In a couple, the top is always or almost always, the older?

No, I know lots of gay couples and I have never noticed this as a "thing".

What? No. How weird. The "top" is no set age or type, or, even always "the top" Weird, weird virgin, you are.

It is kind of a convention in yaoi, though. Seme = older, uke = younger.

In my 25 years of having sex with men, I've yet to meet a man who is truly, strictly a top. Oh, I've met plenty who insist they are, but when I get them home, it all changes and they're riding my cock well into the morning.

Well, no, R2, even here in DL the younger guy most times claims to be the bottom.

You do realize that someone being a top doesn't mean they will spontaneously combust if they put something in their ass R4? It just means that they like to top.

Obviously it is possible to stick a dick up anyone's ass if necessary.

No, but they're usually the caregiver.

For the love of Pete, stop musing about the philosophy of sexuality, and fucking arguing when people answer your sad adolescent questions! Real adults figure out these things based on experience. Get some experience and figure out what YOU like and stop ruminating about trivia and making up rules to apply to whole groups of people or shut up about it. Awful, tedious...

One thing we all know is that R8 desperately needs to get laid. Thought first you will need to remove that stick...

stupid question no silly....next

I love getting plowed by young gentlemen callers.

what's your major,op?

The blond is always the bottom.

Always.

[quote] In my 25 years of having sex with men, I've yet to meet a man who is truly, strictly a top.

Let me introduce you to my husband. Nothing does up his butt, not even a finger.

And he's 15 years younger than I am

The top is older, more muscular, more hairy, and taller. He also works 9-5 and has dinner served on the table by the bottom at 6:00 PM every evening who stays home to tend to the pets, grocery shop, clean, and cook.

r15, could I please have that relationship, with me as the bottom, though tweak it so that we're both versatile? That would be my dream come true.

So R16, you just want a big strong prince charming who well take care of you while you just dawdle around like a 1950s housewife.

Grow up. You aren't a 10 year old girl watching disney movies.

Once in a while the boy gets a little reward.

haha - my point with the post was just to say that if straight gender roles and relationship structures have changed so much over the last 70 years, certainly gay relationships don't conform to any particular template.

That being said, there are patterns in human behavior that can't be ignored just because people don't think they are PC. In my own experience, I get more turned on by older tops and younger bottoms. So...that's just me. Though, the best looking bottom I was with was probably 10 years older...so nothing is a rule.

R3 = 15-year-old Fraulein.

I'm a 100% top. 35 year old muscle bear. I fuck 18-24 yo twinks. So in my case yes.

Every older guy I've been (significantly older - more than, say seven or eight years) has been the top 90% of the time. Every younger guy, I've been the top. It just seems to work out that way, though, of course, it doesn't have to.

No.

I think because of the top shortage, they can be more selective about who they fuck.

I’ve always been fucked by guys 5-10 years older. It checks out on my end.

Not necessarily, but the brunette always fucks the blond, unless the top is bald.

I know my porn movies, OP.

Op is either a shut-in, a troll, or an idiot.