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Straight men's breast obsession

Where does this come from?

They're mammary glands. Every female mammal has them for feeding young. That's all.

by Anonymousreply 47March 5, 2020 2:42 AM

Fertility.

by Anonymousreply 1May 18, 2015 11:34 PM

Breasts = Food = Mommy.

Straight men want their mommies.

by Anonymousreply 2May 18, 2015 11:39 PM

Gay men took "Tough Titties" to literally.

by Anonymousreply 3May 18, 2015 11:46 PM

The same reason gay tops are obsessed with booty.

It's the peach shape, babies.

by Anonymousreply 4May 18, 2015 11:46 PM

Yes, it basically comes down to fertility. A woman who has large breast that don't droop or sag reads young and therefore fertile to a man. The same is true for women who are bigger on the bottom they read as healthy and fertile.

by Anonymousreply 5May 18, 2015 11:46 PM

It's not only straight men.

Lots of gay men are obsessed with boobies too.

There are lots of body areas that people fetishize, but I think that boobs are the most visible.

There's something erotic about big breasts. Small breasts... not so much.

by Anonymousreply 6May 18, 2015 11:49 PM

Status. The guy whose woman has the biggest boobs is somehow better than everyone else. Just like penis size.

by Anonymousreply 7May 18, 2015 11:51 PM

Straight men are really concerned with "fertility" when they're jacking off on some boobs?

by Anonymousreply 8May 18, 2015 11:52 PM

Straight men are attracted to women with large boobs because that is a sign of fertility.

by Anonymousreply 9May 18, 2015 11:54 PM

I don't think there's any real "reason" for it.

Men tend to sexualize specific parts on a person.

For gay men, it's the dick, balls, and ass.

For straight men, it's tits, pussy, and ass.

Ask yourself, why are you obsessed with cock? Or balls? There's no real reason, right? It just turns you on.

Must be something instinctual.

by Anonymousreply 10May 19, 2015 12:01 AM

They're not thinking about fertility when they are jacking off - R8. It is subconscious.

Likewise, when you see an attractive face, you aren't calculating it's symmetry and ratios between the eyes and cheeks and whatever else makes a face attractive...your brain just does it subconsciously and you think - oh that's a hot looking guy.

by Anonymousreply 11May 19, 2015 12:02 AM

You mean pectorals R6 ?

by Anonymousreply 12May 19, 2015 12:05 AM

Why are gay men obsessed with nipples?

by Anonymousreply 13May 19, 2015 12:14 AM

A bit like the many threads about Henry Cavill's gigantic tits, OP?

by Anonymousreply 14May 19, 2015 12:16 AM

I used to know a guy who was a complete pig and was obsessed with fake tits. His reason? If a woman pays to have fake tits it's because all she cares about is getting guys to fuck her because she is obsessed with having sex constantly. I told him women get fake tits because they're insecure. Unless, of course, cancer.

by Anonymousreply 15May 19, 2015 12:21 AM

"His reason? If a woman pays to have fake tits it's because all she cares about is getting guys to fuck her because she is obsessed with having sex constantly."

Nah, straight guys like fake boobs because they are perkier and rounder than real boobs. Many women who get fake boobs do so for career reasons - models, actresses, strippers, etc. whose careers rely on looking a certain way

by Anonymousreply 16May 19, 2015 12:39 AM

Women get fake tits to get a guy. Which is why they do everything, actually.

by Anonymousreply 17May 19, 2015 1:56 AM

I LOVE big titties. Oh honey the girls are OUT tonight! I love a jump suit! I love a side poney too!

by Anonymousreply 18May 19, 2015 2:00 AM

Straight sex is so weird!

by Anonymousreply 19May 19, 2015 2:02 AM

No straight woman at r6, we don't want to play with your tits. Shove them in a straight guy's face.

by Anonymousreply 20May 19, 2015 2:06 AM

Back in college a guy I knew was really into this girl's "child bearing hips" and wanted to fuck her. This struck me as odd. As a gay man I don't associate my sexual desire with making babies and neither, I would think, would a horny 20 year old frat boy (though he'd obviously have to be careful in regard to that).

by Anonymousreply 21May 19, 2015 2:15 AM

Gay men's ass obsession -- where does this come from?

It's the end of the alimentary canal. Every human has one for releasing waste. That's all.

In short, you can't try to make sense of other's attractions. Even within gay men, there's no consensus about what is attractive or which body part is sexy. You have those who are attracted to gym rats or silver foxes or twinks or feet or nipples...

by Anonymousreply 22May 19, 2015 12:19 PM

The dick wants what it wants.

by Anonymousreply 23May 19, 2015 12:27 PM

Breasts are soft and erogenous and, as secondary sex organs, accentuate the erotic differences between men and women. They are sensitive to touch and lick and, just as with many men, typically sexually excite the person who has them.

So, if you can't figure out why they turn on straight men, you have a distinct lack of sexual imagination, OP.

As for all female mammals having them, that's also true of mouths, asses, faces and vaginas.

To read confusion about why breasts turn straight men on on a site which so prominently and often celebrates the erotic power of male feet, is almost uniquely ironic. (Not that there's anything objectionable about people eroticizing feet, but...)

by Anonymousreply 24May 19, 2015 12:34 PM

I have been on here since 2001 and this is the stupidest thread I have ever opened.

F&F OP.

by Anonymousreply 25May 19, 2015 12:36 PM

What's odd is that straight guys seem totally focused on breasts in the real world, but other than the occasional tit fuck or a cum shot on them in the final scene, they're almost completely ignored in porn movies. You would think there would be long scenes of guys caressing them and sucking them, but you very seldom see it unless it's a girl/girl scene,

Even when they do pay a bit of attention to them it's obvious they don't have a clue what to actually do with them.

I think it goes back to the whole 1st base, 2nd base, 3rd base thing in adolescence. They're the first objective a guy needs to reach on his way to intercourse, and getting his hands on them is the first tangible sign the female might be a willing partner, so they take on the significance of getting the troops ashore on Normandy Beach, and that mindset never goes away no matter how old the guy gets or how many partners he's had.

Of course porn is different than real sex--what do straight guys really do with them? Do they spend all kinds of time sucking on them? That would seem like a pretty weird thing to do with a chick you just picked up in a bar. How would the woman keep from laughing?

by Anonymousreply 26May 19, 2015 12:40 PM

I had a friend with giant tits who would take them out at every opportunity. Guys would stop on the street and stare. Once one man's girlfriend said something like, "what the FUCK are you looking at?" It was fairly amusing.

Anyway they looked like shit. They were very saggy and the nipple was at the end, like a cow udder. I don't understand straight men.

by Anonymousreply 27May 19, 2015 12:41 PM

All sex is funny, when you take the hormones away.

by Anonymousreply 28May 19, 2015 12:42 PM

I'm attracted to breasts even though I'm gay. They're hot

by Anonymousreply 29May 19, 2015 1:20 PM

What r28 said.

Anything sexual that does not turn you personally on will typically make you go "Ewwww!".

That's just the way sexual arousal interacts with unease.

by Anonymousreply 30May 19, 2015 1:55 PM

I've always noticed a plain woman with big knockers gets more guys than a beautiful woman who is flat chested.

by Anonymousreply 31May 19, 2015 1:56 PM

R31 right. Remember that video from last year of that big-breasted college woman walking around and being approached and propositioned by men? A lot of DLers didn't understand because to them she was 'plain.'

Even on DL we have people wondering why a lot of DLers like "Average White Guys"?

by Anonymousreply 32May 19, 2015 2:05 PM

I knew a girl in college who had simply gigantic tits. Unfortunately her face bore a striking resemblance to the Wicked Witch of the West, mole and everything. No matter, guys would hit on her constantly.

One straight guy I knew who was really into them said that he liked to watch them sort of roll around while he was fucking the girl, and one night he couldn't wait to tell us how he got one rotating clockwise and the other going counterclockwise at the same time.

by Anonymousreply 33May 19, 2015 2:53 PM

I wonder if fake boobs work for women. Don't the women wind up with scars? Do the boobs stand straight up? It seems like it would not be a turn on for straight men because they 'd know they 're made out of plastic. Sounds like a boner killer to me.

by Anonymousreply 34May 19, 2015 3:12 PM

Tit sucking is part of foreplay, R26. My experience is that guys have no idea how to do it, some are not particularly interested. They want to rush to the finish line -- they're finish line.

ow about gay men's obsession with penises? The penis is essentially for reproduction. That's it.

by Anonymousreply 35May 19, 2015 3:35 PM

Watching the nipples get hard is great. It means you're getting somewhere.

by Anonymousreply 36May 19, 2015 3:38 PM

[quote]Lots of gay men are obsessed with boobies too.

That's why I work out three times a day.

by Anonymousreply 37May 19, 2015 4:37 PM

Why are people obsessed with any body part at all? It's just the human body. We all have one.

by Anonymousreply 38May 19, 2015 5:43 PM

Breasts are a secondary sexual characteristic. Men are wired to like them. Also they feel like bags of sand.

by Anonymousreply 39May 19, 2015 5:51 PM

R22 ass is not the same as asshole.

by Anonymousreply 40May 19, 2015 5:52 PM

R40 still, gay men are enthralled by male anuses. The umpteenth "Men Presenting their Holes" threads are a good testament.

by Anonymousreply 41May 19, 2015 6:01 PM

Straight men don't lust after boobs if you are this heavenly beautiful

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by Anonymousreply 42May 19, 2015 8:28 PM

What would happen if a straight man saw wonderful breasts but the woman had manly thighs and yellow skin?

by Anonymousreply 43May 19, 2015 10:26 PM

R41 I'm not? I'm a 100% bottom. WTF do I care about what a hole looks like? I'll never see it.

by Anonymousreply 44March 5, 2020 2:13 AM

I can't explain it but I am really attracted to women with large breasts and men with large pecs. I love playing with them and sucking on nips.

by Anonymousreply 45March 5, 2020 2:38 AM

I honestly love watching straight men hypnotised by tits. It's so ridiculous and cartoon like and I hope I don't look like that when I see a hot guy. Their voices trail off, they start talking differently and get all flustered after.

by Anonymousreply 46March 5, 2020 2:41 AM

R46 Never noticed that but the way you described it was hot.

by Anonymousreply 47March 5, 2020 2:42 AM
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