LOL R192 I clearly hit a nerve.
Look at R11 again for context because you are imagining things he did not even say probably based on your subjective situation and your skewed opinion of him because of his previous statements. You have to take all your emotion and defensiveness out of it and just look at reality and what he actually said. You must be positive or there's no way you would be so defensive. You threw a lot of low blows at both Quinto and I and you don't even realize that makes you sound way bitter than either of us ever could. We have nothing to be bitter about because we've been responsible and are merely trying to help people from ending up like you.
I'm not going to say you got what you deserved because no one deserves that, but it's just plain irresponsible to rely on a brand new, magic, untested pill to bareback strangers and not expect to have any consequences. These diseases and infections are so easy to prevent yet people do what they want anyway and then are surprised when they end up positive and get mad at the world for their own mistake.
If you think Quinto is shaming anyone, that is just your defensive guilt for making such terrible mistakes and having to live with the consequences. Of course we would prefer fewer people end up like you because aside from your misery, medication regimen, and increased health care expenses to everyone else, you are the reason the gay community has so many nasty stereotypes and guys don't want to come out of the closet and be associated with us. You aren't just hurting yourself with your decisions. You are literally the reason people hate us and all of this is so easily preventable you have to be a moron or mentally ill to ignore the wealth of information constantly thrown in your face to protect you from yourself. This isn't new. Larry Kramer was shouting it from the rooftops before I was even born.
This is not specific to gay people, straight people get pregnant at 14 and get STIs, too, but gay people have much greater consequences than straight people do. Gay people are not forgiven for their mistakes the way straight people are, and it sucks, but again, it's reality. I'm sorry, I wish it wasn't.
I'm not ashamed of anything. I'm grateful I've been responsible instead of having unprotected sex with hundreds of strangers and stupidly expecting no consequences. I'm not bitter, I don't have anything to regret. If this sounds bitter to you it's because you are not aligned with reality.
Young people are stupid. Their brains are not fully formed yet. They have strong biological urges. No one is saying don't have sex, we are saying be responsible and don't take stupid risks. If you want to bareback get a monogamous boyfriend, but even then there's a chance he could cheat on you.
It's like eating doughnuts all day and expecting to be thin. As good as they taste and as much as you may want them, it isn't reality to stay healthy on a diet of sugar. But just have one a week and you'll be OK. It's why your parents tell you to go to bed so you aren't tired and cranky the next day. Clearly you don't like being told what to do, but it's for your own good because you don't seem smart enough to do the right thing on your own.