The sad pathetic existence of the gay male bottom

Are you ugly?

Are you frigid?

Because its not that difficult for most bottoms. Takes two to tango.

How old are you anyway? This should NOT be an issue if you are between 18 and 40, say, and clean and presentable.

What aren't you telling us?

Get yourself some fuckbuddies and cycle through them. On off days, if you are so empty and GRASPING for something in your black hole, just dildo it but good.

stop your complaining. its not helping you.

[quote]Am I the only bottom who sometimes thinks he is going to go insane if he doesnt find a top to do , well, you know

Isn't this all bottoms? From what I can tell it is. Tops get horny, sure, but bottoms actually go into heat and are so desperate for sex in a way tops never are.

You're a whore, darlin'

R1, the last thing I need is some busybody frau telling me how to meet my needs. Kindly fuck off.

you really are pathetic then if you can't get your hole filled and are happy to kvetch about it rather than getting yourself laid.

and answer the question. How old are you? Are you fat?

OP = Bossy Bottom

What I want to know is why is it that so many tops don't know what they're doing? They are totally clueless. Or is it just that they only care about their own pleasure and not that of the bottom?

[quote]Or is it just that they only care about their own pleasure and not that of the bottom?

No it couldn't possibly be that!

OP has been brownlisted!

It's too bad you are mute R8. Talk to your fucking partner about what you like. Everyone is not the same, they can't read your mind. In good sex people aren't afraid to communicate with each about what feels good and what doesn't.

You sound fat to me. Your situation is, perhaps, hopeless

I miss Uncle Bottom.

Interesting r2. I wasn't aware of that.

R11 is one of those tops who doesn't know what he's doing.

OP might have a flat ass.

OP's ass is HUNGREEEEEEEEEEEE

I'm a top and although attractive, hard and easy, frequently go through dry spells. Guys seem to enjoy my dick, but in a larger city especially, I almost never get to see a guy more than a few times. Not because they don't like me, but because they always want the next thing out there.

And I'm still amazed at the number of guys who have guilt about having sex with guys. That's a real problem in my current small city, which is full of extreme closet cases. One thing I did for awhile that got me more ass than I ever dreamed possible was to sell my services. Suddenly I had fuck dates lined up constantly, and lots of repeats. One guy was so frequent I felt bad about taking all his money and gave him a few freebies and then a severe discount. I quit selling it because of (a) weirdos and (b) worry about getting arrested.

Yeah, I don't know what you should do either, OP. I just wanted to talk about myself because all I can think about is my own dick, because I'm

Tops have a longer shelf life too.

Seriously, get a dildo.

If you are a bottom, you should definition not be a slut. Receptive anal sex is a very risky activity, and you should not just be selective in choosing your partners, but also in the number of them. Monogamy with an STD negative person is the only sane and healthy way to be an active bottom.

Yawn r21. There are things things call condoms, maybe you have heard of them. Pathetically many gay men don't use them, THAT is the problem.

In all seriousness, have you thought about getting a fucking machine, OP?

I'm a bottom and I've gone through 46 tops since January 4, 2015. My friends and I have been talking about the "top" problem for awhile now. There are just not enough good tops to go around and the good runs get passed around so much. Anybody can stick their dick into a hole, but it takes a real man to top a good bottom like myself. Out of the 46 I've had this year, only about 20 were excellent. The other 26 were just okay and many of them, IMO, were just pretend tops.

[quote]I'm a bottom and I've gone through 46 tops since January 4, 2015.

And if you think MY hole is big....

R24, ewwwww

pic of r24 still looking for more tops.

r18 what which small city do you live?

I have lived in both big and small cities and would says that there are just substantially more bottoms than tops. Once you get your bell rung by a good top that ends topping as much.

After reading the rugby string I think I will take up the sport.

r24 ---of the 46 I've had this year, only about 20 were excellent. I think this is a great %. Most sex is meh.

Most tops don't really know what they're doing.

R29, you are the one keeping awful stereotypes about gay men alive. Unreal

Does anyone know what R31 is blabbing on about?

So are most gay men bottoms? The majority? The large majority? Is versatility a myth?

Most gay men are versatile to an extent R33, however more of those prefer bottoming to topping. Then there are a smaller portion of exclusive bottoms and exclusive tops.

My friend is a bottom with a big butt and he says top come in two varieties- diggers, and screwers, but I forget which one is desirable? He's sort of a know it all who actually does know a lot.

LOL @ "my friend is a bottom" ...

A lot of Pathetic people here

I want a top who is going to demolish my hole. There is nothing worse than those "let's have romantic sex" idiots. You just want to ask them how long their mother nursed them, big wusses.

R27,is that what a prolapsed asshole looks like?! My god

OP go on CL and place an ad.

Accept married men with no photos. You will get fucked by a hotter class of man.

Needy bottoms and multiple photo requests will leave you alone.

It's too bad, cause that guy @ R27 is very cute. It looks like he was just bred by a fire hydrant.

OP - Move to a college town and post messages on the men's room walls offering up your ass to any frat boy who can't get a date for Saturday night. You'll soon have an endless parade of horny young men who need to be serviced. Be sure to mention in your message that no one ever had to pay child support for fucking an ass. I'll bet you are smiling and satisfied in no time, dear.

If there was a Battle of the Network Stars type competition between tops and bottoms who would win?

R42, not really college bros are afraid of hooking up with people who are at high risk of having the AIDS. Bathroom wall sluts are especially in that category

Sounds like you may be a sex addict. Sounds like you're not happy with life, likely because you're selfish ..... ?

see what I mean

Yeah, what a waste of the guy @ R27. Talk about tossing a hot dog down a hallway.

OP - Whistle While You Twerk!

More Jojo.

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lmao

It's so hard to find quality tops.

what do you bottoms mean when you say you want a guy to destroy your ass? I don't get that. What do you want him to do exactly?