Did Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis ever fuck?

I always wondered if Jerry had some pathological love for Dean that was unrequited. I don't think they fucked, no, but I think Jerry wanted to. I think he was in love with Dean but, due to the times they lived and Jerry's super fucked up personality and psychological make-up it all got perverted into show biz schtick, including their "father and retarded little boy" routine. Jerry craved Dean's acceptance and love and I think that is what fueled the act, plain and simple. But no one ever says this stuff about the partnership.

Yes, R2, yes they are.

muah a douche? Ive never been anywhere near a chicks pussy , so go fork urself.

"muah"???

You meant "moi," didn't you, r4? You had no idea whatsoever how it was spelled.

OP-perhaps you should be asking George Michael and Andrew Ridgeley, both formerly of Wham. You can also ask Darryl Hall and John Oates.

No clue, OP.

I don't think either wanted to fuck.

OMG, "muah?" How hilarious. What an illiterate dumbass.

"liten" up? It's lighten up. Please stop posting here.

r11 that was on purpose you dumbass, its spelt correctly in the first post....so so stewpid.

AND YES MY STUPID WAS MISSPELLED ON PURPOSE ALSO.

I wonder if Lewis ever tried anything sneaky while Martin was hammered. Or if he's spent his bitter old age kicking himself for not giving it a shot when he had the chance.

Because yes, Lewis was in love, and still is. He said so, in a fairly recent interview I heard.

r12 you're an idiot. There's no concealing it.

[You do realize that this is a troll, right? It does not believe what it posts. It just craves attention. You might want to stop talking to it.]

over and over

Dean Martin was a sexy man. . In bios he's represented as a detached sort, the type one typically wanted to know better, to draw closer, but he wasn't available.

Even Frank Sinatra had a bit of a thing for Dean.

Jerry was strictly hetero. But Dean was a sexy bitch and could have played occasionally on the men's team.

Jerry seems like the most bitter person on earth.

He's had a long and generally successful career, and seems to have done all the work he chose to do all along.

Vaudeville/Nightclubs

Movies

Directing

Broadway

The Telethons

What does he have to be so miserable about?

R2/R4/R10 is that repugnant, illiterate homophobe cunt turd - the self-proclaimed gay version of thatthoughtfulcunt.

F&F it until it bleeds to death.

Lewis had it for Martin, but not necessarily in the traditional, full-on gay way. He saw Martin as everything he wasn't, and Martin, who was notoriously - infamously - detached, drove him nuts because Lewis was so needy. It was obsessive, and if Martin would have pulled it out Lewis would have gone for it just to have the connection.

I would have pegged it the other way around, R18. Dean seemed strictly hetero, while Jerry was whatever Jerry wanted to be at that moment.

There is just a completely bonkers bio of Dean called Dino: Living High in the Dirty Business of Dreams that is really interesting. I haven't finished but halfway through I am absolutely in love with this book.

Who is more annoying, R2 R4 R10 or R20.

I vote R20. I'm another of those trolls who often mixspells a word or two on purpose just for him.

That biopic with Jeremy Northam and Sean Hayes nailed their relationship perfectly for me. They were two hetero guys who finally got sick of each other, and being stuck in each other's company, just like Simon & Garfunkel .....

Lewis was needy and needed Martin's approval and friendship more than Dino needed him, making Lewis even more annoying.

r22: Scorcese bought the rights to it long ago and his "Dino" bio-pic remains unmade. Just as well, as who wants to see beach-ball-head diCaprio's version of Martin?

If you really believe r4 misspelled "moi" on purpose, I have a bridge to sell you in Brooklyn.

Rupert Holmes ("Mystery of Drood," "Pina Colada Song") wrote the book "Where The Truth Lies," a mystery about a murdered chorus girl that centers on a thinly disguised Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis. At the end of the book Dean fucks Jerry. Incredibly, the movie of the book starred Colin Firth as Dean and Kevin Bacon as Jerry. It could have been a hit, but Egoyan cast a talent-free bimbo in the crucial role of the reporter. All of this can't have pleased the real Jerry Lewis very much, and yet when they made his film "The Nutty Professor" into a Broadway musical (which Lewis directed), they hired Rupert Holmes to write the script. The musical is supposed to be quite good.

Did he really, R26? Oh man, a movie version of that book by Scorsese would be terrific. I doubt it'll ever get made -- Scorsese's plate is pretty full for a few years and the guy has to retire some time -- but I'd love to see it actually happen.

But no, not with Leo. I like Leo but he would be awful as Martin.

[quote]Shut the Hell up. Fuck, man, some of you queers are so fucking twisted smoking pot all day long.

Unlike you breeders, who spend your days thinking up new ways to start wars and commit genocide.

I'm not sure but EVERYONE knows that The 3 Stooges had a torrid Gay Menage A Trois that lasted for decades.

Jerry Lewis was hot when he was young (early 1950's/1960's) I have a weird attraction to him then. Dean was cool and funny.

This question is fairly significant in the life of DL: we have officially exhausted the possibilities of any two people on earth who may have fucked.

Have we ever discussed Sandler and Young?

No OP, they were both into LAAAAAADIES!

Well, Jerry Lewis did write a book called "Dean and Me; A Love Story".

He makes no bones about it. He worshiped Dean Martin but at the same time, the press, producers and the audiences wanted more Lewis. Lewis' brand of comedy was something new, whereas Dean Martin, as talented as he was, was just a straight man and a crooner. This made Martin bitter and increasingly standoffish with Lewis. Lewis didn't understand why and was increasingly hurt by Martin's distance.

He does recount the closest they ever came to having sex. They were in a hotel room and Jerry was increasingly itchy. Dean Martin knelt before him while he took down his pants and examined him. It was crabs (which Jerry had never had before). Jerry recounts saying, while Dean was examining him, 'I always knew we'd come to this' and Dean replied 'The day that happens, the partnership is over!'

No way with Dino.

Jerry Lewis loved Dean Martin like Jerry wanted to be him, not to be in love with him.

r37 keep in mind it was Lewis who wrote the book. Lewis, the delusional self-absorbed malcontent.

In his mind of course he believed he was the more popular of the two.

[quote]In his mind of course he believed he was the more popular of the two.

I think it's pretty clear that in the mid-1950s Jerry Lewis was new and exciting... and Dean Martin, while popular, was a run-of-the-mill entertainer. No delusions needed.

r39, They made the cover of Look magazine, and the editors cropped Martin out of the picture. So it wasn't just Jerry being delusional.

Do you think Shields and Yarnell were fucking?

Minnie Shields or Maxie Shields?

Dean did get wasted quite often, ya never know.

What about Laurel and Hardy? They HAVE to have been fucking!

Hey, how 'bout the Three Stooges.

Thanks, R22 and R26. I hope the movie gets made by Scorcese, the Master. R28, did they actually fuck in the book on which "Where the Truth Lies" is based? In the movie, it's attempted by the Martin character but halted by the Lewis character. Excellent film by Atom Egoyan. It received a Palme d'Or nomination and I think it would have been more widely known in the US if not for the NC-17 rating.

R32 R46 wasn't Curly Howard gay? i don't know about Moe or Larry.

Monty Clift was in love with Martin.

Jerry Lewis was insanely popular in France, so his solo films gave him a greater fame than Dino, in that respect. No snark intended; as a kid I could never fathom why he was so big in France. He was goofy funny but not a comedy legend in my average little kid opinion.

Jerry Lewis is on Jimmy Fallon 9/16

Shirley MacLaine also had a big crush on Martin during her Rat Pack days, which led nowhere. In one of her books, she recalls showing up at his home like a lovesick puppy and he’s basically there surrounded by his wife and kids. He graciously meets with her in his study and she has to make up some story to get the hell out of there.

Who wouldn't have wanted him?

As handsome as Dean was it was actually young Jerry that got my boxers in a twist. Something about that hairy body got me all moist in places I didn't think were possible. He's an asshole & a blowhard but the boy was hot in his day!

R54, glad someone agrees with me. He was quite sexy in his younger years.

I admit I have a thing for Jewish guys, and not just one "type." Lewis is the one I look at in the older movies and even the TV show they had. His youth, energy and wildness seemed like he'd be fun (and grateful) in bed, while Martin seemed detached and sloppy.

Of course this has nothing to do with the bear-rug-chest auteur asshole Lewis rapidly became, him of the tiny cock and nasty mouth and cum rug swath he'd jerk off onto while staring at hookers fingering themselves.

But young he was rather a goofy package!

R56 , where did you get your dish about the hookers? I don't doubt it for one second but I'm just curious.

[quote]muah a douche? Ive never been anywhere near a chicks pussy , so go fork urself.

Kill it.

R57, it's perhaps one of those Hollywood legends, but I've had people swear to its veracity. Even in later years in Las Vegas he apparently would pop his blue pills and make arrangements. Never touches/touched (one can't imagine it's still going on) the women - he stays true to SanDee in his fashion (which he didn't do in his marriage to Patti).

Another pic of the two partners with their shirts off here. Martin has one of those odd Jeff Chandler bodies. Lewis is trimmed.

On the beach together.

Quite the dweebstein, and holding on to his son for dear life.

Well, in summation, Lewis wanted to and Martin couldn't give a.

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Why would we even want this to be true?

Martin & Lewis reunite in 1976 for the first time in 20 years. Sinatra orchestrated it all. Touching video.

The act broke up because Lewis made a pass and Martin turned it down in no uncertain terms. Jerry was devastated. Ever afterward, Dean referred to that as "the day the clown cried."

Lewis had a period of about two years in the mid 60s where he was nice looking. It was the same time his son was more famous than him.

Dean was absolutely smoking hot! He sired an as hot son who, tragically, died young flying his plane into a mountain. I don't think Dean was the same thereafter.

OP, why don't you ask Jerry Lewis yourself and see how he reacts?

I can't think of anyone less sexy than Jerry Lewis. Gross.

R70 well he has put on a pound or two recently

No, that was Mary Martin and Jerry Lee Lewis

Well, you can’t ask me, R6.

They're dead

Sadly these two movie stars will be forgotten by future generations

Why did the MDA telethon 86 Jerry in the last few years of his life?

I think R1 is right, Lewis was in love with Martin and Martin didn't return his feelings.

I don't want to thing about whether Lewis's feelings were sexual or not, because I don't want to think about Jerry Lewis's sex life.

Jerry was a horrible human being. Even when younger. He also was a bizarre freak sexually. It was only later in life ,when drugs and his obvious neurosis was clearly visible did his reputation of being a cruel sadist freak come to light. Jerry Lewis was not capable of having a loving relationship..straight or Gay. I know people who had to work with him. He was universally despised.