Why Does It Seem Like More And More Gay Men Are Into Heavy Kink?

No, less if anything.

Internet porn.

We are exposed to much more variety in gay sex, than ever before.

I have never seen 90 percent of the things I have seen (regarding gay sex), until the advent of the internet.

Now, this shit is de rigeur.

Online porn has de-sensitized us to the variety of kink that exists, not only in the gay world, but across all sexual spectrums.

The instant I see a guy in a leather harness I can never take him seriously again.

I hate leather. I can't imagine rubber.

Wearing rubber or leather isn't heavy kink, for gods sake

Internet.

I never knew about rosebuds until the internet.

That still horrifies me.

Perhaps you need to get out more?

Whips, chains, handcuffs, what's not to like?

R6) I didn't know you could watch Citizen Kane on the internet!

[quote]Wearing rubber or leather isn't heavy kink, for gods sake

Rubber must smell even worse than leather.

I'm not sure if it's because I'm in line at my local deli, but the ad above this thread for me is for Mamwich Sauce. Kinky!

"Progression of perversity." The older you get, the more adventurous and extreme you get into sex.

With gays living longer, internet access and finally some sites doing BDSM well, it's bound to grow. I have seen a survey that showed 25% of Americans are interested in BDSM.

There've always been gays into S&M. Remember the Mine Shaft? Nothing new.

WEHT GMSMA in New York?

For R14:

No. Younger gay men are turning straight. There are dozens of Tumblr blogs dedicated to "gold star gays" who want to try pussy.

Gay is over.

Can't tell you how many times I've run into men into feet, fingernails, scat, golden showers. And I can't tell you how many times I've caught a taxi home...too many weird queens out there.

I used to have a phone number that was a digit away from a male escort in my neighborhood, and occasionally I would get a call from some guy who'd dialed the wrong number. Surprising how many of them wanted to be beaten.

for R14 and R15, many of us always found the leather community to be very, very aloof unless a person looked like a porn fantasy. To some extent that is true of the Gay community in general. Maybe it is human nature. Among the leather folk, it was/is more prevalent, Esp. when leather biker clubs had bar nights. This will of course turn those interested but not into the scene off from getting involved. No wonder a large SM group eventually failed.

If you need to wear dead cow to get turned on then you have issues.

My vote is with the people who say the Internet has allowed people to explore their fantasies to a greater extent resulting in more experimentation and a discovering of curiosities. One of the good things about the Internt, one of the bad things about the Internet.

Also, I never knew that the words "there have" could be contracted into "there've".

Piss is where it's AT

I have not noticed that at all.

R22 Piss is hot

Leather and kink is the last refuge of the aging gay male.

I agree with the latter post.

The older gay man into leather has become a sad and creepy stereotype.

Maybe if you weren't such a whoring little tramp, OP, you wouldn't be exposed to all that. Ever think of that?

When I read stories on DL of guys going into bars and being urinals in the 80s, I think that kink has always been with teh gays.

Jesus, where have you been, Rip Van Winkle?