Any sympathy for the Ashley Madison cheaters?

You don't cheat.

You deal with your shitty sex life, OR you break up and find someone else.

some times you can negotiate an open relationship. Than it's not cheating. Differing sex drives isn't an uncommon issue. Some just aren't all that interested in sex. I dated a guy like that for about a year. two or 3 times a month was about it even early on. It wasn't lack of attraction on either side he just didn't have much of a sex drive and frankly when we did have sex it was rarely great. Sex just isn't really his thing. In the end it wasn't the reason we broke up but i've certainly moved on to much better sex life now.

Lack of sex drive is a treatable condition, don't understand why a person just gives up, without seeking help. If nothing works, then give up !!

True r3 they have testosterone treatments. But for some they just don't really have much desire for sex. It's odd for those of us who love sex but there are some that it's not that big a deal to them.

Whatley Whatson?

You're just bored.

Cheat. Get some joy in life

OP here- while I wont be a troll and bore u with complaints about the relationship, sex is definitely a big issue. There are others including lack of intimacy and the fact that he's addicted to gambling. I love him, I don't want to be single but im really struggling with the idea of ending it with him.

Don't cheat.

Negotiate an open relationship.

OP don't take the chicken shit way out of "cheating" if you think you're probably going to end it anyway. Man up and make a decision to either address the problems directly or get the hell out.

Ashley Madison wasn't marketed towards people in open relationships, it was marketed towards cheaters.

For whom I have zero sympathy. Work on your relationships or find the balls to break up, dipshits! There's no value at all in a relationship where you're emotionally absent and are secretly fucking around.

"At what point do I cheat?"

Tuesdays are good.

Do you have a vagina, OP? Grow a pair. You say you have been with your partner for 10 years but there is obviously some major dysfunction in your communication. If your partner is not giving you the amount of sex that you need, as others have stated, negotiate an open relationship and be HONEST with your partner of 10 years. Don't go behind his back. How old are you? It's time to stop being a man-child and embrace being an adult.

No. Cheaters are losers.

Wow, OP / R13. Ashley fucking Madison? Really?

If your partner is a gambling addict, you have multiple reasons to end the relationship, if you aren't arranging an intervention.

Hello 2015 thread!