Does bottoming hurt? Do you enjoy it?

The ways of love are a mystery to me. The feeling of man’s pelvis pounding against your haunches as you lie bent over a beer-soaked pool table grasping for leverage. And the endless jackhammer action turns you into a quivering mound of oozing pleasure. It is not something I could ever understand.

'Practice makes perfect...'.

This guy knows the drill (NSFW).

OUCH!

It hurts me a lot. It takes forever to get me relaxed enough to fit more than a finger in. It's not fun.

Thank god for enthusiastic bottoms though. I'm just not a very good one.

Hurts like a motherf*cker. There is nothing pleasurable about getting fucked. I can live without it and be very happy.

It hurts soooo good

Hated it. I felt like I was giving birth while drowning! I have no idea why getting fucked is so popular!

Clearly the bottoms have not arrived yet. Either that, or they aren't inclined to explain what is perfectly normal for them to us weenies. Again.

Absolutely love it and I cum just from being fucked. The fact that another man is using my hot ass for his pleasure gets me so turned on. I am always rock hard while being fucked too. I feel like such a little buttslut while taking it too, and I love to bitch out and moan loudly while getting it. Love it doggy especially--sluttier that way!

you have to push out with your asshole during insertion of the cock like you are taking a shit. Once it is in it is all smooth sailing from there. However, after I get the cum fucked out of me I usually want the cock out of my ass immediately because it becomes uncomfortable.

It may hurt initially, but once you see those eyes leave this world you figure it must be worth a little discomfort.

Who the fuck keeps posting this crap?

Why do you ask, OP? And if you're so curious and too fat to acquire a top, why don't you get a big dildo and find out for yourself?

Tried it once, just shy of my eighteenth birthday. Sorry to tell you, OP, but I found it the dullest act in the sexual repertoire!

This thread is ridiculous, and there are a lot of people joking in their replies. However, when it is done right, bottoming can give you the best orgasm ever.

[quote]get a big dildo

This is bad advice lol, start smaller.

Anal hurts like a motherfucker. Not pleasurable at all.

it hurts, and then REALLY hurts, then you adjust, then you really get into the feeling of being with this guy, then you REALLY want MORE, then you both cum.

yes, it hurts, at the beginning.

It's mildly uncomfortable, but then it's awesome to get slamfucked hard and deep.

Nothing feels better than a big thick cock stretching your hole. Nothing.

Jesus - of course it's going to hurt a bit at first. Just like women's virginity. But it doesn't take too long before it feels good, then it feels GREAT.

You have to take it slow though - and try it more than once. The first time is never really good - but by the 3rd or 4th, you'll be jumping on top of him.

It feels like shitting. I guess that's pleasurable for some.

[quote]Absolutely love it and I cum just from being fucked. The fact that another man is using my hot ass for his pleasure gets me so turned on. I am always rock hard while being fucked too. I feel like such a little buttslut while taking it too, and I love to bitch out and moan loudly while getting it. Love it doggy especially--sluttier that way!

Yes, we know you're an enthusiastic fan, Mr. Renner.

I've only enjoyed it once or twice. Mostly, I don't care for it. I don't like topping much either. I enjoy mutual JO and oral better.

[quote]Real Men are Versatile

yup

Versatiles are dreaded/

You gotta go really slow. My boyfriend is VERY enthusiastic and rammy. I always have to slow him down - do things like hold the shaft while he thrusts the tip in and out a bit. And lots of lube. Lots. Well, not so much that you keep slipping out, but work in a bit at a time. And finally - relax, relax, relax.

If it hurts, you're not doing it right!

You need to be warmed up first, with the top using just one finger, then two, then three. You can't just randomly shove a dick into an asshole without any prep work, duhhh!

[quote]You need to be warmed up first, with the top using just one finger, then two, then three. You can't just randomly shove a dick into an asshole without any prep work, duhhh!

And don't touch your eyes afterward, that's where styes come from.

A number of years ago I read an article in a legitimate medical journal about anal pleasure. The article explained that the nerves surrounding the anus and about an inch into it, as well as the nerves in the perineum, are attached to the same nerve bundle that goes to the spine as are the genitals. That's why many men stay hard while getting fucked and some even cum spontaneously, no-hands. There is also the pleasure that results from the stimulation of the prostate that can cause an orgasm.

[quote]You need to be warmed up first, with the top using just one finger, then two, then three. You can't just randomly shove a dick into an asshole without any prep work, duhhh!

[quote]by: str8 chick who apparently knows more than some of you

Oh bless your fan fiction reading heart, honey. Did you feel the need to speak up because you got bored waiting for someone to ask about vaginal intercourse?

fun for most people in fact

I love it when it hurts

when it hurts it means he loves you

It's stressful to make sure you are always clean

no stress here

Stinks

How do you ensure you will be clean, especially in the throes of passion?

you just have to be adults r38. shower if necessary.

Of course it must hurt, anuses weren't made to have penises shoved up them

Says who, r40?

If pleasure is derived from it that seems reason enough, you fucking homophobic cunt.

Says who? Says human biology. The bumhole is for excreting not inserting.

no, it is not, it's for pleasuring and enjoying.

Then why does it feel good against the prostrate, you homophobic piece of shit?

Don't know but pieces of shit are what it's there for.

then go away, stop posting now.

Oh, oh, oh...

OW!

Oh, oh, oh, oh...

OW!

Oh, ooooh....

OW, OW!

Ohhh, um....

Maybe it has more than one use r45. We've been on this earth as long as you have. God and biology made it feel good for a reason you homophobic piece of shit.

won't hurt if you go for little cocks. but the best cocks that are manly, virile, testosterone-laden, are the cocks of big men. Tall men, men with big feet and hands wearing wife beaters. Non-white men! Blacks and Latinos and Italians, and Puerto Rican cocks all are worthy of the pain. They are big. All of them. Rican cocks are thick and rigid. the cocks that are cut and smooth go in nicely after the pain subsides. greased cocks for friction. you want to feel like a bitch you have to take it like a bitch

Maybe the prostate touching bit feels good, but does the dick entering asshole bit really feel good?

Can't feel as good as entering a vagina anyway.

lmao r49

You admit to not knowing, you homophobic piece of shit.

Why do bigots like you frequent gay sites r50?

R49 If blacks, Latinos, Italians etc. have bigger cocks, do they also have bigger anuses?

Why are you so touchy? I never said it was wrong for you to do what you do.

No r54, you are the biggest asshole.

Some of you militant bottom bitches need to lighten up. It's been a while since some of you have been pounded out, hasn't it?

It has been, I need cocks

the thirst is real

It only hurts when he calls me 'Loosey'.

Just curious,were you bottom guys always into your holes,like were you shoving stuff up there when you were young for the sensation?

For the experts here, I'm serious...I've tried bottoming about 20 times at least and while it felt better the last 10 times, I was never completely comfortable. The last 14 or so times were all with the same guy too. It always hurt a little bit and I just don't know how so many of you seem to have an easy time bottoming. I want to bottom but so far it hasn't been a great feeling.

My buddy loves -- LOVES! -- being fucked. But his ass is so tight, I have a difficult time maintaining an erection.

R40 and R42, then how do you explain the prostate?

Exactly r64, the prostate is there for a reason. That fire knot loves stimulation.

Speaking of bottoming, DL has hit bottom. And, yes, it hurts.

I love my anal sex toys for a reason

I love it when a hard cock penetrates me

It's a little worse than slamming your hand in a car door while having a hammer smashed into your big toe.

Never did bottom, but my first experience plugging a bottom was a little, 100 lb blonde teen girl--she took it all without lube, and I'm on the large size. Hey, we call it the Mormon vagina in Utah!

Stupid hurts worse

You have to do more than showering to prep for anal.

It's actually sickening to think of all the random midday anonymous hook ups that go on...only for the shit factor. I know there's a lot of shitty sex happening but people deny that aspect of it.

I was always a top & when I would try to bottom hurt like a bitch. They I bought a dildo and learnt to open myself, now I am a slutty bottom whore! Its the greatest feeling. One question I do have is so many of my friends say they have been with guys that weren't clean etc etc. WTF I would never offer my hole if it wasn't spotless & prelubed. It unclean guys actually an issue?

now I am a slutty bottom whore

YES, just the type of poster I needs!!!

I've been looking into having my hole bleached. I think it looks more estheic and pleasing.

Its pretty expensive several sessions and costing $2175

Does anyone know anyone that's had it done & if so were they happy with the results

Actually, bottoming Should hurt, that's why it works

The scary thing is the rapid evolution of increasing penis size. With women engaging in premarital sex, they are now able to know ahead of time and to choose well endowed men for husbands. The result is a generation of young men with monster cocks. Will holes need to evolve to keep pace, or will we see an end to practical anal sex?

Ear syringe to clean out first. Albolene on you and him. Enjoy!

[quote] I think it looks more estheic and pleasing.

I suppose you want to be effluent too. Well, let me tell you - you ARE effluent!

I need a hot shower after reading this thread.

Start with a good, thorough fisting. Sure, it hurts, but afterwards you'll hardly feel it when he slips his cock in.

ha ha

I just can’t with this thread. Not again.

I've tried it, it was painful and unpleasant. In truth I wasn't prepared and wasn't with someone I felt comfortable with, but I do believe not every ass is the same and not everyone is built to bottom.

Why does it matter if the bottom has a shitty hole if you're going to wear a condom anyway?

[quote]Non-white men! Blacks and Latinos and Italians

Italians are white.

[quote]Will holes need to evolve to keep pace, or will we see an end to practical anal sex?

You'll see it more often because thicker cocks don't hurt like thin ones. The only issue is length. It can't be too long.

I wouldn’t know - I’m an aggressive top!

If your not experienced and/or it's difficult/painful, and you want to bottom... you need to have a patient and good top who will work you into bottoming. In fact it can be incredibly sexy to slowly get going- lots of good communication and concurrent action, kissing you name it. If someone just rams it into you and you grin and bare it it- won't work probably. In any case, to each his own. When it works, it's a lot of fun and definitely an incredibly intimate act if you want it to be and make so.

I really have no interest in bottoming. Looks like it hurts like hell. My bf feels the same way. Neither of us has any interest in anal sex, either as top of bottom. He massages my anus with his fingers, and that's enough to roll my eyes to the back of my head and scream out in ecstasy.

OP. Did you get what you came here for...

[quote]He massages my anus with his fingers, and that's enough to roll my eyes to the back of my head and scream out in ecstasy.

I find this hilarious.

R74 you better go get you some Clorox...it's a lot cheaper

My husband got some peanut butter on his ding-a-ling this morning when he pulled out of my poo-pussy

I like 2 cocks in my hole at the same time !

Bleaching, douching, poppers. If anal sex were natural, it wouldn't be this much trouble to prep for it. And no, I'm not homophobic. I'm a gay man who finds nothing appealing about.

But R95... why does it feel soooooo GOOD ???

I don't know, I've been with bottoms that didn't need to bleach or use poppers. I guess maybe they took a shit beforehand but I don't think they douched unless they carry it along with them.

R30 thank you so much. That made my day.

It's really not worth a prolapse for.

I'm a bottom who enjoys the feeling of a man in me. I don't like dildoes because there's is't a warm man attached to them.

My sloppy bottom friend, however, says a the stretching of his ass feels amazing and it doesn't matter what's doing it.

R98 all good bottoms douche. It’s just part of hooking up.

I learned a long time ago that the initial pain is the stinging from insertion and activation of nerves that don’t normally get any action, pun intended.

Just have the top pull out for a second and then slide it in again and you will be on a ride to Poundtown. Those nerves will have been desensitized and you’ll be moaning and groaning with pleasure.

While I like bottom, I get no enjoyment out of being violently pounded. Slow and steady

Oh go fuck yourself r97 ! seems like you need a good pounding or jealous you can't find anyone to do that for you !

If your ass get stretched too much you can end up incontinent and having to wear diapers for the rest of your life.

In 40 years of being active sexually, ive been fucked roughly 20 times, and 4 were pleasurable with no pain whatsoever, and pretty fantastic - One was fucking out of this world--- I felt a sensation I've never felt before or since - like butterflies fluttering up and down my spine ! I almost cried when he said was going to cum - I wanted it to last another 8 hours or so - my cock was steel hard the whole time. His name was Jay, and it was June 4th bout 10 years ago......If you're in Datalounge, thanks for the best bottoming of my life....

It depends on the top and his abilities at foreplay. Lots of rimming first, slow fingering, etc. If it is done right, with a little finesse it is painless. Otherwise, ouch!

[quote] If your ass get stretched too much you can end up incontinent and having to wear diapers for the rest of your life.

That's a bunch of hooey.

I know tons of guys have had a lifetime of bottoming (and I mean alot of bottoming) and being fisting and not a single one of them wears diapers

Maybe the diaper fetishists do.

Yes it hurts so good, come on baby make it hurt so good. Sometimes love don't feel like it should, you know it, hurts so good.

I just feel like I’ve been taken to heaven as writhe in ecstasy.

R81 is the bump bitch bump. Note that after 5 freaking years, the only thing she says is

[quote]ha ha

A non sequitur. The OP's and most of the first comments' links are dead. Why bump this?

A new thread could have been started on the topic with fresh links ... or could it? Maybe somebody needs to post in a bunch of random threads for karma, before she can then use those browsers to post more of her addled OPs.

Oh r113 just have your top gently slide one well lubed finger in and then he can work another one in. Your eyes will just roll in the back of your head as you writhe in ecstasy.

It feels exactly like you’re taking the biggest shit of your life every fucking minute. Ugh!

R3 still has penpals. Get with the times, great grandpa. Jesus.

Most tops think the asshole is a vagina and just shove it in without lube. They're too lazy and selfish.

Scientifically, the anus is an erogenous zone, and can be stimulated at the prostate to cum on its own. The pudendal nerve splits and registers nerve impulses from the penis and anus. That hole is made for screwing. When I met my black boyfriend online, we hit it off and I picked him up at the bus station. In all the time we corresponded, the size of his dick was never mentioned. When we got home from picking him up, I was not disappointed and he screwed me almost every day for 3 years--with a tool that was 9-1/2" long and 6-1/2" wide. I used to ride him often, just to make sure I got all of his dick. I don't remember it ever hurting, only making me want more.

R118 Fucking a white, gaping hole makes up for all the trauma black boys have experienced. Thanks for doing your part, Ms My Holes A Gaping.

Dear god, no! It hurts! Don't ever do it.

What kind of spaz are you, OP?

R118, shame your phone goat bf cheated on you.

R53, you meant to reference R48.

But what about the ecstasy?

R103 is correct. Lots of lube is key, a little booze, poppers, or coke don’t hurt either (not too much). When I’m being entered, I’m basically sent to a planet of pure Amazement. I love being a hungry, slave, gay male bottom...I’m kind of glad I’m not straight, I couldn’t imagine life without a dick in me.

I agree with the above, lube and toys are key, especially to those who are not total bottoms and fucked frequently enough that's it's easy to open up again. No drugs required. It's not entirely the same for women, but many if not most women are not ready to be penetrated either. I like anal beads, start with the small end, switch to the other end, sometimes a medium plug and usually that's all I need because I have a great partner.

I'm vers top, but in a relationship and love having my partner inside of me. We don't pound each other. We vary it up but we take out time enjoying being inside of each other with long, deep strokes, and kiss throughout. We can go for more than an hour if we flip. When you're really attracted to someone, you'll get it.

It’s a fine line between pleasure and pain

Funnily enough, your ass has evolved to facilitate the regular passage of tapered cylindrical objects. I don't understand how the crybabies who whine about the pain manage to pass a shit each day, or do they poop spaghetti?

top here, r84, and shit on the condom is an almost instant boner-killer for me. It turns sex to scat and turns me off, can't help it

Sucks when they have diarrhea! Definitely need a towel on the bed then.

It hurts. Mildly to badly. I never had an orgasm. I do it to pleasure my tops. I like to give them pleasure. I don't care so much for mine

Top here, nothing hotter than when a bottom cums while we're fucking. Got a guy to shoot hands free only once but I must admit I felt very proud

I can imagine how much it hurts for asian guys. Their holes are like a mm wide. Yikes.

Bottoming is all in your head. If you have committed in your mind to relaxing your asshole and receiving a cock in it, you'll do it without too much trouble.

After you have some experience, it will become infinitely easier. You'll better understand the parameters of the exercise and relaxing the sphincter will be easy. You will be able to do it at will.

Until you have some familiarity with the process, your body defaults to resisting all intruders. You'll be clamped down hard against a hard cock pushing to get in. It hurts. Work your way through it and the pain is done. You will have to learn to love it, but once you have have mastered the technique, you'll love it.

If you're raising with douching being a regular event... insertion of the nozzle, etc...then anal sex is less likely to be something that's feared.

Routine passage, here.

Why do most men in porn use poppers? To relax cause it hurts. I’ve tried it a few times and it is not pleasurable for me to bottom. My hole is tight. I am amazed at prolapsed holes My best orgasms have been mutual jo while kissing.

[quote]R77 Albolene on you and him. Enjoy!

Yes, enjoy your CONDOM BREAKING.

That is an oil-based product, ya dumbshit.

condoms. how quaint.

R137, there are many types of condoms available now that are compatible with oil and silicone lubricants. And there is also barebacking.

I don't know what took me so long to peek at this thread. This one is a keeper. I laughed, got slightly aroused (then slightly disgusted) then laughed some more. DL at its best!

I'm a big ole cock hog ! the bigger the better.. I like to feel it tapping on my liver

Atta girl, r141!

[quote]R134 If you're raising with douching being a regular event (insertion of the nozzle, etc.) then...

Well, thank god THAT wasn’t the case!