Favours and Sex

Are you joking ? Yes he want's to be a patron of the arts.

OP, in what way did he help you?

OP we'd need a bit more detail and context to give you any kinda of answer. It could be either one in this case with lack of information. Reasonable chance he really doesn't expect anything other than attention and harmless flirting. It's also possible there is an expectation of more or one you're making up in your own head

Oh, just give him a pound of really great coffee beans and some homemade cookes, and it's done.

If that was his intention, he would have looked for someone younger than 27

Yes, ALL gay men are attracted to the exact same age group, r5.

The fact OP didn't bother to list what else he brings to the table, of course fella is in it for the sex.

Grad school funding.

op you're probably making far more of this than he is. Cute face innocent flirting sometimes it means nothing more than that. You probably think about this far far more than he ever does.

Of course men go around funding grad school tuition for younger men and expect nothing in return...

Goodness, gurl...how the f*ck did you get into Grad School??!!!!!

Joy had pretty become head bitch of the panel now that Barbara is gone. She doesn't get censored nearly as much now and just does her own thing. She's not kidding when she says she doesn't really care. Cool million and in her she's in her element she really doesn't have to care at this point. She's already won and knows it

Old men are always looking for one thing. That's why I always avoid any men over 40.

[R12] Wrong thread.

If he's interested, he'll be back, and you'll know.

Let's start this again, OP. It goes like this:

I am milking this older guy to help me pay for my masters. Am I a whore if:

a) I sleep with him

b) I don't sleep with him

c) I am a whore independent of a & b.

Yes I am judging you. I was a whore to pay for MY masters. I know what I was and so did the guys who paid.

dumbfuck you are.

This is why they hate us.

He wants to spread his cheeks for you.

I'm in a somewhat similar situation from the elder side. I'm in my early 60s, retired, well-off financially. My handyman's nephew, who's 23 and gay, wants me to help him out while he goes to school. I said he could come work for me doing odd jobs (cleaning, organizing, filing, etc.) for which I pay him by the day. But he keeps proposing bigger expenditures, like paying in advance, or lending money. I don't mind paying him for work, but I don't feel right about giving someone who's not family or a close friend any substantial amounts of money. I suppose I could suggest some sort of sex trade-off, but I've never been comfortable with taking advantage of someone in a sexual way (i.e., making them do something they're uncomfortable doing.)

R18 you are a creep. If you want a escort just get one. Escorts are PAID TO LEAVE. This young man is a relative of your handyman and NOW this young man is YOUR employee. WTF is wrong with you.

Also, if you want a houseboy or poolboy, just dive and an interview some and get one. Is this nephew a candidate? If so, be upfront about it TO HIM and to his uncle.

You're too old for a 40 year old too be interested in, sorry.

Flirting is fun for its own sake. Maybe that's all it is.

So what?

[quote] there has been light flirting in the past between us.

No doubt he's wondering the same of you.... "What does this guy want from me?"

Don't be a hypocrite.

There are lots of ways to help people out - not of which involve you giving or receiving cash.

Taking cash from someone you're not related to or a bank = whore.

Keep accurate records, keep up your grades, keep things aboveboard, and pay him back.

If he's paying for books as well, I hope you throw in the oral favors gratis

R18, make it plain that you are paying him for day to day work and payment is on an as completed basis or you run the risk of allowing him to claim that a contract exists between you that will obligate you to pay for his schooling. I really think you need to let him know that you cannot subsidize him and say so immediately. And keep your pants on--don't complicate things.

I'd probably sleep with him but I have a boyfriend and am trying to be faithful. I love my boyfriend but it's really hard.

He wants you to touch his pousette with your dart!

OP, how is the funding done? Does he write you a check and make you reach into his pocket to retrieve it?

He gave me a check for $10,000 and a job at his antique shop.

R29: is 'job at his antique shop' a euphemism for sponge bathing his crusty octogenarian crotch?

R18, that young guy sounds like trouble. If I was you I'd cut any contact with him.

Wow OP a job at his antique shop. You are lucky. How many customers do you have to suck off each day?

R18 He is moving way fast for you. Just walk away.

Just have sex with him. I’ll make his day

Gay shits who take things from older gays and then act like they're trapped into being whores

are whores, darlin'.

Partly because that's a newbie whore's mental game.

0/10

Antique shop? You queens are losing your edge. This was obvious bullshit from the first sentence.

An older man gave me an AMEX card for just about my entire 20s (yes, I was movie star hot). I had to meet him for lunch once a week and for a fancy dinner once a month. That was it. Man, did I love my life back then.

Enjoy it OP! Things like that don't happen after 30.

You people are responding to five-year-old posts.