This is the thread devoted to the Perv Daddy of Gay Porn Stars-- one of the hottest, cutest, butchest, smartest, and most cultured (but let's face it, also one of the most pretentious and most egotistical--sorry, Dirk, but it's the truth!) of all performers in gay adult cinema.
Dirk Caber
by Anonymous | reply 281 | April 22, 2021 5:11 AM |
Who?
by Anonymous | reply 1 | June 26, 2015 3:06 AM |
[quote]also one of the most pretentious
More than Colby Keller?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | June 26, 2015 3:07 AM |
Oh, he's much more pretentious than Colby Keller. He's also much smarter, but he talks about himself as a "a master of the art" of bondage.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | June 26, 2015 3:11 AM |
I only like it when Papa Smurf tops younger guys, because means I can ignore him.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | June 26, 2015 3:20 AM |
I went to musical festival courses with him, know him, his real name, his real talents and what he was like before porn.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | July 9, 2015 3:47 AM |
Dirk Caber & Dolan Wolf Flip-Fuck in "Opportunity Knocks"
by Anonymous | reply 6 | July 9, 2015 8:23 PM |
As many poz porn stars as he plays with on and off camera do you think he's poz too?
by Anonymous | reply 7 | July 12, 2015 12:14 AM |
R5 Unless you're going to share some interesting information, WHO GIVES A FUCK if you know all that shit?
by Anonymous | reply 8 | July 12, 2015 1:14 AM |
He's a good singer, good tubist, but better composer and arranger. I recall when we were young that I thought it odd that a tubist would sing. He still occasionally does with groups in NYC that I also work with. He's ironically got really low notes that most men don't have - maybe it's the tuba playing ;-)
by Anonymous | reply 9 | July 12, 2015 8:47 PM |
What's up with his face? He has Christopher Daniels syndrome all of the sudden.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | July 13, 2015 9:47 AM |
What's that?
by Anonymous | reply 11 | July 13, 2015 12:20 PM |
Look at recent photos of Christopher Daniels and you'll see.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | July 13, 2015 1:38 PM |
he looks more muscular?
by Anonymous | reply 13 | July 13, 2015 1:44 PM |
Didn't he and his hubby pretty much admit in an article somewhere that they use steroids?
by Anonymous | reply 15 | July 13, 2015 2:12 PM |
He lives near me in SF. He's usually on Growlr less than a half mile away when I'm at home.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | July 13, 2015 2:14 PM |
He likes to get fucked bareback at leather and fetish events according to certain porn gossip sites.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | July 13, 2015 2:26 PM |
Love him, and I love when a daddy gets fucked by a younger blouse.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | July 13, 2015 2:37 PM |
He looks to have some Eskimo genes?
by Anonymous | reply 19 | July 13, 2015 2:42 PM |
He's completely forgettable and waaay too old to be so invested in 'the scene'.
No matter how fit you get, structuring your life solely around cheesy circuit parties, drugs, taking poz loads in back rooms and looking like a cartoon character complete with hideously engorged forehead veins is just a sad, pathetic look for a 50 year old grown ass man.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | July 13, 2015 2:43 PM |
[quote] Didn't he and his hubby pretty much admit in an article somewhere that they use steroids?
Honey, can't you tell by looking? Those bodies are not natural.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | July 13, 2015 2:57 PM |
Finally a porn performer that is not covered with tattoos and has some experience under his belt!
by Anonymous | reply 22 | July 13, 2015 3:06 PM |
Love the guy. Perfect pervy daddy. But why "pretentious and egotistical", OP? What did he do? And R5, how about spilling some beans and not acting like ....well..you?
by Anonymous | reply 23 | July 13, 2015 3:07 PM |
Any hotness he has/had is cancelled out by he and his husband's gross and risky behavior along with that other poz barebacking perve Mike Dryden they're always hanging out with.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | July 13, 2015 4:50 PM |
He now lives in Boston for the record
by Anonymous | reply 25 | July 13, 2015 6:08 PM |
He's hot and I like him. A lot of the posters here come off as bitter and very jaded.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | July 13, 2015 6:19 PM |
R26, is this your first time here, hon?
by Anonymous | reply 27 | July 13, 2015 6:26 PM |
He's a talented musician, and his Hubbie is smart sweet guy.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | July 14, 2015 1:33 AM |
When did Billy Santoro go bareback? I guess all porn stars are nasty cum dumps in real life, kinda sad.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | July 14, 2015 4:27 AM |
Dirk Caber looks like he's in his 50's, why is that?
by Anonymous | reply 30 | July 14, 2015 4:28 AM |
I assumed he was in his 50s.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | July 14, 2015 2:00 PM |
he's my age, 46, I know because I knew him way back, back when we were 20 year olds.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | July 14, 2015 2:02 PM |
[quote] Structuring your life solely around cheesy circuit parties, drugs, taking poz loads in back rooms and looking like a cartoon character complete with hideously engorged forehead veins is just a sad, pathetic look for a 50 year old grown ass man.
And yet, there will be a pile of bodies from the vapid, brainless whores that run to get to him first.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | July 14, 2015 2:03 PM |
He's actually got a bunch of other musical things he does aside from the go go boy thing, I honestly don't know how he packs it in.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | July 14, 2015 4:01 PM |
I'm sure he packs a lot of things in R34...apparently most of those things are raw cocks.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | July 14, 2015 4:46 PM |
His crowd is pretty methy...and messy. That bf of his is mad as a hatter. I met him once and could hear the time bombs of both temper and meltdown ticking.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | July 14, 2015 5:54 PM |
Why all of these comments about barebacking and raw cocks? I don't think he's ever done a bareback video.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | July 14, 2015 6:36 PM |
He hasn't on tape, but all the pornies bare-fuck off-screen.
Caber's also into all sorts of kink on-screen and off-screen. The kink.com Men on Edge stuff is more than you Prudy McSour bitches could ever stand to watch.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | July 14, 2015 6:47 PM |
[quote]He's a talented musician.
It's a shame how talented musicians must do porn today to make a living.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | July 14, 2015 7:00 PM |
He picked it up later in life, when he did some model I in his thirties it was suggested and he beefed up and then went for it, all after the age of forty. As I stated up thread, I've encountered him at choral gigs in the NYC, he's got a nice voice, nothing stellar, but he's got incredible low notes, something valued in a lot of choirs
by Anonymous | reply 40 | July 14, 2015 9:04 PM |
Yeah, he'd fit with the chorus queen crowd.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | July 14, 2015 11:46 PM |
But he loves tuba and composition, so he's always been an odd duck
by Anonymous | reply 42 | July 15, 2015 1:18 AM |
He's a very boring cocksucker, at least on screen. A little bit pathetic at his age.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | July 15, 2015 1:41 AM |
When he and his husband used to post videos on their blog they fucked with condoms which seems odd if they had safe sex with everyone else.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | July 15, 2015 1:56 AM |
They do things like that, they are both on Prep too
by Anonymous | reply 45 | July 15, 2015 3:19 AM |
I love to watch his Kink.com submissive stuff. He's very good at getting things shoved up inside him, and hanging bound with a bouncing hard boner.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | July 15, 2015 8:14 PM |
He's reall been into the kink scene for a while.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | July 15, 2015 11:50 PM |
Does Prep give you wasted face cause Dirk looks rough.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | July 16, 2015 2:56 AM |
he looks pretty good to me
by Anonymous | reply 49 | July 16, 2015 12:29 PM |
the video on menatplay where he is the school principal and he and another teacher have a go at Darrius something is super hot.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | July 16, 2015 3:01 PM |
he's really into the sex
by Anonymous | reply 51 | July 16, 2015 4:00 PM |
He's really into a lot of stuff it would seem.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | July 16, 2015 5:13 PM |
I'd like to see him get blown while tooting on his sousaphone.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | July 16, 2015 6:10 PM |
He's probably done it, crazy cat
by Anonymous | reply 54 | July 16, 2015 6:37 PM |
He's probably tried shoving it up his ass too R53. lol
by Anonymous | reply 55 | July 16, 2015 8:40 PM |
maybe a smaller horn
by Anonymous | reply 56 | July 16, 2015 9:57 PM |
I'm having disturbing visions involving Chico Marx now.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | July 17, 2015 12:21 PM |
I think he's into that
by Anonymous | reply 58 | July 17, 2015 1:57 PM |
I'm sure he's had the entire brass section up there by now.lol
by Anonymous | reply 59 | July 20, 2015 12:37 AM |
I follow them both on FB and the unwarranted pretension is utterly Amazing!
by Anonymous | reply 60 | July 20, 2015 12:51 AM |
Speaking of self aggrandizement , anyone here follow "comedian" muscle bear Peter C Bisuito on Facebook?
by Anonymous | reply 61 | July 20, 2015 12:57 AM |
He stated on his blog that he doesn't work with Michael Lucas anymore since they started doing bareback so I am not sure why people are assuming he bare backs. I like him cause he really seems to enjoy what he's doing in his scenes.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | July 20, 2015 1:16 AM |
As an old friend I can say that he's really funny and very nice.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | July 20, 2015 1:52 AM |
46?! Going on 65. Jesus Christ, he looks fucking horrible for 46. Meth, roids, and Truvada will apparently do that to a girl.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | July 20, 2015 3:01 AM |
He looks good for his age, have you ever actually Met someone over forty?
by Anonymous | reply 65 | July 20, 2015 3:09 AM |
A lot of innuendo based on nothing and people claiming he lives in SF, when he's always lived in Chicago or somewhere on the East Coast. If he and the bf seem so pretentious why follow them? His writing is pretty thoughtful, as opposed to say the truly ridiculous but often admired like Aiden Shaw or Matt Gunther (I recall reading some of his poetry--it was hilariously bad). Is the problem that he quotes Bach or the bf quotes Virgil?
I've come across some of his compositions--actually quite good.
The bf seems like an underachiever--his mom is very accomplished basic scientist. He's some sort of techie.
My guess is that the kink and bodywork is because he was a chubby nerd who played the tuba for a long time. If you've been fat you don't want to be again and it can distort your body image.. He looks fine for mid-40s.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | July 20, 2015 3:55 AM |
Porn stars have personalities now?
by Anonymous | reply 67 | July 20, 2015 4:06 AM |
[quote]My guess is that the kink and bodywork is because he was a chubby nerd who played the tuba for a long time.
totally, I knew him from musical festivals as a college student (he was at peabody) and he was an affable, long-haired, slightly-chunky stoner. and I recall that he sang as well as played tuba, that was the part that stood out, not his looks per se. I didn't know he was gay then. Subsequently when we've met later in life we have only discussed shop talk, music this or that. I haven't been able to ask the question, "so, why?" but he seems totally happy with it, so go for it!
by Anonymous | reply 68 | July 20, 2015 1:39 PM |
I follow them because I enjoy porn stars trying to act/appear like they're normal well adjusted people when their choice of profession as well as there off screen behavior demonstrates over and over that they aren't.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | July 20, 2015 4:37 PM |
their behavior...sorry grammar mavens.lol
by Anonymous | reply 70 | July 20, 2015 4:38 PM |
R69, since I personally know him, not you but through the filter of social media, I can say that he does surprise lying normal things, even on a daily basis. Sorry if that's hard for you to imagine.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | July 20, 2015 4:56 PM |
I likeporn stars with personality.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | July 20, 2015 4:58 PM |
Yes because nothing says normal like getting gangbanged by a group of your coworkers on stage in a crowded nightclub. Are you a fellow performer R71? Just wondering since all that seems so normal to you.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | July 20, 2015 8:10 PM |
HE looks like every other middle-aged porn star. How can you tell them apart?
by Anonymous | reply 74 | July 20, 2015 8:46 PM |
"I've come across some of his compositions"
Is that what they're calling it now?
by Anonymous | reply 75 | July 20, 2015 9:00 PM |
R72, they have Flavvah!! I Like that
by Anonymous | reply 76 | July 20, 2015 10:39 PM |
[quote] you a fellow performer [R71]? Just wondering since all that seems so normal to you.
If by 'performer' you mean a musician, yes, I am. We did a well-known music festival together long ago, and shared a flat with others. Subsequently the fates realigned for.us to do a recording together about five years ago, it was nice to catch up with him. He seems very happy and loves his partner. I can't think of anything salacious to say, but those parts you've clearly already covered, right?
by Anonymous | reply 77 | July 20, 2015 10:42 PM |
[quote]Is that what they're calling it now?
By profession he calls himself a composer, the pron is a side gig, as it should be. Go to his website and you can hear what he writes.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | July 20, 2015 10:43 PM |
The kink.com Men on Edge stuff is more than you Prudy McSour bitches could ever stand to watch.
OooooOOOOooooh, Mary, we [italic]are[/italic] just as butch as can be, aren't we?
by Anonymous | reply 79 | July 20, 2015 10:44 PM |
We are butch
by Anonymous | reply 80 | July 21, 2015 12:30 AM |
Whatever he claims to be he'll always be known first and foremost as a porn performer, that's just how life works. If he aspired to be more he let his libido and need for attention/adoration ruin his chances.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | July 21, 2015 1:44 PM |
[quote]that's just how life works
he had a WHOLE career before he ever became "dirk". you do realize that is a huge advantage to having a porn name. no, many people only know him professionally as a musician, you just don't happen to be one of them.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | July 21, 2015 1:59 PM |
STI petri dish with legs
by Anonymous | reply 83 | July 21, 2015 2:02 PM |
possibly, but only his doctor would know that for sure
by Anonymous | reply 84 | July 21, 2015 2:07 PM |
Yeah now he's Dirk to those who knew him as a legitimate musician...big win for him!
by Anonymous | reply 85 | July 21, 2015 2:24 PM |
[quote] no, many people only know him professionally as a musician, you just don't happen to be one of them.
You're really bringing out the big guns shade-wise now!
by Anonymous | reply 86 | July 21, 2015 5:54 PM |
He performs with a lesbian/gay marching band, which is nerd-cool.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | July 21, 2015 7:25 PM |
R86, which is to say his associates and life don't matter? and you've contributed to society beneficially how? he is actually someone I know, it's not like he is a "Celebrity" you queens endlessly natter on about. He's always be a musician, will be long after he retires from porn, which as we know is inevitable. What's you problem with that?
by Anonymous | reply 88 | July 21, 2015 10:56 PM |
and don't underestimate the power of a sousaphone!
by Anonymous | reply 89 | July 21, 2015 10:59 PM |
He's a whore darlin' doesn't matter what the horn he's playing is made of.lol
by Anonymous | reply 90 | July 22, 2015 12:39 AM |
in that sense we are all whores.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | July 22, 2015 1:08 AM |
Or we all love it
by Anonymous | reply 92 | July 22, 2015 1:22 AM |
At least he has something to do once his porn/escort career is over. A lot of them are people who can't do anything else like Christopher Daniels.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | July 24, 2015 8:22 PM |
He's still got his "day job".
by Anonymous | reply 94 | July 24, 2015 11:46 PM |
Is anyone really going to take him seriously in his day job after he's been seen being gangbanged on the street at a fetish festival?
by Anonymous | reply 95 | July 25, 2015 2:16 AM |
Blanche: This is strictly off the record, but Dirk's nearly five years younger than I am.
Dorothy: In what, Blanche? Dog years?
by Anonymous | reply 96 | July 25, 2015 3:28 AM |
There's nothing worse than a pretentious porn star!
by Anonymous | reply 97 | July 25, 2015 3:45 AM |
R95, yeah, people do, in music we aren't so fucking up tight.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | July 25, 2015 12:09 PM |
The problem with "porn star trols" seems to be that they don't have day jobs or at least don't have anything better to do besides get moralistic or spread rumors like that "Blake Harper is bi" idiot.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | July 25, 2015 2:17 PM |
"Dirk" is a super nice, very funny guy, he's very smart and well, seems to like kinky sex. that's not unheard of, his choice to get filmed on camera professionally is his choice alone, those thinking he is tedious or pretentious probably don't personally know him. he's a very down-to-earth guy with a great sense of humor.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | July 25, 2015 2:30 PM |
R88 [quote]He's always be a musician, will be long after he retires from porn
No. He'll always be a guy who does porn.
Today, no one really retires from doing porn.
On the internet, the videos of him giving head and getting fucked will live on and on and on.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | July 25, 2015 2:35 PM |
I love all the posts from people who actually know him. Maybe they're all b.s. But it's nice to think one of my fantasies is actually a nice, cool person IRL.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | July 25, 2015 3:41 PM |
[quote]Is anyone really going to take him seriously in his day job after he's been seen being gangbanged on the street at a fetish festival?
His "day job" is musician, not "Supreme Court Justice" or "neurosurgeon," you pearl-clutching ninny. Artists and musicians tend to be less uptight and judgmental.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | July 25, 2015 3:43 PM |
[quote]No. He'll always be a guy who does porn.Today, no one really retires from doing porn.
that's not strictly speaking true. HUNDREDS of guys do porn, leave, and never turn back. no one harasses them about it. "dirk" is doing it only because he likes to, when he's through, he's through.
and again, I'm in his line of work, having a pron past isn't a huge impediment for being a musician, and none for being a composer.
R102, we did a music festival a long time ago, our contact subsequently is mainly on face book and at the rare gig. he seems TOTALLY happy with his life choices.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | July 25, 2015 3:58 PM |
We'll see how cool and open the music community is when he tries applying for work outside his little gay ghetto.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | July 26, 2015 4:21 PM |
he TOTALLY WORKS OUTSIDE OF THE GHETTO, SILLY! you're a fool! the people we are mutual friends with on Facebook are all straight college music professors!
by Anonymous | reply 106 | July 26, 2015 6:07 PM |
He does audiobook narration, too. That thick sexy voice. mmm.
by Anonymous | reply 107 | July 29, 2015 8:48 PM |
He's so famous i've never heard of this guy. Guess TMZ doesn't cover him
by Anonymous | reply 108 | July 30, 2015 12:36 AM |
It doesn't, because they don't do classical music composers, now do they?
by Anonymous | reply 109 | July 30, 2015 2:59 AM |
He gets plenty of coverage...it's just in random guys splooge.lol
by Anonymous | reply 110 | July 30, 2015 10:25 PM |
So where is this talented musician performing at the moment?
Could someone tell us about the venues he's played at, over the last few years?
by Anonymous | reply 111 | July 30, 2015 10:33 PM |
And those "audio books", could we have some titles please?
by Anonymous | reply 112 | July 30, 2015 10:36 PM |
I like him a lot--he's very handsome, has a great voice, and a fantastic tight body. I wish only that he didn't always have to play the pervy guy convincing his stepson or a homeless kid to fuck him--he is asked to play that too much, so his videos (especially for men.com) seem a little too much the same. But he is one of the best stars in porn in the last 20 years.
by Anonymous | reply 113 | July 30, 2015 11:13 PM |
R111, he did a thing with Pomeranium in NYC last season, but further than that, I can't say.
And, pray tell, where did you study flute? New England conservatory? Indiana university? I'd love to know
by Anonymous | reply 114 | July 31, 2015 12:24 AM |
Are Dirk and his boyfriend bisexuals? Are they tag-teaming girls together or separately when the gays aren't looking?
by Anonymous | reply 115 | July 31, 2015 1:01 AM |
no, gay as the day is long, both
by Anonymous | reply 116 | July 31, 2015 2:15 AM |
"Musician" does not always equal famous. Some of you are laughably small-minded.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | July 31, 2015 2:43 AM |
Musician is a job, he works as a composer, so it's quiet at home work, like a writer. It's what he went to school for, that is what his "day job " is.
by Anonymous | reply 118 | July 31, 2015 2:53 AM |
The professional musicians I've known often have had multiple jobs or done unglamorous things like weddings to make enough to spend at least some time doing what they enjoy.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | July 31, 2015 2:58 AM |
Yup.
by Anonymous | reply 120 | July 31, 2015 3:37 AM |
Looks more like he's a professional porn star who dabbles in music on the side going by the constant video shoots and travelling sex shows he's does. Are he and his "husband" still begging for money to buy him a piano?
by Anonymous | reply 121 | July 31, 2015 8:17 AM |
Why is husband in quotes? Homophobe much? Cunt.
by Anonymous | reply 122 | July 31, 2015 10:53 AM |
They got the piano, there are short videos of him playing it, he seems like he's practiced a lot since the old days, he plays a lot better than I do, that's for sure. I was never much of a pianist.
And, r121, composing or arranging is a quiet occupation you can do at moments not set in a schedule, like writing. You seem to have a very rigid view of how a weekly work schedule might be constructed.
by Anonymous | reply 123 | July 31, 2015 2:05 PM |
There's at least one poster on this thread who's very fixated and obsessed with tearing Dirk Caber down. What a sad little crusade to obsess over.
by Anonymous | reply 124 | July 31, 2015 4:49 PM |
r124, why not just hit the "ignore" button then?
by Anonymous | reply 125 | July 31, 2015 4:50 PM |
Why is he doing all the creepy dad/stepdad videos now? Do the producers know something his fans don't?
by Anonymous | reply 126 | August 1, 2015 2:02 AM |
No, he's just type cast. He's clearly older, and has a low voice, voila, he's the Pervy uncle character.
by Anonymous | reply 127 | August 1, 2015 2:15 AM |
Lets be honest he was a bit on the creepy side from the get go.
by Anonymous | reply 128 | August 1, 2015 7:22 AM |
Not really. You're just jealous because he's a well developed middle aged guy who gets lots fucks. And when his porn career is over, he has other things to do with his life and he'll still be a well-developed guy who gets lots of fucks.
by Anonymous | reply 129 | August 1, 2015 12:24 PM |
Pretty much, sour grapes here
by Anonymous | reply 130 | August 1, 2015 12:27 PM |
Isn't he into really,really hardcore BDSM?
by Anonymous | reply 131 | August 1, 2015 6:42 PM |
I wish he would've uploaded some of their bareback videos... :(
And Billy Santoro has ALWAYS fucked BAREBACK. He ONLY fucks BAREBACK off camera. ONLY. He's also going to launch his own website.... apparently.
by Anonymous | reply 132 | August 1, 2015 7:48 PM |
he is into kink, that is a fact.
by Anonymous | reply 133 | August 1, 2015 8:55 PM |
Billy Santoro is gross, All his preaching about not doing bareback porn and now suddenly he's breeding and seeding guys online all over the fucking place. I'm guessing he got some bad news recently.
by Anonymous | reply 134 | August 2, 2015 1:58 AM |
Actually Santoro is making condom videos. He seems like someone having a more fucked up midlife crisis than Caber.
by Anonymous | reply 135 | August 2, 2015 2:35 AM |
He makes condom videos in his "pro" work but he's been posting videos on Twitter and other places of him cream pieing random guys.
by Anonymous | reply 136 | August 2, 2015 2:38 AM |
I've read interviews where it's sadly obvious that Billy has a wide variety of issues.
by Anonymous | reply 137 | August 2, 2015 2:40 AM |
All I saw was the usual shots from his porn. His "website" is just aebn subsite, although it does have a grainy amateur video. The Santoros have opinions about everything, usually laughable. They're not exactly Einstein's although the boytoy wants to go to college.
by Anonymous | reply 138 | August 2, 2015 2:45 AM |
The boytoy is a bb bottom as well or at least was.
by Anonymous | reply 139 | August 2, 2015 2:50 AM |
The boytoy used to be a bartender at Cobalt. He likes attention. I guess that's why he left the military.
by Anonymous | reply 140 | August 2, 2015 1:52 PM |
Billy Santoro was praising Chi Chi for going to rehab. BS is in "recovery" as well and Larry gave him a telephone call of encouragement when he was detoxing or whatever.
He still seems crazy.
by Anonymous | reply 141 | August 2, 2015 2:39 PM |
Ahem. . .
by Anonymous | reply 142 | August 2, 2015 3:27 PM |
I want Dirk Caber to do pushups into my ass. Is that so wrong?
by Anonymous | reply 143 | August 2, 2015 3:33 PM |
he'd do it
by Anonymous | reply 144 | August 2, 2015 3:44 PM |
Dirk Caber will apparently do anything...or anyone R143 so you definitely have a shot. Also Billy Santoro with his creepy veneers is a hypocritical freak show of a human being.
by Anonymous | reply 145 | August 2, 2015 7:34 PM |
Santoro must have gotten the veneers at some discount dental place. He looks ridiculous. De must know, because recent pics seem to have his mouth closed.
by Anonymous | reply 146 | August 2, 2015 9:22 PM |
He can close his mouth?
by Anonymous | reply 147 | August 2, 2015 9:36 PM |
Uh, ladies, billy has his own thread, mkay?
by Anonymous | reply 148 | August 3, 2015 12:39 AM |
Is it true Caber likes to have his prostate punched by a mighty fist now and then?
by Anonymous | reply 149 | August 4, 2015 9:20 AM |
Not on film
by Anonymous | reply 150 | August 4, 2015 2:08 PM |
I'm sure he's done it at one of the many kink fairs/parties he's always attending.
by Anonymous | reply 151 | August 4, 2015 2:11 PM |
he just did a bunch of flogging at Dore alley.
by Anonymous | reply 152 | August 4, 2015 2:42 PM |
I compose as a hobby and all I can say is, "God Bless Him."
I will admit to a bit of cognitive dissonance seeing the nude photoshoot with the sousaphone, though.
Its funny what you learn about people...I've always only known him as one of the people in those ads that repeat over and over every 7 seconds for Icon Male or whatever that are forced upon me whenever I visit any kind of gay site.
by Anonymous | reply 153 | August 4, 2015 3:06 PM |
he's got it all
by Anonymous | reply 154 | August 4, 2015 4:35 PM |
If not all I'm sure he has something at this point.lol
by Anonymous | reply 155 | August 4, 2015 10:27 PM |
He shares his (real) surname with a famous country diva. Any idea if they're related?
by Anonymous | reply 156 | August 4, 2015 10:48 PM |
Not that I'm aware of, he's not southern for example.
by Anonymous | reply 157 | August 4, 2015 11:31 PM |
He's from New England. Her people are from the hollows of Tennessee, probably no connection.
by Anonymous | reply 158 | August 5, 2015 1:46 AM |
I just came to a scene of Dirk Caber with Jarec Wentworth and Tom Faulk - so fucking hot!
by Anonymous | reply 159 | August 5, 2015 5:31 PM |
I just came thinking about it
by Anonymous | reply 160 | August 5, 2015 5:34 PM |
Hi Dirk,What kept you?
by Anonymous | reply 161 | August 5, 2015 6:05 PM |
he was busy - composing!
by Anonymous | reply 162 | August 5, 2015 6:34 PM |
Or getting fisted
by Anonymous | reply 163 | August 5, 2015 9:27 PM |
or both!
by Anonymous | reply 164 | August 5, 2015 9:39 PM |
Now that's talent!LOL
by Anonymous | reply 165 | August 5, 2015 9:40 PM |
R162 It's titled "Intermezzo for Contrabass Dildo and Chamber Orchestra." It'll premier this October at Carnegie Hall, conducted by Johnny Rapid. Book your tickets now!
by Anonymous | reply 166 | August 5, 2015 9:48 PM |
He has a dirty dark secret for Muzak
by Anonymous | reply 167 | August 5, 2015 10:47 PM |
I'm sure that's not the only dark and dirty secret he has.lol
by Anonymous | reply 168 | August 7, 2015 5:31 AM |
He's pretty open about most things.
by Anonymous | reply 169 | August 7, 2015 11:37 AM |
[quote]He's so famous i've never heard of this guy. Guess TMZ doesn't cover him
They would if he was Harvey Levin's type.
by Anonymous | reply 170 | August 7, 2015 1:11 PM |
Oh from what I've heard he's very "open"...very often.lol
by Anonymous | reply 171 | August 7, 2015 5:19 PM |
Open it up
by Anonymous | reply 172 | August 7, 2015 5:56 PM |
I tell you, Dirk Caber looks an awful lot like that one guy on USA's "Suits"... doesn't he? That evil bastard with the beard? The actor's name is John Pyper-Ferguson, the character's name is Jack Soloff.
by Anonymous | reply 173 | August 7, 2015 7:45 PM |
John Pyper-Ferg is HOT
by Anonymous | reply 174 | August 7, 2015 8:25 PM |
Dirk Caber has a small cock. Give me David Anthony.
by Anonymous | reply 175 | November 9, 2015 3:42 AM |
Both he and his husband somehow manage to be both sleazy and incredibly boring.
by Anonymous | reply 176 | November 9, 2015 4:06 AM |
I work at high levels in the classical music world. He is a minor leaguer by any standards, and the moment this is discovered, what few gigs he had will dry up quickly. Despite what some morons up thread said, the classical music world is primarily run by uptight, conservative gay men, and they immediately shut this sort of behavior down.
We rely on the largesse of extremely rich society matrons and major corporations, and they do not want to be tied to any sort of porn, much less gay kink fetish porn.
This is fact, not opinion.
by Anonymous | reply 177 | November 9, 2015 10:37 AM |
I saw a photo of him online naked in bed with bareback porn star Scotty Rage and his condom shaming boyfriend Charlie Harding so he may not play as safely as he claims to.
by Anonymous | reply 178 | November 9, 2015 2:15 PM |
Judging by their friends in SF, they're part of a methy, methy BB crowd that's high on looks and low on IQ.
by Anonymous | reply 179 | November 9, 2015 3:25 PM |
Met him recently at a gallery. He is a bright guy and contrary to the above , he seems to be making more of his living from music these days. He's a definite music geek, but in a way that made for some interesting conversation.. Like most porn guys, he adds an inch or two to his stated height. He looked good--a reasonable mid-40s.
by Anonymous | reply 180 | November 22, 2015 8:29 PM |
[quote]he seems to be making more of his living from music these days.
he just finally finished his degree that he started twenty years ago. now matriculated I believe he's teaching somewhere.
by Anonymous | reply 181 | December 6, 2015 3:01 AM |
What does Jesse Jackman do for work outside of porn?
by Anonymous | reply 182 | December 6, 2015 7:00 AM |
he's a language dude, french linguistics, but his day job is something less fancy
by Anonymous | reply 183 | December 6, 2015 4:43 PM |
He sounds tiresome like his husband.
by Anonymous | reply 184 | December 6, 2015 10:05 PM |
they are both super cute
by Anonymous | reply 185 | December 7, 2015 4:45 AM |
He's clearly got some friends here at DL. Or he's posting here himself.
by Anonymous | reply 186 | December 7, 2015 6:19 AM |
I'm a friend
by Anonymous | reply 187 | December 8, 2015 3:14 AM |
not just a friend, but a one-man Dirk Caber PR firm.
by Anonymous | reply 188 | December 8, 2015 3:34 AM |
He sings pretty too
by Anonymous | reply 189 | December 8, 2015 3:48 AM |
R187 Are they monogamous in real life ? And how old are they ?
by Anonymous | reply 190 | December 8, 2015 3:52 AM |
they are both mid forties.
I wouldn't call them monogamous, but they define their relationship as such. they are totally crazy about each other, but have quick tricks outside of the home every once in a while.
by Anonymous | reply 191 | December 8, 2015 2:10 PM |
R191 Thanks for that. I've seen them once in a live sex show.
by Anonymous | reply 192 | December 8, 2015 7:12 PM |
They fuck all their "friends" so they're far from a monogamous couple by any stretch of the word.
by Anonymous | reply 193 | December 9, 2015 12:49 AM |
There's a photo of him in bed with poz cum dumpster Scotty Rage and his sleazy husband Charlie Harding where they've either just had sex or are getting ready to and there are no condoms to be seen.
by Anonymous | reply 194 | December 20, 2015 10:58 PM |
I would hardly expect a porn star to be monogamous. They have sex with strangers for a living.
by Anonymous | reply 195 | December 20, 2015 11:01 PM |
His husband Jesse Jackman is apparently working non stop now and is fucking or getting fucked by pretty much every guy at Titan.
by Anonymous | reply 196 | December 21, 2015 2:42 AM |
Is Titan still around? Is Joe Gage (married to a woman, with kids) still directing incest porn over there?
by Anonymous | reply 197 | December 21, 2015 3:00 AM |
Everything is directed by Jasun Mark now.
by Anonymous | reply 198 | December 21, 2015 3:03 AM |
He has a small cock.
by Anonymous | reply 199 | December 21, 2015 3:05 AM |
Didn't he do a scene himself awhile back?
by Anonymous | reply 200 | December 21, 2015 3:06 AM |
Colby Jansen fucks a big load out of Dirk Caber. My favorite scene from Dirk.
by Anonymous | reply 201 | December 21, 2015 3:13 AM |
Flabby Colby.
by Anonymous | reply 202 | December 21, 2015 3:16 AM |
Colby should be ashamed. He's a good 15 years younger than Dirk and looks like he hasn't seen a gym in a decade. Tubs should be doing chubby porn.
by Anonymous | reply 203 | December 21, 2015 3:19 AM |
[quote] His husband Jesse Jackman is apparently working non stop now and is fucking or getting fucked by pretty much every guy at Titan.
How proud his mother must be!
by Anonymous | reply 204 | December 21, 2015 4:11 AM |
At least they've never done bareback (at least on video.)
by Anonymous | reply 205 | December 21, 2015 4:41 AM |
R205 You mean they should at least have done bareback.
by Anonymous | reply 206 | December 21, 2015 5:02 AM |
I suspect they're part of the Truvada army in real life considering how many bareback porn stars they pal aka fuck around with.
by Anonymous | reply 207 | December 21, 2015 3:48 PM |
What's wrong with Jesse Jackman's cock?
by Anonymous | reply 208 | December 21, 2015 8:33 PM |
R203, if that's what chubby looks like to you, you must live in a very fit world. That doesn't come close to "real world" chubby.
by Anonymous | reply 209 | December 21, 2015 8:50 PM |
Fixed it:
"...you must live in a very anorexic and deranged world."
by Anonymous | reply 210 | December 21, 2015 9:02 PM |
[quote]What's wrong with Jesse Jackman's cock?
I keep hearing this spoken the same way that Gloria Upson says "What's WRONG with Muriel Puce?"
by Anonymous | reply 211 | December 21, 2015 9:21 PM |
[quote]What's wrong with Jesse Jackman's cock?
He has some sort of condition (Peyronie's disease) where his cock curves down instead of up when it's erect.
by Anonymous | reply 213 | December 22, 2015 2:44 AM |
y'all bitches are PRESSED
by Anonymous | reply 214 | December 22, 2015 2:49 AM |
We're just not hep to your with-it ghetto slang, r214.
by Anonymous | reply 215 | December 22, 2015 2:54 AM |
I love his beard
by Anonymous | reply 216 | December 22, 2015 3:23 AM |
Charlie Harding and his partner are both gross.
by Anonymous | reply 217 | December 22, 2015 7:20 PM |
id grope them at the eagle though.
by Anonymous | reply 218 | December 22, 2015 7:24 PM |
I'd advise wearing gloves R218.lol
by Anonymous | reply 219 | December 22, 2015 8:09 PM |
Leather - and a riding crop
by Anonymous | reply 220 | December 22, 2015 11:52 PM |
He's a cesspool of disease
by Anonymous | reply 221 | December 23, 2015 11:47 AM |
he's got lots of muscles
by Anonymous | reply 222 | December 23, 2015 1:15 PM |
I wonder why Jesse is suddenly working so much, I wonder if one of them is getting ready to lose his real world job.
by Anonymous | reply 223 | December 27, 2015 2:02 PM |
they both love to have fun
by Anonymous | reply 224 | December 27, 2015 3:43 PM |
They both seem like sexual compulsives that need everyone including their families(ewww)to know what they do on and off camera.
by Anonymous | reply 225 | December 28, 2015 7:15 PM |
Sex with Colby Keller is hot, nice, and memorable. Sex with Dirk Caber is dull, and consists of him looking for a mirror to see his own reflection or an audience.
by Anonymous | reply 226 | December 28, 2015 7:20 PM |
His creepy laugh is highly off putting to.
by Anonymous | reply 227 | December 28, 2015 7:22 PM |
"His creepy laugh is highly off putting to. "
Off putting to where? A golf course?
You're an illiterate shit with no rights to criticize anyone.
by Anonymous | reply 228 | December 28, 2015 9:49 PM |
Hi Dirk and or Jesse at R228.
by Anonymous | reply 229 | December 28, 2015 9:56 PM |
they fuck each other
by Anonymous | reply 230 | December 29, 2015 2:04 AM |
That duckface cunt Michael Lucas is all over this thread with the Caber hate.
by Anonymous | reply 231 | December 29, 2015 1:09 PM |
He is really ugly and gross, no wonder I never heard of him.
by Anonymous | reply 232 | December 29, 2015 1:37 PM |
he's handsome and sings pretty
by Anonymous | reply 233 | December 29, 2015 3:31 PM |
The fact that he fucks around with the likes of Scotty Rage and Charlie Harding really shows what kind of person he is in real life.
by Anonymous | reply 234 | December 29, 2015 6:34 PM |
he loves the night life
by Anonymous | reply 235 | December 29, 2015 6:42 PM |
Do you think he's let his porn buddies fist him on that new piano he begged his fans for yet?
by Anonymous | reply 236 | December 29, 2015 11:18 PM |
they put a cover over it first.
by Anonymous | reply 237 | December 30, 2015 1:23 AM |
No doubt they use a tarp with a big Titan logo on it.
by Anonymous | reply 238 | December 30, 2015 3:33 AM |
Weren't there rumors about Jesse and Dirk dabbling in bareback porn?
by Anonymous | reply 239 | January 8, 2016 7:17 AM |
Did anyone see the performance art piece Jesse just posted on Facebook of Dirk putting a guy in bondage as he plays the piano?
by Anonymous | reply 240 | January 9, 2016 12:00 AM |
nope
by Anonymous | reply 241 | January 10, 2016 1:45 AM |
It's not gonna happy Dirk so give it up and stick to porn.
by Anonymous | reply 243 | January 10, 2016 3:15 AM |
So Dirk can't even make music without working sex into it now...seems like he has a problem.
by Anonymous | reply 244 | January 10, 2016 11:48 AM |
happy dirk, has a happy dick
by Anonymous | reply 245 | January 10, 2016 3:25 PM |
The bondage piano act was the idea of the other guy, gay pianist Adam Tendler, who is a very nice fellow, and a very good musician. He was just doing a fun stunt-art performance piece with Caber.
Tendler also wrote a very interesting book about touring the U.S. The ebook has music links to the pieces he mentions, too.
by Anonymous | reply 246 | January 10, 2016 5:10 PM |
Hi Adam.lol
by Anonymous | reply 247 | January 10, 2016 7:04 PM |
I get the impression that behind closed doors Dirk gets into some highly twisted shit.
by Anonymous | reply 248 | January 10, 2016 8:53 PM |
Pron Bump.
by Anonymous | reply 249 | January 15, 2016 6:08 AM |
Sigh. There are always cunty pearl clutching Marys on here who have to shit all over ANYTHING porn related. They cling to tired old stereotypes about porn stars. (While jacking off to their videos every chance they get.)
Not all porn stars have drug issues, or escort, or have AIDS, or have STDs, or bareback, or are social pariahs because they have "ruined their lives" by doing porn. Many people do porn for the 'fun' of it and have regular jobs and lives outside of it. The smart ones do it for the "shits and giggles" for a couple years and save their money (if they need it) and get out to do other things. I know ex porn stars who are computer programmers and accountants. It's not 1988 and not all porn performers are drugged out sex addict con artists. (Though, those still exist, too, sadly.)
by Anonymous | reply 250 | January 15, 2016 8:39 AM |
The longer they stay in the business the more extreme they become. Sadly most of the porn stars I enjoyed when I first started watching have migrated to fetish or bareback porn.
by Anonymous | reply 251 | January 15, 2016 2:45 PM |
dirk has some quirks
by Anonymous | reply 252 | January 15, 2016 2:46 PM |
Considering most of the models that Dirk works with do bareback on the side, he may end up with more than quirks if he's not careful.
by Anonymous | reply 253 | January 15, 2016 2:49 PM |
Here's what the loving couple has been up to.
by Anonymous | reply 254 | January 15, 2016 2:57 PM |
i LOVE it
by Anonymous | reply 255 | January 15, 2016 3:13 PM |
My browser won't connect to the page for some reason.
by Anonymous | reply 256 | January 15, 2016 3:15 PM |
That video proves their safe sexy message is bullshit.
by Anonymous | reply 257 | January 15, 2016 3:45 PM |
Nothing says safety like a guy covered in biohazard tattoos sticking his raw dick in a line of sweaty methed out bottoms in front of a crowd.
by Anonymous | reply 258 | January 15, 2016 4:17 PM |
Somebody on his FB page mentioned the unsafe sex in the video and a couple of Jesse's fans immediately jumped on them as being judgmental and part of the condom police.lol
by Anonymous | reply 259 | January 15, 2016 5:48 PM |
R258 I'm pretty sure the bottoms already have HIV so why not?
by Anonymous | reply 260 | January 15, 2016 7:16 PM |
Did you see the video? These weren't even hot guys, just poz burnouts swapping loads in front of a bunch of cheering ghouls.
by Anonymous | reply 261 | January 15, 2016 8:06 PM |
So much HIV-phobia on this site.
by Anonymous | reply 262 | February 2, 2016 4:32 PM |
He likes SEX!! That's BAD[bold] AND[/bold] DIRTY! He probably has a SEX DISEASE like AIDS! Mother would not approve!
by Anonymous | reply 263 | February 2, 2016 5:18 PM |
Tsk tsk.
by Anonymous | reply 264 | February 2, 2016 5:20 PM |
What was the verdict from the "They're all secretly bisexual!" Troll?
by Anonymous | reply 265 | February 14, 2016 6:17 PM |
Has anyone seen the video from I think Folsom where all the porn stars are playing Twister? Most are wearing underwear or jock straps but there's Dirk being classy as fuck buck naked and pulling his ass cheeks apart so the crowd can get a good look at his busted hole.
by Anonymous | reply 266 | July 2, 2016 6:04 AM |
Only on Datalounge would having hesitations about someone being whipped in a sling before a live audience be construed as prudery.
by Anonymous | reply 267 | July 2, 2016 7:12 AM |
R266 Link, please?
by Anonymous | reply 268 | July 2, 2016 6:04 PM |
his real Facebook profile under his real name is getting spammed and pushed really bad right now. I feel bad for him
by Anonymous | reply 269 | July 2, 2016 6:27 PM |
I'm not sure where I saw the photo R268, I think it was on Tumbler.
by Anonymous | reply 270 | July 2, 2016 10:56 PM |
His name is Jack Parton. It's not any sort of mystery. He's barely on the fringes of the classical world. He's a hobbyist. Not taken seriously. His real job is porn whore.
by Anonymous | reply 271 | July 3, 2016 1:20 PM |
I follow Jesse on Facebook and it seems like they're rarely together, it sounds like Dirk is always away shooting porn or doing live sex shows.
by Anonymous | reply 272 | July 21, 2016 1:15 PM |
Gross.
by Anonymous | reply 273 | July 22, 2016 7:52 PM |
Anyone else notice almost all of the plots to Dirk's videos feature him having sex with his "sons" or pimping out his sons to other people?
by Anonymous | reply 274 | September 10, 2016 6:29 AM |
Jesse Jackman posted this weird message on Facebook about how he missed Dirk and how they deserved each other so something seems to be going on in their relationship.
by Anonymous | reply 275 | September 11, 2016 10:06 PM |
I'd like him to sit on my cock while he plays the piano. It would be fun.
by Anonymous | reply 276 | September 12, 2016 4:59 PM |
He moved on to fists long ago R276.
by Anonymous | reply 277 | September 12, 2016 6:56 PM |
This Obama-era thread is from 2015 and Dirk's STILL going strong 2 Presidents later.
I recently a Michael Lucas scene with Dirk and Andre Donovan and it was blazingly hot. Dirk even bottomed for Andre's huge dick, which must not have been easy.
Seriously - Is any porn "Daddy" aging as well as Dirk Caber?
I know Dirk is on Twitter but what is he really up to these days? Has he been vaccinated?
by Anonymous | reply 278 | April 22, 2021 4:31 AM |
He did an Onlyfans with human petri dish Adam Russo a few years back and he looked and sounded genuinely insane!
by Anonymous | reply 279 | April 22, 2021 5:06 AM |
Hi Dirk at R278!
by Anonymous | reply 280 | April 22, 2021 5:10 AM |
Don’t post a picture of him or anything so we know who you’re talking about, OP. That would just be crazy.
by Anonymous | reply 281 | April 22, 2021 5:11 AM |