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Suck One Cock And You're Gay

While people like Dan Savage speak about guys being "heteroflexible" and accept that lots of otherwise straight guys experiment, DL (and many women for that matter) seems wedded to the notion that any guy who has ever had any sort of gay sex is gay forever, a closet case or, best case, a closet bisexual.

Where does this come from? Is it the idea that if all those guys were to acknowledge that they were at some level bi, it would de-stigmatize being gay? Or is it something else. Women seem to enjoy lesbian affairs without getting lableled closet castes if they go on to have relationships with men.

by Anonymousreply 14June 4, 2020 3:00 AM

Something that doesn't help it a lot of them that had a sexual encounter with another dude do infact turn out to be gay or bi. But it's just not always the case. Sexual activity especially young if often all about the situation more than real attraction. It's not different than i had sex with a couple of girls in high school as an insanely horny teen but it certainly didn't make me str8 or even bi. It just wasn't hard to get it up at 16 or 17 even if they weren't really my thing. No regrets, it certainly served to confirm dudes were my thing.

by Anonymousreply 1September 10, 2015 4:51 AM

op is the program troll.

by Anonymousreply 2September 10, 2015 5:15 AM

OP, dear... if you are referring to certain porn threads whereby some pathetic porn star fanatics ardently proclaim the "heterosexuality" of men who take more raw loads up their ass than Dustin Lance Black at a Palm Springs white party, give it a rest. It's cool that you have this fantasy going on that these "straight" guys are simply "getting off" with other men for the paycheck, but some of us are not afraid to call a spade a spade. Bisexual, maybe. Straight, hell no. Sucking a cock once and never doing it again doesn't mean you are gay or bi. But once that curiosity has been filled and you keep coming back for more... the dude is not straight. Sorry.

by Anonymousreply 3September 10, 2015 5:21 AM

It's just wishful thinking on the part of DL, and women are a lot more open than you give them credit. It's straight men who go around and act like a single cock-in-mouth = gay now and forever. Where are you getting these weird ideas, OP?

by Anonymousreply 4September 10, 2015 5:23 AM

If there's a dick in your mouth, you are automatically gay. If your dick is in another gay's mouth, you're not necessarily gay.

by Anonymousreply 5June 4, 2020 1:37 AM

I had sex with several straight guys in college. Two of them came out and now are exclusive to men. The other three? two married with kids one divorced with kids but still identifies as hetero.

by Anonymousreply 6June 4, 2020 1:45 AM

OP, lesbians that end up with men are also closet-cases. In many cases, it’s because they want kids within a nuclear family (though I’ve also seen them marry for money). Straight women might be experimental up to the point of “above the waist” stuff (and even that’s rarer than you think). Straight men absolutely won’t (under ANY circumstances, no matter how horny they are), so much as kiss another man. They can be extremely gay friendly politically though. Any “bi” person i’ve ever met in my life has been closeted. It’s a buzzword for the young and unsure (and CLOSETED).

by Anonymousreply 7June 4, 2020 1:47 AM

The 2015 thread bumper is hard at work. He got pissed being locked out during Primetime.

by Anonymousreply 8June 4, 2020 1:48 AM

There was a straight man with his photo on Reddit and he stated that he wanted to be pegged by another straight man. Men have more freedom now to be very sexually curious.

by Anonymousreply 9June 4, 2020 1:51 AM

No OP you're gay because you like men exclusively. You haven't fooled anyone, even Susan.

by Anonymousreply 10June 4, 2020 2:15 AM

Flea, get off the computer and come help me wash these socks!

by Anonymousreply 11June 4, 2020 2:19 AM

I have been asking this same question for years! Even if it's just one time if you are women it's just an experiment, but men with men, your gay. Merka.

by Anonymousreply 12June 4, 2020 2:39 AM

One swallow does not a cock sucker make.

by Anonymousreply 13June 4, 2020 2:40 AM

[QUOTE]two married with kids one divorced with kids but still identifies as hetero. All three still chasing cock on the side.

There, R6: fixded it for you.

by Anonymousreply 14June 4, 2020 3:00 AM
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