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Do openly gay men have straight sex?


by Anonymousreply 8904/19/2020

Oh puleaze.

by Anonymousreply 109/30/2015

Fish are not interested in that, fearing that every sissy has "AID$"

by Anonymousreply 209/30/2015

Why is this thread not as interesting as the "straight guy having gay sex" thread?

by Anonymousreply 309/30/2015

What does that even mean OP?

by Anonymousreply 409/30/2015

You don't know what that means R4?

I guess I should have said, "Do openly gay men have heterosexual sex"?

Or, if you're an asshole..."normal sex"?

Does that help you?

This thread is not as interesting as the straight guys having gay sex threads. I wonder why.

by Anonymousreply 509/30/2015

Wow. I can't believe how many openly gay men have straight sex. This thread needs to be sent to all the Km Davis's throughout the world.

I mean, gay men like Carson Kressely are banging vagine!

Wow! That!

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by Anonymousreply 609/30/2015

OK. I thought that "straight" meant like basic old missionary as opposed to something a tad kinky. why in the hell would openly gay men have heterosexual sex? That's rather stupid isn't it?

by Anonymousreply 709/30/2015

I don't know R7. It is. I agree.

But, that poll is something.

by Anonymousreply 809/30/2015

That pussy is Nastay

by Anonymousreply 909/30/2015

Yum. Vagine.

by Anonymousreply 1009/30/2015

Vagine bump!

by Anonymousreply 1109/30/2015

Openly gay men bumpin with vagine.

by Anonymousreply 1209/30/2015

Why aren't openly gay men into vagine yet straight men are into cock?

by Anonymousreply 1310/01/2015

Out of curiosity: Yes.

Forcing oneself in order to turn heterosexual: Yes.

When you acknowledge and embrace your homosexuality you don't fantasise nor search for women.

by Anonymousreply 1410/01/2015

Once in awhile.

by Anonymousreply 1510/01/2015

I've never known an openly gay man curious about vagina.

by Anonymousreply 1610/01/2015

It is obvious what OP is trying to do.

He is trying to use sound logic to expose how ridiculous the argument is that straight men have gay sex.

How dare he!

by Anonymousreply 1710/01/2015

This man is sometimes into vagine. That is mind boggling.

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by Anonymousreply 1810/01/2015

Than you R17 for 'splainin'.

by Anonymousreply 1910/01/2015

An acquaintance of mine who is openly gay (a top) once had sex with a girl but he didn't like it. He said the vagina is weird because it moves as if it were alive, it constantly sucked his penis up. He didn't like anal sex with her either. He said a guy's butt is much better because it tighter.

by Anonymousreply 2010/01/2015

Ryan Rose just had straight sex.

Jason Sechrest still has straight sex.

Spencer Reed still has straight sex.

by Anonymousreply 2110/01/2015

Yes, but you have to get them drunk first.

by Anonymousreply 2210/01/2015

These guys wouldn't be bisexual?

by Anonymousreply 2310/01/2015

It seems like heterosexuality is much more flexible than homosexuality is.

by Anonymousreply 2410/01/2015

If these guys are into having sex with women then they are bi, regardless of how they identify.

by Anonymousreply 2510/01/2015

I can't tell if the poll is true R24, or if it's just a fantasy. But, you're right. It's clear male homosexuality is not flexible but male heterosexuality is.

by Anonymousreply 2610/01/2015

Well, that flexibility is simply bisexuality.

by Anonymousreply 2710/01/2015

It is but people refuse to use it. It's either straight or gay.

by Anonymousreply 2810/01/2015

The men I listed at r25 all identify as gay because that is their orientation. It's the overwhelming majority of their experiences and their LTRs are only homosexual.

They don't mind admitting bisexuality, but they dont want to mislead people about what their nature essentially is.

Like most male bisexuals, they need and prefer one gender over another. So the label "bisexual" is inadequate and mysterious alone.

by Anonymousreply 2910/28/2015

Wrong, r26.

Just a few years ago, I saw a poll of gay-identified men that revealed 40 percent of them had sex with women when they were in the closet.

There are even "straight for pay" porn stars like Jack Wrangler, Blu Kennedy, Blake Harper and Blake Riley.

But that market is much smaller than the demand gay men have for hot women-oriented men fagging out.

by Anonymousreply 3010/28/2015

So, homosexuality is a choice.

by Anonymousreply 3110/28/2015

I'm not talking about closeted gay men who have sex with women in order to cure themselves of their homosexuality, I'm talking about openly gay men who actively seek out women for sex or blow jobs the way straight men seek out out men for sex or bliw jobs, or at least, the way they do according to this site.

by Anonymousreply 3210/28/2015

I only have sex with a woman when there is another guy in the bed...

by Anonymousreply 3310/28/2015

I find this very unlikely to happen. Even though I don't have many gay friends, none of them has ever commented anything about sleeping with women spontaneously.

I have a bisexual friend and he now has a girlfriend.

Not even in my longest periods of abstinence the image of a woman has crossed my mind. It is men that keep appearing in my head in those moments.

by Anonymousreply 3410/28/2015

It's happened certainly. Won't say it's the norm by any means I had sex with girls a few times in high school and definitely don't consider myself bi. Wasn't what i'd call awful but it just kinda confirmed what i already knew by that point. It almost happened again some years later with a good friend of mine on a drunken night together. But we both wised up that would be a disaster and only complicate our friendship. Now i'm seriously involved with a bi guy and we've casually talked about a 3 way with a woman and i haven't totally shot the idea down. Could be an interesting experience in the right situation but i't not a high priority for either of us. He's been content with some occasional str8 porn

by Anonymousreply 3510/28/2015

I've done mmf threesomes where the guys interact and where they didn't, both are good but I prefer the ones where we touch each other and more

by Anonymousreply 3610/28/2015

R35, you were closeted. I'm asking about openly gay men.

by Anonymousreply 3710/28/2015

So you claim to be gay R36, but if a scientist looked into your brain he would identify you as bisexual?

by Anonymousreply 3810/28/2015

The Fraus of DL are fantasizing again

by Anonymousreply 3910/28/2015

I knew a guy who claimed to be gay and had sex with women. He cheated on his boyfriend with multiple women. He was clearly bisexual but in denial.

by Anonymousreply 4010/28/2015

Maybe in the early confused years, but usually, once you go brokeback, you never go back.

by Anonymousreply 4110/28/2015

The male body is the most beautiful. Who doesn't love it

by Anonymousreply 4210/28/2015

I've never sought it out but it has happened. I close my eyes and imagine I'm with a guy. It's the only way I can cum.

by Anonymousreply 4310/28/2015

That doesn't disprove the bisexual potential within, r32.

And gay-for-pay was attacked, not free exploration. Lucrative, financial reward driven by gay men who have these needs is a MUCH stronger incentive than attraction alone. Everyone's attraction level is different, too.

Stop telling yourself that everyone is just like you or has the same opportunities and needs.

by Anonymousreply 4410/28/2015

Oh my R44. Lol.

by Anonymousreply 4510/28/2015

Homosexuality is not a choice, r31. Neither is bisexual attraction for many.

But thanks for introducing Tea Party-level discourse into a serious subject that ruins millions of people's lives when misunderstood.

Almost all bisexual males have massively stronger attraction to one gender over another. Their orientation is different than temporary behaviors, which is all "bisexual" has to mean.

They're still centered around one gender and cannot be satisfied, happy or experience true love without romantic relations with this gender.

So orientation, attraction and romantic need are never a choice for anyone.

Temporary behaviors are. There are plenty of gay-for-pay, straight-for-pay porn stars and prostitutes who acquiesce and even acquire a taste for sexual relations opposite their orientation as well as homos who had a little fun with beards or merkins. But they can't sustain a healthy or equal LTR on it.

The pleasure or happiness they experience is typically milder than when they're with the gender they're oriented to.

And they don't need it.

Lots of gay people can't get aroused by the opposite sex at all.

Now stop trying to force everyone's sexuality to be like yours. That's what hurt gays in the first place.

by Anonymousreply 4610/28/2015

Things happen sometimes between people that are not your normal preference or attraction. It's not really any different than a str8 guy who's gotten some head from another dude in a particular situation.

by Anonymousreply 4710/29/2015

Then he's bisexual or gay. But, he can call himself "str8" or whatever. He can call himself an alpha-number hybrid type word. I call myself a tree.

by Anonymousreply 4810/29/2015

No R48 life is just a lot more complicated that you must be this or that if it's not a consistent pattern or preference.

by Anonymousreply 4910/29/2015

No, it's not. They are gay or bisexual. Why the need to claim they are straight?

by Anonymousreply 5010/29/2015

So, R48, do you apply that same attitude to transgender people? Or, are you one of those gay men who claim that transgender women are men no matter what they call themselves.

by Anonymousreply 5110/29/2015

We are loathe to admit it, but we have, on occasia, performed Lesbian sex acts - but only when we were paid to do so!

by Anonymousreply 5210/29/2015

MPC, did you taste the tuna of some sexually neglected Beverly Hills housewife?

by Anonymousreply 5310/29/2015

R51 different poster here but yeah I don't consider transgendered women as women. Out of respect I will refer to them as she and call them transgendered (I would never call them a man) but I will also never refer to them as WOMEN (since they are not!)

People choose to identify themselves as whatever they want in their heads regardless of evidence or actions. They will identify as whatever suits them best, or suits their friends/family best and so on

by Anonymousreply 5410/30/2015

But, you refer to men who have sex with men as straight.

by Anonymousreply 5510/30/2015


by Anonymousreply 5610/30/2015

Pussy is the devil. AND it's attached to women. Good heavens - a person would have to be insane.

by Anonymousreply 5710/30/2015

R55 I don't consider them straight myself, can't speak for others though

by Anonymousreply 5810/30/2015

Your gender is in your brain. I regularly watch Youtube videos uploaded by transgender people, especially transgender men and some I find attractive both physically and psychologically. It is not something you can easily describe, but I see a difference between transgender men and transgender women when it comes to their psychology, way of expression, etc.

What I find attractive about some of these trasngender men is their physical appearance since some of them work out really hard but also their psychology which is clearly masculine.

When I watch videos of transgender women I may perceive their beauty physically and psychologically, but they are women and their natural way of expression is like that of women so I don't find them sexually or romantically attractive because I am not attacted to women.

by Anonymousreply 5910/30/2015

At least you're not a hypocrite, R58.

by Anonymousreply 6010/30/2015

Well, this poll shows that openly gay men have do not have straight sex, but straight men have gay sex. So, it appears heterosexuality is flexible and homosexuality is not.

by Anonymousreply 6111/11/2015


by Anonymousreply 6211/12/2015

straight men have gay sex, gay men have straight sex, cunts have dick sex, dicks have cunt sex. The world AIN'T what it USED to be!

by Anonymousreply 6311/12/2015

Woman here , quick story when I was traveling in Italy with my best friends who's entire family lived there I was hit on by men who I knew to be gay . It was very odd . In fact the friend of one close family friend said to me ( I was really drunk and I understaood italian very well , but he did not realize it ) said to me quite clearly in my ear , " you are beautiful , we could get married and you can be with woman and I can be with men" by the way he was very tall and handsom from Rome , but sensed the gayness of him from hello. In any case I ignored him and told my friend later, we found out that a lot of men in Italy do this ,have wives and children but are gay . They do it for their mothers , there church and la familglia.

by Anonymousreply 6411/12/2015

We hope something bad happens to r64.

by Anonymousreply 6511/12/2015

R61 Hmmmmmmmm

by Anonymousreply 6611/13/2015

That's true R64. But, I am asking about openly gayvmen, not closeted. Openly gay men, like Carson Kressley who actively seek women out for sex either in person or online.

by Anonymousreply 6711/13/2015

That sounds bisexual to me; not gay, R64

by Anonymousreply 6811/13/2015


by Anonymousreply 6912/09/2015

This thread gets little interest but the straifht guys having gay sex perks lots of interest. I wonder why?

The poll is honest ar least.

by Anonymousreply 7012/14/2015

It's interesting the poll results for this thread as opposed to the "do straight guys have gay sex" thread.

Straight men do have gay sex. Openly gay men do NOT have straight sex.

by Anonymousreply 7101/09/2016

R71 finally someone on here who gets it.

by Anonymousreply 7201/09/2016

r64, then he was bisexual. I'm Italian, I live in Italy and not in a particularly progressive town and a man would not have any problem being single here. There is no incentive to fake. Even most people who go to church go there out of habit rather than because they believe what the Church teaches. The influence of family now is slim, since the primary concern is to get/have a job and more and more people separate/divorce so it's not like the family pushes for something that they see is not working anymore in society. The fact is that many men, like women, are not straight, but since when they were growing up the "issue" wasn't addressed - you were de facto considered straight and no further talking existed about other sexual orientation, at least not officially, or at school or in the mass media, expect for the "faggot" and "dyke" words and things of this kind. It simply was a hush hush topic. But it's not like there is this high pressure to get married or such an oppressive system. It's more like apathy towards the topic, so unless you want to do PDA or stuff, nobody bothers you. A colleague of my sister is gay, in a relationship, "acting gay" in behavior - meaning that if you ask 10 people on the street who see him what is, they will likely say gay - yet he doesn't have any problem at work or with his superiors. Until you keep it private, nobody cares.

by Anonymousreply 7301/09/2016

Is a hole just a hole to openly gay men? If the hole belongs to a woman? That pole...poll...says no.

by Anonymousreply 7401/10/2016

I think for the vast majority if homosexual men who are tops a hole is not always just a hole. They don't go crazy or lust after a female's hole.

Homosexual men seem to be more rigid in this respect than heterosexual men who, apparently, are much more willing to penetrate another man if they don't have females around... Perhaps there is some underestimated degree of flexibility in heterosexuality that is not that common in homosexuality...

by Anonymousreply 7501/12/2016

So masc guys are into vagine, fem guys...not so much?

by Anonymousreply 7601/12/2016

It happens. A good friend of mine is banging this friend on her ovulation schedule since want to make a baby but don't have the funds for other means. Now if successful i don't think they really have thought out just how they will afford the baby. But i don't get into all that since amusing stories of how he has to "prepare" to do do the deed.

by Anonymousreply 7701/12/2016

There is absolutely no reason why an OPENLY gay man would have "straight" sex.

by Anonymousreply 7801/12/2016

Doesn't it really "happen" R77?

by Anonymousreply 7901/12/2016

Does it

by Anonymousreply 8001/12/2016

I remember and acquaintance of mine who is homosexual and a top when he said that he once had sex with a woman but he didn't like it. He said the vagina felt strange, it is a like a vacuumer sucking like there is no tomorrow and it pulsates. Likewise, he had anal sex with her too but also didn't like it. He said it is much better with men because a guy's butt is tighter and more dense.

by Anonymousreply 8101/12/2016

Fish stinks.

by Anonymousreply 8201/12/2016

Sperm smells like fish though.

by Anonymousreply 8301/13/2016

Sperm like fish.

by Anonymousreply 8401/19/2016

well Sperm does swim. It must get so confused when there is no egg to find

by Anonymousreply 8501/19/2016

R81 Interesting. I keep saying I mean to try it at some point, but who am I kidding?

by Anonymousreply 8604/19/2020

I had an erotic heterosexual dream last night. In it, I was lying naked under a thin sheet, on a bed in full view of people milling about (sometimes I was in my body, sometimes hovering above). Suddenly I was caressing a female in a sensual, playful way.

Very disturbing.

by Anonymousreply 8704/19/2020

This thread is an example of how unrealistic society's thinking is about sexuality. It's not binary, or even 'trinary', but the social conditioning has told us that it is. I'm an out gay man, and have had sex with women. It was a long time ago, but I've actually had vague thoughts of engaging in MF sex in the last few years. I didn't act on it, maybe because I've had almost no sex at all in the last couple of years. But happening upon bisexual MMF porn very recently reignited those thoughts. Even if I did act on those fantasies, I'd still consider myself a homosexual, just one that has desires beyond that strict label.

by Anonymousreply 8804/19/2020

R86, why the hell are you asking someone a question who posted 4 years ago? Stop bumping old threads.

by Anonymousreply 8904/19/2020
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