I'm a gay man who is getting more and more attracted to women

I'm there with you, OP. Only difference is I've never been sexually active.

Lately the only porn I get off on is amateur straight porn and I've been noticing that I pay more attention to the women than the men. Gay porn just doesn't get me off anymore.

I still notice hot guys in the street, but I've also noticed I spend just as much time checking out hot women, and some days I don't even notice men.

How old are you, r1?

[quote] Now I'm thinking about placing an ad on craigslist, asking if there are any women out there who want to give a gay guy his first adult experience with a woman.

This is the fucking funniest thing I've seen all day.

Women don't meet old men off an anonymous site for sex.

But you knew that, right?

[quote]Women don't meet old men off an anonymous site for sex.

Well, not unless "roses" are involved.

I'm a 39-year-old gay man and I feel the same way, OP.

It started in my 30s with me getting attention from cute girls at coffee and sex shops. I started to ponder the alternatives to my alternative lifestyle!

But I was more strongly awakened by straight porn, just as you said. I have discovered things I might enjoy doing with women.

Hiring hot, young female escorts and trying sex with them is definitely on my bucket list now. :)

"Like straight guys, I'm only attracted to younger woman (in the 20s/early 30s) with big tits and worked-out bodies."

If you want your atypical sexuality to be acknowledged as genuine, and I don't blame you (nor do I suggest that it is not genuine), perhaps you should stop stereotyping the sexuality of others.

Straight men are not nec. attracted to younger women with big tits and worked-out bodies. Straight men come in all varieties, just like gay men and bi men do; and you yourself should no that better than anyone.

Just as men who have spent their entire lives being attracted to men are not nec. never going to develop an attraction to women later in life, straight men are not uniformly attracted to young well endowed worked out women.

It's true — a lot of straight guys are into fat women.

And a lot more are content with fat women.

[quote]How old are you, [R1]?

41

Like you OP, I was once gay. Now I'm an ex-gay. I am 100% heterosexual. I'm not a troll, and I don't suspect you are a troll either, OP, but sexuality is not biological. It's fluid and changes always to the normal - the default: pure and blessed heterosexuality. God's choice. Most on Datalounge would agree with me.

In my life, there are three types of sexuality: gay, straight and straight men who have gay sex. I'm with you, OP. Now, I'm off to watch straight guys have gay sex.

At your age, you are going to have to pay for it, if you want a young, hot woman. If you were younger, or wealthy and straight, you would be able to find a willing woman for free. Also, I find it silly that we argue over what straight men like. Who cares?

R1, you have never been sexually active? Not once?

If you are looking for a 23 year old woman, you have to have money.

No.

I love this "clever" thread.

I don't know, OP...I think it's the porn that turned you on, not femininity. Now, if you were attracted to a woman in real life, that would be different. this is just a plumbing thing...not real intimacy.

Sexuality really is a sliding scale, problem is, the USA identifies Gay OR straight.

Realistically people are:

10% totally Gay

80% bisexual

10% totally straight

You are a pathetic gay man. You can not stand up for yourself as a gay man. Have you ever held another man's hand in public? Have you ever kissed another man in public? There are a ton of gay people who don't want to form gay relationships because of the incredible (heterosexual) negative public opinion toward them and rather just go with the flow.

No R15, it's not just porn. On European beaches, where women are usually topless, I see women with amazing tits. I'm not kidding: I want to approach them, explain my situation, and ask if we could meet somewhere private where I could play with them.

But I know they'd think I was crazy, or some straight guy pretending to be gay.

Matt Bomer is bisexual too.

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This thread proves what I've been saying for years. There's always a chance your gay BFF will someday learn to cherish what's been right under his nose -- the love of a good woman.

Keep the faith, ladies. Today might be your day!

Don't most gay men like breasts? I had breast implants put in about 10 years ago, and I let my gay male friends touch them to see what they felt like.

OP, why not just say or think you're bi?

The problem is that a lot of women are turned off by being with a man who has had only gay experience. So even if you're turned on by them they most likely will refuse you. Just hire an escort.

R17 that is creepy and pathetic. You do know that behavior would be creepy and pathetic from a straight guy, right?

Hey R20, stay classy douchebag.

Pussy is the greatest thing on Earth. As much as i love letting guys blow me, and I love the gay culture, I could never give pussy up.

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"If my pussy isn't attended to by 8 o'clock, I shall be stroking it for the rest of the evening."

OP you should give it a go. See what happens. I agree with the others who say that sexuality is fluid!

[38] what will that Burmese bus conductor say ABOUT THAT

R24 I don't care want you think hetero boot licker.

R22 Pecs and breats are different. Pecs are muscles. Breats are largely fat.

R29 Post a video on xhamster of yourself getting erections from women and men and lets see if sexuality is fluid.

Gee a non celebrity looking for a "beard"

Most normal thing in the world, OP. I think it's going to become more and more common, actually. I was gay for about five years and have been straight for the last 15. No denial, no religious pressure. Just what happened to me.

[quote] was gay for about five years and have been straight for the last 15. No denial, no religious pressure. Just what happened to me.

But you still like chit-chatting with gay men on the internet.

I don't think I'd hang out here if I was straight and this has nothing to do with sex.

F&F this ridiculous thread.

R33 is full of shit. This thread gets started every single week here. Remember the "late in life" turning straight thread.

One of the frequent posters is a right wing, self loathing porn freak troll.

Then you're not a gay man, you're a bi man.

[quote]Remember the "late in life" turning straight thread.

To be far, the "gay men turning to vagine" thread was a joke.

Hey OP. Good luck and here's something for your dick when you make the attempt.

LOL, R32

I don't get the draw of big tits at all. I think women like Audrey Hepburn, who are thin and very flat chested, look much better. Fake tans, fake tits and fake nails look trashy. Babe Paley and the fabulous swans of the past were tall and slim.

[quote]I don't get the draw of big tits at all

Maybe one of the recently straight guys on here can explain it to us.

I'm not into screwing old fags, sorry gays!

THIS DID NOT HAPPEN.

Cut the crap. Stop planting reference sources for fundie Christian surveys.

This is bullshit.

OP is a Latent Heterosexual! I'm sure the fundies will love that.

See??? It can happen!

I was a flight attendant, and I had a casual friendship with a gold star(not flaming, but very gay in all the usual superficial ways:fastidious appearance, bright, witty, charming beyond belief)gay dude who was approaching 40. Craig had been partnered for 12 years, and he was a graduate of ORU, so coming out was a pretty damn big deal for him. One day we were down below in the galley alone, and Craig asked if he could play with my sizable natural tittays. I was somewhat taken aback, but what the hay...I liked him and felt totally unthreatened. For the record, before any of you meanies throw any shade, if a straight man had proposed such a thing I would have decked him. lol Truth be told, I think my "wholesome" appearance and my rep as something of a good girl was part of Craig's "attraction" to my boobies. I saw the whole thing as a maternal chesticle attraction which seemed quite harmless. So I indulged him the opportunity to feel away, and he giggled and seemed to enjoy it. Nest trip, the same thing happened, only THIS time he giggled and said "oops I am getting hard." ERMAGAAARD. Now I felt like a deer in the headlights. I was the one who GAVE him the green light to feel me up not once, but twice!! What kinda ho'e was I? lol So, he asked if he could kiss me, and I said "let's just put the brakes on this and return to our relationship as it has been for ten years, okay?" Years later Craig is still with his partner and I am still scratching my head as to what the hell was that all about? So OP, for what it's worth, you may be an unusual atypical case, but you are not alone.

"But I was more strongly awakened by straight porn, just as you said. I have discovered things I might enjoy doing with women."

Are you not aware that straight porn sex is not anything like real life straight sex?

It all boils down to a fantasy about an easier life. Yes, I find a lot of women sexy. Would I want to have sex with them? No. Hot gay men turn me on.

Um, no.

You are not fooling us, and you're not fooling yourself, OP.

Get counseling.

Why don't you schedule auditions and try outs for the other team. You could be a switch hitter.

I won't date anyone that's on Facebook or Twitter.

I hope you're ready for things like vaginal flatulence, because it happens during sex with women.

OP, you will never in a million years get a hot young woman. Even young straight studs have to jump through hoops to get that.

Just hire a pro. You will get something closer to the straight "porn" experience you're craving and you won't get kicked in the balls when you suggest a friendly NSA fuck.

Why haven't you done it already? Are you broke?

I think I might be turning straight too.

I do think as a gay guy, I am totally attracted to tits. I love them.

But then when I think of the nether regions of a lady I cant.I just cant!!

[quote]But then when I think of the nether regions of a lady I cant.I just cant!!

Right there with you, babe. And I've got a vag. I try to understand what straight guys (and lesbians) see in women, but I just can't get there in my mind. Men are so sexy. Women can be beautiful, like a sunset or a painting. But they are not sexy at all (to me).

OP is a frau who hasn't gotten laid in a long, long time.

r57 hates her vajajay.

Also, sometimes they aren't so fresh.

R58) No. They are on the endless threads about Gale Harold.

... And I am a gay unicorn who is getting more and more attracted to hippogriffs.

Guess which one of us is more believable, OP.

If you're rich, I'm single.

I think OP is full of shit but it can happen.

This really turns us right the hell on!

"Now I'm thinking about placing an ad on craigslist, asking if there are any women out there who want to give a gay guy his first adult experience with a woman."

Be prepared to hag-gle.

You're a latent heterosexual.

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wow, screeching harpy at r68 needs to take her meds.

I had an attractive woman hug me and she has great breasts. Not gigantic, but nice (not saggy) breasts. I was turned on by her. I've hugged other women but their breasts didn't feel like hers.

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Yes, r47, I am aware that normal sex for everybody is is different than in porn.

But I am also aware that I can PAY for a straight woman to behave as in a porn, too, and some women are damn good at it.

I will, because it looks fun to me.

Are you aware that some real women really do enjoy many of the things you see in porn?

Sounds like I won't be hiring you.

Now that you are getting old, I imagine you are desperate, and are clinging to women since they are more generous is screwing old men.

Being intrigued by boobs doesn't make you straight or bisexual. Boobs are so highlighted in our culture that even people not attracted to women, are drawn to them.

Also, I don't know if the OP is a homophobic troll, but yes some people become late in life bisexuals. But it is rare, and it shouldn't be used by homophobes to imply people can change their sexuality.

Me too OP. Dating a chick now for first time in years

Where are all of these "I've been gay but now women turn me on" threads coming from? Is Dl turning into some frau slash fiction destination?

I'm getting more attracted to men, as I age. It's odd, I used to be bisexual, but now I'm only interested in men.

Boobs look like an ass, that's where that interest is for gay men.

In my family there is an uncle who is going through a similar phase. Only that he went from being attracted to women to finding men attractive. He has always been very liberal, so when he discovered his growing interest in men he told my aunt.

Now they are divorcing and they have split their four children.

did he do dildos?

[quote]Are you aware that some real women really do enjoy many of the things you see in porn?

Who told you that?

If a porn actress claims she enjoys DP & pearl necklaces, don't believe her. It's show business, baby.

Nice

[quote]As much as i love letting guys blow me, and I love the gay culture, I could never give pussy up.

God I loathe bisexual men. Go die, asshole.

I love tits. Asthetically, to look at, they would be small, like Audrey Hepburn or Keira Knightly. To feel up, they would be like Selma Hayeck. Breasts like Pamela Anderson's are repulsive to me, as are any obvious implants like tennis balls under the skin.

OP = Scott Cahn

Another one bites the dust. We get 'em all eventually.

Here's a real scientific study proving that some men really are aroused by both genders, for r31 the Doubting Thomas/Al Gayda Terrorist in denial of bisexuals.

It's time for r80 to PROVE IT.

Weird, but I know what you mean. Something about women, the breasts, the eyes, the vulnerabilty, innocence and ineffable sweetness during sex is alluring and hypnotic.

[quote]As much as i love letting guys blow me, and I love the gay culture, I could never give pussy up.

God I love bisexual men. Go live long and prosper! Be fruitful and multiply and teach people to be adventurous and curious, r26!

OP, I would normally say it's a mid life crises, but at 57 you are probably too old for that. I'm guessing you're just too old to be gay, gay sex is for young hot guys.

I guess Richard Armitage and Lee Pace fangirls have a hope after all.

This trollish homophobic thread is still around?

I love Bisexual men too, r89! Especially when they are getting their asses plowed hard when they thought they were just going to get a blow job.

Nobody craves cock more than "Bisexual" guys.

[quote]Nobody craves cock more than "Bisexual" guys.

So true. Funny how bi men on the internet are always about "letting gay men blow them", but every one I've met in person just wants to get assfucked.

This must be why only 1.5 to 2 percent of respondents to most polls claim to be gay.

You're wasting your time looking for women on craigslist unless you're not picky at all.

And you're not gay if you're into women. You're bisexual.

I'm turning Japanese! Turning Japanese!

This thread is making me deliciously horny.

Hot thread

God, this thread - SO f'ing hot! I think I'M turning into a het, too!

I'm gay but there are some women who can give me a boner, young ones with big tits. Maybe this is some vestige of heterosexuality earlier on?

I'd love to motorboat a hot chick with humongous knockers. I think. It's never going to happen and if it did... Maybe I'd be totally turned off.

I have a STEM track gay friend who is always staring at tits even during the most inappropriate moments imaginable (like someone telling him about a family member's diagnosis). WTF? I'm just going with it's a geek thing, but it does make me wonder if maybe he confused being clinically socially awkward with being gay.

OP: Hire someone with the looks you want. (Is that Las Vegas calling?) You have much to learn about the differences in male-female sex relationships v male-male. That shit really doesn't fly in gurl world.

This thread was from a while back. What's the update? Did OP and the other posters who were developing feelings for women end up having sex with women or what? Are you guys bi/straight now?

They were probably all Bi. I wonder what became of all of them...

It's a phase.

A 57-year-old man who's only interested in women less than half his age? That's a straight woman's nightmare, not fantasy.

Wow l

Hmmmmmm

Who is bumping these fucking threads from years ago?

I hear you. I am a white guy who was always attracted to black women. I could easily switch for a sweet, funny, beautiful sexy black lady I often see at the Post Office. Yeah, I look at men. But for awhile, I have it bad for this one girl.

Oh my god I wrote this whole passionate response to this thread and then noticed it was a necro. How foolish I would have felt, being played like a baboon.

You're not gay, OP. You're bisexual.

OP has probably passed away by now.

I'm a lesbian. Sometimes when I seen a young man who's very fit and muscular, I will feel a slight twinge of horniness for a second. I think that even though my brain is emotionally attracted to women, my girl parts can sometimes temporarily respond to the sight of men. (Maybe girl parts have their own evolutionary response--to encourage furthering the species--that kicks in until my brain reminds them of the gay situation.) I could see having a good time in bed with a man. It would be like riding a roller coaster once a year. The ride is fun for awhile, but soon you just want to get off and go home. I don't think I could ever emotionally "fall in love" with a man, though.