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Matthew Dempsey Owns His Racism As A Gay White Man: WATCH

Psychotherapist Matthew Dempsey talks about race and the LGBT community in his latest video titled, “I’m Gay, White and Racist.” The video (and its title) underscores how inherent racism is in our society and how it must first be ac…

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by Anonymousreply 600January 13, 2019 12:22 AM

Does he post here at the DL?

by Anonymousreply 1September 29, 2015 2:23 AM

bOY DO I JUST LOVE THE ANIMATED LITTLE ME

by Anonymousreply 2September 29, 2015 2:36 AM

Which one of you is Mark1115?

[quote] The word 'cis' is hate speech. Using [it] indicates that you are a bigot.

Because, you are right, of course. Don't fucking call me "cis" anything.

by Anonymousreply 3September 29, 2015 2:38 AM

Wow, he is a very boring speaker/ story teller. I couldn't get through 2 minutes.

by Anonymousreply 4September 29, 2015 5:11 AM

"Cis" is hate speech. Or hate speach, as so many of those idiots type.

by Anonymousreply 5September 29, 2015 1:54 PM

Surely I'm not the only one who wants to fuck his brains out?

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by Anonymousreply 6September 29, 2015 3:07 PM

I would gladly fuck his brains out, R6. But I would not want such an attention whore as a therapist.

by Anonymousreply 7September 29, 2015 3:09 PM

If Towels endorses him, of course he sucks.

by Anonymousreply 8September 29, 2015 3:45 PM

Anything for attention. Sigh.

by Anonymousreply 9September 29, 2015 3:50 PM

[r5) Did he just say "insertive" instead of "assertive" when referring to tops? Freudian slip?

by Anonymousreply 10September 29, 2015 7:13 PM

Oops. That was meant for [r6] ^^^^^

by Anonymousreply 11September 29, 2015 7:14 PM

Well, seems like most of Mr Dempsey’s threads have been deleted...

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by Anonymousreply 12September 12, 2018 9:48 AM

Has anyone put this guy on the 2018 suicide watch list yet? He's a ticking time bomb

by Anonymousreply 13September 12, 2018 10:17 AM

Hope he has his own therapist to deal with the multiple issues he seems to flaunt on a daily basis.

by Anonymousreply 14September 12, 2018 10:26 AM

I genuinely don't find him attractive. And something tells me for him, that's a big problem

by Anonymousreply 15September 12, 2018 10:29 AM

Does he think he really has anything profound to say?

Nice-looking, but just too exhausting.

by Anonymousreply 16September 12, 2018 10:33 AM

Doing the Tongue thing:

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by Anonymousreply 17September 12, 2018 10:39 AM

It's troubling that he's still so active on social media at his age. Doesn't bode well

by Anonymousreply 18September 12, 2018 10:41 AM

[quote]Does he think he really has anything profound to say?

No. He's one big, boring ball of embarrassing cliches and platitudes. All his "serving others" self-help psychobabble is just an excuse to get attention. No different than every other Insta-whore. Pretending they are dispensing valuable information/inspiration/tutorials, when all they're really doing is trying to sell you something. Only the young and weak are vulnerable. Everyone else just points and laughs.

by Anonymousreply 19September 12, 2018 10:47 AM

[quote]“We are what we repeatedly do.”

Ah, finally he makes some sense. He repeatedly shows himself to be an insecure, shallow, immature attention whore.

by Anonymousreply 20September 12, 2018 10:52 AM

Yes. We needed this thread after three years.

by Anonymousreply 21September 12, 2018 12:11 PM

Please help donate:

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by Anonymousreply 22September 19, 2018 9:55 AM

This guy is so desperate for attention - quit giving it to him. (although I suspect he's the dumbass who keeps posting about himself).

by Anonymousreply 23September 19, 2018 9:58 AM

I'm not pretty-privileged enough to donate.

by Anonymousreply 24September 19, 2018 9:58 AM

So his other threads got deleted?

by Anonymousreply 25September 19, 2018 10:05 AM

Why, r25? Who are you? Matthew Dempsey?

by Anonymousreply 26September 19, 2018 10:06 AM

R26 just the ho who supplied his nudes

by Anonymousreply 27September 19, 2018 10:09 AM

I'm sure he found you important in his psychosexual development, r27.

by Anonymousreply 28September 19, 2018 10:10 AM

Yes, the other threads have been deleted by Muriel :(

by Anonymousreply 29September 19, 2018 10:10 AM

looks like he completely wiped out his entire xxx private album on scruff...

by Anonymousreply 30September 19, 2018 10:13 AM

Geez, he's insufferable.

by Anonymousreply 31September 19, 2018 10:45 AM

the guy is SUCH a mess. Desperately trying to show the world how together he is by dishing out life advice. He's hanging by a fucking thread. He needs to find the balls to end everything he's involved in, move to the mountains for 3 years and sort his shit out

by Anonymousreply 32September 19, 2018 10:50 AM

Most gay men can relate to black people in the sense that we know that it doesn't feel very nice to be rejected or discriminated against for who you are. And it's natural to put your own personal misery, and the group or groups you belong to, above others and their groups while yet acknowledging that those others suffer, too and not try to belittle or disparage their suffering.

by Anonymousreply 33September 19, 2018 11:45 AM

"He needs to find the balls..."

and his tiny meat, while he's down there searching.

by Anonymousreply 34September 19, 2018 11:49 AM

Surrounded by friends, per usual:

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by Anonymousreply 35September 19, 2018 11:55 AM

I would shoot myself rather than be in a line up like that

by Anonymousreply 36September 19, 2018 11:57 AM

So you say, r36.

by Anonymousreply 37September 19, 2018 12:02 PM

Bois in da Trees:

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by Anonymousreply 38September 19, 2018 12:58 PM

I'm not inclined to watch this. What does he say that makes him racist?

by Anonymousreply 39September 19, 2018 3:36 PM

Where Gentlemen Go:

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by Anonymousreply 40September 20, 2018 4:21 AM

Isn’t she the one who praised herself for her own “bravery” in posting a shirtless selfie?

by Anonymousreply 41September 20, 2018 4:35 AM

Be a Cupcake y’all:

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by Anonymousreply 42September 20, 2018 10:43 AM

Matt and all of his friends are so gorgeous. They’re like exotic zoo animals to me. Beautiful to look at but entirely unrelatable.

by Anonymousreply 43September 20, 2018 11:11 AM

Sunny weather:

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by Anonymousreply 44September 20, 2018 12:10 PM

r44 An actor on Y&R named "Jeffrey Todd" (far left)? Interesting.

by Anonymousreply 45September 20, 2018 12:13 PM

Does "gentleman" mean "strip club patron" in Gay?

by Anonymousreply 46September 20, 2018 12:15 PM

I wonder what is like to be so handsome and only hang out with other handsome (white) men? The world (and Who Butt holes) must just open to him and his friends. What a life...

by Anonymousreply 47September 20, 2018 12:18 PM

that should have said "and Weho buttholes"

by Anonymousreply 48September 20, 2018 12:19 PM

YAWN

by Anonymousreply 49September 20, 2018 12:33 PM

I'd fuck his brains out but I don't think he has any so someone must have beat me to it.

by Anonymousreply 50September 20, 2018 1:49 PM

Man some of you have very low standards. Matt is cute but most of his friends look basic as fuck. Skinny but no muscles, they look like people from trailer trash places who got a free makeover by puedo ricans who overwax. In the picture above none of them can even properly fill out a speedo yet you guys are all desperate to hang out talentless drag queens on meth. Actually a talentless drag queen on meth would be more entertaining than these guys obsessing about Taylor Swift.

by Anonymousreply 51September 20, 2018 2:01 PM

His dick pics aren't that great.

by Anonymousreply 52September 20, 2018 2:12 PM

He and his friends have a certain shallow capital in West Hollywood and surrounding areas, but that capital does not travel well. To most of the world, they look like complete and total idiots.

by Anonymousreply 53September 20, 2018 2:17 PM

His dick pics are fine. Not everyone is Brad Hunt.

by Anonymousreply 54September 20, 2018 2:17 PM

Ugh. Creepy.

by Anonymousreply 55September 20, 2018 3:54 PM

Any one of you guys would trade places with Matt and his friends in a heartbeat. You're being catty out of jealousy.

by Anonymousreply 56September 20, 2018 4:13 PM

Well I'm sure you're going to get this thread deleted too, so might as well get the shots in while we can....

by Anonymousreply 57September 20, 2018 4:21 PM

can I rent to own?

by Anonymousreply 58September 20, 2018 4:25 PM

I think this dude is just trolling the gay community at this point. Maybe he should psychoanalyze his desire for negative attention? There doesn’t seem to be any congruence between the individual and the therapist.

by Anonymousreply 59September 20, 2018 4:25 PM

He is nearly 6’4 his dick is fine if he was 5’6 his dick would look more impressive in pics

by Anonymousreply 60September 20, 2018 4:38 PM

This guy is the gay therapist equivalent of a white person telling people of color that many of their problems really don’t have anything to do with racism—and if they just change their attitude and try harder things will change. Do you really think he experiences any adversity in the gay bubble? He is literally unable to perceive his own privilege in any real way—both as a white male and someone who is conventionally very attractive. It’s literally his blind spot. His homogeneous photos on social media are evidence of that.

by Anonymousreply 61September 20, 2018 4:51 PM

This dude is the thirstiest ho I’ve seen in months. Her expiration date is nearing.

by Anonymousreply 62September 20, 2018 4:55 PM

Yes, r61, his friends - appearance-wise - run the whole gamut from A to B.

by Anonymousreply 63September 20, 2018 4:56 PM

Legs 4 days:

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by Anonymousreply 64September 21, 2018 8:51 AM

Hope they all have nice, pleasant lives and wouldn’t wish anything bad on them. But there is something missing in every photo. Masculinity. It’s like looking at a bunch of teenage girls. Slightly ridiculous given they are grown men.

by Anonymousreply 65September 21, 2018 10:35 AM

What?!

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by Anonymousreply 66September 21, 2018 10:41 AM

WELL FUCKING SAID R65. YOU NAILED IT. Give me a video of a guy going into the wild and building a cabin with his bare hands any day of the week!

by Anonymousreply 67September 21, 2018 10:44 AM

God what a complete, utter douche. The hubris to think he has anything legitimate to say. How can spend five minutes with him and his lazy, new age psychobabble. he's the tool that posted the video on the burden of being good looking. Most likely all the fat girls growing up told him that, and his mother and some aunts - inflated his sense of self. Matthew, you're attractive in the sense you resemble every other mundane pedestrian looking gay. I suggest you keep your mouth shut.

by Anonymousreply 68September 21, 2018 10:50 AM

How (and why—but how?) do you people find the narcissistic naked gay therapists and medical doctors you guys post here? Do you actively search Instagram for naked medical specialists or do they show up as ads in your area? Do you find them on gay blogs or hear about them through the awful Dan Savage you post about? Or are you PR assisants who are paid to populate message boards like this one with links to their IG accounts to make them celebrities? I really want to know. I wrote for a major LGBT outlet 15 years ago and this seismic shift away from political and social equality and to naked gay bodybuilders is confounding.

by Anonymousreply 69September 21, 2018 11:32 AM

Do these guys actually date? They all seem to always be together in a group.

by Anonymousreply 70September 21, 2018 12:38 PM

I like his instagram. I imagine in his off time he hides in the closet puts on black eye shadown and listens to The Cure.

by Anonymousreply 71September 21, 2018 12:47 PM

Sorry, black eye shadow

by Anonymousreply 72September 21, 2018 12:48 PM

Evolution:

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by Anonymousreply 73September 21, 2018 12:54 PM

I have no problem with his lifestyle or friends or profession. Just like all of us, he lives a life that makes him happy. But these people who think others will be or should be so interested in the minutiae of their life that they need to post about it online daily are tiring. The only people I find more tiring are the people who actually are interested in reading about other people's every thought and action on line. There is a point where some people need to learn that too much information really is too much information.

by Anonymousreply 74September 21, 2018 1:00 PM

[quote]looks like he completely wiped out his entire xxx private album on scruff...

Oh nos! Hope you saved them. Please post the whole album somewhere.

by Anonymousreply 75September 21, 2018 1:07 PM

Matt is becoming the perfect DL villain

by Anonymousreply 76September 21, 2018 1:16 PM

r76, why? Did he correct someone's grammar?

by Anonymousreply 77September 21, 2018 1:48 PM

[quote]I wrote for a major LGBT outlet 15 years ago and this seismic shift away from political and social equality and to naked gay bodybuilders is confounding.

You know what's even more confounding? Gay exclusion from LGBT political and social equality.

by Anonymousreply 78September 21, 2018 1:58 PM

whats the dick like? is he top or bottom?

by Anonymousreply 79September 21, 2018 2:17 PM

R79 totally versatile depends on the guy, with shorter & younger guys he likes to dominate & top .

by Anonymousreply 80September 21, 2018 2:38 PM

R69, I'm sometimes in awe of the almost encyclopedic knowledge of Instahoes that some DLers have. Being thirsty on Instagram appears to be a full-time hobby.

by Anonymousreply 81September 21, 2018 3:00 PM

He probably never got over being circumcised and makes the rest of the world pay for it.

by Anonymousreply 82September 21, 2018 3:22 PM

Jiffy-Pop Hairdo!

by Anonymousreply 83September 21, 2018 3:27 PM

r82 Yes, Rose. No foreskin makes him do it.

by Anonymousreply 84September 21, 2018 3:36 PM

R82 has to be one of the dumbest anti-circ comments in the history of Datalounge. And that's saying something.

by Anonymousreply 85September 21, 2018 3:37 PM

Matthew re-posted this touching tribute:

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by Anonymousreply 86September 21, 2018 7:00 PM

Is anyone else here not a fan of speedos? They’re such boner killers. I think it might be the desire to show off their package (or lack there of) that really turns me off. And they’re kind of ugly.

by Anonymousreply 87September 21, 2018 7:32 PM

r87 They look like Nik-Niks for your dik-dik.

by Anonymousreply 88September 21, 2018 7:38 PM

Cozy get together:

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by Anonymousreply 89September 22, 2018 5:57 AM

The jiffy pop hair is a nod to his New Jersey roots, where big hair is de rigueur, depending on your turnpike exit.

by Anonymousreply 90September 22, 2018 12:12 PM

These high school girl super posed group shots - is that the new norm for grown adult gay men? It makes these guys look immature, vain and ridiculous. It reminds me of “The Plastics” on Mean Girls. This looks like Peter Pan Syndrome and narcissism taken to whole new levels,

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by Anonymousreply 91September 22, 2018 12:42 PM

This one is called “Why Am I Still Single?”

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by Anonymousreply 92September 22, 2018 12:44 PM

As a gay man, I feel that an out gay psychiatrist who posts photos of himself naked with his dozens of fuck buddies and who makes videos about self-love and professing his racism would do wonderful things for my mental well being. He looks like a real pro.

by Anonymousreply 93September 22, 2018 12:47 PM

This one is called, “Why Am I Still Single?”

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by Anonymousreply 94September 22, 2018 12:47 PM

"Owning" racism?

by Anonymousreply 95September 22, 2018 12:53 PM

R95 One might say he owns his racism so well that it is a slave to him.

by Anonymousreply 96September 22, 2018 12:58 PM

Or one might not, r96.

by Anonymousreply 97September 22, 2018 12:59 PM

Speedos are great, R87.

You're stuck in the past with your board shorts???

by Anonymousreply 98September 22, 2018 1:08 PM

There's a certain desperation to the constant posts of "look how happy we are," as though by constantly doing it, they can somehow make it come true.

by Anonymousreply 99September 22, 2018 1:27 PM

You can say whatever you want about Matthew’s personality or intelligence, be he is super hot and so are his friends. This is just objectively the truth. If anyone of us saw him or his group of friends we would be presenting hole or ready to fuck so quickly it would make your head spin.

by Anonymousreply 100September 22, 2018 1:33 PM

“If anyone of us saw him or his group of friends we would be presenting hole or ready to fuck so quickly it would make your head spin.”

This sounds like an expression Donald Trump would use. Is manner of idiotic hyperbole catching on in the mainstream?

by Anonymousreply 101September 22, 2018 1:36 PM

Does anyone in that orgy of estrogen even own grown-up pants?

by Anonymousreply 102September 22, 2018 3:40 PM

I can see if you encountered Matthew in real life you would think he was passably attractive, despite the ridiculous hair. But if you spent more than five minutes with him, or scrolled through his social media, you'd run. Fast.

by Anonymousreply 103September 22, 2018 3:46 PM

[quote]IS IT THE WEEKEND YET!? ???? It's been a long week and I wish I was back in Palm Springs taking editorial photos with these crazy boys.

What are editorial photos?

by Anonymousreply 104September 22, 2018 7:13 PM

Bosom buddies:

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by Anonymousreply 105September 22, 2018 8:05 PM

👆 More like two bottoms in search of a top

by Anonymousreply 106September 23, 2018 2:31 AM

[quote]If anyone of us saw him or his group of friends we would be presenting hole or ready to fuck so quickly it would make your head spin.

Maybe that's what you do around guys you find hot, R100, as for the rest of us, we have a bit more self-control.

This guy is far too smug in his videos, it's a complete boner killer.

by Anonymousreply 107September 23, 2018 2:38 AM

I would have sex with any of these guys. I wouldn't have conversations with 90% of them.

by Anonymousreply 108September 23, 2018 2:41 AM

Why is everyone saying he has hot friends? I find his friends gross and disgusting. They look like ugly, diseased trash. Matthew is the only good looking one.

by Anonymousreply 109September 23, 2018 3:05 AM

Come join us:

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by Anonymousreply 110September 23, 2018 6:56 AM

I long for the days when the only time one had to see or deal with such a gaggle of smug queens was when they rudely shoved their way to the bar and then cackled off into the disco lights.

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by Anonymousreply 111September 23, 2018 7:03 AM

R109 his friends are all butterfaces

by Anonymousreply 112September 23, 2018 8:40 AM

Breast Friends:

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by Anonymousreply 113September 23, 2018 9:23 AM

Does he work? Or is Insta-whore his job now? And I was about to ask if he owns a shirt until the photo at R113 popped up. Although I guess he could have borrowed it from one of his many clones.

LOL--check out the douchey old queen in the middle with the green hair and belly shirt {{cringe}}.

by Anonymousreply 114September 23, 2018 10:16 AM

R109, I think that’s proof of how desperate and pathetic some people here are. His friends are NOT attractive. They have no muscles, no ass, no bugles despite super tight Speedo’s, and they all look merged out. But they’re also white and skinny, and some gay men are so self loathing they think that’s all that matters.

Matt is also disgusting due to his personality but he actually is attractive. If I met him now I wouldn’t give him the time of day but if I had never heard of him and then met him, I would’ve found him hot, at least til I got to know him.

by Anonymousreply 115September 23, 2018 1:30 PM

Matt lives the life I naively thought I could have as a young gay man. Surrounded by dozens of beautiful and accepting gay male friends endlessly socializing. Life slapped me down hard and quick though and life has never been like that.

by Anonymousreply 116September 23, 2018 2:43 PM

Do y’all not find us attractive?

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by Anonymousreply 117September 23, 2018 3:53 PM

Seriously:

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by Anonymousreply 118September 23, 2018 3:54 PM

You guys are failing to see that a lot of these guys are just well/over groomed which hides the fact that they aren’t attractive in the first place.

by Anonymousreply 119September 23, 2018 4:00 PM

R117 I want that macho stud wearing the striped jumper from Forever 21 on the left! I bet he’s wearing matching 👠 👠

by Anonymousreply 120September 23, 2018 4:40 PM

They're a bunch of butterfaces!

by Anonymousreply 121September 23, 2018 4:41 PM

I’d say most of these guys are attractive to extremely good looking. What ruins that is the obsession with constantly taking photos, bragging to you that they are. It makes then look like shallow party boys—and that dating them would be difficult since they are not going to give up Never Never Land anytime soon.

How do they manage to only socialize with a certain demographic? What happens when they want to take these group photos and someone who is older, chubby, short, of color or unconventionally unattractive is around? Do they send them on an errand so they can take the photo?

by Anonymousreply 122September 23, 2018 4:54 PM

[quote]How do they manage to only socialize with a certain demographic? What happens when they want to take these group photos and someone who is older, chubby, short, of color or unconventionally unattractive is around?

"Chubby" and "unconventionally attractive" are demographic categories?

by Anonymousreply 123September 23, 2018 5:17 PM

That picture at r113 made me cringe and cringe hard.

Agree that the men are all overgroomed, trying too hard butterfaces, but their real crime is that they’re BORING. A gaggle of them are constantly just hanging out, drinking and posting on Instagram. They don’t actually do anything interesting. Having 40 mimosas with a bunch of shrieking queens for the 80th time at some tired diner over brunch is not interesting. It never was.

by Anonymousreply 124September 23, 2018 5:22 PM

The short guy on the right at r118 shouldn’t have made the cut. He must have a great personality.

by Anonymousreply 125September 23, 2018 5:26 PM

These are the equivalent of annoying white sorority girls.

by Anonymousreply 126September 23, 2018 5:35 PM

The guy in the front center of R118 with the hairy chest is HOT. A perfect 10.

It’s hard to find fault with people this attractive, so I give them a pass on the group photos and talk about mimosas.

by Anonymousreply 127September 23, 2018 5:59 PM

That was the guy who put his IG account on private because of all the DL roasting. 🤣

by Anonymousreply 128September 23, 2018 6:09 PM

Do you have got audition to be Matt's friend?

by Anonymousreply 129September 23, 2018 6:25 PM

^have to

by Anonymousreply 130September 23, 2018 6:25 PM

Maybe they're all ex-patients.

by Anonymousreply 131September 23, 2018 6:27 PM

White gay bottoms are feminine though. 100 percent of the time.

by Anonymousreply 132September 23, 2018 6:33 PM

[quote]mjdempseypsychSurround yourself only with people who are going to lift you higher. These guys are 💯💯💯

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by Anonymousreply 133September 24, 2018 3:21 AM

The guy on the other side of the guy Matt is hugging is his doppelgänger. Is he a gay twin?

by Anonymousreply 134September 24, 2018 3:36 AM

R138 he’s a model. Eric Rutherford or mr.rutherford in insta, he’s extremely nice.

by Anonymousreply 135September 24, 2018 3:58 AM

If r133 were a scene in a soap opera, Matthew would be the son Eric Rutherford never knew he had, and that pic would be from their reunion episode.

by Anonymousreply 136September 24, 2018 9:22 AM

So what is the circumstance that led to that pic being taken? The old model invited all these young bucks for a game night? He invited them over to look at his vacation slides?

by Anonymousreply 137September 24, 2018 10:22 AM

R117 R118 and R130 do support his claim to racism. Every one of his friends is white. And they all look alike.

Some people here keep insisting that they are all hot and we are all openly or secretly turned on by them. I’m an average looking 40 year-old white guy, and I’m telling you the truth: I’m not. I have the same reaction to these shirtless, gymmed up, Nazi-haired gay white men that people have to Stepford wife types. It does not turn me on. It freaks me out. It’s like Invasion of the Conforming Body Snatchers. They all look alike, and more disturbingly, they all get off on looking alike and they all show it off. That is not a turnon to me. I suspect this guy’s entire clientele is gay men who he fucks and whom he is grooming to be “better people” by prescribing PrEP and setting Crossfit goals. If he is really attempting psychotherapy, he’s going to do a lot of damage.

by Anonymousreply 138September 24, 2018 10:39 AM

They’re like tedious tween girls.

by Anonymousreply 139September 24, 2018 10:40 AM

I didn't watch the video. How did he say he was racist? Does he not acknowledge people of color?

by Anonymousreply 140September 24, 2018 10:55 AM

His forced laughs in his videos couldn’t be more disingenuous.

by Anonymousreply 141September 24, 2018 11:21 AM

[quote]”Are you guys gay?”

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by Anonymousreply 142September 25, 2018 6:05 AM

Are they? Or does he hang with straight guys?

by Anonymousreply 143September 25, 2018 6:14 AM

This is what 30 looks like.

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by Anonymousreply 144September 25, 2018 6:15 AM

[quote]When you're outside the gay bubble people stare, whisper, and even ask, "Are you guys gay??"

Never happened.

1. Get over yourself, no one cares.

2. It's not 1956

3. You can see the gay from space

by Anonymousreply 145September 25, 2018 6:24 AM

R144: I was a bit shocked too when I first saw that pic...

by Anonymousreply 146September 25, 2018 6:27 AM

DL Fave Andy Cohen’s long lost twin:

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by Anonymousreply 147September 25, 2018 7:31 AM

R144 looks 48, jesus!

by Anonymousreply 148September 25, 2018 7:41 AM

Matt’s the most sycophantic cliche of gay pathetic loathing I’ve ever seen. And he’s a therapist perpetuating the shallow gaiety stereotype.

by Anonymousreply 149September 25, 2018 7:46 AM

"When you're outside the gay bubble ..."

That's one thin lavender bubble that needs to be popped.

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by Anonymousreply 150September 25, 2018 7:46 AM

He is a FRAUD and should to disbarred/ throw out of the Board of Therapists!

by Anonymousreply 151September 25, 2018 8:13 AM

Should I post his nudes again?

by Anonymousreply 152September 25, 2018 8:30 AM

Only if it's ones we haven't seen before.

by Anonymousreply 153September 25, 2018 8:40 AM

I wish I saved the videos, ugh

by Anonymousreply 154September 25, 2018 8:45 AM

There are jerk off videos? OMG!

by Anonymousreply 155September 25, 2018 8:48 AM

What is that a tray of in r144?

by Anonymousreply 156September 25, 2018 9:20 AM

Tiny meat?

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by Anonymousreply 157September 25, 2018 9:21 AM

Doesn't the guy at R144 have friends to tell him to stay out of the sun? That is one rough looking 30 year old

by Anonymousreply 158September 25, 2018 12:36 PM

Looks like a substantial-enough dong, r157. But you know the heights of ridiculosity some of these queens will go to to put someone down.

by Anonymousreply 159September 25, 2018 2:17 PM

His exes are Kyle Krieger and Eli Lieb. But all are bottoms are they not?

by Anonymousreply 160September 25, 2018 10:21 PM

[quote]mjdempseypsychThe little prince went back to look at the roses again. "You're not at all like my rose. You're nothing at all yet," he told them. "No one has tamed you and you haven't tamed anyone. You're the way my fox was. He was just a fox like a hundred thousand others. But I've made him my friend, and now he's the only fox in all the world." And the roses were humbled. "You're lovely, but you're empty," he went on. "One couldn't die for you. Of course, an ordinary passerby would think my rose looked just like you. But my rose, all on her own, is more important than all of you together, since she's the one I've watered. Since she's the one I put under glass. Since she's the one I sheltered behind a screen. Since she's the one for whom I killed the caterpillars (except the two or three for butterflies.) Since she's the one I listened to when she complained, or when she boasted, or even sometimes when she said nothing at all. Since she's my rose.

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by Anonymousreply 161September 25, 2018 10:45 PM

R160: Kyle says he’s a Top. Not sure about Eli.

by Anonymousreply 162September 25, 2018 10:46 PM

R156: his birthday cake.

by Anonymousreply 163September 25, 2018 10:48 PM

[quote]Looks like a substantial-enough dong, [R157]. But you know the heights of ridiculosity some of these queens will go to to put someone down.

Is it flaccid or erect? I'll reserve judgement until I see his full erect dong at full attention.

by Anonymousreply 164September 26, 2018 1:40 AM

Thanks, r163. I thought it was a dirty ashtray at first.

by Anonymousreply 165September 26, 2018 3:31 AM

Your daily dosage of Sunshine:

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by Anonymousreply 166September 27, 2018 8:13 PM

I'm really sure his friend appreciated that and all those kisses cheered him up.... if he were a 7 year old girl.

by Anonymousreply 167September 27, 2018 9:08 PM

He is so bland and not even hot 😪

by Anonymousreply 168September 27, 2018 9:26 PM

Anus lips.

by Anonymousreply 169September 27, 2018 11:13 PM

You think Matt is reading this? He’s so narcissistic I can’t imagine him not Googling himself on the hour.

by Anonymousreply 170September 27, 2018 11:28 PM

How much do you think that carefully constructed coif cost him?

by Anonymousreply 171September 28, 2018 12:04 AM

His coif could stop a train.

by Anonymousreply 172September 28, 2018 12:29 AM

He’s perfect. Men want to be him and be with him.

by Anonymousreply 173September 28, 2018 12:45 AM

Good one r173

by Anonymousreply 174September 28, 2018 1:09 AM

He's perfect. Fellow fanboi gurlinas wants to be him and be with him.

by Anonymousreply 175September 28, 2018 1:47 AM

Deep insecurity in those eyes.

by Anonymousreply 176September 28, 2018 2:00 AM

now I get the facial hair. His earlier photos from his drivers license reveal an enormous, over wide jawline - uses the trimmed beard to minimize

he's so bland - but always front and center with that stupid grin in pictures

by Anonymousreply 177September 28, 2018 10:23 AM

He is dull.

by Anonymousreply 178September 28, 2018 10:59 AM

Gay Daddy Alert!

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by Anonymousreply 179October 3, 2018 8:53 PM

Daddy Training:

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by Anonymousreply 180October 3, 2018 8:54 PM

Painful.

by Anonymousreply 181October 3, 2018 10:14 PM

I told you that was his father.

by Anonymousreply 182October 3, 2018 10:22 PM

Come on you guys. You must admit he looks really hot in R179. There’s no way to deny it!

by Anonymousreply 183October 3, 2018 10:28 PM

R183, I am denying it. It's impossible not to take his annoying personality and stupidity into account when determining whether he's attractive or not.

by Anonymousreply 184October 3, 2018 11:33 PM

A friend of color:

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by Anonymousreply 185October 5, 2018 9:46 PM

R183 No, he looks average. I bet you're the same person who posts ugly guys in the " gorgeous gay men" thread.

by Anonymousreply 186October 5, 2018 10:27 PM

Purse and Pose:

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by Anonymousreply 187October 6, 2018 3:25 PM

His hair is taller than mine!

by Anonymousreply 188October 6, 2018 3:34 PM

R186, you may well be right. R183 posts most of the guys in the "gorgeous gay men" thread.

by Anonymousreply 189October 6, 2018 7:52 PM

I'm stunned that he covered his ridiculous coif in the photo at R185

by Anonymousreply 190October 6, 2018 7:58 PM

Any new butthole shots? This is how one shops for a therapist these days.

by Anonymousreply 191October 6, 2018 8:02 PM

all the FEELS:

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by Anonymousreply 192October 7, 2018 5:59 PM

A "proud feeler."

by Anonymousreply 193October 7, 2018 6:02 PM

That thick wavy hair in those men in the Daddy photo makes me swoon. Just like Liberace.

by Anonymousreply 194October 7, 2018 6:17 PM

Hello Gay Daddy:

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by Anonymousreply 195October 9, 2018 6:20 AM

He’s on his way:

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by Anonymousreply 196October 10, 2018 7:03 AM

does anyone still have his nudes saved?

by Anonymousreply 197October 12, 2018 2:32 AM

yeah who has them?

by Anonymousreply 198October 12, 2018 2:56 AM

Throwback: Shirtless Realness-

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by Anonymousreply 199October 12, 2018 6:37 AM

R197 I guess I could post them again

by Anonymousreply 200October 12, 2018 6:40 AM

Do you think Matt reads DL/these threads?

by Anonymousreply 201October 12, 2018 10:48 AM

"Do you think Matt reads DL/these threads?"

Read them? Are you serious? He starts them, then hangs on to every word posted. "Narcissist" doesn't begin to describe Matt.

by Anonymousreply 202October 12, 2018 10:53 AM

Post the whole album somewhere else so the thread doesn't have shut down.

by Anonymousreply 203October 12, 2018 1:17 PM

Cozy Pasta night with da boys:

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by Anonymousreply 204October 12, 2018 10:00 PM

Post Matt X pics in this thread which was created just for that purpose

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by Anonymousreply 205October 12, 2018 10:11 PM

A-Gays eat pasta?!?

NOOOOO, IT CAN'T BE TRUUUUEEEE!

by Anonymousreply 206October 12, 2018 10:45 PM

Inspirational:

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by Anonymousreply 207October 14, 2018 8:25 AM

The two guys in the back of the pasta photo are super hot too. It must be a utopia to go through life with all perfect 10 friends.

by Anonymousreply 208October 14, 2018 8:29 PM

🙄 ^^^

by Anonymousreply 209October 14, 2018 8:36 PM

Fun in the Sun:

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by Anonymousreply 210October 16, 2018 8:44 AM

What lucky lives they all lead.

by Anonymousreply 211October 16, 2018 8:59 AM

GURLS:

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by Anonymousreply 212October 16, 2018 10:21 AM

No no no!

by Anonymousreply 213October 16, 2018 10:37 AM

R211 is a 400 lb shut in. Believe me, those guys in the pictures have same problems as anyone of us. You’re confusing regular gym going / monitoring what you eat with happiness fattie.

by Anonymousreply 214October 16, 2018 3:04 PM

Nope r214. Confidence. Health. Surrounded by sexy, beautiful, talented nearly nude friends. Sex and sex and sex. They're lives are infinitely better. If they're boo-hooing in their private anguish over something or other I couldn't really give a fuck. All they fave to do is look in the mirror, snap their fingers and - laid!

by Anonymousreply 215October 16, 2018 3:14 PM

R215 honest question: where do you live?

by Anonymousreply 216October 16, 2018 3:23 PM

R215 lives vicariously through these guys. Let him have that.

by Anonymousreply 217October 16, 2018 3:24 PM

Pretty Privilege

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by Anonymousreply 218October 16, 2018 3:32 PM

Who organizes these theme weekends? Do they have a social chair? What if you don't have the clothes for a Wet Hot American Summer Weekend or the makeup for A Star Is Born weekend?

by Anonymousreply 219October 16, 2018 3:44 PM

Then you can’t come play with us, r219!

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by Anonymousreply 220October 17, 2018 12:49 AM

R138 summed it up perfectly. He’s a basic. His friends are basic. Their lives are basic. His stupid fake smile and constant photo posting are more suited to a 12 year old girl rather than a grown adult MATURE (because despite what he thinks, he’s OLD) PROFESSIONAL (ha) therapist. If he’s reading these threads (which he is), stop being such an idiot. Get a clue.

by Anonymousreply 221October 17, 2018 1:18 AM

I’m convinced that r211 and r215 is “Try Hard” Dempsey.

by Anonymousreply 222October 17, 2018 6:41 AM

More getogethers:

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by Anonymousreply 223October 19, 2018 4:18 AM

I'd like to be able to join you all in hating these guys—I think the way MD positions himself as a therapist verges on malpractice—but somehow, I just can't do it. They remind me too much of my friends when I was in my 30s, most of whom are no longer with us. Not gonna hate.

by Anonymousreply 224October 19, 2018 4:38 AM

R224: sorry to hear about the loss of your friends. Here’s a virtual hug for ya -

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by Anonymousreply 225October 20, 2018 6:50 AM

Rad weaves:

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by Anonymousreply 226October 20, 2018 8:07 AM

I imagine he and his friends come together to read all these DL comments and laugh and have fun. Actually he should do one of those clips where he reads mean comments about him and perform some New Age "they don't hurt me no more!" ritual.

Personally I love this guy and his instagram. My idea of hygge is browsing through his instagram while cradling a mug of hot tea or chocolate.

by Anonymousreply 227October 20, 2018 8:28 AM

That’s a good idea, R227. He should do that.

I love the pics too. Aside from the hotness, he and his friends are putting out a good image of the gay community. Everyone is friendly, loving, happy. Gay friendship is important and he is setting a good example for baby gays.

by Anonymousreply 228October 20, 2018 10:46 AM

^^As long as you're young, tan, attractive, buff and healthy. Don't delude yourself, R228. They would never let you join their reindeer games. And as soon as one of their group ages out (or gets sick or fat), he's replaced with someone new. Their clique is like a boy band with rotating members. These are not genuine friendships. If they were you would see diversity.

by Anonymousreply 229October 20, 2018 12:29 PM

Why do they always have theme nights when they're hanging out? Why can't it just be cum as you are? Wouldn't that be a more powerful message than conformity of dressing up in the same costumes?

by Anonymousreply 230October 20, 2018 1:37 PM

Lots of the pics are come as you are. Check out R220 for that.

The friendships seem genuine to me.

by Anonymousreply 231October 20, 2018 1:49 PM

The "friendships" seem competitive to me.

by Anonymousreply 232October 20, 2018 1:53 PM

They’re like Menudo.

by Anonymousreply 233October 20, 2018 2:03 PM

gay, WHITE and AMERICAN

gay, white and probably comes from PRIVILEGE

basically a person who comes from money and is of the same race/colou/whatev as the majority of people of the nation in which they reside.

by Anonymousreply 234October 20, 2018 2:11 PM

He looks and sounds so stupid.

by Anonymousreply 235October 20, 2018 2:11 PM

Or he just subscribes to shit and then uses labels as some kind of excuse for his past behaviour. He probably feels less accountable / liable that way.

by Anonymousreply 236October 20, 2018 2:13 PM

[quote]Being Gay can be really hard:

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by Anonymousreply 237October 20, 2018 2:19 PM

Here’s the bottom line:

He DESPERATELY wants to belong to the crowd you see in those photos.

Then, he DESPERATELY wants you to SEE that he belongs to it.

It’s like he’s saying, “See? I made the cut. So sorry that you didn’t.”

They all have the same hair, teeth and tans. It’s modern day gay at its worst - and the very reason why stereotypes are valid.

by Anonymousreply 238October 20, 2018 2:55 PM

r238. I think the issue is that he took the "look for like minded friends" a bit too literal for some.

People who get addicted to drugs drop their old friends and spend time with those who take drugs or approve of them.

People who get obsessed with a celebrity leave their previous friends behind and look for fans of the same celebrity to get obsessed over him together.

When you find your soulmate you drop your friends to spend all of your time with your soulmate and let others know that you found your soulmate (jealous, bitches?).

Do you think a conservative prefers to hang out with Liberals who challenge him every single step or does he rather hang out with like minded conservatives who go on and on about how stupid these asshole Liberals are?

This isn't about convincing others. This is about outsiders looking in and not approving what's going on.

by Anonymousreply 239October 20, 2018 4:36 PM

[quote]People who get obsessed with a celebrity leave their previous friends behind and look for fans of the same celebrity to get obsessed over him together.

Never happened to me.

by Anonymousreply 240October 20, 2018 6:19 PM

R239 - R238 here. I get your point and feel as if you have responded to me in other threads.

You describe a situation where he finds his crowd, sees likeness and then feels satisfied. I don’t think it ends there. Why the viral posts & videos? Quest for likes & validation?

Agree to disagree, I suppose.

by Anonymousreply 241October 20, 2018 10:15 PM

All the posts and videos are to spread a positive message through the gay community. He isn’t trying to show off or prove others “didn’t make the cut.” He is showing how happy we can all be when we find our group of gay friends.

I know I was not truly happy until I turned 25 and found my group of gay friends in Hell’s Kitchen. I’m 35 now and I can say the decade of friendship has been amazing and is still going strong. This should be celebrated in our community.

by Anonymousreply 242October 20, 2018 10:34 PM

Dancing Queen!

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by Anonymousreply 243October 20, 2018 11:07 PM

[quote]I know I was not truly happy until I turned 25 and found my group of gay friends in Hell’s Kitchen. I’m 35 now and I can say the decade of friendship has been amazing and is still going strong. This should be celebrated in our community.

What's your Instagram?

by Anonymousreply 244October 21, 2018 1:32 AM

But I do have to wonder. Who IS happier, the guys supposedly showing off on instagram or the ones who are offended or annoyed at those who show off on instagram?

Personally I think the instagram hos are happier than the bitter nellies bitching about how undignified the whole thing is (while constantly hitting the refresh button of their browser to cast the latest upload to get their latest fix for their bitter outrage addiction).

by Anonymousreply 245October 21, 2018 8:27 AM

Sorry, ... hitting the RELOAD button of their browser to GET the latest social media upload as their latest fix for their bitter outrage addiction.

by Anonymousreply 246October 21, 2018 8:30 AM

Drinking from the Fountain of YOUTH:

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by Anonymousreply 247October 22, 2018 10:15 AM

How old is this guy? He is trying too hard to validate his existence

by Anonymousreply 248October 22, 2018 12:12 PM

Matt still hasn’t read the bouffant memo.

by Anonymousreply 249October 22, 2018 12:47 PM

His no-bouffant look:

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by Anonymousreply 250October 22, 2018 12:50 PM

Fuck, he’s extra hot in R250’s pic.

by Anonymousreply 251October 22, 2018 12:54 PM

He can put the beard to rest for awhile too.

by Anonymousreply 252October 22, 2018 12:58 PM

He uses words like thirst trap in his Instagram. Whatever, gramps. 👴🏻 You’re so with it.

by Anonymousreply 253October 22, 2018 1:03 PM

Even the kid in the pool doesn't respect him.

by Anonymousreply 254October 22, 2018 1:36 PM

Together Forever:

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by Anonymousreply 255October 22, 2018 3:35 PM

How are they not friends with a single woman?

by Anonymousreply 256October 22, 2018 4:02 PM

They distill the poorer traits of humanity down into their worst, most corrosive forms. Narcissism, ageism, racism, sexism, bitchiness are all personified. But on the other hand, they are in pursuit of a type of male perfection, and some people find that admirable.

Fortunately there’s no such thing as universal morality. None of this actually matters in the grand scheme of things. Hopefully an asteroid mercifully takes out the planet Earth.

by Anonymousreply 257October 22, 2018 4:20 PM

These pictures look like group therapy retreats.

by Anonymousreply 258October 22, 2018 4:22 PM

Wine tasting:

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by Anonymousreply 259October 22, 2018 9:02 PM

Thank God he found L.A. and that L.A. is there for him.

He really, really, really, belongs in L.A.

by Anonymousreply 260October 22, 2018 9:46 PM

I wish I could afford his plastic-coated teeth.

by Anonymousreply 261October 22, 2018 9:54 PM

^^ You can... just buy a pack of Chiclets Gum and glue them to your teefs.

by Anonymousreply 262October 22, 2018 10:05 PM

R259 a whole lot of ugly in those photos.

by Anonymousreply 263October 22, 2018 10:08 PM

[R259] all their teeth are blinding

by Anonymousreply 264October 22, 2018 10:12 PM

Do they live communally? Like in a hive or den?

by Anonymousreply 265October 22, 2018 10:22 PM

Or a coven?

by Anonymousreply 266October 22, 2018 10:33 PM

With a hot french dude:

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by Anonymousreply 267October 23, 2018 6:23 AM

When do they hold interviews to join their cult?

by Anonymousreply 268October 23, 2018 6:40 AM

God help instagays when they become elderly.

by Anonymousreply 269October 23, 2018 6:41 AM

What an annoying little hive of insufferable teenage girls. At least it's over. Hope they don't come again.

by Anonymousreply 270October 23, 2018 6:48 AM

His friend is really attractive, I would hit that!

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by Anonymousreply 271October 23, 2018 6:55 AM

PACKS of Fun:

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by Anonymousreply 272October 23, 2018 6:55 AM

^^How did those {gasp} four women get in the picture?

by Anonymousreply 273October 23, 2018 7:06 AM

R267 Matt’s hair is not bouffant in that pic!

by Anonymousreply 274October 23, 2018 9:43 AM

I'm convinced Matt must be the happiest man in the world. So much joy at r272. He looks ecstatic as do his friends. These pictures depress me so much. I'll never know that level of contentment and acceptance in the gay community and will not be opening this thread anymore.

by Anonymousreply 275October 23, 2018 4:08 PM

Great parody post, you sick fuck R275

by Anonymousreply 276October 23, 2018 4:18 PM

[quote]^^How did those {gasp} four women get in the picture?

Those are randos. Read the caption. They are on vacation and wherever they go, they make new friends. They’re probably just random people at the hotel. Notice that there are Asians there too. Tourists.

by Anonymousreply 277October 23, 2018 4:20 PM

R275, those are just "fresh baked cookie sniffer" smiles. How can you call yourself a DLer and not know this? Phony, teeth baring, too big smiles in no way denote happiness. More often it's just the opposite.

by Anonymousreply 278October 23, 2018 5:31 PM

Throwback: Matthew ‘s 36th birthday!

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by Anonymousreply 279October 23, 2018 8:43 PM

"Matthew ‘s 36th birthday!"

Why are you posting a pic from 10 years ago, R279?

by Anonymousreply 280October 23, 2018 9:31 PM

Because Matthew's hair has not budged in 10 years and that photo is the proof.

by Anonymousreply 281October 24, 2018 3:05 AM

Bridesmaids Realness:

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by Anonymousreply 282October 24, 2018 10:07 AM

Awww look at him and all his whiteness and white friends! Except for the occasional Asian. How old is he?

by Anonymousreply 283October 24, 2018 11:30 AM

He is 55

by Anonymousreply 284October 24, 2018 11:34 AM

55? Really? He finished grad school in 2007.

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by Anonymousreply 285October 24, 2018 11:37 AM

R283: Matthew admits to being 36 [see r279].

by Anonymousreply 286October 24, 2018 11:54 AM

Pride:

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by Anonymousreply 287October 24, 2018 11:56 AM

36 makes sense.

by Anonymousreply 288October 24, 2018 11:56 AM

36? That’s middle-aged. I wonder if Matt had an Ann Romano talk with his mirror after all the smiles went home and the glitter was swept up.

by Anonymousreply 289October 24, 2018 12:35 PM

R287, all of his friends look really hot in that pic. Yes, this may be a little narcissistic, but really he’s just documenting his life. Should he not take photos when he gets together with friends? When my friend throws his annual rooftop BBQ, I always take a few pics and post them on social media. What’s the harm in that?

by Anonymousreply 290October 24, 2018 12:57 PM

There's no harm in it, R290. But harm is not what is notable about these photos.

What is notable is the consistent homogeneity of these groupings of homos in Matthew's photos. Any rooftop barbecue, or other similar social event, that I have ever attended has been much more diverse. All differences are edited out of these packs of men in which he presents himself time and time again.

Is this social behavior he documents harmful? Probably not in the short term, or in any bluntly specific way. But it is limited and it makes them all appear to be stunted in their social skills. It is odd. It is at least odd.

by Anonymousreply 291October 24, 2018 1:06 PM

Snowy but clear:

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by Anonymousreply 292October 24, 2018 1:58 PM

R290, when you get together with friends you take pics and share them but I doubt this is something that happens multiple times a week to you like it does for Instagram queens and that you get together specifically to take themed photo shoots.

In the past year, I’ve fallen madly in love with my boyfriend. I feel blessed to have him, love him, lust after him and cuddle with him. I’m 33 and I feel head over heels in love with him. I’ve made zero posts on social media bragging like I just did. The successful couples I know also don’t brag about it on social media. When I see posts on social media bragging about being in love, I always think they’ll be broken up in a few months and I’ve always been right.

It’s like that woman whose husband murdered her an dher children. Her Facebook was littered with posts humble bragging about her marriage and filled with poses pictures oh her and her life. Not only was she lying but also pushing a narrative that normal people who aren’t 110% grateful with their perfect lives 110% of the time have something wrong with them.

by Anonymousreply 293October 24, 2018 3:15 PM

[quote]What is notable is the consistent homogeneity of these groupings of homos in Matthew's photos.

Clearly he filters which of his group photos get posted on Instagram, maybe even the people who get to be in the group pics. You get more likes with a certain type of people in a group photo. Too many unattractive people, fraus, minorities that are less than a 8 in the photo? All of that will have a negative effect.

[quote]Matthew admits to being 36

Lol - "admits"

by Anonymousreply 294October 24, 2018 3:22 PM

Matt at r293. Relax, honey, no need for a bump. It's only been an hour since the last post. There are other things going on today.

by Anonymousreply 295October 24, 2018 3:24 PM

"Clearly he filters which of his group photos get posted on Instagram...."

What makes that so clear? It seems more plausible that the filtering happened way up front. As in, when the invitations went out to those faaaaaabulous events. I just don't think it likely that anyone black or hispanic who attended one of these events would ever come back if they were asked to step aside so the white boys could take a white photo for better Instagram scores.

by Anonymousreply 296October 24, 2018 3:27 PM

Exactly! The purpose of these "faaaaaabulous events" IS for the eventual Instagram photo! You're completely on the nose with the filtering happening 'way up front'. Eureka!

by Anonymousreply 297October 24, 2018 3:31 PM

Does Matthew have any tattoos?

by Anonymousreply 298October 24, 2018 3:32 PM

The filtering happens during the interview to become a member of their frat. List below. You need to be able to score a 10 out of 12 to get a call back for the second interview. Round two usually involves a test, task or performance of some kind---Can you mix fancy drinks? Can you recite at least three Golden Girls quotes? Can you twirl a baton? That sort of thing.

1. white

2. male

3. gay

4. fit/gym body

5. facial symmetry and overall attractiveness must be at level 8+

6. tan

7. straight, glowing teeth

8. no baldness

9. no (or minimal) tattoos and piercings

10. high expendable income

11. weekends off

12. willing to travel

by Anonymousreply 299October 24, 2018 4:00 PM

An 8 or above? Then how come all those boys in the photos are 3s or below?

by Anonymousreply 300October 24, 2018 5:09 PM

[quote]Does Matthew have any tattoos?

He has his company logo tattooed on his forearm. It's a withered, barren leaf.

by Anonymousreply 301October 24, 2018 5:10 PM

[quote]mjdempseypsychI didn’t know anyone trans (that I knew of) until I was 25yo and started my clinical internship at @lgbtcenternyc. I didn’t even know so many of my colleagues were trans until someone casually brought up “oh yeah he’s trans and so is she and so is ze...” And I was like 😳 EVERYONE is trans!! It blew my mind open and I made so many new trans friends and asked so many questions and got so much training and learned so much about the community and depths of my gender I would have never explored otherwise. I am a stronger masculine and feminine cisman because of the trans people who have been in my life and I’ll do whatever is needed to make sure equality doesn’t go anywhere for the trans people I love. 💙💗💙

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by Anonymousreply 302October 24, 2018 9:41 PM

God they even all wear the same sunglasses. Do they get a basic bitch discount for bulk purchases? Is one of the “squad” a dentist who gives them a bulk discount on the dentures?

by Anonymousreply 303October 24, 2018 10:05 PM

They dated, back in 2017:

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by Anonymousreply 304October 25, 2018 8:17 AM

I wonder which one of Matt’s herd will off himself first.

by Anonymousreply 305October 25, 2018 11:54 AM

Clearly the oldest one, R305. Or the fattest one.

by Anonymousreply 306October 25, 2018 12:01 PM

No, R306. Nothing that serious. They don't have to kill themselves, FFS. But the membership contract clearly states that if your body fat percentage creeps up more than 10%, or you age out (42 y/o) your membership will not be renewed. There are a lot of other rules as well. But I can't get into it right now.

by Anonymousreply 307October 25, 2018 2:15 PM

R304, lol. How long after that post before their soul shaking romance went bust?

by Anonymousreply 308October 25, 2018 3:56 PM

Who took that picture of them? It looks a private, intimate moment, but there had to have been another person there taking the photo. Unless they set up the camera timer and then posed for the photo.

by Anonymousreply 309October 25, 2018 4:38 PM

Everything is posed.

EVERY. Thing.

by Anonymousreply 310October 25, 2018 5:03 PM

So this James Taylor is not part of his friend group anymore?

by Anonymousreply 311October 25, 2018 5:54 PM

Heartfelt testimonial:

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by Anonymousreply 312October 26, 2018 7:53 AM

A river runs through it:

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by Anonymousreply 313October 26, 2018 11:21 PM

Not all Matthew's friend are bigots.

One of them was photographed with this indeterminate creature

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by Anonymousreply 314October 27, 2018 1:02 AM

Thanks R313. I just started following John Halbach now too. He is fucking gorgeous. Could easily get off to his IG.

by Anonymousreply 315October 27, 2018 1:06 AM

Have you watched Eastsiders, r315?

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by Anonymousreply 316October 27, 2018 1:12 AM

I can smell the bottom coming off those group pics.

by Anonymousreply 317October 27, 2018 1:58 AM

Festive:

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by Anonymousreply 318October 27, 2018 6:42 AM

R313, why does the one in the red neckchief always have that bitch expression? He needs to be slapped.

by Anonymousreply 319October 27, 2018 6:47 AM

R315, you certainly have low standards. He's a 4 at best.

by Anonymousreply 320October 27, 2018 6:48 AM

It's Kit Williamson, r319.

by Anonymousreply 321October 27, 2018 6:52 AM

Lifting Him Higher:

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by Anonymousreply 322October 27, 2018 7:59 AM

Gasp, is that an Asian at the left?

by Anonymousreply 323October 27, 2018 9:39 AM

R232 No. That is a Taiwanese half-caste.

by Anonymousreply 324October 27, 2018 9:52 AM

R320, a 4???? Are you blind???

He’s a perfect 10 if there ever was one.

by Anonymousreply 325October 27, 2018 11:08 AM

LOL @ R322. Is that creeper outside in the bushes, longingly peeking through the window........a DLer?

by Anonymousreply 326October 27, 2018 11:27 AM

Modern day Sorcerer:

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by Anonymousreply 327October 28, 2018 1:42 PM

Magic:

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by Anonymousreply 328October 28, 2018 1:42 PM

What a pain in the ass to have to take an art director with you wherever you go.

by Anonymousreply 329October 28, 2018 2:10 PM

R323 of course that’s an asian! You will always find a gaysian in a group of racist white gays.

The white gays can claim they’re not racist by parading him around, and the gaysian will be surrounded by white gays who one day maybe might let him suck their dicks. Maybe. Probably not. Depends how rich he becomes.

by Anonymousreply 330October 28, 2018 2:43 PM

[quote]#daddyissues:

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by Anonymousreply 331October 28, 2018 2:51 PM

Fuck you, R330. We have a black and a Latino here too. Plus we have fem and mask, short hair and long hair. We diverse.

by Anonymousreply 332October 28, 2018 6:58 PM

Aging gracefully:

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by Anonymousreply 333October 28, 2018 9:51 PM

Matthew, if you're reading this please stop smiling with your tongue between your teeth.

by Anonymousreply 334October 28, 2018 10:01 PM

It's going to get to the point where GAY men will sleep with women to prove they are not anti women . This insanity needs to stop.

by Anonymousreply 335October 28, 2018 10:11 PM

This #DaddyIssues guy isn't too far from the mainstream for Matthew's coven?

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by Anonymousreply 336October 28, 2018 10:22 PM

Crop. Top.

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by Anonymousreply 337October 29, 2018 12:03 AM

Picture Perfect:

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by Anonymousreply 338October 29, 2018 8:42 AM

His friend Joey, the photographer is a little cutie!

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by Anonymousreply 339October 29, 2018 9:53 AM

I seem to remember someone posting a picture of his tight perfect ass (hole).

That part of him has DEFINITELY aged nicely.

It would be a crime for him to be a top.

by Anonymousreply 340October 29, 2018 10:20 AM

Really r340? I missed that and would love to see. If the poster who has pictures of Matt’s anus is still here could you please repost.

by Anonymousreply 341October 29, 2018 12:52 PM

There hasn’t been a top posted in this thread.

by Anonymousreply 342October 29, 2018 1:01 PM

Matthew is verse and seems to top frequently with smaller guys.

by Anonymousreply 343October 29, 2018 1:08 PM

Why is Matthew's coven obsessed with making every meeting of the coven look like an album cover?

by Anonymousreply 344October 29, 2018 2:25 PM

I wonder what his patients think of his Insta-whoring. Many of them are probably lonely, suffering from social anxiety and depression. It can't be fun to see him living La Vida Loca and then lamely act as though he can empathize with their problems/issues.

by Anonymousreply 345October 29, 2018 2:32 PM

Miss Matthew blocked my ass on scruff a long time ago. I have no way to screengrab more of those nude pics and videos sorry

by Anonymousreply 346October 29, 2018 2:39 PM

[quote]Miss Matthew blocked my ass on scruff a long time ago.

What did you do to her?

by Anonymousreply 347October 29, 2018 2:40 PM

R341 That was NOT Miss Matthew’s butthole . I was trolling someone that kept asking for hole pics. Miss Matthew’s hole is actually waxed most of the time.

by Anonymousreply 348October 29, 2018 2:41 PM

R345, I would assume Matthew’s life is proof to his patients that he knows what he’s doing. Having already found the key to happiness and the perfect gay lifestyle, now he can impart that knowledge unto others.

Matthew said his life wasn’t always this perfect, so maybe he can empathize and help people.

by Anonymousreply 349October 29, 2018 3:38 PM

Ah, I see Matt/R349. So you tell them to whiten their teeth, spend 2 hrs a day at the gym, get $100 haircuts, find a gang of clones to take hundreds of glamour photos with, drop all their "non-clone" friends and endlessly brag on SM? Got it. That's an 'interesting' therapeutic model.

by Anonymousreply 350October 29, 2018 4:01 PM

Wait, so the hole pictures in the old threads wasnt really his hole?

by Anonymousreply 351October 29, 2018 9:03 PM

No Rose, they were trompe l'œil holes.

by Anonymousreply 352October 29, 2018 9:37 PM

Trompe l'holes, Dorothy.

by Anonymousreply 353October 29, 2018 9:39 PM

So the nude pictures was a hoax?

by Anonymousreply 354October 30, 2018 12:11 AM

The dick pics are ALL him the hole is mine:/ sorry about that

by Anonymousreply 355October 30, 2018 12:20 AM

No, R355. The hole was MINE!

by Anonymousreply 356October 30, 2018 12:23 AM

Damn you, R355.

by Anonymousreply 357October 30, 2018 12:27 AM

I’ve never known a psychologist, psychotherapist, psychiatrist, etc... who wasn’t severely fucked in the head and had a disastrous personal life. There’s no way any of them could possibly be qualified to advise anyone else on their personal problems...because they are all raging, slop holed messes themselves.

by Anonymousreply 358October 30, 2018 12:33 AM

[quote]Miss Matthew blocked my ass on scruff a long time ago. I have no way to screengrab more of those nude pics and videos sorry

Wait, you posted videos? How did I miss them. What were they of? Him jerking off? Fucking? Being fucked? Could you post them somewhere again?

by Anonymousreply 359October 30, 2018 1:11 AM

As to R358's ignorant comment, the lady doth protest too much, methinks.

by Anonymousreply 360October 30, 2018 2:55 AM

Youthinks wrong, R360.

by Anonymousreply 361October 30, 2018 3:01 AM

[quote]Most gay men can relate to black people in the sense that we know that it doesn't feel very nice to be rejected or discriminated against for who you are.

What you meant was: “Most white gay men”. And no: Most of them hate black people and deny having anything in common with them.

[quote]And it's natural to put your own personal misery, and the group or groups you belong to, above others and their groups while [bold]yet acknowledging that those others suffer, too and not try to belittle or disparage their suffering[/bold].

Bullshit. Most people do not do the latter.

by Anonymousreply 362October 30, 2018 5:24 AM

Back in the day:

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by Anonymousreply 363October 30, 2018 4:14 PM

Friends. Of. COLOR:

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by Anonymousreply 364October 30, 2018 9:25 PM

His best friend of 15 years is black? I'll need to see some receipts for that one gurl...

by Anonymousreply 365October 30, 2018 9:39 PM

Well, black bestie is never in any of the glamour shots of the coven. We know that much.

by Anonymousreply 366October 30, 2018 9:42 PM

I hope this shuts you all up about his racism.

by Anonymousreply 367October 30, 2018 9:45 PM

Oh please. They don’t even hang out. Every racist white person has at least one black “best friend “.

That why it’s common for racist people to say: “my best friend is black.”

What they usually mean is: one of my co workers is black and I laugh at their jokes during firm sponsored happy hours.

by Anonymousreply 368October 30, 2018 9:55 PM

That pic at R264 is nearly two years old.

No chance those guys make the cut in being in the group shirtless shots. But guys like the "perfect 10" front and center at R118 will always be included, of that there is no doubt.

by Anonymousreply 369October 30, 2018 10:01 PM

R364, not R264.

by Anonymousreply 370October 30, 2018 10:04 PM

Young, Serious, Professionals:

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by Anonymousreply 371October 30, 2018 11:26 PM

Professionals as in hookers?

by Anonymousreply 372October 31, 2018 3:26 AM

R371, that one is sweet and not staged/posed like the other group photos. Nice to see them relaxed and goofy.

by Anonymousreply 373October 31, 2018 3:58 AM

[quote]Do you have got audition to be Matt's friend? —Serious question

Like for The Dashers’ salon?

[quote]Who organizes these theme weekends? Do they have a social chair? What if you don't have the clothes for a Wet Hot American Summer Weekend or the makeup for A Star Is Born weekend?

I wonder how many of these guys are either in debt or struggling due to financing these seemingly never-ending trips and dress-up events, and all of the self-maintenance. It is doubtful that they all have six-figure incomes or sugar daddies. (Or, perhaps they do.)

[quote]God help instagays when they become elderly.

At least they’ll have lots of good pics.

[quote]LOL @ [R322]. Is that creeper outside in the bushes, longingly peeking through the window........a DLer?

Nope. Younger and better looking than I imagine most DLers to be.

by Anonymousreply 374October 31, 2018 4:04 AM

These beautiful men. I can’t wait for the pics when they start pairing off and getting some beautiful babies to pose with.

by Anonymousreply 375October 31, 2018 4:13 AM

They're already in their 40s. It's way past pairing off and birthing babies.

Why are they saying they're professionals? Aren't they stand-up comics and shop bottoms?

by Anonymousreply 376October 31, 2018 4:16 AM

Trying to pretend they are “young professionals” is a bit ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 377October 31, 2018 4:33 AM

R364's linked image is just from an old Uber pool ride.

by Anonymousreply 378October 31, 2018 7:34 AM

More Friends of Color:

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by Anonymousreply 379October 31, 2018 9:53 AM

From October 2016. We're delving ever so deeper into his past.

by Anonymousreply 380October 31, 2018 12:47 PM

Alec Mapa?

He's upgrading.

Anyway, I was thinking about it, and the next time he refreshes his nudie pics, he should definitely take them while reclining on one of those "therapy chair" seti things.

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by Anonymousreply 381October 31, 2018 12:58 PM

Who is that swarthy looking guy sitting next to Alec Mapa @ r379? I know all the other guys in that photo but him

by Anonymousreply 382October 31, 2018 1:07 PM

Those aren't his friends. That's a work photo. He's working on a project with them, thus the diversity.

by Anonymousreply 383October 31, 2018 7:17 PM

Sometimes you need to dance in the pale moonlight:

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by Anonymousreply 384October 31, 2018 10:35 PM

WTF do they talk about when they're not posing for photos? Their workouts, their veneers, their mojitos, their epiphanies on the dance floor?

by Anonymousreply 385November 1, 2018 5:14 AM

Now Ladies, lets get in Formation!

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by Anonymousreply 386November 1, 2018 3:33 PM

^These Queens put Sweet 16’s to shame.

by Anonymousreply 387November 1, 2018 3:42 PM

God, look at r386 Matt's life is a fantasy. Days of endless beauty and leisure.

by Anonymousreply 388November 1, 2018 3:54 PM

BOOTIE:

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by Anonymousreply 389November 1, 2018 4:34 PM

Where are these fabulously get togethers so I can avoid them?

by Anonymousreply 390November 1, 2018 6:11 PM

He’s beyond tedious.

by Anonymousreply 391November 1, 2018 6:16 PM

They grow em on trees:

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by Anonymousreply 392November 2, 2018 11:22 AM

This one in the tree really cracked me up

by Anonymousreply 393November 2, 2018 11:33 AM

Do these people never hang out 1-2-1 with each other? I'd find it utterly exhausting to be with even a group of 10 people every single weekend.

by Anonymousreply 394November 2, 2018 11:34 AM

Exemplary Peter Pan Syndrome

by Anonymousreply 395November 2, 2018 11:32 PM

Do you think he'll post a selfie with a "I Voted" sticker?

by Anonymousreply 396November 2, 2018 11:44 PM

Unless they make "We Voted" stickers.

by Anonymousreply 397November 3, 2018 1:20 AM

R396 it’s the cool thing to do even though everyone he knows votes anyway. Ugh they’re so vapid

by Anonymousreply 398November 3, 2018 6:42 AM

Dancing boys:

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by Anonymousreply 399November 3, 2018 9:23 PM

Y’all can dance along too:

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by Anonymousreply 400November 4, 2018 3:21 AM

Good grief.

by Anonymousreply 401November 4, 2018 3:29 AM

Cringe.

by Anonymousreply 402November 4, 2018 3:42 AM

Elaine.

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by Anonymousreply 403November 4, 2018 6:06 AM

“It’s like a full-body dry heave, set to music.”

by Anonymousreply 404November 4, 2018 8:24 AM

Matt’s so desperate to be the cool kid.

by Anonymousreply 405November 4, 2018 9:17 AM

If the idea is to look cool, he's failing miserably...

by Anonymousreply 406November 4, 2018 11:42 AM

Let’s hope they don’t run out of “i voted” stickers otherwise I doubt anyone in that group will vote if they can’t brag about it on Instagram.

by Anonymousreply 407November 4, 2018 4:37 PM

Big Bear:

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by Anonymousreply 408November 4, 2018 8:04 PM

Wow, the Jiffy Pop hair now has Frost n Tips!

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by Anonymousreply 409November 5, 2018 1:25 AM

I find his friends way more attractive than him.

by Anonymousreply 410November 5, 2018 1:27 AM

Those two in the car with Matt look like they could be brothers. Are they gay twins?

by Anonymousreply 411November 5, 2018 1:29 AM

Probably some mutation of an open relationship going on there.

by Anonymousreply 412November 5, 2018 1:38 AM

The guys in R408 are hot hot hot.

Matt obviously is one of the cool kids now because he only has hot friends. Plus he’s super happy all the time, so the criticisms here come off more as envy than anything else.

by Anonymousreply 413November 5, 2018 1:41 AM

Thanks, R413! Clearly Matt has his fuck buddies alerted to this thread. Will he now suck you off again as a favor?

by Anonymousreply 414November 5, 2018 1:42 AM

Dude is not white he's orange.

by Anonymousreply 415November 5, 2018 1:44 AM

They sure like traveling in a pack.

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by Anonymousreply 416November 5, 2018 5:20 AM

It's Thanksgiving already for them?

by Anonymousreply 417November 5, 2018 5:31 AM

La vie boheme? Oh, Mary!

La vie des bourgeois.

by Anonymousreply 418November 5, 2018 12:58 PM

Who organizes these Girl Scout trips? Do they ever work?

by Anonymousreply 419November 5, 2018 1:08 PM

Healthy Appetite:

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by Anonymousreply 420November 5, 2018 5:54 PM

[quote]mjdempseypsychFriendsgiving is a weekend I throw every year in the mountains for my friends in one big house with no agenda other than to overindulge in food, play, and our love of each other. Being a part of a big group like this is so special and can also be intimidating at times because there are so many big personalities, beautiful smiles, and bright minds. Sometimes my fear of inadequacy makes me feel like I either need to shine harder or just retreat altogether, but letting those thoughts pass and keep showing up with whatever I’ve actually got to give in that moment has been a huge practice of self-love that couldn’t happen without these guys that make me feel safe enough to try. These are the ones who range from crushing it in the living room drag talent show to sobbing at the dinner table when we each describe what this chosen family means to us and that’s some magic I’ll never take for granted.

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by Anonymousreply 421November 5, 2018 5:56 PM

421 posts on this man?

I’m certain that one poster is behind 50% of the posts in this thread.

by Anonymousreply 422November 5, 2018 6:00 PM

*still waiting for a shot of him laying on the therapy-seti*

by Anonymousreply 423November 5, 2018 6:03 PM

They do living room drag shows?

by Anonymousreply 424November 5, 2018 7:52 PM

So I guess he won't pose with an I Voted sticker since he's up in the mountains for Thanksgiving and will not bother to vote!

by Anonymousreply 425November 5, 2018 11:29 PM

Maybe he voted early. I can’t imagine Dempsey would skip voting.

by Anonymousreply 426November 5, 2018 11:32 PM

Magical. Thanks for sharing these beautiful men.

by Anonymousreply 427November 5, 2018 11:34 PM

[quote]Maybe he voted early. I can’t imagine Dempsey would skip voting.

Why? Nothing about him screams he would vote. He'll only do it for the photo op but since you don't get an I Voted sticker with early voting, I doubt he'll do it.

by Anonymousreply 428November 5, 2018 11:38 PM

Album cover Realness:

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by Anonymousreply 429November 6, 2018 4:45 AM

I had a narcissistic friend like Matt once who paid no attention to politics. Just before the last election he asked me quite seriously if Donald Trump was a Republican or a Democrat. Matt and Community might be cut from that cloth since the logistics of arranging group junkets and photo shoots would leave so little time for following politics.

by Anonymousreply 430November 6, 2018 4:53 AM

In motion:

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by Anonymousreply 431November 6, 2018 5:07 AM

R430 your anecdote: never happened

by Anonymousreply 432November 6, 2018 7:10 AM

Of course he voted:

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by Anonymousreply 433November 6, 2018 9:26 PM

72 degrees in West Hollywood right now. Thank God Matt could vote in a tank top.

by Anonymousreply 434November 6, 2018 9:34 PM

Why does he have a cultural appropriated picture of Wonder Woman?

by Anonymousreply 435November 6, 2018 10:09 PM

LOL @ R434.

by Anonymousreply 436November 6, 2018 11:12 PM

They talked:

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by Anonymousreply 437November 7, 2018 6:30 PM

I read R421 where they say they overindulge in 'food, play and love for each other'?

I feel sick...

Fine, indulge in whatever the fuck you want, why do you have to tell the world about it?

by Anonymousreply 438November 7, 2018 8:47 PM

[quote]food play and love for each other

Sploshing? Is that what keeps them all together?

by Anonymousreply 439November 7, 2018 9:06 PM

It’s an Art:

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by Anonymousreply 440November 7, 2018 9:20 PM

Matt deserves his own SNL parody.

by Anonymousreply 441November 7, 2018 9:56 PM

R440 this is how Matt really makes friends with other gays

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by Anonymousreply 442November 7, 2018 10:08 PM

[quote]mjdempseypsychThe company we keep reflects the love we think we deserve. I must love myself well because these guys dance and laugh as much as they get real and open their big hearts. ❤️💛💚💙💜 #marketdays

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by Anonymousreply 443November 8, 2018 6:37 AM

R442 - yuk. As a self-declared connoisseur of male ass that one is just bland and nondescript.

by Anonymousreply 444November 8, 2018 9:05 AM

Matt is only putting out positivity into the world. Why are some here so down about that? He is showing the world and other members of the LGBTQ community that we can support each other and love each other rather than fight and tear one another down.

by Anonymousreply 445November 8, 2018 9:26 AM

Hi Matt!

by Anonymousreply 446November 8, 2018 9:28 AM

New Romance?

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by Anonymousreply 447November 8, 2018 10:03 PM

Whoever it is, the guys taller than Matt and he’s 6’3.

by Anonymousreply 448November 8, 2018 10:06 PM

Awwww, how romantic. Just the happy couple and their photographer at Big Bear.

So sweet!

by Anonymousreply 449November 8, 2018 10:28 PM

R447 is the closest Matt will get to a person of color.

by Anonymousreply 450November 8, 2018 11:03 PM

"She doesn't want to live off-camera, much less talk. There's nothing to say off-camera. Why would you say something if it's off-camera? What point is there existing?"

by Anonymousreply 451November 8, 2018 11:30 PM

Family right there:

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by Anonymousreply 452November 9, 2018 10:11 PM

^cute

by Anonymousreply 453November 9, 2018 10:48 PM

"As a self-declared connoisseur of male ass that one is just bland and nondescript. "

Sitting atop a pair of scrawny chicken legs, one really can't expect a good bubble butt.

by Anonymousreply 454November 10, 2018 1:26 AM

If Matt is really 6’3” it is really hard to get the bubble butt so many here covet. Longer flutes can lead to flatter appearance in the buttocks. Matt’s ass is fine given his height.

I hope Matt and his friends are somewhere safe from the Malibu fires tonight. This weekend’s partying needs to take place outside of the danger zones.

by Anonymousreply 455November 10, 2018 1:55 AM

Flutes=glutes

by Anonymousreply 456November 10, 2018 1:56 AM

R452's linked pic's subtext: "Look, once I was friends with a woman and a Black guy."

by Anonymousreply 457November 10, 2018 2:05 AM

Matt has a hot ass, just like the rest of his body. Why can’t you all at least admit he (and his friends) are hot?

by Anonymousreply 458November 10, 2018 2:09 AM

Just because you want to present hole to them doesn't mean the rest of us share your sentiment.

by Anonymousreply 459November 10, 2018 2:13 AM

But they are objectively hot people. They have wonderful bodies, great hair, great teeth, tans. These are objectively fine specimens of man.

by Anonymousreply 460November 10, 2018 2:14 AM

Are they your imaginary boyfriends?

by Anonymousreply 461November 10, 2018 2:17 AM

His friends are mostly butterfaces. the butterface crew.

by Anonymousreply 462November 10, 2018 3:51 AM

Matt is very cute but he doesn't make me moist at all. Those butterfaces probably keep him in the clique for that reason, he probably attracts hotter dudes than they could so they are just trying to get his leftovers and rejects

by Anonymousreply 463November 10, 2018 3:59 AM

R460, they are only 'objectively hot' to someone who is limited to assessing things visually. And, even then, only to someone who likes the very cliched template they each ape.

If you apply any other criteria, these guys fail every hotness examination.

by Anonymousreply 464November 10, 2018 4:04 AM

He and his friends might be mildly physically attractive, but imagining what they act/sound like is a complete dick wilter.

by Anonymousreply 465November 10, 2018 4:27 AM

R460 - you sum up exactly why they are NOT attractive. If all they have are superficial surface details. None of them demonstrate any semblance of a personality except to try and convince the world that they are having the time of lives, rather than just getting on with living their lives.

The thirst for validation from strangers is not only unattractive, it is utterly repugnant.

by Anonymousreply 466November 10, 2018 11:16 AM

Boys night out:

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by Anonymousreply 467November 11, 2018 3:12 AM

Magical:

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by Anonymousreply 468November 12, 2018 12:05 AM

Does anyone know why this was tagged by Datalounge for the "Race" category where all the others posts are from 2015 and have substantially less replies?

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by Anonymousreply 469November 12, 2018 2:01 AM

Aging gracefully:

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by Anonymousreply 470November 12, 2018 11:54 AM

He looks much hotter in the earlier photo. He looks...normal.

by Anonymousreply 471November 12, 2018 1:13 PM

Elegantly Exhausted:

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by Anonymousreply 472November 12, 2018 8:12 PM

R470 his forehead and hair have grown by two inches each

by Anonymousreply 473November 12, 2018 8:15 PM

Never stops posing.

by Anonymousreply 474November 12, 2018 8:15 PM

He looks not a minute under 45.

by Anonymousreply 475November 12, 2018 8:54 PM

RIP Chance:

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by Anonymousreply 476November 13, 2018 8:18 AM

A slightly different crowd:

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by Anonymousreply 477November 14, 2018 7:17 AM

Same bday, same Handsomeness:

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by Anonymousreply 478November 15, 2018 3:19 AM

A save the date for a bday party next year?!

Damn these kids are delusional.

by Anonymousreply 479November 15, 2018 3:33 PM

Sweet Sixteen, ya’ll.

by Anonymousreply 480November 15, 2018 7:11 PM

Can't wait for the smiling group photo at the dog's memorial!

by Anonymousreply 481November 16, 2018 3:19 AM

Throwback: Skiing trip -

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by Anonymousreply 482November 16, 2018 12:59 PM

I trust they threw the guy standing on the left out of the friendship circle? He's not even trying to smile.

by Anonymousreply 483November 16, 2018 1:56 PM

r483, he's the only top on the trip and probably exhausted from having to service all those queens

by Anonymousreply 484November 16, 2018 2:28 PM

Candle lit.

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by Anonymousreply 485November 18, 2018 7:55 AM

Where's the "smiling under our face masks during the wildfires while having brunch" group shot?

by Anonymousreply 486November 18, 2018 5:37 PM

New Love is definitely in the air:

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by Anonymousreply 487November 19, 2018 4:21 AM

If Matthew is so perfect spiritually as he is physically, why can't he find a man?

by Anonymousreply 488November 19, 2018 1:40 PM

Magical Matt. I love these last two romantic pics.

by Anonymousreply 489November 19, 2018 2:31 PM

Team Newly In Love:

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by Anonymousreply 490November 24, 2018 9:35 AM

It’s all in the Body Language:

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by Anonymousreply 491November 24, 2018 9:58 AM

R490, that's Marcus Barrington with Matthew, Marcus is total cumfart, and one of the most pretentious people I've met. He tried to be a model, then he worked at a modeling agency for awhile, and then he worked at Sears booking models for photos shoots and now he's a real estate agent.

by Anonymousreply 492November 24, 2018 11:44 AM

Here is Marcus Barrington, the cumfart himself.

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by Anonymousreply 493November 24, 2018 11:45 AM

But is Marcus a Top, or Bottom?

by Anonymousreply 494November 24, 2018 12:12 PM

Marcus is quite Hunky, just basing on physical appearance alone:

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by Anonymousreply 495November 24, 2018 12:13 PM

Im sure Marcus is no stranger to being anally penetrated.

by Anonymousreply 496November 24, 2018 12:40 PM

Markus has one of those unfortunate forearm forest tattoos. Those are the bicep barbed wire tattoos of the 2010s.

by Anonymousreply 497November 24, 2018 12:44 PM

I'm sure Marcus nor any of Matthew's other chums have EVER been judged on just their appearance alone R495

by Anonymousreply 498November 24, 2018 12:46 PM

Well, given that Matthew is 6-foot-3, I guess it’s not easy to find a partner taller than him:

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by Anonymousreply 499November 24, 2018 12:52 PM

I'm 6 foot 3 and a total top. But I'm only a 3 or 4 so I wouldn't be welcome in Matthew's circle, or ring.

by Anonymousreply 500November 24, 2018 12:54 PM

HIGH on Life:

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by Anonymousreply 501November 24, 2018 1:55 PM

Does the ugliest among them have to be the photographer for the group shots?

by Anonymousreply 502November 24, 2018 1:59 PM

#360cam:

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by Anonymousreply 503November 24, 2018 3:06 PM

Stupidly Beautiful:

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by Anonymousreply 504November 25, 2018 10:43 AM

^^ He's part right.

by Anonymousreply 505November 25, 2018 12:57 PM

Mr Fabulous:

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by Anonymousreply 506November 25, 2018 1:04 PM

Matt needs a therapist.

by Anonymousreply 507November 25, 2018 8:11 PM

[quote]If Matthew is so perfect spiritually as he is physically, why can't he find a man?

It's hard turn a hoe into a housewife!

by Anonymousreply 508November 25, 2018 10:54 PM

Chin chin!

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by Anonymousreply 509November 26, 2018 7:59 PM

Only $10:

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by Anonymousreply 510November 27, 2018 5:18 AM

5 ways to be a Happy Homo:

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by Anonymousreply 511November 27, 2018 5:38 PM

Full clip:

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by Anonymousreply 512November 27, 2018 5:40 PM

Giving Fierce Vogue:

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by Anonymousreply 513November 28, 2018 2:06 PM

Looking Fabulous:

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by Anonymousreply 514November 29, 2018 5:00 AM

Narcisissy

by Anonymousreply 515November 29, 2018 7:15 AM

His hair reminds me of a hedgehog

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by Anonymousreply 516November 29, 2018 7:59 AM

^LOL

by Anonymousreply 517November 29, 2018 8:15 AM

#fanart:

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by Anonymousreply 518November 29, 2018 9:53 AM

Where Gentlemen Go:

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by Anonymousreply 519November 30, 2018 5:27 AM

R516 his face does too

by Anonymousreply 520November 30, 2018 5:30 AM

I like tall guys and he's cute and has a nice body, I would give him a good deep dicking and gape out his hole. I bet he's a talented bottom.

by Anonymousreply 521November 30, 2018 5:34 AM

Home Sweet Home:

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by Anonymousreply 522November 30, 2018 4:23 PM

[quote]I would give him a good deep dicking and gape out his hole. I bet he's a talented bottom.

Gurl that hole is already gaped:

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by Anonymousreply 523December 1, 2018 2:06 AM

[quote]Really into puppy play:

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by Anonymousreply 524December 2, 2018 1:47 AM

Bitch needs some lip filler.

by Anonymousreply 525December 2, 2018 2:46 AM

Throwback: Night Out with da Boyz:

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by Anonymousreply 526December 2, 2018 5:59 PM

Double Date:

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by Anonymousreply 527December 3, 2018 5:12 AM

I guess pictures are mandatory at these teen gatherings.

by Anonymousreply 528December 3, 2018 6:17 AM

Matt still hasn’t gotten the no bouffant memo.

by Anonymousreply 529December 3, 2018 6:18 AM

A friend of Color:

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by Anonymousreply 530December 4, 2018 9:42 PM

The POC is clearly the boyfriend's friend, since he's tagged in several of the boyfriend's posts but not in any of Mr. Dempsey's.

by Anonymousreply 531December 5, 2018 3:45 AM

So, he's Black-inclusive-adjacent.

by Anonymousreply 532December 5, 2018 3:46 AM

Hot Boyfriend:

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by Anonymousreply 533December 5, 2018 3:59 AM

A real Closeup:

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by Anonymousreply 534December 5, 2018 6:07 AM

Pretty:

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by Anonymousreply 535December 6, 2018 12:03 AM

Pretty stupid.

by Anonymousreply 536December 6, 2018 12:39 AM

Bitch lookin old

by Anonymousreply 537December 6, 2018 12:43 AM

Bitch lookin odd

by Anonymousreply 538December 6, 2018 12:47 AM

It's simply the extrication of myself from the burden of sexual norms, and the restoration of my own powerful and integrated sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 539December 6, 2018 1:08 AM

The hedgehog MUST be his spirit animal; I keep thinking of a giant hedgehog every time I look at these pics! 🦔

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by Anonymousreply 540December 6, 2018 1:23 AM

[quote]The most terrible picture of the best group of friends a gal could ask for:

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by Anonymousreply 541December 7, 2018 1:56 AM

Someone in that group at R541 has just soiled the air. Who could it be?

by Anonymousreply 542December 7, 2018 5:18 AM

#putawaywet:

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by Anonymousreply 543December 7, 2018 9:49 AM

Cozy breakfast with Bae:

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by Anonymousreply 544December 7, 2018 11:15 PM

His boyfriend is too hot for him...

by Anonymousreply 545December 7, 2018 11:32 PM

[quote] Cozy breakfast with Bae:

is that a carb in MY GOOD GAY SUBURB?

by Anonymousreply 546December 8, 2018 3:53 AM

Looking toward a Bright Future:

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by Anonymousreply 547December 9, 2018 3:54 AM

The hot boyfriend is really into Horoscope and Tarot cards:

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by Anonymousreply 548December 9, 2018 8:18 AM

The hot boyfriend could do so much better...

by Anonymousreply 549December 9, 2018 10:40 AM

Cuties:

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by Anonymousreply 550December 9, 2018 11:59 PM

The boyfriend's stork like legs match Miss Dempsey's.

On leg day, they both stay in bed and bump pussies.

by Anonymousreply 551December 10, 2018 12:16 AM

Bright and WHITE future. R547

In looking through these pictures I count barely a handful of "non-white" people in his social interactions. And all these seem to be at public functions where he deigned to allow himself to be photographed with them

At all the ostensibly PRIVATE, invite-only functions it's a complete white out. And that it's a sea of perfect teeth, good hairlines and more attractive than average faces and bodies goes without saying. But I doubt he'll own his "lookism" which is just another form of "discrimination" based on immutable characteristics.

He seems to be playing a bit of "sleight of hand". Because he's obviously not attracted to POC sexually(and I don't count vaguely Latino looking guys with Germanic features, POC) he can use that lack of attraction as a justification to exclude them from his inner circle. At least according to the rules in his own head.

IMO, of course.

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by Anonymousreply 552December 10, 2018 1:07 AM

Late night cozy pic:

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by Anonymousreply 553December 10, 2018 4:47 AM

Would anyone reading this thread SERIOUSLY drop $400/hr into this guy’s pocket to IN ANY WAY deal with mental health issues?

by Anonymousreply 554December 10, 2018 8:41 AM

This one is gonna trigger the DL ANTI-TATS contingent:

[quote]barrington41My tattoos are stories being told on my body. They are a road map of the life I’ve lived, the challenges I’ve faced, the fears I’ve overcome and the path I’m walking. They remind me daily of where I’ve been and where I’m going. 2019 is all about building the foundation that will take me into the next phase of my life. #tattoos #2019 #challenge #future

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by Anonymousreply 555December 11, 2018 2:21 AM

Yall think he's taken a black dick before?

by Anonymousreply 556December 11, 2018 2:23 AM

"My tattoos are stories being told on my body."

... with which any guy will bore you to tears before getting down to sucking your dick.

Next!

by Anonymousreply 557December 11, 2018 3:35 AM

R556: who? Matthew, or Markus?

by Anonymousreply 558December 11, 2018 3:51 AM

Importance of Friendship:

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by Anonymousreply 559December 14, 2018 7:00 AM

Woah! Hold on! Is that a WOMAN on the left? How the hell did she get in the photo?

by Anonymousreply 560December 14, 2018 10:53 AM

Matthew and Bae feeding Henry together:

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by Anonymousreply 561December 15, 2018 5:23 AM

Quality time with the boys:

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by Anonymousreply 562December 16, 2018 5:26 AM

R562 the guy on the right is his only truly hot friend

by Anonymousreply 563December 16, 2018 6:01 AM

Dance Baby Dance:

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by Anonymousreply 564December 17, 2018 6:03 PM

Friends Galore:

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by Anonymousreply 565December 17, 2018 6:07 PM

Look @ MEEEEEEE... and look how many friends I have!!!

by Anonymousreply 566December 17, 2018 6:44 PM

Throwback:

[quote]mjdempseypsychGrabbing the tree by it’s balls.

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by Anonymousreply 567December 19, 2018 8:47 AM

Bitch doesn't know the difference between it's and its.

What a fucking idiot.

by Anonymousreply 568December 21, 2018 3:49 AM

Cute Kitty:

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by Anonymousreply 569December 22, 2018 9:18 AM

I love MD threads, but I seriously wonder where he gets all the energy from to not only live such a life but also post about it on social media? I'm exhausted just from buying groceries and having to cook dinner. I count myself lucky when I am able to drag myself to the couch and watch some Netflix.

Is it drugs, are they energy vampires, do they consume mountains of sugar, do they take raw loads up their butts and it works like extra special battery power to make them go like those energizer rabbits?

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by Anonymousreply 570December 22, 2018 9:36 AM

Hot bf Markus featured Matthew in his Instagram Story again:

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by Anonymousreply 571December 24, 2018 5:11 AM

Déclaration of Love:

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by Anonymousreply 572December 25, 2018 8:48 PM

The bf’s hairline is tragic

by Anonymousreply 573December 25, 2018 8:56 PM

Matthew’s bouffant is even more tragic.

by Anonymousreply 574December 25, 2018 9:53 PM

r570 Im tired just looking at these social activities he does, and how much work it must be to live his life while keeping his bouffant perfectly layed. In addition, I'm sure he's sparkling clean 24/7 to take his new man's dick multiple times a day. Exhausting bitch!

by Anonymousreply 575December 25, 2018 10:24 PM

r575 his boyfriend seems like the bottom

by Anonymousreply 576December 25, 2018 10:46 PM

^ A very tall bottom then:

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by Anonymousreply 577December 25, 2018 10:50 PM

[quote]do they take raw loads up their butts and it works like extra special battery power to make them go like those energizer rabbits?

They're called booty bumps.

by Anonymousreply 578December 25, 2018 11:09 PM

Enjoy:

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by Anonymousreply 579December 27, 2018 1:46 PM

New York Love:

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by Anonymousreply 580December 28, 2018 6:21 AM

^ Oops wrong pic:

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by Anonymousreply 581December 28, 2018 6:22 AM

Post-Christmas Celebration:

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by Anonymousreply 582December 29, 2018 12:33 PM
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by Anonymousreply 583December 29, 2018 6:17 PM

Modelly:

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by Anonymousreply 584December 31, 2018 8:48 PM

He looks like a peasant.

by Anonymousreply 585December 31, 2018 8:58 PM

Love is in unlimited supply:

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by Anonymousreply 586January 1, 2019 9:16 PM

2018 was a bit of a bitch:

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by Anonymousreply 587January 2, 2019 4:48 PM

Living his shirtless Truth:

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by Anonymousreply 588January 2, 2019 10:30 PM

R588 listen to the boyfriend talk, total bottom bitch for sure.

by Anonymousreply 589January 4, 2019 12:40 AM

Just a small getogether:

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by Anonymousreply 590January 4, 2019 7:41 PM

R589: agreed, Matthew actually sounds more butch compared to the hunky bf.

by Anonymousreply 591January 4, 2019 7:47 PM

Ooh, a onesie party! How creative and unique!

by Anonymousreply 592January 5, 2019 2:14 AM

Throwback: Snowy days -

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by Anonymousreply 593January 5, 2019 2:29 AM

Both of them sound like bottoms, so they must have invested in a good double headed dildo. Ive actually met Marcus the boyfriend and he's just a pretentious sissy.

by Anonymousreply 594January 5, 2019 3:11 PM

Marcus, with his wicked pack of cards:

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by Anonymousreply 595January 6, 2019 1:50 AM

Is that poster above the bed at R588 cultural appropriation?!

by Anonymousreply 596January 6, 2019 2:11 AM

No RSVP needed:

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by Anonymousreply 597January 11, 2019 11:22 AM

Matthew is an attractive looking gay.

by Anonymousreply 598January 12, 2019 5:30 PM

He is a blockhead. For sure.

by Anonymousreply 599January 13, 2019 12:18 AM

Wasn't there a Madonna song about this?

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by Anonymousreply 600January 13, 2019 12:22 AM
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