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Criminal Minds actor Shemar Moore has been robbed of $61k by male companion.

The two men met on the set of Shemar’s CBS hit show, CRIMINAL MINDS, and immediately hit it off. The two men got CLOSE, and Shemar invited him to work with his retail company.

Shemar and Keith were almost inseparable – even on social media. The duo posted more than a dozen Instagram photos together since April 2013. The two were photo’d attending industry events together and going on trips and bike rides.

Shemar claims that while working for the company, Keith embezzled $60K. But Shemar is also mad at all the gifts, vacations and living expenses that he gave Keith also. Here is how the NY Daily News is reporting it:

Moore said on top of the money stolen from his company, he also bought Tisdell $10,000 rims for his car, funded shared vacations and gave him up to $20,000 to help with expenses, the Times reported.

It was an audit that eventually uncovered Tisdell’s shenanigans, Moore said, but the friend didn’t take responsibility when initially confronted.

“In my mind, he wasn’t man enough to look me in the eye and fess up,” Moore reportedly told the judge.

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by Anonymousreply 161December 25, 2020 2:46 AM

$10,000 rims will always get you a lot of notoriety.

by Anonymousreply 1August 13, 2016 9:20 PM

Ah wo.. er, man scorned. Breaking up is so hard to do...

by Anonymousreply 2August 13, 2016 9:23 PM

Ugghh, yeah, hes straight,

by Anonymousreply 3August 13, 2016 9:25 PM

I hope the sex was good.

by Anonymousreply 4August 13, 2016 9:33 PM

Sounds like something that would happen to Liberace.

Liberace told his friends to call him Lee, by the way.

by Anonymousreply 5August 13, 2016 9:34 PM

SHEmar sweety It's getting embarrassing darling really.

by Anonymousreply 6August 13, 2016 9:35 PM

$10 K rims says it all.

by Anonymousreply 7August 13, 2016 9:35 PM

WW for r10

by Anonymousreply 8August 13, 2016 9:36 PM

R10 better be good, then.

by Anonymousreply 9August 13, 2016 9:37 PM

F&F for r10

by Anonymousreply 10August 13, 2016 9:37 PM

Oh... so that's his type.

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by Anonymousreply 11August 13, 2016 9:40 PM

I wonder what 10K rim feels like.

by Anonymousreply 12August 13, 2016 9:42 PM

"Memories

Like the corners of my mind

Misty watercolor memories

Of the way we were

Scattered pictures

Of the smiles we left behind

Smiles we gave to one another

For the way we were

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by Anonymousreply 13August 13, 2016 9:52 PM

Must be packing if he's getting gifts like these.

by Anonymousreply 14August 13, 2016 10:10 PM

Up until now I wasn't sure if Shemar was gay or straight. But now, gurrrrrl.

Being into expensive rims is a low class thing right? The only people I've ever known who were into them came from trashy families.

by Anonymousreply 15August 13, 2016 10:26 PM

When you see a man in a purple shirt, run the other way.

If he's black, he's usually a grifter.

If he's white, he's usually a sleazy flyover.

Fact.

by Anonymousreply 16August 13, 2016 10:40 PM

It's tough to make new friends as an adult, especially for men. I know he's hurting but I hope that this incident doesn't turn Shemar off of the idea of establishing friendships with likable men he may meet in the future.

by Anonymousreply 17August 13, 2016 10:46 PM

So isn't $10,000.00 a little expensive for a rim job?

by Anonymousreply 18August 13, 2016 10:47 PM

Gay gay gay.

by Anonymousreply 19August 13, 2016 10:47 PM

If Shemar is trying to stay in his invisible mime box of a closet, I'm surprised he gave (or let someone else working for his clothing company give) the police the info they'd need to press charges instead of settling this privately.

by Anonymousreply 20August 13, 2016 10:52 PM

Why would he bother?

Because he was hurt.

by Anonymousreply 21August 13, 2016 10:56 PM

Please tell me this messy queen is not going to KEEP saying he's straight!

by Anonymousreply 22August 13, 2016 10:59 PM

Black on black crime

by Anonymousreply 23August 13, 2016 11:08 PM

I think this is his way of coming out, r22.

by Anonymousreply 24August 13, 2016 11:10 PM

What kind of work did the male companion do in his company that allowed him to embezzle 61K?

This story is lacking in details.

by Anonymousreply 25August 13, 2016 11:12 PM

The quote below is from the attached link. It looks like the audit of Moore's business was done by independent auditors, not in-house, and maybe those auditors were required to report to the police? Because you know Moore didn't want this to get out when I'm sure the boyfriend has all kinds of juicy texts, photos, etc. he could leak.

Shemar Moore did not learn of the suspected embezzlement right away until an audit was performed on his business, and it was revealed that cash was missing.

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by Anonymousreply 26August 13, 2016 11:19 PM

^ r20 again

by Anonymousreply 27August 13, 2016 11:21 PM

"Moore said on top of the money stolen from his company, he also bought Tisdell $10,000 rims for his car, funded shared vacations and gave him up to $20,000 to help with expenses, the Times reported."

Who the hell does that with a person they recently met that is supposedly just a friend regardless of how rich they are ?

by Anonymousreply 28August 13, 2016 11:25 PM

Homosexual tendancies.

by Anonymousreply 29August 13, 2016 11:36 PM

Thank r26 / r20

by Anonymousreply 30August 13, 2016 11:36 PM

[quote]Who the hell does that with a person they recently met that is supposedly just a friend

How quickly they became so close, and how much money Shemar willingly gave them, why, it's almost like they were more than just friends.

by Anonymousreply 31August 13, 2016 11:43 PM

Of course 61K to Shemar is probably like $25 to us.

by Anonymousreply 32August 14, 2016 12:00 AM

Keith Tisdell is ugly as an ugly fuck. Moore could do so much better without trying.

No way was Moore and Tisdell a thing.

by Anonymousreply 33August 14, 2016 12:02 AM

R33, refer to the linked thread...

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by Anonymousreply 34August 14, 2016 12:09 AM

This thread is useless without pictures.

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by Anonymousreply 35August 14, 2016 12:27 AM

r33......It makes perfect sense when you think about it....SM definitely would demand he be the pretty one in the relationship....I knew a guy like that once....hot as hell, but he always had average boyfriends....it made him feel superior.

by Anonymousreply 36August 14, 2016 12:33 AM

From R35's link. He is flaming in this one!

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by Anonymousreply 37August 14, 2016 1:45 AM

[quote]I think this is his way of coming out

Time will tell.

by Anonymousreply 38August 14, 2016 1:50 AM

She took him to the cleaners!

Fresh as a flower in just one hour! She Martinized the bitch!

by Anonymousreply 39August 14, 2016 2:40 AM

He's not even that cute. Shemar can do better.

by Anonymousreply 40August 14, 2016 3:28 AM

I think we can now rule out fat ugly straight women as doing better, no matter how devoted they might be.

by Anonymousreply 41August 14, 2016 3:39 AM

Tehe "male companion", I'm sure sheless loved the title of this story.

by Anonymousreply 42August 14, 2016 3:59 AM

60k is not that much, considering how much She by Shemar got paid for every episode of Criminal Minds.

This story would be even juicer if the guy involved was younger and more attractive!

by Anonymousreply 43August 14, 2016 4:12 AM

You guys can't have him! He's just waiting for the right girl to come along. I hope it's me!!!

by Anonymousreply 44August 14, 2016 4:27 AM

DL's Cheryl was older than 38 ten years ago.

by Anonymousreply 45August 14, 2016 4:30 AM

Deadline reported Shemar made $50k per episode until 2011 when it was doubled to $100k.

In a 2014 lawsuit Thomas Gibson's former manager said Gibson made $200k per episode.

by Anonymousreply 46August 14, 2016 4:41 AM

R33 Thank you.

by Anonymousreply 47August 14, 2016 4:45 AM

So as much as we drag him here, (with good reason) I guess we would still fuck him without a second thought, if we got the chance.

by Anonymousreply 48August 14, 2016 5:40 AM

I'm ok with dragging lying closet cases.

by Anonymousreply 49August 14, 2016 5:43 AM

I would have sex with him but I would be judging him the entire time.

by Anonymousreply 50August 14, 2016 6:57 AM

[quote]SM definitely would demand he be the pretty one in the relationship

He would pretty much always be the pretty one, no matter who he was with. This other guy fell out of an ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down. He's so ugly he could "ug" himself to death.

He's so ugly when he went to the bank to deposit that 61K they turned OFF the cameras. He's so ugly Olivia Newton-John told her daughter, "Well you could've look like him." He's so ugly when Shemar and him went to the beach, cats tried to bury him. He's so ugly when he was arrested, the police artist wouldn't draw his sketch.

You get it, he's TOO UGLY for Shemar to ever be interested in .

by Anonymousreply 51August 14, 2016 2:30 PM

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

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by Anonymousreply 52August 14, 2016 2:38 PM

Does this mean that Shemar is a bottom?

by Anonymousreply 53August 14, 2016 4:12 PM

Tops are expensive...

by Anonymousreply 54August 14, 2016 4:46 PM

Shemar is not in the closet

Just hiding in plain sight and he's an actor too with leading man looks.

by Anonymousreply 55August 14, 2016 6:07 PM

R40 I agree. He could do much better

by Anonymousreply 56August 14, 2016 6:11 PM

The going rate for a top in Hollywood is 60k.

by Anonymousreply 57August 14, 2016 6:26 PM

He is in a closet R55. He actively denies being gay.

[quote] shemarfmooreAwwwwwww sh*t.... Let the controversy begin!!! I love him.. I hate him.. He's straight.. He's gay... He's sweet.. He's arrogant... Well, I would just like to say I LOVE women and life and people!!! I do not discriminate or allow people to feel small.... PERIOD!!! Say what you want... I am SHEMAR FRANKLIN MOORE... PERIOD!!! Heeeeeeeeey BABY GIRLS n Fans!!! Happy Saturday!!! Keep it SILLY n SEXY!!! Kisses n Thangs!!!

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by Anonymousreply 58August 14, 2016 6:48 PM

Does he ever plan on dropping the baby girl thing -_-

by Anonymousreply 59August 14, 2016 6:56 PM

I hope not!

by Anonymousreply 60August 14, 2016 7:47 PM

"Well, I would just like to say I LOVE women and life and people!!! I do not discriminate or allow people to feel small...."

That doesn't really sound like a denial of being gay to me.

by Anonymousreply 61August 14, 2016 7:50 PM

Shemar has a vocal and loyal fanbase. He has to keep giving them hope.

by Anonymousreply 62August 14, 2016 7:51 PM

I loved life too!

by Anonymousreply 63August 14, 2016 7:54 PM

Video about his drama with his male companion or the Thomas Gibson drama?

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by Anonymousreply 64August 14, 2016 7:55 PM

Girlfriend still looks chocolate fabulous, though. Black truly doesn't crack.

by Anonymousreply 65August 14, 2016 8:10 PM

His cash cow is his Baby Girl line. That's his lifeblood now and he's not going to ruin that by admitting to being gay.

by Anonymousreply 66August 14, 2016 9:50 PM

Shemar Moore's gone, Thomas Gibson fired, is the Nerdy Twink and Fat Baby Girl gonna lead the team now? The replaced Jeanne Tripplehorn with Jennifer Love Hewitt, who was then replaced with that black woman from FRIENDS. Why not get a good Asian actor? Oh, wait they're all on Hawaii 5-0.

Fuck just cancel the show already

by Anonymousreply 67August 14, 2016 10:30 PM

The grifter ex has an Instagram. Bitch is trying to excuse what he did in this post.

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by Anonymousreply 68August 14, 2016 10:32 PM

Her name is Aisha Tyler. If you can remember every plain white bread actress on a C-level sitcom and worship her, you can remember Ms. Tyler's name.

by Anonymousreply 69August 14, 2016 10:32 PM

Shenar needs to get to acting work soon or he'll end up taping short clips to his baby girls for a long time.

by Anonymousreply 70August 14, 2016 10:34 PM

^^^ Shemar

by Anonymousreply 71August 14, 2016 10:34 PM

[quote]Shemar is not in the closet

Yes he is.

As R58 says, Shemar keeps going on about how much he loves women.

He is not out.

by Anonymousreply 72August 14, 2016 10:35 PM

R72 I agree, he's deep in the closet for obvious reasons.

by Anonymousreply 73August 14, 2016 10:37 PM

Baby girl? What is this....1993????? Grow up She-mar.

by Anonymousreply 74August 14, 2016 10:44 PM

Shemar's fanbase is predominantly women.

He doesn't want to upset his "baby girls" by telling them he's gay.

by Anonymousreply 75August 14, 2016 10:46 PM

She needs to get her shit together.

by Anonymousreply 76August 14, 2016 11:03 PM

Now that he's approaching 50, the "baby girl" thing sounds asinine.

by Anonymousreply 77August 15, 2016 12:54 AM

Is Shemar gay?

by Anonymousreply 78August 15, 2016 1:00 AM

I have no problem with him staying in the closet, if coming out would affect his paper. And if DL is any indication, you sure as hell can't count on the gays to help you after you come out.

by Anonymousreply 79August 15, 2016 1:01 AM

BTW, r13, Memories LIGHT the corners of my mind....

by Anonymousreply 80August 15, 2016 1:33 AM

He's 46 now, so it will be interesting to see how much longer he can remain unmarried and childless without his "baby girls" getting suspicious.

by Anonymousreply 81August 15, 2016 1:36 AM

That pudgy thug fucked Shemar so good , so thoroughly , he actually got a pin number ! Now THATS some good dick,ladies .

by Anonymousreply 82August 15, 2016 2:12 AM

Shemar is clearly gay. He looks and sounds like a fool.

by Anonymousreply 83August 15, 2016 3:15 AM

You could throw battery acid in Tisdell's face and it wouldn't make a difference.

by Anonymousreply 84August 15, 2016 3:29 AM

Gurlfriend, let me give you some advice....

by Anonymousreply 85August 15, 2016 3:41 AM

From the look of things, I can't believe there was anything romantic between them. What would have been the attraction? And why did Moore think it useful to bring this guy into his business life?

by Anonymousreply 86August 15, 2016 9:30 AM

First off, Shemar is an unusually handsome man, and men and women all acknowledge that as fact.

But, my question is: who are these "baby girls?" Every black woman I know is quite aware that Moore's tank is swimming in sugar. If ya doubt me, check the urban blogs and their comments following the release of this story. So why is he afraid of coming out? He'll still be gorgeous and fit to death for a man of his advanced years. And at least that way he won't have to go through the motions and marry a woman just for appearances. He's every bit as known as a closeted gay man as Tyler Perry, the only difference is that women are not attracted to Perry(and they wouldn't be even if he were straight.) Women will always find him sexy and appealing, and most of us would admire him for living authentically.

by Anonymousreply 87August 15, 2016 9:52 AM

Shemar suffers from massive identity-confusion -- sexual, racial, professional. He doesn't understand authenticity. Too bad, too, because he's a nice man.

by Anonymousreply 88August 15, 2016 11:32 AM

I am willing to teach him how men love each other.

by Anonymousreply 89August 15, 2016 11:51 AM

Did he and Garcia do it on CM?

by Anonymousreply 90August 15, 2016 12:15 PM

No, R90.

by Anonymousreply 91August 15, 2016 1:25 PM

[quote]Shemar Moore's gone, Thomas Gibson fired, is the Nerdy Twink and Fat Baby Girl gonna lead the team now?

Yeah it's like when Coach did and Diane left Cheers, what did they have??? oh yeah...

by Anonymousreply 92August 15, 2016 2:58 PM

[quote]Shemar suffers from massive identity-confusion -- sexual, racial, professional.

Yes, Shemar is biracial, like Barack Obama.

He has a white mother and a black father.

He has talked in the past of how difficult he found it growing up to be biracial.

by Anonymousreply 93August 15, 2016 6:50 PM

I will teach him how to love.

by Anonymousreply 94August 15, 2016 7:01 PM

Maybe this is Shemar's way of testing the waters before he fully comes out.

by Anonymousreply 95August 15, 2016 7:58 PM

Shemar is pathetic. What women would care that he is gay? Black women laugh at him.

by Anonymousreply 96August 16, 2016 12:16 AM

People, you know what he saw in this guy? Silence. He wanted a fuck-buddy who would never out him. You know how difficult it must be to find someone so spineless, with such little personal integrity, and zero self esteem? Basically you've got to find a hooker who wants your money, but will also completely clam up. Even now the guy's not outing him. You just don't find a loser like that every day.

by Anonymousreply 97August 16, 2016 12:44 AM

R96 Black women believe Tyler Perry when he says he's straight. Sooo...

by Anonymousreply 98August 16, 2016 12:45 AM

You're probably right r97.

by Anonymousreply 99August 16, 2016 12:47 AM

I don't, r98, we're not all blind holy-rollers waiting for that type to find the "right woman."

by Anonymousreply 100August 16, 2016 12:47 AM

Shemar's boyfriend must be a real dumbass. He had it good as a kept man-- his sugar daddy set him up with a job (most likely well-paying and undemanding) and was showering him with cash, gifts, and trips, but he got greedy and killed the goose that laid the golden eggs.

by Anonymousreply 101August 16, 2016 1:02 AM

And showering...

by Anonymousreply 102August 16, 2016 1:03 AM

I don't either r98. What sensible black women want Tyler or Shemar? No thanks.

by Anonymousreply 103August 16, 2016 1:03 AM

SHE-mar is just too pretty and sort of weird looking. He does absolutely nothing for me. Who cares? Fraus? Queen, next.

by Anonymousreply 104August 16, 2016 1:04 AM

[quote]Black women believe Tyler Perry when he says he's straight. Sooo...

Lol. Gurl no.

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by Anonymousreply 105August 16, 2016 1:06 AM

sad, Shemar looks so HAPPY in R13's picture

I knew a guy who could make me smile like that; then, he left me hanging out to dry

I still miss him, God help me.

by Anonymousreply 106August 16, 2016 1:24 AM

Maybe Shemar is looking for a father figure.

I don't think he's that close to his Dad.

by Anonymousreply 107August 16, 2016 1:46 AM

R107 I thought that too, but then looked elsewhere. The OP photo is rather deceiving, as Keith is actually about four years younger than Shemar (42 and 46 respectively).

by Anonymousreply 108August 17, 2016 1:42 AM

r107 and 108, I think Shemar doesn't understand anything about relationships. Everything in his life is styled (poorly) within an inch of its existence. Now he thinks he can style himself as the new Denzel (for less money as if that would attract producers) when, in fact, CM will be the pinnacle of his career. He'll find some woman to marry in about 18-24 months and he'll go through those motions. It's sad really.

by Anonymousreply 109August 17, 2016 12:05 PM

I believe that Shemar is straight. A friend of mine used to work on Y&R. He's straight. Not a homosexual sexual bone on his body. Trust me on this.

by Anonymousreply 110August 17, 2016 12:25 PM

Shemar probably is straight. What gay guy would continually use the term 'baby girl' especially at his age. He's just socially awkward.

by Anonymousreply 111August 17, 2016 1:13 PM

I'm still grossed out by all the making out he'd do with guests on Ellen

by Anonymousreply 112August 17, 2016 1:32 PM

Shemar is too white in features for blacks to accept him and the whites find his skin too dark, thus he can't get a break and achieve what he should.

It's like Bette Davis is a great actress, but she's better than any of her male contemporaries, but couldn't get the recognition they did.

by Anonymousreply 113August 17, 2016 2:01 PM

He also looks like a black Ken doll which has limited appeal.

by Anonymousreply 114August 17, 2016 2:17 PM

R113 makes no sense. Neither do the other queens trying to define him racially or physically. Black and white folks find him attractive. Are some of you drunk??

by Anonymousreply 115August 17, 2016 4:51 PM

Normally i take all the " Hes gay ,hes gay " shit with a grain of salt , but in this case I really do think , where theres smoke , theres fire .

by Anonymousreply 116August 17, 2016 5:25 PM

Fire? FLAMES, r116. These are FLAMESSSSSSSS

by Anonymousreply 117August 17, 2016 5:38 PM

Did Keith steal Shemar's puffy shirt?!

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by Anonymousreply 118August 17, 2016 8:28 PM

[quote] Maybe Shemar is looking for a father figure.

He seems more your thin white boy type.

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by Anonymousreply 119August 17, 2016 10:01 PM

r115

No, blacks don't find him attractive, they think he's too white. And whites don't find him attractive as they think he's too black. He's stuck in the middle.

Just like Bette Davis who was a great actress but all of Hollywood said, she's GREAT for a woman, but what they meant is she's not up to any male actor.

by Anonymousreply 120August 17, 2016 10:19 PM

Now we know he's a bottom. Hung tops don't give cash and gifts.

by Anonymousreply 121August 17, 2016 10:48 PM

R120, I can assure you that looking "too white" in the black community is NOT a problem for most folks. My cousins and a few nieces and nephews are half-black, so trust me I know. If anything, the lighter your skin tone, the more they want to date you (so long as one of your bio parents is actually black, of course). Just look at the kinds of black women rappers, black athletes and celebrities date: all light skinned. The reverse is true too - admittedly to a lesser extent - but irredeemable asshole Chris Brown and mediocre, talentless Drake are still thriving, thanks to the support of black women.

by Anonymousreply 122August 17, 2016 11:13 PM

r113120, you're toxic and wrong. Go away.

by Anonymousreply 123August 17, 2016 11:16 PM

Here's hoping Michael Ealy bumps Shemar's ass off the map. Nothing finer than blue eyes!

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by Anonymousreply 124August 17, 2016 11:43 PM

[quote]No, blacks don't find him attractive, they think he's too white.

I just never understand what this means when I hear a Black person say this. How do you define Black, R120?

by Anonymousreply 125August 18, 2016 1:53 AM

[quote]Now we know he's a bottom. Hung tops don't give cash and gifts.

Shemar's nude pics have been out for a while.

So we already knew he was nothing impressive in the size department.

by Anonymousreply 126August 18, 2016 1:58 AM

Holy crap, did he REALLY say "no shade, just tea?" That's pretty much like coming out, isn't it?

by Anonymousreply 127August 18, 2016 2:10 AM

Shemar is objectively very attractive. The fact and body are unreal. However, I've never found him remotely sexy. He does nothing for me. As someone mentioned upthread, he's essentially a black Ken doll. He's very non-threatening sexually, so I can see his frau appeal.

by Anonymousreply 128August 18, 2016 2:13 AM

Yup, it is!

by Anonymousreply 129August 18, 2016 2:13 AM

^^^face and body...

by Anonymousreply 130August 18, 2016 2:13 AM

yeah I find him totally asexual too. That's what happens when you are in the public and in the closet. I can't imagine him smoking the pole or beating up the pussy.

by Anonymousreply 131August 18, 2016 2:40 AM

R87 It isn't black women. Whenever he shows up in my newsfeed on Facebook it's because a white woman between 35-55 liked something he posted. Most typically the women commenting and "hoping to be the one" are overweight to obese, lacking in education and the kind you expect to have multiple children (all with different dads). This is the low IQ crowd that behaves like trainwreck trash but always makes themselves feel better because "I love Jesus and at least I ain't a gay." These women talk to him in their posts like he's really going to pluck them up and ride off into the sunset.

by Anonymousreply 132August 18, 2016 3:08 AM

I'm hoping to be the one!

by Anonymousreply 133August 18, 2016 3:24 AM

He's gay, I think.

I'm gay; I could say I'm bi because I had sex with girls in college 20 years ago.

So if he's ever had sex with a woman I'm sure he'll say he's fluid or bi.

He'd lose his female fan base if they found out he was gay so he doesn't come out; why should he?

Would you throw away a rich livelihood if it meant coming out?

by Anonymousreply 134August 18, 2016 3:31 AM

Where are my baby girls tonight?

by Anonymousreply 135August 18, 2016 3:54 AM

R132 He is prince charming for his baby girls, a dream they hope would come true

by Anonymousreply 136August 18, 2016 3:57 AM

They should have had Shemar give Baby Girl pity sex before he left. She could have gotten pregnant and then imagine the hi jinks!

by Anonymousreply 137August 18, 2016 10:39 AM

[quote]I can assure you that looking "too white" in the black community is NOT a problem for most folks.

Then I can assure you, you don't know any black people. Black will always slam anyone of their own for looking or acting too white. Pointer Sisters, 5th Dimension, Whitney Houston were among just a few who were accused of being too white. "I'm Your Baby Tonight," was a deliberate attempt to "de-white" Whitney.

Sure people say Shemar is good looking and he is, that isn't the issue. Shemar is too white for black folks, they'll look at him but don't want to marry him, nor do white folks.

To put it in language a Datalounger can under stand, As Blair said to her friend who tried to rape Jo, "I see, so there are some kinds of girls you marry and others who you don't."

And to reuse the Bette Davis analogy, people would say she's a great actor, for a WOMAN. Meaning that she is great but only for a woman, not if you were to put her in competition with a man.

Why do you think they have a "best actress" category? Obviously acting is one arena where men and woman can compete equally.

by Anonymousreply 138August 18, 2016 12:40 PM

Shemar is straight. He is very gay friendly, but he likes to have sex with women. For reasons unrelated to sexual orientation, some men really are really picky when it comes to choosing a female mate and some men really are confirmed bachelors who get set in their ways. Sometimes all it takes is the right woman to come along and change their outlook. I can think of one woman in particular who could change this man's outlook, wink wink, but alas our paths will probably never cross.

by Anonymousreply 139August 19, 2016 3:40 AM

And he just "accidentally" wondered onto a gay, nude beach, R139?

by Anonymousreply 140August 19, 2016 2:52 PM

HOW COULD HE HAVE KNOWN R140??

by Anonymousreply 141August 19, 2016 2:53 PM

R139 I certainly hope you're Facebook messaging him pictures of your boobs. I know once he meets you..... 😆😆😆

by Anonymousreply 142August 19, 2016 9:43 PM

R138, the black community doesn't like black people who 'act white', but I can assure you that 'looking white' (being mixed/light-skinned) is [italic]not[/italic] a problem for the vast majority of them. Colorism is rampant in the black community, so Shemar being mixed definitely isn't the issue here. Black women think he's hot, but they can tell he's gay so most of them don't bother fawning over him, and black men feel threatened by the 'light-skinned pretty boy', so if they dislike him, that's why. No one thinks Shemar acts 'too white' but you 138. He speaks and types black, not to mention that Tyler Perry movie he did years ago, so in the eyes of the black community, 'he cool'.

by Anonymousreply 143August 20, 2016 12:24 AM

Gayger.

by Anonymousreply 144August 20, 2016 12:27 AM

He was near the gay portion of the beach.

he quipped: I guess that makes me 'nearly gay'

by Anonymousreply 145August 20, 2016 12:46 AM

Sometimes extremely attractive straight men like the attention of gay men. It helps to bolster self-esteem issues, but there is absolutely nothing even remotely sexual about it. That's what the visit to the gay nude beach was all about. Nothing more, nothing less. Nothing to see here, so let's move it along, ok.

by Anonymousreply 146August 20, 2016 1:49 AM

Then why was he totally naked at the beach, R146?

by Anonymousreply 147August 20, 2016 1:54 AM

r147, again, maybe he liked the attention and admiration of gay men. Gay men are attracted to beautiful men like Shemar. He knows that, and he wanted some attention. Again, nothing sexual about that in the least. A lot of straight men keep up their physiques to be admired by other men, not by women. OK, got it?? Let's try to nip these gay rumors in the bud once and for all, because that's all they ever were...rumors! The curse of gorgeous straight celebs!

by Anonymousreply 148August 20, 2016 2:05 AM

Methinks the lady doth protest to much, R146.

by Anonymousreply 149August 20, 2016 2:06 AM

what? But I thought only brazilians robbed

by Anonymousreply 150August 20, 2016 2:17 AM

$10,000 rims ? I'd rim him for a lot less.

by Anonymousreply 151August 20, 2016 2:21 AM

Shemar is now poz.

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by Anonymousreply 152December 25, 2020 2:00 AM

Who is Jon Moody?

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by Anonymousreply 153December 25, 2020 2:22 AM

I know thr post is from 2016 but this:

[quote]And whites don't find him attractive as they think he's too black.

Is not a thing. White people don't think like this. If he's hot, he's hot. We don't think... well he's good looking but his blackness level is too high so it cancels it out. Only black people think like that. "Too white / not black enough" etc.

by Anonymousreply 154December 25, 2020 2:25 AM

[quote] he wasn’t man enough to look me in the eye and fess up

Well face it Shemar. The guy had gotten to sued to looking you in the crotch. He just forgot to get off his knees when you confronted him.

by Anonymousreply 155December 25, 2020 2:26 AM

"too used" Damn my fingers don't want to work tonight.

by Anonymousreply 156December 25, 2020 2:27 AM

R153 a really cool modern artist. He's done pieces for lots of famous people

he's also done some reality tv

by Anonymousreply 157December 25, 2020 2:28 AM

Thanks, r157.

by Anonymousreply 158December 25, 2020 2:34 AM

Dance dance dance

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by Anonymousreply 159December 25, 2020 2:35 AM

You know who it is.

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by Anonymousreply 160December 25, 2020 2:42 AM

Ladies Love...

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by Anonymousreply 161December 25, 2020 2:46 AM
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