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The ramble in Central Park

When did it stop being a gay hangout?

by Anonymousreply 22August 22, 2020 11:26 AM

When smart phones were invented.

by Anonymousreply 1August 10, 2015 2:53 AM

The Ramble? I've never heard of it!!!!

by Anonymousreply 2August 10, 2015 2:55 AM

There was a high profile killing of an old lady bird watcher there in 2012. It was still pretty popular as recent as then. It's relatively recent it's fallen off. And like R1 said hook up apps have made that kinda thing somewhat obsolete with a lot less risk. Any homo in NYC worth banging has a smart phone.

by Anonymousreply 3August 10, 2015 3:00 AM

I went there once. Too many police.

by Anonymousreply 4August 10, 2015 3:02 AM

It's a shame that it's not what it was even 5 years ago. I can see why public cruising might not be appealing to the people who really, really like Grindr, et al., but for me there's something about the thrill of discovering a hot, hung dude who's just my type, in a cruising area, that cannot be replicated with a hookup app. Especially when you often spend DAYS trying to hook up with a guy online. In the park, it can happen in seconds.

by Anonymousreply 5August 10, 2015 3:04 AM

I didn' t realize it was still popular so recently. I thought it was like an 80s thing. Was the activity just at night or in the daytime too?

by Anonymousreply 6August 10, 2015 3:08 AM

I don't really miss that scene. I do miss the Works that was at 81st and Columbus not far from there. Great place for drink an occasional hook up after work on the way home. It's some damn Pizza Uno now or some chain. NYC sadly is turning into a big strip mall.

by Anonymousreply 7August 10, 2015 3:16 AM

Shenanigans went on during daylight hours because it was more overgrown than it is now. I think there used to be fewer officers patrolling it back then, too.

Mind you, I've still gotten action there during the broad day, within the past few years. It's really too risky, though, and the pickin’s are slim.

by Anonymousreply 8August 10, 2015 3:17 AM

Can't say i miss it since it wasn't my scene. But i do miss the Works that wasn't far from their on 81st and Columbus. Great place to stop in after work for a drink and occasional hook up with someone that was sure to live in the neighborhood. Good looking professional guys and no tourists or trade.

by Anonymousreply 9August 10, 2015 3:18 AM

Where was the action at the Waterworks? I have a friend who told me he used to "get laid" there. Was there a back room, or a dark corner, or just a busy bathroom?

by Anonymousreply 10August 10, 2015 3:20 AM

I never noticed much in the place. There was no back room, it was just a long corridor with with a nice bar. Perhaps the bathroom downstairs but never really saw much going on there then checking out the dick before a call was made if you measured up to take it home. That said i was only there two or 3 times a month and typically the happy hour not late night crowd.

by Anonymousreply 11August 10, 2015 3:23 AM

This guy I know thru work implied that he hooks up in Fort Tryon Park by the Cloisters, has anybody heard anything about that? I have always been curious what it'd be like to do something like that but I'm kind of a chickenshit

by Anonymousreply 12August 10, 2015 3:26 AM

You've never tricked in a park? How old are you, dear?

by Anonymousreply 13August 10, 2015 3:30 AM

The only "tricking" i've done in a "park" was a bf at the time lubed me up and sat on my dick in Yankee stadium with a blanket covering us. He was always the adventurous one so i just went along with it. Turned out to be pretty hot. Great at sex i'll give him but annoying as hell otherwise

by Anonymousreply 14August 10, 2015 3:34 AM

R14 you know that you probably ended up on a tape, right?

I have a friend who used to work for a stadium. He gave me a DVD that the employees there circulated that was essentially a compilation of people having sex throughout the park. Mostly hetero couples, but it was fun to watch all these people thinking they were being discreet without realizing that there were cameras everywhere and that it'd be passed around.

by Anonymousreply 15August 10, 2015 3:46 AM

LOL..i assumed as much but always covered so i wasn't ever really worried. Couple of dudes not far way obviously figured it out since they just gave us a thumbs up. We weren't going to stop at that point.

by Anonymousreply 16August 10, 2015 3:49 AM

When the gays started bringing their fag hags

by Anonymousreply 17August 10, 2015 4:24 AM

Believe it or not largely it was bird watchers that chased the hooking up off. Made all kinds of complaints to the cops

by Anonymousreply 18August 10, 2015 4:26 AM

R17 you're thinking of The Cock. Gays don't actually bring chicks to the Ramble.

by Anonymousreply 19August 10, 2015 4:35 AM

If you fuck in public you deserve to get arrested.

by Anonymousreply 20August 10, 2015 4:45 AM

R20 I'm inclined to agree. NYC just has so many psychos. I can't imagine trolling the streets for dick. What if you met some guy who was deranged?

by Anonymousreply 21August 22, 2020 5:47 AM

Hopefully that deranged is hot

by Anonymousreply 22August 22, 2020 11:26 AM
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