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Dirk Caber

This is the thread devoted to the Perv Daddy of Gay Porn Stars-- one of the hottest, cutest, butchest, smartest, and most cultured (but let's face it, also one of the most pretentious and most egotistical--sorry, Dirk, but it's the truth!) of all performers in gay adult cinema.

by Anonymousreply 281April 22, 2021 5:11 AM

Who?

by Anonymousreply 1June 26, 2015 3:06 AM

[quote]also one of the most pretentious

More than Colby Keller?

by Anonymousreply 2June 26, 2015 3:07 AM

Oh, he's much more pretentious than Colby Keller. He's also much smarter, but he talks about himself as a "a master of the art" of bondage.

by Anonymousreply 3June 26, 2015 3:11 AM

I only like it when Papa Smurf tops younger guys, because means I can ignore him.

by Anonymousreply 4June 26, 2015 3:20 AM

I went to musical festival courses with him, know him, his real name, his real talents and what he was like before porn.

by Anonymousreply 5July 9, 2015 3:47 AM

Dirk Caber & Dolan Wolf Flip-Fuck in "Opportunity Knocks"

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by Anonymousreply 6July 9, 2015 8:23 PM

As many poz porn stars as he plays with on and off camera do you think he's poz too?

by Anonymousreply 7July 12, 2015 12:14 AM

R5 Unless you're going to share some interesting information, WHO GIVES A FUCK if you know all that shit?

by Anonymousreply 8July 12, 2015 1:14 AM

He's a good singer, good tubist, but better composer and arranger. I recall when we were young that I thought it odd that a tubist would sing. He still occasionally does with groups in NYC that I also work with. He's ironically got really low notes that most men don't have - maybe it's the tuba playing ;-)

by Anonymousreply 9July 12, 2015 8:47 PM

What's up with his face? He has Christopher Daniels syndrome all of the sudden.

by Anonymousreply 10July 13, 2015 9:47 AM

What's that?

by Anonymousreply 11July 13, 2015 12:20 PM

Look at recent photos of Christopher Daniels and you'll see.

by Anonymousreply 12July 13, 2015 1:38 PM

he looks more muscular?

by Anonymousreply 13July 13, 2015 1:44 PM

he and his hubbie

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by Anonymousreply 14July 13, 2015 1:44 PM

Didn't he and his hubby pretty much admit in an article somewhere that they use steroids?

by Anonymousreply 15July 13, 2015 2:12 PM

He lives near me in SF. He's usually on Growlr less than a half mile away when I'm at home.

by Anonymousreply 16July 13, 2015 2:14 PM

He likes to get fucked bareback at leather and fetish events according to certain porn gossip sites.

by Anonymousreply 17July 13, 2015 2:26 PM

Love him, and I love when a daddy gets fucked by a younger blouse.

by Anonymousreply 18July 13, 2015 2:37 PM

He looks to have some Eskimo genes?

by Anonymousreply 19July 13, 2015 2:42 PM

He's completely forgettable and waaay too old to be so invested in 'the scene'.

No matter how fit you get, structuring your life solely around cheesy circuit parties, drugs, taking poz loads in back rooms and looking like a cartoon character complete with hideously engorged forehead veins is just a sad, pathetic look for a 50 year old grown ass man.

by Anonymousreply 20July 13, 2015 2:43 PM

[quote] Didn't he and his hubby pretty much admit in an article somewhere that they use steroids?

Honey, can't you tell by looking? Those bodies are not natural.

by Anonymousreply 21July 13, 2015 2:57 PM

Finally a porn performer that is not covered with tattoos and has some experience under his belt!

by Anonymousreply 22July 13, 2015 3:06 PM

Love the guy. Perfect pervy daddy. But why "pretentious and egotistical", OP? What did he do? And R5, how about spilling some beans and not acting like ....well..you?

by Anonymousreply 23July 13, 2015 3:07 PM

Any hotness he has/had is cancelled out by he and his husband's gross and risky behavior along with that other poz barebacking perve Mike Dryden they're always hanging out with.

by Anonymousreply 24July 13, 2015 4:50 PM

He now lives in Boston for the record

by Anonymousreply 25July 13, 2015 6:08 PM

He's hot and I like him. A lot of the posters here come off as bitter and very jaded.

by Anonymousreply 26July 13, 2015 6:19 PM

R26, is this your first time here, hon?

by Anonymousreply 27July 13, 2015 6:26 PM

He's a talented musician, and his Hubbie is smart sweet guy.

by Anonymousreply 28July 14, 2015 1:33 AM

When did Billy Santoro go bareback? I guess all porn stars are nasty cum dumps in real life, kinda sad.

by Anonymousreply 29July 14, 2015 4:27 AM

Dirk Caber looks like he's in his 50's, why is that?

by Anonymousreply 30July 14, 2015 4:28 AM

I assumed he was in his 50s.

by Anonymousreply 31July 14, 2015 2:00 PM

he's my age, 46, I know because I knew him way back, back when we were 20 year olds.

by Anonymousreply 32July 14, 2015 2:02 PM

[quote] Structuring your life solely around cheesy circuit parties, drugs, taking poz loads in back rooms and looking like a cartoon character complete with hideously engorged forehead veins is just a sad, pathetic look for a 50 year old grown ass man.

And yet, there will be a pile of bodies from the vapid, brainless whores that run to get to him first.

by Anonymousreply 33July 14, 2015 2:03 PM

He's actually got a bunch of other musical things he does aside from the go go boy thing, I honestly don't know how he packs it in.

by Anonymousreply 34July 14, 2015 4:01 PM

I'm sure he packs a lot of things in R34...apparently most of those things are raw cocks.

by Anonymousreply 35July 14, 2015 4:46 PM

His crowd is pretty methy...and messy. That bf of his is mad as a hatter. I met him once and could hear the time bombs of both temper and meltdown ticking.

by Anonymousreply 36July 14, 2015 5:54 PM

Why all of these comments about barebacking and raw cocks? I don't think he's ever done a bareback video.

by Anonymousreply 37July 14, 2015 6:36 PM

He hasn't on tape, but all the pornies bare-fuck off-screen.

Caber's also into all sorts of kink on-screen and off-screen. The kink.com Men on Edge stuff is more than you Prudy McSour bitches could ever stand to watch.

by Anonymousreply 38July 14, 2015 6:47 PM

[quote]He's a talented musician.

It's a shame how talented musicians must do porn today to make a living.

by Anonymousreply 39July 14, 2015 7:00 PM

He picked it up later in life, when he did some model I in his thirties it was suggested and he beefed up and then went for it, all after the age of forty. As I stated up thread, I've encountered him at choral gigs in the NYC, he's got a nice voice, nothing stellar, but he's got incredible low notes, something valued in a lot of choirs

by Anonymousreply 40July 14, 2015 9:04 PM

Yeah, he'd fit with the chorus queen crowd.

by Anonymousreply 41July 14, 2015 11:46 PM

But he loves tuba and composition, so he's always been an odd duck

by Anonymousreply 42July 15, 2015 1:18 AM

He's a very boring cocksucker, at least on screen. A little bit pathetic at his age.

by Anonymousreply 43July 15, 2015 1:41 AM

When he and his husband used to post videos on their blog they fucked with condoms which seems odd if they had safe sex with everyone else.

by Anonymousreply 44July 15, 2015 1:56 AM

They do things like that, they are both on Prep too

by Anonymousreply 45July 15, 2015 3:19 AM

I love to watch his Kink.com submissive stuff. He's very good at getting things shoved up inside him, and hanging bound with a bouncing hard boner.

by Anonymousreply 46July 15, 2015 8:14 PM

He's reall been into the kink scene for a while.

by Anonymousreply 47July 15, 2015 11:50 PM

Does Prep give you wasted face cause Dirk looks rough.

by Anonymousreply 48July 16, 2015 2:56 AM

he looks pretty good to me

by Anonymousreply 49July 16, 2015 12:29 PM

the video on menatplay where he is the school principal and he and another teacher have a go at Darrius something is super hot.

by Anonymousreply 50July 16, 2015 3:01 PM

he's really into the sex

by Anonymousreply 51July 16, 2015 4:00 PM

He's really into a lot of stuff it would seem.

by Anonymousreply 52July 16, 2015 5:13 PM

I'd like to see him get blown while tooting on his sousaphone.

by Anonymousreply 53July 16, 2015 6:10 PM

He's probably done it, crazy cat

by Anonymousreply 54July 16, 2015 6:37 PM

He's probably tried shoving it up his ass too R53. lol

by Anonymousreply 55July 16, 2015 8:40 PM

maybe a smaller horn

by Anonymousreply 56July 16, 2015 9:57 PM

I'm having disturbing visions involving Chico Marx now.

by Anonymousreply 57July 17, 2015 12:21 PM

I think he's into that

by Anonymousreply 58July 17, 2015 1:57 PM

I'm sure he's had the entire brass section up there by now.lol

by Anonymousreply 59July 20, 2015 12:37 AM

I follow them both on FB and the unwarranted pretension is utterly Amazing!

by Anonymousreply 60July 20, 2015 12:51 AM

Speaking of self aggrandizement , anyone here follow "comedian" muscle bear Peter C Bisuito on Facebook?

by Anonymousreply 61July 20, 2015 12:57 AM

He stated on his blog that he doesn't work with Michael Lucas anymore since they started doing bareback so I am not sure why people are assuming he bare backs. I like him cause he really seems to enjoy what he's doing in his scenes.

by Anonymousreply 62July 20, 2015 1:16 AM

As an old friend I can say that he's really funny and very nice.

by Anonymousreply 63July 20, 2015 1:52 AM

46?! Going on 65. Jesus Christ, he looks fucking horrible for 46. Meth, roids, and Truvada will apparently do that to a girl.

by Anonymousreply 64July 20, 2015 3:01 AM

He looks good for his age, have you ever actually Met someone over forty?

by Anonymousreply 65July 20, 2015 3:09 AM

A lot of innuendo based on nothing and people claiming he lives in SF, when he's always lived in Chicago or somewhere on the East Coast. If he and the bf seem so pretentious why follow them? His writing is pretty thoughtful, as opposed to say the truly ridiculous but often admired like Aiden Shaw or Matt Gunther (I recall reading some of his poetry--it was hilariously bad). Is the problem that he quotes Bach or the bf quotes Virgil?

I've come across some of his compositions--actually quite good.

The bf seems like an underachiever--his mom is very accomplished basic scientist. He's some sort of techie.

My guess is that the kink and bodywork is because he was a chubby nerd who played the tuba for a long time. If you've been fat you don't want to be again and it can distort your body image.. He looks fine for mid-40s.

by Anonymousreply 66July 20, 2015 3:55 AM

Porn stars have personalities now?

by Anonymousreply 67July 20, 2015 4:06 AM

[quote]My guess is that the kink and bodywork is because he was a chubby nerd who played the tuba for a long time.

totally, I knew him from musical festivals as a college student (he was at peabody) and he was an affable, long-haired, slightly-chunky stoner. and I recall that he sang as well as played tuba, that was the part that stood out, not his looks per se. I didn't know he was gay then. Subsequently when we've met later in life we have only discussed shop talk, music this or that. I haven't been able to ask the question, "so, why?" but he seems totally happy with it, so go for it!

by Anonymousreply 68July 20, 2015 1:39 PM

I follow them because I enjoy porn stars trying to act/appear like they're normal well adjusted people when their choice of profession as well as there off screen behavior demonstrates over and over that they aren't.

by Anonymousreply 69July 20, 2015 4:37 PM

their behavior...sorry grammar mavens.lol

by Anonymousreply 70July 20, 2015 4:38 PM

R69, since I personally know him, not you but through the filter of social media, I can say that he does surprise lying normal things, even on a daily basis. Sorry if that's hard for you to imagine.

by Anonymousreply 71July 20, 2015 4:56 PM

I likeporn stars with personality.

by Anonymousreply 72July 20, 2015 4:58 PM

Yes because nothing says normal like getting gangbanged by a group of your coworkers on stage in a crowded nightclub. Are you a fellow performer R71? Just wondering since all that seems so normal to you.

by Anonymousreply 73July 20, 2015 8:10 PM

HE looks like every other middle-aged porn star. How can you tell them apart?

by Anonymousreply 74July 20, 2015 8:46 PM

"I've come across some of his compositions"

Is that what they're calling it now?

by Anonymousreply 75July 20, 2015 9:00 PM

R72, they have Flavvah!! I Like that

by Anonymousreply 76July 20, 2015 10:39 PM

[quote] you a fellow performer [R71]? Just wondering since all that seems so normal to you.

If by 'performer' you mean a musician, yes, I am. We did a well-known music festival together long ago, and shared a flat with others. Subsequently the fates realigned for.us to do a recording together about five years ago, it was nice to catch up with him. He seems very happy and loves his partner. I can't think of anything salacious to say, but those parts you've clearly already covered, right?

by Anonymousreply 77July 20, 2015 10:42 PM

[quote]Is that what they're calling it now?

By profession he calls himself a composer, the pron is a side gig, as it should be. Go to his website and you can hear what he writes.

by Anonymousreply 78July 20, 2015 10:43 PM

The kink.com Men on Edge stuff is more than you Prudy McSour bitches could ever stand to watch.

OooooOOOOooooh, Mary, we [italic]are[/italic] just as butch as can be, aren't we?

by Anonymousreply 79July 20, 2015 10:44 PM

We are butch

by Anonymousreply 80July 21, 2015 12:30 AM

Whatever he claims to be he'll always be known first and foremost as a porn performer, that's just how life works. If he aspired to be more he let his libido and need for attention/adoration ruin his chances.

by Anonymousreply 81July 21, 2015 1:44 PM

[quote]that's just how life works

he had a WHOLE career before he ever became "dirk". you do realize that is a huge advantage to having a porn name. no, many people only know him professionally as a musician, you just don't happen to be one of them.

by Anonymousreply 82July 21, 2015 1:59 PM

STI petri dish with legs

by Anonymousreply 83July 21, 2015 2:02 PM

possibly, but only his doctor would know that for sure

by Anonymousreply 84July 21, 2015 2:07 PM

Yeah now he's Dirk to those who knew him as a legitimate musician...big win for him!

by Anonymousreply 85July 21, 2015 2:24 PM

[quote] no, many people only know him professionally as a musician, you just don't happen to be one of them.

You're really bringing out the big guns shade-wise now!

by Anonymousreply 86July 21, 2015 5:54 PM

He performs with a lesbian/gay marching band, which is nerd-cool.

by Anonymousreply 87July 21, 2015 7:25 PM

R86, which is to say his associates and life don't matter? and you've contributed to society beneficially how? he is actually someone I know, it's not like he is a "Celebrity" you queens endlessly natter on about. He's always be a musician, will be long after he retires from porn, which as we know is inevitable. What's you problem with that?

by Anonymousreply 88July 21, 2015 10:56 PM

and don't underestimate the power of a sousaphone!

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by Anonymousreply 89July 21, 2015 10:59 PM

He's a whore darlin' doesn't matter what the horn he's playing is made of.lol

by Anonymousreply 90July 22, 2015 12:39 AM

in that sense we are all whores.

by Anonymousreply 91July 22, 2015 1:08 AM

Or we all love it

by Anonymousreply 92July 22, 2015 1:22 AM

At least he has something to do once his porn/escort career is over. A lot of them are people who can't do anything else like Christopher Daniels.

by Anonymousreply 93July 24, 2015 8:22 PM

He's still got his "day job".

by Anonymousreply 94July 24, 2015 11:46 PM

Is anyone really going to take him seriously in his day job after he's been seen being gangbanged on the street at a fetish festival?

by Anonymousreply 95July 25, 2015 2:16 AM

Blanche: This is strictly off the record, but Dirk's nearly five years younger than I am.

Dorothy: In what, Blanche? Dog years?

by Anonymousreply 96July 25, 2015 3:28 AM

There's nothing worse than a pretentious porn star!

by Anonymousreply 97July 25, 2015 3:45 AM

R95, yeah, people do, in music we aren't so fucking up tight.

by Anonymousreply 98July 25, 2015 12:09 PM

The problem with "porn star trols" seems to be that they don't have day jobs or at least don't have anything better to do besides get moralistic or spread rumors like that "Blake Harper is bi" idiot.

by Anonymousreply 99July 25, 2015 2:17 PM

"Dirk" is a super nice, very funny guy, he's very smart and well, seems to like kinky sex. that's not unheard of, his choice to get filmed on camera professionally is his choice alone, those thinking he is tedious or pretentious probably don't personally know him. he's a very down-to-earth guy with a great sense of humor.

by Anonymousreply 100July 25, 2015 2:30 PM

R88 [quote]He's always be a musician, will be long after he retires from porn

No. He'll always be a guy who does porn.

Today, no one really retires from doing porn.

On the internet, the videos of him giving head and getting fucked will live on and on and on.

by Anonymousreply 101July 25, 2015 2:35 PM

I love all the posts from people who actually know him. Maybe they're all b.s. But it's nice to think one of my fantasies is actually a nice, cool person IRL.

by Anonymousreply 102July 25, 2015 3:41 PM

[quote]Is anyone really going to take him seriously in his day job after he's been seen being gangbanged on the street at a fetish festival?

His "day job" is musician, not "Supreme Court Justice" or "neurosurgeon," you pearl-clutching ninny. Artists and musicians tend to be less uptight and judgmental.

by Anonymousreply 103July 25, 2015 3:43 PM

[quote]No. He'll always be a guy who does porn.Today, no one really retires from doing porn.

that's not strictly speaking true. HUNDREDS of guys do porn, leave, and never turn back. no one harasses them about it. "dirk" is doing it only because he likes to, when he's through, he's through.

and again, I'm in his line of work, having a pron past isn't a huge impediment for being a musician, and none for being a composer.

R102, we did a music festival a long time ago, our contact subsequently is mainly on face book and at the rare gig. he seems TOTALLY happy with his life choices.

by Anonymousreply 104July 25, 2015 3:58 PM

We'll see how cool and open the music community is when he tries applying for work outside his little gay ghetto.

by Anonymousreply 105July 26, 2015 4:21 PM

he TOTALLY WORKS OUTSIDE OF THE GHETTO, SILLY! you're a fool! the people we are mutual friends with on Facebook are all straight college music professors!

by Anonymousreply 106July 26, 2015 6:07 PM

He does audiobook narration, too. That thick sexy voice. mmm.

by Anonymousreply 107July 29, 2015 8:48 PM

He's so famous i've never heard of this guy. Guess TMZ doesn't cover him

by Anonymousreply 108July 30, 2015 12:36 AM

It doesn't, because they don't do classical music composers, now do they?

by Anonymousreply 109July 30, 2015 2:59 AM

He gets plenty of coverage...it's just in random guys splooge.lol

by Anonymousreply 110July 30, 2015 10:25 PM

So where is this talented musician performing at the moment?

Could someone tell us about the venues he's played at, over the last few years?

by Anonymousreply 111July 30, 2015 10:33 PM

And those "audio books", could we have some titles please?

by Anonymousreply 112July 30, 2015 10:36 PM

I like him a lot--he's very handsome, has a great voice, and a fantastic tight body. I wish only that he didn't always have to play the pervy guy convincing his stepson or a homeless kid to fuck him--he is asked to play that too much, so his videos (especially for men.com) seem a little too much the same. But he is one of the best stars in porn in the last 20 years.

by Anonymousreply 113July 30, 2015 11:13 PM

R111, he did a thing with Pomeranium in NYC last season, but further than that, I can't say.

And, pray tell, where did you study flute? New England conservatory? Indiana university? I'd love to know

by Anonymousreply 114July 31, 2015 12:24 AM

Are Dirk and his boyfriend bisexuals? Are they tag-teaming girls together or separately when the gays aren't looking?

by Anonymousreply 115July 31, 2015 1:01 AM

no, gay as the day is long, both

by Anonymousreply 116July 31, 2015 2:15 AM

"Musician" does not always equal famous. Some of you are laughably small-minded.

by Anonymousreply 117July 31, 2015 2:43 AM

Musician is a job, he works as a composer, so it's quiet at home work, like a writer. It's what he went to school for, that is what his "day job " is.

by Anonymousreply 118July 31, 2015 2:53 AM

The professional musicians I've known often have had multiple jobs or done unglamorous things like weddings to make enough to spend at least some time doing what they enjoy.

by Anonymousreply 119July 31, 2015 2:58 AM

Yup.

by Anonymousreply 120July 31, 2015 3:37 AM

Looks more like he's a professional porn star who dabbles in music on the side going by the constant video shoots and travelling sex shows he's does. Are he and his "husband" still begging for money to buy him a piano?

by Anonymousreply 121July 31, 2015 8:17 AM

Why is husband in quotes? Homophobe much? Cunt.

by Anonymousreply 122July 31, 2015 10:53 AM

They got the piano, there are short videos of him playing it, he seems like he's practiced a lot since the old days, he plays a lot better than I do, that's for sure. I was never much of a pianist.

And, r121, composing or arranging is a quiet occupation you can do at moments not set in a schedule, like writing. You seem to have a very rigid view of how a weekly work schedule might be constructed.

by Anonymousreply 123July 31, 2015 2:05 PM

There's at least one poster on this thread who's very fixated and obsessed with tearing Dirk Caber down. What a sad little crusade to obsess over.

by Anonymousreply 124July 31, 2015 4:49 PM

r124, why not just hit the "ignore" button then?

by Anonymousreply 125July 31, 2015 4:50 PM

Why is he doing all the creepy dad/stepdad videos now? Do the producers know something his fans don't?

by Anonymousreply 126August 1, 2015 2:02 AM

No, he's just type cast. He's clearly older, and has a low voice, voila, he's the Pervy uncle character.

by Anonymousreply 127August 1, 2015 2:15 AM

Lets be honest he was a bit on the creepy side from the get go.

by Anonymousreply 128August 1, 2015 7:22 AM

Not really. You're just jealous because he's a well developed middle aged guy who gets lots fucks. And when his porn career is over, he has other things to do with his life and he'll still be a well-developed guy who gets lots of fucks.

by Anonymousreply 129August 1, 2015 12:24 PM

Pretty much, sour grapes here

by Anonymousreply 130August 1, 2015 12:27 PM

Isn't he into really,really hardcore BDSM?

by Anonymousreply 131August 1, 2015 6:42 PM

I wish he would've uploaded some of their bareback videos... :(

And Billy Santoro has ALWAYS fucked BAREBACK. He ONLY fucks BAREBACK off camera. ONLY. He's also going to launch his own website.... apparently.

by Anonymousreply 132August 1, 2015 7:48 PM

he is into kink, that is a fact.

by Anonymousreply 133August 1, 2015 8:55 PM

Billy Santoro is gross, All his preaching about not doing bareback porn and now suddenly he's breeding and seeding guys online all over the fucking place. I'm guessing he got some bad news recently.

by Anonymousreply 134August 2, 2015 1:58 AM

Actually Santoro is making condom videos. He seems like someone having a more fucked up midlife crisis than Caber.

by Anonymousreply 135August 2, 2015 2:35 AM

He makes condom videos in his "pro" work but he's been posting videos on Twitter and other places of him cream pieing random guys.

by Anonymousreply 136August 2, 2015 2:38 AM

I've read interviews where it's sadly obvious that Billy has a wide variety of issues.

by Anonymousreply 137August 2, 2015 2:40 AM

All I saw was the usual shots from his porn. His "website" is just aebn subsite, although it does have a grainy amateur video. The Santoros have opinions about everything, usually laughable. They're not exactly Einstein's although the boytoy wants to go to college.

by Anonymousreply 138August 2, 2015 2:45 AM

The boytoy is a bb bottom as well or at least was.

by Anonymousreply 139August 2, 2015 2:50 AM

The boytoy used to be a bartender at Cobalt. He likes attention. I guess that's why he left the military.

by Anonymousreply 140August 2, 2015 1:52 PM

Billy Santoro was praising Chi Chi for going to rehab. BS is in "recovery" as well and Larry gave him a telephone call of encouragement when he was detoxing or whatever.

He still seems crazy.

by Anonymousreply 141August 2, 2015 2:39 PM

Ahem. . .

by Anonymousreply 142August 2, 2015 3:27 PM

I want Dirk Caber to do pushups into my ass. Is that so wrong?

by Anonymousreply 143August 2, 2015 3:33 PM

he'd do it

by Anonymousreply 144August 2, 2015 3:44 PM

Dirk Caber will apparently do anything...or anyone R143 so you definitely have a shot. Also Billy Santoro with his creepy veneers is a hypocritical freak show of a human being.

by Anonymousreply 145August 2, 2015 7:34 PM

Santoro must have gotten the veneers at some discount dental place. He looks ridiculous. De must know, because recent pics seem to have his mouth closed.

by Anonymousreply 146August 2, 2015 9:22 PM

He can close his mouth?

by Anonymousreply 147August 2, 2015 9:36 PM

Uh, ladies, billy has his own thread, mkay?

by Anonymousreply 148August 3, 2015 12:39 AM

Is it true Caber likes to have his prostate punched by a mighty fist now and then?

by Anonymousreply 149August 4, 2015 9:20 AM

Not on film

by Anonymousreply 150August 4, 2015 2:08 PM

I'm sure he's done it at one of the many kink fairs/parties he's always attending.

by Anonymousreply 151August 4, 2015 2:11 PM

he just did a bunch of flogging at Dore alley.

by Anonymousreply 152August 4, 2015 2:42 PM

I compose as a hobby and all I can say is, "God Bless Him."

I will admit to a bit of cognitive dissonance seeing the nude photoshoot with the sousaphone, though.

Its funny what you learn about people...I've always only known him as one of the people in those ads that repeat over and over every 7 seconds for Icon Male or whatever that are forced upon me whenever I visit any kind of gay site.

by Anonymousreply 153August 4, 2015 3:06 PM

he's got it all

by Anonymousreply 154August 4, 2015 4:35 PM

If not all I'm sure he has something at this point.lol

by Anonymousreply 155August 4, 2015 10:27 PM

He shares his (real) surname with a famous country diva. Any idea if they're related?

by Anonymousreply 156August 4, 2015 10:48 PM

Not that I'm aware of, he's not southern for example.

by Anonymousreply 157August 4, 2015 11:31 PM

He's from New England. Her people are from the hollows of Tennessee, probably no connection.

by Anonymousreply 158August 5, 2015 1:46 AM

I just came to a scene of Dirk Caber with Jarec Wentworth and Tom Faulk - so fucking hot!

by Anonymousreply 159August 5, 2015 5:31 PM

I just came thinking about it

by Anonymousreply 160August 5, 2015 5:34 PM

Hi Dirk,What kept you?

by Anonymousreply 161August 5, 2015 6:05 PM

he was busy - composing!

by Anonymousreply 162August 5, 2015 6:34 PM

Or getting fisted

by Anonymousreply 163August 5, 2015 9:27 PM

or both!

by Anonymousreply 164August 5, 2015 9:39 PM

Now that's talent!LOL

by Anonymousreply 165August 5, 2015 9:40 PM

R162 It's titled "Intermezzo for Contrabass Dildo and Chamber Orchestra." It'll premier this October at Carnegie Hall, conducted by Johnny Rapid. Book your tickets now!

by Anonymousreply 166August 5, 2015 9:48 PM

He has a dirty dark secret for Muzak

by Anonymousreply 167August 5, 2015 10:47 PM

I'm sure that's not the only dark and dirty secret he has.lol

by Anonymousreply 168August 7, 2015 5:31 AM

He's pretty open about most things.

by Anonymousreply 169August 7, 2015 11:37 AM

[quote]He's so famous i've never heard of this guy. Guess TMZ doesn't cover him

They would if he was Harvey Levin's type.

by Anonymousreply 170August 7, 2015 1:11 PM

Oh from what I've heard he's very "open"...very often.lol

by Anonymousreply 171August 7, 2015 5:19 PM

Open it up

by Anonymousreply 172August 7, 2015 5:56 PM

I tell you, Dirk Caber looks an awful lot like that one guy on USA's "Suits"... doesn't he? That evil bastard with the beard? The actor's name is John Pyper-Ferguson, the character's name is Jack Soloff.

by Anonymousreply 173August 7, 2015 7:45 PM

John Pyper-Ferg is HOT

by Anonymousreply 174August 7, 2015 8:25 PM

Dirk Caber has a small cock. Give me David Anthony.

by Anonymousreply 175November 9, 2015 3:42 AM

Both he and his husband somehow manage to be both sleazy and incredibly boring.

by Anonymousreply 176November 9, 2015 4:06 AM

I work at high levels in the classical music world. He is a minor leaguer by any standards, and the moment this is discovered, what few gigs he had will dry up quickly. Despite what some morons up thread said, the classical music world is primarily run by uptight, conservative gay men, and they immediately shut this sort of behavior down.

We rely on the largesse of extremely rich society matrons and major corporations, and they do not want to be tied to any sort of porn, much less gay kink fetish porn.

This is fact, not opinion.

by Anonymousreply 177November 9, 2015 10:37 AM

I saw a photo of him online naked in bed with bareback porn star Scotty Rage and his condom shaming boyfriend Charlie Harding so he may not play as safely as he claims to.

by Anonymousreply 178November 9, 2015 2:15 PM

Judging by their friends in SF, they're part of a methy, methy BB crowd that's high on looks and low on IQ.

by Anonymousreply 179November 9, 2015 3:25 PM

Met him recently at a gallery. He is a bright guy and contrary to the above , he seems to be making more of his living from music these days. He's a definite music geek, but in a way that made for some interesting conversation.. Like most porn guys, he adds an inch or two to his stated height. He looked good--a reasonable mid-40s.

by Anonymousreply 180November 22, 2015 8:29 PM

[quote]he seems to be making more of his living from music these days.

he just finally finished his degree that he started twenty years ago. now matriculated I believe he's teaching somewhere.

by Anonymousreply 181December 6, 2015 3:01 AM

What does Jesse Jackman do for work outside of porn?

by Anonymousreply 182December 6, 2015 7:00 AM

he's a language dude, french linguistics, but his day job is something less fancy

by Anonymousreply 183December 6, 2015 4:43 PM

He sounds tiresome like his husband.

by Anonymousreply 184December 6, 2015 10:05 PM

they are both super cute

by Anonymousreply 185December 7, 2015 4:45 AM

He's clearly got some friends here at DL. Or he's posting here himself.

by Anonymousreply 186December 7, 2015 6:19 AM

I'm a friend

by Anonymousreply 187December 8, 2015 3:14 AM

not just a friend, but a one-man Dirk Caber PR firm.

by Anonymousreply 188December 8, 2015 3:34 AM

He sings pretty too

by Anonymousreply 189December 8, 2015 3:48 AM

R187 Are they monogamous in real life ? And how old are they ?

by Anonymousreply 190December 8, 2015 3:52 AM

they are both mid forties.

I wouldn't call them monogamous, but they define their relationship as such. they are totally crazy about each other, but have quick tricks outside of the home every once in a while.

by Anonymousreply 191December 8, 2015 2:10 PM

R191 Thanks for that. I've seen them once in a live sex show.

by Anonymousreply 192December 8, 2015 7:12 PM

They fuck all their "friends" so they're far from a monogamous couple by any stretch of the word.

by Anonymousreply 193December 9, 2015 12:49 AM

There's a photo of him in bed with poz cum dumpster Scotty Rage and his sleazy husband Charlie Harding where they've either just had sex or are getting ready to and there are no condoms to be seen.

by Anonymousreply 194December 20, 2015 10:58 PM

I would hardly expect a porn star to be monogamous. They have sex with strangers for a living.

by Anonymousreply 195December 20, 2015 11:01 PM

His husband Jesse Jackman is apparently working non stop now and is fucking or getting fucked by pretty much every guy at Titan.

by Anonymousreply 196December 21, 2015 2:42 AM

Is Titan still around? Is Joe Gage (married to a woman, with kids) still directing incest porn over there?

by Anonymousreply 197December 21, 2015 3:00 AM

Everything is directed by Jasun Mark now.

by Anonymousreply 198December 21, 2015 3:03 AM

He has a small cock.

by Anonymousreply 199December 21, 2015 3:05 AM

Didn't he do a scene himself awhile back?

by Anonymousreply 200December 21, 2015 3:06 AM

Colby Jansen fucks a big load out of Dirk Caber. My favorite scene from Dirk.

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by Anonymousreply 201December 21, 2015 3:13 AM

Flabby Colby.

by Anonymousreply 202December 21, 2015 3:16 AM

Colby should be ashamed. He's a good 15 years younger than Dirk and looks like he hasn't seen a gym in a decade. Tubs should be doing chubby porn.

by Anonymousreply 203December 21, 2015 3:19 AM

[quote] His husband Jesse Jackman is apparently working non stop now and is fucking or getting fucked by pretty much every guy at Titan.

How proud his mother must be!

by Anonymousreply 204December 21, 2015 4:11 AM

At least they've never done bareback (at least on video.)

by Anonymousreply 205December 21, 2015 4:41 AM

R205 You mean they should at least have done bareback.

by Anonymousreply 206December 21, 2015 5:02 AM

I suspect they're part of the Truvada army in real life considering how many bareback porn stars they pal aka fuck around with.

by Anonymousreply 207December 21, 2015 3:48 PM

What's wrong with Jesse Jackman's cock?

by Anonymousreply 208December 21, 2015 8:33 PM

R203, if that's what chubby looks like to you, you must live in a very fit world. That doesn't come close to "real world" chubby.

by Anonymousreply 209December 21, 2015 8:50 PM

Fixed it:

"...you must live in a very anorexic and deranged world."

by Anonymousreply 210December 21, 2015 9:02 PM

[quote]What's wrong with Jesse Jackman's cock?

I keep hearing this spoken the same way that Gloria Upson says "What's WRONG with Muriel Puce?"

by Anonymousreply 211December 21, 2015 9:21 PM

he's probably taken most of their loads

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by Anonymousreply 212December 22, 2015 2:37 AM

[quote]What's wrong with Jesse Jackman's cock?

He has some sort of condition (Peyronie's disease) where his cock curves down instead of up when it's erect.

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by Anonymousreply 213December 22, 2015 2:44 AM

y'all bitches are PRESSED

by Anonymousreply 214December 22, 2015 2:49 AM

We're just not hep to your with-it ghetto slang, r214.

by Anonymousreply 215December 22, 2015 2:54 AM

I love his beard

by Anonymousreply 216December 22, 2015 3:23 AM

Charlie Harding and his partner are both gross.

by Anonymousreply 217December 22, 2015 7:20 PM

id grope them at the eagle though.

by Anonymousreply 218December 22, 2015 7:24 PM

I'd advise wearing gloves R218.lol

by Anonymousreply 219December 22, 2015 8:09 PM

Leather - and a riding crop

by Anonymousreply 220December 22, 2015 11:52 PM

He's a cesspool of disease

by Anonymousreply 221December 23, 2015 11:47 AM

he's got lots of muscles

by Anonymousreply 222December 23, 2015 1:15 PM

I wonder why Jesse is suddenly working so much, I wonder if one of them is getting ready to lose his real world job.

by Anonymousreply 223December 27, 2015 2:02 PM

they both love to have fun

by Anonymousreply 224December 27, 2015 3:43 PM

They both seem like sexual compulsives that need everyone including their families(ewww)to know what they do on and off camera.

by Anonymousreply 225December 28, 2015 7:15 PM

Sex with Colby Keller is hot, nice, and memorable. Sex with Dirk Caber is dull, and consists of him looking for a mirror to see his own reflection or an audience.

by Anonymousreply 226December 28, 2015 7:20 PM

His creepy laugh is highly off putting to.

by Anonymousreply 227December 28, 2015 7:22 PM

"His creepy laugh is highly off putting to. "

Off putting to where? A golf course?

You're an illiterate shit with no rights to criticize anyone.

by Anonymousreply 228December 28, 2015 9:49 PM

Hi Dirk and or Jesse at R228.

by Anonymousreply 229December 28, 2015 9:56 PM

they fuck each other

by Anonymousreply 230December 29, 2015 2:04 AM

That duckface cunt Michael Lucas is all over this thread with the Caber hate.

by Anonymousreply 231December 29, 2015 1:09 PM

He is really ugly and gross, no wonder I never heard of him.

by Anonymousreply 232December 29, 2015 1:37 PM

he's handsome and sings pretty

by Anonymousreply 233December 29, 2015 3:31 PM

The fact that he fucks around with the likes of Scotty Rage and Charlie Harding really shows what kind of person he is in real life.

by Anonymousreply 234December 29, 2015 6:34 PM

he loves the night life

by Anonymousreply 235December 29, 2015 6:42 PM

Do you think he's let his porn buddies fist him on that new piano he begged his fans for yet?

by Anonymousreply 236December 29, 2015 11:18 PM

they put a cover over it first.

by Anonymousreply 237December 30, 2015 1:23 AM

No doubt they use a tarp with a big Titan logo on it.

by Anonymousreply 238December 30, 2015 3:33 AM

Weren't there rumors about Jesse and Dirk dabbling in bareback porn?

by Anonymousreply 239January 8, 2016 7:17 AM

Did anyone see the performance art piece Jesse just posted on Facebook of Dirk putting a guy in bondage as he plays the piano?

by Anonymousreply 240January 9, 2016 12:00 AM

nope

by Anonymousreply 241January 10, 2016 1:45 AM

looks like a normal rehearsal to me

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by Anonymousreply 242January 10, 2016 1:46 AM

It's not gonna happy Dirk so give it up and stick to porn.

by Anonymousreply 243January 10, 2016 3:15 AM

So Dirk can't even make music without working sex into it now...seems like he has a problem.

by Anonymousreply 244January 10, 2016 11:48 AM

happy dirk, has a happy dick

by Anonymousreply 245January 10, 2016 3:25 PM

The bondage piano act was the idea of the other guy, gay pianist Adam Tendler, who is a very nice fellow, and a very good musician. He was just doing a fun stunt-art performance piece with Caber.

Tendler also wrote a very interesting book about touring the U.S. The ebook has music links to the pieces he mentions, too.

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by Anonymousreply 246January 10, 2016 5:10 PM

Hi Adam.lol

by Anonymousreply 247January 10, 2016 7:04 PM

I get the impression that behind closed doors Dirk gets into some highly twisted shit.

by Anonymousreply 248January 10, 2016 8:53 PM

Pron Bump.

by Anonymousreply 249January 15, 2016 6:08 AM

Sigh. There are always cunty pearl clutching Marys on here who have to shit all over ANYTHING porn related. They cling to tired old stereotypes about porn stars. (While jacking off to their videos every chance they get.)

Not all porn stars have drug issues, or escort, or have AIDS, or have STDs, or bareback, or are social pariahs because they have "ruined their lives" by doing porn. Many people do porn for the 'fun' of it and have regular jobs and lives outside of it. The smart ones do it for the "shits and giggles" for a couple years and save their money (if they need it) and get out to do other things. I know ex porn stars who are computer programmers and accountants. It's not 1988 and not all porn performers are drugged out sex addict con artists. (Though, those still exist, too, sadly.)

by Anonymousreply 250January 15, 2016 8:39 AM

The longer they stay in the business the more extreme they become. Sadly most of the porn stars I enjoyed when I first started watching have migrated to fetish or bareback porn.

by Anonymousreply 251January 15, 2016 2:45 PM

dirk has some quirks

by Anonymousreply 252January 15, 2016 2:46 PM

Considering most of the models that Dirk works with do bareback on the side, he may end up with more than quirks if he's not careful.

by Anonymousreply 253January 15, 2016 2:49 PM

Here's what the loving couple has been up to.

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by Anonymousreply 254January 15, 2016 2:57 PM

i LOVE it

by Anonymousreply 255January 15, 2016 3:13 PM

My browser won't connect to the page for some reason.

by Anonymousreply 256January 15, 2016 3:15 PM

That video proves their safe sexy message is bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 257January 15, 2016 3:45 PM

Nothing says safety like a guy covered in biohazard tattoos sticking his raw dick in a line of sweaty methed out bottoms in front of a crowd.

by Anonymousreply 258January 15, 2016 4:17 PM

Somebody on his FB page mentioned the unsafe sex in the video and a couple of Jesse's fans immediately jumped on them as being judgmental and part of the condom police.lol

by Anonymousreply 259January 15, 2016 5:48 PM

R258 I'm pretty sure the bottoms already have HIV so why not?

by Anonymousreply 260January 15, 2016 7:16 PM

Did you see the video? These weren't even hot guys, just poz burnouts swapping loads in front of a bunch of cheering ghouls.

by Anonymousreply 261January 15, 2016 8:06 PM

So much HIV-phobia on this site.

by Anonymousreply 262February 2, 2016 4:32 PM

He likes SEX!! That's BAD[bold] AND[/bold] DIRTY! He probably has a SEX DISEASE like AIDS! Mother would not approve!

by Anonymousreply 263February 2, 2016 5:18 PM

Tsk tsk.

by Anonymousreply 264February 2, 2016 5:20 PM

What was the verdict from the "They're all secretly bisexual!" Troll?

by Anonymousreply 265February 14, 2016 6:17 PM

Has anyone seen the video from I think Folsom where all the porn stars are playing Twister? Most are wearing underwear or jock straps but there's Dirk being classy as fuck buck naked and pulling his ass cheeks apart so the crowd can get a good look at his busted hole.

by Anonymousreply 266July 2, 2016 6:04 AM

Only on Datalounge would having hesitations about someone being whipped in a sling before a live audience be construed as prudery.

by Anonymousreply 267July 2, 2016 7:12 AM

R266 Link, please?

by Anonymousreply 268July 2, 2016 6:04 PM

his real Facebook profile under his real name is getting spammed and pushed really bad right now. I feel bad for him

by Anonymousreply 269July 2, 2016 6:27 PM

I'm not sure where I saw the photo R268, I think it was on Tumbler.

by Anonymousreply 270July 2, 2016 10:56 PM

His name is Jack Parton. It's not any sort of mystery. He's barely on the fringes of the classical world. He's a hobbyist. Not taken seriously. His real job is porn whore.

by Anonymousreply 271July 3, 2016 1:20 PM

I follow Jesse on Facebook and it seems like they're rarely together, it sounds like Dirk is always away shooting porn or doing live sex shows.

by Anonymousreply 272July 21, 2016 1:15 PM

Gross.

by Anonymousreply 273July 22, 2016 7:52 PM

Anyone else notice almost all of the plots to Dirk's videos feature him having sex with his "sons" or pimping out his sons to other people?

by Anonymousreply 274September 10, 2016 6:29 AM

Jesse Jackman posted this weird message on Facebook about how he missed Dirk and how they deserved each other so something seems to be going on in their relationship.

by Anonymousreply 275September 11, 2016 10:06 PM

I'd like him to sit on my cock while he plays the piano. It would be fun.

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by Anonymousreply 276September 12, 2016 4:59 PM

He moved on to fists long ago R276.

by Anonymousreply 277September 12, 2016 6:56 PM

This Obama-era thread is from 2015 and Dirk's STILL going strong 2 Presidents later.

I recently a Michael Lucas scene with Dirk and Andre Donovan and it was blazingly hot. Dirk even bottomed for Andre's huge dick, which must not have been easy.

Seriously - Is any porn "Daddy" aging as well as Dirk Caber?

I know Dirk is on Twitter but what is he really up to these days? Has he been vaccinated?

by Anonymousreply 278April 22, 2021 4:31 AM

He did an Onlyfans with human petri dish Adam Russo a few years back and he looked and sounded genuinely insane!

by Anonymousreply 279April 22, 2021 5:06 AM

Hi Dirk at R278!

by Anonymousreply 280April 22, 2021 5:10 AM

Don’t post a picture of him or anything so we know who you’re talking about, OP. That would just be crazy.

by Anonymousreply 281April 22, 2021 5:11 AM
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