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Proudbator

"I consider myself a professional masturbater"

He's gorgeous! Why keep that to himself?

by Anonymousreply 73July 9, 2021 3:24 AM

Oops! Bad link!

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by Anonymousreply 1March 23, 2014 11:28 PM

Bad

by Anonymousreply 2March 23, 2014 11:36 PM

Lots of hot solosexual masturbators online nowadays - I mean, guys who happily define their sexual identity as bate freaks, edgers and gooners who are "in a relationship" with or "in love with" their dicks. Check out Bateworld or a number of hot bate Tumblrs.

by Anonymousreply 3April 29, 2014 12:11 AM

No pubes?

by Anonymousreply 4April 29, 2014 1:21 AM

So many guys masturbate online these days. There is often a great sense of accomplishment demonstrated almost like it's something unique or difficult based on the act itself, the build up, execution and the distance and amount of cum shot.

I like watching, but I can't imagine doing this for the public to see and knowing my family and friends would see it. Sure I've done it in the steam room, but not on video, alone or with a partner. But I guess I'm glad others do.

by Anonymousreply 5April 29, 2014 1:34 AM

Proudbator is that you at R3?

by Anonymousreply 6April 29, 2014 1:49 AM

The general consensus of course used to be that all males masturbated but no one much talked about it. Then, it was mildly admitted to and it became sort of a joke. But no one ever wanted to be caught playing with himself.

But now, jacking off is celebrated and done on video as a badge of honor for all to see.

by Anonymousreply 7April 29, 2014 1:59 AM

The guy who loves guys "Naked except for a t-shirt" would love that video.

by Anonymousreply 8April 29, 2014 2:02 AM

Meh. He ain't all that.

by Anonymousreply 9April 29, 2014 2:15 AM

Is Proudbator "in a relationship" with or "in love with" his dick?

Here's his website (pay site).

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by Anonymousreply 10April 29, 2014 3:08 AM

R6, no I'm not Proudbator. I think he's hot but he's not one of my favorite online bators. Check out some others like Mr. Undoit. I find this whole "bate culture" very interesting - the fetishisation of solosexuality or solo cock worship, edging vs. gooning, products like Albolene or terms like "popperbating"! I also find it interesting how a lot of these online bators identify as straight while referring to each other as batebros or batebuds. I wanted to start a thread about it but I'm not a paying member, so I hopped on Proudbator's thread. Any DL members on Bateworld?

by Anonymousreply 11April 29, 2014 12:49 PM

What do we think of Bigdicktexan69?

"Hey guys, it's Christmas night and my family's asleep here at the ranch house, and all I've been thinking about is getting my dick out and edging, man... My life is just orgasms with the shit that happens in the middle, man..."

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by Anonymousreply 12April 29, 2014 1:00 PM

r4, you nailed it. Seeing a man without pubes erect and acting in a sexual manner is beyond creepy.

by Anonymousreply 13April 29, 2014 1:23 PM

"My life is just orgasms with the shit that happens in the middle, man..."

Wow, that could be my motto as well. I am 49 and masturbating several times a day is essential.

by Anonymousreply 14April 29, 2014 1:30 PM

young

by Anonymousreply 15April 29, 2014 1:35 PM

I agree R14. What amuses (and arouses) me about Bigdicktexan is the blatant sense of desperation with which he needs to connect with his "bate brothers" as an escape from the hell of his husband/dad life.

by Anonymousreply 16April 29, 2014 1:57 PM

I watched some of Mr. Undoit's videos, and what I don't like about him is how he departs from his "self love" to verbalize his craving of others. I wonder whether that's at the heart of this: wanting adulation.

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by Anonymousreply 17April 30, 2014 1:27 AM

I see your point, R17. Mr. Undoit had some intense early videos but he's recently gotten a bit too performative for my tastes, a bit "celebrity online masturbator" in his attitude. Which other online bators do you (or others) like, and why?

Dickfriction wants you to watch his bate!

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by Anonymousreply 18April 30, 2014 6:34 PM

R18, this guy, Roge09, hasn't posted in a couple of years, but he seems genuine and unaffected. Mr. Undoit seems to fetishize certain words and lingo common to these bators too much. Roge09 just focuses on stroking his dick and enjoying it.

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by Anonymousreply 19May 1, 2014 1:57 AM

On the flip side...

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by Anonymousreply 20May 1, 2014 2:52 AM

Roge09 is hot!

Proudbator enjoys his morning coffee

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by Anonymousreply 21May 12, 2014 10:53 AM

not really into solos per se, but proudbator is a good looking dude. he seems to really enjoy his dick!

by Anonymousreply 22May 12, 2014 1:23 PM

this is kind of hot

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by Anonymousreply 23May 12, 2014 1:29 PM

[quote] Lots of hot solosexual masturbators online nowadays - I mean, guys who happily define their sexual identity as bate freaks, edgers and gooners who are "in a relationship" with or "in love with" their dicks.

In other words, basement dwellers with no job, no skills, no brains and no class.

Not hot.

by Anonymousreply 24May 12, 2014 1:43 PM

The guy in OPs`video link looks like Jeremy Renner.

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by Anonymousreply 25May 12, 2014 1:54 PM

Proudbator doing what he does best

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by Anonymousreply 26May 12, 2014 4:07 PM

Roge09 is nice indeed.

by Anonymousreply 27May 12, 2014 10:58 PM

Hey guys. Proudbator here, from proudbator.com. I found this thread out of the blue and found it rather interesting. Some say we're creepy others seem to enjoy the solo thingy. someone mentioned "In other words, basement dwellers with no job, no skills, no brains and no class.

Not hot." I disagree though..im not dumb, i have a job, i have 2 degrees and heading to a masters, sexuality is a bizarre thing, and it exhibitionism has no colour, no age, no social class and definitely nothing to do with someone's abilities as a person. it's sex for feck sakes! I also call myself Gay and an online solosexual. I do refer to buddies as baterbuddies batebros etc, but god do I love men. just clarifying.

Anyway, just thought I could speak for myself since others seem to speak for us. ;-) cheers and thanks for the thread by the way, im flattered!

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by Anonymousreply 28October 6, 2014 9:57 AM

From your language and spelling, I gather that you're British?

by Anonymousreply 29October 6, 2014 5:39 PM

[quote]In other words, basement dwellers

Wow, what an original put-down! I have never heard that before. So novel, so fresh! You really are a wit.

by Anonymousreply 30October 6, 2014 5:44 PM

"all I've been thinking about is getting my dick out and edging, man... My life is just orgasms with the shit that happens in the middle, man..."

He's articulate, too! He sounds like a dream.

by Anonymousreply 31October 6, 2014 5:50 PM

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by Anonymousreply 32October 6, 2014 6:48 PM

He's from New Zealand.

by Anonymousreply 33October 6, 2014 6:52 PM

R28,

If you are the real Proudbator the let me tell you that you are HOT. I find you to be incredibly beautiful. However, I'm perplexed by your boyfriend. He's older and not so attractive. I'm assuming he's financially supporting you? Just curious. I know it's none of my business but was just wondering why you aren't hooked up with someone else who matches your age and looks.

Keep up the good work, man. Love it.

by Anonymousreply 34October 6, 2014 6:58 PM

[quote]I consider myself a professional masturbater

The epitome of "nice work if you can get it."

by Anonymousreply 35October 6, 2014 7:26 PM

[quote] I'm perplexed by your boyfriend. He's older and not so attractive. I'm assuming he's financially supporting you? Just curious. I know it's none of my business but was just wondering why you aren't hooked up with someone else who matches your age and looks.

I take it that that man (those men?) are not his boyfriend(s). Perhaps he has a taste for older men? And, R34, you seem to be missing some of the point of being a "proud bator"; he probably isn't looking for hookups with many people in that he primarily enjoys, and prefers, sex with himself.

by Anonymousreply 36October 10, 2014 3:39 AM

They circumcise in New Zealand?

by Anonymousreply 37October 10, 2014 4:20 AM

R37, if I recall from either his site or Tumblr page, he is not originally from New Zealand. Brazil, perhaps?

by Anonymousreply 38October 10, 2014 4:37 AM

They circumcise in Brazil?

by Anonymousreply 39October 10, 2014 4:39 AM

R36,

There is an older, chubbier guy that is featured with him in some of his videos. Either the older guy is sucking him off or he's sucking the older guy off.

Also, you can still love jerking your cock and having sex. It's not a one or the other deal.

by Anonymousreply 40October 10, 2014 4:44 AM

The overall prevalence of circumcision is reported to be 6.9% in Colombia, and 7.4% in Brazil (13% in Rio de Janeiro).

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by Anonymousreply 41October 10, 2014 4:45 AM

Then why were most of the guys in G Magazine (even the celebs) uncut. I seem to only recall three cuts -- Rodrigo Phavanello, Miguel Kelner, and Caetano Zonaro. I remember them specifically because they were the only cut ones.

by Anonymousreply 42October 10, 2014 4:58 AM

Charming!

by Anonymousreply 43October 10, 2014 5:06 AM

Where are the videos w the older guy on the site? I see clip in the preview video, but not in the actual video page.

by Anonymousreply 44October 10, 2014 5:50 AM

[quote]They circumcise in Brazil?

That would be definite progress for that country.

by Anonymousreply 45October 10, 2014 6:19 AM

There ae Jews And Muslims in New Zealand and Brazil. Obviously,they would be circumcised.

by Anonymousreply 46October 10, 2014 6:27 AM

Brazilians and New Zealanders are civilized, not barbaric. No, they don't circumcise.

by Anonymousreply 47October 10, 2014 8:57 AM

So is it worth the $55?

by Anonymousreply 48October 10, 2014 10:25 AM

Well, he is definitely hot, and the videos are well done and HD quality. So, yeah, it's worth it since it's just a one-time charge for lifetime membership.

by Anonymousreply 49October 10, 2014 10:33 AM

Although he says he's a "professional masturbator", what do you think his day job is?

by Anonymousreply 50October 10, 2014 12:10 PM

An interview with Proudbator.

[quote] Bate is where I am happy with - there’s way too much drama with people, I don’t have time for any of their shit, my dick is far more important.

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by Anonymousreply 51January 9, 2016 3:45 AM

Love Yourself.

by Anonymousreply 52February 18, 2016 9:01 PM

He says he's an amateur on one of those sites. So which is it, professional or amateur?

by Anonymousreply 53February 18, 2016 10:44 PM

Is masturbation the future of sexuality?

You see guys, let’s talk shit now. I see a shift, a massive shift, from bottom x top to simply “solo”. I mean, there has always been masturbaters don’t get me wrong but solo baters, guys who really dedicate all of their time and cum and efforts to worshipping their own sexuality and their bodies (nothing to do with 6 packs, big yawn) like me, are multiplying by the minute. I guess people are finally walking away from all the shitty gay drama of “who is top who is bottom here?” and dedicating a lot more time to their own sexuality being gay or not. That’s what I do. I have no time for other people’s shit. All of my time is dedicated to my dick because to me that is all that matters. My dick. I think, this is a personal opinion, all those images of people fucking each other and all those penetrative porn, dudes fucking other dudes while starring at the camera are yesterday’s game. It’s all about someone else’s ego, what are they trying to prove? Who is in charge of their disposable game? Give me a break. The future is solo, the future is individualistic, the future is is your own, at the end of the day all that matter is our own body needs.

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by Anonymousreply 54April 18, 2016 12:46 AM

I'm tired of guys on chaturbate claiming to be completely straight but never remove their dildos from their asses.

by Anonymousreply 55April 18, 2016 1:02 AM

Is bateworld down??? Anyone know?

by Anonymousreply 56May 12, 2016 8:01 PM

I am a gay male bator with a fetish for tight, white t-shirts. Whenever I get home, I take off all my clothes and put on a tight, white t-shirt. I try to do chores around the house but whenever I walk past a full-length mirror I get hot looking at my swarthy body in contrast to the tight, white t-shirt that covers my torso. Needless to say, I don't get much work done.

by Anonymousreply 57June 22, 2016 7:43 PM

Are you a solosexual, R57?

by Anonymousreply 58June 22, 2016 7:45 PM

I am a proud bator.

by Anonymousreply 59June 27, 2016 7:46 PM

Looks like an average white guy to me. Is that what passes for hot?

by Anonymousreply 60June 27, 2016 7:58 PM

He might not be great-looking but he's an inspiration for male bators everywhere.

by Anonymousreply 61June 28, 2016 2:51 PM

Wanker here. I joined a gay jacks group in my home town and now I have guys I can wank off with. The guys are friendly and playful and I shoot off each and every time.

by Anonymousreply 62November 29, 2016 7:35 PM

r62 Are you related to Peggy Bundy?

by Anonymousreply 63November 29, 2016 7:38 PM

He closed his site despite promising to lifetime members weekly content. Switch and bait (or not bate). He's now Captain Roddy on Pornhub. He covers his face on Pornhub I suspect because if he revealed it he'd be seen as providing content outside his obligated content on his own site.

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by Anonymousreply 64December 22, 2018 11:04 AM

He is now on Just for Fans as Proudbator (rather than Captain Roddy).

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by Anonymousreply 65May 26, 2020 1:18 AM

I find aerobic masturbation burns calories.

by Anonymousreply 66May 26, 2020 1:23 AM

R66, I believe in linear time and object permanence.

by Anonymousreply 67May 26, 2020 3:51 AM

He says he is a solosexual, i.e., he only masturbates. He says he's a virgin in that he has never had anal sex.

by Anonymousreply 68May 27, 2020 3:35 AM

Proudbator recently mentioned DL on Twitter:

[quote] I remember a time when I was one of the only bators online, i was laughed at as "solo bator, HA HA HA" reading some mean comments on Datalounge makes me giggle now. Look where the world is now uh. BAM

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by Anonymousreply 69June 6, 2020 7:39 PM

This coinage made me think of Sarah Palin's "proud clingers", lol.

by Anonymousreply 70June 6, 2020 7:46 PM

I like jerking other guys off, does that still count as being a "bator"?

by Anonymousreply 71June 7, 2020 1:09 PM

All those chronic masturbators who were thrown into asylums way back in the day. They were most certainly born well before their times.

by Anonymousreply 72June 7, 2020 2:02 PM

PB is delish!

by Anonymousreply 73July 9, 2021 3:24 AM
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