My hot to death trick had anal warts. Not a lot 2-3 and they were relatively small.

OP, come on, you know the answer. Your first instincts were right. It's embarrassing, but at the end of the day, you'll be a better man for being very direct and telling him exactly what you saw so that, if he's a responsible guy, he can go get it taken care of. After that, the.. wart's in his court. Maybe also tell him to do a Google image search on "anal warts left untreated".

Tell you what, give us his email address and we'll take care of it for you.

I had a few and the only way to remove them is surgery. Horrible,painful and humiliating. And if you don't take care of them you can get anal cancer.

Tell'em.

If he has anal warts, it will eventually become apparent to him, and he will have to do something about it. But since he isn't returning your e-mails, it would seem there is very little you can do about it.

Huh? He won't return your emails? Let him die. Seriously. His asshole. His warts. His problem. BUTT OUT.

I barebacked one of my ex-boyfriends when he had hemorrhoids, but that was nothing compared to this. You owe it to yourself and to him to tell him. If I ever see anything that looks out of the ordinary, I always ask what it is first.

Elephant Man Ass. . . . . just put a bulap bag over it.

ANAL warts on your ASS ?

Hmmm. . . . .Interesting. Let's have a look !

Your hot-to-death trick might just end up killing you.

Would it kill you to get tested before you have sex?

They can go away on their own. But it takes a long time.

R11

Yeah, good luck with that scenario.

Condoms do NOT protect against anal/genital warts.

But UCSF researchers have shown these viruses to be present on genital skin with no symptoms that might prompt diagnosis and treatment. That means HPV and HSV can be deposited on the condom's outer surface from viral particles living on the scrotum or anus, penile shaft not covered by the condom or vaginal/vulvar tissues.

OP, there is no surgery involved. You simply go to a dermatologist and put your ass in the air. The nurse comes in with a tray full of super-duper acid vials and pretends your hairy asshole is not there at all. Then the doctor puts drops of painful acid on your warts. All gone!

Not that I've ever experienced it. But I've been told stories.

Ew, r13. I hope OP took a shower afterwards.

I don't think I want to have sex anymore.

um how can a condom NOT protect against anal warts? No touch, no transmit.

And like all good doctors and nurses, the will not discuss your "condition", and refrain from giggling and snickering until you leave the office. Hopefully . . . . . .providing they can control themselves.

Trust me, I know these things, I work in an ER.

R18= Kathryn Knott!

Yes, you should shoot off an email and let him know. These warts are likely caused by HPV which you can get with casual contact so OP you should let your doctor know that you were exposed to them too. Over 90% of the sexually active population get exposed to a strain of HPV. There are only a couple that cause anal warts. Found out I have them after a normal anal pap and now having to get them removed during an outpatient surgery next month. Quite scared and a little embarrassed, but you should do what's right for you and this hot-to-death trick so you both don't end up dead!

Talk about getting caught with your pants down . . . . .😸

Aldara cream bitches.

Wait, you saw them and decided to fuck him anyway because he was "hot to death"? Desperate much?

If you tell him in an email, put the "so I think you have butt warts" part in the subject line so 2hot2b4gotten actually gets the message.

[quote] I had a few and the only way to remove them is surgery. Horrible,painful and humiliating.

I had a couple of warts burned off over 30 years ago.

Not horrible, only mildly painful for the first 24 hours after the anesthesia wore off, and certainly not humiliating. I had a gay doctor and he was terrific; very matter-of-fact. Never had a recurrence.

Why would it be humiliating? It's not like you showed up at the ER with a cassette tape up your ass.

[quote] If you tell him in an email, put the "so I think you have butt warts" part in the subject line ...

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, TELL HIM.

I met a guy once who insisted the things on his dick were "papilloma" and no big deal. Of course, that's Latin for warts, ugh! He didn't know. He was so in denial, but I showed him the door.

OP, tell him! Be a human being and do the right thing! Oh, and you absolutely exposed yourself. That virus gets through condoms.

I recommend placing a Craig's List "missed connections" notice, including detailed descriptions of you, him, the specific activities engaged in, and the exact location. That way, there will be less room for doubt, with the added benefit of warning others about him and you.

[quote]Why would it be humiliating? It's not like you showed up at the ER with a cassette tape up your ass.

True. All the cool kids are into vinyl.

OP, send him here for love and support.

Ditto R25. It really was no big deal. A couple of them re-occurred about a year later and they were treated at the local clinic with liquid nitrogen. Surprisingly not all that painful. I haven't had any since, and the good thing is once you're exposed you basically have immunity against future exposure.

Stalk him until you find where he works, then go into his job and tell him there.

OP, you are one sick little monkey!

Send him an e card

OP neglects to say if they tasted warty.

Can you get them in your throat? Suppose someone has them on his or her dick, and you give head. Can you get them in your mouth or throat? I assumed when Sir Elton had throat surgery a while back that this was the issue.

Does that mean that he previously barebacked with another partner?

I'd be more worried about that.

Send him a candy gram

Are you sure they were warts and not piercings?

How in Creation can anyone truly be "hot to death" if they have FUCKING ANAL WARTS!!!???!!!

Acute anus warts might kill the mood.

Yeah, that would be too gross to continue, R39.

The lack of knowledge about transmission of genital warts in here is truly appalling. If you don't know or are not sure how when and where genital warts can be transmitted get off of DL and your porn sites and google it. God Damn it.

Start here because I already know you are too fucking stupid to look it up yourself.

My doc used cryo to freeze the warts. They resolved a few days later.

I was at the Watergarden bathhouse last century and was with a very attractive man -- muscles, hairy, beard, gruff daddy. I'm sucking him and my hands wandered to his ass. They were like a honeycomb on his asshole. Ran away.

[quote]I'm sucking him and my hands wandered to his ass. They were like a honeycomb on his asshole.

"Honeycomb on His Asshole" sounds like a Smiths song.

R35, yes Michael Douglas throat cancer. They're deadly.

Oh, R47, thank you.

Nothing stops a party like anal warts

Agree with R47

Friend of mine who is straight kept having his neck swell up, then down. He kept thinking his had swollen glands. His gf nagged to see a doctor. Dr found nothing unusual. Six months later still going on. Now his DDS thinks it's from impacted wisdom teeth. He has those removed. Months later his neck is still swollen. Blah blah blah. Finally sees an ENT who decided to do an exploratory which showed that my friend has cancerous nodes in his neck. They schedule surgery to remove these plus some other areas. He had to go through radiation & chemo. Did a number on his teeth, gums. All of this took about 3 years total. He's ok now. The guy is 51. He was told though that all of this was caused by the HP virus which he apparently got from performing oral sex. Very scary & at one point it looked very bad. Like I said he's ok now but we all wonder whether it'll come back etc.....

Anal warts are more common than you think.

You realize that you carry the HPV virus your entire life and a flare-up can occur at anytime. Having them removed is definitely recommended, but they can come back. I got the impression OP you think once they're removed they're gone for good.

OP If he has anal warts, he also needs to have an HIV test.

Of course you should tell him. Then get *thee* to a gay doctor, OP.

[quote]I was at the Watergarden bathhouse last century and was with a very attractive man -- muscles, hairy, beard, gruff daddy. I'm sucking him and my hands wandered to his ass. They were like a honeycomb on his asshole. Ran away.

I'm disgusted and cracking the fuck up simultaneously. lmao.

[quote]My doc used cryo to freeze the warts.

Same here. Two treatments, spaced a week or two apart. I never wanted to get fucked again. Warts may have saved my life.