If you see someone attractive, how do you try to meet him? Like at work, are you subtle but flirty? Or at the gym, do you try to exchange glances across the room and work out near them? Or are you more direct and just go up and chat someone up? Or do you rely on social media?
How do you approach guys?
by Anonymous | reply 17 | April 5, 2020 4:36 AM |
I go up and say hello.
Works wonders.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | September 17, 2015 2:35 PM |
I lick my nose and then stick my fist in my mouth.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | September 17, 2015 2:47 PM |
"Yummmm"
by Anonymous | reply 3 | September 17, 2015 2:48 PM |
I ask them if they would be interested in buying a used book. If that doesn't work, I try to find out which program they're in.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | September 17, 2015 3:07 PM |
That's why you have Grindr
by Anonymous | reply 5 | September 17, 2015 3:40 PM |
Suggestively lifting a caftan while making creepy, extended eye contact can work wonders!
by Anonymous | reply 6 | September 17, 2015 3:52 PM |
I ask if they want to come up and see my etchings sometime.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | September 17, 2015 3:57 PM |
R1 - "I go up and say hello. Works wonders."
Not a New Yorker.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | September 18, 2015 2:57 AM |
"Hi, how much for an hour?"
by Anonymous | reply 9 | September 18, 2015 3:00 AM |
bump
by Anonymous | reply 10 | September 18, 2015 3:00 AM |
I guess there are so few serious responses because no one has any experience with this. Or with humor.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | September 18, 2015 3:42 AM |
I get a lot of complete male strangers who try to friend me on Facebook, along with a "poke" and a message like, "Hey, handsome!"
Block delete, no. FB ain't Grindr, dude.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | September 18, 2015 5:32 AM |
Much the same manner in which I'd approach a rabid dog.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | September 18, 2015 5:40 AM |
Ask him about his interests, OP. People love talking about themselves.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | April 5, 2020 3:38 AM |
I play it cool. I smile and say something to beak the ice. “Hey, you ever have a fist up your asshole?”
by Anonymous | reply 15 | April 5, 2020 3:45 AM |
If you’re approaching people in real life, OP, then you’re a fool. This is why they created Grindr and Scruff. Use the tools available to find all available tools.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | April 5, 2020 3:47 AM |
I whisper in their ear as I pass by, “All my life, I’ve spent the nights, with dreams of you.” It works best in Italian, but any Romance language is fine.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | April 5, 2020 4:36 AM |