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Why are gay bodybuilders so often bottoms?

Gay men who fetishize bodybuilders usually (not always, but usually want them to be tops because we fantasize about having great power and mastery with their muscles. Yet most BBs I've met always want to fling their legs up into the air when you get them into bed.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 7507/03/2015

Fucking is too much energy when you can barely waddle.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 309/23/2013

Because they have tiny roid penises.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 609/23/2013

Something about big authoritative guys being big pussies, not sure what it is though. Can't tell you how many big tough cops, firefighters, EMTs, military and similar types I have had that ended up begging to be bound or spanked or humiliated or something. The two definitely go together. I live in the DC area, and the freakiest ones are the Secret Service. Over the top need to be dominated. I've briefly dated three of them. All were still very closeted. The only bigger freak I dated was a Virginia State Trooper that wanted to be punched hard in the stomach and kicked in the balls. I drew the line at that. Also, that bastard ran my plates when we first met to verify my name and age, which pissed me off when he told me.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 709/23/2013

R& - are you talking about your fantasy life or your real life?

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 809/23/2013

I think the bodybuilding can be a way of compensating for internalized homophobia. They can't reconcile their masculinity with being a natural bottom (though as R4 said, it doesn't have to equal submissiveness, but many can't separate the two).

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 909/23/2013

R8, my real one. Don't care if you believe me or not. Go meet some people, get out into the real world, try going on a few dates - meet some of these guys we're talking about and find out for yourself.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 1009/23/2013

R7, fascinating!

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 1109/23/2013

"The bigger the muscles, the bigger the bottom."

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 1309/23/2013

Bodybuilders have massive insecurity issues they think their bigger muscles will fix.

They don't

Ever notice how so many of them are short?

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 1409/23/2013

I like 'em because even if the hole is loose they can grip my dick with their muscular glutes.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 1509/23/2013

R16 You make these threads sound so trivial and depressing. That is not part of the standard DL thread template.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 1809/23/2013

r16, you forgot to include:

Then some know-it-all posts a snarky summary of the whole thread as metacommentary, trying to show how he's above it all.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 1909/23/2013

That only happens once in awhile R19. I did leave out though the obligatory male celebrity mentions and the folks saying that he's gay, has a beard, their roommate stuffed a gerbil up his ass, etc.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 2009/23/2013

`Yikes" R7. That`s a reason I would avoid dating law enforcement officers. Rememeber what ahppened to matt on that old `Melrose Place

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 2109/23/2013

No, but it probably happened to me too and I'm a better man now because of it

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 2209/23/2013

@R4, many women have the submission, dominate, rape fantasies too.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 2309/24/2013

[quote]They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.

That's actually true.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 2409/24/2013

Bodybuilders are passive in relation to the weights that they lift. If you think about it, your avg. bodybuilder is search of a 'weight', a power that they can't overcome. They seek to be dominated no matter how much they may like the body adoration/body worship.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 2609/24/2013

Oh c'mon, if you can't talk shit about Muscle Mary gays at DL, we might as well turn off the Intermess - it's over.

The phrase, "Man of Steel, Heels of Helium" didn't magically appear from The Isle of Lezbo. They're not that creative, and Muscle Queens have a lot in common with Labiarians.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 2709/24/2013

Really R24?

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 2909/29/2013

Would love to screw one now. Guess I will join a gym soon!

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 3009/29/2013

Maybe it's the area where you live? I've only met ones who were tops...

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 3109/29/2013

Tiny dicks and steroid shrinkage.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 3209/29/2013

I've been into bodybuilding for over ten years. Just love to be dominated by a cute skinny guy with a massive cock.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 3312/09/2013

I would so pay to see that R33. Hot!

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 3412/09/2013

Speak for yourself r2.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 3612/10/2013

My own experience supports OP's view, they tend to be bottoms and for obvious reasons (insecurity/shame/etc). Also, muscular guys know how to use their butt muscles to squeeze on your dick, I love it.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 3712/10/2013

The Ass needs to be fucked. And if its your best asset pardon the pun or buns use it.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 3801/04/2014

I don't want to go off on a tangent, but this happens to EVERY gay sub-group... There are just more bottoms than tops in the world... If OP replaced the word "bodybuilders" for "bears" or "twinks", that would also hold true...

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 3909/20/2014

Because it feels good.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 4009/20/2014

Don't know why you bumped this thread to say that R39, but is definitely true.

The majority of men prefer to bottom. That exclusive bottom boys complain that they want more men to be tops doesn't change the simple fact that a majority of guys out there prefer to bottom.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 4109/20/2014

...And the sheer nastiness of some bottoms to other bottoms is risible... There's a female cattiness to it... If you look on Grindr or hook-up websites, you'll see bottoms going "if you're a bottom, don't waste my time"... "No bottoms please"... Answer should be "if you're also a bottom, why should people let you waste THEIR time"...

Tops can be a bit protective of their ass, as if the other top wanted to rape them, but it is all a lot more civil !

The anthropology of being gay, alas...

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 4209/20/2014

Guys who don't bottom are wimps.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 4309/20/2014

Best way to exercise the gluts

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 4409/20/2014

Bodybuilder threads always seem to attract a mental midget like R6 claiming that steroids shrink cocks.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 4509/20/2014

Some hot bodybuilder leaked a nude jerk off video. He has a nice piece.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 4609/27/2014

I love bi bodybuilders, bro

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 4809/27/2014

Because they're gay. More gay men are bottoms than tops.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 4909/27/2014

[quote]You get bitch tits and your dick and balls shrink.

No. You can get btich tits and your balls can shrink.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 5009/27/2014

Are there any gay pro bodybuilders?

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 5109/27/2014

[quote]They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.

That sounds like a reasonable request.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 5209/27/2014

Aren't the words gay and bodybuilding a synonym. Seriously my gym is filled with these kids, and they are the weirdest most blatantly gay human beings that have ever gayed. Theyre also pretty awful people tbh.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 5309/28/2014

Marines own this thread!

Asians own this thread!

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 5409/28/2014

r53... Maybe it's time to stop going to David Barton?

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 5609/28/2014

Bottoms, much like women, spend way too much time on their appearance.

Tops, much like straight guys, don't give a shit.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 5709/30/2014

On the old muscleservice station board many years ago, any time pics of hot muscular porn stars spreading their cheeks were posted, some posters would term them "muscle cunts".

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 5809/30/2014

I personally don't believe "gay for pay" is a real thing, but I do believe that the following is QUITE common.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 5909/30/2014

"Started camming in my teens. The money was intoxicating and i never looked back. The straight guys who cant deal with it simply dont escort. A lot of guys say they are straight but really are somewhat Bi. Like 90% straight 10% gay. In comparison im 100% gay, cant even look at a vagina. You;d be surprised what these 'straight' guys do. First time i worked with another escort was this jacked beyond belief straight dude. Masculine as f*ck, gorgeous, hung like a bull. This guy got fucked so hard by the client and was LOVING it. I was so surprised i almost forgot to do my job. For those that are somewhat bothered by it, get over pretty quickly when they see the cash."

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 6009/30/2014

a bottom bodybuilder? WHERE?

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 6110/30/2014

How about bi bodybuilders?

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 6312/29/2014

[60] who is that quote from?

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 6412/29/2014

but still hard to find them - real "bodybuilder bottoms" ;)

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 6512/30/2014

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by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 6603/07/2015

i once had this discussion with a guy who was all of 5'10 and 175 but had a relationship with a bodybuilder who was 6'3 or so and 250 plus pounds and he was 9 out of 10 times the top to this much bigger guy...

it was his personal thought (he never asked his lover why he was a big musclebound bottom) that such men have a NEED a desperate craving NEED to be approved of and desired and to make the OTHER PERSON (i.e. the top) happy. they felt this way over their own happiness and sexual pleasure happiness. therefore by "surrendering" their bigger body and sexuality and making the OTHER guy, their lover happy made them happy! perhaps a relationship with their father also in that they grew up wanting to please their father and this spilled over to their sex life..

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 6703/07/2015

[quote]You get bitch tits and your dick and balls shrink.

Only two of the above are correct.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 6905/03/2015

for a guy to work hard on making his butt and legs look like that and then shave it down smooth means only one thing - TOTAL INSATIABLE BOTTOM!

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 7005/03/2015

Bodybuilders are not only usually bottoms, but really nasty, sleazy, greasy bottoms, too. I once cruised this tatted, 250 lbs cholo fuckmachine, with a tiny needle dick, minuscule balls, but a muscled bubble butt with an incredibly deep crack and a hole so well used it sorta hung open. I was really getting into it, pounding away with my pulsing throbmeat. I blasted a phat load.

The bottom then started jacking his clit. That pissed me off. I don't like seeing a bottom's cocklet and I fucking hate it when the bottom gets hard or touches his clit. So I pissed on him and that got him fucking stoked. I went down to his bed and squeezed out a pretty full, heavy, greasy log onto the sheets.

His eyes were like bulging out of their fucking sockets, he was so hard. I just dropped the load and he dived down onto it and snarfed it down, chewing and grunting like a pig. The room smelled like shit. Fucking hot tho.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 7105/03/2015

R71 Fuck that's so hot. Nothing like a bottom taking a load of cum, followed by a load of piss and a load of shit. You only know you've owned a bottom when he eats your shit. I'm a pretty heavy, beefy bear in my late fifties with pig tits. There's nothing better than pulling out my scat seat after I've had Mexican or Indian and a six-pack, get a nasty bottom, and just drop shit into his h0m0 mouth while I puff away on my cigar and drink Jamieson straight from the fucking bottle.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 7205/03/2015

The bigger the muscles, the bigger the MARY!

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 7305/03/2015

R71 Not into scat, but that sounds hot, brah.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 7405/03/2015

I came across an interesting article published yesterday on a bodybuilding website about bodybuilding and its homophobia.

Basically, it encourages bodybuilders and bodubuilding fans to stop their homophobia because times have changed and because bodybuilding is the most homoerotic activity we know today.

It seems to be some people in the bodybuilding world are trying to embrace the new times.

by Mr. Broad Generalizationsreply 7507/03/2015
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