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What is your type?

I know that when it comes to a relationship and love, some things get thrown out the window, but what in a guy physically makes you look twice. Also, what emotional or personality traits do you look for? Read a thread like this a while back, and it was nice to see that there is someone for everyone out there.

by Anonymousreply 13706/30/2020

stocky guys with ruddy complexions.

by Anonymousreply 110/02/2015

If only my generation had a Stephen Sondheim....

by Anonymousreply 210/02/2015

I like handsome and not too bright. Live is so much easier when we both know who is always right. You might call that a control freak but I am cool with that. Controlling hot guys, why not : P

by Anonymousreply 310/02/2015

R3, I hope your guy points out your spelling mistakes since you think you are always right.

by Anonymousreply 410/02/2015

Dark hair, light skin, blue eyes, freckles on shoulders, small nose.

(Basically, Irish or Scottish)

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by Anonymousreply 610/02/2015

According to the evidence, nerdy boys with glasses, usually tall and dark-haired. Often with protruding ears and other oddities. "Adorkable" seems to be my thing.

by Anonymousreply 710/02/2015

Suit and tie all the way.

by Anonymousreply 810/02/2015

Stocky brunette, smart, soft-spoken, considerate, and not full of himself.

by Anonymousreply 910/02/2015

I like a taller man with dark hair, dark eyes, and is not too in shape. I like 'em with a little meat on his bones. I like a nice guy that is nice to others as well as me. And there is something about a guy that can own a room without saying a word. A stoic, soft spoken, hardworking man.

by Anonymousreply 1010/02/2015

R10 sounds like a frou

by Anonymousreply 1110/02/2015


by Anonymousreply 1210/02/2015

R12 = Asian

by Anonymousreply 1310/02/2015

Shorter than me/ sense of humor and play/ dorky /nerdy /sweet

by Anonymousreply 1410/02/2015

Cute Asians with great smiles

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by Anonymousreply 1510/02/2015

Bisexual. Which always ends in thears (mine).

by Anonymousreply 1610/02/2015

Physical traits: Dark hair, dark eyes, toned arms, masculine ass, beards (not hipsters ones)

Personality traits: direct (but courteous), boldness, curiosity (especially about other cultures),

by Anonymousreply 1710/02/2015

Handsome guys that are shy and a little awkward. They never knew how good looking they are.


Every guy has something that makes him stand out to me.

by Anonymousreply 1810/02/2015

Thin with dark hair. No tattoos, no piercings, probably no facial hair. Never blonds. Jewish/Irish/Italian preppy.

Ideally, they're not hairy, though that's not that important. Height is irrelevant, though ideally, I like short guys more than tall.

by Anonymousreply 1910/02/2015

Good sense of humor, intelligent, honest, caring with good mental health. As for physical traits - I like guys built like Tebow. That said, I am old enough to understand the first grouping is more important.

Where is he?

by Anonymousreply 2010/02/2015

5'8", beefy (or fit-fat), red head, green eyes, goatee, hairy chest, big dick, bottom, tattoos. Dumb is a plus. I found it once and my ex (totally different type, lol) saw us hanging out and accused me of ordering out of the catalog. The guy didn't get it.

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by Anonymousreply 2210/02/2015

The more hair the better.

by Anonymousreply 2310/02/2015

A wallet he can fall off of and a big fat cock

by Anonymousreply 2410/02/2015

Caucasian, stocky, hairy chest, preferably bearded.

But kindness and a sense of humor go a long way, too.

(And, you know, he really doesn't have to be riding a white horse...!)

by Anonymousreply 2510/02/2015

Intelligent, kind, liberal, cultured.

Fit or fit-fat, dark eyes (the darker the brown the better), no tattoos, no piercings. Love ski-jump noses, but not necessary.

by Anonymousreply 2610/02/2015

Tall , thin, pale , dark hair dark eyes. Intelligent ,sense of humor polite big cock

by Anonymousreply 2710/02/2015

I can't believe the # of posts that mention a big cock. Of all the traits, that's what comes to mind first for half of you? Wow.

by Anonymousreply 2810/02/2015

Big Cock = Big heart.....or was that big hands?

by Anonymousreply 2910/02/2015

Tall, skinny guys with dark hair. Beyond that a nice guy, preferably with a good sense of humor. I love guys that can make me laugh.

by Anonymousreply 3010/02/2015

another vote for fit/fat

by Anonymousreply 3110/03/2015

Sane. Smart. Handsome. Modest.

& and funny as hell!

by Anonymousreply 3210/03/2015

guys with full lips and pretty eyes, preferably tan or black guys.

I like guys that are docile in bed.

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by Anonymousreply 3310/03/2015

No blacks, red dot indians, fems

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by Anonymousreply 3510/03/2015

preferably cut, but if the rest of you is remarkable, a foreskin can be overlooked.

by Anonymousreply 3610/03/2015

Anything that's warm and secretes.

by Anonymousreply 3710/03/2015

[quote] I can't believe the # of posts that mention a big cock. Of all the traits, that's what comes to mind first for half of you? Wow.

I'm a bottom and I prefer an average/small cock, preferably uncut. One of my exes (Asian, so much for that tired stereotype) had a big, cut dick and it tore me up. My current partner is uncut and average size and it's so much more pleasurable.

But, to respond to your comment, for me at least, dick size is way down the list of important traits. As long as he has one, we can work with it.

by Anonymousreply 3810/03/2015

Are we talking about for a fuck or bf?

I don't have a type for a fuck. My bf's have to be brilliant and broadly educated and have catholic tastes. I also appreciate lovers who are cheerful especially in the morning.

Fuck buddies - I like testosteroned alpha males of any ethnicity or body type. They can even be bottoms, But they have to have wolfish energy.

by Anonymousreply 3910/03/2015

Dark skin (preferably black), tall, thin muscular build, athletic, great sense of humor, good thick dick sucking lips, smart and politically aware.

by Anonymousreply 4010/03/2015

[quote]they have to have wolfish energy.

I wouldn't know "wolfish energy" unless it caught my foot in its trap.

by Anonymousreply 4110/03/2015

White , dark hair , smart , kind funny good breath

by Anonymousreply 4210/03/2015

Dark eyes

Dark skin

Black hair


Nice full eyebrows

by Anonymousreply 4310/03/2015

O-negative. Why?

by Anonymousreply 4410/03/2015

Handsome face and a big sturdy ass.

by Anonymousreply 4510/03/2015

You really wanna know

What I want in a guy?

Well, I'm looking for a dream on a mean machine

With hell in his eyes.

I want a devil in skin tight leather

Who's gonna be wild as the wind.

And one fine night

I'll be holding on tight.

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by Anonymousreply 4610/03/2015

Less hot than me but more successful than me. Zach Quinto and Miles McMillan remind me of me (I'm the MM) and my boyfriend (he's the ZQ)

by Anonymousreply 4710/03/2015

Upper middle class demeanor. There's a nice way about that softness, which comes from affording to take the serious things lightly and the light things seriously.

Physically, I prefer thin with a full head of light hair, light eyes, and nice hands and feet. Weird, I know.

by Anonymousreply 4810/04/2015

Majority of you bitches are going to remain single for loooong time or suddenly become open minded for other types when you hit 50, which is 252 in gay years.

by Anonymousreply 4910/04/2015

Verdana, sometimes bold, sometimes italic.

by Anonymousreply 5010/04/2015

I like a broad range, but often drawn to darker men. Love a thick head of hair, especially on a guy who likes having his head rubbed. It may seem weird, but I find myself turned on by guys with smaller ears.

Slim, thick, or muscled are all good - but well-proportioned is a real turn on. I'd prefer a very skinny guy to one who's a hulk from the waist up and looks looks like a stick figure from the waist down. I see that a lot (especially in the summer) and it depresses me.

Most important is a guy's demeanor. The way he treats waiters and bus drivers and shop clerks means a lot to me. Arrogance, rudeness and gratuitous vulgarity are deal breakers. An easy smile and an effortless manner turn me on.

Oh, and a guy who can seriously deepthroat gets extra points.

by Anonymousreply 5110/04/2015

Christopher Reeves pre-pony show

Howie Long around 1998

Mitch Pileggi around 1997

I should wake up hacking like a cat.

by Anonymousreply 5210/04/2015

Like 'em straight and DRUNK

by Anonymousreply 5310/04/2015

French model and actor (The Bastard Executioner) Matthieu Charneau is my choice for physical ideal.

If he could also discuss in depth the causes of World War I, the different schools of international cinema, be familiar with the novels of James Gould Cozzens and Wallace Stegner, and be willing to jump in a car at a moment's notice to go touring the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, I'd be in love.

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by Anonymousreply 5410/04/2015

[quote]Majority of you bitches are going to remain single for loooong time or suddenly become open minded for other types when you hit 50, which is 252 in gay years

Very open minded here, yet still single ... By choice.

by Anonymousreply 5510/04/2015

Yellow skin and a wide ass.

by Anonymousreply 5610/04/2015

Blond and boyish with All American disposition. Neither a hetero bully nor a homo pissy queen -- but one of those nice guys who seems to have no idea just how cute they are (though of course they do).

by Anonymousreply 5710/04/2015

R49, there's your ideal type and then there's what you go back to all the time.

I'd like black Irish, but I always end up with pale Italian. The temperament is different.

by Anonymousreply 5810/04/2015

R57, my type personified. And I know him and he fits the nice kid bill too. The Perfect Boy.

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by Anonymousreply 6010/04/2015

R59, that kid knows he's pretty. Calculated hair, clothes ... And knows how to work the lens.

by Anonymousreply 6110/04/2015

Yeah, the boy at r59 is hardly unassuming or unaware.

by Anonymousreply 6210/04/2015

Are there really any handsome guys that don't they are handsome?

by Anonymousreply 6310/04/2015

*don't know*

by Anonymousreply 6410/04/2015

Well hung Italians or Jews. Hairy a plus.

Thank God I live in New York.

by Anonymousreply 6510/04/2015

Don't compromise on the personality traits, but definitely go outside the usual type. I ended up meeting a big, redheaded, bearded, shy computer geek Scotsman. Not my typical physically (except for the big cock) as I usually went for the slender "pretty" blondes and brunettes. Best decision I ever made -11 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 6610/04/2015

I have a thing for the dark hair, scruffy beard,and glasses nerdy guys. Especially when they get nervous when you walk up and talk to them. When I say nerdy, I mean a smart bookworm, not plays video games all day nerds.

by Anonymousreply 6710/04/2015

R59 is officially the best looking guy I know -- and I know a LOT of pretty boy actors. Because he knows to let you supply that admiration, doesn't supply it himself. The classic "aw shucks" thing is still attractive, certainly in a guy.

Remember the old quote when a reporter asked Debra Winger if she liked Kathleen Turner and Winger said, "She doesn't NEED me to like her." That always struck a nerve when it came to physical attraction.

by Anonymousreply 6810/04/2015

Physically, Matthew Modine in Vision Quest. Big hands, big shoulders, great hair, tall.

Emotionally, of course, it's all about humour, kindness, and comparability.

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by Anonymousreply 6910/05/2015

What do you mean by comparability, r69? What should you be able to compare him to?

by Anonymousreply 7010/05/2015

I am always attracted to guys with what I call "Disney eyes." This includes guys from every race/color -- the eye shape is not as important; the prominence among the rest of their features is, however -- whose eyes express everything with intense clarity.

Post introduction, it's rare that their personalities clash so much with mine to cause a loss of interest. Common interests only carry so much value for me. Even Wonder-Twin-level compatibility will overcompensate for a lack of eyes that electrify me.

by Anonymousreply 7110/05/2015

Sorry, I meant, "will NOT overcompensate for a lack of eyes that electrify me."

by Anonymousreply 7210/05/2015

R72 is attracted to guys with thyroid conditions. Seek Germans from Iowa- lots of buggy-eyed freaks.

by Anonymousreply 7310/05/2015

I like short and hairy, but not the shaved head goatee clone monsters.

Blonde, dark, red, matters not if they have nice body hair and are nice men who are total bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 7410/05/2015

My current celebrity obsession is Jai Courtney. I love that hairy, butch hunk of man.

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by Anonymousreply 7510/05/2015

two balls, a hole and a heartbeat

by Anonymousreply 7610/05/2015

My boy at R59 gives all of you, even the non-believers, an early Christmas present here.

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by Anonymousreply 7710/05/2015

r77, does he really have those awful tattoos? That would be a dealbreaker for me.

by Anonymousreply 7810/06/2015

Yeah, it does suck, sorry. Deduct a few points for that, bonus points for that ass and blonde pubic hair so almost evens out.

They ALL have those goddam tattoos these days. And the same ones! Man, they're going to be sorry one day when they are faded and sagging.

by Anonymousreply 7910/06/2015

Short guys and sweet-natured prison thugs. Esp when one person embodies both.

by Anonymousreply 8010/06/2015

Someone that likes being the big spoon.

by Anonymousreply 8110/06/2015

While I'm not someone who is fixated on type, at all, Blondes always make me turn. Usually your typical Scandinavian/American looking guy, light almond shaped eyes, usually green, upturned nose, broad mouth. Medium tall, sort of lanky but not anemic looking, light tan skin. I find some redheads very hot as well and oddly enough, Filipino guys, with shiny dark eyes and smooth features.

Personality; calm. Laid back but not lazy. Not too obsessive about anything but principled. A good man.

by Anonymousreply 8210/06/2015

I like the hopeless romantic types. The ones that want more than just sex. I want someone that talks about marriage, a home, and perhaps kids. Some think it's a heteronormative way of thinking, but i think everyone can one day hope to have a spouse, and a happily ever after... hopefully with a tall, dark, and handsome bear of a man.

by Anonymousreply 8310/06/2015

I like men that are tall, I would like them to at least be able to go on a bike ride with me, and not get tired or winded after five minutes. So athletic and if he has a bit of a belly, that's fine with me. No hang ups on other physical features. Personality wise, I like someone who is openminded, is courteous to everyone,intelligent,and funny is a definite plus. Also have a soft spot for nerdy guys.

by Anonymousreply 8410/07/2015

Tall, dark, and handsome, charming with a great smile. If a guy has a nice smile, I'm gonna swoon. I love manly men. I love guys who can't help flirting and probably don't even realize they're doing it. I also love men who love Jesus.

by Anonymousreply 8504/16/2020

Not loving Jesus is a prerequisite.

by Anonymousreply 8604/16/2020

Beefy, rugged men between 40 and 60.

by Anonymousreply 8704/16/2020

Must be highly intelligent, have a great sense of humor, like to play tennis, physically fit, truthful, hair or no hair on head, I don't care. Hairy chest a plus. Nice plysique, not plump. Med to large "attribute", Financially comfortable. No illness, veneral or otherwise. Intellectually curious and interested in music and broadway plays and concerts. Drinker or smoker just fine. Not particularly religiouos but spiritual OK Thats all!

by Anonymousreply 8804/16/2020

College frat boy with dark hair.

by Anonymousreply 8904/16/2020

bonus points for the sleazy cock ring worn only on the huge cock

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by Anonymousreply 9004/16/2020

Short (5'7" or less), stocky, beefy and solid with a big thick butt. Low body fat isn't necessary - just no huge gut or giant cankles. I could care less about the dick as long as you have one (ass is my priority). No preference on eye or hair color (or hair in general), but teeth matter. Any ethnicity welcome.

by Anonymousreply 9104/16/2020

Skinny and fem. Preferably smooth, tall is a plus but not a requirement. Nice skin, clean and well groomed, pretty face or at least gay face. Prissy queen.

Dick size over 4 inch, beyond that I dont really care. Preferably cut.

Very affectionate, needs and gives a lot of touch and cuddles.

Has a job of some sort, self sufficient, has common sense. Clean living, doesnt smoke or drink (or at least not much, doesnt do drugs. Health conscious. Religious / spiritual OK as long as they arent too OTT about it. A bit of life experience and maturity

Examples Frankie Grande

by Anonymousreply 9204/16/2020

R54 don’t miss this

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by Anonymousreply 9304/16/2020

R92 you’re attracted to Frankie Grande?

by Anonymousreply 9406/27/2020

Any ethnicity, attractive but with a nice perky ass. Yowza. Overly tweezed eyebrows and long fingernails don't make the cut.

by Anonymousreply 9506/27/2020

Pale-skinned guys with dark eyes. A nicely hairy chest. Strong thighs. Pepperoni nips.

Personality: smart, quiet, and a sense of humor. Kindness.

by Anonymousreply 9606/27/2020

Hairy body. Usually that alone is enough

by Anonymousreply 9706/27/2020

G r10 - Sounds like your trying to convince a divorce consular.

by Anonymousreply 9806/27/2020

R94 yes. I know he's not everybody's cup of tea. Thats the great thing, we is all different and we got different types

by Anonymousreply 9906/27/2020

It’s interesting that many (most?) gay men don’t care that much about height and, where a preference exists, it’s often short that’s preferred. This is unheard of among women. Height is the single most important trait by far. A dude can be hideous and jobless but if he’s 6’4 the ladies will love him. A hot 5’6 guy with a great job will still have a tough time with the ladies.

by Anonymousreply 10006/27/2020

Young dumb and full of cum

by Anonymousreply 10106/28/2020

Dark and hairy, basically the “missing link.”

by Anonymousreply 10206/28/2020

Smooth twinks

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Funny guys that can piece together a full sentence without mentioning Madonna

by Anonymousreply 10506/28/2020

Quiet and smart.

by Anonymousreply 10606/28/2020

Naturally slim, lanky guys with nice hair, beautiful faces, deep voices, no tattoos, sweet but reserved personalities.

Basically the opposite of bulky tatted body, shaved head bitchy and loud.

by Anonymousreply 10706/28/2020

I'm kind of a slut. I like so many different types of men it's not funny. Things I definitely have a thing for are tattooed thug looking Asian guys especially Filipinos, dark hair, tattooed guys of any race, beards, Well put together older men, I also have a thing for super tall guys and an air of intensity.

by Anonymousreply 10806/28/2020

Who makes me look twice? Someone who looks like Henry Golding but doesn't necessarily have to be Asian . Nice smile, dark hair but not hairy, and multi-ethnic. Age range: 30 - 40 and medium build. They get a second date if they can carry a conversation, can make me laugh and has good manners. Another type of guy who I find attractive is someone like James McAvoy because I have a thing for Scottish men.

Fortunately, this describes my current bf who is Japanese. Though he doesn't have Henry's good looks, he's amazing in bed. True, he isn't hung but I don't care.

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by Anonymousreply 10906/28/2020

Him. Handsome man-next-door Kyle Chandler.

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by Anonymousreply 11106/28/2020

phat assed white bottoms. i like when their asses jiggle when i slap them. i like when they are aggressive too. sit on my face and wiggle.

by Anonymousreply 11206/28/2020

Well groomed dark haired men with a nice closely cropped beard, & hairy chest and forearms.

Well built curly headed dirty blonds with a hairy chest.

by Anonymousreply 11306/28/2020

Rugged looking guys, who are fit. They take care of themselves...well-groomed, exercise regularly. I like a guy with a nice butt. I could care less about cock size. Just get hard. But muscular hindquarters make me weak in the knees. I like men with well trimmed beards.

Intelligent and confident. Kind to all...he treats all the same: with kindness and respect.

A great sense of humor: can laugh at himself.

by Anonymousreply 11406/28/2020

Interestingly, I have actually rarely had sex with my ideal type—handsome, hairy, bearded, tight, not overly muscular.

A few years back, I did spend the night with one who exactly fit this description and it was like fireworks

by Anonymousreply 11506/28/2020

Mediterranean. Olive to brown. Italian to Middle Eastern. Thinish.

by Anonymousreply 11606/28/2020

My ideal type for dating would be a clean-cut, slim/fit (a tight body is my biggest turn-on) NJB around my age. Must love musicals and be passionate but vanilla/safe in bed. Dick size and position are irrelevant as long as his dick gets very hard and he is willing to give and receive oral.

It doesn’t sound like it would be hard to find, but I don’t think I have ever met anyone who entirely fits that description let alone returned interest.

by Anonymousreply 11706/28/2020

Nice smile, good heart, sweet nature, ability to admit mistakes, imaginative but not necessarily intellectual, good dresser, socially presentable. Also light hair, my height, stocky, round face, bottom, uncut - European I guess.

by Anonymousreply 11806/28/2020

This thread can nauseate a bulimic! I would think I'm listening to a bunch of Beckys and Karens stating the qualities they most desire in men: "a kind heart, shy and soft-spoken, nerdy, intellectual, a guy who makes me laugh."

Unreal! Just admit you know you want the ripped abs, iron pecs, and tattooed Lous who wouldn't give you the time of day. The porn wannabes and rentmen haranguing the private parties this weekend to which you'd never warrant an invite. Or the self-adoring, malignantly narcissistic Instagram sluts who couldn't love if it came with a training manual. Or the dominant, verbally-abusive monoliths who will fuck you to high heaven and forget your name, if they ever bothered to learn it in the first place.

Just ask any truly "kind" or "sensitive" guy how far those qualities got him in any gay bar or dating app, if he was a fattie, a fug, or both. The sad reality we're arrived at today is that the nicer you are to someone, the more likely you are to get fucked, and not in the way you'd want it. For all those Tiger Beat Nellies who say they want a "guy that makes me laugh," remember there's nothing funnier than being in bed with Bozo!

Part of emotional maturity is resigning what you believe you want with what you actually want. Those without that maturity will never discern the difference. However, before you decide on any type, do verify the following and save yourself potentially copious amounts of woe: Health status. (Physical, mental, and emotional). Active employment. Level of education. Type of career. Self-supporting. Personal and professional goals and achievements. Owns own home or rents a leased apartment. (Not mama's basement boys). Credit rating. Past marriages, children, debts, child support, lawsuits, bankruptcies, etc. Criminal background. (More common than you'd care to know).

And most importantly, ask yourself this question: Is this the type of man you'd want to appoint to be your healthcare proxy?

Happy Reflections and Happy Pride.

by Anonymousreply 11906/28/2020

R119 I've never heard someone argue so passionately for the idea that everybody has the same priorities and desires. You're articulate but immature. Deeming "attractiveness" as an objective standard, and then judging it by success at gay bars? It's a limited perspective at best and full-on ignorance at worst. The advice at the end is good, but get out of your social bubble!

by Anonymousreply 12006/28/2020

Intelligent, but not a know-it-all. I find intelligence very sexy.

Monogamous. Experience has taught me that I can't deal with open relationships or cheating.

Someone who can be my best friend, as well as my lover/partner/husband.

Probably not American. I don't want to start a flame war, but in general, I prefer uncut guys, and they tend to be from other countries.

Thin/medium build. I've struggled with being overweight all of my life, and I find that being with someone who eats reasonably and exercises keeps me nearer to my goal weight.

Someone to whom I'm genuinely attracted. I've been with guys who check off all the boxes, but unless there's a real spark, it probably won't work in the long run. Conversely, I've met guys who ignited the spark in me who met none of the arbitrary criteria above, and yet we've had a great relationship. So my type is not written in stone.

by Anonymousreply 12106/28/2020

Handsome Latino dorks.

Poncho Herrera in ‘Sense 8’... perfection.

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[quote] My ideal type for dating would be a clean-cut, slim/fit (a tight body is my biggest turn-on) NJB around my age. Must love musicals and be passionate but vanilla/safe in bed. Dick size and position are irrelevant as long as his dick gets very hard and he is willing to give and receive oral. It doesn’t sound like it would be hard to find, but I don’t think I have ever met anyone who entirely fits that description let alone returned interest.

Isn't that literally every gay many in NYC?

by Anonymousreply 12306/29/2020

A friend once told me "you like 'em intellectual and scrawny." I guess that's it.

by Anonymousreply 12406/29/2020

"suburban dad" has been my type since I was a young teen obsessed with Major Nelson, Larry Tate, Buck Rogers and Porter Ricks

by Anonymousreply 12506/29/2020

R123, you would think that, wouldn’t you?! But it’s shocking how rarely those qualities intersect among NYC gays. I do know *of* guys that have all those qualities but haven’t actually met them. Off the top of my head, only two guys I know come close- one is technically not Jewish (his father is Jewish; his mom is not) and not really clean-cut; the other is quite a bit younger than me and almost definitely not interested.

by Anonymousreply 12606/29/2020

Big and hairy and bearded.

by Anonymousreply 12706/29/2020

I like big dicks and fried chicken

by Anonymousreply 12806/29/2020

Tall (at least 6’3”) with lean muscles

Light eyes (blue or green)

Medium length blond hair

Surfer attitude with a good job

by Anonymousreply 12906/30/2020

Bears. Always has been.

by Anonymousreply 13006/30/2020

First BF: Israeli. Hairy. Dark hair, green eyes. Soldier. Hot Bottom. Second BF: Calif. boy. Blonde hair on head, arms and legs. Bottom for me. #bestsexever. Third BF: Skinny/swimmer build. Nerdy/sexy East Coast boy. Funny. Dark hair, green eyes. Bottom for me.

Guess I don't have a type.

by Anonymousreply 13106/30/2020

I like SLIM guys with NATURAL bodies, NOT muscular,no TATTOOS, no PIERCINGS, no RINGS, no SHAVED PUBIC HAIR.

by Anonymousreply 13206/30/2020

I am a sucker for brown eyes and.. don’t know any other way to say it... a kind face.

by Anonymousreply 13306/30/2020

R133-It's funny you say a KIND face. There's a guy who works at my Trader Joe's who I've seen for years. I'm attracte to him. One of the things that I find attractive about him he has a look of sincerity on his face.

by Anonymousreply 13406/30/2020

R134... my current crush is Dr. James Phillips on CNN. Exactly that face...

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by Anonymousreply 13606/30/2020

Dear R119: You must be a real hit at parties. Do you cast a pall everywhere you go? Are you a divorce lawyer, per chance?

Leaving all your considerations aside, what is your type?

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