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Famous gay people who make your skin crawl?

Carson Kressley, Johnny Weir, and Andre Leon Talley. I can't help it, but seeing any of these 3 in the media make me feel....icky.

by Anonymousreply 33508/06/2020

Ross Matthews

Frankie Grande

by Anonymousreply 105/12/2016

They said the same thing about you You make them feel icky

by Anonymousreply 205/12/2016

Elton John

by Anonymousreply 305/12/2016

I so agree about Johnny Weir.....ewwww, just EWWWWW!

by Anonymousreply 405/12/2016

Dan Savage. He is one of the few gay activists I just can't stand.

by Anonymousreply 505/12/2016

Johnny Weir, Frankie Grande, Zachary Quinto, Andy Cohen, Bruce Jenner, Fredrik Eklund, Neil Patrick Harris, Kevin Spacey

by Anonymousreply 605/12/2016

It isn't Johnny Weirs fem side that bothers me. It is the fact that he seems to be trying to be a queen. It doesn't come across as natural to me. It feels a bit forced.

by Anonymousreply 705/12/2016

[quote]It isn't Johnny Weirs fem side that bothers me. It is the fact that he seems to be trying to be a queen. It doesn't come across as natural to me. It feels a bit forced.

I liked him as a skater, but the whole "Johnny and Tara" persona he has now on NBC does feel forced, like he's doing a parody of himself. And somehow their vapid banter together reminds me of Jim J. Bullock and Tammy Faye Bakker.

by Anonymousreply 805/12/2016

R7: It is the fact that he seems to be trying to be a queen.

Trying and succeeding.

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by Anonymousreply 905/12/2016

Not surprising that DL hates out gay men but it's still disappointing.

My vote is for Ricky Gervais and Al Roker.

by Anonymousreply 1005/12/2016

Camille Paglia and Andrew Sullivan.

by Anonymousreply 1105/12/2016

So, as ever, every single famous gay man?

by Anonymousreply 1205/12/2016

R10, is Al Roker gay? I never heard that before.

by Anonymousreply 1305/12/2016

Al Roker is gay???

Perez Hilton, Lou Pearlman, Bobby Trendy, Luka Magnotta

by Anonymousreply 1405/12/2016

Ricky Gervais is gay?? I agree that he's really irritating/not funny.

by Anonymousreply 1505/12/2016

R14 Luka Magnotta has claimed to be bisexual and you never want to argue with a psychotic murderer.

by Anonymousreply 1605/12/2016

I hate op and r6

by Anonymousreply 1705/12/2016

R7 agree with you about the forced "queenie" schtick . Beneath all those feather and glitter, I bet there is rock hard, throbbing 8 inch cock , just waiting for my mouth and ass. Yes, beneath all that glitter, is the heart of a raging all top man. You guys have to admit he has a rocking body...

I can dream can't I?

by Anonymousreply 1805/12/2016

Al Roker isn't gay but most TV weatherman are for some reason. Or a least quite a few.

I met Carson K out in the bars in NYC once or twice and honestly he is as sweet as they come.

by Anonymousreply 1905/12/2016

Danny Pintauro has always given me douche chills and now I know why.

by Anonymousreply 2005/12/2016

Dan Savage

Andy Cohen

Anderson Cooper

by Anonymousreply 2105/12/2016

Anderson I think is handsome and a gentleman.

Andy Cohen and his sister Ryan Seacrest I detest because of how they created a bunch of nobodies into trash celebrities.

by Anonymousreply 2205/12/2016

Each one that we know are gay but are in the closet, especially the ones that resort to bearding and fake relationships. It makes my skin crawl because it makes me sick how some people are so desperate for fame and money that they will sell their soul and live a lie.

by Anonymousreply 2305/12/2016

Speaking of figure skaters - Evan Lysacek and Jeremy Abbott

Arsenio Hall

Mark Harris

by Anonymousreply 2405/12/2016

Andy REALLY gives me the creeps. WHO the HELL is he looking at???

Perez Hilton is another one. Very slimy.

For some strange reason, guys on here LOVE Steve Kornacki. He's very odd with a misshapen head. Yuck.

by Anonymousreply 2505/12/2016

Johnny Weir strikes me as a canny businessman. He figured out what sells. Can you even name another former professional skater that has a career on a broadcast network station hosting non-skating events?

I saw a segment on Weir years ago. He showed just a glimpse of what skating was like, he was standing in a trash can full of icy water, I guess it has something to do with sports injuries. Weir has a persona of some queeny guy, but skating is a very demanding sport, you have to be very personally disciplined and your parents have to support you as a child and pay for skating expenses so you can do it. That means working two jobs and driving a child to some distant rink at all hours. Weir is well aware that people sacrificed for him. He sacrificed for himself, so he could be a success.

He did a documentary on gays in Russia pursuing skating. He was very serious and you could tell, a bit world-weary. Skating has traditionally not been gay friendly, although it's full of gays. He got points taken off for dressing queeny although he skated well. Skating is a rough life, after all that hard work now they don't have all the lucrative ice shows Olympic skaters could make professional money doing. Weir has adapted and made himself a larger than life persona to take in the money.

I think Weir is a person whose career fell at the end of one epoch and the beginning of another. Olympic skaters have to perform before judges from very homophobic countries and it takes balls to be out like he was, when it was not guaranteed to be accepted at all. He's got my respect, silly hats and all. That's show business.

by Anonymousreply 2605/12/2016

Richard Simmons

by Anonymousreply 2705/12/2016

Lonnie Quinn

by Anonymousreply 2805/12/2016

R28 Anyone named Lonnie makes my skin crawl.

by Anonymousreply 2905/12/2016

Dan Savage

Perez Hilton

by Anonymousreply 3005/12/2016

Terry

by Anonymousreply 3105/12/2016

Dan Savage

Perez Hilton

Bobby Trendy

Johnny Weir

Cheyenne Jackson

by Anonymousreply 3205/12/2016

Charles Laughton. His breath was so foul.

by Anonymousreply 3305/12/2016

Those silly Ashmore queens... I mean twins.

by Anonymousreply 3405/12/2016

Michael Jackson

by Anonymousreply 3505/12/2016

Ken Mehlmann

Perez Hilton

Milo Yiannopoulos

by Anonymousreply 3605/12/2016

Ronan Farrow

by Anonymousreply 3705/12/2016

Oprah Winfrey times 1000!!!

The sight of her makes my skin crawl, and I am not the sensitive type.

by Anonymousreply 3805/12/2016

Two more votes for Bobby Trendy and Richard Simmons. They're strong arguments in favor of gay-bashing, and gays would be the first in line.

by Anonymousreply 3905/12/2016

Rachel Maddow

by Anonymousreply 4005/12/2016

The late Arthur Laurents.

by Anonymousreply 4105/12/2016

Elton Joan John Barrowman Osama Bin Laden

by Anonymousreply 4205/12/2016

Anyone who seems inauthentic, and the three people the OP mentions fit that. As does that horrid Grande cockroach.

R13 is repulsive, which isn't quite the same as making one's skin crawl.

by Anonymousreply 4305/12/2016

Rip Taylor

by Anonymousreply 4405/12/2016

Jesse Tyler Ferguson makes me want to vomit.

by Anonymousreply 4505/12/2016

Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Dan savage. Dan, in particular.

by Anonymousreply 4605/12/2016

Burt Reynolds, Dan Savage. Never really liked Red Skelton either. I knew from day one Bill Cosbey was a fake.and couldn't bring myself to watch his TV show.

by Anonymousreply 4705/12/2016

Leon Brittan

by Anonymousreply 4805/12/2016

Bryan Singer

by Anonymousreply 4905/12/2016

Putin.

by Anonymousreply 5005/12/2016

Frankie Grande and his sister. They remind of those lower social heir people that work at the evebrow threading establishments offer found at Wal-Mart stores

by Anonymousreply 5105/12/2016

Heir = heir. ( just had my nails done by a nice Vietnamese lady)

by Anonymousreply 5205/12/2016

Heir=tier. ( a Cuban lady waxed my miff-miff)

by Anonymousreply 5305/12/2016

R51 - what is a lower social heir? What is evebrow threading?

by Anonymousreply 5405/12/2016

Perhaps famous only on DL and in certain Palm Springs Instagram circles, but Mrs. Dan Savage is everything I was scared I might grow up to be when I discovered I was gay: the vapid fiftysomething West Hollywood permatan twink try-too-hard.

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by Anonymousreply 5505/12/2016

Bear with me , I am riding the green line on the DC metro, it is crowded and people of color and dubious social standing are violating my personal space. Additionally I cannot understand the Ebonics announcing the station stops. I am perplexed and afraid and in need of a facial.

by Anonymousreply 5605/12/2016

John Travolta

Neil Patrick Harris

Robin Roberts

Clay Aiken

Nate Berkus

Kate Mckinnon

Adam Lambert

Frankie Grande is NOT famous. He's a freeloading wannabe, riding on his sister's coattails.

by Anonymousreply 5705/12/2016

Lindsay Graham

by Anonymousreply 5805/12/2016

You need to give a reason why these people skeve you out. Otherwise it's just homophobia.

by Anonymousreply 5905/12/2016

OK, r59.

When I was just figuring things out and wondering why I didn't feel in step with the guys my age at clubs, etc. (this was before the Internet), I'd also notice older men vainly (in every sense of the word) trying to clutch on to their faded youth. Some of them were awful, some would have made fine-looking fellows if they'd just embraced their age, but the spectacle of 50- and 55-year-olds in Aberzombie wear and rubber bracelets and tan-in-a-can made me worry for my own future.

I think kids today see more possibilities, thank God. But that's why I recoil when I see someone like Terry Miller.

by Anonymousreply 6005/12/2016

R60 Perfect!

by Anonymousreply 6105/12/2016

Gertrude Stein

by Anonymousreply 6205/12/2016

Scott Rudin. Vile in every way.

by Anonymousreply 6305/12/2016

Two biggest: Frankie Grande and Johnny Weir. Jesse Tyler Ferguson would be next.

Don't get the replies about Weir "trying too hard" to be a queen. I think ALL nelly queens are purposely putting on an act that, for some ungodly reason they think is either cute or endearing. No one is naturally that repulsive.

by Anonymousreply 6405/12/2016

I know someone who knows Weir very well for several years now. I've never actually asked anything about him because I just don't care, but I know this person absolutely loves him.

by Anonymousreply 6505/12/2016

Caitlyn Jenner

by Anonymousreply 6605/12/2016

[quote] You need to give a reason why these people skeve you out. Otherwise it's just homophobia.

Oh fuck off!!! And any "famous straight people" who make my skin crawl is simply because of heterophobia?

by Anonymousreply 6705/12/2016

1) The detestable Fankie Grnde and his half-sister, Arianus Grande. These two self-entitled cunts give self-entitlement a bad name.

2) The overly stereotypical shrieking homo Ross Mathews. Jesus, bitch, take it down about 20 notches. No one wants to hear that ear-shattering screeching that passes for your voice. It's like having someone stick an icepick into your ear.

3) Bruce "Caitlyn" Jenner. Until Bruce chops off his dick, he's still a dude, and his pandering to right-wing turds like Ted Cruz are an insult to gays everywhere. The cunt is a tranny, not a transsexual. His wife, Ms. Kardouchian, absolutely deserves a hot mess like Bruce Jenner.

by Anonymousreply 6805/12/2016

Watching Ross Matthews is like stepping in a puddle of HIV. I DETEST that person. Screaming fat queen of mediocre intelligence.

by Anonymousreply 6905/12/2016

Ross Mathews Billy Eichner, the aspies Jew Lance Bass -- not attractive

by Anonymousreply 7005/12/2016

[quote] Perhaps famous only on DL and in certain Palm Springs Instagram circles, but Mrs. Dan Savage is everything I was scared I might grow up to be when I discovered I was gay: the vapid fiftysomething West Hollywood permatan twink try-too-hard.

Gah, yes. Hate him. He's so obnoxious.

by Anonymousreply 7105/12/2016

R67 No, you are just an ass.

by Anonymousreply 7205/12/2016

I found the late Freddie Mercury quite creepy, something to do with the buck teeth..

by Anonymousreply 7305/12/2016

Any of those snippy, snappy, swishy ones. They're hard to tell apart.

by Anonymousreply 7405/12/2016

Bravo was actually gayer before Andy Cohen got to it, back when it was a fine arts channel. And of course my cable company didn't add it until he dumbed it down with that Real Housewives shit.

by Anonymousreply 7505/12/2016

Michael Strahan

by Anonymousreply 7605/12/2016

Ah.... the latest in the ongoing popular Datalounge series "Who Do You Hate?"

by Anonymousreply 7705/12/2016

Angelina Jolie who is kinda gay, right?

by Anonymousreply 7805/12/2016

Rosie O

Johnny Weir

Andy Cohen is the worst of the worst.

by Anonymousreply 7905/12/2016

Milo Yiannopoulos

Ken Mehlman

Dan Savage

Ted Haggard

Larry Craig

by Anonymousreply 8005/12/2016

Savage and Degeneres.

by Anonymousreply 8105/12/2016

George Michael - I feel sorry for him but just yuckkk.

Love Weir though and agree with post upthread that he's recreated himself in a very difficult world for ex-skaters. Don't care for that dimwit Lycacek but I guess he can't help it that he's stupid. NPH seems pretty dense, as well.

Stephen Fry is often annoying - Elton always is.

Love Wanda Sykes, Ellen, even Rosie O'Donnell. Can't think of a Lesbian I hate but the one from that Twilight series seems as empty as a box of hair.

by Anonymousreply 8205/12/2016

Ross, Richard, Johnny, the "leave Britney alone" guy, et al: Not politically correct, but there it is.

by Anonymousreply 8305/12/2016

I agree with r23.

by Anonymousreply 8405/12/2016

Jodie "Turkey Baster" Foster.

Get that donkey in pumps and you've got problems.

by Anonymousreply 8505/12/2016

Ellen Degeneres

Gwyneth Paltrow

Jodie Foster

by Anonymousreply 8605/12/2016

[quote] Ah.... the latest in the ongoing popular Datalounge series "Who Do You Hate?" [quote] —DL, stuck in the 7th grade forever

Long before the 7th grade I knew that "Whom Do You Hate?" was grammatically correct.

by Anonymousreply 8705/12/2016

[quote]but the spectacle of 50- and 55-year-olds in Aberzombie wear and rubber bracelets and tan-in-a-can made me worry for my own future.

I knew I forgot someone...Mike Jeffries

by Anonymousreply 8805/12/2016

And how did we get to 88 replies without someone mentioning Dustin Lance Black???

by Anonymousreply 8905/12/2016

Log Cabin Republicans

by Anonymousreply 9005/12/2016

Carson K, sweetheart of a guy. Naturally fey. Also warm, kind, and polite.

by Anonymousreply 9105/12/2016

These threads always fill up fast. You can always count on some anti-gay or anti-gay male thread to have 100 posts in just a few hours.

The gay bashing/gay murder threads, on the other hand, generate about 10 posts in a matter of days.

Let me check the homepage of this site to see if it's still a gay site. Maybe "gay" was removed.

by Anonymousreply 9205/12/2016

Bruce Vilanch

A genuine gay troll. He's a Hobbit

by Anonymousreply 9305/12/2016

Gag me with a spoon r92

by Anonymousreply 9405/12/2016

R6 is a fucking creep and I hope he a vicious parasite attached to his asshole.

by Anonymousreply 9505/12/2016

R48, that hideous toad Brittan was a pedophile, NOT a gay man.

by Anonymousreply 9605/12/2016

"And how did we get to 88 replies without someone mentioning Dustin Lance Black???"

Please. You fucking bitches are just jealous because I'm bangin'...err, getting banged by, a beautiful 20-year-old diver!!

Kiss my ass!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 9705/12/2016

Exactly r92, just a bunch of gay bashes.

by Anonymousreply 9805/12/2016

Michael Jackson (RIP), David Beckham, Clay Aiken (is he a celebrity?), Rosie O'Donnell, Matt Drudge, Cara Delavigne, Elliott Sumer (pretentious spawn of pretentious celebrity Sting), Annie Clark.

by Anonymousreply 9905/12/2016

The jobless Neil Patrick Harris. Loathe him and his fat flabby husband.

by Anonymousreply 10005/12/2016

Steven Cojocaru

Christian Siriano

by Anonymousreply 10105/12/2016

Seth Rudetsky Billy Eichner

Scott Rudin, evil piece-of-shit.

by Anonymousreply 10205/12/2016

Nick Grimshaw

by Anonymousreply 10305/12/2016

[quote] Bruce Vilanch; A genuine gay troll. He's a Hobbit

He looks like someone took all seven dwarfs, melted them down into a fondue pot, mixed in some Velveeta and tried to make a Buddha statue out of it.

by Anonymousreply 10405/12/2016

John Galliano

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by Anonymousreply 10505/12/2016

Boy George, George Michael, Richard Simmons, Rosie O'Donnell

by Anonymousreply 10605/12/2016

Harvey TMZ

by Anonymousreply 10705/12/2016

R85 Watch Spike Lee's Inside Man with Denzel and Clive.

You would think her legs were broke! It's like watching water buffalos mate. Not pretty.

I know people are gonna hate me but I can't stand Rosie O'Donnell OR Elton John. So THERE!

by Anonymousreply 10805/12/2016

Long before the 7th grade R87 knew he would never have any friends.

by Anonymousreply 10905/12/2016

Disgusting Elton John and parasite Perez Hilton deserve pukes and shits on their faces.

by Anonymousreply 11005/12/2016

I cannot stand people who are smug libertarian/conservative hypocrites, so Milo Yiannopolos, Bret Easton Ellis, and Camille Paglia all bug the hell out of me. Andrew Sullivan used to bug me the most of all, but he's been pretty good politically for the last eight-nine years or so.

Entertainers really don't ever bother me that much. I don't find Neil Patrick Harris even slightly physically attractive, and I hate magic; but he has a nice singing voice, at least.

by Anonymousreply 11105/12/2016

Can someone tell me in a couple sentences what evil Scott Rudin has done? I really don't know.

by Anonymousreply 11205/12/2016

Richard Simmons has gone insane or something. Reminds me of the movie about Gloria Swanson or whoever it was - Sunset Boulevard. On his Facebook page, his drag outfits got crazier and crazier, and his expressions - like he was living some kind of creepy fantasy life. Extreme issues there - it's amazing he mostly held it together as long as he did before total batshit lunacy. (he still updates his website every day with happy happy joy joy adages sheesh...)

by Anonymousreply 11305/13/2016

That Filipino fashion slag Bryan Boy, he of the brand name handbags and designer name dropping. I haven't seen his website in several years but his swanning around on it like a praying mantis in couture rags used to make me hate him.

by Anonymousreply 11405/13/2016

[quote] Reminds me of the movie about Gloria Swanson or whoever it was - Sunset Boulevard.

Oh that sounds like an interesting movie. Never heard of it.

by Anonymousreply 11505/13/2016

Your mom

by Anonymousreply 11605/13/2016

Barack Obama

by Anonymousreply 11705/13/2016

R105 Galliano looks like Madge mated with Snidely Whiplash.

by Anonymousreply 11805/13/2016

I've never seen the Billy Eichner show, but the 10-second previews just make me cringe. Does anyone ever just turn around and pop him in the mouth for hectoring them on the street?

He's like some braying version of what a bachelorette-style faghag would find funny in "her gays."

by Anonymousreply 11905/13/2016

Jeff lewis

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by Anonymousreply 12005/13/2016

Jeff Lewis IS pretty disgusting.

Orpah's gay slut BFF Nate Barfkus. Little, FUGLY and extremely slutty and NOT in a good way. Exactly HOW many so called boyfriends has he had since his beloved soulmate Fernando died tragically in that tsunami? Rancid rat.

Richard from Survivor. Another ugly cunt. Almost throw up every time he appears on TV. Used to feel the same way about Charles Nelson Reilly. Yuck!

by Anonymousreply 12105/13/2016

The idea of sex with Charles Nelson Reilly is just too hilarious to contemplate.

by Anonymousreply 12205/13/2016

J Edgar Hoover

Roy Cohn

Sumner Redstone (bi)

everybody on E!

by Anonymousreply 12305/13/2016

R105: I wore that look much better 28 years ago!

by Anonymousreply 12405/13/2016

He's gone now, but David Gest!

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by Anonymousreply 12505/13/2016

John Wayne Gacy.

Samantha Ronson.

by Anonymousreply 12605/13/2016

I'm not really sure just how Pete Burns should be categorized, but he makes my skin crawl all right.

Did anyone ever see his sex tape that he leaked himself?

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by Anonymousreply 12705/13/2016

Pete Burns a couple of days ago:

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by Anonymousreply 12805/15/2016

Miss Neil Patrick Harris Lance Bass- bitch Ryan Seacrest Kanye West

by Anonymousreply 12905/15/2016

Let me be the third or fourth person to chime in that Carson Kressley is a genuinely nice person.

by Anonymousreply 13005/15/2016

I'm glad Carson is being white knighted, but ever since Queer Eye, he has just creeped me out. The fact he was the "fashion" consultant looking like Eurotrash proved that just because you're gay doesn't mean you have taste, just because you've got money doesn't make you fashionable. He's a sideshow!

Andy Cohen and his sister Ryan Seacrest have created an empire of the trashiest television shows to ever exist, inspiring other networks to follow flow suit. Remember when A&E actually was a cool channel with great films, music, and lots of foreign films, and the majority of their lineup now is garbage? It's not an internalized homophobia I have but the dudes mentioned above have done nothing to improve entertainment but parade trashy people for a buck. They're not geniuses, they're assholes.

by Anonymousreply 13105/16/2016

Chris Colfer

by Anonymousreply 13205/16/2016

I agree Carson K. Is a mess, but he is genuinely a very nice guy. You'd be surprised in settings where he is not "performing."

by Anonymousreply 13305/17/2016

Speaking of Chris. Chris Crocker is horrible!

First the Brittney shit, then barebacking as a top mind you. Anybody got a barf bag? Utterly disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 13405/17/2016

Lea Delaria (for being an absolute diva cunt horror).

by Anonymousreply 13505/17/2016

R131 You mean Bravo. Yes in the 90s they were playing Wertmuller films now we get rubbish like LI Princesses, annoying Persians and closeted Manhattan gays who sell real estate.

by Anonymousreply 13605/17/2016

Carson is nice. Kyan Douglas is a methed out psychopath and extremely vindictive. He left his fiancé for another man the day they were supposed to finalize adoption paperwork.

by Anonymousreply 13705/17/2016

David Tutera and his ex for splitting up their twins.

Johnny Weir for wearing fur.

awful people.

by Anonymousreply 13805/17/2016

Dan Savage wins this thread. He is truly repulsive.

by Anonymousreply 13905/17/2016

I dislike professional gays like Carson Kressley and Alan Cumming. They're gay, gay, gay and don't you forget it. Who cares?

by Anonymousreply 14005/17/2016

Another sick DL thread- sad

by Anonymousreply 14105/17/2016

This is a discouraging thread. Most of the people who "make your skin crawl" are effeminate and/or flamboyant. I can get pretentious and obviously "performing" fashion types like Andre Leon Talley, but a lot of people here listed just about every effeminate guy in the public eye. Everything is subjective, but Carson Kressley, for example, seems like a decent person and the only criticisms he invites upon himself in my view would come from either his very (naturally, not performed) gay mannerisms or his equally effeminate appearance.

This just reinforces my concerns that few people are as homophobic as gay men are. It makes me sad. Every time I see any openly gay man who isn't modelesque and who couldn't "pass"--those who I'm certain many of you drool over, like Matt Bomer or Cheyenne Jackson--I know that gay men like the majority here are at home with your skin crawling because in your view all gay men should look like male fitness models and act, at best, only questionably gay. That's a fantasy world. You and I both know that the majority of gay men are obviously gay. You and I both know that most of you find naturally gay mannerisms to be revolting. For my part, I know and acknowledge I am obviously gay and I consistently pick up on FAR more repulsion from other gay men--most of them equally obviously gay, oftentimes more flamboyant--than I ever have from straight men, who in my experience don't care one way or another.

Given the extreme cattiness that pervades Data Lounge, I feel certain that a lot of posters here present themselves in a similar way to those who they say make their skin crawl. The people on this site make it clear why we end up with so many self-hating gay men in Congress, Hollywood, etc.

For my part, I can't stand Don Lemon because he's a shitty and reckless journalist, and I've met him and he came across as a textbook sociopath. He made my skin crawl because of his personality and his lack of professionalism, not because he acts gay. Andy Cohen, too. I used to have a crush on him, but over the past couple of years his vindictive nature and eagerness to exploit people at any cost, including making fun of serious chronic illnesses on his horrible shows, turn my stomach now. I can't watch him. And I'll throw in Dennis Hastert because he's a fucking predator.

I'm disturbed by the level of animosity displayed here toward gay men who act gay. Posters can say it's because they are "professional gays," but you're not fooling anyone: what you mean is that you're afraid of femme guys to the same extent homophobic straight men are.

I've watched enough gay porn to wonder why 98 percent of the scenarios involve a supposedly straight guy being seduced by a gay guy. It's a total turnoff to me. But since the majority of guys in this discussion have basically bashed gay guys for being gay, I've now got my answer: you resent yourselves and other people who are like you and wish you lived in a world that will never exist in which you don't have to associate with or encounter gay men who act like gay men. I feel like I am becoming more homophobic by the day as I continue to encounter gay men who use all kinds of excuses to explain why their "skin crawls" around other gay men when the truth is they are in denial about what gay men act like in real life, not in porn scenarios and not in a fantasy world that you've created in your head.

All the people whose skin crawls because of any flamboyant gay man should be forced to watch and listen to himself for eight hours on video. At least 90 percent of you would see and hear the very person who really makes your skin crawl.

My skin crawls when I encounter people who can't acknowledge or accept the real world, and who deride others for being who they are. I do live in the real world, and I realize that this post will garner countless eviscerating remarks of a stereotypically gay catty nature. I also understand the irony of that. I wonder if you do.

by Anonymousreply 14205/17/2016

Alan Cumming Ewwwww!

by Anonymousreply 14305/17/2016

r142 Thank you Edward Joseph Snowden for your brilliant observations.

by Anonymousreply 14405/17/2016

R144 You're welcome, Milo Yiannopoulos.

by Anonymousreply 14505/17/2016

VG, R142 Excellent, actually.

And I agree with you for the most part, but with the mainstreaming of culture (especially by the most dehumanizing element in this society, the corporate media) a lot of the uniqueness of 'gay' has been shorn away. Maybe parity with straight society isn't all it's cracked up to be?

Anyway, I could go on, but won't. You could write an entire book about the points you've brought up. I'll close with a quip from a writer I admired as a youth, commenting on then-current (early 70s) events, "don't let the excessive stimuli freak you out, man"

P.S. And yeah, the gay-for-pay porn phenom' is about as stimulating as the public service films I watched in school. It's not even interesting enough to be actively bored over.

by Anonymousreply 14605/17/2016

R146 It's not even necessarily gay for pay. The majority of gay porn scenarios I have seen on various websites (I am a contrarian with dissenting opinions about many things, which means, obviously, that I am single as part of a subculture whose tendency is conform-or-leave...and therefore, yeah, I watch lots of porn.) are variations of coerce-the-straight-guy scenes. That's the one thread that connects all genres from jock to twink to bear to college to bondage: scenes of straight men being talked into sex with either another straight guy or a gay guy. Even when all the involved sex workers are obviously gay and sometimes flamboyantly so, most of the scenes involve a "straight" character. It baffles me and those scenes usually turn me off.

Gay men are psychologically masochistic. Yes, I could write a book about it.

by Anonymousreply 14705/17/2016

You make a good point R142. But it's also true that the media exploit stereotypes, and effeminate men fit the gay stereotype. That's why many gays dislike men like Carson Kressley and Johnny Weir, who play along and accentuate their most flamboyant qualities.

by Anonymousreply 14805/18/2016

R148 Some may accentuate these characteristics to become marketable television personalities, which is probably what Variety would call Carson Kressley. But I find it remarkable that those who emphasize stereotypically gay qualities seem to be derided by the majority of gay men here and probably elsewhere. Whereas those who accentuate, emphasize and play up stereotypically masucline qualities--the Matt Bomers and Wentworth Millers and even Anderson Coopers, who could "pass" and in most cases did pass as straight for a while--become gay icons because they have a leading man face and body and play down their inherent gay mannerisms. These guys are never brought up by gay men as well known gay men who embarrass them; yet, in all honesty some such men embarrass me far more than a flamboyant TV personality. Not because I resent their obviously gay manners, but because I simultaneously resent and pity that they work too hard to cover for their naturally gay mannerisms and at the same time show off their worked out bodies, etc. which to me is really one of the ultimate gay qualities today.

This doesn't apply to all the men I mentioned, but Cooper is a prime example. I watched his daily talk show for a while and it became painful for me to witness him probe into the personal lives of every guest, discuss his elderly mother's sex life ad nauseum, and even play coy with Kathy Griffin regularly and dodge gay implications while clearly--in my view--working overtime to obsessively "act straight," even as I and many others knew he wasn't. This offended me not because he wanted his life to be private but because he wanted that while giddily exploiting other people's private lives and amassing the encouragement and support of the lgbt media and most gay people. In my opinion, the primary reason he was able to pull this off is because most people view him as "hot," and he is reasonably passable, and it seems those two qualities will endear any gay man to all gay men. Big juicy arms and pecs packed into a tight tee shirt, a movie star face and the ability to turn down the gay dial when convenient. Cooper since coming out has often revealed far more effeminate mannerisms, and I frankly like him better that way but I remain bothered that his "I'm a respected news anchor" mode is a more masculine performance.

I am even more troubled that most gay men agree with that: want to be respected? Then try as hard as you can to cover up any innately effeminate body language and speech.

And this is when we end up with weirdos like Lindsey Graham (whom I've met in person and who IMO is a 10 on the gaydar) and Marcus Bachmann--who just aren't good at covering.

Someone who is more successful but not convincingly so is the largely reviled Aaron Schock (who is definitely gay, beyond any doubt, but wishes he weren't)--and yet his name never comes up in answers to questions like this, either. He is "hot," and even though his motivations and obvious denial are suspect, gay men don't find him creepy or repulsive--even though he wanted to take away all equal rights to gay men.

No, it's Carson Kressley and Chris Colfer, who aren't fitness models or passable masculine news anchors, who get the hate from gay men. Both come across to me as generally decent guys who seem to lead low-key offscreen personal lives, and I've never heard a cruel word from either of them about anyone else. And to their credit in my opinion, these men and others like them emerged on the scene as gay, take it or leave it. Both made themselves vulnerable to total career rejection and failure by virtue of doing that. And that is extraordinarily brave. It's less brave and certainly indicative of either less talent or a lesser work ethic to rest on photoshoots of one's hot body and deny who you really are.

I think that is so fucked up. And I think Data Lounge has a whole lot of Aaron Schocks and Lindsey Grahams creeping around in dark rooms hating themselves and anyone else who acts the way they are terrified they come across to other people.

That is my motherfucking nelly opinion.

by Anonymousreply 14905/18/2016

Wow soapbox asshat! Let me at say this. I could give a flying fuck if Carson, Weir, of Andre are effeminate. I know plenty of straight guys who androgynous who also make my skin crawl. Plenty of actresses make my skin crawl too. Doesn't in any way mean I have internalized homophobia because my skin crawls and I get creeped out doesn't mean I dislike effeminate gays. I am proudly one of them. I loved Miss Jay on ANTM, I love Nathan Lane and Quentin Crisp. Many of the guys on Drag Race are hot and fem or not doesn't make a difference in my attraction, annoyance, or repulsion. I'm sure there are plenty of people you don't like or are creeped out by, so your lecture on the gay community was stupid and making blind assumptions because you got offended. In reality it's not my job or anyone else in Datalounge to constantly blow sunshine up the asses of wound up, uptight frigid asses like you (oh look, now I'm judging you based on what you have said and an making assumptions...just like you) and as far cattiness, please. I highly doubt you're this holier than though angel.

by Anonymousreply 15005/18/2016

Holier than though, my correction. Must be my internalized homophobia...

by Anonymousreply 15105/18/2016

Looks like my internalized homophobia just can't do anything right! HOLIER THAN THOU!

by Anonymousreply 15205/18/2016

Did you know Arthur, R41? He was a hateful cunt. I lived around the corner from him for a decade, which also happened to be on Rupert Everett's block. Coming home one night from work one night I saw Rupert walking his dog and Arthur practically jumped out of the bushes and swished all over him--as if. First of all, he would had to have been black for Ru and decidedly not Jurassic. Anyway, cunt.

by Anonymousreply 15305/18/2016

Oh and to the guy with the soapbox, isn't one of the tag lines here pointless bitchery in the description of this site? Therefore you're part of this "problem" you seem to think Datalounge has.

by Anonymousreply 15405/18/2016

R142 So beautiful! I had a speech class and I for one of the speeches our professor recorded us. Once I heard my voice and saw my gestures, I'd finally realized why everybody around me always asked if I was gay.

I'm closeted, and I thought I had done such a good job acting masculine all these years, but my inner femme is starting to come out. I also used to hate femme queens and think they are so "nasty and stereotypical" but I finally see that they are just living as authentically as they can.

Now, I'm not saying all masculine men are trying to trick the world into being straight. All I'm saying is that we need to STOP worrying about what the straights think about us and carry ourselves in whatever way that feels most comfortable.

Years of trying to repress myself have really screwed my head up. Now I'm working on trying to get to a place of financial stability and independence so that when I come out, I wont be homeless if things don't go so well. I have to be out and proud. Not for anybody else's approval. Just my own.

by Anonymousreply 15505/18/2016

R155 You'll be fine. Maybe I'm totally out of touch, but I think it's perceived nowadays as much weirder to pretend to be straight when one obviously isn't than to be gay. It's just not a big deal to most other people in this country anymore. Old news.

PS It's nice to see someone being human here, by the way.

by Anonymousreply 15605/18/2016

If you pick me I could lose my guh guh GLEEEEEEEEEEE

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by Anonymousreply 15705/18/2016

What's good is that a lot of the men listed in this thread are just horrible people. Those that aren't horrible people are just excruciatingly annoying.

by Anonymousreply 15805/18/2016

I agree with everyone who said Dan Savage. He's so repulsive.

by Anonymousreply 15905/18/2016

Andy Dick is also annoying and super creepy.

by Anonymousreply 16005/18/2016

R160 Is Andy Dick gay? I think he's bisexual. I believe he was married to a woman.

Before you correctly point out that a lot of gay men marry women, ask yourself whether you really want to claim Andy Dick as one of our people. Let's let the bi people claim him. Between Mark Foley and Dennis Hastert and Aaron Schock, we have enough creepers.

by Anonymousreply 16105/19/2016

I lost all respect for Alan Cumming after his anti-circumcision comments.

by Anonymousreply 16205/19/2016

Does Frankie Grande and these others really rate? Bobby Trendy? Really? They're nobodies. I think this speaks more of our media environment than anything. I kind of like Weir. His documentary showed him as serious (enough) and not nearly as queeny as his persona. A lot of it is him being a show-pony.

by Anonymousreply 16305/19/2016

R163 How the fuck is Frankie Grande a thing? Or anything that's on Big Brother? That I even know the names Steven Daigle, Will Wikle or Frankie Grande is as scarring to my soul as knowing the difference between a Khloe and a Kourtney.

by Anonymousreply 16405/19/2016

I thought the same thing about Pigez Hilton, r163. He's a total nobody who, thankfully seems to have disappeared off the face of the earth.

by Anonymousreply 16505/19/2016

R165 He was still on the face of the earth about a year ago. I know because he was proudly trolling for sex with a face-and-naked-torso picture on Grindr while visiting D.C.

by Anonymousreply 16605/19/2016

David Muir

by Anonymousreply 16705/19/2016

David Muir is emulating Anderson Cooper and Thomas Roberts. He will remain closeted until he takes his career ascent as high as it can possibly go. Then he will come out, to no one's surprise, and he'll not only be a "respected news anchor," but a gay icon. His gay icon status will be based entirely on his appearance because that's how it works. That, and the fact that for some reason gay men LOVE gay men who spend four decades ashamed of their sexuality and then finally, hesitantly, admit it. I have a lot more respect for people who just come onto the scene openly gay than those who cower with their "shameful" secret and then eventually admit it.

by Anonymousreply 16805/19/2016

Preach R164. I hate myself for knowing these things.

by Anonymousreply 16905/19/2016

All of them

by Anonymousreply 17005/19/2016

marc jacobs

by Anonymousreply 17105/19/2016

Thanks for the support R155! I just hope my family comes around when I come out since they have made it known they don't support the "gay lifestyle." We've never been super close, so it wouldn't be the end of the world if things went sour. But nothing is sweeter than being out!

by Anonymousreply 17205/19/2016

Bug-eyed Frankie Grande and the shrill Ross Matthews. They are reasons why str8 people hate us.

by Anonymousreply 17305/22/2016

Sandra Bernhardt, of course.

by Anonymousreply 17406/22/2016

Peter Thiel

Aaron Schock

Miss Lindsey

by Anonymousreply 17506/22/2016

Andrew Sullivan

Elton John

Perez Hilton

Any gay Republican or Libertarian.

That Milo cretin the trolls here keep pushing.

by Anonymousreply 17606/22/2016

Apple's Tim Cook, who is hosting a fundraiser for Paul Ryan.

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by Anonymousreply 17706/22/2016

r40 has to be a freeper, Rachel Maddow is completely inoffensive to everyone else. An attractive, intelligent, moderate-butch, she's the queen of MSNBC, gays are proud of her.

by Anonymousreply 17806/22/2016

Hillary Behghazi Hussein Huma Abiden Rodham LESBIAN Clinton.

by Anonymousreply 17906/22/2016

Andy Cohen...Complete narcissist who has foisted himself and his vapid TV productions upon the world.

by Anonymousreply 18006/22/2016

Y'all is homophobic bitches.

by Anonymousreply 18106/22/2016

Rupert Everett, Graham Norton

by Anonymousreply 18206/22/2016

Agree on Johnny Weir. He was a great skater and should have left it at that. He ruined it with his TV personality.

by Anonymousreply 18306/22/2016

Is David Spade gay? He creeps me out. He was on Ellen recently and mentioned his young child but didn't say anything about having a partner/wife/husband.

by Anonymousreply 18406/22/2016

Spade has a child?!?

by Anonymousreply 18506/22/2016

I don't like Elton John, Chris Colfer, or other flamers.

by Anonymousreply 18606/22/2016

Anyone who uses the words "the reason why the straight world hates us" is homophobic. There are no reasons for anyone to hate gay men, lesbians, bisexuals, or transsexuals other than bigotry- if you want to call that a reason. And as we know- there's lots of hate directed at trannies from the gay world, and internalized homophobia all over this thread.

by Anonymousreply 18706/22/2016

Sam Smith. All the SJWs would celebrate if he got gunned down Orlando style.

by Anonymousreply 18806/22/2016

R174 doesn't that fug call herself a 'swinger?" She loves the 'n word' too much.

by Anonymousreply 18906/22/2016

It's ok to 'hate' or strongly dislike obnoxious grotesques like most of the different attention starved flamers listed here. Do I hate them for sucking cock? No- but I look down on them for being tacky, garish, and reflecting poorly upon me.

by Anonymousreply 19006/22/2016

Barney "Franklin Scandal" Frank

He's like a talking mucous plug with hair.

by Anonymousreply 19106/22/2016

Never had anything to do with Carson Kressley, but know several people who have and everyone says what a sweetheart he is.

by Anonymousreply 19206/22/2016

Gregory Angelo, president of the log cabin repukes.

Creepy and fuuugly as hell. His kissing up to Trump should turn every gay man off. His Howdy Doody face doesn't help matters. Extremely punchable.

Rick Tyler is why people think gays are child molesters. Extremely creepy and just watching him gives me the hives. Working for that rancid Ted Cruz should swear guys off of him forever but you know how self loathers are...

by Anonymousreply 19306/22/2016

George W. Bush

by Anonymousreply 19406/22/2016

Sean Hayes

by Anonymousreply 19506/23/2016

Instead of picking on guys who are merely femmy, stick to the right-wingers and other assholes who are hurting the gay community

by Anonymousreply 19606/23/2016

Honestly it would be James St. James who was a club kid and wrote the book Disco Bloodbath (Party Monster). He's always ogling famous teens in the WOW website (World of Wonder) and making borderline creepy commentary. Jonny Weir just creeps me out. Andre Leon Talley is Anna Wintour's former "yessum" and designer Thierry Mugler.

by Anonymousreply 19708/05/2016

Tom Cruise

Milo Yiannopoulos

Matt Drudge

Bryan Singer

by Anonymousreply 19808/05/2016

Adding in my votes to the tally...

12 = Dan Savage

11 = Johnny Weir

10 = Andy Cohen

10 = Frankie Grande

9 = Perez Hilton

8 = Elton John

6 = Ross Matthews

6 = Milo Yiannopoulos

5 = Bobby Trendy

5 = Richard Simmons

4 = Neil Patrick Harris

4 = Ryan Seacrest

4 = Aaron Schock

4 = Rosie O'Donnell (the only female to make the list)

by Anonymousreply 19908/07/2016

what an imbecile you are r5. dan savage is a true hero and incredibly brilliant, and effective social critic.

by Anonymousreply 20008/07/2016

The Brandt twins

by Anonymousreply 20108/07/2016

Trump, Cruz, Rubio

by Anonymousreply 20208/07/2016

200 posts and no mention of MICHAEL MUSTO?

by Anonymousreply 20308/07/2016

Andy Cohen owns this thread in perpetuity.

by Anonymousreply 20408/07/2016

Tom Selleck. Hot as the sun. But annoys me because he refuses to come out.

by Anonymousreply 20508/07/2016

Tyler Henry, the TV psychic. Like all psychics, the kid is a colossal fraud.

by Anonymousreply 20608/09/2016

Austin Scarlett

Rosie O'Donnell

Eddie Long

Liberace

Michael Alig

Ed Koch

Roy Cohn

Winnie Kirchberger (Freddie Mercury's lover; one of many)

Jeffrey Dahmer

Alfred Kinsey (Bisexual)

Ani DiFranco

Jiz Lee

Christian Siriano

...all for very different reasons, some that can't be explained in words. {Shudders}

by Anonymousreply 20701/28/2017

Two words: Andy Dick.

Yuck.

by Anonymousreply 20801/28/2017

"All of them. The second they come out, we hate them"

-- The DL

by Anonymousreply 20901/28/2017

Rosie O'Donnell

by Anonymousreply 21005/07/2018

Orlando Bloom

by Anonymousreply 21105/07/2018

Macron

Trudeau

by Anonymousreply 21205/07/2018

Frankie Grande, Perez Hilton, Ellen D., Johnny Weir and every effeminate men.

by Anonymousreply 21305/07/2018

Angelina Jolie, Billy Bob and Brad Pitt

by Anonymousreply 21405/07/2018

Taylor Swift

by Anonymousreply 21505/07/2018

Gay blob fish piss me off!

by Anonymousreply 21605/07/2018

My partner is what Johnny Weir will likely be like when he's over 50. My partner was so pretty and queenie, but he's mellowed into a kind, supportive, lovely man. Old twinks need love too.

by Anonymousreply 21705/07/2018

It's two years since OP created this thread, and Johnny Weir is still out there making people's skin crawl.

by Anonymousreply 21805/07/2018

Richard Simmons

Rip Taylor

Anderson Cooper

by Anonymousreply 21905/07/2018

Roy Cohn

Dean Corll

by Anonymousreply 22005/07/2018

The Property Brothers

by Anonymousreply 22105/07/2018

[quote] Those silly Ashmore queens... I mean twins.

LOL Knew them several years ago. I always thought Shawn was straight and that Aaron was definitely gay.

by Anonymousreply 22205/07/2018

Andy Cohen: Back-stabbing social climber

by Anonymousreply 22305/07/2018

This vile glass closet case, Trey Gowdy. He'll be retiring soon to get his holes fucked full-time.

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by Anonymousreply 22405/07/2018

The queeny, shrieking Ross Mathews. It's 'mos like that who give gays a bad name.

by Anonymousreply 22505/07/2018

DiCaprio

by Anonymousreply 22605/07/2018

Tom Daley

by Anonymousreply 22705/07/2018

Oprah

by Anonymousreply 22805/07/2018

Let’s see:

Brent Corrigan: He got SO upset about the movie he sold his rights to, as being a “mockery of porn”. You’d think by his reaction, he thinks he’s actually a candidate for something like a doctor, other than being a useless fuck toy. Andre Leon Talley: he’s gross Jack Mackenroth: So much plastic surgery and photo shop, his face resembles Elmo and his porn made my plants get up and walk away. Just gross. Andy Cohen: Nothing about him is sexy or hot, coupled with his shitty television shows Michael Kors: Ugly clothes Michael Lucas: special needs

by Anonymousreply 22902/24/2019

DLB and his alien face

by Anonymousreply 23002/24/2019

TOTALLY with you on Jack Mackenroth. He lies on his escort profile about his age and claimed he was “Ivy League”. Had he not been so overexposed and gone overboard with his self obsession with an average face, he might have slid by the radar. But yeah, nasty. Dustin Lance Black has a creepy “pedo rapey” vibe about him. Always has. Just creepy.

by Anonymousreply 23102/24/2019

The entire cast of Bang Theory. Is that what it's called?

by Anonymousreply 23202/24/2019

Jack Mackenroth Brent Corrigan Calvin Klein Armond Rizzo Jack Plonick Dustin Lance Black Joey Mills

by Anonymousreply 23302/24/2019

James Charles makes me want to vomit.

by Anonymousreply 23402/24/2019

Armond Rizzo. He looks like a greasy tweaker. Seriously creeps me out.

by Anonymousreply 23502/24/2019

Jake Gyllenhaal

by Anonymousreply 23602/24/2019

Kevin Spacey. Enough said.

by Anonymousreply 23702/24/2019

Armond Rizzo, Andy Cohen, Perez Hilton, the entire casts of Queer Eye (original and current)

by Anonymousreply 23802/25/2019

Adam Rippon

by Anonymousreply 23902/25/2019

Luke Evans

by Anonymousreply 24002/25/2019

Bradley Cooper

Brad Pitt

Clooney

DiCaprio

by Anonymousreply 24102/25/2019

R82 Can't think of a Lesbian I hate but the one from that Twilight series seems as empty as a box of hair.

She's bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 24202/25/2019

I despise Kristen Stewart.

by Anonymousreply 24302/25/2019

I hate what Megan’s behavior is doing to the image of the BRF, but I do think she is a beauty. However hard I might try to talk myself out of it.

by Anonymousreply 24402/25/2019

Sorry, wrong thread.

by Anonymousreply 24502/25/2019

this is what i meant when I said DL is nasty to gay celebs

by Anonymousreply 24602/25/2019

Jack Cassidy

Tony Randall

Rex Reed

by Anonymousreply 24702/25/2019

Sam Champion

by Anonymousreply 24802/25/2019

I was going to add Leon "Fashion Police" Hall, but I just discovered that he died last April, so I'll be respectful.

"A true fashion pioneer, style legend, and dear friend, has passed away and we’re sad. “Fashion Emergency” legend, O.G. (original gangsta’) and co-creator, Leon Hall died suddenly this week in a hospital in Quito, Ecuador where he had been residing."

by Anonymousreply 24902/25/2019

R168

I don't think Anderson ever pretended to have girlfriends, unlike Farrow or Muir, everyone in the industry knew he was gay. He has talked about meeting Roger ailes for the first time and Ailes told him "you are very controversial because of the whole homosexual thing" and this was way way way before he came out. And the whole reason he got passed over for network jobs even though he was by far the most popular news anchor in the country was because he was gay.

by Anonymousreply 25002/25/2019

Milo Yiannopoulos

Roy Cohn

by Anonymousreply 25102/25/2019

Milo That gateway pundit guy

by Anonymousreply 25202/25/2019

So what famous openly gay people DON'T make your skin crawl? Who do you approve of?

by Anonymousreply 25302/25/2019

Famous in his own mind, my ex-manager Skip

by Anonymousreply 25402/25/2019

Dan Savage is creepy and his husband Terry is even more disgusting, and would be better looking with a bag over his head.

Johnny Weir is vomit inducing.

Jonathan Van Ness and the rest of the Queer Eye cast are insufferable and creepy. I’m sick of the media trotting those pricks out as the end all and be all opinion on gay culture, when one of them can’t cook real food to save his life. Jonathan is just annoying, period.

Austin Armacost is like a toilet trained gorilla.

by Anonymousreply 25502/10/2020

JC Mounduix and Armond Rizzo are two of the sleaziest and most disgusting little midgets. JC for being a Trump supporter (and a talentless one at that). Armond for just being oily gross with a prolapsed oompa.

I’ll agree with Dan Savage. He definitely doesn’t seem like someone you could count on as a friend if you needed support. He’s just flat out mean spirited. I’m not sure if he’s mean for the sake of it.

by Anonymousreply 25602/10/2020

agreed, all 3 of them are icky....specially Kressley...ugh

by Anonymousreply 25702/10/2020

Kressley is a nice person from what I’ve heard, but his stupid face and awful fashion just makes him a fucking clown.

by Anonymousreply 25802/10/2020

Perez Hilton, Billy Eichner. Can’t stand looking at them or hearing them talk.

by Anonymousreply 25902/10/2020

Perez Hilton, Johnny Weir, Suze Orman, Bruce Vilanch.

by Anonymousreply 26002/10/2020

Carson Kressley, Andy Cohen, Chris Crocker,

by Anonymousreply 26102/10/2020

Andy Cohen, Perez Hilton, Nico Toratella

by Anonymousreply 26202/11/2020

Sam Smith for his constant eye-raping nudity and gender fluid fuckery.

Ricky Martin, this bitch took an eternity to come out ONLY to then go back in with his "I still do sex with women but not misty-eyed / anti-label" claptrap.

And Gus Cuntworthy, since he likes to lurk around DL so much and comment on his own thread(s). Quite pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 26302/11/2020

A couple porn stars, so who cares. So easily avoided and have no impact on my life. I want to embrace most gay oddballs. God bless them.

by Anonymousreply 26402/11/2020

Hands down, Jonathan Van Ness.

by Anonymousreply 26502/12/2020

All the gay hats mentioned above!

by Anonymousreply 26602/12/2020

Jonathan Van Ness. I know he can’t help but be himself. He’s at least being genuine to who he is, but he makes my skin crawl.

by Anonymousreply 26702/17/2020

that author Clive somebody, didn't he give someone HIV? I saw a pic when there was a report and his pic made my skin crawl.

by Anonymousreply 26802/17/2020

miss pig Elton john

by Anonymousreply 26902/17/2020

That nelly queen on shahs of sunset shit blvd...omg

by Anonymousreply 27002/17/2020

The rude fuk from Kenny Schmidt that was on andy cohen and got his ass handed to him. he in hiding?

by Anonymousreply 27102/17/2020

janet jackson

by Anonymousreply 27202/17/2020

dolly parton, cum outta da closet gurl geeeeesh

by Anonymousreply 27302/17/2020

Billy Porter, RuPaul

by Anonymousreply 27402/17/2020

JOE AND MIKA

by Anonymousreply 27502/17/2020

Ryan fucking Secrest , Queen of the Barnyard.

by Anonymousreply 27602/17/2020

cindy Crawford's son.....

by Anonymousreply 27702/17/2020

Ty Mitchell is creepy.

by Anonymousreply 27802/17/2020

William Frawley

by Anonymousreply 27902/17/2020

R277 Are you sure he isn't just...misunderstood??

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by Anonymousreply 28002/17/2020

The only reason Dan Savage shows up on this list is because modern DL is overpopulated with Nazis, Nazi Sock Puppet accounts, Nazi Frauen und Self-bashing Nazi Fags.

by Anonymousreply 28102/17/2020

19, The head of the department at a Mississippi university offering a Meteorology degree is gay. Gets job for his cute students.

by Anonymousreply 28202/17/2020

The figure skater who Sally Field wanted to fix up with her son, Sam.

by Anonymousreply 28302/17/2020

Dear r149,

Anderson Cooper only has “movie star looks” if Hollywood is rebooting MR. ED.

by Anonymousreply 28402/17/2020

Jonathan Van Ness. He’s disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 28502/21/2020

Lance Bass.

by Anonymousreply 28602/21/2020

Clay Aiken Alan Cumming Ellen deGeneres Neil Patrick Smug Harris RuPaul Geore Takei That fussy redhead from the show with Sofía Vergara Johnny Weir

by Anonymousreply 28702/21/2020

Your reaction to all of the above says more about you and your problems than it does about them.

by Anonymousreply 28802/22/2020

R99, David Beckham?! AND he makes your skin crawl?!

by Anonymousreply 28902/22/2020

Roy Cohn.

J. Edgar Hoover.

Lou Pearlman.

Sam Smith.

Rush Limbaugh.

Mike Pence.

Jared Kushner.

by Anonymousreply 29002/22/2020

R288 = Lance Bass

by Anonymousreply 29102/22/2020

Star Jones

by Anonymousreply 29202/22/2020

David Bromstad, the methed out queen on HGTV who is twirling around tacky homes with white trash people. He’s creepy gross.

by Anonymousreply 29302/22/2020

I can watch neither old or new Queer Eye or Drag Race because of this, yet know several straight people who lap it up. Am I the only one who sees this as a 21st century minstrel show of gays?

by Anonymousreply 29402/22/2020

R288 did you make a wrong turn and not realize what Datalounge was, fuckface? Wrong place to come to for a Care Bear hug! Fuck off!

by Anonymousreply 29502/22/2020

WHET Johnny Weir and his fine cakes? Haven't thought about him/them in years.

by Anonymousreply 29602/22/2020

According to DL. any gay guy who can't pass as a straight hot frat boy.

by Anonymousreply 29702/22/2020

Pete Buttigieg. Absolutely everything about him is shaped, moulded, styled, and crafted, from his hair style to his white shirts to his house and dog in South Bend to win the approval of straight people. every ounce of individuality that gay people have fought for over the past 50 years he throws overboard in his pursuit of a career. And I hate him for it.

by Anonymousreply 29802/22/2020

Sam Smith

Perez Hilton Tom Daley

by Anonymousreply 29902/22/2020

Another vote for Sam Smith

Jeffree Star (really, 300 posts and nobody named him???)

Evan Lysacek

Marcus Bachmann

by Anonymousreply 30002/22/2020

Timmy Tebow

by Anonymousreply 30102/22/2020

Jeffree Star, Dustin Lance Black (he’s such a creepy pedo looking dude), Zack Quinto, Blake Mitchell, Joey Mills (gross cokewhore of a porn star), Bruce Vilanch, Gus Van Sant, Chi Chi LaRue, Heklina (in or out of drag)

by Anonymousreply 30202/22/2020

Hands down, Brian Peters, Brian Peters is a drag queen named “Mama Tits” out of Seattle. When Brian was at the turn of the 00’s and living in Boise, not only was he a pathological liar, but he sure seemed to enjoy feeding E and other drugs to straight or questioning guys so he could molest and take advantage of them. He’s one of the most disgusting people to have ever existed. I see his posters and people praising him, but I wonder if all the innocent guys who caught herpes from him would sing the praises. Nasty piece of shit for a human. He deserves his HIV diagnosis.

by Anonymousreply 30302/22/2020

Well that's quite local and specific, R303.

by Anonymousreply 30402/22/2020

R304 and the poster should give a flying fuck as to why? He’s probably one of the victims, dipshit!

by Anonymousreply 30502/22/2020

What R285 said.

I also can't hate Tim Cook. He's in he tech industry and hasn't made a career out of being a "straight woman's assistant".

by Anonymousreply 30602/22/2020

Well, look at YOU, r293. There's nothing "trashy" about the normal people on "Lottery Dream Home," nor is there anything "tacky" about the normal dwellings DB shows them.

You should be so lucky.

by Anonymousreply 30702/22/2020

Ellen DeGeneres and Portia Rossi

by Anonymousreply 30802/22/2020

R303, that cunt? Yeah. Stole my friend's wigs in Seattle.

by Anonymousreply 30902/22/2020

John Travolta

by Anonymousreply 31002/22/2020

R309 I’d be super duper curious to hear about that story. Brian is a piece of shit. Seattle here too.

by Anonymousreply 31102/22/2020

Dustin Lance Black has always been gross looking, even more disgusting is who he married. Poor Tom, having to wake up to that face of Dustin as Dustin is so nasty looking ugly.

by Anonymousreply 31202/23/2020

R303 I’m with you. Brian/Mama Tits is one of the most hideous of humans (with even more disgusting teeth). I can’t begin to tell you how many lies I caught him in when he was a customer. He scrubs toilets for a living, and apparently is in Mexico right now. Wouldn’t it be fabulous if there was a way to keep him from coming back into the United States? He’s certainly cocky and stupid enough to think he’s untouchable. He loves his drugs (and can’t deny he’s never touched one) so it’d be so funny if he got what was coming to him. My roommate is someone who Brian lusted after and it was sick watching that blob of jellyfish try and “seduce”. Brian has predator written all over him.

by Anonymousreply 31302/23/2020

R310 Ewwww totally agree. He is as creepy as the child catcher from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang.

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by Anonymousreply 31402/27/2020

All of the guys from Queer Eye because they’re stuck on themselves and believe they’ve done mode for the community than say, Stonewall or Marsha P. Johnson.

by Anonymousreply 31503/08/2020

R300 Marcus Bachmann OmiGod so much, just gross, foul looking creature

by Anonymousreply 31603/08/2020

Fugly Pete Miss Andy Wonky eye Gus Kentworthless Queer Eye queens

by Anonymousreply 31703/08/2020

This being DL the only correct answer is "All of them!"

by Anonymousreply 31803/09/2020

The guys from Queer Eye, Perez Hilton, Andy Cohen is fucking gross.

by Anonymousreply 31903/14/2020

Mama Tits the drag queen from Seattle now living in Mexico. She’s an AIDS infected piece of shit and pathological liar.

by Anonymousreply 32005/01/2020

R224

[quote]This vile glass closet case, Trey Gowdy.

Is he really gay? Not saying I dont believe you, just hadnt heard that before, and curious as I find him hot, interested to know if I'm in with a chance

by Anonymousreply 32105/01/2020

Hands down, the entire cast of Queer Eye. They’re pompous and useless assholes. Jonathan Van Ness is nasty, and I’m so fucking sick of the media parading the crew as well as Laverne Cox and Billy Porter, as the end all and be all of gay culture and opinions.

by Anonymousreply 32206/21/2020

I agree. The entire old and new casts of Queer Eye. JVN is just vomit inducing and so fucking plastic.

by Anonymousreply 32307/31/2020

Elton John owns this thread. He's a nasty fucking creep and a sleazebag douche,

by Anonymousreply 32407/31/2020

Lindsay Graham, Thom Cruz,George Clooney, Matt Gaetz

by Anonymousreply 32508/05/2020

[quote]Jeffree Star (really, 300 posts and nobody named him???)

We hoped someone else would so we wouldn't have to.

by Anonymousreply 32608/05/2020

R6 - no we don't hate openly gay men on DL, a gay men's board. What I personally can't stand are those that make a career out of it and thereby turn us into parodies and downplay the fact that we are men first and foremost, and that being gay is just one aspect of our personality. Vapid cunts who have zero other facets to their personalities. Guys like Dan Savage and Johnny Weir are sort of like the Diamond and Silk of the gay world. The token homos or the Aunt Tom, if you will.

Give me an openly gay man who doesn't make a career out of being a professional fag once his body ages or who can talk about other subjects besides being gay. Think of gay men like Da Vinci, Wilde, Freddie Mercury...these were gay/bi men with a lot of talent who just happened to openly love other men. I don't need to see Johnny Weir because this is not a music video and he isn't Boy George on stage just a shallow person trying to stretch a career that is now no longer possible at his age. Dan Savage's activism has become a bore because, besides gay rights, he has very little to say about any other issues thereby betraying his pseudo-intellectual status.

by Anonymousreply 32708/05/2020

The way Elton John went on about his ex-wife after cheating on her, not keeping his big mouth shut about their sex life, and not dropping it even after he came out is an embarrassment. Like bitch, she didn't talk and neither should you. Makes all gay men look like some pathetic wanna-be bros who fail miserably but still want to be "one of the guys". The old queen needs to put a lid on it and live as a gay man who knows how to be a gentleman instead of a gossipy woman.

by Anonymousreply 32808/05/2020

R142 - I call B.S. I am not at all offended by any effeminate men who are normal and simpatico like Boy George but am disgusted by those like Johnny Weir who exploit being gay and turn it into a parody. Not cool.

by Anonymousreply 32908/05/2020

Can we please stop claiming Caitlyn Jenner and pedo Kevin Spacey? One is a trans and the other a perv. Neither qualifies ad a gay man.

by Anonymousreply 33008/05/2020

[quote]Guys like Dan Savage and Johnny Weir are sort of like the Diamond and Silk of the gay world.

Except Dan Savage wouldn't be caught dead voting Republican.

by Anonymousreply 33108/05/2020

The late Congressman Gerry Studds. He was a prick.

by Anonymousreply 33208/05/2020

R331 - that is true but he is also playing the "token gay" for liberals who wanna show how non-homophobic they are and we gays know for a fact that many are just as secretly homophobic as the Republican assholes. Dan Savage is clever but if he really wants to represent gay men in a favorable light he needs to speak up on more issues. I saw him on Bill Maher when Gloria Steinem was there discussing the hypocrisy inherent in the Republican party of wanting to ban abortion BUT then, refusing to provide adequate health care for the "miracles of life" and even reducing funds for schools and proper nutritious meals in school (which, she mentioned is something every one-third world country provides). I was hoping Dan would chime in, but instead he didn't say a word while the rest of the panel all said something.

I want a gay male voice that is well rounded and shows we look beyond our own back yard when we vote but for now, we don't have that.

by Anonymousreply 33308/06/2020

[quote] that is true but he is also playing the "token gay" for liberals who wanna show how non-homophobic they are and we gays know for a fact that many are just as secretly homophobic as the Republican assholes.

Dan Savage is a buffoon but he’s not a Republican. Your point about too many so-called liberals being closet homophobes is well-taken; even if it’s not what some people want to hear, it’s still true. Glorifying the most embarrassing gay people in order to not seem homophobic is one way this stealth homophobia manifests itself. Selling us out to the Alphabet Soup Nazis is another.

Brucelyne is not and never will be a woman, and if he fucks men he is one of the most self-hating gay or bisexual men who ever lived.

by Anonymousreply 33408/06/2020

That TMZ guy and Trump ass kisser Harvey Levin, he's a lawyer.

by Anonymousreply 33508/06/2020
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