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due to personal experience, I am weary of folks with Aspergers /autistics

Is my fear irrational?

by Anonymousreply 207June 12, 2018 6:49 PM

I don't know, how tired are you?

Weary/wary, OP, words have meaning.

Personally, I am weary of them but not wary of them - they bore me.

by Anonymousreply 1October 3, 2016 11:48 PM

Some of them can be vicious if you're a really sensitive person. I have a straight friend who was in love with this girl with Asperger and she put him through psychological and emotional hell. If he were stronger and not as sensitive as he is he probably would have walked away. It sounds like she basically didn't have normal feelings.

by Anonymousreply 2October 3, 2016 11:55 PM

Yes, OP. Your fear is irrational.

by Anonymousreply 3October 3, 2016 11:57 PM

There's a guy in my apartment block who claims to have Aspergers, but the way he manipulates people and lashes out whilst simultaneously playing the victim, he seems like a better match for Borderline Personality Disorder. He fell out with two of his neighbours and went around telling everyone they were paedophiles so they had to move out.

by Anonymousreply 4October 4, 2016 12:03 AM

That's the third Asperger nut I've heard about who accused perfectly innocent people of being pedophiles. What the fuck is up with that?

by Anonymousreply 5October 4, 2016 12:13 AM

I just had a big fight with him on the internet and he didn't know it was me. He said he was going to call the police on me, he said he was a secret hacker for the government, and his "daughter" is a lawyer when the guy is gayer than a tree full of parrots in reality. I know he's full of shit but when you know what he's capable of in real life, he's terrifying.

by Anonymousreply 6October 4, 2016 12:22 AM

He said he was going to the local press about me too. I don't know why he wouldn't take it national. There's probably a TV movie in there somewhere "News Site Commenter Makes Mean Comments Which Aren't Really That Mean."

by Anonymousreply 7October 4, 2016 12:27 AM

OP, you sound touched yourself. or at least a tad illiterate. are you weary? or are you fearful? they are different concepts

by Anonymousreply 8October 4, 2016 12:54 AM

Maybe he's both wary and leary and made a portmanteau.

by Anonymousreply 9October 4, 2016 12:56 AM

I know the autism spectrum is a huge umbrella term but I thought one of the few across the board aspects of autism is that people who have it are incapable of lying. Someone who's manipulative and making serious false accusations of pedophilia does sound completely like borderline personality disorder. Borderlines are vicious, vindictive pathological liars.

In a lot of cases, parents will get their mentally disturbed kids to be falsely diagnosed with autism because the diagnosis now carries so much public aide in the form of medical care and school services that if your kid has something less definable or less common they may miss out unless you just call them autistic. So maybe that's what happened with your hostile psycho neighbor, OP.

Real aspies and autistics may be emotionally illiterate and disconnected but they're completely honest and unassuming as children (though blunt) if you ask them questions.

by Anonymousreply 10October 4, 2016 1:03 AM

r7 Just for some context, it was an article about a local post office closing, he said something about Conservatives being terrible, one commenter called him a lefty and another said he didn't understand politics. Then he said he had Aspergers and was a vulnerable adult and what they said was hate speech and was calling the police. I said they'd said the same type of thing they'd say to any commenter and surely hate speech would involve ablist slurs and he completely flipped out at me.

by Anonymousreply 11October 4, 2016 1:04 AM

r10 I have a borderline ex and my neighbour seems SO borderline. He's estranged from his parents although he likes to tell everyone his dad's a millionaire. He's changed his name to a ridiculous fake one. His first name is Tahira and I'd better not say his surname in case he googles himself but he's the only person in the whole of the UK with that surname and it's taken from a Star Wars character.

by Anonymousreply 12October 4, 2016 1:08 AM

Yeah I've never heard of someone with autism renaming themselves, r12. If anything ppl on the autism spectrum feel uncomfortable unless they have a very structured, predictable daily routine. They don't go making up creative names for themselves or spinning grandiose tales of millionaire relatives.

BPD all the way.

At link is an article from a few years ago written by a man who has three sons on the spectrum. It's a heartbreaking article but I think it gives a good picture of what real autism is like.

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by Anonymousreply 13October 4, 2016 1:14 AM

I will never give an Aspie the time of day again. They are sinister. They have no conscience. No emotion

by Anonymousreply 14October 4, 2016 1:24 AM

r12 I forgot, he says he was the first lead singer of 911 (a shitty boy band) too although their Wikipedia article doesn't mention him and he doesn't look like he was ever good-looking.

by Anonymousreply 15October 4, 2016 1:32 AM

I don't believe Aspies are without a conscience, r14, they're just very bad at picking up on nonverbal social cues. It's like rather than talk to them like you would a normal person, you'd be better off thinking of it as if you were text messaging them out loud, complete with descriptions of emojis to indicate "I am happy" or "I think that's funny" or "what you just said about X makes me feel angry because Y." Almost like you're typing direct commands into a computer: things like sarcasm and dropping hints just go completely over an Aspie's head. But they do have feelings and most of them, from what I've read, are not at all malicious or dangerous. By contrast, real sociopaths (people who have no conscience) are much more likely to be extremely charming and charismatic, because they're not inhibited by self-doubt or concern for other people's opinions of them as the rest of us are. They'll look you in the eyes and smile sweetly and lie without hesitation.

I suppose it's entirely possible that about 4% of people on the Spectrum are both autistic and sociopathic,, but that's just because sociopaths make up 4% of the overall population.

by Anonymousreply 16October 4, 2016 1:37 AM

are you leary?

wary?

weary?

do you tarry?

do you fret and moan?

by Anonymousreply 17October 4, 2016 1:39 AM

I've come to the conclusion over the years that anyone who comments on any website should be required by law to disclose whether they're autistic or not, and sites should also be required to offer a filter so that they can be filtered out.

by Anonymousreply 18October 4, 2016 1:40 AM

So called high functioning autistics are just slightly above retarded

by Anonymousreply 19October 4, 2016 1:49 AM

Borderlines are almost interchangeable as Aspies

by Anonymousreply 20October 4, 2016 2:03 AM

There are 17 threads about Aspergers on DL. It appears somebody has one hell of an obsession.

by Anonymousreply 21October 4, 2016 2:16 AM

R21, reconcile your family relationships. Get along with co workers etc etc

by Anonymousreply 22October 4, 2016 2:31 AM

Christ, you people can't spell "leery" either?

by Anonymousreply 23October 4, 2016 2:34 AM

r10. is that true, bpd are pathologicAl liars? i just thought they aren't intentionally lying, they are misinterpreting everything. i wish someone would start a bpd thread. it's incredible how secretive and manipulative they are while copying everything you do, emailing your friends behind your back badmouthing you.

by Anonymousreply 24October 4, 2016 2:35 AM

R24, Aspies/ bpd can only fool the people some of the time

by Anonymousreply 25October 4, 2016 2:43 AM

"So called high functioning autistics are just slightly above retarded."

Nope, but thanks for playing.

by Anonymousreply 26October 4, 2016 2:58 AM

I'm weary of all the anti-autism threads started and replied to by the same creepy guy who got turned down for sex by an obviously smart person with autism.

by Anonymousreply 27October 4, 2016 3:05 AM

I am consistently astonished by the degree of hatred of people identified by DL posters towards people they have identified as somewhere on the ASD. ASD is a recognized neurological, cognitive impairment, not a moral flaw, any more than cancer (unless you are Rosie) or a heart murmur are willfully "chosen." YOu may not like the ASD people you encounter and prefer to limit interaction with them--though that may be your loss in some cases (I've known some pretty great peopl who have an ASD diagnosis and live consciously within it)--but it seems to me reflect more on the hater. Do you also despise blind people and amputees?

ANd, no, I do not identify as autistic, though. I suspect we. All have some of the traits--albeit usually in invisible or mild form--associated with it. And, I think the jury is still out on the question of "lying."At most, the people on the AS may be evasive when trying not to speak their actual thoughts. It is not a moral virtue, per se, but a social skill they find hard to perform.

by Anonymousreply 28October 4, 2016 3:33 AM

I occasionally trick with a college age one. He likes me to beat the shit out of him now and then. Sorry. I know that doesn't help but that's the full extend of my knowledge with the aspbergers people. It's probably better that way.

by Anonymousreply 29October 4, 2016 4:43 AM

I have Asperger's and I think OP is no better than Hitler. Stop projecting your own character flaws onto the differently abled, asshole, and think about what YOU can do to be a better person.

by Anonymousreply 30October 4, 2016 4:51 AM

Nobody who's old enough to use the word "trick" has a college age lover, R29.

by Anonymousreply 31October 4, 2016 4:56 AM

I cleared two Aspies gay guys from my life this year. Both have the habit of saying things that are cruel and totally inappropriate. Amusingly, I heard second hand that they both chose to paint themselves into the victims with mutual friends after I told them I could no longer tolerate their uncensored cruelty and lack of empathy. I think aspies are borderline sociopathic. If I pick up on the signs now in someone, I steer clear. They are toxic. I mean, both of these guys literally things to me early on that were giveaways, beside the usual cues. Things like "I never feel hurt or upset." Or "I have never cried in my life." And "I just feel black on the inside." when people stay stuff like this to you RUN FOR THE FUCKING HILLS -- don't just settle for the entertainment value of an Aspies.

by Anonymousreply 32October 4, 2016 5:14 AM

R32, I had the same experience, Scary people who love to con. So happy you got out. More and more people are exposing Aspies for the demons they are especially online

by Anonymousreply 33October 4, 2016 11:37 AM

They are a scary breed because of their manipulation on society. They do not care about others!! They actually harbor deep hostility towards society. Zuckerberg is a prime example, using Facebook as a social experiment

by Anonymousreply 34October 4, 2016 5:01 PM

[quote]They actually harbor deep hostility towards society.

Who can blame anyone for harboring hostility towards a society that produces the likes of a bigoted jerk like OP?

by Anonymousreply 35October 4, 2016 5:09 PM

R35, Aspie tard

by Anonymousreply 36October 4, 2016 5:33 PM

I knew an Aspie girl who bragged how ruthless she could be and looked down on everyone as inferior. She was the ugliest chick you ever saw.

by Anonymousreply 37October 4, 2016 5:36 PM

[quote]That's the third Asperger nut I've heard about who accused perfectly innocent people of being pedophiles. What the fuck is up with that?

How is that different from an average day at DL?

by Anonymousreply 38October 4, 2016 5:43 PM

Aspies have dead eyes. Sinister

by Anonymousreply 39October 4, 2016 5:46 PM

Aspies should be aborted.

by Anonymousreply 40October 4, 2016 5:53 PM

I agree r40! I hope we can eventually detect on utero like downs. I would take a lovable downs kid than a cold, hateful Aspie.

by Anonymousreply 41October 4, 2016 5:56 PM

Wow! Read this. Exactly what we are saying.

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by Anonymousreply 42October 4, 2016 5:59 PM

There are a lot of moves in that direction R41.

by Anonymousreply 43October 4, 2016 6:00 PM

Had a neighbor like R6's once. He made up stories about everyone in the apartment complex, really fantastic stuff about lawyers and secret police. Fortunately he ended up having to move after stealing the ice melt for our walkways, and a couple of us hurt ourselves because of it.

by Anonymousreply 44October 4, 2016 6:01 PM

Never get into a relationship with one!

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by Anonymousreply 45October 4, 2016 6:07 PM

Why are most of them so ugly? Is it a symptom of their condition?

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by Anonymousreply 46October 4, 2016 6:12 PM

r44 He also had a disagreement with the landlords and went in their office and started cutting himself in front of them. There was an injunction on him for years saying he couldn't be in a room with them or any of their employees. They've never managed to evict him. He was very very sue-happy when there was such a thing as Legal Aid, and now there isn't anymore, he has his solicitors doing a lot of Pro Bono stuff for him. I don't know how. Maybe he has something on them.

by Anonymousreply 47October 4, 2016 6:16 PM

The girl I was referring to in R37, burns every bridge everywhere she goes. She has lived all over the country and when her devious game is detected, she spits. She is totally estranged from her family etc. She is ALWAYS the victim!!!

by Anonymousreply 48October 4, 2016 6:39 PM

Splits

by Anonymousreply 49October 4, 2016 6:54 PM

Bumps

by Anonymousreply 50October 4, 2016 8:08 PM

I am weary of people who use the word "folks".

by Anonymousreply 51October 4, 2016 8:09 PM

Devious cunts

by Anonymousreply 52October 4, 2016 10:39 PM

R46, that or just being subhuman .

by Anonymousreply 53October 4, 2016 10:40 PM

Aspies are terrifying.

by Anonymousreply 54October 4, 2016 11:51 PM

They're gross and should be avoided wherever possible. There are many of them in the Tech industry but if the boss knows what's what he'll provide them with isolation cubicles so they can continue their shut in lifestyle at work and not bother others.

The worst thing is an Aspie who wants to integrate - just say no.

by Anonymousreply 55October 4, 2016 11:55 PM

Female Aspies are even more dangerous given they get away with more.

by Anonymousreply 56October 4, 2016 11:55 PM

R55, the isolated cubicle is the final step before termination.

by Anonymousreply 57October 4, 2016 11:56 PM

No, R55, enlightened Tech bosses know the Aspies work best like this. If you put them in an open plan setting they go batshit crazy as they can't cope with the phones, the chat and the sound of other people typing, or - God forbid - someone approaching them for an unscheduled conversation.

The worst thing is when an Aspie accepts an invitation for an after work drink and has alcohol to fit in, even though they're not used to it. They will then launch into a manic monologue and it will be impossible for you to escape. The solution is not to invite them.

by Anonymousreply 58October 5, 2016 12:01 AM

Yep r58, because just like sociopaths or narcissists they gravitate to empathetic people, for their own gain.

by Anonymousreply 59October 5, 2016 12:05 AM

Break glass! Break glass!

by Anonymousreply 60October 5, 2016 12:10 AM

Can everyone just please just STOP TALKING!!!

by Anonymousreply 61October 5, 2016 12:13 AM

YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE!

by Anonymousreply 62October 5, 2016 12:21 AM

Important warning ⚠️!

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by Anonymousreply 63October 5, 2016 12:25 AM

Jesus H Christ-there's a shitload of unbridled mental illness on this thread. 17 thread on Aspergers on DL...and this is only the most recent. Somebody has a really sick obsession.

by Anonymousreply 64October 5, 2016 12:26 AM

Has anyone ever known a black asppie?

by Anonymousreply 65October 5, 2016 12:27 AM

Lol r65 true dat. But check this out. Never trust an Aspie.

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by Anonymousreply 66October 5, 2016 12:29 AM

More proof

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by Anonymousreply 67October 5, 2016 12:42 AM

✊ my nigga

by Anonymousreply 68October 5, 2016 1:05 AM

You know that asppies keep the dirtiest holes.

by Anonymousreply 69October 5, 2016 1:19 AM

Yes, it's irrational.

Now get back under your bridge.

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by Anonymousreply 70October 5, 2016 1:28 AM

I love the fact Aspies are all butthurt over the truth being revealed.

by Anonymousreply 71October 5, 2016 1:33 AM

R70 = Aspie who should've been aborted.

by Anonymousreply 72October 5, 2016 1:35 AM

All I can say is that they can be annoying as shit ! ! !

by Anonymousreply 73October 5, 2016 1:36 AM

I was defending ppl with ASD earlier on this thread but I just realized that one of my former coworkers was probably an Aspie. She was possibly the worst person I've ever met. Kind of a toss up between her and another coworker (at the same place) who was a heroin addict with Borderline personality disorder.

Anyway the suspected-Aspie was very antisocial and often openly hostile, didn't make eye contact, laughed or mocked people in completely inappropriate situations, interjected or interrupted other people's private conversations, would literally talk over you or walk out of the room if she wasn't interested in what you were saying, she had OCD, and would tell you the same dumb stories about her boring home life and the health ailments of her rescued cats over and over and over even if you told her you'd already heard that story. She had insomnia and took some meds but at the time I couldn't think of any one condition that would explain her awfulness, so I concluded that she was just inbred (she was a 17th generation descendant in a fairly geographically isolated area that originally only had 35 founding families=lots of cousins intermarrying over the last 3+ centuries). Now I think she must have been a total Aspie. And now I'm starting to hate Aspies too because yeah...she was the WORST!

by Anonymousreply 74October 5, 2016 1:49 AM

R73, perfect description.

by Anonymousreply 75October 5, 2016 2:02 AM

I think everyone who knows the pathetic OP (and everybody on Datalounge) is weary of HIM. This asshole is the one and only Aspie Troll. Obviously he has a lot of time on his hands, because he's posted too many threads about Asperger's to count. What a piece of shit he is! No wonder everybody who knows him hates him.

by Anonymousreply 76October 5, 2016 2:09 AM

E76, the unimaginative Aspie. Boring

by Anonymousreply 77October 5, 2016 2:16 AM

The Aspie Troll is talking to himself again. That's him at R32, and that's him responding to himself at R33. That's him at R22, R34, R36, R37, R39, R40, R41 R52, R53...and on and on. He says people with Asperger's should be aborted, that they're evil, that they have no conscience, etc. He's letting fly with a lot of hatred and bigotry and he does it because he thinks he can get away with it. If he were saying the same thing about blacks, hispanics, Jews, the Webmaster would ban him. The Webmaster should ban him anyway. He's a sick fuck. A sad, sick fuck.

I know that's you at R77, Aspie troll. You're pathetic. Fuck off and die, won't you. I think a lot of people would be happy if you did.

by Anonymousreply 78October 5, 2016 2:23 AM

Despite having Aspergers, Michael Burry realized that a number of subprime home loans were in danger of defaulting. He bet against the housing market by throwing more than $1 billion of his investors' money into credit default swaps. Having spotted the trouble that led to the financial crisis, Burry profited accordingly and reaped a fortune becoming part of the 1%. with what virtually nobody had understood for years . From 2000 through the crash of 2008, Burry earned his Scion investors 489.34% in returns and walked away with 100 million for himself.

by Anonymousreply 79October 5, 2016 3:09 AM

R79, ruthless Aspie.

by Anonymousreply 80October 5, 2016 3:18 AM

R80 I think you mean fucking genius. I'll gladly take an Aspie who comes home with 100 million!

by Anonymousreply 81October 5, 2016 3:43 AM

We have all these threads that try to conflate Aspies and Sociopaths, which at first was pretty funny. (Or at least funny to those of us who have worked with both groups.)

But now there are so many that the whole thing is getting creepy.

by Anonymousreply 82October 5, 2016 4:24 AM

R82, don't have a meltdown

by Anonymousreply 83October 5, 2016 2:34 PM

R82, just enlightening the masses on evil of Aspergers.

by Anonymousreply 84October 5, 2016 4:11 PM

This thread is one long exercise in psychological projection.

by Anonymousreply 85October 5, 2016 4:55 PM

Aspies can not empathize or relate to normal people. A huge handicap.

by Anonymousreply 86October 5, 2016 5:21 PM

This is all Linda's doing, right?

by Anonymousreply 87October 5, 2016 5:28 PM

DIdn't take an Aspie to spot the financial crisis coming. I certainly did.

by Anonymousreply 88October 5, 2016 6:33 PM

Aspies are notorious to slander and malign people who call them on their devious shit. They will use malicious lies. It rarely amounts to anything, because people with theory of mind and intuition figure it out. Without exception, Aspies are generally estranged from family, coworkers etc

by Anonymousreply 89October 5, 2016 6:51 PM

Demented Aspie bump

by Anonymousreply 90October 5, 2016 8:02 PM

I have asbergers

by Anonymousreply 91October 5, 2016 8:20 PM

I truly believe the low class , stalker dykes have it. The majority of gay women have social skills and are pleasant to be around. Plus many of these types of dykes are so weird looking. As r46 pic

by Anonymousreply 92October 5, 2016 8:56 PM

I am convinced now more than ever that Aspies are evil.

by Anonymousreply 93October 6, 2016 3:20 PM

Hillary Clinton has Asppie eyes. She has to fight to look you in the eye and not at the wall.

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by Anonymousreply 94October 6, 2016 3:25 PM

R94, and she is ruthless. Don't trust people who avoid eye contact.

by Anonymousreply 95October 6, 2016 4:25 PM

Only an aspie like Hillary would need to reintroduce herself over and over again.

by Anonymousreply 96October 6, 2016 4:42 PM

Big thieves as well. They get away with it for a while

by Anonymousreply 97October 6, 2016 6:16 PM

Aspies have no conscience

by Anonymousreply 98October 6, 2016 7:49 PM

Very vindictive tards

by Anonymousreply 99October 9, 2016 4:50 PM

The Asperger's troll bumped this thread. That's him (or maybe her) at R83, R84, R86, R89, R90, R92, R93, R94, R95, R96, R97, R98, and R99. How lonely this poor soul must be! I feel sorry for him.

by Anonymousreply 100October 9, 2016 5:34 PM

OP makes me weary of neurotypicals, and with good reason. They project their own shortcomings onto the differently abled and everyone else not like them. They start all the wars, they destroy the environment, they commit most of the crimes and built a legal system around a bigoted double standard of behavior to let themselves off the hook for the things they do to the so-called "other" while punishing them for fighting back. They're like the school bully who grabs your arm and hits you with it with one hand, then steals your lunch money with the other.

by Anonymousreply 101October 9, 2016 5:39 PM

R101, oh honey, this just isn't the place to start talking about 'neurotypicals'.

I hope for your sake that's a spoof post.

by Anonymousreply 102October 9, 2016 6:57 PM

There was something in the water or air (chemtrails?) in the '80's - '90's that made a huge number of Millennials aspi-esque.

by Anonymousreply 103October 9, 2016 7:17 PM

I broke off a 5+ year friendship with an Aspie because I just couldn't take it anymore. I think he was a good person at heart, but it was extremely frustrating having a conversation with him.

Everything was taken so literally. Sarcasm and metaphor were completely out. Idioms were particularly difficult too. If you said something like, "be careful what you say or you'll be eating crow soon," he would respond, "why would I eat a crow?"

He wasn't emotionless though. There were feelings and sincerity, but it's like his mind couldn't handle anything that wasn't 100% straightforward.

He hated lying and could be very cruel in his quest to always tell the truth.

He saw a therapist, but often didn't follow her advice. He wasn't supposed to drink alcohol, but did nonetheless.

by Anonymousreply 104October 9, 2016 7:20 PM

Glad you got out r104, they are toxic

by Anonymousreply 105October 9, 2016 9:24 PM

Aspies love to stir the pot. They will contradict themselves just to get a rise. Very frustrating to engage with in small situations. I can't imagine what it's like to live with one

by Anonymousreply 106October 9, 2016 9:36 PM

R101, an Aspie who justifies violence perpetrated by Aspies

by Anonymousreply 107October 9, 2016 10:36 PM

Neurotypicals? Ugh, that triggers me as much as cisgender. Who sits around and comes up with these obnoxious terms?

by Anonymousreply 108October 9, 2016 11:12 PM

The Aspergers Troll "doth protest too much" :(

by Anonymousreply 109October 9, 2016 11:16 PM

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

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by Anonymousreply 110October 9, 2016 11:19 PM

R108, they think they are superior

by Anonymousreply 111October 9, 2016 11:39 PM

R110, typical Aspie! You can't imagine the disruption from this kid. No empathy, no ability to see other perspectives

by Anonymousreply 112October 9, 2016 11:40 PM

Autistic kids are creepy

by Anonymousreply 113October 9, 2016 11:40 PM

The mother in that article admits her kid was having a "meltdown" and then is confused why she was asked to leave.

by Anonymousreply 114October 9, 2016 11:49 PM

R114, parents of autistic kids are fucked up and NEVER discipline their antisocial kids

by Anonymousreply 115October 10, 2016 12:10 AM

"Disciplining" them really doesn't help, r115, but certainly the parents should not feel entitled to bring their autistic kids into restaurants, movie theaters, concerts, plays, museums etc if they know their child is incapable of behaving in a non-disruptive manner.

by Anonymousreply 116October 10, 2016 12:18 AM

Neurotypical seems to be a pretty easy to understand term. Why would it trigger someone? What else can you call people with no neurological abnormalities?

by Anonymousreply 117October 10, 2016 12:58 AM

R117, I don't know if you are an Aspie or not, but I am happy you admit that autistic is significantly abnormal. My only joy is that more and more of society is seeing that they get away with a lot using the excuse of autism. Most people's experience with Aspergers is less than auspicious.

by Anonymousreply 118October 10, 2016 1:18 AM

R115, gives credence that autistic parents are either autistic or as many believe are narcissistic, no empathy parents.

by Anonymousreply 119October 10, 2016 1:20 AM

Please don't feed the demented Aspie troll. This fuck is insane. I think his father sodomized him repeatedly as a child. That could well account for his mental retardation and social maladjustment.

by Anonymousreply 120October 10, 2016 1:29 AM

R117, neurotypical triggers not because it's difficult to understand, but because it sounds like PC bullshit. How about the word normal?

by Anonymousreply 121October 10, 2016 3:32 AM

The word "normal" is not specific enough. If someone does not have autism but is nearsighted or has diabetes, he would not qualify as "normal."

by Anonymousreply 122October 10, 2016 4:05 AM

Nearsighted? Diabetes? These never come up when discussing autism or "neurotypical" people.

Neurotypical is only used when contrasting an Aspie with a normal person. It's clear normal refers "not on the spectrum."

by Anonymousreply 123October 10, 2016 4:13 AM

That website at r45 was eye opening. I recently ended a 3 year relationship that fits the majority of the patterns described in those testimonials. IT guy, repeats boring stories again and again, "I don't know what love is", "I don't lie and I'm very direct", same sexual routine, hates his parents, socially awkward with my friends who described him as "cold".

I adjusted to him immensely. I tried to give him the tools to make the relationship work by telling him what I needed from him but "when someone tells me to do something, it makes me want to do the opposite".

I will miss the conversations and the perhaps misguided notion that he was freer and more expressive when with me. In the end, it was the repetitiveness and lack of "I love you" that did me in.

by Anonymousreply 124October 10, 2016 7:47 AM

R124, yes, they are pretty sinister. Happy you got out. Aspies are very un likable

by Anonymousreply 125October 10, 2016 5:46 PM

R14 and R124 I totally agree. Utterly soulless and sinister. I was hurt very badly by a (mildly) AS guy I considered a close friend -- manipulative, self-obsessed, narcissistic liar convinced he was the sexiest thing alive (as he walked around all winter with massive sheets of eczema peeling from his face and would go days without brushing his teeth); all-around self-serving piece of shit the likes of which I've never encountered before. At least the Borderline I dealt with had a conscience and a shred of humanity buried underneath the insanity. Never again.

by Anonymousreply 126October 11, 2016 7:22 AM

I love this part from the Daily Mail article: "She said that when she replied that her son was autistic, she said the manager told her that ‘people don’t care about that.’"

by Anonymousreply 127October 11, 2016 7:27 AM

Trollin' Trollin' Trollin'

Keep Those Aspergers Trollin'

by Anonymousreply 128October 11, 2016 7:31 AM

"People don't care about that."

by Anonymousreply 129October 11, 2016 8:02 AM

I know a soulless aspie in LA who uses and abuses older gay men to secure access to homes in Palm Springs and launch businesses, including a toothpaste line. He literally has no conscience. The problem is: the people he usually uses are also on the spectrum so there's a weird understanding between the two dead-souled individuals.

by Anonymousreply 130October 11, 2016 8:19 AM

R123 I was responding to the idiot who was "triggered" by the word neurotypicall and advocated use of the word "normal". The whole point is that diabetes and nearsightedness and diabetes do not come in connection to autism. But someone with those afflictions could not be accurately described as "normal" even if they are nuerotypical.

by Anonymousreply 131October 11, 2016 11:37 AM

What is up with Aspies and skin issues? I know two who have an unsightly rash all over. Is it their behavior that brings it out?

by Anonymousreply 132October 11, 2016 5:11 PM

Karma gets them trust on that. They are miserable people.

by Anonymousreply 133October 11, 2016 5:12 PM

R128, boring, insufferable Aspie

by Anonymousreply 134October 11, 2016 5:42 PM

As you've inundated this thread with no less than 53 posts, it is you who are the "boring, insufferable" Aspergers Troll, r134.

You're obviously suffering from the very mental illness you continue to malign or you're obsessed for some reason by Aspergers.

Which ever is the case, you really need help, Toots.

by Anonymousreply 135October 11, 2016 7:13 PM

DL Logic:

Talk smack about whites, gentiles, and heterosexuals as payback for all the crimes against humanity they've committed and are still committing: not acceptable, F&Fed, thread closed.

Talk smack about people on the autism spectrum while projecting your own monumental moral shortcomings onto them: AOK.

by Anonymousreply 136October 11, 2016 7:18 PM

R136, Aspie triggered! How unusual lol

by Anonymousreply 137October 11, 2016 7:19 PM

I am trying to imagine someone being conned by an Aspie.

by Anonymousreply 138October 12, 2016 11:33 AM

Spazzy Aspies are useful when it comes to programming, that can't be denied.

by Anonymousreply 139October 12, 2016 6:48 PM

[quote] I am trying to imagine someone being conned by an Aspie.

Usually it's the other way around.

by Anonymousreply 140October 12, 2016 6:50 PM

Cold unfeeling creeps.

by Anonymousreply 141October 13, 2016 4:03 PM

Do not let them in your life. You will feel like you came off a bad acid trip

by Anonymousreply 142October 14, 2016 5:30 PM

True r142

by Anonymousreply 143October 17, 2016 3:23 PM

Avoid the spooky tard

by Anonymousreply 144October 18, 2016 4:34 PM

More psychological projection, keyword PSYCHO.

by Anonymousreply 145October 18, 2016 4:39 PM

Neurotypicals? Please leave you retarded deformed looking Aspie

by Anonymousreply 146October 18, 2016 5:06 PM

No, you fuck off, R146, you rotten stinking neurotypical piece of shit. You're the ones causing all the problems. Did it ever occur to you that every time you get shit from an aspie, it's because you did something to provoke it? You can only mistreat a person so much before throwing back that treatment at you in retaliation becomes justified, and this whole thread has crossed that line. Stop projecting your own moral and intellectual shortcomings onto us, you worthless trash.

by Anonymousreply 147October 18, 2016 5:08 PM

Neurotypicals lie, cheat, steal, murder, rape and destroy other people's property all the time, but somehow it's aspies, who are willing to give others the benefit of the doubt until they betray our trust, who are the problem? I don't think so.

by Anonymousreply 148October 18, 2016 5:10 PM

Neurotypicals are fucking war criminals. Hitler, Stalin, Mao, Osama Bin Laden, Saddam Hussein: not an aspie in the bunch. And I don't buy the lie that Adam Lanza was autistic. Most people on the spectrum don't have motor skills good enough to shoot as well as he did.

by Anonymousreply 149October 18, 2016 5:11 PM

R147,148, r149,,,

You are probably an ugly weird looking trigglypuff aspie tard . You are incabable of living in reality. Lanza did have it and thanks for confirming that aspies are retarded with poor coordination . That's retarded!!! Made my day that I created a meltdown. You violent tard

by Anonymousreply 150October 18, 2016 5:16 PM

R147 is homocidal bat shit crazy aspie! Hope it doesn't have any guns. They love to massacre people.

by Anonymousreply 151October 18, 2016 5:18 PM

R150 Aspie-on-NT violence is payback for systemic ableism. You started it and we're going to stop it. The oppressor classes will get what is coming to them, and you worthless bigoted NT filth have proved yourself an oppressor. You NTs are fucking monsters. You poison the world with your technofetishes and forcing brown, black and yellow people to serve your lazy white heterosexual gentile asses because you're too fucking lazy to do things for yourself. You're scum. You're lower than scum. Your continued existence on this planet is a threat to all living things on this earth, not just actual human beings. Your words and your deeds are recorded by history and will be used as evidence to convict every last one of you of crimes against humanity and put you to the death you so richly deserve.

Adam Lanza was not autistic, just Italian. The worst ethnicity of the worst race. Besides, anything that reduces the number of NT oppressors is a GOOD thing.

by Anonymousreply 152October 18, 2016 5:22 PM

[quote]They love to massacre people.

Bullshit. It's NTs that fetishize death and destruction and claim it's "for your own good." That's why they banned the drugs that actually work and replaced them with brain-destroying pills with more side effects than actual cures. They're vile, vicious vermin and they deserve any and all bad things that happen to them.

by Anonymousreply 153October 18, 2016 5:23 PM

After reading this sickening thread, which is like reading Mein Kampf and the Koran back to back, anyone who takes the life of an NT oppressor is a hero as far as I'm concerned.

by Anonymousreply 154October 18, 2016 5:24 PM

R152, 153, brilliant parody . Lmao.

by Anonymousreply 155October 18, 2016 5:26 PM

Parody, schmarody. I really do hate your fucking guts. Everything you say and do justifies people hating you and a whole lot worse. Do your friends know what a vile, bigoted monster you are and how much you deserve to suffer. I'm tired of the so-called neurotypical brain being called normal just because we don't share your fetish for idiotic and absurd facial gestures over actual words, especially when you use your face to conceal your true intentions: take advantage of others and engage in victim-blaming when you get called out on your shit.

So-called NTs are not normal and deserve to suffer for what they've done to the differently abled, just like racists deserve to suffer for what they've done to people of color, gentiles deserve to suffer for what they've done to the Jews, and heterosexuals deserve to suffer. You are just another oppressor class, and as such you have no rights that survivors of your oppressive words and deeds are bound to respect.

Seriously, just die. I don't care how it happens just as long as it happens and you suffer mightily because of it. Maybe then we can finally have some peace, quiet, respect and civil rights, all of which we have earned and deserved after putting up with your bullshit for practically forever.

by Anonymousreply 156October 18, 2016 5:31 PM

R156, parody or a real aspie lol if the latter, they are a ticking time bomb . Personally, I think parody. Aspies have o sense of humor

by Anonymousreply 157October 18, 2016 5:36 PM

NTs ideas of what constitutes humor are dull, unfunny and barbaric, and all of it is rooted in bigotry.

by Anonymousreply 158October 18, 2016 5:38 PM

The more you push us around, the more you justify us pushing you back even harder.

by Anonymousreply 159October 18, 2016 5:39 PM

OP belongs in a fucking concentration camp. I can't believe someone as stupid and barbaric as him actually figured out how to clear his cookies.

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by Anonymousreply 160October 18, 2016 5:41 PM

#NeurotypicalLivesMatter

by Anonymousreply 161October 18, 2016 5:57 PM

No, R161, they don't. Not after this thread.

by Anonymousreply 162October 18, 2016 5:59 PM

R162, is going on a shooting spree . Typical aspie raging UGLy creep

by Anonymousreply 163October 18, 2016 6:03 PM

Please, R163, I don't even own a gun. But if someone does kill you it will be because you and you alone provoked them. All I have to do is exist and you go into a blinding rage. That's why you're a bigot, and that's why your life doesn't matter.

Seriously, just die already before you are put to death as punishment for your crimes against humanity.

by Anonymousreply 164October 18, 2016 6:07 PM

R164 lmao . You are skizoid too. Delusional Aspies crack me up.i bet you are an SJW queer aspie .

by Anonymousreply 165October 18, 2016 6:11 PM

Autism is a form of retardation.

by Anonymousreply 166October 18, 2016 10:35 PM

Too many people try to paint aspies as gentle souls without a malevolent thought in their minds. This is very wrong. They are every bit as manipulative and opportunistic as other members of the human race. No better, but certainly no worse.

by Anonymousreply 167October 18, 2016 11:55 PM

R167,you are almost there

by Anonymousreply 168October 19, 2016 12:29 AM

Aspies are very manipulative and sinister.

by Anonymousreply 169October 19, 2016 12:30 AM

More NT hate speech and lies proving my point. NTs are masters of abuse and gaslighting.

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by Anonymousreply 170October 19, 2016 12:33 AM

NTs are thugs, bullies, and victim-blamers.

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by Anonymousreply 171October 19, 2016 12:33 AM

You "people" are fucking monsters, really.

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by Anonymousreply 172October 19, 2016 12:34 AM

The real Aspie troll @170 2 172 is crazy.

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by Anonymousreply 173October 19, 2016 12:40 AM

R167 What you say is true. The problem is that they do not have a theory of mind, so it is hard for them to pull off high level manipulation. And their opportunism is obvious, because they do not have the skills to effectively conceal it.

It is like how a paraplegic is just as likely to have violent impulses as the rest of us. But they have less ability to successfully act on those impulses.

by Anonymousreply 174October 19, 2016 1:07 AM

R174, Aspies get away with a lot of bullshit , but not for long.

by Anonymousreply 175October 19, 2016 1:11 AM

Aspies can manipulate their best online cuz no give and take and pausing in typing . In person or on phone, totally different ballgame.

by Anonymousreply 176October 19, 2016 1:13 AM

Aspie Troll negative energy BE GONE!

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by Anonymousreply 177October 19, 2016 1:19 AM

This confusion of aspie with psychopath is kind of fun. It is kind of like confusing a wig with a shoulder pad.

by Anonymousreply 178October 19, 2016 1:22 AM

Feel the negative energy leaving you, Aspie Troll :)

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by Anonymousreply 179October 19, 2016 1:28 AM

Aspies live to condescend others. Total hypocrisy.

by Anonymousreply 180October 19, 2016 1:32 AM

Due to personal experience, I am weary of folks who are NT because speaking as an ASD person my first memory is being kidnapped and raped at 3 years old by a regular and good gay guy and a bi-guy.

by Anonymousreply 181October 19, 2016 2:15 AM

R5, it is the one thing that nearly the entire population is against, and it is hard to prove one is not, so it's the perfect weapon for someone with no empathy to use, the accusation of, to ostracize someone else.

by Anonymousreply 182October 19, 2016 2:20 AM

More positive energy to help heal your wounded heart, Aspie Troll :)

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by Anonymousreply 183October 19, 2016 2:22 AM

R183, Jeffrey Dahmer.

by Anonymousreply 184October 19, 2016 2:31 AM

Hitler, Stalin, Mao, Bin Laden were all autistic fuckers obsessed with one thing - power. Don't try to pretend those fuckers were neurotypical.

by Anonymousreply 185October 19, 2016 2:32 AM

R182, Aspies are ruthless , but rarely successful because they are socially and spiritually retarded.

by Anonymousreply 186October 19, 2016 2:33 AM

R185, all true! And don't forget the current, living one, Putin .

by Anonymousreply 187October 19, 2016 2:34 AM

Everybody, I'd like to introduce you to The Aspie Troll

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by Anonymousreply 188October 19, 2016 2:41 AM

DONALD TRUMP IS AN ASPIE

by Anonymousreply 189October 19, 2016 2:44 AM

Lol r189

by Anonymousreply 190October 19, 2016 2:54 AM

Why the fuck do we have multiple threads about this?

Fuck off already, OP. You're just as socially awkward.

by Anonymousreply 191October 19, 2016 2:58 AM

We actually have almost two dozen Aspergers threads, r191 the Aspergers Troll is obviously quite obsessed.

by Anonymousreply 192October 19, 2016 3:04 AM

This troll claims to be weary of folks with autism, but he ain't going to sleep yet.

by Anonymousreply 193October 19, 2016 3:12 AM

Check this out

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by Anonymousreply 194October 21, 2016 1:08 AM

r194, they are not all violent, but many can be . They frighten me more than sociopaths.

by Anonymousreply 195November 26, 2016 11:49 PM

Why, R195?

by Anonymousreply 196November 26, 2016 11:54 PM

Because they get away with a lot of BS. They can and do manipulate to convince normal people who have empathy that Aspies are incapable of any wrong doing etc. And you can NEVER get them to admit to anything unless their ass was seriously on the line. Many naive, gullible people are deceived by Aspies, but only if they have minimal contact. The people who spend the most time with an Aspie, such as workplace, home, partners etc, will tell you how frustrating and insufferable they can be. The best description online I saw was THEY ARE ANNOYING AS SHIT!!

by Anonymousreply 197November 27, 2016 12:01 AM

"I cleared two Aspies gay guys from my life this year. Both have the habit of saying things that are cruel and totally inappropriate. Amusingly, I heard second hand that they both chose to paint themselves into the victims with mutual friends after I told them I could no longer tolerate their uncensored cruelty and lack of empathy. "

That is the common reason people sever ties with these hollow, unfeeling creatures

by Anonymousreply 198November 27, 2016 12:04 AM

The Asperger's troll is back! I guess he's feeling especially lonely now; it's the holiday season. It must be so hard for him to be so alone.

by Anonymousreply 199November 27, 2016 1:03 AM

r199, Nope, it's you, the annoying Aspie that is all alone.

by Anonymousreply 200November 27, 2016 8:06 PM

Who cares about Aspies. I am more concerned about the violence of amputees. Those people are ruthless and know how to use their remaining limbs to do some real damage.

by Anonymousreply 201November 27, 2016 8:23 PM

Aspies are gross and icky. Very annoying , not with it..

by Anonymousreply 202November 29, 2016 6:48 PM

Trump is very, very Aspies.

by Anonymousreply 203November 29, 2016 8:30 PM

R200, it is not I who keeps posting dozens of threads about Aspergers and posting dozens of replies to myself. It is you who are doing that. And you do it because you are so alone, so friendless, so disliked by anyone who comes in contact with you, that in order to have any social interaction at all you post dozens of threads on Datalounge that reveal you for what you are: an internet misfit and so very alone.

by Anonymousreply 204November 29, 2016 9:23 PM

tHERE'S that Aspie empathy we hear so much about at r204

by Anonymousreply 205November 29, 2016 10:56 PM

Do not trust them! They will betray even their own family members. They have reptile like brains. Very annoying and troublemaking people.

by Anonymousreply 206June 12, 2018 6:33 PM

r46, LMAO They look retarded.

by Anonymousreply 207June 12, 2018 6:49 PM
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