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Is gay porn doing anything good?

I watch gay porn whenever I am horny. Usually when I am in a relationship I don't go near porn. But of late I wonder if the porn I am watching does me any good. I find that gay porn is repetitive, filled with a great deal of self hate and bigotry, and unimaginative. Often the sex is stiff- no pun intended-and dry. I know for a great many gay men it is their only sexual outlet. But it never gets better, and I don't feel better after supporting the drug addicts I have just watched.

by Anonymousreply 17January 5, 2021 1:10 AM

i only watch str8 porn.

by Anonymousreply 1September 20, 2015 4:48 PM

R1 That means gay porn then.You know, 99% of actors in gay porn identify as straight.

by Anonymousreply 2September 20, 2015 4:54 PM

I don't like man on man sex in my porn. I like watching men drill women's assholes and women sucking men's feet.

by Anonymousreply 3September 20, 2015 4:56 PM

OP if you don't like it, don't watch it.

For me its a time saver and a stress release. No big deal.

by Anonymousreply 4September 20, 2015 5:01 PM

The commercially produced material breaks down into two types: the crap produced by the old-school studios (the amalgamated Falcon brand under the inept head Chris Ward, a tragedy unto itself but that's another thread) and the much better quality of the self-hating homophobic early web studios. And I think it's pretty clear that no one will miss either style once they're gone.

All of the good material is now made by amateurs, who are doing it because they're exhibitionists and a really into the sex. While it's cliche to say they make love to the camera, I'd say it's more like the camera is a part of what turns them on. Maybe it's that the generation currently making the good stuff is accustomed to being on camera all of the time; I can't imagine what it's like to record my life the way that the young'ins do today, but God bless them. And keep it coming, boys.

by Anonymousreply 5September 20, 2015 5:03 PM

r5 Yup. Just go to dudesnude or squirt. guys love showing off for the camera - and they enjoy performing sexual acts when the camera is on. Maybe that's what the OP should watch.

by Anonymousreply 6September 20, 2015 5:05 PM

Tumblr is a treasure trove.

by Anonymousreply 7September 20, 2015 5:08 PM

OP, with your judgemental attitude even the best gay porn release will not be good enough for you, so why bother?

by Anonymousreply 8September 20, 2015 5:13 PM

What R5 said! I dumped Sean Cody in favor of Tumblr a while back!

by Anonymousreply 9September 20, 2015 5:21 PM

All porn pollutes the mind.

by Anonymousreply 10September 20, 2015 5:35 PM

I don't think porn in general is done for altruistic purposes.

As many have mentioned before, the problem with gay porn is that no one is gay and homosexuality is something to run away from. That's the impression many of us get when reading this self-procliamed heterosexual men doing gay sex in front of the cams.

by Anonymousreply 11September 29, 2015 9:57 PM

With you 100% OP and with R5, Tumblr and XTube and Chaturbate and Cam4 have kind of revolutionized the industry. There are tons of hot exhibitionists out there who are making real, passionate sexual connections and sharing them with us online. That's the good. The bad is, it will take time for you to dig through the millions of porn/exhibitionist blogs on Tumblr etc to find the kind of content that gets you off, but there truly is something for everyone now.

That being said, I kinda get your frustration. Once in a while, you just wanna get online and get off quickly. Tumblr can be fun for a lazy afternoon of edging, but can be time consuming as you have to sift through the stuff that doesn't work for you. It would be nice to have a modern porn studio that doesn't hire "straight" men, that only hires gay men who know how to let go and have a real connection on screen who may be few points above 5% body fat, but who actually have some personality and a little roughness around the edges. Who actually kiss when they fuck. Who actually make eye contact.

I actually started this thread which you might like of Tumblr exhibitionists who are posting some hot solo and duo stuff with them and their fuckbuddies, but no one else contributed so I kinda gave up on it. Funny how virtually no one contributed to that thread, but the threads for gay-shaming, homophobic sites like SeanCody and CorbinFisher always have tons of posters. That probably says something about the DL community.

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by Anonymousreply 12September 29, 2015 10:14 PM

Oh, and, OP you might like this other thread that I occasionally bump as well featuring what you might call "selfie sex", featuring real (and really hot) guys who post pics of their sexual exploits. Not solo selfies, but pics of them hooking up with 1 (or more) guy(s).

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by Anonymousreply 13September 29, 2015 10:20 PM

For all the Tumblr/Squirt/Xtube/Xhamster connoisures, can you point me to any cute, college-age guys on those sites (twinks or boy next door types) that show their faces and get fucked raw? That's what I'm after. The same kind as SC or CF's models, but amateur. And I don't mean pics, I want videos.

by Anonymousreply 14September 29, 2015 10:22 PM

It keeps me monogamous. Partly because I can dial into any type I want and see them in top form, partly because I know how messed up many, many, many of those people are and I need a reminder that this is as far as I want to go with those folks.

by Anonymousreply 15September 29, 2015 10:27 PM

R10 I agree.

by Anonymousreply 16January 5, 2021 12:57 AM

Interesting thread topic = 2015 troll at work.

I know that most people are mad at the troll, but for me the real issue is how boring this forum has gotten.

by Anonymousreply 17January 5, 2021 1:10 AM
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