Gay but attracted to Vivian Vance?
Let me start by saying that I don't want to provoke anyone. This is only a personal experience and I'd like to share it because it does make me feel uncomfortable.
So, I have recently realized that I'm experiencing a mild attraction to Vivian Vance. It's something that had never happened before, and I'm not happy about it mainly because I really like being gay. The thing that annoys me the most is that Ethel never tried on those hostess pants that would've showed off her buttocks to all it's deserved glory.
I have thought that maybe it has to do with hormonal changes brought about with age (I'm in my early thirties), and I wonder how to "correct" it, not because I have anything against women, but because I can't afford to buy the "I Love Lucy" DVD collection.
So yes. Is it hormonal? Is it that I'm just desperate for affection and looking for it where I don't really want, or need to find it? Could it be that I find Vivan Vance more relatable emotionally, because she is only on TV?
I don't know. I certainly don't want a relationship with a Vivan Vance because she's dead and cremated I believe. I don't have the time to spend searching for 30 year old ashes, but I would like to pour them over me while I masturbate.
More than anything, it's annoying, because as I have said before, I am happy as a gay man in spite of having sexual thoughts for Viv.
So, I would really welcome constructive comments and well, a solution of sorts, because as I have said before, this is an annoyance. Thanks.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | June 15, 2020 3:58 PM
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I am weirdly attracted to William Frawley's pants.
Why are they up so high?
What is he hiding?
by Anonymous | reply 1 | August 18, 2015 9:25 PM
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[quote] Why are they up so high? What is he hiding?
Frances Bavier
by Anonymous | reply 2 | August 18, 2015 9:39 PM
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WF said VV looked like a bag of doorknobs.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | August 18, 2015 9:43 PM
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[quote]More than anything, it's annoying, because as I have said before, I am happy as a gay man in spite of having sexual thoughts for Viv.
In other words, you've had sufficient.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | August 18, 2015 9:53 PM
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Vivian "straightened" me out.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | August 18, 2015 10:07 PM
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I always thought Lucy, Fred and Ricky were bullies when Ethel went back to her hometown.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | August 18, 2015 10:11 PM
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She did do some blue movies in the '20s.
IIRC, one was called "I Fuck Lucy"
by Anonymous | reply 8 | August 18, 2015 10:18 PM
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No doubt what attracts you, OP, is her big potamus. Plus she is a little hippy.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | August 18, 2015 10:22 PM
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I never tire of the Vivian Vance troll.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | August 18, 2015 10:22 PM
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Repetitive viewing of Vivian Vance films and skits are a critical part to the "gay reparative" therapy which I administer. Major credit cards accepted.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | August 18, 2015 10:29 PM
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Be sure to wrap that rascal, OP, or Ethel will have to have another "procedure," and wait till the boys find out about THAT.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | August 18, 2015 10:46 PM
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I wonder if Ethel went to the Mayo Clinic for her "procedure"?
by Anonymous | reply 13 | August 18, 2015 11:00 PM
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Only the gays are attracted to that vixen, Vivian Vance
by Anonymous | reply 15 | August 19, 2015 4:31 AM
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Well, she married one, didn't she? Just sayin'.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | August 19, 2015 4:34 AM
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Ethel had a legit voice and was reasonably attractive.
Why did she settle for a loveless marriage to a man 30 years her senior?
by Anonymous | reply 17 | August 19, 2015 4:39 AM
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R17 Obviously Fred was packing.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | August 19, 2015 4:52 AM
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[quote]I always thought Lucy, Fred and Ricky were bullies when Ethel went back to her hometown.
Princess Hogitall had it comin'.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | August 19, 2015 6:09 AM
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"Gay but attracted to Vivian Vance" is going to be my new Scruff headline.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | August 20, 2015 2:42 AM
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Frawley was a confirmed bachelor.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | August 20, 2015 2:56 AM
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I am an old. I know the code for when the term "confirmed bachelor" is used. And from all I've read and heard, you are correct.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | August 20, 2015 3:06 AM
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not that there's anything wrong with that!
by Anonymous | reply 24 | August 20, 2015 3:17 AM
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OP: just picture her in her audition for the gay 90s revue belting out silvery moon in that pinstripe suit & straw hat. You'll be fine...
by Anonymous | reply 26 | August 20, 2015 4:18 AM
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Mertz and Kurtz went Brokeback in the roaring 20's and his shame and inner torment led him to Ethel.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | August 20, 2015 4:31 AM
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Fred always said Ethel could "suck dick like a gay man!"
by Anonymous | reply 28 | August 20, 2015 4:49 AM
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You have pure-V-VCD. Look for a qualified therapist in your area.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | August 20, 2015 5:07 AM
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An obsession with Vivian Vance is a modern manifestation of the obsession a previous generation of gay men had for the post-menopausal Ethel Merman.
Although Vance and Merman were roughly the same age, television has kept Vance's image alive, while Merman went out with vinyl records.
OP may want to consider full immersion substitution-transference therapy in which he exposes himself to Merman albums and films to the exclusion of Lucy reruns.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | August 20, 2015 5:41 AM
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Viv's ghost can still be seen attending luncheon at Schrafft's the third Thursday of every month. Do with this info what you will, OP
by Anonymous | reply 31 | August 20, 2015 6:12 AM
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Your tongue-in-cheek musings on Vance as a substitute for Merman are more appropriate than you may realize, R30. Not only was Vance in the chorus of the original production of Anything Goes, she was also Merman's understudy as Reno Sweeney.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | August 20, 2015 4:33 PM
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[quote]in which he exposes himself to Merman
I tried that and ended up married to the bitch.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | August 20, 2015 6:08 PM
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Vivian Vance - what a hot snatch!
by Anonymous | reply 34 | August 20, 2015 8:14 PM
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OP, the only solution is to hire an escort who looks like VV and have her fuck you with a strapon.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | August 20, 2015 11:03 PM
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Most bisexuals can't help it, they love Vivian Vance and ONLY her
by Anonymous | reply 36 | August 22, 2015 3:13 AM
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Only masculine jock gaybros are into Vivian Vance
by Anonymous | reply 37 | August 24, 2015 5:41 PM
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Vivian Bagley was TV's first divorced lady.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | August 24, 2015 5:52 PM
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Did you ever see Ralph? No, I bet she killed him.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | August 24, 2015 5:55 PM
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I'm not sure attraction to an onscreen woman who you will never meet puts your gayness in question. But I know quite a few men who as they got older experienced sexual attraction to women; they slept with a few and enjoyed it but still identify as gay and pretty much exclusively date and hookup with men, with just the occasional woman. So youre not alone nor do you have anything to be worried about; after being openly gay for decades most aren't going to decide to become het even if they feel attracted to some women.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | August 24, 2015 5:58 PM
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[quote]Vivian Bagley was TV's first divorced lady.
Viv was "separated" from her husband. She was still Mrs. Bagley and her son was Sherman Bagley.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | August 24, 2015 6:00 PM
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then she must have cheated on her husband with Mr. Mooney.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | August 24, 2015 6:03 PM
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Vivian Bagley got alimony, she was such a sugar n-word.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | August 24, 2015 6:59 PM
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R41 No, they were definitely divorced. What do their surnames have to do with anything?
by Anonymous | reply 44 | August 24, 2015 7:42 PM
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Children: being the poster gal for the divorce epidemic that followed isn't anything to brag about!
by Anonymous | reply 45 | August 24, 2015 7:44 PM
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Since Lucille had just gotten divorced in real life, it couldn't have been a huge issue.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | August 24, 2015 8:09 PM
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If they did a homeless theme ep, she would have been Vivian Baglady!
by Anonymous | reply 47 | September 2, 2015 5:20 AM
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I think this may be a new meme to parallel the EST, the Elaborate Fetish Tale. Same goes for the gut and the black socks.
EFT Trolls
by Anonymous | reply 48 | September 2, 2015 5:45 AM
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Sorry to revive this thread from a couple months ago, but I need to vent. I'm not the OP, yet he and I apparently have a lot in common. I woke up around 5:00 this morning in the middle of a rather erotically charged dream with Vivian Vance in a starring role. I got out of bed to go pee, and only then realized there was pretty fresh cum in my underwear. I'm 42. I've had three wet dreams in my life -- two of them when I was 11 or 12, and one last night at age 42. I don't remember details of the dream apart from Ethel's presence. I think there was some butt play involved (me on the receiving end). I haven't watched Lucy in years, so this comes out of left field. And before you ask, I took a melatonin capsule around 10:30pm and don't use any other pills or anything to sleep.
If I was going to have a sexy dream about any Lucy co-star, I would have expected it to be that broad who played Marion Strong, the vice president of the fine arts league. This Vivian thing just gives me the creeps and I worry what effect an ongoing attraction might have on my relationship with my partner.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | November 5, 2015 3:07 AM
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Hand in your gay card and go back to bed.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | November 5, 2015 4:00 AM
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[quote] This Vivian thing just gives me the creeps and I worry what effect an ongoing attraction might have on my relationship with my partner.
Seeing that Vivian married two gay men and a third that beat the hell out of her, the OP is probably attracted to her husbands.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | November 5, 2015 4:18 AM
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Vivien Vance was in an abusive relationship? It seems that so many of the actresses back then were in abusive relationships at one point or another.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | November 5, 2015 4:31 AM
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Vivian was a lesbian. You are picking up on the fact that she is a woman who doesn't really care if her husbands make physical demands of her. She and William Frawley were one of television's first fictional lavender couples. Frawley was a longtime bachelor and gentlemanly woman-hater who loved baseball, booze, and barbershop quartets.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | November 5, 2015 5:45 AM
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I want to be in the room when R50 tells his partner about this.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | November 5, 2015 5:58 AM
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That's almost as bad as the wet dream I had as a teen about Ralph Kramden and Ed Norton!
by Anonymous | reply 58 | November 5, 2015 10:39 PM
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Ann Sothern tongued my poo-hole!
by Anonymous | reply 59 | November 5, 2015 11:22 PM
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Why is this site so obsessed with Vivian Vance? Idgi.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | June 15, 2020 3:58 PM
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