|by concerned top||reply 52||10/16/2016|
I think unnecessary RUDENESS is the real problem on DL right now. There just seems to be so much random anger, people just lash out at others at the slightest provocation, and sometimes not even that.
|by concerned top||reply 53||10/16/2016|
|by concerned top||reply 54||10/16/2016|
|by concerned top||reply 55||10/16/2016|
My mussy is moistest on Mondays.
|by concerned top||reply 56||10/16/2016|
There's a bottom in my town who mentions on the hookup sites that his ass is self lubricating. Apparently he has some prostate tissue that is inside his rectum leaking fluid, because in chat he told me the lubrication feels and smells like cum. Although curious, I haven't made the leap into self lubricating ass yet.
|by concerned top||reply 57||10/16/2016|
I fucked a self-proclaimed self-lubricating bottom once. He wasn't kidding. I was just dry humping his crack as foreplay when all of the sudden his hole just sucked my dick right in. I said, "Am I inside of you?" and he goes, "Yep...I told you so."
|by concerned top||reply 58||10/16/2016|
Let's hear it for hungry holes! 😋
|by concerned top||reply 59||10/16/2016|
This thread is highly amusing.
So much psychoANALysis !
|by concerned top||reply 60||10/16/2016|
No lie, if I was a billionaire I'd be the gay equivalent of Trump. Worse, actually, as I wouldn't marry. Ain't nobody got time for that! I'd have a different bottom every fucking night of the week. Line 'em up and just work on them all. God I'd be such a pig.
|by concerned top||reply 61||10/16/2016|
Don't know if the question was faux-naif, or dumb, or OP has never been to dl before; of course it is.
|by concerned top||reply 62||10/16/2016|
Is R46 kidding? Do most of you tops feel that way?
|by concerned top||reply 63||10/16/2016|
|by concerned top||reply 64||10/16/2016|
Bottom sharing . . . . .now that's a problem
|by concerned top||reply 65||10/16/2016|
I'm sure plenty have bottoms enjoy being shared R65.
|by concerned top||reply 66||10/16/2016|
That should read...plenty of bottoms...DL really needs to install an edit function.
|by concerned top||reply 67||10/16/2016|
R63, no I'm not joking. There's nothing worse than a bossy bottom. Learn your "place," so to speak, and I'll make you the happiest guy on earth. But don't call yourself a bottom and then try to run things in the bedroom.
We can be equals in every other part of our relationship but in bed, you're mine.
|by concerned top||reply 68||10/16/2016|
Yes, R66. There is such a thing as the "pass-around bottom". Not a bad thing.
|by concerned top||reply 69||10/16/2016|
|by concerned top||reply 70||10/16/2016|
R46, you don't care about your bottom's pleasure at all? Not even if he says please? You don't eat him out? Massage his prostate just the right way with your cock?
|by concerned top||reply 71||10/16/2016|
r63..your top will of course still fuck you, but if you talk back too much and mess up the dynamic, you can bet he has another guy on the side who is more than willing to be his bitch in every sense. Happens to women ALL THE TIME
|by concerned top||reply 72||10/16/2016|
Pass around bottom...all the STIs none of the waiting.lol
|by concerned top||reply 73||10/16/2016|
Bottoms 🍻 Up !
|by concerned top||reply 74||10/16/2016|
R71 Of course, you care about the bottom's pleasure. But trust me to know how to make you happy. No demands, no whining.
|by concerned top||reply 75||10/16/2016|
^ OK then. You had me worried. 🤗
|by concerned top||reply 76||10/16/2016|
Bottoms that squeal and carry on like over acting porn starlets are obnoxious to.
|by concerned top||reply 77||10/16/2016|
Baby, if I'm the bottom, you're the top!
|by concerned top||reply 78||10/16/2016|
Where's that cranky nun with the bell when you need her?
|by concerned top||reply 79||10/16/2016|
Back in my day, most guys were "versatile" and we were all quite happy.
|by concerned top||reply 80||10/17/2016|
R80 I was vers in my teens and thought the whole top/bottom dichotomy was silly. I eventually eased into the top role because there were so many bottoms.
|by concerned top||reply 81||10/17/2016|
R68 = 🙄 Whatever dude.
|by concerned top||reply 82||10/17/2016|
Some bottoms deserve to be shamed. There are some hungry bottoms who are utterly obsessed with getting fucked. I remember one guy I was hooking up with asked me if I knew any other guys who would want to fuck him. I was like wtf? I've known one acquaintance who seemed to lack any self-respect, this one hung top would treat him like crap, take advantage of him and he would still answer any text from him because he just really wanted to get fucked by him.
I've never seen any equivalent behavior from guys who like to top when get so needy that any self-respect goes out the window.
But obviously this is not at all bottoms, just some of them.
|by concerned top||reply 83||10/17/2016|
[quote]I also think it's hot when the guy calls it his pussy. I mean, when the guy is hot.
totally, the sluttier the talk about his hole the hotter it is
|by concerned top||reply 84||10/17/2016|
I'll add that I hate it when guys call it their pussy, or worst their bussy or manpussy. I'm a little surprised to find some here like it, in real life when I've talked about this other guys have always agreed.
|by concerned top||reply 85||10/17/2016|
Whores of either position are deserving of shaming R83.
|by concerned top||reply 86||10/17/2016|
Busted a huge nut on Skype last night with a slutty bottom who LOVED showing off his pussy for me. Bottoms are the best!
|by concerned top||reply 87||10/17/2016|
You should all get AIDS and die
You are a blemish on Gods green earth
|by concerned top||reply 88||10/17/2016|
R63 : No. Most tops have an actual dick. If your bottom isn't enjoying your dick --> your dick ain't big enough. So there's no "acting".
|by concerned top||reply 89||10/17/2016|
Die shit die
|by concerned top||reply 90||10/17/2016|
R80 and his ilk got it right. When did your sex position becomes such a polarizing subject? No one. Top nor bottom ought to be ashamed.
|by concerned top||reply 91||10/17/2016|
R88 thinks she's the first closeted self-loathing fag to post here. You're a type, queen.
|by concerned top||reply 92||10/17/2016|
I'm with r80 too. I've never understood the insistence that you be one or the other. I'd rather enjoy and excel at both.
|by concerned top||reply 93||10/17/2016|
For me it depends on the other guy. I've been an exclusive top, I've been an exclusive bottom. And I've been verse.
There's a big psychological component.
|by concerned top||reply 94||10/17/2016|
In agreement with R83. The only thing shameworthy about bottoms is when they ask you if you know other tops, or if other tops could join you. Nothing screams undiscerning slut more than lining up future dates before the current one is consummated. Everything else about them is pretty great.
|by concerned top||reply 95||10/17/2016|
This trend is getting worse.
|by concerned top||reply 96||02/04/2017|
There is nothing hotter than a sexy guy who likes to get plowed.
|by concerned top||reply 97||02/04/2017|
My validation cums when the guys I top want another ride and return for some more deep dicking.
I was closeted until my mid 20's and mostly bottomed (somewhat reluctantly) because I was self conscious that my dick wasn't big enough to be an effective too. Silly me.
No, most of my early guy hook-ups were with older guys who didn't give me positive feedback, and were closeted themselves. Bottoming was ALWAYS an uncomfortable experience for me. Big dicks in my skinny tight ass hurt to the point of serious distraction. Can't maintain a boner...most of the time.
Being older, wiser and much more experienced, I have confidence that I'm a thoughtful, appreciative, balls to your walls savage fuck daddy. Seducing closeted men is my viagra, that and deep kissing/foreplay. I'm middle-aged but see no signs of slowing down or changing any time soon. Guys I top have no complaints either. Tops are always in demand. I still get to pick and choose my FB's.
|by concerned top||reply 98||02/04/2017|
EFFECTIVE TOP^ R98.
Oh, and I am very effective.
|by concerned top||reply 99||02/04/2017|
But who does the bulk of the bottom shaming? OTHER BOTTOMS!!! Now that's internalized homophobia. I bottom and I can't tell you how many times I got shade for being one because I "look" like a top. Whatever that means.
|by concerned top||reply 100||02/04/2017|
Then you'd be my type of bottom R100. Masculine and secure enough to bottom and maintain your "butch-ness"
Is why I like seducing closet types. They're macho enough to at least have the option of being closeted. I respect fem dudes but I'm not attracted to them. Only butch bros get this boner.
|by concerned top||reply 101||02/04/2017|
There is even bottom shaming in sports
|by concerned top||reply 102||01/16/2019|
Wednesday on a very special ABC After School Special: The Heartbreak of Bottom-Shaming.
|by concerned top||reply 103||01/16/2019|
Love plowing submissive bottoms. Long and hard all night. But it's hard to respect them afterwards. I mean I would never bring one home to meet my mother.
|by concerned top||reply 104||01/16/2019|
That top types bottom.
|by concerned top||reply 105||01/16/2019|
|by concerned top||reply 106||01/16/2019|
There's nothing wrong with being a bottom. Unless you hate yourself for it.
|by concerned top||reply 107||01/16/2019|
Why do they hate themselves?
|by concerned top||reply 108||01/16/2019|
Because of homophobia and misogyny. Being a bottom has, for the most part, been considered (in generations past) the worst, lowest, most shameful kind of homosexual. Passive. Weak. Effeminate. Repulsive. Disgusting. Perverted. Sick. The opposite of what being a man is all about (cultural indoctrination and socialization). In short, the worst thing in the world a man can be is a homosexual who receives dick up his ass. It is the reason generations of men committed suicide and became alcoholics. And lived shame-filled lives. And hated themselves. WOMEN are the passive receivers in sex, not men. Not "real"men. (again, the social cues). Some of this zeitgeist still hangs on. Homophobia is alive and well.
|by concerned top||reply 109||01/16/2019|
Throughout most of history and cultures, strict Tops were able to escape the stigma of homosexuality that bottoms could not.
|by concerned top||reply 110||01/16/2019|
My total-bottom friend says all the shaming is from other bottoms who are in competition.
|by concerned top||reply 111||01/16/2019|
What about all of this bully shaming, you can’t be a sarcastic asshole without being shamed these days.
|by concerned top||reply 112||01/16/2019|
Bottom shaming is a bit tongue and cheek. Does anyone actually believe bottoms are any less of men than tops?
|by concerned top||reply 113||01/16/2019|
Bottom shaming is just an extension of how women are denigrated by men. If you take cock, you must be less powerful (and thus weak) than the person giving you the cock.
Stupid sexual dynamics
|by concerned top||reply 114||01/16/2019|
What tops don't realize is that bottoms totally control the entire scene. Tops may think they are directing everything but the bottom is.
|by concerned top||reply 115||01/16/2019|
[quote] My validation cums when the guys I top want another ride and return for some more deep dicking.
and I'm sure you have some bottoms you go back to because you liked the experience together too.
|by concerned top||reply 116||01/16/2019|
I've been a top and I"ve been a bottom. Both are fun but, when I'm feeling slutty, I inevitably bottom
|by concerned top||reply 117||01/16/2019|
I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me.
|by concerned top||reply 118||01/16/2019|
I remember when Alexyss K Tylor's videos first got posted to YouTube and she was talking about "vagina competition" (which was mostly hilarious and absurd - she still had some good points). The first thing I thought of was how bottoms act toward each other.
I think it has more to do with internalized homophobia though - and I hate that term. But this is possibly the one time it applies.
|by concerned top||reply 119||01/16/2019|
I also think fem guys in general tend to be more catty and bitchy than other males.
|by concerned top||reply 120||01/17/2019|
The only bottoms that require shaming are the ones that don't associate with gay men unless they're trying to get laid.
|by concerned top||reply 121||01/17/2019|
[quote]Be proud if you’re a bottom, don’t be afraid to talk about it, let people know.
No. Don't go around making gay men look like fucking morons by speaking publicly about your sex life. PLEASE. Do straight people do this? NO.
|by concerned top||reply 122||01/17/2019|
Do bottoms do that?
|by concerned top||reply 123||01/17/2019|
I have made it a top priority to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
|by concerned top||reply 124||01/17/2019|
R121 sees all! Knows all!
|by concerned top||reply 125||01/17/2019|
Do bottoms hang out with each other, I mean just as friends? It seems they don't.
|by concerned top||reply 126||01/17/2019|
Are you claiming they have with total tops as friends?
|by concerned top||reply 127||01/17/2019|
I'm vers and to me if I'm being honest, well, having just one 100% preference seems strange. You have a dick, how comes you don't want to use it?
|by concerned top||reply 128||01/17/2019|
It seems they are usually by themselves I rarely see them in groups.
|by concerned top||reply 129||01/17/2019|
There seem to be far more self-professed bottoms on DL than tops.
"Vers" is frequently a polite way of saying "I prefer to bottom, but I've topped a few guys over the years"
|by concerned top||reply 130||01/17/2019|
Exactly, but I think that if a guy just bottoms once, people perceive him as more innately a bottom forever. It’s like the “one drop” racial rule. Bottoming once overrides all else
|by concerned top||reply 131||01/17/2019|
I love men who take it in the ass!
|by concerned top||reply 132||01/17/2019|
“Which one of you is the wife?”
|by concerned top||reply 133||01/17/2019|
Men who suck dick also are stigmatized
|by concerned top||reply 134||01/17/2019|
[quote] I'm vers and to me if I'm being honest, well, having just one 100% preference seems strange.
The Vers Nazi Troll has arrived...
|by concerned top||reply 135||01/17/2019|
[quote]Exactly, but I think that if a guy just bottoms once, people perceive him as more innately a bottom forever.
I'm guessing this happened to you.
|by concerned top||reply 136||01/17/2019|
R45- I want you deeply inside me. What a stud.
|by concerned top||reply 137||01/17/2019|
Even straights do it
|by concerned top||reply 138||03/27/2021|
Bottoms are the hottest, most beautiful men on the planet. Without them we’d be nothing but a bunch of dumb males with no holes to screw.
And their strength is more manly than ANY “alpha asshole” because they can take a cock without making a fuss about it.
|by concerned top||reply 139||03/27/2021|
R138 or “user5802569449513” please stop plugging tiktok.
|by concerned top||reply 140||03/27/2021|
Each sentence gets its own paragraph in that article.
Every single one.
|by concerned top||reply 141||03/27/2021|
Years ago I figured out I was a TOP because I think about and look at mens ASSES a lot more than I think about their cocks.
|by concerned top||reply 142||03/27/2021|
|by concerned top||reply 143||05/20/2021|
|by concerned top||reply 144||05/22/2021|
I had a pass around bottom once during an orgy. It was hot but seemed unsanitary as well. MARY!
|by concerned top||reply 145||05/22/2021|
|by concerned top||reply 146||06/10/2021|
[quote]Men who suck dick also are stigmatized
Not by me. If you're not sucking my dick, you're not getting in my bed, top or bottom. And I'll be sucking your dick. It's just fair.
|by concerned top||reply 147||06/10/2021|
The only people who shame bottoms are other bottoms.
|by concerned top||reply 148||06/10/2021|
R9 This! There's so much competitiveness among bottoms. They are like women. Instead of helping each other out, they trash talk and try to put down each other. and btw there's nothing manlier to me than knowing how to take it in the ass. I'm serious.
|by concerned top||reply 149||06/10/2021|
|by concerned top||reply 150||06/10/2021|
R148 nails it. Bottoms you have all the power, learn to channel it.
|by concerned top||reply 151||06/10/2021|
|by concerned top||reply 152||06/10/2021|
It’s not shaming if you don’t speak to them!
|by concerned top||reply 153||06/10/2021|