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Should I try barebacking?

I've never barebacked before but am so curious to see what it feels like as a bottom. My FB (who is HIV neg) want to as well.

Is this like a drug, as in, once I start I won't be able to stop? Is there really any difference for the bottom--except for the spontaneity, of course.

Is it worth it?

by Anonymousreply 24May 19, 2020 4:39 PM

The difference is psychological for a bottom. For a top...

by Anonymousreply 1July 27, 2015 9:50 PM

Absolutely not. In my opinion and what the hell do I know.

1. Your bf could be HIV neg now. He has engaged in this before. After unprotected sex, you have to test for I dont know how much time to be sure. The virus is dormant.

2. If you are not 100% sure he should not be pressuring you if he cares for you.

Bottom line, no pun intended is that it is RISKY!

by Anonymousreply 2July 27, 2015 10:01 PM

You too should get on prep if you want to play that game. But yes, it feels better as BOTH a top or bottom.

by Anonymousreply 3July 27, 2015 10:24 PM

It feels so good as a bottom. So fucking good. Who wants to get fucked by a trash bag?

by Anonymousreply 4July 27, 2015 10:29 PM

Your mother will be so proud of her little boy!

by Anonymousreply 5July 27, 2015 10:32 PM

I agree with R1. IMO it makes no real difference as a bottom, which is why I don't understand why so many bottoms open up shop for diseases by barebacking when they are even at the highest risk. It is mental.

You definitely feel a difference as a top, not gonna lie, but my safety is more important to me.

by Anonymousreply 6July 27, 2015 11:01 PM

R2 nailed it. If the OP is still reading this or posting here did you do it RAW or not?

by Anonymousreply 7January 19, 2016 4:44 AM

It feels better for both guys, skin on skin.

by Anonymousreply 8January 19, 2016 6:08 AM

Of course you should bareback with your spouse.

Even for the bottom it feels more intimate.

Go on Prep with your bf if you don't know him/trust him yet.

HIV oral home tests draw no blood, give reults in 15 minutes and cost about $40.

by Anonymousreply 9January 19, 2016 6:15 AM

Why are you advocating people to go on PreP/Truvada? Most people have no desire to take HIV meds which have not so fun short and long term side effects, are expensive, and that does not protect against other STDs.

by Anonymousreply 10January 20, 2016 6:28 PM

YOLO

by Anonymousreply 11June 4, 2016 1:23 AM

A guy only came inside of me once. I was dating him, but he didn’t ask first and I felt gross after. Thank goodness I didn’t catch anything.

I just don’t think I would ever feel safe doing this.

by Anonymousreply 12May 19, 2020 1:40 PM

OMFG OP, snore fucking snore. And you need advice here? How old are you?

by Anonymousreply 13May 19, 2020 1:45 PM

Another thread from 2015. Yawn.

by Anonymousreply 14May 19, 2020 1:59 PM

Make sure you wear a mask so it’s safe!

by Anonymousreply 15May 19, 2020 2:22 PM

[quote] You definitely feel a difference as a top, not gonna lie, but my safety is more important to me.

Tops are at much lower risk of HIV transmission from topping. Don't be bullied into bareback bottoming unless you are on prep.

by Anonymousreply 16May 19, 2020 2:37 PM

[quote] Most people have no desire to take HIV meds which have not so fun short and long term side effects, are expensive, and that does not protect against other STDs.

What are the "not so fun" side effects of prep?

by Anonymousreply 17May 19, 2020 2:40 PM

^Explosive diarrhoea

by Anonymousreply 18May 19, 2020 2:48 PM

r18, that is an effective way of avoiding getting infected via bottoming.

by Anonymousreply 19May 19, 2020 2:51 PM

It's been almost 5 years, I DEMAND to know if OP did the deed raw!

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by Anonymousreply 20May 19, 2020 3:17 PM

OP got gonorrhea at best

by Anonymousreply 21May 19, 2020 3:34 PM

Once you do it bareback, then that's all you ever want to do forever and ever. It's like crack. Your crack , with a dick in it, that is. You become a bareback cock hungry whore.

Well, I guess it's too late. See you at the truck stop. Or Hell's Kitchen. Tomato/Tomata.

by Anonymousreply 22May 19, 2020 3:42 PM

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by Anonymousreply 23May 19, 2020 3:59 PM

Only essential businesses (Sean Cody) should be allowed to bareback!!!

by Anonymousreply 24May 19, 2020 4:39 PM
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