When the men who contact you on Grindr or other Hook-Up apps go away..........

Maybe because you're going right from the nice profile to the dick shots and "Fuck Me" replies.

Can't you respond with a little sexual innuendo of your own? A little verbal foreplay before telling some guy you want him to slam your ass by presenting him with photos of your hole?

Why have the sweet and nice profile if your first respons to someone is a pic showing what a whore you are?

Maybe your ass isn't as hot as you think it is?

I'm imagining lots of wear and tear on those treads

Uh, YOU'RE FIFTY AND ON A HOOKUP APP FILLED WITH TWENTY YEAR OLDS.

Are you in New York City r4? Grindr definitely is filled with a lot of men older than 20.

Desperate much OP? At 50 be cool not worried like its your last dick.

OP, do you have STDs, dude?

Grindr is not necessarily a hook up app idiot. It can be used for that sure, but a lot of guys on there are NOT looking to fuck right now. They are looking to talk, to actually meet guys in the area.

If want is fast sex you need to say that and see if they are looking for the same thing.

Also sweetie, quit being a 50 year old bottom. Suck it up and learn to top. You can fuck yourself with a dildo when you want it.

Why does OP necessarily have to stop being a bottom because he's 50?

r8, I think you're a little confused on the concept of "The Truth Fairy."

No, I'm a just telling the truth r9. I guess if he is sticking with people his own age it doesn't really matter as much, but in general if you an older guy out there trying to get laid you should be a top. Just the reality, bottoming is more of a young person's game whether you want to admit it.

Grindr is the place where sexual addicts go to get HIV.

Most self-shot adult pics are a turn off. Threy're usually poorly lit, feature no make up, and are badly staged. No-one really gets aroused by the sight of a downwards shot of a wrinkled cock with an overly purple head, varicose veins, and a pair of skanky feet in flip flops in the background. Similarly no-one wants to see a harshly lit photo of a spotty, hairy, flabby, blotchey ass and red sphincter. Despite what men may think, most cocks and most asses are not aesthetically pleasing enough to carry off an unprofessionally lit, close up photo taken over an open toilet.

In the pre-grindr years a local man used to relentlessly message me on gaydar. He'd send these photos that were close ups of his cock with cum dripping out of it, and a desk that he had ejaculated on, and one with him swilling it around in his mouth. I really have no idea how the fuck he thought that would turn me on, it actually made me feel a little sick.

When guys immediately message me with 4 or 5 dick and ass photos or photos of them getting fucked, I immediately block them, figuring they have every STD in the book.

I am surprised by guys who put "no hookups, friends only" on an app that's all about the hookup. I'm thinking they quickly made a "one time exception" and that it's part of their act.

therefore WHY would he get all appoited receiving nude photos annoy him? I mean WTF?

to appoit? appoited?

You are far too highbrow to have success with the hoi polloi, OP.

A guy sending me nudes instantly kills any interest, personally.

How do you know I'm not gonna be a psycho and send them to all your co-workers?

It's just reckless behavior. And slutty.

What R1 said. I'm on these apps and coming on too strong wreaks of desperation and undeveloped social skills. Which in turn is a recipe for a disaster in the sack !

R16 And personally I like a little mystery. Why would flirting with someone in person be fun if you've already seen them nude and know they're DTF? There's no back and forth, just wham, bam, thank you, ma'am.

Diesel wants someone to take to church?

[quote] worship feet

So the 2015 thread bumper is one of those freaky "foot people".

[quote] I am a 50 year old bottom...

This is where I stopped reading...and I'm in lockdown with nothing better to do.

I don't usually have them ghost me. I either lose interest or have to block the ones that aren't slam dunks. if your not a 7 or above OP, your going to have to create an interest about yourself. 6's and below can get each other all day long. The interesting ones get laid.