Have you met a straight dude curious about gay sex?

Yeah. Several actually. Actually fooled around with a few of them. They're all happy with wives now.

We are not obsessed with straight guys op. You are projecting.

yes, but since they want to have sex with another guy, they're obviously not straight - they're closeted.

there's no such thing as a "straight" man who has sex with other men. he would be gay or bisexual.

end of story.

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R3 apparently has never heard of bisexual, curious, etc.

[quote] apparently has never heard of bisexual, curious, etc.

I actually said they're either gay or BI, R4. Pay attention.

And there's no "curious." If they're curious about anything, they're curious about their innate desire to have sex with another man. Which makes them gay or bi, and in denial.

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R5, "bi" is an entire range. It's not like a three position switch. Dipshit.

You can be curious (ever so slightly bi), but really have no desire to make it your life.

Get over yourself. Seriously.

Human sexuality is a lot more complicated than you seem to be willing to admit.

They fact that they're fantasizing about a girl while I'm blowing them doesn't bother me. I have no expectation that they are curious, only that they want a quick wet assist.

I seriously don't get the whole straight guy fantasy. The idea of going to bed with a guy who is not into it, or worse, not good at it, just does nothing for me. I think the problem is that many gay men see straight guys as innately more masculine etc. However many straight men seem indistinguishable from most gays imo it's largely a fantasy in self loathing gay men's minds. There are plenty of masculine hot gay/bi men out there, why do some of us torture ourselves with the unattainable? Just sad really. I am also not put off by gays who are good looking but slightly fem either. i sometimes find it hot. Go figure!

The problem seems to be that many gay men are STILL deeply inadequate, and insecure about themselves, and need a masochistic fantasy about straight guys, cause they have internalized that they are inferior FACT!

I believe the internet has given a lot of so-called "straight" men access to m/m sex that they never had in the past. It only stands to reason that some percentage of them would find themselves strangely turned on by it, some of whom would want to try it in real life....i.

The following is anecdotal, but anyway, here's a little something:

I was on Chaturbate the other night. There was one of the "broadcasters" chatting and jacking off with all of his fans showering him with praise. It seemed obvious to me that he is gay, but the "broadcaster" would never admit it despite many questions from his fans asking if he's straight, gay or bi? Of course, many of his "mods" immediately swarm over anyone who asks such an invasive question always saying "labels work better on can goods" and other statements of denial. In fact, ask too often or not politely enough, and you run the risk of being silenced or banned.

The broadcaster finally responds to the continual "straight, gay or bi" questions from many fans. He says, "I'm straight." And then quickly follows up by adding, "and bi curious." I finally chime in and ask the broadcaster, "Well, doesn't that make you at least bi?" He responds, "Yes." I then ask, "Well then, how come you keep saying you're straight?" He doesn't respond.

My theory is that he's not even bi. I believe this guy is gay, but he just won't admit it. As we all know, coming out is an evolutionary process, and that one of the "labels" that many try and avoid eventually applies to each of us.

"Human sexuality is a lot more complicated than you seem to be willing to admit."

Actually human sexuality is pretty simple. It's assholes like yourself who insist it's extremely complicated in order to justify your idiotic and infantile fantasies about "straight" guys.

there are few hot, attractive gay men, and those ones usually have the personality of a 12 year old girl...hence the interest in straight men.

No. He would be bisexual. If I were curious about women, I would be bisexual. I am gay however, and no have no interest whatsoever in women.

Gay men who are able to perform with women are also bisexual, but they can call themselves whatever they want.

R13 is threading the ignore button was created. FF and then ignore.

R13 is the reason...

No, and I never will, because straight men are not curious about gay sex, they are too busy dreaming of pussy and tits, OP.

I have , however, as have we all, met bi and closeted men who are 'curious' about gay sex and that equates to = they want to fuck / be fucked by men.

Try this on for size , OP:

Have you ever met a gay dude curious about straight sex?

If you have, I assume you would correctly identify him as 'bi'. Not 'gay' or 'straight'.

Here you go R18.

There isn't a lot going on in this thread.

[quote] I have , however, as have we all, met bi and closeted men who are 'curious' about gay sex and that equates to = they want to fuck / be fucked by men.

Exactly.

It always amazes me when I see these "straight" and "married" guys on Craigslist M4M, begging to suck dick and get fucked.

And yet they still identify as "straight."

Gurl, bye. You're not fooling anyone.

These guys are not straight, but there are so many queens who are willing to buy into the fantasy of having sex with a straight guy.

That is, until the "straight guy" wants to suck you off and get fucked by you, and then all of a sudden, it's... "Oh boy, it's getting late. I really have to go."

You queens are as delusional as these "straight" queens.

OP's fascination with straight men is sad. 😓

When I lived in Phoenix in the mid-90's, I had an acquaintance who told me his greatest thrill was to go to a local neighborhood bar, and pick up straight men, or so he called them. Apparently, his m.o. was to gravitate to some guy, buy him drinks, then ask him home to "smoke weed" when the bar closed, around 2 AM. So they'd go back to my friend's place, where my friend would ply the man with more liquor, and weed, and, eventually, suck him off. After which, the other guy would usually stagger out. My friend seemed to get the biggest thrill out of doing this. My reaction was to point out that he was paying for the drinks, he was using his supply of weed, he was never on the receiving end, as these guys would not reciprocate. But he just didn't get that, and was focused only on the thrill of "bagging a straight guy." Weird, because the whole situation seemed to me a set-up for abuse, especially if the so-called "straight" guy should get violent. Which has been known to happen when guys find they're in sexual situations which they usually don't want.... Frankly, I found the whole situation pointless, not to mention dangerous. Especially in Phoenix, where men carry around loaded guns everywhere.

R22, if your friend was a straight guy doing that to women he would be called a date raper.

Have you ever met a gay guy interested in straight sex?

If a gay guy wants to sleep with a woman because he's "curious", is he gay or bisexual?

What if he wants to sleep with a woman because he enjoys it - likes the feeling of being inside a woman, likes playing with her boobs, etc. Is he bisexual?

What if he sleeps with a woman because, hey, any port in the storm? Then what would you label him?

I think we all have out interpretations and ideas about how to categorize the scenarios above. Is it the gender you sleep with, or your intentions in sleeping with them that matter as to how you label? If someone is more attracted to one gender, but will get involved in both, does that matter?

Hmmmm

They're not straight.

Yes, it was called college. Many guys got BFAs in "Curious."

I grew up in white trash southwestern NJ and we're loaded with 'curious straight dudes.' White trash doesn't have a guilt complex like the middle and upper classes about sex, so if you're a single and passably attractive gay male who lives alone, you'll see a lot of action.

Yes, I've met and tricked with bisexual guys.

Good times.

Yes, I've met and tricked with closet cases, too.

I have met gay men who were curious about being with a woman. But it was just curiosity. One wanted to know what it was like to get pegged because he got turned on seeing it in porn. Another wanted to know what goes through gay-for-pay men's minds and believed he could emulate it through sex with a woman. Most just had general questions, which is what I believe curiosity actually is but I've never met any self-identifying homosexual with a strong desire to have sex with a woman. I'm actually reminded of Ricky Martin when he said he still had sex with women. I've met bisexuals who identify as 'straight' because they only date woman and see men as just sex. I think of Ricky the same way, he says he's gay because of the gender he wants to spend his life with romantically but if he feels sexual desire towards women then that is 'bi' to me.

while the obsession with "straight" men is indeed sad, the obsession with labels is even sadder, but it is based on ideology not facts or reason, and will never be resolved here or elsewhere, there are probably more men who have had sex with both genders sometimes in their lives than there are men who have only had sex with men a "gay" guy can have sex with a girl when he's 16, and never touch another female. he will always be gay a "straight" guy can have sex with a male in college, never do it again, and he is bisexual or closeted case forever.

personally i would prefer Gore Vidal's solution: snails, oysters, or frutti di mer, depending on our appetite when we dine

There is no such thing as a "straight man interested in gay sex." What you and R1 describe is called BISEXUALITY.

"Curiosity" only applies if you do it once. You are not "curious" if you repeatedly seek out the thing you claim you are not; if you do it repeatedly YOU ARE NOT CURIOUS ANYMORE. You are a willing and informed participant, AKA "not straight."

Caught my friend snooping on my computer and going to gay porn favorited sites