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My ingrate sister has ceased all contact with our elderly mother

Because she doesn't agree with the way Mother handled her "molestation" over 30 years ago.

Quite frankly, I think Mother handled it expertly. She simply had our uncle go to the neighbor's house, tell him we knew what he had done, that it was inappropriate, and that he was not allowed in our home again. No scene was created, but the point was put across.

My sister feels (who, Mother points out, was always running around half-dressed, which probably enticed the young man) that Mother should've gone to the police and pressed charges. Mother isn't the type to do that.

After years of listening to my sister whine about this, Mother finally told her what's what. And now my sister isn't speaking to her, or to me, since I told her I thought she was acting like a spoiled brat and needs to get over it. Mother is 75 years old and in poor health. I can't believe she wants to put her through this nonsense in her last years.

I mean, what kind of child cuts off her elderly parent, no matter the reason?

by Anonymousreply 4505/24/2020

Mary!

And please, "Mother" this and "Mother" that.

I hope your sister cuts you off too, you are a dinosaur on gender politics.

by Anonymousreply 108/09/2015

OP, you've posted this before. Why the repeat?

Your sister has a right to feel what she feels. So does your mother. You've probably exacerbated rather than mitigating the situation. You and your mother are both shaming the sister into thinking how she dressed caused the molestation. I hope you're smart enough to know that's not true.

by Anonymousreply 208/09/2015

This has to be an EST.

by Anonymousreply 308/09/2015

What is this "gender politics" malarkey?

R2, my sister was practically a teenager when this occurred. Mother never could talk any sense into her regarding the way she dresses, and can't understand why my sister is unable to comprehend simple cause and effect. Mother thinks she's a bit "goofy" and has expressed to me that she feels a little ashamed of my sister's disposition and sometimes feels that perhaps she held her too much as a baby.

by Anonymousreply 408/09/2015

1/10 OP, it's much too OTT to be believed. You're trying like hell but give it a rest, hon.

by Anonymousreply 508/09/2015

Seems to me one of the siblings was dropped on his or her head, not held too much. (Clue: not the sister.)

by Anonymousreply 608/09/2015

Why is this any of your business, OP?

by Anonymousreply 708/09/2015

She made it my business by attempting to get me to side with her against our aged mother. And now poor Mother's nerves are quite frayed by all this, so she turns to me for solace.

by Anonymousreply 808/09/2015

Mother tells me to be gentle with the dolls when I remove them from the curio cabinets. Sometimes I get so mad at Mother that I want to be rough with the dolls and hurt them, but I shan't dare.

by Anonymousreply 908/09/2015

It is almost impossible to hold a baby too much.

It does not matter how provocatively a minor is dressed, adults cannot use them for their own sexual needs. Period.

Your whole family is fucked up, especially you, OP.

by Anonymousreply 1008/09/2015

Mother, make these horrid beastly bullies stop spouting their malarkey at me! Mother, tell them if they wish to make me cry, I shan't!

by Anonymousreply 1108/09/2015

What is an EST?

by Anonymousreply 1208/09/2015

Hope it's an EST, R10? Are you blind?

by Anonymousreply 1308/09/2015

[quote]Mother thinks she's a bit "goofy" and has expressed to me that she feels a little ashamed of my sister's disposition and sometimes feels that perhaps she held her too much as a baby.

You were doing okay with the trolling, but then you had to tip your hand way, way too much with this.

When will the clumsy ESTs ever realize: LESS is MORE.

by Anonymousreply 1408/09/2015

[quote]my sister was practically a teenager when this occurred

Does this mean she was 12 or that she actually reached 13?

[quote]Mother points out, was always running around half-dressed, which probably enticed the young man

Please describe how the 12 or 13 year old was "half-dressed." Shorts and a sleeveless shirt in summer as opposed to wearing long sleeves and ankle-concealing clothing like the Duggar girls? Oh wait, the Duggar girls also got themselves molested while young.

by Anonymousreply 1508/09/2015

I'm not the guy who writes THIS NEVER HAPPENED, but judging by the creative writing here, I call bullshit.

Also, what does OTT mean?

by Anonymousreply 1608/09/2015

When did this Elaborate Scenario supposedly happen?

by Anonymousreply 1708/09/2015

R10, Mother is of the school of thought that believes showering too much affection on an infant or a child will spoil him. Better to allow them to "cry things out." It builds character. Mother has shared that my sister cried so very much, and Mother was always so tender-hearted that she couldn't resist picking her up sometimes.

I was a much more agreeable baby.

Also, when a pubescent girl parades around in her panties in front of an adolescent boy, the boy's hormones sometimes overtake his good sense. Mother was never able to get my sister to comprehend that, and Mother cannot understand do how my sister can still not get it, even after enduring the (no doubt frightful) consequences of her actions.

by Anonymousreply 1808/09/2015

EST: Elaborate Scenario Troll

OTT: Off the topic

by Anonymousreply 1908/09/2015

Too, too, too, too much, r18/OP.

by Anonymousreply 2008/09/2015

EST perhaps but creepy

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by Anonymousreply 2108/09/2015

Mother, may I sleep with danger?

by Anonymousreply 2208/09/2015

R15, she was about 12, and very well-developed. She wore very short shorts outdoors, which were barely appropriate for inside. Mother tried to convey to my sister that she might attract unwanted attention, but my sister does not comprehend anything that is expressed with subtlety or discretion.

She has always been the source of heartache and worry for Mother. Mother and I have always been closer because we're more simpatico. My sister has always been jealous of this, but has made no efforts toward understanding how Mother sees things, or towards developing a more refined character. She's a bull in a china shop.

by Anonymousreply 2308/09/2015

Mary!

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by Anonymousreply 2408/09/2015

"OTT" is not Off The Topic, it's Over The Top.

by Anonymousreply 2508/09/2015

I'm loving this OP. I applaud the use of "simpatico". I think imaginary sister to be a ne'er do well hussy; a veritable strumpet. Mother must be most vexed. Get her some chamomile tea, dear. That should soothe her nerves.

by Anonymousreply 2608/09/2015

No! I tell you no! I won't have you bringing your sister in for supper! By candlelight, I suppose, in the cheap, erotic fashion of young men with cheap, erotic minds!

And then what, after supper? Music? Whispers?

by Anonymousreply 2708/09/2015

Extremely Sad Tale

by Anonymousreply 2808/09/2015

Pretty Purple Prose

by Anonymousreply 2908/09/2015

[quote] (who, Mother points out, was always running around half-dressed, which probably enticed the young man)

THAT alone tells volumes. Your mother has justified pedophilia everywhere, including the violation of her own daughter. So, the victim was asking for it. I can almost cut your mother some slack due to her advanced age and archaic beliefs. But, you, OP ought to know better. If a gang of punks ass rape you one day, it was probably the way you were dressed which invited them to plug your bum.

by Anonymousreply 3008/09/2015

R27, I said Parcheesi, Mother, we're playing Parcheesi! You and nephew will play with sister and me. I am stating my boundaries, Mother.

by Anonymousreply 3108/09/2015

Mother, Elliot and I have broken our engagement.

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by Anonymousreply 3208/09/2015

R30 is too fucking stupid and clueless to post here. This is why Michfesters and their ilk do not belong on the DL.

Go away harridans and harpies, you have no sense of humor, you cannot detect sarcasm, satire or irony and you're soul-crushingly boring.

Begone!

by Anonymousreply 3308/09/2015

Norman, are you OP? You wicked boy, come to mother.

by Anonymousreply 3408/09/2015

Since OP hoarded all the opportunities to massage mother's cankles and braid the hair under her chin, sister had no choice but to put on her hot pants, paint her face in the manner of a wicked city woman, and entice the neighbor for sexual relief

by Anonymousreply 3508/09/2015

MAMA'S DEAD JOEY! MAMA'S DEAD!

by Anonymousreply 3608/09/2015

Relax, OP. Sis pisses off elderly mom. Cuts her out of her life - and mom cuts sis out of her will.

it's a win situation for you.

by Anonymousreply 3708/09/2015

You're horrible and your mom is a cunt.

by Anonymousreply 3808/09/2015

It's not Mother, OP.

When she taught you to call her Mommie Dearest, she wanted you to MEAN IT.

by Anonymousreply 3908/09/2015

Well damn, OP, Uncle didn't even give you a second glance. You've resented that forever. He didn't even notice you in your short, tight white shorts with your teeny tiny package showing so invitingly. I'm so sorry.

by Anonymousreply 4008/09/2015

R33 is off her meds.

by Anonymousreply 4108/09/2015

If this is for real OP you need to get a clue!

by Anonymousreply 4208/09/2015

It was probably the only drama your sister ever had...so she is reliving it.

by Anonymousreply 4308/09/2015

R40 What gave you the impression he wanted his uncle?

by Anonymousreply 4405/24/2020

The 2015 troll strikes again!

Move along people... there's nothing to see here.

by Anonymousreply 4505/24/2020
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