Is it just a phase?
I have a 20-year-old niece like this, and I've got my fingers crossed she grows out of it in a few years.
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Is it just a phase?
I have a 20-year-old niece like this, and I've got my fingers crossed she grows out of it in a few years.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | November 10, 2020 8:36 PM |
Is the guy you're neice dating hot?
by Anonymous | reply 1 | September 28, 2015 3:07 AM |
Niece
by Anonymous | reply 2 | September 28, 2015 3:08 AM |
It's not really a phase. She likes what she likes. Hopefully she recognizes that liking bad boys is a dead end.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | September 28, 2015 3:36 AM |
Romanticizing sociopathy - it might be just a phase.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | November 9, 2020 3:21 AM |
Someone said women love bad boys because they think they can change them. It's a kind of omnipotent Narcissistic fantasy, being so powerful you can change someone else. It doesn't happen. She'll most likely end up feeling disillusioned, betrayed, miserable. You better get used to it and not get too wrapped up in her outcomes.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | November 9, 2020 3:22 AM |
Sometimes those guys are really hot op
by Anonymous | reply 7 | November 9, 2020 3:28 AM |
Most of them are complete idiots but nice guys are probably too "feminine" for her so she'll always go for the assholes.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | November 9, 2020 3:49 AM |
Too many watchings of 'Beauty and the Beast' for her as a little one, eh?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | November 9, 2020 3:53 AM |
How bad are these bad boys, OP?
by Anonymous | reply 10 | November 9, 2020 3:55 AM |
Bad boys are a lot of fun, but she needs to realize they’re often bad news. Tell her to be careful and hopefully she’ll be okay.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | November 9, 2020 4:05 AM |
Bad boys can be hot fun but you need to be clear that they have an early expiration date and must be thrown away before the toxicity starts.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | November 9, 2020 6:19 AM |
Girls with very low self-esteem go for the bad boys, because it gives them a feeling of status. Inevitably they will be dumped ( after they've been used up) and will wail and carry on with the ," But I loved him. How could he do this to me?" Same thing happens to low self-esteem gays and abusive bad boys.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | November 9, 2020 11:39 AM |
After she's been beaten to a bloody pulp four or five times by said bad boy, your niece will come around. They usually do, unless they're perpetual masochists.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | November 9, 2020 11:58 AM |
Not a phase for Lana Del Ray
by Anonymous | reply 15 | November 9, 2020 12:00 PM |
Bad boys are often very hot and oozing testosterone. Quite often, they are athletic Alphas
by Anonymous | reply 16 | November 9, 2020 12:08 PM |
Men who like bad boys or girls, on the other hand, are perfectly normal. It's these fucking women and their crazy uncontrollable desires we have to rein in!
by Anonymous | reply 17 | November 9, 2020 12:08 PM |
She’ll never stop chasing bad boys.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | November 9, 2020 12:24 PM |
Unfortunately I don’t think it ever changes but that doesn’t mean she won’t marry a good guy. She’ll just fantasize about the bad ones.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | November 9, 2020 12:27 PM |
Sometimes they leave the good guy for the hot bad boy
by Anonymous | reply 20 | November 9, 2020 12:29 PM |
R16: they're also often semi-retarded like most athletic people which is why they're good for sex but not much else.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | November 9, 2020 4:08 PM |
Why are they bad? Do they rob, kill, rape?
by Anonymous | reply 22 | November 9, 2020 4:20 PM |
They’re fun to fuck but she needs to understand they’re not good for actual relationships.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | November 10, 2020 12:14 AM |
Why don't you fraus take this to your twat sites? This is a GAY site.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | November 10, 2020 1:50 AM |
Years back, there was a stupid debate on TWoP about who Rory should date, Dean or Jess. Someone noted that the respondents should also state their age because older women had already had their bad boys and knew they were exciting but trouble. Rory herself said as much. She met the good guy at the wrong time in her life.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | November 10, 2020 2:20 AM |
Tell your niece not to have his child unless she wants to be a single mom.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | November 10, 2020 2:26 AM |
R12 = unoriginal twat
by Anonymous | reply 27 | November 10, 2020 8:13 PM |
My sister has had an eclectic mix of boyfriends. She seems to gravitate towards tall men who are heavily tattooed. The kind that give off big dick energy. A couple of them were smokin hot, but they were total assholes. She is with a decent guy now. I guess she smartened up.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | November 10, 2020 8:20 PM |
Ahh, the bad boy role. The part that draws most of the girls in is the way the "bad boy" treats them like nothing special. Especially in the beginning. I don't know if they see it as a challenge or think it must be something fantastic if they can't have it. Low self-esteem gays are the same. But it seems to cut through the general population of girls. Unless they are looking for a meal ticket. Then they might go safe.
I had a good bit of luck with the "Bad Boy" persona in HS.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | November 10, 2020 8:32 PM |
Bad boys are hot fuckbuddies
by Anonymous | reply 30 | November 10, 2020 8:34 PM |
I like corrupting those straight laced conservative types myself. They’ve been keeping it in so long they’re always a hot fuck
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