What is an "oral top?"

"A mouth is a mouth, man"

If you've ever said this, it's you.

An oral top is just a top.

The idea that tops don't want to suck dick is silly and some weird outdated alpha thing.

A mouth is not a mouth, sorry.

Oh, an a mistaken R1? Is an oral top supposed to be a top that won't suck dick? I guess that makes more sense if so. Today I learned.

Yes. An oral top is a top who sucks cock....lots of cock.

R4: that's what I always assumed it meant

See, people in this thread have conflicting definitions. Some use it to only describe an oral role, the active role in oral. Others use to connote both one's oral and anal roles---active in anal, passive in oral.

Top = Penetrator (fucking, being sucked)

Bottom = Penetrated (being fucked, sucking)

Active = fucking, sucking

Passive = being fucked, being sucked

Yeah, OP, I've seen that description on plenty of guys' "dating" profiles. Most whom I've encountered have defined it as a top who's REALLY into oral. In other words, he's signalling that he's not a wham-bham-thank-you-Dan guy, but one who likes to take his time orally exploring before getting to the fucking. At least that's been my experience.

And oral top is one who receives oral sex.

"Top" in this sense means the "less degrading" or "man" position.

"Bottoms" mean the "woman" position.

[quote] Top = Penetrator (fucking, being sucked)

[quote]Bottom = Penetrated (being fucked, sucking)

And never the twain shall meet!!!

[quote]And oral top is one who receives oral sex.

[quote]"Top" in this sense means the "less degrading" or "man" position.

[quote]"Bottoms" mean the "woman" position.

Can we get this engraved somewhere?

I thought it was a top who can't get It up anymore?

The tops always put the dick INTO stuff.

The bottoms receive the dick into themselves

A lot of People use the term to mean a dude who gets sucks but never sucks

[quote]The tops always put the dick INTO stuff.

[quote]The bottoms receive the dick into themselves

This is good and right.

[quote]A lot of People use the term to mean a dude who gets sucks but never sucks

Well put.

Oral top is the greedy motherfucker that never seems to be able to host either.

Oral top = he likes oral, but he'll only get sucked. You're not allowed to stick your dick in his mouth, you must suck.

I hadn't really heard this much before apps. It usually means I want you to suck my dick and service me then I am out of there. Which is fair if someone agrees to it.

I had a guy who's profile was all about getting you off. Kept messaging me, begging me to come over and let him suck me off. One morning, I acquiesced and went over there. He was older than his pics, which is not unusual. There were some other things that would preclude him from fuck material, but he was all over my dick as soon as I got there. So fine. It was good head.

After I got dressed, he cops this attitude and quips "Is that it?" It was obvious he wanted me to get him off. I get that. I don't get into non-reciprocal sex acts. It's just part of my damaged psyche. But I don't advertise that I do get into it. He knew I was headed to work, so I just looked at him and said "Yes, I thought that was what we were doing?"

I did actually text him back and explain nicely. He understood and actually changed his profile.

[quote]You're not allowed to stick your dick in his mouth, you must suck.

Very good!

R20 What a little bitch! You should have beat him silly.

I was an oral and anal top when I was active during and after the HIV epidemic. I suck occasionally now if uncut.

#14 = Pope Francis

Top = Male

Activo only means you never are penetrated, oral or anal

Make them be specific.

Everyone tends to think of a Total Top as “You will suck me/I will fuck you. I will not suck you/you will not fuck me.”

Some think of Oral Top as “You will suck me/I will fuck you/I will suck you if I feel like it.“

Others see Oral Top as “You will suck me/I will NOT fuck you. I will not suck you/you will not fuck me.

You HAVE to consider the sores!

Or you could just say what the fuck you want and get on with it.

I always assumed it was a top who wouldn't shut up.

Lol, r30.

That's verbal R30

What’s an aural too?

It's an irrumator, OP, and I'm gonna irrumate YOU!