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Which "stereotype" do you find attractive?

I've never understood why the gay community uses stereotypes like the heterosexuals. In the past, gays have been bombarded with labels and stereotypes and to as large extent it continues. I just find it disheartening that we use them ourselves to describe each other. The vast majority of them are related to how we look. Are we are vain or just overly visual?

To make things easier for poll purposes, I'm using some terms that I avoid like the plague in real-life.

Why an individual is attracted to another is fascinating because it's one of life's great mysteries . So tell me, what type of man attracts your attention? What kind of guys do you date? Do they all kind of resemble each other or do you date a mixture? Have you married your favorite "stereotype" or someone completely different?

I'm sure I'm missing some since there are only 10 poll options so feel free to post them.

by Anonymousreply 53February 23, 2023 6:30 AM

None of those. That's not to say I wouldn't like some of those "types," but I wouldn't be attracted to just one type, or all members of a "type."

Generally, I'm attracted to MEN. Not stereotypes.

by Anonymousreply 1August 26, 2015 5:29 PM

^ My original post should read "BEARS" not "BEARDS".

by Anonymousreply 2August 26, 2015 5:50 PM

All except the effeminates.

by Anonymousreply 3August 26, 2015 6:13 PM

Otters.

by Anonymousreply 4August 26, 2015 7:21 PM

Military/Jocks.

by Anonymousreply 5March 7, 2021 7:00 AM

Would be helpful to able to vote for more than one option simultaneously, as many guys are more than one of these things at once

E.g. Effeminates are also often twinks and sometimes gym queens. And sometimes bears.

Personally I'm attracted to both Effeminates and Twinks and especially the two combined. But there's also older skinny guys (whats the label for them?) that I also find extremely attractive, especially if they are also fem

by Anonymousreply 6March 7, 2021 7:11 AM

Bears are the biggest bitchy pansies you will ever meet.

by Anonymousreply 7March 7, 2021 8:07 AM

A pocket gay jock who is hairy as fuck with a small cock and a voracious hole.

by Anonymousreply 8March 7, 2021 8:14 AM

Alternageek otters. Fortunately I found one 👬🏼

by Anonymousreply 9March 7, 2021 8:15 AM

Firemen

by Anonymousreply 10March 7, 2021 8:21 AM

Asian jock with an uncut dick and moderate body hair

by Anonymousreply 11March 7, 2021 9:26 AM

Effeminate older bottoms...they are so adorable to fuck. Also, hair on beautiful Persian men. Mmmmm.

by Anonymousreply 12March 7, 2021 9:39 AM

Young hairless holes

by Anonymousreply 13March 7, 2021 9:44 AM

Like R1 - I am just attracted to whoever I am attracted to. Give me a handsome face and beautiful eyes every time.

There is nothing worse and more nauseating than gays who flock to "groups" or stereotypes and live it as a lifestyle.

by Anonymousreply 14March 7, 2021 9:59 AM

I love former twinks...late 20s-40. Young twinks have no sexual appeal for me at all.

by Anonymousreply 15March 7, 2021 10:06 AM

Story of my life, R3

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by Anonymousreply 16March 7, 2021 10:12 AM

None of the above.

by Anonymousreply 17March 7, 2021 10:18 AM

Each group includes a subset of people who I'm attracted to.

by Anonymousreply 18March 7, 2021 10:21 AM

nerds, especially of the sweet but slutty variety

by Anonymousreply 19March 7, 2021 10:26 AM

Is OP a bot? That troll is laughable.

by Anonymousreply 20March 7, 2021 10:53 AM

[quote]Bears are the biggest bitchy pansies you will ever meet.

Aww, sorry that the bears have rejected you so much. You'll find the right size bed someday, Goldilocks.

by Anonymousreply 21March 7, 2021 1:01 PM

Thoughtful intelligent beautiful men are my faves

by Anonymousreply 22March 7, 2021 1:09 PM

Hello, R8

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by Anonymousreply 23March 7, 2021 1:15 PM

give me a scruffy slightly chunky young cub and I'm all over him

by Anonymousreply 24March 7, 2021 1:21 PM

OP, "None Of The Above" wasn't a choice.

by Anonymousreply 25March 7, 2021 1:26 PM

Cubs and bears who used to be twinks drive me wild. I’ve seen a few skinny, pretty boys grow into stocky, bearded men and absolutely love the transformation.

by Anonymousreply 26March 7, 2021 1:33 PM

The rarest of all gay subspecies, the hot gay nerd.

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by Anonymousreply 27March 7, 2021 1:51 PM

All of them.

by Anonymousreply 28March 7, 2021 1:53 PM

Slut r28

by Anonymousreply 29October 20, 2021 4:31 AM

[quote] Like [R1] - I am just attracted to whoever I am attracted to. Give me a handsome face and beautiful eyes every time.

Exactly, I fall in love with the person regardless of body type, hairiness, muscles, height, weight, gender, dick size, etc. Love is love is love is love.

by Anonymousreply 30October 20, 2021 4:58 AM

You should have had "Daddy" as an option. Not sugar daddy. Just daddy.

by Anonymousreply 31October 20, 2021 5:33 AM

I find cubs visually attractive but the whole Bear culture is a turnoff. It's like they're trying to get back the desirability and popularity they missed when they were chubby and anonymous in high school. They become the arrogant cliques they envied.

by Anonymousreply 32October 20, 2021 7:07 AM

R32 hit the nail on the head.

by Anonymousreply 33March 16, 2022 1:28 AM

My type isn't there. A combo of pretty, hairy, masculine, muscular...

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by Anonymousreply 34March 16, 2022 1:32 AM

Otters, tall thin and hairy

by Anonymousreply 35March 16, 2022 1:36 AM

I love a fat... Wallet

by Anonymousreply 36March 16, 2022 1:37 AM

I am a financially self-sufficient elder gay, but I am not a Sugar Daddy.

I'm looking for a self-sufficient elder gay like myself.

by Anonymousreply 37March 16, 2022 1:42 AM

There's something about a man in a uniform.

by Anonymousreply 38March 16, 2022 2:04 AM

Pocket with a big 🚀

by Anonymousreply 39March 16, 2022 3:38 AM

Gym built/toned guys for sure. But not overly muscled. Pecs do it for me. I once hooked up with a bodybuilder, he asked if he was too muscular. I remember asking “Is that possible?” But now I know that it can be. Oddly, when we were cuddling, he said I’m hung like a horse, & I responded “You don’t get out much.”

by Anonymousreply 40March 16, 2022 6:26 AM

Lean, wiry, hairy, handsome, but interesting handsome, somehow unconventionally so, with strong features and an element or two of asymmetry and "imperfection." Intriguing, confident men who don't reveal their qualities all at once.

Never pretty, never standard issue "good looks," never someone too easily classified by type.

by Anonymousreply 41March 16, 2022 9:04 AM

My main type is muscle bears/cubs - I like muscle, but I prefer them to be hairy, bearded, and not scary-veiny-lean.

by Anonymousreply 42March 16, 2022 1:53 PM

I want a daddy.

by Anonymousreply 43April 9, 2022 9:37 PM

Why are military and jock grouped together?

by Anonymousreply 44April 9, 2022 10:00 PM

Frau

by Anonymousreply 45April 9, 2022 10:02 PM

I’m in the military and know for a fact the hot, muscular, masculine stereotype only applies to a small minority. Still, I remain drawn to military types based on fantasy rather than reality. To this day old ActiveDuty.com clips I discovered as a teenager are go-to masturbation material (2004 - 2009).

by Anonymousreply 46April 9, 2022 10:13 PM

Otters, well-toned, but not overly muscular. Tall is nice, and minimal to no tattoos.

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by Anonymousreply 47April 9, 2022 10:58 PM

R46 do they allow fat people in the military now or is there still a weight restriction?

by Anonymousreply 48April 10, 2022 11:04 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 49February 23, 2023 6:05 AM

Drag queens are not really what we call effeminates.

Effeminates used to be adorable guys in bowties who worked in antique shops, high end retail, art galleries, book stores. Also in that group were former ballet/stage dancers and opera/classical music fans.

by Anonymousreply 50February 23, 2023 6:09 AM

I like a MAN. A man who is masculine, might have a few extra pounds, but has a nice cock and knows how to fuck, He cums in my hole without pulling out. He is reliable, loyal, and knows how to cuddle who only has eyes for me. That's a real man,

by Anonymousreply 51February 23, 2023 6:10 AM

I find them all attractive. It's the chemistry, baby.

by Anonymousreply 52February 23, 2023 6:20 AM

R50 is absolutely right - drag queens dont really do it for me per se. But "adorable guys in bowties who worked in antique shops, high end retail, art galleries, book stores. Also in that group were former ballet/stage dancers and opera/classical music fans." - thats the type I had in mind when I picked effeminates, and those types get me hard

by Anonymousreply 53February 23, 2023 6:30 AM
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