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Patrick Swayze DIED Battered — Two-Timing Wife Left Him Lying In Filth

In his tragic last days, wasting away from savage pancreatic cancer, Patrick Swayze was imprisoned in a house of horrors – deserted by his cheating, abusive wife, who left the dying star to wallow in his own filth!

That’s the shocking charge by one of the “Dirty Dancing” icon’s closest friends, who rips the lid off what was believed to be a Hollywood fairy-tale marriage that lasted 34 years, ending when Patrick, 57, died of cancer on Sept 14, 2009.

the Ghost star hid a dark secret and actually died from a broken heart — because Niemi had several affairs with both men AND women.

“He loved her with all his heart but it was a serious love-hate relationship,” the longtime friend told Radar.

“She would beat on him and he would beat on the walls and furniture. They fought and I covered up a lot of that — they destroyed hotel rooms, cars, their house …. It was abusive.”

When asked if Niemi would hit Swayze during his 21-month cancer fight, the friend told Radar: “Oh yeah, it didn’t matter. She wouldn’t hit him with stuff — she would claw at his arms and neck. She would punch and slap him.”

“As he got sick, he was defenseless,” his pal added.

“Cancer bought him from 180 pounds to 90 pounds. She always had to upper hand because he wouldn’t hit her. He was adamant about never ever laying his hands on her.”

“Lisa would be gone for hours doing whatever she was doing and Donnie would come in and Patrick would be lying in his own feces and pee,” the pal said.

The friend who spent years with Swayze and another family insider said Niemi was an “evil” moody control freak who was in charge of every aspect of the actor’s life, his money, movie roles even how much he could spend at the store.

Swayze’s childhood friend, Charlotte Stevens, told Radar she encouraged the star to dump Niemi, who he married in 1975, because of several affairs known only to his family and close friends.

“We would talk like old friends, like what was going on in our lives and [the affairs] would come up,” Stevens, 63, told Radar.

“I would tell him, ‘You mean to tell me she’s having these affairs and you haven’t stepped out on her?’ And he would say, ‘No I don’t want it used against me.”

The humiliated hunk however was hooked on a promise he made to his mother Patsy to never divorce Niemi for fear that she would reveal a dark secret that would ruin his career.

“Patsy said to me that she made Patrick promise he’d never divorce Lisa until she [Patsy] was dead… and Lisa threatened to reveal it…. and it would be a scandal… that would hurt maybe someone plus hurt the Swayze family,” Joan wrote in an April 27, 2016 post.

Two months before Swayze died, Niemi, now 60 and remarried, stunned all of Swayze’s friends and family by banning anyone from visiting him at their California home called “Rancho Bizarro.”

Even more stunning, Swayze wasn’t allowed to leave. “She wouldn’t let me see him two months before he died!” the pal complained. “She wouldn’t even let him go outside the ranch… She pretty much kept him prisoner.”

“He’d call me a 2 a.m. after she had already passed out and we would talk at that time!” the friend claimed. “It was unusual but yet again that was Lisa, she was that way.”

It was during the same two-month period that Swayze signed a new will that left his entire $40 million estate to Niemi and absolutely nothing to his family.

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by Anonymousreply 67January 25, 2019 12:52 AM

She got sick of his drunk gay tantrums.

He danced at Adonis you know.

by Anonymousreply 1July 11, 2016 12:49 AM

The man is cold and dead already so like what's up? Will the bitch admit she did all this?

by Anonymousreply 2July 11, 2016 12:51 AM

Some girls I worked with at Saks many years ago were working at a Florida resort which was hosting a big celebrity charity event (golf tournament maybe?) which the Swayzes were part of.

They actually heard HIM beating the shit out of HER in their suite....EVERY NIGHT THEY WERE THERE!!!

It was years before I knew them, and it came up when he died. I have no reason not to believe them, they were my friends for years .

by Anonymousreply 3July 11, 2016 12:52 AM

Why didn't they call ten police?

I believe it but EVERY NIGHT? No. That did not happen every night.

by Anonymousreply 4July 11, 2016 1:02 AM

I read somewhere that in their early years, he was the abusive one and would cheat on her while he was away filming. He also had bad substance abuse issues.

by Anonymousreply 5July 11, 2016 1:06 AM

sizemeat?

by Anonymousreply 6July 11, 2016 1:08 AM

I've never believed that supportive relationship while he was dying and after. He probably bamboozled her by pretending to be straight. Sounds like she was deeply betrayed and offended. Just never bought it and I kinda loved him. But that wasn't a genuine marriage but one of convenience. This story does not surprize.

by Anonymousreply 7July 11, 2016 6:39 AM

R7 She's bamboozled, but chose to stay for 34 years? On top of the abuse?

The conveniences had to outweigh leaving him. Dysfunction takes two.

by Anonymousreply 8July 11, 2016 7:02 AM

You DO know he had the AIDS and they covered it up with the "cancer" story.

by Anonymousreply 9July 11, 2016 10:02 AM

Anything is possible but I find it a bit hard to believe that Swayze was married to her for decades only because she blackmailed him. "Friends" many times have no idea what is really going on behind the scenes.

The friend here said Niemi is bisexual. I have no trouble believing Swayze was bi or gay as well and their marriage was in fact a bearding arrangement. He always pinged for me but who knows.

by Anonymousreply 10July 11, 2016 11:04 AM

He's dead, let him rest in peace. I'm sure he gave as good as he got during the early years of his married life.

by Anonymousreply 11July 14, 2016 9:06 AM

That he died of AIDS is a nice theory, but it doesn't square with the fact he was enrolled in a clinical cancer trial at Stanford University.

by Anonymousreply 12July 14, 2016 9:17 AM

Liver cancer from drinking, I'm sure.

He is like Robert Downey Jr. in that he's such a good actor no one cares if he was gay or straight or a substance abuser.

by Anonymousreply 13July 14, 2016 9:28 AM

If he did have aids, where's the evidence? There's a strong indication he had an aggressive form of cancer. Either through being a chain smoker or his history of substance abuse.

by Anonymousreply 14July 14, 2016 9:43 AM

The redneck icon doing To Wong Foo was proof he was a good egg. And he kissed a man! He shocked them into 21st Century. So he was flawed and drank himself to death. That's what redneck tough guys do. Very sad if this story is true.

by Anonymousreply 15July 14, 2016 9:46 AM

[quote] He is like Robert Downey Jr. in that he's such a good actor no one cares if he was gay or straight or a substance abuser.

Honestly, neither are or were great actors. People like Downey Jr. because he rose from an almost certain circle of self-destruction and they loved Swayze because they loved his films from the 80s and then later were nostalgic about them. Unfortunately many Swayze or Downey Jr. fans wouldn't want to hear they are bi or gay. Booze and drugs don't matter that much.

by Anonymousreply 16July 14, 2016 12:26 PM

[quote]Why didn't they call ten police?

I think even eight would have done it. Yes, eight is enough.

by Anonymousreply 17July 14, 2016 1:16 PM

I think there is a straight man crush thing with both of them r16.

by Anonymousreply 18July 14, 2016 1:26 PM

Who would have thought?

by Anonymousreply 19July 14, 2016 1:47 PM

What nonsense. Everyone, including g rich actors, gets hospice care at home when they reach the point of incontinence. He was in a clinical research program.

by Anonymousreply 20July 14, 2016 5:05 PM

Wasn't there a rumour that he had an affair with Lesley Anne Down, early in the making of North & South.

by Anonymousreply 21July 14, 2016 7:22 PM

Yeah, it's scientifically impossible to abuse dying people, as everyone knows.

by Anonymousreply 22July 14, 2016 7:37 PM

When you look at some of his movies, they're terrible. I never understood how he made it so big. He always struck me as a straight to video B movie star.

by Anonymousreply 23July 14, 2016 7:55 PM

R23, I always thought his fans were mostly women since he was a heartthrob kind of star when in his prime. When his looks faded he stopped getting good roles even though he had been in some iconic films earlier. I recently watched Road House and there's no denying he was charming and sexy. He certainly wasn't the most versatile actor out there which obviously worked against him as well.

by Anonymousreply 24July 15, 2016 9:10 AM

Yeah, I get what you mean, but Road House isn't exactly A list territory. He was in some signature 80's films, but then did a ton B movies and C list shit.

by Anonymousreply 25July 15, 2016 9:21 AM

Road House is totally a nasty and violent B movie, but it's so 80s that I couldn't help but love it. Most of his films certainly were trash but then again loads of big stars made trashy films in the 80s.. He was already 35 when Dirty Dancing came out and his time in big films only lasted a few years since his last hugely successful film Point Break came out only 4 years later. I mean sure there were some bigger productions later as well but it seems Ghost was the height of his career and it was all downhill after that. Even in Point Break he was practically supporting Keanu Reeves.

I was a teen in the 80s and I vaguely remember thinking he's hot but that he's not the greatest actor around. Some of my female classmates were crazy about Dirty Dancing and obviously about him. For some reason I never cared too much about him so when his terminal cancer was revealed I was a bit surprised how well liked he was.

by Anonymousreply 26July 15, 2016 9:54 AM

Sounds like total BS!

by Anonymousreply 27July 15, 2016 10:00 AM

Gvygyyfvygb

by Anonymousreply 28July 15, 2016 11:50 AM

What to believe! From the main poster saying he was abused by a bitch on 'roids' lived in filth and held a prisoner and had no control over his life! How is this possible? Those comments are 180 degrees from other comments made about him and even a couple saying he was the abuser! How can people who claim to be his friends have these dichotomist comments? As to his regrets of not having children, in one blog it was mentioned he had a one night stand with an underage mother (and he was 20) which resulted in a pregnancy, and that this guy is having a DNA test made to prove Patrick's paternity. It seems his mother died in 2012 and before she died revealed that his father was Patrick ! In fact a early picture of him makes him look like Patrick's twin! My take on all of this I believe he was bisexual, and his wife knew it, but she did not want to 'kill' the cash cow (he was worth $40M!) and like a good 'beard' (ha) put up with his sexual proclivities to keep up the front that he was one hot hunk in a happy marriage and she was HIS WIFE!

by Anonymousreply 29September 21, 2018 4:55 PM

If all of the allegations are true, it sounds like Swayze was horrible to his wife when they fought. He had no problem with hitting women if he could beat her on a nightly basis.

When he became terminally ill, the wife took the low road and gave him the payback when he was unable to defend himself.

They had their own Woody/Mia thing going.

I would imagine the widow could file a huge lawsuit for libel if this friend has no proof to back up this interview. Who could tolerate a friend that tortured her dying husband like that?

by Anonymousreply 30September 21, 2018 5:09 PM

Self-centered people think a relative dying of cancer is too icky to deal with. When my father was dying of cancer, my bitch sister left me to be his main caretaker at age 13. She was 10yrs older, lived in town, and we didn't see her for months at a time.

by Anonymousreply 31September 21, 2018 5:10 PM

I don’t believe this at all.

by Anonymousreply 32September 21, 2018 6:51 PM

He had a nice ass but he couldn't beat the AIDS

by Anonymousreply 33September 21, 2018 7:25 PM

[QUOTE]I don’t believe this at all.

You also think he’s still alive? I thought I was the only one.

by Anonymousreply 34September 21, 2018 7:27 PM

R29 it happens. My dad was a vicious alcoholic and wife beater. In his final years, my mom had complete control and she made him suffer.

I don't know what to think about this mess, though.

by Anonymousreply 35September 21, 2018 7:31 PM

His family has been feeding these stories to the National Enquirer since his death. I don't know if it's true or if they were pissed they didn't get money. My mom had a subscription. Donnie and the family were non stop on this and even said she had forged the last will while family friends expressed shock he didnt leave them more of the estate. What struck me was that he was supporting his mother and siblings and had for a long time. One brother had lived for years rent free in one of their houses, I think with the mom, and Lisa told them they needed to leave after he died. Their children complained to the NE they were being "kicked off" the property. Apparently he was supporting Donnie too. I think Lisa just got tired of their mooching. My mom is dead but everyonce in a while at the grocery store I see they are bitching to the NE again.

by Anonymousreply 36September 21, 2018 7:40 PM

So what was the dark secret? I think the gay theory is too obvious, it must have been something else.

by Anonymousreply 37September 21, 2018 7:41 PM

I'm guessing the family is pissed he changed the will to leave nothing for them so we get these stories.

by Anonymousreply 38September 21, 2018 7:46 PM

I thought his mom loved Lisa who was also her student.

by Anonymousreply 39September 21, 2018 7:48 PM

Radaronline is equal to or one step down from Crazy Days and Nights. Good luck believing their gossip.

by Anonymousreply 40September 21, 2018 7:52 PM

Swayze had pancreatic smoking, which is caused by SMOKING.

by Anonymousreply 41September 21, 2018 7:58 PM

I don't believe the beating stuff. I'll forever like him for Donnie Darko and To Wong Fu. And if Lisa kicked his family out of the home after he died, then that's wrong. He should have provided for them after his death.

by Anonymousreply 42September 21, 2018 8:03 PM

R41 I know several people who died from pancreatic cancer who never smoked nor were they around smokers. Anyone can get any kind of cancer.

by Anonymousreply 43September 21, 2018 8:04 PM

I am shocked that at a GAY site people are still so clueless about AIDS.

AIDS is not a disease. It is a syndrome caused by a very deficient immune system. When one's immune system is seriously compromised it is quite reasonable that one will develop cancer. In fact, it's likely that 75% of those who succumb to AIDS had some sort of cancer when they died. So, cancer is but one element which may be present in the diagnosis of AIDS.

But even so, people will still claim, "Robert Reed did not die of AIDS, he died of colon cancer." I certainly understand that sort of thinking in the straight community, but not here.

by Anonymousreply 44September 21, 2018 8:12 PM

R43 smokers have a greater rusk for that type of cancer.

by Anonymousreply 45September 21, 2018 8:21 PM

So was he really gay/bi or were that just DL rumours?

by Anonymousreply 46September 21, 2018 8:41 PM

Swayze could've been HIV+ and still died of cancer. AIDs is the gateway to all kinds of diseases, including Cancer, that usually kill the patient.

by Anonymousreply 47September 21, 2018 8:44 PM

Nobody beats Baby in a corner.

by Anonymousreply 48September 21, 2018 8:50 PM

r45, Smokers are over twice as likely to get pancreatic cancer (as well as 20-30% more likely to get any other cancer) Swayze was a heavy smoker for many years.

by Anonymousreply 49September 21, 2018 10:14 PM

Did Rafael Alancar say he tricked with PZ?

by Anonymousreply 50September 21, 2018 10:26 PM

He was known for beating her up.

by Anonymousreply 51September 21, 2018 10:55 PM

That’s pretty unbelievable to me, because his PR was so effective, that he was a sensitive dancer. Their not having children points to a beard marriage.

by Anonymousreply 52September 21, 2018 10:59 PM

Swayze is another AIDS death cover up.

by Anonymousreply 53September 22, 2018 10:35 AM

Some couples like fighting as a prelude to sex. It's a turn on for weak minded types. That sounds like their relationship.

by Anonymousreply 54September 22, 2018 12:24 PM

Vintage gossip:

“Swayze, Patrick. $cientologist. FOD*. Alcohol problem.”

*FOD=Friend of Dorothy

He seemed like a nice dude and people of all types liked his particular persona. I don’t believe either one was solely abusive. I think it was more mutual.

by Anonymousreply 55September 22, 2018 12:50 PM

Where is " The Closet Kills" Troll when you need him ?

by Anonymousreply 56September 22, 2018 12:57 PM

Yes he could've had AIDS and still died of cancer. But it is unlikely that a clinical trial for pancreatic cancer would enroll someone with an immune system compromised by AIDS. That's not how those things work. Also, why does DL want to diagnose every celebrity who dies with AIDS?

by Anonymousreply 57September 22, 2018 1:07 PM

I was a recurring extra on the beast when it filmed in Chicago. There was something going on between Lisa and Patrick that was negative but I have no idea what it was. And I saw them every day.

by Anonymousreply 58September 22, 2018 1:08 PM

I dont believe the physical abuse thing on either side.........I do think Swayze was mostly gay....he used high end escorts and the marriage was a PR thing most likely as an educated guess on my part. His family is probably ticked at the terms of the will so you get the scandals..............Swayze would have been a lot smarter to have spread more of the money around at the end to avoid this kind of stuff.

by Anonymousreply 59September 22, 2018 8:06 PM

For me it's hard to believe all of these 'postings'! He's portrayed a total whose in his relationship with his wife and on the other hand he is portrayed as the abuser! The thing is all of this contradictory info. comes from their so-called intimate friends! What to believe? Also, what was this deep dark family secret that his mother wanted him to keep (by not divorcing his wife)? If the secret was that reveling it would ruin his career (and this was the 80'tees) smack of the gay thing? IMHO I really felt he was gay and his marriage was a typical 'Beard' arrangement--benefiting him in his relationships (and hookups) with men and for her in being married to a movie icon and one who was quite wealthy! [I only saw him in only one movie and that was Ghost (my all time favorite) and every time he appeared in a scene my 'gaydar' would go bonkers!--just say'en] lol.

by Anonymousreply 60January 16, 2019 9:53 PM

Patrick physically abused his wife throughout their marriage.

by Anonymousreply 61January 16, 2019 9:56 PM

I wondered why he made that cop show as he was obviously dying. She made him do it.

by Anonymousreply 62January 16, 2019 9:59 PM

whoopi refused to be on The View when Lisa appeared.

by Anonymousreply 63January 25, 2019 12:43 AM

You are forbidden from gossiping about what I do not want you to gossip about! I am in control here!

by Anonymousreply 64January 25, 2019 12:50 AM

[quote]Wasn't there a rumour that he had an affair with Lesley Anne Down, early in the making of North & South.

They were both gorgeous in that, the only time I found Swayze attractive

by Anonymousreply 65January 25, 2019 12:51 AM

Sad.

by Anonymousreply 66January 25, 2019 12:52 AM

[quote] Did Rafael Alancar say he tricked with PZ?

Keep in mind that Rafael Alencar once literally made the claim he has been hired to fuck entire [italic]families,[/italic] from the kids to the grandma.

I seriously doubt you can trust anything he says.

by Anonymousreply 67January 25, 2019 12:52 AM
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