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Is your gym a sexual hotbed?

We know from other threads (and life) that some are.

So post the gym(s) you regularly go to and whether or not they are sexual bombs.

Include the city, and the branch as well as the name of the club.

I will also include a poll in order to get a read on what this situation is nationwide.

by Anonymousreply 357December 10, 2020 8:12 PM

Poll did not work...sorry.

Anyway...

NYSC mostly West 80th. It is so over run with gross old trolls no one (save the trolls) could ever get wood there. However is is near Zabars and I sometimes see my favorite chef in his underwear (smoking body).

Yours?

by Anonymousreply 1July 19, 2013 12:40 PM

Y on West 63rd mostly...

It is a senior center, and despite hopeful looks from some of the grandpa's not a hot bed at all.

However at certain times of day the Vanderbilt Y on the East Side can be. Back showers can be a wanker paradise.

by Anonymousreply 2July 19, 2013 12:43 PM

Please do not mention Zabars.

by Anonymousreply 3July 19, 2013 12:45 PM

I will mention Zabars if I want. What is your problem...it is also close to FAIRWAY.

by Anonymousreply 4July 19, 2013 12:51 PM

every single gym in downtown toronto is gay sex all over the place.I find it really bizarre that everyone acts like they are not interested in you...and then you get into the showers and they beg for your cock....it's nuts.

by Anonymousreply 5July 19, 2013 12:56 PM

12st street in Philly.

It's more a Kiki than anything, the gay muscle marys sashay and chantez back and forth eyeballing and rolling eyes at all the guys.

Sex does happen in the downstairs saunas but to very often, too many women.

by Anonymousreply 6July 19, 2013 1:13 PM

Mostly old men furiously beating their limp cocks. The best was the guy who left his viagra bottle on the shelf by the showers. Really? Premedicating for the sauna?

by Anonymousreply 7July 19, 2013 1:39 PM

What gym, what city R7?

by Anonymousreply 8July 19, 2013 2:06 PM

I wouldn't know. I go, work out, then leave.

by Anonymousreply 9July 19, 2013 2:16 PM

[all posts by ham-fisted troll a removed.]

by Anonymousreply 10July 19, 2013 2:22 PM

Everywhere I go is a sexual hotbed.

by Anonymousreply 11July 19, 2013 3:52 PM

Why do I get the feeling OP is planning and extended cross country "gym tour" vacation?

by Anonymousreply 12July 19, 2013 4:00 PM

Good for her

by Anonymousreply 13July 19, 2013 4:08 PM

Your feeling would be wrong. I am OP and plan nothing of the sort.

I am however curious about how behavior differs in red and blue states, conservative and liberal communities.

by Anonymousreply 14July 19, 2013 4:08 PM

R8 Long Island, NY

by Anonymousreply 15July 19, 2013 4:10 PM

Old people live on Long Island

by Anonymousreply 16July 19, 2013 4:12 PM

my gym is Gold's gym in Hollywood. there is no sauna or steam room so no sex.

by Anonymousreply 17July 19, 2013 4:13 PM

[quote]I am however curious about how behavior differs in red and blue states, conservative and liberal communities.

Taking it to a larger scale, the country with the greatest amount of downloaded gay porn is Pakistan.

by Anonymousreply 18July 19, 2013 4:26 PM

Very interesting R18.

by Anonymousreply 19July 19, 2013 4:31 PM

why must you speak of Zabar's in that tone?

by Anonymousreply 20July 19, 2013 4:33 PM

Zabar's has TONS of sex going on in the gefilte fish aisle!

by Anonymousreply 21July 19, 2013 4:39 PM

I dropped all my fancy memberships and now go to the Y here in Manhattan. To echo an earlier poster - 63rd is infested with seniors on Cialis. And The Vanderbilt is nuts at times. I've seen some hot silver daddies really going to town there once or twice.

New York Health & Racquet on 14th had a very robust yet under the radar scene when I was going there a few years ago. As did Equinox on Wall Street.

Unfortunately (or fortunately) I cant get it up in saunas/steam rooms otherwise I'd be in sexual compulsives anonymous by now.

by Anonymousreply 22July 19, 2013 4:46 PM

I've been to several gyms in New York which are but finally have found one that, blissfully, is not. For a while I enjoyed the games, but I'm over them, and now just want to get my workout in and leave. If I want a sex club, I'll go to one.

by Anonymousreply 23July 19, 2013 4:47 PM

R23 share...which one is not.

by Anonymousreply 24July 19, 2013 5:05 PM

Can those discussing NYC gyms also say if any of them have open or group shower rooms?

by Anonymousreply 25July 19, 2013 5:20 PM

In NY only the Y's have open showers. All the others have private showers.

by Anonymousreply 26July 19, 2013 5:25 PM

Do lesbians do this? Have sex clubs and sex at gyms?

by Anonymousreply 27July 19, 2013 7:46 PM

[quote]Do lesbians do this? Have sex clubs and sex at gyms?

Most lesbians don't do gyms. They get their exercize by loading and unloading furniture on U-Haul trailers.

by Anonymousreply 28July 19, 2013 7:48 PM

R23, NYC has sex clubs? Could have fooled me

by Anonymousreply 29July 20, 2013 12:40 AM

I know nothing bout no sex clubs.

by Anonymousreply 30July 20, 2013 12:39 PM

Free hand jobs!

by Anonymousreply 31July 20, 2013 1:40 PM

Equinox at Park/33rd has HOT HOT HOT guys working out all the time but nothing more than a little showing off (lotioning up for 5 minutes) in the locker room and some very light cruising in the steam room. Snooze. But if you like to watch hot guys working out, there is ample supply of late 20's/early 30's guys with great bodies all day long.

by Anonymousreply 32July 20, 2013 7:17 PM

I get my gunt eaten out at Curves all the time!

by Anonymousreply 33July 20, 2013 8:01 PM

Every and any NYSC. 51st and Lex and Madison and 36th have the most action going on any time of the day or night. Management doesn't care. I once showed up at 6am for a workout and there were already about 10 guys in towels wandering around looking for cock. The late Ed Koch would hit 51st and Lex every morning and cruise. Ok, I didn't say the guys were hot I just said there were a lot of them.

by Anonymousreply 34July 20, 2013 8:29 PM

Ballys in Kew Gardens, Queens. In 8 years of going there I've never once seen even the remotest hint of any cruising or sexual activity, either directed to me or anyone else. Ever.

by Anonymousreply 35July 20, 2013 8:44 PM

51st an Lex? Are you kidding? The steam/sauna area is empty 90% of the time.

by Anonymousreply 36July 20, 2013 8:56 PM

Hell no to Planet Fitness, think I'm the only gay person in the place

by Anonymousreply 37July 20, 2013 9:18 PM

We shouldn't speak of Zabar's at all! If you know your DL history, you'll know why.

by Anonymousreply 38July 21, 2013 12:13 AM

R35 I live in Kew Gardens. Be grateful there's no sexual activity going on there. Ugh.

by Anonymousreply 39July 21, 2013 1:34 AM

R36 Manager at NYSC 51st and Lex

by Anonymousreply 40July 21, 2013 1:34 AM

DC gay here. Have a membership to Washington Sports Club (WSC). I have the passport membership so I can go to any of the DC locations. They all have action, but some more than others. The most active ones are: K Street, DuPont, and Columbia Heights. There are TONS of missed connections posted for WSC.

by Anonymousreply 41July 21, 2013 3:20 AM

Many years ago I saw George Snuffleguppalus and his hairy crotch (tiny cock) taking the longest shower with the curtain open at the WSC at Dupont.

No actual action that day, but a lot of showing off.

by Anonymousreply 42July 21, 2013 1:20 PM

r39, it's abundantly clear when you go to the Ballys in Kew Gardens that the hot muscular guys working out there do NOT actually live in Kew Gardens itself, because they can't afford to; they travel from nearby neighborhoods like Jamaica. I agree with you that Kew Gardens residents themselves are generally not very attractive.

by Anonymousreply 43July 21, 2013 2:48 PM

In SF, the sexual activity in the gyms has reduced significantly.

Our two "Fitness SF" gyms (formerly Gold's) have closed their steam rooms due to hanky panky, yet it doesn't stop shower cruising.

The old Crunch on New Montgomery used to be a bathhouse, but they renovated and removed the steam room and gang shower, and created shower stalls.

The 24 Hour Fitness chains which have steamrooms and Jacuzzis are co-ed, so one must be discrete and wear bathing trunks.

Just ain't as fun as it used to be.

by Anonymousreply 44July 21, 2013 6:05 PM

I just got a sound butt fucking from a hot daddy type today at my gym

by Anonymousreply 45July 23, 2013 6:45 PM

R45 How proud your family must be

by Anonymousreply 46July 24, 2013 10:55 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 47July 25, 2013 2:20 AM

[quote]my gym is Gold's gym in Hollywood. there is no sauna or steam room so no sex.

Why do you go then? Are you locked into a contract?

by Anonymousreply 48July 25, 2013 9:07 AM

Desperate trolls with no self respect

by Anonymousreply 49July 27, 2013 3:12 AM

Honestly, OP, the way to evaluate this is to go to Craigslist for cities around the country and read the M4M Missed connections and see how many of them involve gyms.

There's usually several messages from guys hoping to follow up on something they did or almost did at the gym. I would have said my gym was totally chaste, but lately I've been seeing a bunch of stories on Craigslist about something happening in the showers or the sauna at my gym.

by Anonymousreply 50July 27, 2013 5:05 AM

Speaking of desperate trolls NYSC has closed the steam at 80th (it is not really out of order) there is talk of getting rid of it in a couple of days during the 'club refresh'.

They really want to get rid of King Troll and Birdman but can't seem to catch them in the act, so closing the steam is the next best thing.

by Anonymousreply 51July 27, 2013 11:36 AM

No

by Anonymousreply 52August 6, 2013 10:28 AM

Oh someone wants to decide for him which gyms to visit, huh?

by Anonymousreply 53August 6, 2013 10:51 AM

What is a "hotbed" precisely? People use that word in the manner the OP did, but what is a "hotbed" in actuality?

by Anonymousreply 54August 6, 2013 11:00 AM

R54 Look it up?

by Anonymousreply 55August 6, 2013 1:21 PM

David Barton 23rd St (NYC) lots of action in the steam and showers. Equinox on Greenwich, same thing. Both places full of hot bodies. I don't engage myself, too shy, but boy does it give me great jo material.

by Anonymousreply 56August 6, 2013 1:39 PM

No

by Anonymousreply 57August 7, 2013 10:15 AM

This morning electricians were repairing the light fixtures in the steamroom at NYSC on 36th and Madison. They also put a locked box around the light switch to make sure the lights stay on. Won't stop the action though.

by Anonymousreply 58August 30, 2013 11:31 PM

[quote]my gym is Gold's gym in Hollywood. there is no sauna or steam room so no sex.

Do you get a no sex discount?

by Anonymousreply 59September 1, 2013 2:16 AM

NYSC is adding signs about 'activity' and turning off the steam and sauna as well as putting towels on the lights.

Like that will help.

Use direct language kids...no sex, or if you have sex have it in full light and get real hot.

by Anonymousreply 60September 1, 2013 11:06 AM

Slightly OT but thanks so much to the guy who smeared feces on the shower curtain at the NYSC on Mercer. So did you wipe your ass with the curtain or just smear it in with your fingertips.

Either way........EW!

by Anonymousreply 61September 4, 2013 2:50 AM

NYSC 94th & Broadway Monday Evening after yoga class around 9 pm!

by Anonymousreply 62September 18, 2013 3:23 PM

Stuff on this thread worth bumping.

by Anonymousreply 63September 19, 2013 2:25 AM

NYSC on 23rd & Park usually has zero action going on, but finally, this past Monday evening there was a little sumthin' sumthin' going on. This cute guy enters the sauna, looks at me and starts jerking off. This being my first time seeing something finally happening, proceed to aimlessly tug on my dick (couldn't get hard as I'm a little nervous, too). Another hot guy with a donkey dick enters and starts jerking off as well and also is serving as our lookout. Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately, however way you want to look at it), we really couldn't keep anything going since one of the staff members had this great need to keep cleaning the same showers near the sauna.

by Anonymousreply 64September 20, 2013 7:17 AM

R64 I always get sucked off at 23rd and Park...Hmmm. Daily.

by Anonymousreply 65September 20, 2013 10:49 AM

By the same person, r65?

by Anonymousreply 66September 21, 2013 3:17 AM

R66 no...3 regulars but there have been others.

by Anonymousreply 67September 21, 2013 1:25 PM

Stop doing this, guys. It's a whole new day. We're allowed to not hate ourselves...and, get this, even like who we are. I know that's a novel concept for some of you. And I promise you, that when you like yourself, you won't feel the need to engage in this type of lewd public illegal behavior. Only guys who detest themselves, whether consciously or subconsciously, get a thrill out of this cheap and demeaning activity. So c'mon, take my advice, learn to like/love yourself and you'll never wanna enter a sauna or steam again. I promise you.

by Anonymousreply 68September 21, 2013 1:55 PM

R68 you are full of shit. I love myself, I love my cock. I love to get my cock sucked. What the fuck is your damage?

by Anonymousreply 69September 21, 2013 2:09 PM

That's a unique outlook from R68 who thinks people have orgasms because they hate themselves.

by Anonymousreply 70September 21, 2013 2:24 PM

When David Barton opens soon in the old Crunch at Christopher and Greenwich Streets let's have a report on the activity there.

by Anonymousreply 71September 21, 2013 2:52 PM

Well, now the police know where to go to bust people for public lewdness.

by Anonymousreply 72September 21, 2013 2:59 PM

Wrong, r70, that's hardly a unique outlook. It's not just about getting off. People who like and care about themselves don't have sex with strangers in public areas. That's simply common sense.

by Anonymousreply 73September 21, 2013 3:03 PM

They're simply going to where sex is readily available. They want to have some hot sex, not a "til death do us part" commitment with one guy. Why is that so difficult to comprehend?

by Anonymousreply 74September 21, 2013 3:46 PM

I'm sorry, R61, I was in a hurry.

by Anonymousreply 75September 21, 2013 4:16 PM

r74, then get a room or find some secluded spot somewhere. A gym isn't the place for it, it shows disrespect for other people who just want to go to work out.

Recreational no-strings sex is fine, but not everywhere. Your libido shouldn't trump your common sense.

by Anonymousreply 76September 21, 2013 4:32 PM

OH my gawd, yes. The gang showers are adjacent to the steam room with a glass wall and a partition at waist level. Soooo...you can make a nod and an acknowledgment and proceed to the steamer. Additionally, the sauna is beyond the end of the sink area, which is really private...big plus, the mirrors outside the cedar framed glass door are situated as such to keep an eye out for potential surprise visitors.

Whomever designed this locker room had to be onto this sales point! Even the lockers are a labyrinth of mystery.

Unfortunately, the hot tub was a unisex, suits only common area. You rarely saw anybody use it, the gym shut it down and built a floor over it...

by Anonymousreply 77September 21, 2013 6:22 PM

Well, damn R65, what time are you going? I've been going lately during noon time, and it is a total dead zone. Went 3 times during the evening last week, and like I mentioned before, Monday was alright, but the staff kept looking. Tuesday evening was dead. Some action might have happened Thursday if I didn't have to leave early. You didn't happen to be there this past Thurs. were you?

Having a good jerking off session there is tough, so you getting sucked off daily there is impressive!

by Anonymousreply 78September 21, 2013 8:44 PM

R77, where is this?

by Anonymousreply 79September 21, 2013 8:50 PM

in his dreams.

by Anonymousreply 80September 21, 2013 8:53 PM

...in his feverish little mind.

by Anonymousreply 81September 21, 2013 8:55 PM

R73 FAIL!

by Anonymousreply 82September 22, 2013 11:46 AM

R78 I go in the morning before work.

by Anonymousreply 83September 22, 2013 11:49 AM

I'm not in NY, in NJ. I saw some hot guy jerkin it in the dry sauna. His balls were covered with warts. Nasty whore.

by Anonymousreply 84September 22, 2013 12:58 PM

Selfish.

by Anonymousreply 85September 22, 2013 1:06 PM

R84 that'l learn you...no one goes to Jersey for sex.

by Anonymousreply 86September 22, 2013 1:07 PM

Anyone know if there's any good action that takes place at the NYSC at Union Sq?

by Anonymousreply 87September 25, 2013 4:00 AM

Not a huge amount of action at my Y. But semi-regularly, there's a hot, fun jack-off and kissing session in the gang showers. Shower and/or steam room sex is a big turn on as long as there are just a couple of guys when no one is around. (Straights taking long showers--get the fuck out.)

And yes, I do workout, but getting off in the showers after exercising or yoga is a nice treat.

by Anonymousreply 88September 25, 2013 4:31 AM

I wish.

I always check out women in the gym.

Lesbians aren't into fun stuff like gay men are.

by Anonymousreply 89September 25, 2013 5:05 AM

R88 kissing really? That is so much more intimate than a blow job. I would let a guy suck my dick, but would never kiss a stranger.

by Anonymousreply 90September 25, 2013 11:37 AM

R90

[quote]kissing really? That is so much more intimate than a blow job. I would let a guy suck my dick, but would never kiss a stranger.

Funny, Ive kissed this guy in the steam room a few times but yesterday, as he blew some gross guy, I realized I won't ever do that again.

by Anonymousreply 91September 25, 2013 1:39 PM

r77 and r88, are these NYC gyms? Which ones? I would love to find a gym in NYC with gang showers.

by Anonymousreply 92September 25, 2013 4:41 PM

We had a whole thread years ago about the midtown Equinox on Broadway and at that time there were things going on there.

by Anonymousreply 93September 25, 2013 5:29 PM

R92 R88 CLEARLY states the Y, so your question has already been answered.

by Anonymousreply 94September 26, 2013 12:08 PM

I heard that NYC doesn't have any gay bath houses anymore, is that true?

by Anonymousreply 95September 26, 2013 12:24 PM

No activity at my gym, which is fine by me. That kind of thing skeeves me out.

But I've been going later this week (around 7:00 -8:30) and I've found a lot of hot guys go at that time. Last night, one guy forgot a towel so he asked his buddy (who was also showering) if he could borrow his. Great looking ass on the guy. And tonight was a hot blond ex-Army guy talking about leading his son's scout camping trip this weekend. He was naked holding his towel telling the story. Nice.

by Anonymousreply 96September 27, 2013 5:14 AM

R95 I hear there are two bathhouses but they are mostly for pozzed out guys who could not get laid in better lighting.

by Anonymousreply 97September 27, 2013 11:00 AM

JCC Beachwood. Who'd have believed it!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 98September 27, 2013 9:16 PM

I guess I got my answer about the Union Square gym as I was able to see some hot sucking action. I'll see what happens when I come back on Tuesday.

by Anonymousreply 99September 28, 2013 1:38 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 100October 2, 2013 6:14 PM

None of these scenarios are hot. They all sound dirty and germy. Ew.

by Anonymousreply 101October 2, 2013 6:40 PM

Poor innocent L.A. always gets left out of these threads.

I hear Bodybuilders is busy in the early a.m.

by Anonymousreply 102October 2, 2013 6:41 PM

OMG, Saturday night at one of the NYSC locations was off the chain. Are we allowed to say which location?

by Anonymousreply 103October 2, 2013 6:51 PM

In Toronto EVERY [italic]Goodlife[/italic] downtown is a pretty much a bath house.

The only exceptions are McCaul Street and the Manulife Centre - but those are horrible facilities.

by Anonymousreply 104October 2, 2013 7:46 PM

[quote]Poor innocent L.A. always gets left out of these threads.

That's because in LA most gyms have coed steamrooms and saunas. It's hard to find one that's not built that way.

by Anonymousreply 105October 2, 2013 9:31 PM

Yes, r103.

by Anonymousreply 106October 3, 2013 12:38 AM

Of course, R103, how else where we know to look?

by Anonymousreply 107October 3, 2013 5:41 AM

Still want to know if r77 and r88 were talking about NYC gyms with gang showers, and if so, which specific ones.

(r94, just knowing it was a Y doesn't actually answer my question.)

by Anonymousreply 108October 3, 2013 11:09 AM

ALL YMCA's. ALL YWHA's. ALL YWCA'S.

All Y's you freaking idiot all Y's in NY have gang showers.

by Anonymousreply 109October 3, 2013 11:41 AM

R103 36th and Madison. Where else? On a separate note, why do they keep running out of towels?

by Anonymousreply 110October 4, 2013 2:10 AM

Predatory gays ruin the best gyms.

by Anonymousreply 111October 4, 2013 3:07 AM

I'll admit to having a double standard about guys who fool around at the gym.

When they're ugly and troll around, it's disgusting.

When they're hot and have great bodies, it's a fantasy fulfilled.

But, what can I say? I'm a fickle gay man.

by Anonymousreply 112October 4, 2013 3:53 AM

R112 we all have the same standard. Trolls ruin everything.

by Anonymousreply 113October 4, 2013 11:13 AM

NYSC at 36th and Madison has got to be the filthiest, most poorly run gym in NY. By the end of the day the towel bins are overflowing, bathrooms are digusting, floors are dirty, shower curtains hanging off, never have any clean towels and run out of toilet paper quite frequently.

But, in the plus column, you can always find some action there.

by Anonymousreply 114October 6, 2013 10:17 PM

Why are you taking dumps at the gym, r114?

by Anonymousreply 115October 6, 2013 10:41 PM

R115 I don't like taking dumps at the gym but sometimes cardio stirs things up and I can't help it.

by Anonymousreply 116October 7, 2013 12:53 AM

[quote]Well, now the police know where to go to bust people for public lewdness.

Public lewdness?! How is a private gym locker room public?

by Anonymousreply 117October 15, 2013 8:31 AM

NYSC at 80th has EVEN MORE TROLLS. The vultures on Viagra were running the place yesterday.

by Anonymousreply 118October 21, 2013 11:56 AM

The hot dudes at my gym almost never go the lockerroom. They come to the gym in workout clothes or wear backpacks from which they quickly change on the gym floor. Only old dudes and creepers go into the lockerroom, with a few exceptions.

by Anonymousreply 119October 22, 2013 3:10 PM

"NYSC at 36th and Madison has got to be the filthiest, most poorly run gym in NY."

Clearly you've never been to the one near City Hall. Yuck.

by Anonymousreply 120October 22, 2013 4:47 PM

I let an old troll top me in the steam room this morning. I was horny as hell, foot traffic was lighter than normal, and he had a big old beercan of a cock. I thought of Lukas Ridgeton the entire time. Just what my gooey needed!

by Anonymousreply 121October 25, 2013 2:14 PM

R121 NEVER touch a troll, he will be on you like white on rice til the end of your days.

by Anonymousreply 122October 27, 2013 11:30 AM

I was reminded of this thread and the deleted "Do you think gym management is aware..." thread this afternoon. I was showering at NYSC and was gauging the foot traffic through the one-way see-through curtain. From my stall, I could see the doors to the sauna and steam. One of the managers was showing a prospective member around. He was about to show him the sauna, but before he went in, he quickly knocked on the sauna door, seemingly to give the guys the head's up that he was coming in there with a possible member. I thought that was kind of funny and telling...I guess most of mgmt are aware of what goes on down there. Good thing he did knock, because the boys were going at it today.

by Anonymousreply 123October 28, 2013 12:09 AM

So what is happening at City Spa in LA these post-Travolta days?

by Anonymousreply 124October 28, 2013 12:23 AM

R123

Which location?

by Anonymousreply 125October 28, 2013 12:37 AM

80th/Broadway

by Anonymousreply 126October 28, 2013 12:49 AM

For those that play.. how many times do you mess around with a guy in the steam/sauna before you get bored with him?

Do you feel obligated if you're in the room with someone you've messed around with before and they're looking for action?

by Anonymousreply 127October 28, 2013 1:43 AM

Yes. On another note, I think it's pathetic when gay folk hang around the locker room to watch the straights get naked.

by Anonymousreply 128October 28, 2013 1:50 AM

R128

Which gym?

by Anonymousreply 129October 28, 2013 1:58 AM

R128....how do you know which are the straights?

by Anonymousreply 130October 28, 2013 10:54 AM

The straights wear brief and boxers. The gays wear boxer briefs. Do try and keep up.

by Anonymousreply 131October 28, 2013 1:49 PM

[quote] For those that play.. how many times do you mess around with a guy in the steam/sauna before you get bored with him? Do you feel obligated if you're in the room with someone you've messed around with before and they're looking for action?

The key to a NYSC's success as a hotbed is that there are enough people looking but not too many that it becomes a real shit show. 40 people looking to play can't discreetly navigate a NYSC shower/steam room. (Here's looking at you Chelsea)

I go to a few NYSCs in Manhattan that reliably have action going on. There are a few people that I've been with that I will instantly mess around with again, it's sorta unsaid. There are a few that I wouldn't. I never feel obligated, but knowing WHO is OK with play is helpful.

by Anonymousreply 132October 28, 2013 2:49 PM

I think something must have happened recently at one of the gyms I go to. I haven't been there in a few weeks and when I went yesterday, I noticed there was one of those Zero Tolerance signs. I don't remember seeing it before, but maybe I just never paid attention it.

Aside from that though, they did something to the timer so that you can't turn the dial past 10 minutes. I think because of this, the room doesn't get as steamy as it used to and it makes it so that now from the outside, you can see into the room clearly see what people are doing or not doing.

by Anonymousreply 133October 29, 2013 9:46 PM

NYC, down in the Village @ Equinox on Greenwich has been "fun" off and on. If you want to, hookups are easy.

by Anonymousreply 134October 29, 2013 11:51 PM

What's the deal with NYSC's lack of towels lately? Is it a way of discouraging guys spending hours there at a time looking for sex.

by Anonymousreply 135October 30, 2013 12:28 AM

R135 Always carry a towel with you... I do.

I miss the 'small' towels NYSC used to supply. They made great cum rags.

by Anonymousreply 136November 2, 2013 3:31 AM

I wish to hell my gym was slightly sexual, there is a straight Puerto Rican trainer with a leg tattoo and an ass to rival Beyonce's butt who is perfection. I would pay a fortune for him to sit on my face.

by Anonymousreply 137November 2, 2013 3:44 AM

R131 is full of shit. The only obvious underwear is skimpy briefs (often 2xist brand -- sooooo cheesy). It is hardly true that boxer briefs are worn by gays any more than straights. Completely ridiculous.

R132, I feel like surely I must know you from the gym already.

by Anonymousreply 138November 2, 2013 4:01 AM

There's a seemingly straight guy at my gym who always showers with the curtain open. He's not making eyes at me, but his ass is always on full display. An open invitation? Or does he just like showing off. It's a mixed gym, so he could be straight - could be gay.

by Anonymousreply 139November 2, 2013 3:00 PM

Can guys on the outside of the stall see in thru those blue shower curtains at NYSC? If they can, I may be in big trouble at 94th/Broadway.

by Anonymousreply 140November 4, 2013 3:53 PM

So many whores on DL.

by Anonymousreply 141November 4, 2013 5:41 PM

R140, haven't you looked at the curtains from the outside as you pass by? You can't really see anything going on inside unless you're at one of the locations where the overhead lighting in the stall itself casts shadows and illuminates the guy and his body movement inside. That is not the case at 94/Bwy.

Watch out, though, if you're at the SoHo location. Or in the one stall at Irving that's adjacent to all the others. (Yes, we see you looking into the sauna at us.)

by Anonymousreply 142November 5, 2013 5:42 AM

Thanks, r142. I realized that tonight that people can't see through the curtains because the stalls are not lit. That's a relief. I thought for sure someone saw me the other day. I was extra horned up after being interrupted by a troll while I was blowing a guy in the steam room. I quickly ran out waiting for the troll to leave so that I could finish the guy off. Tick tock tick tock, I was rock hard with anticipation, and JOed in the shower. I could've sworn some guy saw me thru the curtain as I ejaculated, but sounds like that wasn't the case. Despite my "activities" I do try to maintain some discretion. Well, as much disrection as cheap cum slut like I can maintain, snicker.

by Anonymousreply 143November 6, 2013 1:16 AM

No, out gmail is filled with sane, normal people with morals, not freaks and perverts.

by Anonymousreply 144December 1, 2013 1:23 PM

No.

by Anonymousreply 145December 1, 2013 1:24 PM

[quote]No, out gmail is filled with sane

Oh, DEAR!!!!

by Anonymousreply 146December 1, 2013 1:26 PM

The cum was flying left and right in the steam room today. And more than a little bit found its way down my throat. A lot of pent-up loads after the holiday were in need of release. Yes, I'm a little slut.

by Anonymousreply 147December 2, 2013 12:12 AM

Vile

by Anonymousreply 148December 2, 2013 1:29 AM

r148, please tell me you're a frau. It's perfectly natural to guys to need release after a workout.

by Anonymousreply 149December 2, 2013 1:50 AM

Which gym R147?

by Anonymousreply 150December 2, 2013 2:04 AM

And I bet you R148 is the type that slurps up every last bit of jizz from every troll that enters the steam room.

by Anonymousreply 151December 2, 2013 5:54 AM

I wish mine was! I'd be motivated to go.

by Anonymousreply 152December 2, 2013 10:03 PM

R152 post it on Cruising for sex and every 90 year old troll in the world will start coming to cruise you.

by Anonymousreply 153December 11, 2013 12:53 PM

[quote] post it on Cruising for sex and every 90 year old troll in the world will start coming to cruise you.

thanks for the tip, I love 90 year old twinks

by Anonymousreply 154December 11, 2013 2:26 PM

Do you queens telly think sex goes on at David Barton gyms? Seriously.

by Anonymousreply 155December 11, 2013 3:25 PM

R38 I got some MAD head in the 2nd flr bathdoom from a Frenchman once @ Zabars on the UWS.

by Anonymousreply 156December 11, 2013 3:40 PM

Attention steamroom whores: THE STEAMROOM AT NYSC ON 36TH AND MADISON IS OUT OF SERVICE!

for how long, no one knows.

by Anonymousreply 157December 25, 2013 3:26 PM

Hotbed BUMP.

by Anonymousreply 158December 28, 2013 1:39 PM

R157, do you know if the steamroom has re-opened?I need to make a decision whether to go to the 36th & Mad location or Union Sq. location this week.

by Anonymousreply 159January 1, 2014 12:12 AM

My gym was like a bath house yesterday. It was unbelievable. There's usually some action to be had, but yesterday it was just ridiculous. In the time I was in the steamroom there were no less than 15 guys fucking around or trying to get something started. The hottest part was when there were about six of us in the room and we all knew what was up. So much sucking and jerking. Eventually, three of the guys started a chain with each one fucking the other, while another guy blew one of the guys getting fucked.

I can't believe so may guys are willing to do it bareback. I didn't participate in that but I'll admit it was hot to watch.

A couple of the guys wanted to suck me or have me fuck them, but I don't get into that in these situations. One of the guys asked me if I could come on him, so I complied.

Can't wait to get back there!

by Anonymousreply 160January 1, 2014 1:31 AM

But did you have a good workout, R160?

by Anonymousreply 161January 1, 2014 1:36 AM

R161

Yup. And after an hour and a half of working out, I was horny as hell. Great way to get off.

by Anonymousreply 162January 1, 2014 1:43 AM

This? This right here is why they hate us.

by Anonymousreply 163January 1, 2014 1:56 AM

R160, what gym?

by Anonymousreply 164January 1, 2014 4:23 AM

r160, either identify your gym or shut the fuck up with your goddamn "Dear Penthouse" scenario!!

by Anonymousreply 165January 1, 2014 9:59 AM

Sickos

by Anonymousreply 166January 1, 2014 1:56 PM

Real men 'get off' after working out; ancient Grecian secret to happiness.

by Anonymousreply 167January 1, 2014 2:05 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 168January 1, 2014 2:46 PM

Arrest the perverts

by Anonymousreply 169January 11, 2014 6:35 PM

gross

by Anonymousreply 170January 14, 2014 6:11 PM

I wish. I've looked for such a gym in my area, with no success.

by Anonymousreply 171January 14, 2014 6:40 PM

.

by Anonymousreply 172January 15, 2014 7:17 PM

I don't care about "this is why they hate us," I care that it is disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 173January 15, 2014 7:20 PM

R167 is right on target.

by Anonymousreply 174January 16, 2014 12:05 AM

[quote]Real men 'get off' after working out

Oh spare us, gramps.

by Anonymousreply 175January 16, 2014 12:09 AM

TONS of flirting and meaningful glances right left and center, not much sex.

by Anonymousreply 176January 16, 2014 12:16 AM

If you younguns don't get the sticks out of your asses and start fucking around, there might not BE any gay men in a hundred years.

by Anonymousreply 177January 17, 2014 8:02 PM

94th St/B'way NYSC has been even more of a bathhouse than usual. All the closeted new year's resolutioners have given up on working out and now just head right to the sauna/steam. Some are trolls, some are good looking. It's a toss-up. They unfathomably promoted that homophobic maintenance guy who used to patrol the area to some sort of management position. Now no one's minding the store, so to speak, so it's a free for all, with cum flying left and right. I fucking love being gay in nyc!!!!

by Anonymousreply 178January 17, 2014 8:14 PM

It's sounds like the layer of permacum on the floor is moving up the walls R178.

by Anonymousreply 179January 19, 2014 2:00 AM

Sounds like you've had every stick in the forest up your ass R177!

by Anonymousreply 180January 20, 2014 6:30 AM

A lot of eye fucking but not much more.

by Anonymousreply 181January 20, 2014 6:38 AM

Erotic but not sexual

by Anonymousreply 182January 25, 2014 2:28 PM

NYC is weird and vile.

by Anonymousreply 183February 18, 2014 2:28 PM

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

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by Anonymousreply 184March 10, 2014 5:25 PM

My friend and I were walking out of the gym to our car. This guy, early twenties, probably about ten years younger than us, walks up behind us. Cute enough guy, if a bit average looking. In good shape. Says that he's new in town, and needs to get a job. My friend and I look at each other like WTF, make some comment about our workplace isn't hiring. He says he was just in the locker room, talking to one of the trainers about getting a job. Again, my friend and I trade WTF looks, say something like 'good luck then'. He says something about how badly he needs a job, but by now we're in the car and pretty much driving off. Only talking about it on the drive back did we figure out he meant a BLOWjob. Weird incident.

by Anonymousreply 185March 10, 2014 5:39 PM

The LA Fitness gym in Rosewood, Minnesota has been plagued with crime in recent years. Roseville police responded to 147 incidents there in 2013 and have already gone to 24 incidents this year.

Three adults, Ali Yusuf Barre, 18, of Minneapolis; Abdirashid Yasin Duad, 18, of Minneapolis; and Mohamed Awil Suleiman, 20, of Burnsville, have been charged with disorderly conduct and participation in a riot.

by Anonymousreply 186March 10, 2014 5:39 PM

What about 40 and 50 year olds who "hang out" with 16 and 17 year olds at the gym and after work outs? What that's about?

by Anonymousreply 187March 10, 2014 5:44 PM

You've never heard of a Sugar Daddy, R187?

by Anonymousreply 188March 10, 2014 5:47 PM

Do you hang out with high school kids, R188? Just curious. Whatever floats your boat.

by Anonymousreply 189March 10, 2014 5:49 PM

I love Roseville.

by Anonymousreply 190March 10, 2014 5:53 PM

I love hot sex

by Anonymousreply 191March 10, 2014 6:05 PM

Nice stories, fellas, but here's the unvarnished truth for 90% of the gyms in this country, 90% of the time. There is nothing, and I mean nothing, less sexy or sexual than a YMCA locker room. The men are fat and saggy old. They smell. There are things flopping about that would make an experienced ER doctor lose his cookies.

Alas, locker rooms are not sexy at all. They're disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 192March 10, 2014 6:39 PM

R192

Then you go to cheap gyms.

by Anonymousreply 193March 10, 2014 7:03 PM

I assure you, R192, I use some very sexy locker rooms. The aroma is intoxicating. The men are usually young, built, and sometimes gorgeous. Where do you live?

by Anonymousreply 194March 10, 2014 7:07 PM

Yeah, R192, you're going to the wrong gym.

Mine is cheap (for the city that I'm in) and I go at off-hours, but there's still at least one hot guy in the locker room. They're never there for fooling around but I'm happy enough with the eye candy.

by Anonymousreply 195March 10, 2014 7:08 PM

I belong to LA Fitness in suburban Philly. Like R192, I seldom see a really hot guy in the gym locker room. Even the young ones tend to be quite ordinary from a physique point of view.

There is the occasional ripped stud, but 98% of the people at the gym are pretty schlubby looking.

by Anonymousreply 196March 10, 2014 8:00 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 197April 21, 2014 2:43 PM

My gym is a sex club

by Anonymousreply 198April 21, 2014 2:55 PM

r196, do you ever see this guy there?

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by Anonymousreply 199April 21, 2014 3:07 PM

200

by Anonymousreply 200April 22, 2014 2:16 PM

I'm having sex in my gym today

by Anonymousreply 201April 22, 2014 2:28 PM

My gym is not a sexual hotbed. But I did watch a straight daddy blow his load in the shower. He wasn't showing off at all but he did and then towel danced away. Too bad. I would have helped him out.

by Anonymousreply 202April 26, 2014 4:00 PM

Unless a guy looks like this, being sexual

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by Anonymousreply 203May 16, 2014 7:04 PM

How do you know he's straight R202?

by Anonymousreply 204May 16, 2014 7:26 PM

Gym management always knows that there will be sex now and then.

by Anonymousreply 205May 18, 2014 4:31 PM

My gym is dead. People come and workout and leave. Go figure.

by Anonymousreply 206June 1, 2014 1:49 PM

Thankfully no, dude

by Anonymousreply 207July 29, 2014 1:54 AM

no. there is always a creepy old man who sits close to the water fountain in the male area of my gym watching the men drink out of the water fountain and saying things like was that good? and working hard? he creeps me out. I go early in the morning before the office so I don't have to put up with that shit. Some hippie woman does her spilts in the morning though and takes up the entire room. I would take hippie woman over creepy old fat man any day. Oh did I mention that creepy old man is also fat? like large and I have yet to see him work out. My boyfriend asked him how he was doing one day but then again my boyfriend is very nice and would make friends with the devil himself if he could.

by Anonymousreply 208July 29, 2014 2:56 AM

[quote]then again my boyfriend is very nice and would make friends with the devil himself if he could.

Ah, that explains why he's with a little cunt like you.

by Anonymousreply 209July 29, 2014 2:01 PM

Yes, gang shower, with steam room at the end...nice glass door to peep at the gang, sauna remotely located...lots o'd discreet action with porn-star looking guys...

by Anonymousreply 210July 30, 2014 2:28 AM

Not usually, but I did get a hand job in the steam room at lunchtime a few weeks ago. Nothing remotely like that had ever happened before.

by Anonymousreply 211July 30, 2014 2:37 AM

Ah you zombie health workers and your threads trolling for information on public places where gay men are having unprotected sex.

by Anonymousreply 212July 30, 2014 2:58 AM

[quote]I did get a hand job in the steam room at lunchtime a few weeks ago.

It's better that it happened in the steam room and not the lunch room.

by Anonymousreply 213August 1, 2014 1:58 AM

[quote]There is the occasional ripped stud, but 98% of the people at the gym are pretty schlubby looking.

Maybe you should check out some other gyms to see if they have better scenery.

by Anonymousreply 214August 1, 2014 2:40 PM

Anyone going to the 34th St Crunch tomorrow now that the steam room is back open? It used to be so cruisey.

by Anonymousreply 215September 12, 2014 3:49 AM

Not any more.

NYSC on 80th used to be a hotbed but new management cleaned it up.

The horndogs go to 94th...only three desperate trolls cling to the 80th street location.

by Anonymousreply 216September 12, 2014 11:51 AM

There is less tolerance for misbehavior now. People don't wanna see that crap at the gym.

by Anonymousreply 217January 27, 2015 9:51 PM

Cruisy DC area gyms?

by Anonymousreply 218January 27, 2015 9:59 PM

Used to be Bally's 18th and L, but that gym closed, and the new LA Fitness at Constitution and L will not tolerate that foolishness.

by Anonymousreply 219January 27, 2015 10:00 PM

Have some self respect

by Anonymousreply 220March 6, 2015 1:13 PM

Nysc on 38th has signs up that they are closing the sauna/steam room for a week due to inappropriate behavior! Odd that they are punishing all members.

by Anonymousreply 221April 12, 2015 6:31 AM

For those of us in the Provinces, this Zabar thing appears to be an Upper West Side (New Yaak) gourmet epicurean emporium, specializing in the finest smoked fish, caviar, coffee, cheese, kitchen equipment and housewares.

Evidently, random sweaty sex is not appreciated there.

by Anonymousreply 222April 12, 2015 7:40 AM

I hear ALL NYSC will close the steam for a week due to 'innappropriate behavior'

by Anonymousreply 223April 12, 2015 12:23 PM

my Equinox is like the epicenter of men with excessively hairy backs

by Anonymousreply 224April 12, 2015 1:25 PM

invariabley, the men you never want to see naked are the ones that are always naked-they guys you would pay to see naked rarely or never are.

by Anonymousreply 225April 12, 2015 1:26 PM

Why would the NYSCs want to draw such attention to that? Closing the saunas in all of the clubs is especially odd since I'm sure there are a number of clubs where no such behavior occurs.

by Anonymousreply 226April 12, 2015 2:36 PM

NYSC are so dirty, you are lucky not to get a staph infection from working out there

by Anonymousreply 227April 12, 2015 2:39 PM

R226 no, there are no clubs where it does not occur, some of them are less frequent, but it does happen.

by Anonymousreply 228April 12, 2015 2:49 PM

I'll take bets you're at the 44th and Lex Equinox R224. That locker room is so depressing. I keep thinking about the wives those fat, hairy backed men in dingy boxers go home to.

I just came back from Equinox on Greenwich Ave where the lockeroom could be a Falcon movie shoot. Seriously.

by Anonymousreply 229April 12, 2015 5:13 PM

ha no its 92 st/Bway actually--but Ive been to the Equinox in Soho and I thought I was being punked-it was like I had fallen through the looking glass and one guy was more gorgeous than the next

by Anonymousreply 230April 12, 2015 6:20 PM

The YMCA in downtown Louisville, especially during Kentucky Derby week.

by Anonymousreply 231April 12, 2015 6:26 PM

Local high school gym after wrestling matches.

by Anonymousreply 232April 13, 2015 6:03 PM

What's the cheapest and best gym in NYC to go for action?

by Anonymousreply 233April 13, 2015 6:08 PM

R233 just read the the thread

by Anonymousreply 234April 13, 2015 6:20 PM

Lifetime Fitness in Washington DC, full of gay sex, I have hooked up with everyone of the personal trainers and quite a bit of the customers, showers are nice and big and private

by Anonymousreply 235April 14, 2015 11:03 AM

Glad to know that in time. I was thinking about joining Lifetime Fitness. Now, I know I will not.

by Anonymousreply 236April 21, 2015 12:33 PM

I don't think there is one gym in the world with a wet area that has not had some form of sex.

I don't much care, however those who try to force the issue annoy me.

by Anonymousreply 237April 21, 2015 12:37 PM

d

by Anonymousreply 238May 5, 2015 1:44 PM

Many guys are molested in the showers

by Anonymousreply 239May 5, 2015 1:47 PM

I belong to NYSC. I go to workout.

by Anonymousreply 240May 10, 2015 3:51 PM

Not at all

by Anonymousreply 241September 3, 2015 1:46 PM

Mine is basically a bath house. There's always tons of sex in the steam and saunas. The other day, I walked into the steam and there was obviously something going on. They stopped when the door opened, saw me and immediately started up again. Before I could sit down, two guys were already trying to reach under my towel and give me head. I didn't let them.

I sat and watched though and it got to the point where everyone was jerking off, two guys were 69ing and when the door opened, nobody even bothered to stop.

by Anonymousreply 242September 3, 2015 1:58 PM

Bumpella

by Anonymousreply 243September 23, 2015 3:30 AM

Thankfully no

by Anonymousreply 244January 3, 2016 8:58 PM

It is not. And that is fine.

by Anonymousreply 245January 3, 2016 9:01 PM

Recently I've been caught playing by staff twice at two different NYSC locations and although I was nervous when I needed to get dressed and leave, I had nothing to worry about. I think they enjoy the show too.

by Anonymousreply 246January 28, 2016 1:35 AM

r246 depends on your location

by Anonymousreply 247January 28, 2016 1:49 AM

73/CPW and 41/3

by Anonymousreply 248January 28, 2016 2:23 AM

A refreshing exception to the towel dancing of today's youth is a college-age guy at my gym who obviously loves to be looked at. Swimmers build with a little extra muscle; hairy trail; cute face; big floppy dick. He spends a lot of time getting dressed and undressed and sits naked in the steam room stretching himself luxuriously. I haven't made a move on him; sadly, I wouldn't know how to start. Not sure if he's gotten action with anyone else, but action does go on there occasionally.

by Anonymousreply 249January 28, 2016 2:48 AM

[quote]NYSC at 80th has EVEN MORE TROLLS. The vultures on Viagra were running the place yesterday.

You realize that will be you some day?

And some day will have been in effect for about a year before you realize it.

by Anonymousreply 250January 28, 2016 2:51 AM

What gym is that, R249?

by Anonymousreply 251January 28, 2016 2:51 AM

I swapped blowjobs with a hot guy in the sauna and then again in the showers. I really like the guy and he's definitely my type, but after meeting like that, asking him out on a date doesn't seem like a good idea.

by Anonymousreply 252January 28, 2016 3:02 AM

No wonder they hate us. You girls should get sti check

by Anonymousreply 253January 28, 2016 3:16 AM

r246 Did they yell at you and say get out? Or just smile? Be specific.

by Anonymousreply 254January 28, 2016 11:03 AM

At one location, the locker room attendant, who I have chatted with before, simply popped his head in picked up a few dirty towels someone left on the floor. I was getting a getting a head and neck massage from a friend. He was on the top level of seats, I was on the lower level. Of course, his hard cock was also poking me in the back of the head and neck.

The other location I was getting a BJ, but the kid who was blowing me was quicker than I was to notice the door being opened and separated from me while I rushed to cover up. The attendant stormed in, yanked the towel off the light (that someone else put there) and walked out.

by Anonymousreply 255January 28, 2016 12:28 PM

Hot, R255.

by Anonymousreply 256January 28, 2016 12:50 PM

R255 the Attendant was waiting for you to give him the signal to join in. Seriously.

by Anonymousreply 257January 28, 2016 1:42 PM

R257, give an example of some of these signals. They'll be useful. TIA.

by Anonymousreply 258January 28, 2016 2:16 PM

I hope all you hos get criminally charged or get your videotaped and posted online. Nasty.

by Anonymousreply 259January 28, 2016 2:22 PM

R259 hasn't been hit on since the Nixon administration.

by Anonymousreply 260January 28, 2016 4:56 PM

Some Equinoxes have an open shower in the corner of the steam room. Can make for a fun time.

by Anonymousreply 261January 28, 2016 5:29 PM

I fucked around with the manager of the NYSC on 7th Avenue about three months ago -- super-jacked black guy.

by Anonymousreply 262January 28, 2016 5:54 PM

I made the mistake of feeding a troll by letting him watch me and another dude go at it in the sauna. Now he is my shadow every time he sees me.

by Anonymousreply 263January 28, 2016 6:02 PM

Well, R263.. look at it this way.. you have someone to guard the door!

by Anonymousreply 264January 28, 2016 6:12 PM

r261, been there, done that at 54/2. I'm just poor now and can only afford NYSC.

by Anonymousreply 265January 29, 2016 2:55 AM

Any buzz about Lifetime Fitness?

by Anonymousreply 266February 2, 2016 2:04 PM

I hope not, dude

by Anonymousreply 267February 2, 2016 10:20 PM

Nope

by Anonymousreply 268July 9, 2016 2:00 PM

My gym is in the middle of Chelsea - NYHRC 23rd st- but there's no sex going on, as far as I can see. Sometimes I wish there was, because there are some HOT, straight Latino trainers there I would let have their way with me.

by Anonymousreply 269July 9, 2016 2:08 PM

I like pics of real hot dudes at the gym. Where to find this?

by Anonymousreply 270July 9, 2016 2:14 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 271May 30, 2017 12:23 AM

Mine is chaste

by Anonymousreply 272April 13, 2018 2:21 PM

Equinox in LA (Century City), no play at all. None. Steam room has a huge glass wall and they periodically open the door - swiftly - to check whether there "enough eucalyptus water." Please.

Oh, and everyone seems to be more or less straight.

by Anonymousreply 273April 13, 2018 2:33 PM

L.A. Fitness gyms in Tampa area are rapidly cutting back on having sauna and steam facilities only in men’s locker room, and men’s showers are now in individual stalls, with curtains, the upper half of which are clear plastic, so that two occupants wiuld be easily noticeable.

Not that there are not still leering and wanking here and there.

But action has considerably lessened.

This seems intentional.

On the other hand, a lot of men of differing ages don’t even use the locker room, but leave sweaty after their workouts, while skittish others do the shimmy act with a towel wrapped around them.

Whatever happened to men?

by Anonymousreply 274April 13, 2018 2:43 PM

I like how bathhouses have gyms sometimes - they should shift to the gym part, but still offer the bathhouse in a more limited way.

by Anonymousreply 275April 13, 2018 2:47 PM

Few dudes under 55 even go to the lockerroom in my gym. Dudes come dressed to work out or carry gym bags on Gym floor to work out.

by Anonymousreply 276April 13, 2018 2:55 PM

Strange, R273. That hasn't been my experience there. I'm constantly getting propositioned as well as witnessing action in the steam. I wonder what time you go?

by Anonymousreply 277April 13, 2018 3:03 PM

[quote]or carry gym bags on Gym floor to work out

Isn't that poor gym etiquette? I've been to some gyms where there are notices that forbid bringing gym bags onto the floor.

by Anonymousreply 278April 13, 2018 3:10 PM

Yes, it is, R278 but people don't care and I doubt most gyms enforce it.

by Anonymousreply 279April 13, 2018 3:13 PM

R278, it may be official policy, but it is such a popular practice among fitness bros an jocks today that gyms have capitulated to the practice and DONT enforce anti-Gym bag policies. Having a bag on the floor seems to be part of fitness bro identity

by Anonymousreply 280April 13, 2018 3:30 PM

If it bothers anyone enough, R280 there's a simple remedy for it. All someone needs to do is trip over one of those bags and file a report with the gym and threaten to sue. They'll have signs up everywhere and will put the person watching the steam room on the floor for bag check.

Something similar happened at my gym re: a policy that wasn't being enforced and the minute someone threatened a lawsuit the policy was enforced.

by Anonymousreply 281April 13, 2018 3:33 PM

R277, I go around 4 PM. You?

by Anonymousreply 282April 13, 2018 3:34 PM

R277, wish one of the two blond greeter guys (they walk around putting weights back, etc.) would proposition me lol.

by Anonymousreply 283April 13, 2018 3:35 PM

Spa at the Hôtel Ritz in Paris. Très vicieux!

by Anonymousreply 284April 13, 2018 3:49 PM

NYSC

by Anonymousreply 285April 13, 2018 3:55 PM

My gym lacks hot personal trainers

by Anonymousreply 286April 13, 2018 4:11 PM

[quote]Having a bag on the floor seems to be part of fitness bro identity

You don't really realize how sad that sounds, do you....

by Anonymousreply 287April 14, 2018 1:07 AM

It is what it is

by Anonymousreply 288April 14, 2018 1:19 AM

R277, please advise... Standing by.

by Anonymousreply 289April 14, 2018 3:34 AM

Don’t turn a Gym into a whorehouse

by Anonymousreply 290April 14, 2018 11:36 AM

Turn it into a slutfarm

by Anonymousreply 291April 14, 2018 11:45 AM

I turn myself in when i'm particularly slutty

by Anonymousreply 292April 15, 2018 12:40 AM

Gotta figure out the signals.

by Anonymousreply 293April 16, 2018 4:24 PM

What are the best NYHRC steam room/saunas?

Only been to 13th street

by Anonymousreply 294April 16, 2018 4:43 PM

I wish I was a whore. Life seems great for them. How do you become one? Do you just throw caution to the wind and whore?

by Anonymousreply 295April 16, 2018 6:35 PM

where there is a will, there is a way

by Anonymousreply 296April 17, 2018 1:55 AM

Not lately, but let's hope things turn around.

by Anonymousreply 297April 26, 2018 6:05 PM

Nysc is dead

by Anonymousreply 298April 27, 2018 12:12 AM

Good

by Anonymousreply 299April 27, 2018 1:39 AM

Is there anyone out there besides the NYC contingent that is having sex at their gym? If so I'm curious where you are.

by Anonymousreply 300April 27, 2018 3:41 AM

WHy would you be jealous of sex addicts who have so little self control, normal relationships, and respect that they risk public humiliation, arrest, sex offender status, and STDs to engage in loveless sex with other hideous people?

by Anonymousreply 301April 27, 2018 4:12 AM

And yet R301 couldn't help but run in here, lol.

by Anonymousreply 302April 27, 2018 4:46 PM

R301 doth protests way too much.

by Anonymousreply 303April 27, 2018 4:54 PM

The steam room thing is easy in LA. Just wear a towel and put your hand over your crotch while the towel's on. If others imitate you, it means they're up for JO'ing together. Start slowly and subtly gripping your cock through your towel. If they do the same, it's on.

by Anonymousreply 304April 27, 2018 4:58 PM

Back in the day (10 years ago) my gym in SF was if not a hotbed of sex was at least a warmbed. You could get a hand/blow job in the steam room or showers occasionally (see R304 for good advice on how). Now the gym is infested with tech douchebros, and it's definitely a coldbed now, although there is some occasional eye candy.

by Anonymousreply 305April 27, 2018 5:01 PM

R304 you've just described how it works in every gym in every country.

by Anonymousreply 306April 27, 2018 5:07 PM

I've seen sex out int eh open sometimes. but most of the time it's very subtle flirting

by Anonymousreply 307April 30, 2018 7:11 PM

The showers at the NYSC on 36/mad are bigger than most and it gets taken advantage of. Ive gotten blown there more often than not.

by Anonymousreply 308April 30, 2018 7:59 PM

[R308] I am no longer a member but have fucked several twinks in those showers several times. 36/Mad is a bit crazy with how forward the guys are.

by Anonymousreply 309April 30, 2018 8:02 PM

insane amounts of sex

by Anonymousreply 310May 1, 2018 3:54 AM

36 and mad guys are bitches

by Anonymousreply 311May 7, 2018 10:40 AM

They are nasty

by Anonymousreply 312May 11, 2018 10:09 AM

I live in Kentucky there are no sexual hotbeds anywhere here.

by Anonymousreply 313May 11, 2018 10:27 AM

No, and I specifically choose not to go to Vida here in DC for that very reason. A gym for me is a gym, and gym equipment is already covered in enough bacteria, fungi and viruses. I don’t need bodily fluids and semisolids leaking out of whores all over the place.

by Anonymousreply 314May 11, 2018 12:13 PM

If your gym is a sexual hotbed...

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by Anonymousreply 315May 11, 2018 12:22 PM

This thread is such a turn-on.

It's so hard navigating the steam room. People come in, and it's hard to make the first move even when they're giving all the signals. But then they won't make the first move...

Then someone whom you don't find attractive comes in and sits near by...

by Anonymousreply 316May 11, 2018 2:20 PM

Anyone in Manhattan know which NYHRC location gets the most action?

by Anonymousreply 317May 11, 2018 2:24 PM

My gym is infested with fucking useless straight tech douchebros, but yesterday I had a steamroom hookup with an older guy who shot all over my chest. Good kisser, too. It'll be ages before something like that happens again, I'm sure.

by Anonymousreply 318June 5, 2018 6:13 PM

Ewwww gross

by Anonymousreply 319June 5, 2018 6:26 PM

I go to my gym to work out: weight training, running, and swimming. Afterwards I like to relax in the sauna in the Men's Locker room. The clientele is straight for the most part. The gym is located equidistant between NYC and Philly, so not exactly the suburbs. The only guys looking for any man on man action are closeted. They walk into the sauna, stay a few minutes, leave, visit the steam room, stay a few minutes, and then come back to the sauna, and repeat the process. It's obvious. Don't see them working out. One guy is about 40, thin, and not bad-looking at all. He's flashed his cock at me. It was impressive. I responded , "Hey, bud, why don't you go to...?" I gave the name of a gay watering hole in a nearby town. He scurried out of the sauna as fast as he could. Another guy last Monday (who was paunchy and looked to be around his mid-to late 60s) came into the sauna. I was there with one other guy who had a towel draped over his head. The older guy sate closer to me at an angle. After a minute or two, he lifted one leg up and started to adjust his towel around his crotch. He kept at it every so often until he exposed himself to me. I just closed my eyes. He left. Later as I finished showering (private, curtained stalls), he was sitting on the edge of the whirlpool, when I opened the curtain to get the towel hanging on the hook outside it. I just grabbed the towel and closed the curtain to dry off. He was gone when I opened it.

I have zero desire to get it on in the gym. If I ever did and got caught, I'd be thrown out of the place and could be subject to arrest for lewd behavior. The guys who are looking for sex at my gym are a sad lot. They're closeted. There are enough bros around still, who wouldn't hesitate (I suspect) to bash them if they tried to come on to them.

by Anonymousreply 320June 5, 2018 6:47 PM

Oh my god—eff off R320 good lord. Get.a.blog.

by Anonymousreply 321June 5, 2018 9:34 PM

Seriously [R320] thou dost protest too much, we are all wondering what you look like!!

by Anonymousreply 322June 5, 2018 9:39 PM

I think unattractive people are the ones doing this public sex crap. R321 ain’t desperate

by Anonymousreply 323June 5, 2018 9:59 PM

r320, does John Travolta go to that gym?

by Anonymousreply 324June 6, 2018 2:31 AM

Nysc. Grrrrrp

by Anonymousreply 325June 9, 2018 1:14 PM

The title of this thread makes me envision a petri dish. Grotesque.

by Anonymousreply 326June 9, 2018 1:24 PM

True

by Anonymousreply 327June 9, 2018 1:42 PM

[quote]I think unattractive people are the ones doing this public sex crap

You probably don’t realize how incredibly wrong you are.

by Anonymousreply 328June 9, 2018 2:41 PM

R320 = Fun Patrol

by Anonymousreply 329June 9, 2018 3:05 PM

These days, only a distinct minority even go into the lockerroom. And They fit the stereotype.

by Anonymousreply 330June 9, 2018 3:16 PM

[quote]I think unattractive people are the ones doing this public sex crap

hahaha. This reminds me of the other threads where someone proclaimed that steam room antics never ever ever occur because they'd never seen any of it.

Or when someone says the hot guys are never messing around at the gym.

Please note: Hot Guys are constantly messing around... the truth is you're not witnessing it because you're not hot enough for them to consider allowing you to join in.

by Anonymousreply 331June 9, 2018 3:17 PM

In most places, hot guys won’t even undress in the lockerroom, let alone engage in public sexual activity

by Anonymousreply 332June 9, 2018 3:26 PM

They've changed a lot of the LA Gyms. One I used to go to had a great open shower room with just partitions so you can get a good view of 1 or 2 other stalls depending on what show you were using. It used to be great, but how they've remodeled the lockerrooms and all the showers all have doors. There was another facility near the LAX airport that I used to attend with tons of good looking guys using the showers. Again, stalls with no doors. Unfortunately that facility closed. This was 24 Hour Fitness. I don't know what the story is with LA Fitness, Equinox or Spectrum.

by Anonymousreply 333June 9, 2018 3:35 PM

Keep telling yourself that R332.

by Anonymousreply 334June 9, 2018 3:37 PM

Good r333. Should keep the creeps away

by Anonymousreply 335June 9, 2018 3:52 PM

THE reality is that only old heads, effeminate , out of shape, sleazy, or stereotypical types do this. I have never seen a college jock type doing anything even close to this. Like someone said, they won’t even go into the lockerroom.

by Anonymousreply 336June 9, 2018 4:13 PM

IT’s also the type of thing guys with STDs, drug/alcohol issues, and mental issues do, which makes normal folks steer clear.

by Anonymousreply 337June 9, 2018 4:15 PM

[quote] THE reality is that only old heads, effeminate , out of shape, sleazy, or stereotypical types do this. I have never seen a college jock type doing anything even close to this. Like someone said, they won’t even go into the lockerroom.

This isn't necessarily true. I've had at least 3 guys in their 20s bend over in the shower to show me their asshole. One guy even spread his ass cheeks apart. and all of this was uninitiated on my part. Many others I've seen have gotten hard-ons while showering. I've never seen the really old guys do any of this. If he's older he's usually in his 30s or 40s.

by Anonymousreply 338June 9, 2018 4:50 PM

Don’t bother R338, they’ll never believe it until they see it with their own eyes.

They’re stuck in their mindset that nobody even remotely attractive could EVER be into anonymous sex and quickly getting their rocks off. Oh my, no.

by Anonymousreply 339June 9, 2018 5:02 PM

Ask John Travolta

by Anonymousreply 340June 10, 2018 1:30 AM

I've seen plenty of attractive guys looking for steam room/shower sex at my gym (although fewer now that the clientele has largely changed to techbros). It's fun to watch who's cruising whom and getting ignored or not. (Not a hard and fast rule, but the straight ones invariably lean forward with their elbows on their knees and look down.) But, yeah, like R320 said, there's a few unattractive guys wandering back and forth between the steam room and sauna looking for ANYthing. They're so painfully obvious it's hilarious.

by Anonymousreply 341June 10, 2018 8:52 PM

Not a "sexual hotbed" story, really, but every word is true:

I was getting dressed to go home at my gym yesterday (Equinox in SF), and at a nearby mirror this shirtless twentysomething was blow drying his hair (not too short on the sides, long on the top with sunbleached or tinted ends). He spent quite a while blowing it dry and brushing it straight back. Good-looking but not extraordinary face (eyes a bit too close together), strong neck, broad shoulders, round pecs, six-pack, faint treasure trail, narrow waist -- pretty perfectly muscled in a natural way without being overly cut or shredded. He's either a fitness model or a go-go dancer. (If I had his body I'd never wear a shirt.) Anyway, he puts the dryer down, takes a look at his brushed-back hair, then does that head/neck movement you do when you want to flip your hair out of your eyes, except it causes his hair to fall exactly into place with a thick lock of it falling over his forehead and eye. And then he whispers to the mirror, "Legendary..." It was all I could do to not laugh and laugh and laugh. Of course, because he's twentysomething and I'm an eldergay he has no idea I'm about seven feet away from him. Then out came the moisturizer and some undereye creme, followed by a teeth inspection. At this point I'm done changing and leave, marveling at his "legendary" vanity.

by Anonymousreply 342August 30, 2018 7:15 PM

Got cruised pretty intently by a young guy at my gym's steam and sauna and sink area. Plenty of eye contact, but too many people around. Struck up a conversation with him outside the steam room (asked him what he was doing for the weekend, etc.). Seemed like a nice guy who appeared interested, but couldn't quite land him. Oh, well, nothing ventured, nothing gained. I didn't venture much, but you have to try.

by Anonymousreply 343March 23, 2019 10:21 PM

I walked into the steam room at my gym mid-afternoon yesterday, and the only two occupants quickly cover up with towels. I sat down and stared intently straight ahead, at which point they proceeded to continue and finish each other off. I guess they knew I was a 'mo and wouldn't rat them out to management, but *that* was a first for me at my gym. I might have joined in if either had been even remotely my type (one thin as a toothpick, the other round as a Butterball turkey).

by Anonymousreply 344March 26, 2019 7:17 PM

So, combined r344 they were a 10?

(It’s a visual thing.)

by Anonymousreply 345March 26, 2019 8:14 PM

Snerk... Yeah, no, neither for me. It's like going to a nude beach -- the guys you want to see naked never are, and the one you never want to see naked are there in all their glory. The hot guys at my gym who do use the sauna/steam have perfected the 1,000-yard stare of blind indifference.

by Anonymousreply 346March 26, 2019 8:29 PM

[quote] "the 1,000-yard stare of blind indifference."

That so perfectly describes these self-absorbed Insta bros & hoes, R344/R346. Kudos!

by Anonymousreply 347March 27, 2019 6:29 PM

So how come on the rare occasion that I get a steam room hook up at my gym (*maybe* once a month), the other guy gets off and then leaves right away? If I ask the guy to meet me in a shower stall so I can cum -- because there's no way we're going to have the steam room to ourselves much longer -- he still leaves. It happened yesterday, and I said to the guy, "Next time me first" since I see him there pretty regularly. Which means I'll never see him again or if I do he'll ignore me.

I know life isn't fair, but c'mon!

by Anonymousreply 348July 30, 2019 10:23 PM

R348 first of all, this is DL so:

"This didn't happen."

"Sex at gyms never happens."

and second, you broke the rule. You don't make conversation. Further, explicitly saying to someone to join you in a shower probably seems creepy. The confines of the steam room is acceptable, any place else is not!!!

And third, why dont you just get yourself off faster?

by Anonymousreply 349July 30, 2019 10:42 PM

Not mine

by Anonymousreply 350June 14, 2020 12:49 PM

What’s poppin?

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by Anonymousreply 351September 4, 2020 6:36 AM

Nope

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by Anonymousreply 352September 9, 2020 7:13 PM

How I feel when my gym crush is not there

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by Anonymousreply 353December 9, 2020 3:25 AM

I cab barely remember what some of my gym crushes look like.

by Anonymousreply 354December 9, 2020 5:24 PM

^^ can

by Anonymousreply 355December 9, 2020 5:26 PM

My gym crush was about 6'2", floppy brown hair, boyish face, broad shoulders (a fading family crest tattoo on the back of his left shoulder), solid pecs with a dusting of hair, trim waist, good legs. I'd see him a lot and then not see him for weeks. I never spoke to him and have no idea if he's gay or straight or fluid (although I'd occasionally see him having a friendly chat with Known Homosexuals at my gym). I doubt we made eye contact more than a handful of times. (Although once we were standing at opposing mirrors in the locker room, both in towels, and our eyes met just as he reached down to briefly scratch his crotch.) Occasionally we'd be in the steam room at the same time. Again, I never spoke to him or tried to signal to him in any way (and vice versa); I just enjoyed watching him sweat with his elbows on his knees as his small gold medallion on a chain swung back and forth. I hope he's doing well.

by Anonymousreply 356December 10, 2020 8:07 PM

Nope. And management watches the "wet areas" like a hawk. Guys caught in the act, or even accused by snitches, are marched out immediately and banned for life.

by Anonymousreply 357December 10, 2020 8:12 PM
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