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Do you think that gym management are aware of the sexual activity that goes on in their gyms? (part 2)

As requested here is a new gym sex thread...

by Anonymousreply 500Last Wednesday at 4:09 PM

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by Anonymousreply 108/12/2013

Did the old one fill up?

Yes they are aware. Members complain constantly about the trolls jerking off in the sauna window at NYSC 80th street.

Vultures on Viagra no longer content to sit and hope for a partner have become exhibitionists who stand and jerk off to cute guys drying off.

Management does NOTHING

by Anonymousreply 208/12/2013

I'm having sex at a gym as I type this

by Anonymousreply 308/12/2013

Yes, the old thread reached 600.

by Anonymousreply 408/12/2013

[quote] If women were like men, then men and women would be having illicit sex together in the bushes all the time, too.

A lot more common than you might think. 'Dogging' is the straight version of cruising.

by Anonymousreply 508/12/2013

Doesn't seem to be much sexual activity at Crunch gyms in NYC. Lots of cute gay guys, but everyone seems to behave themselves.

by Anonymousreply 608/12/2013

R6 you must be ugly. I get action all the time at Crunch..Lafayette and 54th.

by Anonymousreply 708/12/2013

[quote]Lafayette and 54th.

OK, that address doesn't exist. Are you referring to two separate gyms?

by Anonymousreply 808/12/2013

What was the gym in So Cal that had all the action?

by Anonymousreply 908/12/2013

r597 i love u man... can we meet? tell me which location and time. r586 .. which location is that ? if not addr hint please. reason guys come fully dressed into sauna is tob check out whos there. if they find u attr they will strip and enter or wont bother. some dudes come in a half dozen times during their workout. they give u half glances for 30 milliseconds and decide. if anything ur ego becomes tougher from all these beatings.

by Anonymousreply 1008/12/2013 location is Lafayette, the other is 54th.

by Anonymousreply 1108/12/2013

I still mourn for the Bally at 20th/6th that closed last year. There was no sauna/steam, but the showers were made for cruising and jerking off. Probably had some of my most fulfilling JO's there. I was friendly with one of the trainers there, and he used to jerk off in the back stall all the time.

by Anonymousreply 1208/12/2013

Hmm, here's some questions: 1. On NYSC, for each location, what's the best time to go to get in on/see some action? 2. For DB, what location is best to see action and when? 3. Anyone hear of any action happening after SoulCycle classes?

Glad this thread made it to part two.

by Anonymousreply 1308/12/2013

Thanks for posting the second part to this.

[quote]reason guys come fully dressed into sauna is tob check out whos there. if they find u attr they will strip and enter or wont bother. some dudes come in a half dozen times during their workout.

Not necessarily. The majority of guys that do this are just idiots who are clueless to how gross and stupid it is.

While we're on the subject, something else I can't stand, people who shave in the steam room. People who do that should lose their memberships.

by Anonymousreply 1408/12/2013

I hate guys who sit in the steam room and read a fucking newspaper.

You can actually smell the ink in the air - nasty.

by Anonymousreply 1508/12/2013

r12, you have the morals of a sewer pig, dude.

by Anonymousreply 1608/12/2013

R16, why did you open the thread if you weren't curious about this behavior. You are lower than sewer pig, dude.

by Anonymousreply 1708/12/2013

Curious to know those who frequent these gyms if you have any stories of trainers or employees taking part in the action.

I know the first time I saw anything at my gym, it was the locker room attendant jacking someone off in a shower stall. That kid is always horny and has been there for years.

The spin instructor used to like to stroke in the steam room as well. He would always say, please don't tell, I don't want to lose my job. I haven't seen him in a while so I wonder what happened.

Before they remodeled the bathrooms, there used to be a slight opening between the shower wall that separated one stall from the next. I remember peering around and seeing the straight yoga instructor with a raging hardon while he showered. He wasn't showing off for anybody, but I guess he was enjoying himself. That was super hot.

by Anonymousreply 1808/12/2013

At the NYSC I used to go to regularly, one of the trainers would later become a manager used to play. He's married with kids and extremely masculine, so when one of my friends told good old naive me about him, I was shocked. The spin instructor also fooled around in the sauna. The towel guy was a virulent homophobe who would do surveillance of the area, and he was friendly with these two players. I joke with my friends that some gyms are the equivalent of bad theater.

by Anonymousreply 1908/13/2013

Sex and steam rooms- at 11!

by Anonymousreply 2008/13/2013

They are aware when I suck them off

by Anonymousreply 2108/14/2013 favorite response.

by Anonymousreply 2208/15/2013

Was at the NYSC on 41/7 yesterday afternoon. There was a ton of action in the sauna and steam room. Quite funny how whenever a new person walked in, everyone tidied up until some sort of indication (ball rubbing, etc.) of the new guy being cool with what was going on. Only saw two direct blowjobs. Kind of interesting to see two decent looking guys jerking each other off next to a pretty ugly dude watching and jerking in the corner.

Amazing how long the guys can stay in there. Just the rotation--steam room, sauna, shower; steam room, sauna, shower.

by Anonymousreply 2308/15/2013

Two cocks out in the sauna today at 12th street in Philly today

by Anonymousreply 2408/15/2013

I currently have a membership to Snap Fitness. It's a pretty basic gym and does not have real locker rooms. It has two bathrooms. One has a shower. I noticed on the counters in each restroom is a basket. In the basket is a box of kleenex, a bottle of lotion, and room deodorizer. Is the kleenex and lotion what I think it's for?

by Anonymousreply 2508/15/2013

[quote]steam room, sauna, shower, steam room, sauna, shower

It's like your regular episode of the Flintstones.

by Anonymousreply 2608/16/2013

NYSC at 41st and 7th always has something going on. I think it's from all the theater types stuck in midtown between auditions. Go to Equinox if you prefer actors that are actually working.

Wall Street if you prefer business types.

NYSC is amazingly diverse.

by Anonymousreply 2708/16/2013




by Anonymousreply 2808/16/2013

I belong to NYSC and have never seen any of this action. Thankfully!

by Anonymousreply 2908/16/2013


by Anonymousreply 3008/16/2013

I fool around in the showers at my gym with a couple of guys on occasion. I think I've been busted though.

Another member walked in just as me and a buddy were groping each other's cocks the other day. And then today the same guy walked in as I had a hard on, admiring another guy with a hard on. No touching today though.

If he complains to management and I'm confronted or questioned I'll deny it and say he was mistaken. His word against mine.

All the same I'm going to go at a different time so I can avoid this guy now.

by Anonymousreply 3108/16/2013

What luck you have, R31! Do you belong to just the one location, or do you have the "passport" membership?

You haven't been busted. Always keep a lookout. Proceed with caution. Shoot that load!

by Anonymousreply 3208/16/2013

Sauna and steam are so bad for the skin.

by Anonymousreply 3308/16/2013

[quote]Do you belong to just the one location, or do you have the "passport" membership?

It's a college campus gym (where I work). I have a dual membership to both major fitness facilities on campus.

I guess it's not getting busted unless security or gym management actually catch me in the act. That hasn't happened. But I will be more cautious from now on.

Another time this younger guy wanted me to fuck him in the showers. He kept backing into me, so I played with his ass for a bit. He grabbed my cock and tried to guide it into his hole, but someone walked in (Didn't see anything though). I would have stopped it anyway since I refuse to bareback.

I sound quite slutty, don't I.

by Anonymousreply 3408/16/2013

Oh, my mistake, R31. I thought you were talking about NYSC in NYC. You know how we New Yorkers are (center of the universe, blah blah).

Hot story.

by Anonymousreply 3508/16/2013

[quote]I sound quite slutty, don't I.

No, not really

by Anonymousreply 3608/16/2013

Serious question.

How does spending large amount of time in the sauna/steam room affect the eyes. I have started suffering from dry eyes and mild pain. I have tried drops and they provide some relief. I have been to a doc and he says everything is ok. Off course i did not tell him i slut around in the saunas, but i have severely curtailed my "activities". Any one has any similar effects ? Any doctors in here ?

by Anonymousreply 3708/16/2013

From keeping your eyes wet and then presumably drying them off either with a towel or your hands, you're drying out the skin on your eyes, making them itchy, causing you to rub them. Am I right?

I hope you're also letting yourself get dehydrated. You sweat A LOT in the sauna and steam, more than you realize. You should be drinking at least 100 oz. of water a day.

by Anonymousreply 3808/16/2013

R38, i don't wipe with towels.Actually i never touch the eyes at all. The cornea dries out because of the heat radiation. You are right about drinking water.

by Anonymousreply 3908/16/2013

My old health club in L.A. men's locker room was like a bathhouse. Activity in steam room like a pron movie, grab ass in locker rooms etc.

The makeover de-gayed the club. Now all items made co-ed and showers are separate stalls.

Wonder where the action moved to?

by Anonymousreply 4008/16/2013

The action always renovate one club to stop it and it moves elsewhere and you lose members.

That is why NYSC tends to turn a blind eye, they don't want to lose a single member, even a gross old troll.

by Anonymousreply 4108/17/2013

I lost out

by Anonymousreply 4208/17/2013

are therre any clubs in LA where there's action? Never seen or participated in any gym action here

by Anonymousreply 4308/17/2013

Suck it!

by Anonymousreply 4408/17/2013

I'm not going to name names, but I was heavily cruised twice by one of the husbands from the Real Housewives show at the gym. He is from either the NY or NJ show. Care to guess???

by Anonymousreply 4508/17/2013


[quote]Care to guess???

Why would anyone bother as you've already said you're not going to name names.

But I'll name names. I've jerked off with a drunk from the NY franchise's husband. Both the Joe's from NJ are notorious Sauna/Steam whores and I've jerked off with one of them that was on display.

by Anonymousreply 4608/17/2013

R31, you must be hot to get so much action. Enjoy.

My gym is very boring, so I have all my fun at home.

by Anonymousreply 4708/17/2013

[quote]My old health club in L.A. men's locker room was like a bathhouse. Activity in steam room like a pron movie, grab ass in locker rooms etc.

R40 Was this the 24 Hour Fitness in West Hollywood? I know that used to basically be a sex club before it was remodeled. Everyone was pissed when they made it coed, but there's still action to be had there late at night.

It's hard to find much activity in LA since very few gyms in the area have wet areas that aren't coed.

by Anonymousreply 4808/17/2013


by Anonymousreply 4908/17/2013

The club next to it was even more notorious. It was empty for years and just recently torn down, adjacent to The Palms dance club.

by Anonymousreply 5008/17/2013

So i was seated alone in the sauna last night.. in comes a horny looking guy. I was not really looking to play, but he gets really aggressive. So i let go and we start j/o. Get interrupted by another guy who is two grades hotter. Guy 1 immediately moves in his direction and gets him involved. I watch them for some time and since i am beyond the point of no return, i go over to and try to join them. Guy 1 now gives me a glaring look that implies that i am being a pest. He actually drags guy 3 to another corner. I left and finished off in the shower. My experiences are that more often than not, guys are very mean and hurtful in the sauna situations. If you can put up with that, you can have a good time.

by Anonymousreply 5108/18/2013

[quote]guys are very mean and hurtful in the sauna situations


by Anonymousreply 5208/18/2013

Don't feel bad, R51. Sounds like the guy is just a scumbag. You didn't miss out on anything.

by Anonymousreply 5308/18/2013


by Anonymousreply 5408/18/2013

OMG - I can just picture Guy 1 hissing at r51.

by Anonymousreply 5508/18/2013


by Anonymousreply 5608/18/2013

sauna bump!

by Anonymousreply 5708/18/2013

Would these shower gym areas ever have concealed security cams? Just a thought

by Anonymousreply 5808/18/2013

I doubt they would ever put cams in locker room for security as there would be huge liability issue for the establishment.

by Anonymousreply 5908/18/2013

That would be illegal, R58.

by Anonymousreply 6008/18/2013

I jerked off with a Catalyst from my gym the other day. He is not really my type at all. He is tall, blond, fake tan, late 40s to early 50s and he is the type to walk around in shorts where you can basically see his junk. I was totally shocked once when I saw him walking from the shower stall to reveal what looked like ass implants. Now grant it, besides his face, he has a really nice body - worked out, in proportion to his 6'3" frame, tanned, really impressive and sexy for a guy his age.

Anyway, I was minding my own business in the steam room and he sat down right next to me. It was just the two of us and he sat so close I knew what he was up to - he is pretty aggressive. He just sits there with his cock out. I was a bit bored and no one else was coming in, so I reached over to feel it. Dammit if that thing wasn't as thick as a cucumber. I was mesmerized. He had one of the thickest, cocks I have ever felt at the base. It was about 7.5 inches long and a healthy 7 around for real. It was a pretty cock on an older dude he loved showing it off. I squeezed it at the base and milked the head which he seemed to love. Some younger guy came in and sat down on his other side. He started stroking his cock his cock and the younger guy came.

The only thing with doing something with a Catalyst is that they expect it every time they see you in the steam room and take it personally when you don't play. Steam room is always about the new, the strange. I am not looking for a Steamlationship.

by Anonymousreply 6108/18/2013

Truer words never spoken, re: your last paragraph, R61.

That said, where was this gym? If it was at a NYSC, I need to know the location. You did say 7" AROUND, right? That wasn't a typo, was it?

by Anonymousreply 6208/18/2013

David Barton. It was thick as hell and delicious looking r62.

by Anonymousreply 6308/18/2013

Unfortunately, this comic pretty much sums up my experience with gyms.

by Anonymousreply 6408/18/2013

I work out, stretch and shower.

by Anonymousreply 6508/19/2013

are you 50, R65?

by Anonymousreply 6608/19/2013

I'm 45

by Anonymousreply 6708/19/2013

Oh, I thought you might be Sally O'Malley who has a similar routine.

by Anonymousreply 6808/20/2013

Fitness LA in San Francisco is permanently closing their steamrooms because there were too many complaints of sex. So they are aware and finally did something about it.

I'm not sure why gay men were so disturbed by this. Society is getting more prude each day.

by Anonymousreply 6908/20/2013

Sorry, I meant Fitness SF in San Francisco

by Anonymousreply 7008/20/2013

Nothing more to report

by Anonymousreply 7108/20/2013

So much hot married alpha dick on the prowl in the Wall Street NYSC at lunchtime today. I was almost overcome with the vapors from the aroma of testosterone. My smelling salts.

by Anonymousreply 7208/20/2013

Did you suck them?

by Anonymousreply 7308/20/2013

Sucked off one. Nice cock. Had a wedding ring. His wife is one lucky bitch,

by Anonymousreply 7408/20/2013

Married dick is everywhere at lunchtime looking to get off. Far more heteroflexibles than most think.

by Anonymousreply 7508/21/2013

The Wall Street location is crawling with married guys at lunchtime looking for action. Much of the time it's JO action, but some will suck or get sucked. They don't do anal, in my experience, at least not in the gym. I suppose they deserve whatever they can get...their dumb trophy wives are probably home in their Greenwich or Westchester mcmansions fucking the gardener or their personal trainer. My speciality is married guys, so I'm happy to accommodate.

by Anonymousreply 7608/21/2013

Time to prelube

by Anonymousreply 7708/21/2013


What is a "Catalyst?"

by Anonymousreply 7808/21/2013

Was in the steam room yesterday. There was a black guy in his underwear sauna/steam hopping. No one could tell if he was game to play because he had on his underwear (think someone already posted about how this kills all action)and kept giving people dirty looks.

There were about 4 of us wanting to jerk off but kept getting interrupted by this guy.

A little later a Latino guy comes in, also in his underwear, not very attractive, kind of heavy set, and he's also killing the action. Now, Ive seen this guy play before but he didn't seem to be having it whenever someone would try to start something up.

There's a ton of in/out, and guys getting frustrated because these two are killing the action. If you went to the Sauna, one of them would be in there, and the other would be in the steam room. Goes on for about 30 minutes.

Finally, everyone hits the showers and then back to the steam room where apparently we've interrupted the Black Guy and the Latino guy. They get pissed off and take off.

They kept checking the Steam Room every two minutes to see if it was clear and kept giving everyone dirty looks because it was preventing them from playing.

I thought it was a little funny that they were blocking everyone else and getting pissed off at everyone for doing the same to them.

Apparently, the Black guy only likes to mess around with Latino guys and the Latino guy only likes Black guys.

by Anonymousreply 7908/21/2013


by Anonymousreply 8008/21/2013

R78, a Catalyst is a regular who can be counted on to get things started.

by Anonymousreply 8108/21/2013

I had a great experience today at the gym. On one had it was completely innocent, but on the other, it was one of my hottest encounters to date.

There is this one sexy blond guy who I've seen working out at my gym. He looks about early thirties, seriously attractive in a Patrick Wilson / Kevin McKiddish kind of way. He's taken my spin class before where he wears those tank tops with low cut sides that hang just enough to reveal side rib and nipple when you lean forward. He has a great toned yoga body that kind of drives me crazy. I always pictured him as way out of my league. But I definitely follow him as he walks around the gym.

I've noticed him in the locker room before and even in the steam room. He's played around before, so I know he was into the idea. He is also kind of a complete exhibitionist and I'm a complete voyeur. He likes to slow dress or stand with his ass hanging out of his pants while on his phone. He is sexy as hell and I love it. I just enjoyed it from afar figuring he was waiting for someone on his level to play with.

Today I am sitting on the bench changing into my gym clothes and he comes from the shower with a towel on sitting across from me with his towel open revealing his dick as he fiddles with his lock. He notices me looking - I mean he is like four feet from me cock out. Once he notices me looking, he starts getting hard. He just sits there legs spread while his cock his getting rock hard, turned on by me watching.

I couldn't believe it. I naturally get hard watching him so I joined in by pulling up the side of my workout shorts to show him my hard dick. It looked like he was about to lean in to touch it just when someone walked by and I got up and left - steam room's one thing, hard in locker room is another.

But I must say I thought about him and his dick all day. He was a pretty 6.5 incher I'd say, very nice on him.

by Anonymousreply 8208/21/2013


The sun come out tomorrow, it's only a day away!

by Anonymousreply 8308/21/2013

I used to go to Bally's on 32nd & 6th, and just switched to NYSC (mainly go to the one on 34th & Park), and I haven't seen any action going on at any of these am I missing all of this?

by Anonymousreply 8408/21/2013

There are 2 types of people who make others miserable in the sauna. The hot pretty gay guys who think their pee-pee is too precious for most of us and people who like R61 mentioned are always looking for something new and exciting.

At the Hoboken nysc sauna Tuesday night, there was this hot Russian looking guy who stood inside the sauna near the entrance for 25 minutes. He refused to come and sit near me and another potential just because we were not par with him. I gave up after 25 minutes and left.

My motto is simple. Make love to only a select few but jack off with every man possible.

by Anonymousreply 8508/22/2013

[Quote]Fitness LA in San Francisco is permanently closing their steamrooms because there were too many complaints of sex. So they are aware and finally did something about it.

The one in the Castro or the one on Brannon?

by Anonymousreply 8608/22/2013

Both Castro and Brannan.

It will do no good. They will have sex in showers, closets etc. Sex in gyms has happened since the beginning of time...I say just put a jerk off room in the clubs with a separate one for boner killing trolls.

by Anonymousreply 8708/22/2013

How do you guys get it up in the steamroom? The hot steam instantly kills any boner.

by Anonymousreply 8808/22/2013

If a guy makes the mouth thing that indicates he wants to suck me off I get hard no matter how hot.

If it is just a jack off thing...I am too bored to respond.

by Anonymousreply 8908/22/2013


What is this "mouth thing" that you're talking about?

by Anonymousreply 9008/22/2013

[quote]He refused to come and sit near me and another potential just because we were not par with him. I gave up after 25 minutes and left.

R85 Why did you have to give up after 25 minutes? Why didn't you just JO with the potential next to you? Or were you waiting for the new and exciting thing (ie the hot guy who wouldn't come in)?

by Anonymousreply 9108/22/2013

The tongue out the sucking motion...the tongue thing that lets me know he wants to suck me.

This one guys stares at my crotch and says 'Yum" and that make me hard as well.

by Anonymousreply 9208/22/2013


[quote]The tongue out the sucking motion...the tongue thing that lets me know he wants to suck me.

I've never seen anyone do that. Most guys just grab it and go down or ask if it's ok to blow me.

[quote]This one guys stares at my crotch and says 'Yum" and that make me hard as well.

That would be an instant boner killer for me.

Where do you go?

by Anonymousreply 9308/22/2013

r85, do you go to the Hoboken NYSC Newark Ave location or the one downtown? I'm at the one downtown every evening. I generally just shower and don't use the sauna/steam, but if it's the downtown location, I think I know which Russian looking guy you're talking about.

by Anonymousreply 9408/22/2013

"or the one downtown"

meant to write "...uptown"

by Anonymousreply 9508/22/2013

r91.. lol.. i like ur thought process. i am always ready to j/o in a theater full of people but the potential next to me just froze on seeing this russian who wouldnt go away. it takes two to tango ya know...else i can do it home by myself. was downtown near path station.

by Anonymousreply 9608/22/2013

r85/96, so this is the location I go to at night. I'm sure we've seen each other there. Regarding the Russian looking guy you're talking about, what does he look like? I'm thinking it could be one of three guys: (1) thick/fleshy powerlifting guy about 5'11", handsome, sometimes sports a goatee, hairy, very straight acting, early 30s, (2) thin but shredded guy, shaved head, smooth, straight for all intents and purposes, late 30s, (3) short stocky guy, dark hair, cruisy, early 50s. Who of these guys could be you!

by Anonymousreply 9708/22/2013


Oh, sorry. Didn't realize he was INSIDE the sauna. Thought he was standing outside and wouldn't come in.

by Anonymousreply 9808/22/2013

r97 damn how many russians are there at this gym ? he fits the description of number 2. walks around with a bottle of protein shake which he keeps sipping while standing at the door. if you know him tell him to let us underlings play while he waits for ian somerhadler to show up in the locker room. and i dont fit any of the three. i show up only once a week...try and rotate locations.

by Anonymousreply 9908/22/2013

r97, yeah, sounds like number 2 with the protein shake. He seems a bit of a flake. Sometimes he cruises me intently, other times he ignores me. He does have a beautiful cock (a good 5-6 inches flaccid...don't know if he's a shower or a grower), which he likes to show off in the locker room and which he's seen me staring at. I've seen him rush away from the sauna and run straight for the showers, where I've heard him moaning. He's definitely got an attitude and overinflated ego. He's really not all that. Yes, his upper body is pretty amazing and he does have a beautiful cock, but his ass is pretty saggy and the face is nothing to write home about. I've seen him flirting with chicks on the gym floor, so not sure what his story is.

by Anonymousreply 10008/22/2013

Sorry, I meant to address r99

by Anonymousreply 10108/22/2013

If everybody telling stories of their hot experiences could name which specific gym it happened at, that would be wonderful!

by Anonymousreply 10208/22/2013

I've posted several entries in this and the last thread. Mine are usually the long rambling ones like r82 and always occur at David Barton 23rd st.

The steam room was a JO fest today too. Skinny Catalyst mentioned in previous post was jacking off this new latin kid who bent over to suck him off some. The skinny catalyst does have a nice dick, but I've seen it so much, the thrill is kind of gone. All in all there were five guys in on it, but once one guy left, we all left shortly after.

by Anonymousreply 10308/22/2013

R102 all over NY.

I keep taking advantage of Living Social deals and getting a few months here, and a few months there in order to keep the mouths on my cock fresh.

by Anonymousreply 10408/23/2013

OK, I am somebody who sometimes checks out the steam/sauna situation at NYSC. I go to several locations. Findings:

Union Sq Irving - way gay, some action sometimes, but often not because there's always that one potentially offended straight guy in there

Union Sq at 5th / 14th - way gay but this dude on staff is a freak about doing patrol on the steam/sauna rooms. He will literally whip the door open every 2 minutes and shove his head in there and stare bug eyed at whoever is in there. Very uncomfortable even if you are just using the sauna for normal purposes.

Mercer - some action good in evenings

Madison/36th - action toned down since they put up that big "we will ban you and arrest you and sever your testicles and kill you" signage

41st St near Grand Central - hit or miss, a lot of straight guys use the sauna/steam so it tamps down things

41st at 7th - lot of action especially around 8-9 pm

51/Lex - mostly straight, suit and tie daytimes but the evenings can get active and good

UWS - a lot of action but a lot of old trolls (and I mean age 65+) at these locations

Borough Hall Remsen Brooklyn - some action evenings, a higher % of black men than in Manhattan

by Anonymousreply 10508/23/2013


Thanks for sharing that info. I suddenly feel much better now. I am designating you as my datalounge friend. Should we try to meet up at the gym or keep this anon and mysterious ? How about i leave you a chit inside the first locker on the top right James Bond style with some riddles.

Sheesh.. the heat has gotten to my head today.

by Anonymousreply 10608/23/2013

Anyone ever play around in any of the Equinoxes?

If you happen to use the one at 19th street, be careful. Some angry straight guy (at least he claims to be straight) says he's fed up with all the guys he comes across jerking off and is going to report it each time he comes across it:

"Who am I? I'm the guy that just wants to veg out in the heat until I semi-lose consciousness after I work out. I'm the guy that doesn't give a shit if there are gay guys in the locker room. I'm also the guy that's tired of watching you play out some gym fantasy you've read about. I'm the guy that's tired of paying almost 200 dollars a month to then have to cut the time short because I don't want to be confrontational. I'm the guy that's tired of you turning public space into your own jack-off show. I'm also the guy that's tired of hearing, "yeah, but it's the steam room. I mean, that just happens there."

So, what's to do? I'm going to start reporting you. I'm going to encourage everyone else to report you. Not report "it" in some vague, I'm uncomfortable fashion. No, I'm going to stand at the desk with the manager until you come out and then we're all going to talk about it. I'm also going to start telling you to knock it the fuck off. I'm going to do this over and over and over again."

by Anonymousreply 10708/23/2013

Thanks for the info R105, do you know if there's any action for the NYSCs on 23rd/Park or 34th/Park?

by Anonymousreply 10808/23/2013

R108 yes, but it is all a matter of timing.

Basement locker room at Wall Street is a virtual bathhouse.

by Anonymousreply 10908/24/2013

both 23 and 34 on Park are dead locations. It is Park avenue after all.. a different clientele than the village or downtown. The best are downtown locations Wall st and City hall. Those guys know time is money and don't waste it playing games.

by Anonymousreply 11008/24/2013

Had an awesome experience a couple months ago. I was back in my hometown which I haven't been to in about 10 years. I was visiting my parents and bored as fuck. I went to one of the nearby gyms got in a workout and went to the locker room.

It was close to closing so there weren't all that many people around. I took a shower and then went into the steam room. When I got in there, there was one other guy sitting in the far corner. The steam was pretty thick so it was hard to see but I could tell he was older, late 40s, in good shape, and married.

I'm looking at him but he doesn't notice at first because he's just staring at the wall. I'm getting hard and I start to rub the tip of my dick through my towel. He finally notices but seems nervous and just looks away.

I kept rubbing it a little and noticed that he must have gotten hard since he had to adjust himself. He does his best to not look at me but I can see he's stealing glances. I figure he's not leaving so I get a little bold and I just take it out and start stroking. It takes him a little while but he eventually starts rubbing his, but only under his towel.

I get up and sit next to him and that's when I get a closer look at his face and realize I know him. This dude is the father of one of my classmates and he also coached football and taught history for a year. I immediately get harder. He doesn't recognize me and I just sit down next to him and jerk off. I reach down and take his cock in my hand and he jumps a little but lets me. He moans a little and then starts to jerk me off.

I cum and then he cums shortly after. He sits there a second like he doesn't know what just happened and then gets up quickly and leaves.

By the time I got out of the steam room he was nowhere to be found. I have to wonder if it was his first time doing that.

by Anonymousreply 11108/24/2013

r111, how many STD's do you have, man?

by Anonymousreply 11208/24/2013

r111, what a wild surprise to know who the handsome stranger was. And a Coach to boot.

by Anonymousreply 11308/24/2013

R112 I know it's hard for someone like you to understand, as someone who probably hasn't gotten any... ever, but I don't have any, thanks. Jerking off is hardly high risk behavior.

by Anonymousreply 11408/24/2013

Fuck you, R112, that could have been his first time having sex with anyone, ever. He said nowhere in his post that he was a slut.

I AM a slut, however, and I don't have any STDs. (Herpes doesn't count after the initial outbreak, does it? I kid, I kid.)

I've been going to NYSC Irving more than any other gym in the past 3 years and I guarantee you there is more action there than there is not.

14th & 6th (it is demonstrably closer to 6th than 5th) is, I assure you, the biggest waste of time. Looks like a lot of poz guys play there, too. It is the ultimate in "I won't take out my dick until that guy over there leaves because he's too old/fat/Asian/black." As I said in part 1 of this thread, you could die of heatstroke before you shoot a load in that place.

Also been to Wall St because I'd heard those guys don't mess around, but it was slim pickins.

by Anonymousreply 11508/24/2013

Two guys just jerking off, but the Jackass at R112 sees STD's all over the place. No doubt 112 won't ever get an STD since nobody will get near the creep.

by Anonymousreply 11608/24/2013

Anyone have any experiences at the NY Health and Ra,quet Club?

by Anonymousreply 11708/24/2013

Tell us about the hottest man you ever saw in the locker room...

by Anonymousreply 11808/24/2013

r111, do you really think jerking off furtively in a steam room with a closeted married guy who then takes off in a panic is an "awesome experience"?

Maybe one day you'll enjoy real human sexual contact where you enjoy each other's bodies and then revel in it, without shame and fleeing.

by Anonymousreply 11908/24/2013

105: where at Mercer do people play?

by Anonymousreply 12008/24/2013



"Real sexual contact"

Give me a break. Yes, the world has to function based on your definition of something you probably haven't had in years.

If that's how you feel.. why are you even in this thread?

by Anonymousreply 12108/24/2013

I don't think R119 has ever had real human sexual contact. He doesn't realize that unless someone feels ashamed, it's not real. Maybe one of these days you'll get the chance.

by Anonymousreply 12208/24/2013

Idiot at R119 one does not preclude the other.

by Anonymousreply 12308/25/2013

question for the regulars... what is the maximum number of times you made out with the same guy in the sauna/steam. if you did stop how did you break up ...most of these interactions are wordless.. so on the 13 th time did you just slap him and walk out...

by Anonymousreply 12408/26/2013

Never made out. Just opened my towel and got sucked off. If the head is good like with one guy...probably 100 bj's. I wish our visits were at the same time every day.

by Anonymousreply 12508/26/2013

Was in the steam room this weekend. It was unbelievable. This hot, young, guy, early 20s, tight little swimmer's body is sitting there naked, on top of his towel. I come in and he starts immediately jerking off. I joined in. Someone else came in and the actions topped.

The other guy leaves and another comes in. Action starts up again only this time, the guy with the swimmer's body, whips out a condom and some lube, throws it on the other guy and they start fucking.

It was insane.

by Anonymousreply 12608/26/2013

ok r126 which gym and location was that? i have never seen any fucking in the steam room.. and i have been to over 35 locations in 15 cities.

by Anonymousreply 12708/26/2013

I've seen fucking in the steam room at my gym in Chicago. As far as I know they were barebacking though.

by Anonymousreply 12808/26/2013

I've never seen guys fucking at the gym, but I'm sure it goes on. I see the occasional oral, but almost all activity I observe is JO. Then again, I confine myself mostly to the sauna, and stay away from the steam, where I'm guessing the fucking is more likely to occur.

by Anonymousreply 12908/26/2013

[quote]so on the 13 th time did you just slap him and walk out...


by Anonymousreply 13008/26/2013

What's been your experience with reactions of actual straight guys (yes, they do exist LOL) in the sauna/steam as action takes place? I've found that some are ok with it and just read their paper pretending not to notice, while others (most) just walk out. A few homophobic twats will complain to management, but that's expected.

by Anonymousreply 13108/26/2013


I've found that a lot of them actually join in. They seemed confused at first that it's going on but then grab their junk and start going at it.

Most of them walk out and head to the sauna, if there's one available.

I was in the steam room a few days ago when a few guys started something up. One guy walked out and I wasn't interested in the guys fooling around and I left too. We both ended up in the Sauna and the other guy started talking to a third guy in there about how he doesn't mind gay guys but he doesn't understand why they hook up at the gym instead of going some place private.

by Anonymousreply 13208/26/2013

Then these aren't straight guys, R132. Hopefully you still want them to join in next time. I know "straight" is a major turn on. "Gay/bi" is a major turn off.

by Anonymousreply 13308/26/2013

The manager always squeezes my ass when he sees me in the locker room

by Anonymousreply 13408/26/2013

I stopped by 94th St for the first time in ages the other night. It seems they promoted the homophobic maintenance guy who used to police the area and report back to management. What a party spoiler he was! The new maintenance guy looks dumb as a box of hair. Have the fun times returned there?

by Anonymousreply 13508/26/2013

[quote] A few homophobic twats will complain to management, but that's expected.

Is this really an example of homophobia? Perhaps they just don't believe sex should occur in a public place?

by Anonymousreply 13608/26/2013


You're an idiot. Straight guys can jerk off with other guys. It's only narrow minded people like you that think otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 13708/26/2013

What a dumb thing to say R133

by Anonymousreply 13808/26/2013

[quote]Straight guys can jerk off with other guys.

It's pathetic that you even have to explain something like this to R133. Maybe 133 is a frau who can't comprehend that men, straight and gay, enjoy having no strings sexual playtimes.

by Anonymousreply 13908/26/2013

I've seen two guys fucking in the steam room a couple of times. Mostly see oral though. One time I was in the steam with about 8 other guys and we all got something going on. There was one guy, married, huge dick, that opened up his towel and 5 of the guys lined up and took turns sucking him off.

by Anonymousreply 14008/26/2013

Last night at 73rd and CPW NYSC this super hot young guy, very muscular with hair started going down on a kind ugly black man. He always seemed cruisy but never made a move but with the black guy he was super aggressive. Once he swallowed that load, his towel went back on and he sat in wait...I guess for the next black man.

by Anonymousreply 14108/27/2013

[quote]started going down on a kind ugly black man

Maybe he was attracted by the black man's kindness.

by Anonymousreply 14208/27/2013

This thread keeps making me HORNY.

by Anonymousreply 14308/27/2013

kind ugly black man = Morgan Freeman

by Anonymousreply 14408/27/2013

Truly stunning

by Anonymousreply 14508/27/2013

R140, were you one of the five who got in line?

by Anonymousreply 14608/28/2013

Steam room experience today. Not much action going on at first. There was a good looking guy, muscular/beefy, really nice ass and cock just walking around the locker room completely naked. He'd go from the showers to the stall to the sauna to the steam. He kept trying to show off to me in the showers, but we kept getting interrupted by a troll who would follow us from the showers to the sauna.

He goes into the steam room and I go shower. I end up walking into the steam room and he's jerking off with another guy in there. They don't skip a beat. I sit and jerk off. Shortly after, the troll comes in.

The other two were too far into it now to stop, and the troll gets this disgusting smile on his face (like finally!!!). The guy that was completely naked was getting a hand job and the troll immediately starts grabbing his balls. The troll doesn't stop and I think the guy was just new to this or didn't want to bother and so just gave up trying to stop him.

Then the other guy tries to go down on him and he didn't want it and tried to stop him. He was obviously just looking to JO. The other guy tries again to go down on him, guy stops him again. Third time, the other guy tries to force his head down on the guys cock and the guy got pissed off, pushed him away and left.

by Anonymousreply 14708/28/2013

so a Troll is someone who just like you is looking for action while doing the shower-steam routine but looks uglier than u and wont leave the minute u find ur guy ...right?

by Anonymousreply 14808/29/2013


No, a troll is someone who camps out in the locker room for hours at a time and refuses to leave the room, even if it means blocking the action. Some trolls are super aggressive and also grab even after theyve been told not to.

by Anonymousreply 14908/29/2013

Well I'll contribute to this. NYSC/23rd & 8th is a mess! At least it was when I was a member 2 years ago. I've seen a few porn stars who have worked out there. Everyone pretty much works out very hard but I guess you have to have that relief after a strenuous workout. The trainers are okay looking but do not get much work since most of the boys are buff and know what to do themselves. NYSC/16th & 8th isn't far behind. It's a toss up as to which one is worse except at the 16th St location the locker room staff could care less about what is going on and sort of encourage it. Also, there are all types of hustles going on i.e. locker rentals etc. I understand they had a major shake up at that location because of all of the mess. The trainers are average and not really needed there either because the members could be personal trainers themselves. NYSC/24th & Park has a lot of "straight" nellies who are in fear of being raped by the gay guys. You can't even say "good morning" to them without them jumping into a defense mode. Didn't really see any really notable trainers there either. NYSC/Broadway SoHo was surprisingly quite active and it's probably the cleanest NYSC that I have ever been in--especially the locker room. Hot guys! very diverse and gay & straight all play nice together! Once again, no notable trainers (I have no idea how a trainer makes money at NYSC because you never see them) Finally, management is cracking down. They put up a sign. Crunch/Christopher St is boring. That's probably because of all the gentrification in the area. Hot trainers though!!! I'm now a member of Equinox. Equinox/33rd & Park is diverse but it's more stand and look. I'm sure that there is something going on in the steam and sauna rooms but it's minimal. Equinox/12th & Greenwich will hurt your feelings if you are not good looking and near physical perfection! Think Andrew Christian in various ages and colors. Nothing happens there (to my knowledge anyway) because everyone is too into themselves. I don't mean that in a bad way either. You could probably ask a guy out for coffee or a date but sex in the locker room? I don't think that's happening. WOW! looking trainers! Equinox/21st & 10th has the most GORGEOUS locker room! The clientele and trainers not so much but I have only been to that location once and at an odd hour. So, that's my contribution!

by Anonymousreply 15008/29/2013

If NYC had some proper sex clubs, you wouldn't need to act like a bunch of closeted Muslims.

by Anonymousreply 15108/29/2013

This is completely unrelated to gym sex but the same hierarchy applies. Is anyone familiar with the dick dock in PTown? It's this location under a pier where guys gather at night for random sex. Just replace the steam with sand.

I have been going here and there over the years but mobile sites like grindr and scruff have really decimated the talent. I was there last night and it was trollapalooza. PTown has an older crowd to begin with but imagine that older guy's older unattractive friend grabbing for your junk. I am no spring chicken at 38 but I'm not 62 yet. However there were a sprinkling of decent 40 something's to make it worth staying if watching is your thing like it's mine.

Anyway that's the scene when I stumble across this sexy, scruffy, lean 20 something kid blowing this one guy. I was like really? What in the world are you doing here? The guy getting sucked asked to fuck him and the kid had condoms and lube ready to go. So he bent the kid over and stated fucking. The kid sees my dick and starts sucking it. The top guy had an Australian accent and was going on and on about being up inside the kid while he sucks my cock. I must say his mouth was so warm and amazing. And watching him get fucked and feeling the scruff on his face was too much and I pulled out a little and shot this huge load across his face and onto the ground. I thought he was upset at first because he pulls up a bit. But I see my load on his face was just enough to get him off because he starts shooting. We're both done and pull up our pants and he gives me a slight grin with my jizz hanging from his scruffy face. You're gonna go home like that, I was thinking, more power to you.

I know most gay guys find this kind of behavior revolting. But when it's hot, it's so hot. And surprisingly I have found on a rare instance it's a younger pretty guy that loves to be used in these situations. Ultimately you look at someone thinking one thing, but you never ever know what really gets them off - as pointed out above with the hot white who only wanted to blow a homely older black guy.

by Anonymousreply 15208/29/2013

errr.. excuse me what exactly is ptown?

by Anonymousreply 15308/29/2013

never mind. i found ptown = provincetown from reading the other thread a bout dickdock. i am from nyc. the only way u will find me in ptown is when asteroid AZ1523 strikes middle earth.

by Anonymousreply 15408/29/2013

R154 - Honey, if you're waiting that long to go to ptown, you're better off sticking with your crew over in Mordor.

by Anonymousreply 15508/29/2013

Provincetown is a retirement village for the most part.

NYSC is for married men who want to get off.

by Anonymousreply 15608/30/2013

None of you have had any steam room hookups this weekend to report? I'm disappointed in you bitches.

by Anonymousreply 15708/31/2013

Hot horny guys at my gym, why not suck them off

by Anonymousreply 15808/31/2013

Do you think I could manage to sneak into the women's side and munch some sweet gunt?

by Anonymousreply 15908/31/2013

This beautifully built man was on the floor today, he was smoking hot. Later when I was showering, he went to the shower across from me and started soaping himself...everywhere...and stroking his huge schlong... a couple other hot guys came out of nowhere....and the hot guy rinsed and went to the steam room...naturally we all followed. It was a great stroke and suck session!

Tomorrow morning will be rocking, Sunday morning is definitely cock worship time at my gym.

by Anonymousreply 16008/31/2013

r160 this never happened. I go to NYSC and never see anything happening.

by Anonymousreply 16109/01/2013

R161 you must be a troll for everyone to hide from you like that.

by Anonymousreply 16209/01/2013

How many of you guys see the same guys in the steam room and how many times do you get something going with the same person/people before you lose interest in them?

by Anonymousreply 16309/02/2013

Anyone have an encounter with a celebrity in the gym?

by Anonymousreply 16409/02/2013

R163 - interesting question. I have wondered about it myself.. I meet this one particular guy in my gym sauna many times. I have j/o'ed with him around 9 times so far. But these days i avoid him. Not because i have lost interest in him, but because of the fact that he needs bloody 10 minutes of non-stop non-interrupted yanking before he shoots his load. I need like 30 seconds. This presents a logistical problem at so many levels. There is this another guy who stopped playing with me after the 6th time since on the 7th meeting i had a cold and just wanted to enjoy the sauna and did not play with him. How i wish i had a regular dependable guy. Don't we all ?

by Anonymousreply 16509/02/2013

r160, is this a gym in NYC, and if so, which gym? I want to go to one with showers where you can see other people!

by Anonymousreply 16609/02/2013

R165-Thanks for "enjoying" the sauna while you had a cold. I'm sure you got everyone else after you sick since you contaminated the sauna. Shocking that you can't find a dependable guy since you are so considerate to others. It's called a "health club". If youre sick, stay home.

by Anonymousreply 16709/02/2013

[R160] That's pretty much any gym in NYC now. Most gym showers have changed over to some sort of opaque type glass. This is done in an attempt to prevent guys from jerking off in the shower. I know... some of you folks go "EWWW" but it's all washed down the drain with water anyway. I think these new opaque glasses are somewhat offensive. I don't need for others to see how I wash and what I wash. the glass is opaque but it's not that opaque.

by Anonymousreply 16809/03/2013

we have transparent curtains in our stalls

by Anonymousreply 16909/03/2013

Most NYSCs in the city have those transparent curtains, which are a gift from the gay gods because they allow you to gauge the traffic to and fro the sauna/steam. The few Ballys that are left have open stalls, which makes for a very erotic atmosphere. The one in Riverdale is amazing. Thick Dominican meat for days, and they love showing off their amazing bodies and packages. I've had my best JO/suck times there. I fucking love being gay in NYC...I wanna scream it from the rooftops sometimes. Where else can you have this much easy access to cock?

by Anonymousreply 17009/03/2013

I wish that, instead of shower stalls, NYC gyms would have an open space with an old chevy, hoses and buckets with soap so that after a hard workout guys could pretend to be Jessica Simpson in that car wash video.

by Anonymousreply 17109/03/2013

There was one independent gym I used to go to years ago in NJ that had communal showers. This was back in the early '90s, and I was late teens. I remember this one incredibly erotic experience I had there. I was showering by myself, when in walked this god. This guy was built like one of the guys from the TV show American Gladiators, which I feverishly used to JO to at that point in time. Even though the communal area was huge, he took the nozzle right next to mine. I was overcome with excitement and frozen at the same time. I quickly glanced down at his dick, and it was huge. He asked me if I could give him his towel. I handed it to him and watched him dry himself within inches of me. I think I spontaneously came. I still JO thinking about that.

by Anonymousreply 17209/03/2013

I remember the DC MTV Real World cast talking about the Washington Sports Club being the only place that they could masturbate in peace while on the show.

As someone who goes to that gym, I would have loved to walk in on some Mike Manning in the showers there. Would have been nice to lend him a hand.

Or the boy that wore the panda hat. I don't remember his name.

by Anonymousreply 17309/03/2013

"...Most NYSCs in the city have those transparent curtains, which are a gift from the gay gods because they allow you to gauge the traffic to and fro the sauna/steam. The few Ballys that are left have open stalls, which makes for a very erotic atmosphere..."

Sometimes if you're going to jerk off you want to do so with a bit of privacy. It's the same when you want to just take a long relaxing shower. Transparent curtains? That's offensive.

by Anonymousreply 17409/03/2013

"...Thick Dominican meat for days, and they love showing off their amazing bodies and packages..."

Personally I would find this annoying. I have seen those guys with the "perfect" bodies who are exhibitionists. Most of the time they have no interest or intent in actually doing anything with you but they are getting off on all of the attention being given to them. Great! They get off while you're left standing there slobbering.

by Anonymousreply 17509/03/2013

Totally with R175

They waste my time and deprive me of other potentials..

If i want contact with hot bodies, i go to the local strip clubs and see how far my 20 bucks can go..

by Anonymousreply 17609/03/2013

When I was a in college, there was a sauna behind a row of lockers. Freshman year- I had only ever fooled around with one guy in my life and I was in complete denial that I was gay. Nonetheless, I went into the jam packed sauna. A bunch of old guys. They stare at my erect dick. It's like a dream come true to me. One guy says "Look who got the party started," referring to my dick. Then a guy said "Sorry I'm staring." I said, my heart thumping, "you can touch it if you want." He had some oil and started jerking me off. I was in heaven. Another guy held my leg and everyone was rubbing themselves. And then I freaked out and left. I came back, though, many many many times and jerked off, got jerked off, got blow jobs, more than I can count throughout my whole four years there. When I was home during the summer, I would seek out gyms so that I could fool around with people in the locker room. Sometimes, I found action, sometimes I didn't. Once I moved to NYC, I jerked off in the showers all the time. Sometimes people would just watch. Sometimes they'd jerk off too. Sometimes, we took the action back to their place too. Ah good times. I'm not as cute as I used to be so I don't think anyone's interested anymore.

by Anonymousreply 17709/03/2013

I was naked in a hot tub with Wentworth Miller in West Hollywood but we didn't do anything. I'm a celebrity myself so there are lots of people out there with a celebrity story to tell.

by Anonymousreply 17809/03/2013

R178 give a dick description.

by Anonymousreply 17909/04/2013

I think gym sex is becoming a thing of the past. With all this acceptance and outness younger people just find no reason to sneak. They just take the person home or wherever to have sex. It seems to me that here in NYC people are so hardcore and serious about their workouts that they really have no interest in having sex at the gym whether they be gay or straight.

by Anonymousreply 18009/04/2013

[quote]I think gym sex is becoming a thing of the past. With all this acceptance and outness younger people just find no reason to sneak. They just take the person home or wherever to have sex. It seems to me that here in NYC people are so hardcore and serious about their workouts that they really have no interest in having sex at the gym whether they be gay or straight.

Counterpoint: Grindr (or Scruff or whatever) is the biggest time-waster and bullshit-vortex there ever was! This is another reason why sauna/steam room sex is still a happening thing at many of the NYSCs. And I can attest that, ohh yeah, it is most indeed happening. In fact I'll be at one of the locations today around 1:15pm.

by Anonymousreply 18109/04/2013

"Counterpoint: Grindr (or Scruff or whatever) is the biggest time-waster and bullshit-vortex there ever was!"

Well, I will agree with you on that 100%! But, I've seen changes on those apps too. Whereas once Grindr was pretty much for hook-ups the ads are all becoming more... "vanilla" (for lack of a better word.) A lot of men are looking for friends, relationship, and/or chat instead of what was on there before such as; "Me bottom. You top. NOW!" I'm sure random and anonymous sex still goes on (somewhere) but it seems as if the younger gays are interested in more than just that. That is why I don't think locker room sex is as prevalent as it once was. But, then again, I'm no longer a member of NYSC. I'm an Equinox guy and I really see nothing happening there. Maybe I go to the gym at the wrong times?

by Anonymousreply 18209/04/2013

If somebody just wants to use the gym as like an actual gym(including showers and saunas etc) how do you want me react if I come across this?

I'm hardly sex-negative, but am I allowed to feel mixed about this? Is this really safe and hygienic? Is this really fair to people who aren't there for that purpose?

by Anonymousreply 18309/04/2013

@ [R183] Shaddup, you gay prude! Just because you're good looking and can probably get whomever you want; think a gym should be used as a gym; a shower used just for that--showering; a sauna used as a sauna, deprive an old withered troll (who walks butt-naked around the locker room, because a towel can't fit around his waist), some fun? It's what guys do! Especially you gay guys who are hypersexual!

by Anonymousreply 18409/04/2013

R183, come on, anyone's allowed to feel what they want to feel. Don't play the victim card.

It's supposed to work like this: guys who want to play in the sauna, emit little subtle code gestures and eye contact. Rule is, the #1 purpose of the sauna is what Gym Mgmt says it is: the official policy. So, if anyone in there wants to use it as just a sauna (which most/many do), then no playing allowed.

The trouble comes when some trolls are too assertive and in-your-face about it. Shades of borderline-sexual-harrassment ensue. The guy who just wants to sit in the sauna then has to choose between putting up with the sexually forward troll, or leaving, and/or reporting troll to gym mgmt.

I play in the sauna sometimes but I know the code. I would never cause a straight or non-playing guy to feel harassed, much less molested. Unfortunately some guys don't have that sense of rules/social grace/adherence to policy. We had a bad case in my usual gym last month - creepy old guy in his 70s, grabbing his junk and leering at men, blocking the steam room doorway etc. Then one day he was gone, never seen again. I think he finally got reported enough times.

by Anonymousreply 18509/04/2013

R185 speaks the truth

I've been into steam room fun for a few years now, and I never get aggressive with people. I can read cues very easily if someone is into it or not (or into me or not). I've never been caught.

by Anonymousreply 18609/04/2013

[quote]Sometimes if you're going to jerk off you want to do so with a bit of privacy. It's the same when you want to just take a long relaxing shower. Transparent curtains? That's offensive.

Actually a friend of mine opened up his own gym and said it's a pretty standard industry practice that the less private you make the showers, the more money you save because someone is less likely to be luxuriating for 20 minutes running up your water bill.

[quote]I think gym sex is becoming a thing of the past. With all this acceptance and outness younger people just find no reason to sneak. They just take the person home or wherever to have sex. It seems to me that here in NYC people are so hardcore and serious about their workouts that they really have no interest in having sex at the gym whether they be gay or straight.

There will ALWAYS be a portion of men who enjoy public sex and are turned on by it. And a gym sauna is about the safest public sex you can have. And the guys that I have seen getting off at my gym are younger than me - mid 20s to early 30s. Guys enjoy jacking off in groups, period.

I guess that's it. Guys enjoy circle jerks, and where else are you going to do that so easily?

by Anonymousreply 18709/04/2013

My favorite gym conquests are the deeply closeted/down-low ones who are all "bro" this and "bro" that with their straight post-frat buddy cliques in the weight room. When their straight buds hightail it out of there after they finish working out, this is the one guy from the clique who heads right to the sauna/steam, and then lingers in the shower with the see-through curtain for a little too long. There are a few guys in my gym like this. I've gone down on one and JO-ed with another as we viewed each other from opposite shower stalls. There are a couple more who have piqued my interest lately, and I intend to have them.

by Anonymousreply 18809/04/2013

R180 actual facts prove your 'opinion' wrong.

by Anonymousreply 18909/05/2013

@ R189. I could be. If so, so be it. I base my opinion solely upon my observations and I'm not witnessing young and/or really "hot" guys having locker room sex. What I do continue to see are the the elder men (50, 60, and possibly 70's) who walk around bare assed naked (I REALLY hate this) who linger in the locker room and some 40-50 year olds, (Some in good shape while others not so much), who might be engaging in this type of activity.

by Anonymousreply 19009/05/2013

R179- I didn't see Wentworth's dick. We were in a hot tub. I guess I got out first.

by Anonymousreply 19109/05/2013

R180- gym sex will never be a thing of the past. It's not about sneaking around. It's about anonymous sex in public. There will always be people who ar turned on by that. I am and I'm married.

by Anonymousreply 19209/05/2013

And at my gym most of the men are young...and great cocksuckers.

by Anonymousreply 19309/06/2013

I suppose my question here would be is if you were management of NYSC would all of this be a concern or a marketing opportunity?

by Anonymousreply 19409/06/2013

Have any of you ever started jerking off with someone in the steam room and then just stopped before either of you finished and walked out? Or has this happened to you?

by Anonymousreply 19509/06/2013

So, a silly question to R185's point...but what are some of the clues that someone is interested? Being new to all of this, how do you get the other guy to know you want to play? I'm a very subtle person, maybe a little too subtle that I possibly blew an opportunity (the only thing I'm blowing these days).

by Anonymousreply 19609/07/2013

R196 - walk in. sit down. look around. place one hand on your junk. Try to make eye contact. If no eye contact after 10 minutes of trying or no movement towards the crotch from other party, walk out.

Step in the shower for 10 minutes.

Repeat sequence.

by Anonymousreply 19709/07/2013

R195 - you encounter all kinds of weirdos in there. Its not a place for fragile egos. Can you describe in more details what exactly happened ? Did the guy lose interest midway and walk out ? It's common protocol that when you shoot, you walk. Do not expect the other guy/guys to be nice enough to help you finish. We fags deserve one another. LOL

by Anonymousreply 19809/07/2013

People walk out for all kinds of tickets, dinner plans, back to work, wife waiting or they just got to hot to continue.

by Anonymousreply 19909/07/2013

Not everyone, including me, wants to cum, in the steam room. Jacking off is one thing. Cumming is another. I like to use what happens in the steam room as JO material for later.

by Anonymousreply 20009/07/2013

Ive walked out, usually because it got too hot, but I usually say, something like, "getting too hot."

I had an experience where one guy was obviously sitting around the wet area for awhile waiting for action. I saw him in the sauna before my work out sitting alone with his cock exposed and gently tugging. After my work out I went into the steam room and he came in. He started stroking and I joined in. Maybe about two minutes later he just got up and walked out (neither of had gotten off).

I shrugged it off and got out of the steam room a few minutes later and he was back in the sauna just sitting there by himself. No clue what that was about.

by Anonymousreply 20109/07/2013

I had a pretty hot experience at NYSC this morning. I walked into the sauna to find a Latin guy with a mouthwatering bubble butt downing a huge black cock. I started touching the Latin guy, who was on his knees, and my hands made their way down to his ass. I then got on my knees and started eating that bubble ass. He spontaneously came before he finished sucking off the black guy.

by Anonymousreply 20209/07/2013

LOL!!! Poor NYSC!

by Anonymousreply 20309/07/2013

[quote]I shrugged it off and got out of the steam room a few minutes later and he was back in the sauna just sitting there by himself. No clue what that was about.

He was just not that into you. No big whoop.

Also, judging from the amount of time he spends sauna-steam hopping (from the beginning of your workout until the end), I'd say he's a pretty jaded tearoom regular.

by Anonymousreply 20409/07/2013

R200 boring...we want the cum shot. If we are going to be your living porn make your little spunky before you go home.

by Anonymousreply 20509/07/2013

Any more celebrities seen having sex or JOing @ gyms?

by Anonymousreply 20609/07/2013

Agreed, R205. Why wouldn't someone want to shoot a load in the sauna if they've already started working themselves up to it? Masochism? Sheesh. Hate that shit. Although, sometimes, something is better than nothing.

by Anonymousreply 20709/07/2013

R205, r207 I am a marathon stroker. I like to jack for a long time and cum once. I've jacked off in the shower afterwards. It's funny, I've never thought about it before. But I guess an orgasm is too personal for me just to share with a group of strangers.

Derrick, Frederick's husband from million dollar listing works out at my gym. I'd love t see him sometimes in the steam room.

by Anonymousreply 20809/07/2013

(r111) That's the hottest story in this thread. Damn...

by Anonymousreply 20909/07/2013

r140 I like the image of five guys lined up to suck the hung married guy. Nice!

by Anonymousreply 21009/07/2013

Can people mention their NYSC locations in the future? Thanks.

by Anonymousreply 21109/07/2013

r152 Even though P'town now has the rep of being 'mature,' I know what you mean about places like that where, ever so rarely, it'll be a hot twentysomething who is getting off by being the new shiny toy that several men are enjoying.

by Anonymousreply 21209/07/2013

r173 To be in the same steam room as Mike Manning today would be oh-so-nice. To have been in a steam room with MM before the show aired would have been even hotter.

by Anonymousreply 21309/07/2013

Today there were five of us jacking off in the steam room. The youngest was early 20's and the oldest was around 45. I let the best looking one blow me while everyone watched. He swallowed and it was very hot.

by Anonymousreply 21409/07/2013

This really cute ginger and I were trying to get something going at the 94th location this evening but we kept getting interrupted by this old troll. If you frequent this location, you probably know which troll I mean...the tall white guy, mid 50s, with slicked back gray hair and a Hitler stache. He is notorious at this location. He is relentless, peeking in showers and cock blocking anyone he can, though no one gives him the time of day.

by Anonymousreply 21509/07/2013

a certain midtown nysc location has a reputation of having several rentboys working in the afternoon. So i go in to check. Lo and behold there is a harem full of hot guys and i start checking them out wondering who is for available for hire. I got several bemused and annoyed stare backs. I must have made a total ass of myself. none of the guys showed up inside the sauna but may of them made frequent trips to the locker room and eyed the sauna from outside.

Funny. Thought of sharing with you bitches.

by Anonymousreply 21609/07/2013

I caught the vapors in the steam room

by Anonymousreply 21709/07/2013

r170 There's a NYSC in Riverdale? Really?

by Anonymousreply 21809/07/2013

No, the Ballys is in Riverdale.

by Anonymousreply 21909/07/2013

Riverdale...the BRONX

by Anonymousreply 22009/08/2013

170's post is hot but never happened.

by Anonymousreply 22109/08/2013

@ R211, just read through the thread. Locations have been given over and over.

by Anonymousreply 22209/08/2013


by Anonymousreply 22309/08/2013

I wonder if there's any steam room drama, like when a guy, in the middle of a jerk off/sucking session, suddenly walks out and the other guy yells: Don't you DARE walk out on me...DON'T YOU DARE!

by Anonymousreply 22409/08/2013

[R216] which location?

by Anonymousreply 22509/08/2013

Some nice action at the 125th St location this afternoon. Sucked off a thick black cock to completion in the steam room, as a bunch of guys surrounded us and jerked off while watching us. I exited the locker room right after he did, and I observed him meeting up with his wife/gf. Some of these guys have no shame.

by Anonymousreply 22609/08/2013

[quote]with slicked back gray hair and a Hitler stache.

C'mon, no one would sport a Hitler mustache in this day and age. You mean he just hadn't shaved or something, right?

by Anonymousreply 22709/08/2013

R227 the Hitler mustache is a reference to one of the many styles of ridiculous pubic haircuts.

by Anonymousreply 22809/09/2013

Pardon but I want to rant for a minute. I can't stand the desperate, beady-eyed, moon-faced chubby man who trolls the steam/sauna at my lunchtime location. Tempted to report him just for being consistently repulsive. But that is hypocritical because, truth be told, the #1 reason I want him gone is so that we hotter and more discreet guys can have some fun without being skeeved out. Like we used to, sometimes, before this ever present troll showed up each day.

It's not just this guy's looks (though, frankly, he looks like he hasn't gone near the actual gym equipment since 2005). He is just ALWAYS on the prowl, he goes right for the sauna and steam room every day and spends 1-2 hours in there, on the hunt, from one place to the other and back and forth and back and forth, etc etc etc, staring constantly and creepily at any male who might look back, and exposing or grabbing frantically at his over-excited little peen.

OK, venting over.

by Anonymousreply 22909/09/2013

r229 why not just ignore him and play with other guys? if you are the types that will not play if a less attractive guy is watching then you are the biggest offender of them all. find something useful for him to do... like keep a watch ...

by Anonymousreply 23009/09/2013

Sometimes the trolls pleasantly surprise you. There's this one older guy, I'd say in his early/mid-60s, whom I've seen at a few NYSC locations on the UWS. He's not fat, but out of shape. Not particularly good looking either, so I would never give him the time of day. One day we were alone in the steam room, and he takes off his towel, sporting the longest, fattest erection I've ever seen. A good 10 inches and thick. That trumped his other physical shortcomings, and I was on my knees before you could say go. The next day, a Saturday, he came over to my place. I was properly lubed and he plowed me like no tomorrow with his fuck stick.

by Anonymousreply 23109/09/2013

r226 u are eagerly waiting for the so-called shameless guy to show up today ...aren't u?

by Anonymousreply 23209/09/2013

"if you are the types that will not play if a less attractive guy is watching then you are the biggest offender of them all."

sorry, I just can't have fun when someone really repulsive and desperate is around. It's fucking annoying as hell.

and i'm not a snob. some of these guys are just gross.

whenever I sense someone is not in to me in the sauna, I leave. It's sort of an unspoken rule as far as I'm concerned. wish some of these trolls would get the same clue.

by Anonymousreply 23309/09/2013

R230, I think this particular person is a bit off in the head. He seems to lack a normal sense of boundaries or discretion/caution. He'll expose himself to straight guys, or stand fondling himself near the doorway, and stuff like that. And he will just STARE AND STARE AND STARE at you the entire time. Glancing is one thing, but I'm talking about a direct hawk-like stare for a whole long minute. Makes me and, apparently, everyone else very uncomfortable.

I don't mind that he has a belly, like R231 said sometimes the less in shape guys can be hot in their own way (whether attributes or enthusiasm/technique). But this guy has a creep factor about him. I don't want to engage with him at all, and it seems like everyone else gets the same feeling.

I think he's going to get kicked out soon for the above reasons. In the meantime, though, it's a lousy situation.

by Anonymousreply 23409/09/2013

I had a similar experience with a troll pleasantly surprising me. Not attractive in the least, but revealed a hard uncut donkey dick. It was a true chin dropper. If he was younger and more attractive then I would have gone home with him.

by Anonymousreply 23509/09/2013

R230 sounds like all the nasty trolls at my gym and is the reason I end up never staying for very long.

by Anonymousreply 23609/09/2013

If you play in front of the trolls it just encourages them to come back, stay longer, stare more.

I make sure they know that I will abruptly leave if they follow me.

by Anonymousreply 23709/09/2013

r236 what is nasty about the suggestion to ignore trolls and having fun? if your ass is too precious stay out of the sauna or just be in your castle.

by Anonymousreply 23809/09/2013

R237 has it right.

If you give a mouse a cookie...

by Anonymousreply 23909/09/2013

Do not feed the trolls!!!

by Anonymousreply 24009/10/2013

It is not only NY where this stuff occurs.

I did a drive cross country and went to a lot of local YMCA's and they are sexual hotbeds in places like Kansas. Most of the men may be sporting wedding rings but they can be wild.

One in Witchita sucked me off, asked where I was staying and showed up later that night to get fucked, a quick fuck because his wife had dropped him off (to see an old friend) while she took the kids over to the Walmart.

by Anonymousreply 24109/10/2013

Gramercy location on 23 is dead lately.

by Anonymousreply 24212/30/2013

Well Crunch has already opened in the old David Barton space on 23rd st. I wonder if the steam room is open or if they have boarded it up. Does Crunch do steam rooms?

by Anonymousreply 24302/10/2014

Management knows that half the married men are there for sexual release since they're getting nothing from their frigid wives at home.

by Anonymousreply 24402/11/2014

R243 Crunch does indeed do steam rooms. However less men do each other there than at DB.

by Anonymousreply 24502/12/2014

The Limelight nightclub church building is being converted to a David Barton gym sometime soon.

Lots of sperm has been spilled there in its past incarnation, and I imagine a lot more is still to come.

by Anonymousreply 24602/12/2014

[quote]I imagine a lot more is still to come.

That sounds promising.

by Anonymousreply 24702/14/2014

Where are all the sauna bunnies at World Gym in SF?

by Anonymousreply 24802/17/2014

Isn't World Gym a bodybuilding gym? Gays don't go there.

by Anonymousreply 24902/17/2014

Do you really think there are no gays involved in bodybuilding?

by Anonymousreply 25002/22/2014

R250 yes but they sell it on Rentboy, they don't waste spunk in the steam.

by Anonymousreply 25102/22/2014

Any good gym stories lately?

by Anonymousreply 25203/09/2014

Sadly none from me and I contributed a few stories in the past. I had to let my membership lapse due to financial issues. Hopefully I will have a few stories in a few months.

In the mean time, on NYC Craigslist just search for either Bally's, Equinox, or NYSC in personals and you will come across a few.

by Anonymousreply 25303/10/2014

I have a bit of a dilemma. For the past couple of months I've fooled around with this guy at the gym. He's late 30's, early 40's, handsome, in great shape, business type guy, married.

Started out innocently enough. We were in the steam one day, another guy in there started jerking off, I joined in, and this other guy seemed surprised and just watched a little while. He seemed shy and tried to hide his hard on. The guy who started it finally went over and started jerking him off. I figured it must have been his first time doing that but shrugged it off.

Over the next couple of weeks it seemed like our work out schedules were around the same time and we'd end up in the steam together. The first couple of times nothing ever happened but then one day I was horny and started jerking off and he joined in. After a couple times, I blew him once and eventually he started blowing me.

It's gone on for a few months and there's no other contact. We've never spoken outside of the steam room. He blows me and we go our separate ways.

I recently applied for a new job and have an interview scheduled for next week. I did some research on the company, just routine stuff, looked at their website, etc. I come across a page that has staff photos and bios. Turns out this guy I've been hooking up with would be my boss and he's one of three people that will be on my interview panel.

The job only pays a couple of thousand dollars more than my current one and I'd basically only be moving laterally but the company is great and might have more potential to move up. I just don't know if it's worth saving both of us the embarrassment/anonymity. Wondering if I should just decline the interview.

by Anonymousreply 25403/20/2014

Sounds like fun to me

by Anonymousreply 25503/20/2014

Don't do it r254. I ran into a director from my company in a steam room being naughty and we played. We've played together a few times since then. He's made it clear that I cannot work under him at all, even though I've been told by my department director that my position is being eliminated. (I didn't put pressure on him to hire me, I just mentioned the fact I will be leaving and he volunteered he couldn't help me.)

Going to the interview you will just cause embarrassment for him and it will most likely end your playing with him as well.

by Anonymousreply 25603/20/2014

They would have to be somewhat dim not to know half the guys are there for sex outside the home.

by Anonymousreply 25703/21/2014

I fooled around with a partnered guy in the steamroom and he took me home. Bf lived in another state and he was 'free to play.' We had a great time and fooled around a few more times. A few months later I started a new job and SURPRISE there he was. I didn't report to him but we did have to work together. Awkward for him but I didn't give a fuck. Never told any of my co-workers but I'm sure he was afraid I would.

by Anonymousreply 25803/21/2014

Had a hot steam session the other night. About 5 of us were in there. Two were sucking one guy off, while two of us watched and jerked each other off. Just when it was getting good, this guy walked in and interrupted.

Wrote about him before. He's this weird, heavy set guy, who comes in wearing a t-shirt, shorts. He goes and stands under the shower first, getting himself soaking wet, and then walks in to the steam.

He's obviously looking for action, but always just stands against the wall watching everyone. Guys who haven't seen him before don't know he's looking for action and those of us who have seen him before think he's weird, so all the action stops.

Eventually everyone will leave and move to the sauna and it never fails, he follows within 30 seconds. Everyone will get out of there and head to the showers, leaving curtains open and just jack off for each other, but then this guy will come in to the showers and stand there. Everyone moves to the steam, and he's there in 30 seconds.

If it wasn't so annoying, it would be amusing. Now, I have no problems if this guy wanted to jerk off or join in or whatever, but he kills all the action and then stands there and wonders why no one's playing with him.

by Anonymousreply 25903/31/2014

Maybe he IS the manager R259

by Anonymousreply 26003/31/2014

Hot scene tonight at NYSC on the UWS. Muscle stud #1 was being eaten out by muscle stud #2, as muscle stud #1 was pounding the shit out of a skinny cock-hungry twink in the middle of the steam room. Six of us circled them and jerked off watching this play out. Things are so much better there now since that homophobic maintenance guy was promoted to some managerial position and no longer patrols the shower area. It's been a fucking free-for-all lately, literally. Christ, I love being gay in NYC!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 26103/31/2014


He's definitely not the manager. The manager of this location actually plays a lot.

This guy I'm talking about is just a weirdo. Like I said, wrote about him before. He always comes in wearing a soaking wet t-shirt and underwear. Once asked why no one was playing with him. When he was told he should lose the shirt he wailed,

"But I'm not ready to take off my shirt!!!" (he's a big old fat girl)

Talk about your Mary moments.

by Anonymousreply 26204/01/2014

I always wonder about old guys who go to the gym all the time

by Anonymousreply 26304/01/2014

R263 Speaking as an older guy who goes to the gym 4-6x a week, I workout, mind my own business and, after 90 mins, I put my coat on and leave. I don't shower and I have zero interest in trolling or having sex in a public place.

Is there anything else you're wondering about?

by Anonymousreply 26404/02/2014

Funny r264 I'm 28 and do the same thing. Once I went into the steam room and nothing happened. These folks have WILD imaginations

by Anonymousreply 26504/02/2014

R265 = Manager at NYSexClub at 36th and Madison

by Anonymousreply 26604/02/2014

I can't wait to go to my gym tomorrow

by Anonymousreply 26704/02/2014

R265, maybe it's because you're not cool that no one will do anything in your presence. Maybe that's it.

R267, I too am looking forward to the gym tomorrow.

by Anonymousreply 26804/02/2014

I just had sex at the gym after my morning workout. Off to work with a giant smile on my fece.

by Anonymousreply 26904/03/2014

In my younger days, I was a steam queen. I don't bother anymore, because I refuse to become the pesky older guy leering at the ripe fruit.

by Anonymousreply 27004/03/2014

R269, a big smile on your fece? I've had some that curled in the toilet but I don't know that I'd describe them as smiling...

and R270 I'm with you. When I was younger, I would hang around and hope for action. Now I fear being the old troll that kills it for everyone else - so when I'm done working out, I shower and go home.

by Anonymousreply 27104/03/2014

Thank you for not being trolls.

by Anonymousreply 27204/03/2014

[quote]These folks have WILD imaginations

R265 if you saw no action in the steam it means you're ugly. Not just ugly but seriously ugly. I've even seen fat, homely guys get action. If nothing happened when you went in, it means absolutely no one was interested.

by Anonymousreply 27304/03/2014

Exactly, R273. Or it could be, as I suggested at R268, that he was too clueless to signal to the others that he was down for play.

There are straight guys, guys who are serious about sweating and dehydrating themselves, prisspots who hang out in the sauna for hours just to squelch any would-be action, and then there are the seriously ugly and/or whale-like. Action is usually impossible if even one person who meets any of the above criteria is present.

by Anonymousreply 27404/03/2014


I'm more inclined to believe that R265 is just really ugly. I've seen a ton of guys not know to give the signal, but someone in the room will still try to make some obvious attempt to get something going regardless. R265 is just not attractive enough.

by Anonymousreply 27504/03/2014

Was in the steam the other day getting a handjob when this guy walks in wearing just a towel. The guy was in pretty good shape, probably in his early 40's. He stood in front of us and started stretching and that's when we noticed under his towel he was wearing some sort of adult diaper. WTF?

by Anonymousreply 27604/04/2014


by Anonymousreply 27704/04/2014

Those cock sluts suck like there's no tomorrow!

by Anonymousreply 27804/04/2014

There's this one hot Russian/Eastern European-looking number at my gym. Amazing body and dick, which he loves to show off. Definite exhibitionist, but I think he's straight. He doesn't play, but he'll walk back and forth by the shower stalls with the see-through curtains, or dry himself off OUTSIDE of the stall after he showers, probably to give the voyeurs a cheap thrill. I jerked off peeping at him tonight.

by Anonymousreply 27904/04/2014

R270 Same here. I used to workout for 30 mins and cruise for 90 mins. The old NYSC in the 40's between 5th and Madison was my favorite hangout. There was always something going on. Gym was really small so it wasn't even possible to get a decent workout. Steam and sauna on the other hand were just the right size.

Now, I don't have the patience.

But, I'll admit, it was a shitload of fun back then.

by Anonymousreply 28004/04/2014

I travel a lot for business & wherever I go I try to find a World Gym because I know I'm going to find some hot guy. I think the management knows. Look at their website for fuck's sake they practically guarantee you'll get a blow job just by working out or a little SMBD action. I love bodybuilders. They're all gay, closeted, stupid & more than willing to have some action in the place. Even better if there's a mirror around so they can watch themselves! Personally, I like the closeted part because I don't have to worry about being stalked!

by Anonymousreply 28104/04/2014

Tell us more R281!

by Anonymousreply 28204/04/2014

So happy this thread has been revived! I, like you R280, have the same workout routine...exercise for 30, cruise for 90, but since I've been sick all week, I've only cruised in the steamroom and have been getting action like nobody's business.

Earlier this week, someone told me that the NYSC Union Sq has been busting guys lately, and they've shut the steamroom down a couple of times.

R265, do you live in NYC? If you live in some bumblefucktown, USA, then I might understand why you're not getting any; but if you do, then you're either lying about being 28, or must be 400 pounds.

by Anonymousreply 28304/04/2014

R283 I'm sorry being sick has killed your workout routine but glad it hasn't stopped you from having sex and, possibly, infecting people.

by Anonymousreply 28404/05/2014

I can't stand it when I'm in the steam or sauna and someone comes in and has a coughing fit. Stay the fuck home. It's a small, hot room. Germs must love it.

by Anonymousreply 28504/05/2014

And R284, I bet R283 is a real Adonis, what with that 30 minute workout, most of which is probably spent cruising guys out on the gym floor.

Disease spreading and a mediocre body. Ummm, what a dreamboat.

by Anonymousreply 28604/05/2014

Enough fighting and back to slutty gym stories.

by Anonymousreply 28704/05/2014

At a NYSC in Chelsea I was once in the steam room with 7 other guys and eventually there wasn't one guy who was sucking or getting sucked. It was crazy but very hot!

The people at the front desk look at you with contempt as you walk in. But who cares about them.

by Anonymousreply 28804/05/2014

281 here: there's a gym in San Francisco which is a guarantee for me. The guys do nothing but work out, take steroids, watch their diet, look at themselves & trade tips on working out. So forget any conversation about anything remotely intelligent, that's why they make perfect fuck partners. I usually approach them by asking about their diet and then it moves on to "look at that definition." Since they take steroids, they have a lot of acne, so forget that; just know they are great bottoms (as long as the mirror is there) & their cocks are small thanks to the roids & they have trouble cumming, so as long as you're ready to slam some hot ass, you're fine. They tend to be great BJ-er's & it's kinda nice cause you don't have to give back. The closeted part is my favorite. I'm out & normal - have a cool house, great job & a regular boyfriend. These guys are strictly for road trips & I don't have to worry about them trying to hook up again. You don't even need a sauna but a shower helps. I've been walked in on before & never got a reaction. Honestly, it seems pretty normal for these guys.

by Anonymousreply 28904/05/2014

[quote]their cocks are small thanks to the roids

Oops! Your fantasy went off the track there and puts your post into the fable category, R289.

Roids do NOT make cocks smaller. You screwed up your Nifty tale with that claim.

by Anonymousreply 29004/05/2014

Those who do not get action in steam rooms are trolls.

by Anonymousreply 29104/06/2014

I was trying to get something going with this cute guy at 80th St./B'way this afternoon, but a certain troll made that impossible. He kept following us back and forth from sauna to steam. We finally gave up. I went to shower, and this troll pulled open the shower curtain. Even though the curtain was closed and I had two towels hanging over the curtain, he said he thought no one was in he drank in my body. I reported him to the manager when I left. The good think about 80th on the weekend is that it doesn't get too much traffic, and what it normally does get, is at least half-way good looking. This troll had to go and ruin things. I hope my reporting him gets him thrown out.

by Anonymousreply 29204/06/2014

[quote] he drank in my body


He probably was just admiring your queenliness

by Anonymousreply 29304/06/2014

That particular location is riddled with trolls, they take shifts and are annoying 24/7.

by Anonymousreply 29404/06/2014

Why is 80th Street a magnet for crazed trolls?

by Anonymousreply 29504/07/2014

R295 who knows...the trolls have killed the membership but management does nothing.

That location is troll central.

by Anonymousreply 29604/07/2014

So being fairly new to this whole sauna/steam room scene, I need you boys to educate me. At what point does a person become a troll? I mean a guy that goes back and forth from the steam room to the sauna could be trying to let the other guys know that he's willing to play. We've all seen that situation where a new guy enters, and he knows there was some obvious action taking place, but the guys there previously leave one-by-one, and new guy eventually follows.

And is being a troll solely based on looks; just relegated to the old, fat, ugly men? Is there such thing as a handsome troll?

by Anonymousreply 29704/07/2014

There are no handsome trolls unless they're straight and for some reason keep going back & forth from sauna to steam, killing the action. Or maybe they're handsome and gay but they're too aloof and don't signal to the other men that play is acceptable or desired.

Grab your cock through your towel (your hand stays on the outside of your towel) like you're scratching an itch, just for a second. Glance furtively at someone else's crotch. Everyone will be waiting for you to signal your intentions, so don't hold out.

by Anonymousreply 29804/07/2014

Trolls are anyone and everyone who is offensive in behavior.

If everyone in the room is willing the troll is the guy who comes in and is not.

If everyone is hot the troll is the gross old senior on Cialis who wants to join in and follows men around.

A troll is the guy who bothers the straights grabbing ankles and trying to molest them.

There are a lot of troll types.

by Anonymousreply 29904/08/2014

My gym is particularly good for action on Saturday afternoons. Like clockwork from 200 - 400pm you'll find about 20 guys in the steam or sauna trying to get something going. Recently though it's been stalled by this one troll. He's probably about 30, balding, short, and looks like a pig. He literally looks like Porky Pig. Anyway, he alternates between the steam and sauna, sitting there in his underwear, arms folded across his perky little breasts. He'll be there for 4 hours at a time. Once he sat in the Steam for an hour straight which was sort of impressive.

No one knows what his deal is. He never seems to initiate anything as though he's looking to play. He just sits there. I doubt he could be that clueless though. No one likes the steam and sauna that much.

by Anonymousreply 30004/08/2014

Does anyone go to Equinox in the city? Best one? Have had a little fun in the 33rd street location, but 63rd is full of old white dudes that just hang out for hours.

by Anonymousreply 30104/08/2014

Does anyone else go to Bally's in Riverdale? I primarily go to NYSC in the city, but kept my Bally's membership because I pay only $5/month. The place if rife with gorgeous roided Dominicans, many of whom are on the down low. They WILL play, and they love to put on a show in the curtainless showers stalls. Many of these guys are also go-go boys, and are actually approachable in the gym. Everyone knows what they're up to, but it's accepted as long as they have the gf/wife and kids and identify as straight.

by Anonymousreply 30204/08/2014

Can we take a minute and talk about the people who go into the Steam Rooms and Saunas fully dressed with their sneakers on? Or the ones that shave, clip their nails, or use a file to scrape off dead skin from their feet?

Nothing kills action like the above. All of which I saw this morning.

by Anonymousreply 30304/08/2014

R300, now that is a troll, that Porky Pig guy. What the fuck. He kills the action, right? And stays forever? You guys should pick him up and actually throw him out. What an asshole.

by Anonymousreply 30404/08/2014

There's one nysc location I use just for sex. I have no idea what the actual gym really looks like lol. The awkward part is scanning my card at the front desk. I swear they can see right through me and know that I'm only there to hook up. I've detected some dirty looks, but maybe that's just my perception/paranoia. I'm horny so I think I'll "work out" lol at that location tonight.

by Anonymousreply 30504/09/2014


Yes, he definitely kills the action. I have no issues with who wants to join in or get action or whatever, but I don't understand sitting there for hours. Like I said, I don't know what his deal is. I've never seen him make any sort of eye contact or give any indication that he's looking for action, but surely no one sits in the steam/sauna for hours at a time just because they like it. He can't be oblivious to what he's doing. Or can he?

by Anonymousreply 30604/09/2014


Yeah, they probably do know, but who cares? What location is this?

by Anonymousreply 30704/09/2014

@R301, I go to the Equinox on 33rd & Park. Been a member going on 2 years. Gorgeous guys, and yup! "we" are there. But, I've never seen the action that you describe. I'm not there for that anyway, and although I have seen those with a desire to do "something", I have never seen anything really kick off. But again, I'm not there for that anyway.

The Equinox on Greenwich is pretty hot--hot guys, so is the on 19th. Tribeca is hit or miss (mostly miss) SoHo is boring mostly because of attitude.

by Anonymousreply 30804/09/2014

R305 36th and Madison? They don't care. I saw a guy walk right past the desk once. Figured they must know him. 45 mins later I saw him escorted out by the cops. Turns out he was caught breaking into lockers. You can walk out of there carrying a stairmaster on your back and no one will notice. Or care.

by Anonymousreply 30904/09/2014

36th & Madison's front desk is frequently unoccupied. Then sometimes after they're closed they leave the front door unlocked. Idiots.

R300, it's possible the guy you're talking about is mentally ill.

R305, what location are you talking about? Don't worry, I won't tell.

by Anonymousreply 31004/09/2014

R310 it really could be any location. They can all be used that way, if you are hot.

by Anonymousreply 31104/10/2014

"Trolls are anyone and everyone who is offensive in behavior. "

Then that pretty much describes anybody engaging in sex in a public place, no?

by Anonymousreply 31204/10/2014


by Anonymousreply 31304/10/2014

The problem with messing around in the steam room is that once you start, you can never just go in to use the steam room to relax. If anyone else is in there that you've messed around with before, they automatically think you want to again. And if you don't mess around with them, you'll never get action again when you actually want to.

by Anonymousreply 31404/10/2014

R314 is spot on. I had a courtship, relationship and breakup with this steamroom dude and we did not even exchange a single word lol

by Anonymousreply 31504/12/2014

Tell us more, R315!

by Anonymousreply 31604/13/2014

Is there still a Golds in Rosslyn, VA? Outside DC? That place used to be poorly maintained and a hot bed for gay sex. Stunk like hell in that locker room, I mean really stunk - worse than even a gym locker room should stink. Ugh.

The sauna at my college used to be good for getting a handy from some guy.

by Anonymousreply 31704/13/2014

Was at the gym on Saturday and once again Porky Pig was hanging out in the Locker Room. The Steam Room was broken so he would sit on a bench in front of the Sauna until more than one person went in. Once two people were in there, he'd immediately go in and sit.

I used the whirlpool and showers and watched as he sat in front of the Sauna for a good 45 minutes. He must have spent at least 3 hours at the gym just sitting around.

by Anonymousreply 31804/14/2014

I used to go to a gym that had many hot guys. There were two brothers who had the biggest dicks I have ever seen. Another guy was a blonde movie star type hottie, straight. We became friends, and after awhile, we got together at my place, but he didn't do much, it was all me on him, which was just fine. I think we could have gotten it on in the gym, which had a rarely used sauna, but we had heard the owner kicked a guy out for doing that, so we didn't.

by Anonymousreply 31904/15/2014

Most guys will fuck as soon as they can

by Anonymousreply 32004/15/2014

In order to fuck in the steam room the bottom must be clean and pre-lubed.

by Anonymousreply 32104/16/2014

[quote]In order to fuck in the steam room the bottom must be clean and pre-lubed.

I've seen guys come in to the steam pre-lubed. It's gross.

by Anonymousreply 32204/16/2014

I love the old trolls who pop their Viagra before entering the steam room.

by Anonymousreply 32304/21/2014

I don't care how hot your body is or how young you are... wearing a cock ring in to the steam/sauna is not attractive.

by Anonymousreply 32404/21/2014

I find it quite alluring

by Anonymousreply 32504/21/2014

The trolling has gotten worse as of late.

by Anonymousreply 32604/21/2014

Agreed, out of control... esp at equinox 63rd and Columbus Circle, trolls there are the worst, but i have to go there to swim...

by Anonymousreply 32704/21/2014

I saw this guy at the gym tonight that I've made out with twice before in the showers, yet each time I entered the steam room or sauna, where ever he was at, he kept leaving. Is that normal?

by Anonymousreply 32804/21/2014

R328, that is sadly common behavior in some homosexuals. For whatever reason, he's decided he doesn't like you anymore, and because you don't have a "real" relationship with him outside of your locker room hookups, he doesn't feel he owes you an explanation.

From now on, whenever you see him, don't make eye contact with him. Pretend he's invisible. That's the best you can do.

by Anonymousreply 32904/21/2014

328 when u played in the showers did u wait till he was done or did you pick up your tail and rushed out the moment you spewed ? Therein lies your answer.

by Anonymousreply 33004/22/2014

R328 what R330 said. Did you take off without getting him off?

It's either that or he got bored of you and thinks he can do better.

by Anonymousreply 33104/22/2014

None of you bitches have any stories to share?

by Anonymousreply 33204/23/2014

at the city hall nysc it's always a crap shoot with whose around, if the trolls are out, and what time you go. one time everything just aligned and i ended up with three good looking guys. the hottest one (early 30's hairy white guy) was eager to starting sucking and started with the twink in the room. he was having trouble with nerves and keeping it up, so he moved to me. i ended up shooting down his throat and got a big smile. to show my gratitude i stood watch at the door to let him finish his rounds.

by Anonymousreply 33304/23/2014

R330/R331 actually, he's the one who cums first, then afterwards, we thank each other and he leaves. But maybe it's what 331 said, maybe he's gotten bored. Oh well, plenty of other guys to whore around with.

by Anonymousreply 33404/23/2014

Since they closed the steam at 125th the DL brothers have been taking over other UWS clubs.

by Anonymousreply 33504/24/2014

Sauna / steam room drama.

by Anonymousreply 33604/24/2014

I'm heading to the gym NOW

by Anonymousreply 33704/24/2014

Sometimes a guy will step in and immediately walk out after seeing you. Sometime he will peep from outside and turn his nose away. Sometimes he is inside and will immediately walk out when you enter. You are not ugly, play well with others and are generally cooperative and tolerant. Has this happened to you and his does that make you feel ?

by Anonymousreply 33804/25/2014

This thread is fiction. I've been going to gyms all my life in NYC and never seen this stuff.

by Anonymousreply 33904/25/2014

R339 then you must be so repulsive even the trolls run away.

by Anonymousreply 34004/25/2014

R339 this thread is not fiction. If you've never seen any action in a NYC gym, I hate to tell you this, but you must not be very attractive.

by Anonymousreply 34104/25/2014

This thread definitely isn't fiction. I must say that I have never seen two guys fucking in a steam room, but I have definitely seen a lot of showing, jerking and sucking.

Question though, has anyone seen anything happen at a Crunch facility? They seem to have mastered the completely sterile locker room.

by Anonymousreply 34204/25/2014

Is this just a New York thing. Any places in north jersey where one could go play a little ?

by Anonymousreply 34304/26/2014

r342, I've played in the steam at the Crunch on 59th St while there on a week guest pass.

I can't believe the stairs to get into that place. So dangerous!

by Anonymousreply 34404/26/2014

R343 who the fuck would know about Jersey...ask Christie.

The DL brothers are taking over Joralemon Equinox in Brooklyn.They jerk off defiantly and fuck any white man who interrupts.

by Anonymousreply 34504/27/2014

R341 he may actually be the hottest one. Frequently all a ton freezes when a hot guy walks in and he gets to decide what happens next

by Anonymousreply 34604/27/2014

haha. Nice try R346. No way you, I mean, R341, is "the hottest one." No such thing as a guy being so hot that all guys freeze and no one ever has made an indication that they want to get something going.

by Anonymousreply 34704/27/2014

Agree with R347. No matter how hot the guy is there's always someone who's going to try to get something going. R341 is obviously really fucking ugly.

by Anonymousreply 34804/28/2014

No one has any stories from the weekend?

by Anonymousreply 34904/28/2014

So what nysc gyms are the best?

by Anonymousreply 35004/28/2014

That's a new one, R346, I have to test that theory out.

by Anonymousreply 35104/28/2014

R346 that's laughable. I'm an extremely attractive, fit guy, easily one of the "hottest" guys in my gym, and I have no problems walking in and having someone try to start something up with me.

Case in point, I was in the sauna the other day. This guy walked by, saw me in there alone, quickly turned around and came in. He sat on the bench opposite me and started making it obvious he was looking to get off with me. He tugged, I tugged. Before, I knew it he was up, came over, grabbed my cock and started jerking me off. All of a sudden he turns around and tries to put me in him. I had to push him off. He tried again, but I'm not into that.

by Anonymousreply 35204/29/2014

[quote]281 here: there's a gym in San Francisco which is a guarantee for me. The guys do nothing but work out, take steroids, watch their diet, look at themselves & trade tips on working out.

Which gym? They've shut down most of the steamrooms in SF.

by Anonymousreply 35304/30/2014

R346, or he might just be really straight-acting. Everyone thought he was straight so didn't dare try to get anything started.

by Anonymousreply 35404/30/2014

hahaha R354 give it up. The guy at R339 is not good looking nor is he straight acting, he's just ugly. It doesn't matter how good looking or straight acting the guy is, if there is another guy (or guys) in the steam or sauna looking for action, they'll signal just to see if something might happen.

R339 is just some really ugly dude no one is interested in.

by Anonymousreply 35504/30/2014

Have they reopened the steamroom at Union Sq NYSC?

by Anonymousreply 35604/30/2014

Had plenty if sex in gym steamrooms and saunas. But I've also sucked off a guy in a less busy part of a fairly busy locker room. Behind an open locker door. He came quickly thrusting his cock deep down my throat as he ejaculated. Clean, not a drop spilled.

by Anonymousreply 35705/01/2014

r357 Perfect!

by Anonymousreply 35805/01/2014

R356 yes, but it is not the same. Much of the action moved while it was down.

by Anonymousreply 35905/01/2014

Can we take a minute and discuss other awful behavior in the steam room?

There's this really bitchy, gross, guy at my gym. I don't know what's wrong with him, but his head his shaved in multiple areas making it look like he had some kind of awful brain procedure. He's probably in his 50's but looks to be in his 70's, and he always has this mean, nasty, expression on his face.

His routine is to go in to the steam room, make an audible noise of annoyance or disapproval if someone happens to be in "his" seat, and if someone is, he'll sit as close as he can to them (even if no one else is in the room) to try to annoy them enough to leave.

Once he has his spot, he lays out four towels, two on the upper, two on the lower bench, and proceeds to slather his face and entire body, in lotion, and then sits there with the lotion all over him.

At some point, he'll get up, push the door open and leave it open until all the steam leaves the room, and then he closes it again, even if there are other people in there.

When he finally leaves, still slathered in lotion, he leaves a mess of towels in the room without picking them up.

I've always wanted to say something to him but he's always come off as a crazy homeless man who'd go apeshit on you.

by Anonymousreply 36005/01/2014

So I was involved in two different threesomes, and I think I found the NYSC that has the most action.

by Anonymousreply 36105/03/2014

NYSC has no membership filter, they embrace the crazy and the trolls.

by Anonymousreply 36205/05/2014

Anyone been to I Love Kickboxing in Chelsea? I had a groupon there and I was one of a few guys but the only one to take a shower. Realized that once the next class starts there is no chance of anyone coming in and interrupting. If more people went it could be a great spot!

by Anonymousreply 36305/10/2014

But we don't love Kickboxing and already have NYSC and Equinox plus Reebcock, we don't need another place.

by Anonymousreply 36405/10/2014

I became a member at Planet Fitness because it was cheap but the place smells like piss and there is no sauna or steam. I wish I had known about this before signing up. If I were to switch over to another gym which one is my best bet?

by Anonymousreply 36505/10/2014

R365 Read the damn thread.

Which one is best depends on what you are looking for.

by Anonymousreply 36605/11/2014

I take kickboxing and threesomes classes at Equinox

by Anonymousreply 36705/11/2014

Whenever I'm in NY I always know I'm going to have at least 2 orgies in the steam room. This past week was no exception.

There were about 5 of us in the steam, you could tell three of the guys had no intention of doing anything. A sixth guy walks in, sits with his towel split up the middle, exposing his cock and within 30 seconds of sitting down, he starts stroking it. Sure enough, it got some of us to join. Two of the guys seemed uncertain and looked as though they had no clue what was going on but it didn't take long for them to decide to start jerking too.

by Anonymousreply 36805/15/2014

r368 Never happened.

by Anonymousreply 36905/16/2014

R369 does not get out much.

by Anonymousreply 37005/16/2014

Oh good, the "this never happened" troll is back at R369.

I'm actually quite sure R368 happens. It's one of the milder things that go on in steam rooms.

by Anonymousreply 37105/16/2014

Why doesn't anyone use the steam room at World Gym in SF?

by Anonymousreply 37205/16/2014

The troll at R369 is doing his best to stop everyone from sharing stories and gossip at DL.

by Anonymousreply 37305/16/2014

Has anything ever happened at a Crunch in NYC? If so where? I miss the occasional play at the 23rd st, David Barton. Sometimes the thought of what might happen was enough to get me to the gym. I've gained 10lbs. since that place closed.

by Anonymousreply 37405/18/2014

Each Crunch has it's own vibe. The one on the East Side and the one in the Village (East ) can get hot.

by Anonymousreply 37505/19/2014

34th st or 59th st R375?

by Anonymousreply 37605/19/2014


by Anonymousreply 37705/21/2014

The sauna is ALWAYS hopping on Sunday morning. I call it the worship hours.

by Anonymousreply 37805/21/2014

What location R378?

Sundays are the best at my gym. Both the sauna and steam are packed with everyone looking for action. It's basically an orgy from 10 am - 1 pm.

by Anonymousreply 37905/21/2014

Hot and steaming

by Anonymousreply 38005/21/2014

Any thoughts on Crunch gym?

by Anonymousreply 38105/27/2014

Yes, people do think about it.

Can you be more specific?

Or maybe read the thread so you can see what has already been posted about Crunch.

by Anonymousreply 38205/28/2014

Remsen in Brooklyn is normally a DL brothers gym and they take over every space aggressively, but yesterday a nice blond guy sucked me off in the sauna.

by Anonymousreply 38305/29/2014

I like how stuff that goes on in the locker room often becomes like a soap opera. You know all the players and drama always ensues.

For instance, there's this guy at one of the gyms I would go to. His face is unattractive, but he was really built, which meant he got a lot of play in the steam room/sauna. Because of that, he also gave a lot of attitude. If anyone dared to enter any space he was in and they weren't up to his standard, he'd be a bitch and sneer, give the guy dirty looks, storm out of the room, basically whatever he could do to let the guy know he thought he was grotesue. He was constantly in the locker room.

I temporarily got relocated for work so haven't been back to that gym in about a year. First time back there was last week and sure enough this guy was still hanging out in the locker room. Apparently though, he's spent too much of his time in there and not enough on the gym floor because he's fat now. Not out of shape, fat. And now he's getting the same attitude back that he was giving.

He hasn't learned anything though. It's just made him angrier and from what I hear, if no one will let him play, he'll block the action... for hours.

by Anonymousreply 38406/11/2014

Summer fun?

by Anonymousreply 38506/24/2014

[quote]The sauna is ALWAYS hopping on Sunday morning. I call it the worship hours.

While the Fundie wives are in church, hubby is in a sauna.

by Anonymousreply 38606/26/2014

I've seen a lot of fug at the gym lately, not many of these folks I would want to play with.

by Anonymousreply 38706/28/2014

R384, that was funny!

by Anonymousreply 38806/29/2014

[quote]The sauna is ALWAYS hopping on Sunday morning.

Sunday, sweet Sunday!

by Anonymousreply 38906/29/2014

Fooling around in the steam isn't as much fun as it used to be. I always end up in there with the trolls who run straight from the front desk to the steamroom and stay in there for hours. Now I just shower and leave or skip the shower til I get home.

Everyone has gotten so fucking aggressive and it's turned into such a game. The loss of spontaneity has killed it for me.

by Anonymousreply 39006/29/2014

I'm always surprised at people who never realized Regis is a big ol' queen.

by Anonymousreply 39106/29/2014

I walked in on a big ole (as in OLD) bear with a great big wedding ring on his finger blowing a fugly inked guy in the 36th and Madison location this morning. I remember when that location used to be filled with hot guys but that was before Equinox opened up down the street.

by Anonymousreply 39207/02/2014

The blind managers probably don't.

by Anonymousreply 39307/02/2014

Of course the gym management knows. It's the only reason some guys join a gym.

by Anonymousreply 39407/05/2014

It's everywhere...the trolls.

Beautiful Health Club in Maine, empty Sauna...I go in...two minutes later a fat old while comes in and tries to get my attention jerking his tiny weenie.

Trolls go HOME>

by Anonymousreply 39507/08/2014

You were asking for it

by Anonymousreply 39607/08/2014

All I know is that I've gained 10lbs since my gym's steam room and sauna closed down.

by Anonymousreply 39707/09/2014

grow up, dudes

by Anonymousreply 39807/19/2014

I can understand how sex at the gym can be enticing but, to me, it's about as appealing as sex in a toilet where people shit. I know, I'm a prude.

by Anonymousreply 39907/19/2014

Good times at the gym.

by Anonymousreply 40007/21/2014

Looks like those days are long gone R400. :(

by Anonymousreply 40107/21/2014

I thought I lucked out as my gym was pretty dead yesterday. Went in to the sauna and sat for a minute or so before this guy started taking a shower, with the curtain open, and looking in at me. It was obvious where this was going, but before he could get in and join me, this other guy walks in.

This guy is annoying as fuck. He always walks in wearing shorts, a t-shirt, socks and sneakers, and yet he's desperate for action.

He stands there, stares at me, and tries to signal me, but I don't pay attention to him. I don't know why he keeps trying as he's tried to get me to mess around with him for the past year and it obviously never happens.

The other guy comes in and sits about two spaces over from me. We're both just in towels and the other guy knows we're going to try to do something so he doesn't leave. Instead, he just stands there staring at us.

He blocks the action for a good 10 minutes until he can't take the heat any more (he's dripping in sweat) and he goes to the showers to cool off... meaning, he goes in to the shower with all of his clothes, including his shoes, on.

While he's in there, the other guy and me start to jerk off, but of course once it gets good, the third guy comes in. It's obvious he's interrupted something, but he doesn't care or he doesn't get the hint that no one wants to do it with him in there.

We're all just awkwardly sitting there and this guy goes from staring out the door to turning towards the both of us, standing in front of us, with his arms crossed staring at us.

It's fucking creepy and we ended up just leaving.

It amazes me what must be going on in his head. Does he not get it? Does he not care? I sort of just think he's an idiot and one of these days someone's going to go off on him.

by Anonymousreply 40207/27/2014

R402, if you wanted privacy, get a hotel room.

by Anonymousreply 40307/27/2014

Yawn, R403. Why are you here again?

by Anonymousreply 40407/27/2014

It IS kind of funny when toilet (or sauna) boys get all pissy with their rules.

by Anonymousreply 40507/27/2014

That's weird R402. I don't get when guys want action and yet they're in the steam/sauna fully dressed either. Makes no sense and it is weird.

by Anonymousreply 40607/27/2014

R403 = Angry Troll who can't get action.

by Anonymousreply 40707/27/2014

We don't engage in this type of debauchery in DC.

by Anonymousreply 40808/02/2014


Stuff like this does seem to be less frequent in places where the guys aren't hot.

by Anonymousreply 40908/02/2014

[quote]We don't engage in this type of debauchery in DC.

I guess things came to a halt in DC when George Stephanopoulos moved to NYC.

by Anonymousreply 41008/02/2014

[quote]I'm not going to name names, but I was heavily cruised twice by one of the husbands from the Real Housewives show at the gym.

Why do people even bother when they're not going to share?

by Anonymousreply 41108/04/2014

R411 I can do that person one better.

I wasn't just cruised but have messed around with one of the househusbands for years. He's bi, hung, loves to kiss, and was recently caught cheating on his wife.

You can figure it out from there.

by Anonymousreply 41208/04/2014

r402 Ease up. There is a nice guy at my gym that simply watches the door. Jeez.

by Anonymousreply 41308/04/2014


This guy is not simply watching the door. He's blocking the action and he doesn't get that he is. He wants in on it but just stands there staring at everyone.

by Anonymousreply 41408/04/2014

R412 Well, it's not Bobby because Bobby has a gorgeous wife who has made a gorgeous home for him.

by Anonymousreply 41508/04/2014

Not Mario r412? I've seen him in person and he is so sexy. Do tell.

by Anonymousreply 41608/09/2014

The guy in R412 is most likely Mario. I've heard a similar story from a friend of mine.

by Anonymousreply 41708/11/2014


by Anonymousreply 41809/02/2014

It was my birthday today and all I got was a bunch of fat & fug at the gym. Not one good gift.

by Anonymousreply 41909/09/2014

NYSC has been diligent about stopping action and killing memberships. Somehow they have managed to get a LOT of men, YET....


King Troll still stands in the sauna door putting on his show and desperately trying to engage anyone in action.

BirdMan still sits in the corner like a hungry begging bird, wanting worms, any worm, any noodle, any dick.

The rest of the cast take shifts.

The best part is that with so few members I can work out at any time and get in and out quickly with NO waiting.

by Anonymousreply 42009/10/2014

I was trying to tell from the new David Barton Limelight gym is going to have a steam room. I went to check out the space but the locker area is closed off. On the plans though the men's locker room is about twice the size of the women's. They would be dumb not yo include one.

by Anonymousreply 42109/10/2014

What exactly happens when an NYSC member gets caught? Do they have a staff member follow you as you get dressed and take down your information? Do you get a refund? How bad is the public shaming?

Does DB just not care?

by Anonymousreply 42209/10/2014

Someone posted online that a NYC location "caught" people. What location? They put WARNING.

by Anonymousreply 42309/21/2014

80th has been calling the cops in order to rid itself of trolls. I hear one of them got caught last week.

The cops escort the member upstairs and he surrenders his membership (for life) or risks charges.

Two of the worst trolls have been caught. King troll and Birdman are still at large.

by Anonymousreply 42409/21/2014


by Anonymousreply 42509/21/2014

What about midtown dear?

by Anonymousreply 42609/21/2014

Oh that "banned for life" is bullshit. I got caught and was able to get my membership back in two weeks. It's all an intimidation tactic.

by Anonymousreply 42709/26/2014

R427, where and how'd you get caught?

by Anonymousreply 42809/27/2014

Got busted at 41st/7th. Cleaning guy caught me jerking this dude with a really nice fat cock. Didn't even give us a warning with the rolling of that towel bin.

by Anonymousreply 42909/27/2014

So what happened R429? Did he go and get management or what? What did they say to you? How'd you get your membership back?

And what gym was this at?

by Anonymousreply 43009/27/2014

Why don't you just go down to the Greyhound station and lick the anuses of complete strangers?

by Anonymousreply 43109/27/2014

And what compelled you to come in here R431?

I thought so. Now kindly shut your fucking bitch mouth.

by Anonymousreply 43209/28/2014

41st/7th is the one by the port authority right? Was the guy that caught you the really young looking guy? He's a dick.

by Anonymousreply 43309/28/2014

[quote]Why don't you just go down to the Greyhound station and lick the anuses of complete strangers?

Is that where you go to get licked?

by Anonymousreply 43409/29/2014

I got caught a location near Greenwich Village. I won't say which one. They're a bit lax now, but for a brief time about three years ago they had one queeny black guy who worked there in some capacity -- no idea what he did exactly -- and he seemed obsessed with catching guys in the act. I overheard him saying he had ordered full glass walls and doors for the steam & sauna "because I need to see *everything*." What a bitch.

Anyway, he and another staff member (who seemed to be just along for the ride) slyly opened the door to the sauna while I was jerking off with 2 other guys. I got caught and so did one of the other guys. The third guy covered up in time and thus was off the hook (why he wasn't considered complicit is beyond me). Bitchy queen points at me and the other guy and gleefully says "Oooooooh! Uno. Dos." I think he may have instructed us to leave. We left the sauna, hoping to just get dressed and get out of there, but he came up to us separately at our lockers, asked for our keychain barcode cards, and said "See me upstairs in the manager's office after you get dressed."

When I got up there, the manager -- who was such an obvious queen, and quite obviously stupid as well -- was entering a "freeze" on my membership into the computer and said it would be reviewed by the legal (?) dept and they would decide if my membership would be allowed to continue.

I didn't look into the matter until three months later when I noticed I had been charged the full monthly dues for two months straight, meaning my membership was active and I could've been using the gym. I called their toll free number to ask for a refund, and the rep, from what she could see on the computer, indicated my membership had just been, for that one month, on freeze (which is an option available to members for $15/mo that allows the membership to stay active but prevents you from using the gym during the month of the freeze). No indication in the computer that I had done anything wrong or that it was anything other than a freeze which I had requested. I was able to get a refund for the two months they had charged me my full dues when I hadn't used the gym.

So yes, it's an intimidation tactic.

by Anonymousreply 43509/29/2014

Call me crazy. I just work out, check out the hotties and go home to stroke.

by Anonymousreply 43610/19/2014

I'd be more concerned about whether the equipment is sterilized and sanitized after every "use."

by Anonymousreply 43710/19/2014

Banned for Life may have been a tactic in the past, but it is the case now.

Your name goes on a computer list and all Clubs from Boston to D.C. can check it before giving you a membership.

No more legal are gone.

by Anonymousreply 43810/19/2014

And of course, EVERYONE knows the meaning of "freeze."

by Anonymousreply 43910/19/2014

R437, !!!!

by Anonymousreply 44010/19/2014

Could I get my anus licked at the Greyhound station? It does seem quicker than working out first and I lack the necessary self esteem to do otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 44110/19/2014

Knowing that there are people in a locker room who don't want to be around other people having sex but do want to use the steam room, why do people do this when there's Grindr and other options? Is it just a sense of entitlement?

by Anonymousreply 44210/19/2014

fun and folly

by Anonymousreply 44310/19/2014

R442 the young and hot do it when they see other young and hot, no not a sense of anything.

The old and crusty do it because they know nothing else. When they were young and hot in the 60's, it was common and they did not gross out everyone.

Lack of self awareness.

by Anonymousreply 44410/19/2014

I saw two guys get busted at NYSC the other day. One guy was an older guy with tattoos and a huge dick who cruises there all the time. The other was a kind of dorky guy. The employee that caught them was an obvious queen. He was standing in the locker room like a security guard, then when each of the guys came out he demanded their gym tags. The big dicked guy tried to argue but the employee said either he gave him his tag or he called nypd. The dorky guy then came out and was asked for his tag. He exclaimed "can I put my clothes on first?!? That would be more appropriate!" Lol. I found it funny that he was talking about what was appropriate after getting caught having steam room sex.

by Anonymousreply 44511/24/2014

A couple of NYSC have gone ballistic in order to rid themselves of trolls.

Cops all the time. Word is that 80th is going to have undercover cops on Sundays in an effort finally catch Birdman and King Troll.

by Anonymousreply 44611/25/2014

Where did the incident at R445 take place? I wonder who the tattooed big donged dude was.

by Anonymousreply 44711/25/2014

41&8th near the port authority. If you've gone there you've seen him. He is there a lot. Enjoys showing his big dick and seems to play with everyone from hotties to trolls.

by Anonymousreply 44811/25/2014

They know and it's a sure bet they're engaging in it too, when the time is right, when they can't be caught. There's a lot of cocksucking going on.

by Anonymousreply 44911/25/2014

r449, you're delusional, dude.

by Anonymousreply 45011/30/2014

Actually, R450, R449 is accurate at my gym. Most of the trainers mess around in the steam room and the evening shift manager is always offering his dick prior to his shift.

by Anonymousreply 45111/30/2014

Any reports from the new Limelight David Barton Gym? Huge locker room I heard, no steam room but very open sauna. I've noticed the three guys who loved to show off at the new Crunch on 23rd (Old David Barton Gym) have not been there since the new David Barton opened up.

There was a tall attractive black guy who always used to sit in the back on his towel like he was lotioning up, but on closer inspection he was pulling his pud. There is a dorky, younger blond guy with serious cruiser eyes who will pull on his dick if you look at him long enough - nice cock too. And there is another younger thin blond guy who showers before AND after workouts. He is the Catalyst I've mentioned upthread a couple of years back in the old David Barton steam room. He showers with his door open for anyone across the way to see him. Ive seen him suck dick in the back area of the locker room. It was a hot muscle daddy with a thick cock. Blond guy was sitting on the bench while muscle daddy held his towel open. Young blond guy drained him. Was really hot to watch.

But I haven't seen those three since DB opened last month.

by Anonymousreply 45211/30/2014

Barton lost a lot of members due to lack of steam (sex) room.

by Anonymousreply 45301/16/2015

Any action to report aboutt 24 Hour Fitness?

by Anonymousreply 45402/14/2015

Any word about the NYSC in Hoboken near PATH?

by Anonymousreply 45503/17/2015

What 'word' are you looking for?

by Anonymousreply 45604/11/2015

Some of them would go out of business if they got rid of all the men who go there for cruising.

by Anonymousreply 45704/12/2015

My, what I've been missing!

by Anonymousreply 45804/12/2015

Ridiculousness, cops and security for steam room antics. Sad world we live in.

Meanwhile the USA is being robbed by the politicians.

by Anonymousreply 45904/12/2015

[quote]Meanwhile the USA is being robbed by the politicians.

90% of the people on Capitol Hill need to be voted out.

by Anonymousreply 46004/13/2015

R457 is talking about NYSC in Harlem. Total sex club.

by Anonymousreply 46104/27/2015

NYSC on 80th is so determined to rid themselves of the crusty old trolls that have not yet caught in the act they now have locker room attendants.

I see cops almost every time I use the gym.

by Anonymousreply 46205/31/2015


My gym tried the same thing and hired two attendants that both work different shifts.

It took one week and now both of those attendants participate in the action. It's funny to watch them both eye who's going in and out of the steam and then immediately following the ones they like and pulling out their dicks and getting on their knees.

by Anonymousreply 46305/31/2015

R463 as often as the cops have been called lately I think it might be working. These attendants, thus far appear to have no interest in joining.

by Anonymousreply 46405/31/2015

[quote]It took one week and now both of those attendants participate in the action.

Don't their bosses notice?

by Anonymousreply 46506/01/2015

[quote]Don't their bosses notice?

Not so far. The gym is basically full of sex. There are at least 5 trainers/instructors that participate and one Asst. Manager that does.

I think the reason they hired the attendants was all because of the main Manager who has some sort of chip on his shoulders. He's always trying to bust someone but at the same time, everyone knows he's a creepy dude who is just dying to participate.

He's this tall fit/fat (he wears compression clothing to try to make himself look more fit) who goes into the locker room constantly and will stare at you as you change and he also makes constant "inspections" of the shower areas, where he's basically just standing there watching dudes shower.

by Anonymousreply 46606/01/2015

you 'assume' he is dying to participate.

by Anonymousreply 46706/02/2015

[quote]you 'assume' he is dying to participate.

No, it's pretty obvious. Most guys not interested don't make frequent trips to locker room, especially when his favorites head in, and just stand there and watch them undress.

by Anonymousreply 46806/02/2015

Crunch on 83rd. Any action?

by Anonymousreply 46906/27/2015

So? Updates?

by Anonymousreply 47007/31/2015

can someone please explain why guys say how beautiful someone is, and are willing to suck you dry or get ass fuked by you but don't ask you on a date or seem to want to be your friend. i mean if they say a person is out of their league, but the person is lonely and wants to hang with them for more than sex. why won't they let them?

by Anonymousreply 47107/31/2015

i'm not talking about one person specifically. I realize they could be in relationship etc. but i'm referring to hearing the same remarks from different ones. doesn't anyone try to make friends anymore?

by Anonymousreply 47207/31/2015

I think so

by Anonymousreply 47309/03/2015

[quote]can someone please explain why guys say how beautiful someone is, and are willing to suck you dry or get ass fuked by you but don't ask you on a date or seem to want to be your friend. i mean if they say a person is out of their league, but the person is lonely and wants to hang with them for more than sex. why won't they let them?

Why don't you ask them out then?

by Anonymousreply 47409/03/2015

How did we let this amazing thread fall to the wayside?

by Anonymousreply 47507/14/2016

r24 No surprise, that place is more of a gay bathhouse than a gym. Some of their fitness instructors are actually ex-porn actors.

by Anonymousreply 47607/14/2016

Had an encounter the other day at the gym and it reminded me of this thread.

I typically go to a different location but have been to the one I ended up going to enough times to recognize a few of the guys there. One of them is this 40-ish, fit, good looking guy who sort of acts like he's the Mayor of the gym. You know the type, walks around chatting everyone up and making sure people know he knows everyone, etc. Anyway, he was coming in as I was finishing up my workout and when he got on the gym floor I was done and hit the showers.

After getting out of the shower I noticed he was back in the locker room and he's standing there staring at me. I didn't really pay attention to him and just went into the steam room. There was only one other guy in it and he was sitting by the door so I sat in the far corner of the room and just relaxed.

A few minutes later, Mr. Mayor comes in and makes a bee line for me and sits right next to me. This branch's steam room is huge so it was obvious what he was up to. So he sits down and opens his towel up immediately so that he's just sitting there with his legs spread and his cock out. It takes him all of 30 seconds and he starts rubbing his dick.

I'm not directly looking at him because I have no intention of fooling around with him. A minute later he reaches over, grabs my hand and tries to put it on his dick. I pull my arm back and the guy by the door is just watching. Mr. Mayor then reaches over and tries to grab my dick. I sort of push his hand away and move further down the bench.

The guy by the door gave me this funny smile and walked out. Once he did, Mr. Mayor gets up, stands in front of me, and again grabs my hand and tries to put it on his dick. I pull my arm away and he tries to grab it again more forcefully. It was sort of funny and ridiculous.

It's pretty clear that he's used to guys there lining up for him and couldn't possibly fathom being rejected. Anyway, just thought I'd post this because I'm sure some of you fellow gym whores have the same type of guy at your gym.

by Anonymousreply 47707/21/2016

Guys who have sex in public places are gross and deserve to get busted.

by Anonymousreply 47807/21/2016

On the other hand, do you think the gyms encourage towel dancers? Gyms should arrest good looking young guys who go to gyms either in their gym attire so they won't have to change in the locker room or else keep their underpants on for the entire operation. They're the real problems.

by Anonymousreply 47907/21/2016

[quote]They're the real problems.

No the real problems are the creepers who hang out in the locker room and pretend to be using their phones but are obviously taking photos of other guys. That's why guys towel dance.

by Anonymousreply 48007/21/2016

Bullshit, r489, they towel dance because they are horrified at whom they consider the wrong people seeing them nude. Which came first, cellphones or towel dancing?

by Anonymousreply 48107/21/2016

Towel dance = small cock.

by Anonymousreply 48207/21/2016

[quote]Bullshit, [R489], they towel dance because they are horrified at whom they consider the wrong people seeing them nude. Which came first, cellphones or towel dancing?

Yeah, because cellphones came after towel dancing means nobody does it because they don't want creepers snapping photos and putting them up on Tumblr.

by Anonymousreply 48307/27/2016


by Anonymousreply 48408/01/2017

36th and Madison NYSC is more of a sex den than a gym. On weekends the gym is empty but the wet area is bustling. Management was 'monitoring activity' and canceling memberships for a while but finally gave up probably because they were losing too many members since, let's face it, most guys goes there for the sex and not the aerobics classes.

by Anonymousreply 48508/01/2017

Mmm r18 I like raging hardons

by Anonymousreply 48608/01/2017

Not only do they know... they encourage it!

Side note. A former Olympic Gold Winning Figure Skater trolls our steam and sauna. He can't understand why no one wants to play with him when he's so hot. It's amusing.

by Anonymousreply 48708/05/2017

There's this one hot closeted dude in my gym who's all bro this and bro that on the gym floor. We've made eye contact on the floor many times, but it's been frustrating because he never steams or showers. Well, last night, we continued the eye contact. When I was in earshot, he told his buddy he was going to take a steam because he felt a cold coming on. He then glanced at me and then quickly darted his eyes away. I thought that was my cue to meet him in the sauna. I followed him in there, but I was too late. He was JO-ing with someone much hotter than me. He wouldn't even give me the time of day. Fuck him!

by Anonymousreply 48808/05/2017

R488 question is.. did he stop when you entered?

by Anonymousreply 48908/05/2017

No, they kept at it. It was as if I didn't exist. I'm ok looking, but the guy he was fooling around with was much better looking. I have self-esteem issues, and believe me, his "rejecting" me did not help. I know he's "straight" because I've seen him with who I guess is his gf outside the gym, and he's all bro this and bro that with his buddies. It's all very baffling. The upshot is that I went home and devoured a whole frozen pizza.

by Anonymousreply 49008/05/2017

If they didn't stop it means they didn't mind if you joined in.

by Anonymousreply 49108/05/2017

I wasn't into the other guy. He's gorgeous, but in a very generic, plastic way, and I'm sure he never passes a mirror without looking. But he's not my type and he would never give me the time of day, I'm so out of his league.

by Anonymousreply 49208/05/2017

The thing is Gym's that are "sex Dens" are mostly gyms with gross, std-infected, effeminate, or otherwise unattractive guys. It's not like they are frequented by hot buff jocks and studly black and Latin hunks that turn heads everywhere they go.

by Anonymousreply 49308/05/2017

hahaha poor R493 obviously never gets offered... not has he heard if Equinox.

by Anonymousreply 49408/05/2017

*nor has he heard of

by Anonymousreply 49508/05/2017

R493, have any pics to confirm your assertion?

by Anonymousreply 49608/05/2017


by Anonymousreply 49708/05/2017

I just had the gym manager follow me into the steam room and try to blow me, while still on his shift. aso the answer to this question is still yes.

by Anonymousreply 498Last Wednesday at 10:29 AM

So while he was on his shift, you were on his shaft?

by Anonymousreply 499Last Wednesday at 10:55 AM

Reading comprehension, R499!

by Anonymousreply 500Last Wednesday at 4:09 PM
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