Do you think less of someone if you find out they're extremely slutty?

If they're hot, I don't think less of them, I like them even more.

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hell no.

We still like you, OP !!!

II wouldn't necessarily think Less of them, they're probably totally fun to be around. But I probably won't be making any passes at them.

Sluts teach you everything you want to know about sex.

Actually, yes I do.

Just really depends on the context, situation and given person. A young college student exploring is kinda suppose to be slutting. A 50 year old guy not so much. Everything has a season.

I actually kind of do. I'm more attracted to classier, more shy guys. Trashy just doesn't turn me on. That doesn't mean I think they're a bad person or judging them; I just don't find sluttiness attractive.

exactly

If I find out a guy is super promiscuous I tend to think of them as less trust worthy for some reason.

R7 through r11 haven't had sex in decades.

I don't mean sexually active guys, I'm referring to guys that are constantly cruising for dick in public or bathhouses, guys who have had sex with all their "friends",guys like that.

Clutch the pearls! They all have AIDS! And scabies! They'll insult your mother and steal your favourite Madame Alexander dolls. You'd best give the craven sluts a wide berth, OP.

I just think they're silly people.

I don't have a problem with sluts. I'm a little envious - I'll admit it. But I tend to think they're a bit dirty, and most of the ones I know have self-esteem issues. One has an extremely big dick. So there's that, too.

No. But I worry about them. I've known guys who seemed to have no capacity to control their libidos, and they would get into dangerous situations. I do believe some people have addictions around sex, particularly when they repeatedly put themselves in danger. I knew a guy who brought homeless addicts back to his apartment, and I was honestly afraid he'd end up dead. One guy had sex with him, then beat the crap out of him. It's not a matter of thinking less, it's a matter of getting really concerned about self destructive behavior.

Beautiful Killer. I love your disguise. Maybe I'll let you shoot all over me

The homeless are less scary than the rich, in my experience. Much less likely to hurt you.

Everyone gets horny, but those cumdump types are not really my thing...

It kinda is a problem if the first thing that crosses my mind if someone hits on is what I might get from them given their history/reputation.

The guys who want to fuck 5 minutes after you meet them instantly go on the avoid list.

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R19, neither of those things has anything to do with a person's personality/character. What an odd statement to make.

Not at all. But, I won't let them sit on my furniture or use my toilet.

No, but I don't want to hear about every fuck when I'm in one of my dry spells.

i learned a long time ago to keep your sexual exploits to yourself since queens LOVE to gossip.

Yes. It's that I assume they are sexually compulsive and unable to experience intimacy. I've known many guys like this, and they are always adored, gorgeous, friendly, yet ultimately incredibly stand offish, and intensely lonely.

If a guys idea of socializing is going to a sex club or bath house then there's a problem.

Yes, absolutely

Only if they haven't been a slut like that with me.

Germ infested, lice, crabs, fece stripes in their underwear, lacking discretion, lacking impulse control, users, not for long term, smelly sweaty fat farts, untrimmed jagged fingernails, toe jam, yellow teeth crusted in plaque, couch surfers, worms in their butt, ear wax buildup, snot ballers

Whim whams!

Yes. There are other unpleasant behaviors that go along with it.

Yes. I think the people who's only interest in life is pursuing sex have real issues. They are addicted to the "high" of sex, but ultimately they feel completely unfulfilled because they do not understand sport fucking is just that. If you can treat another human being like a cum dumpster or a sex toy, then there is something very off with your mental health.

Guys who are all about sex are usually messed up for one reason or another.

R32 hasn't been laid in decades.

"Sluty" is a relative concept anyway. There are still quite a few folks that think a woman who has had sex with anyone in her life other than her husband is a slut. And if she gives the hubby head..she's REALLY a slut

Why are bottoms usually sluttier than tops? Of all the super slutty to the point of being nasty guys I know most are bottoms.

Bottoms have more needs. They need filling frequently, to chill out. Otherwise the gaping holes become unbearable and distracting.

Bottoms are usually very needy in a variety of ways.

They make good drinking companions.

Such stereotypes about btms are quite often not true. You'd never guess the husband is a big ole btm once things started to get serious between us. very pleasantly surprised since i thought we might not be compatible in that area. He fooled me. He's so in charge in the rest of his life he really get's off on totally giving that up with sex

When a bottom is slutty they are Really slutty.

You'd really have to define "slutty" since there's such a wide range of sexual behaviors.

If a guy goes out on one date in a month that ends with a BJ, and hooks up with Grindr once, does that make him slutty? Behavior like that results in 24 new partners per year on average.

Because relationships are tough in the gay community, gay guys tend to have less sex than straight people, just more partners.

I'm talking guys that are always on the lookout for cock no matter what they're doing or when.

Fun at parties

Madame Alexander Dolls?

R32 has a very specific fetish.

I had a guy talk about going to visit a glory hole and sucking cock after cock and all I could think was you're just nasty.

Jesus Mary, I only go maybe once a year - if that. Are you one of the guys that doen't like anal, as well?

Sorry if I don't think taking a bucket load of anonymous cum is a good idea.

That's why it's usually not a good idea to tell folks about your sexual escapades. Homos LOVE to judge.

Some things are judged for a reason.

Slutty men are god's gift to humanity

Some are god's gift to the pharmaceutical industry.

I am a cock hungry pharmacist who lives vicariously through my slutty friends.

I win twice, brother!!

Mom? Is that you?

R57 the pharmaceutical companies are winning even more.

If a slut is hot and I get what I want out of them, then I don't think of them at all.

It's what you get out of them that you may not want that's the issue.

I agree with the ealier poster - most people are slutty at certain points in their lives for whatever reason. But to be a full=time year-in, year-out slut is a real character flaw and speaks of deeper issues.

RUN!!!

If a guy plans his life around sex or cruising then he has a problem.

R63 I have a bi military friend like that. Average week for him as long as i've known him is hooking up 5 to 10 times a week with both men and women. We dated for a like a week when we first met until i realized the dude is a sex addict without a doubt. He's hot as hell and fucking great at sex but nah just wasn't gonna deal with his issues to date him. Now i just listen to latest escapades. He doesn't have to make it up. Not uncommon for him to walk in to a McDonalds and pick up someone to bang

I think less of the guy if he ISN'T slutty

I'm a demisexual so I literally have no desire to be slutty or get involved with anyone who is.

Having sex with more than 2 guys a year = slutty.

Only when they're a cheating feckless heartbreaker.

Like how slutty?

Well it depends, if he fucks women or homeless men, then yes

Seeing as how I used to be a major ho-bag....nope. As long as they’re single and free (and being as safe as they can be) I don’t see anything wrong with it. Now, if you are talking about somebody who is supposedly in a relationship going out and fucking around I would absolutely judge them.

The super sluts are always trouble. Untrustworthy on every level. If you value you health, sanity and your bank account, you'll settle down with a hot, normal guy. Sluts will always, eventually, truly, fuck you over. I speak from experience.

How about “dirty old men”? Do you think worse of us, I mean them.

If we're talking guys, then no, I don't think less of them. If they're attractive, it makes me want to fuck them.

But women - I don't like hearing about slutty women.

Only if I'm dating them.

I fucked a guy who boasted 4 girls, one day, no shower.

R76 Sounds fishy.

No. I would be bit of a hypocrite if I did

When it spills over into risky or self destructive behaviour like R17 describes then I have an issue with that

First, live & let live. You be you and I am me.

Second, extremely? Like it's a full on addiction where nothing else matter but getting your fix? I would feel sorry for the guy and try to help and support him if he wants to deal with his sex addiction issue, like any other addiction issue. Because that's what a decent human being would do.

When should one stop slutting around and start aging gracefully? I’m not talking about eldergays having sex with regular partners.

Fuck that. I wanna age disgracefully

Melania we don't hate you because you're a slut; we hate you because you're a cunt.

It depends. if someone's slutty on their own time, that's their business, not mine. If they are constantly telling me stories of their slutting around, I find it really boring after a while, and will ask them not to share them with me.

I do not at all judge people if they're slutty. I judge the fuck out of people if they are bitchy, however.