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Total Bottoms

What makes such a creature? Don't they ever have the urge to get up there and pump some azz? Are they pre-op transgendered?

by Anonymousreply 82August 12, 2019 11:51 AM

Thank GOD for total bottoms!

by Anonymousreply 1April 15, 2013 8:30 PM

I know a dude that is only interested in dudes who have no interest in his penis. In other words, he wants to just service dudes. As you might expect, he almost exclusively dates dudes who identify as straight, usually thuggish guys with multiple baby mamas, sometimes athletes.

by Anonymousreply 2April 16, 2013 4:53 AM

R2, HE is why we can't have nice things! Like civil rights.

by Anonymousreply 3April 16, 2013 7:21 AM

Total bottoms I don't find that weird. I do find guys like R2 describes odd. I've met a few gay men who are against ever having their penis touched, seems completely crazy to me but I guess it takes all types.

by Anonymousreply 4April 16, 2013 7:26 AM

Agree with R1!

by Anonymousreply 5April 16, 2013 7:34 AM

slap them around, make them beg! it makes for a great evening!

by Anonymousreply 6April 16, 2013 7:38 AM

I'm a total bottom and proud of it. I have no desire to top. Fucking a guy's ass holds no appeal for me. I like the guy to take control. Doesn't mean that I want to be a woman and it doesn't make me any less of a man.

by Anonymousreply 7April 16, 2013 4:06 AM

How often do most bottoms get penetrated?

by Anonymousreply 8June 3, 2013 3:50 PM

I'm a well-built Alpha male in every public aspect of my life.

But I'm a complete ladywhore in bed.

Is that so wrong?

by Anonymousreply 9June 3, 2013 4:01 PM

I don't get it. What does this have to do with Judy Garland?

by Anonymousreply 10June 3, 2013 4:04 PM

"How often do most bottoms get penetrated?"

Depends on whether it's a 2 or 3 day weekend?

by Anonymousreply 11June 3, 2013 4:37 PM

Would you let a woman to fuck you, R7? I mean if she was the dominatrix type, would you let her?

by Anonymousreply 12June 3, 2013 5:34 PM

The top/bottom thing is only even recognized by efemo genderbending freak types.

by Anonymousreply 13June 3, 2013 5:39 PM

So would you let a woman fuck you?

by Anonymousreply 14June 3, 2013 5:39 PM

R7 - what does being a total bottom have to do with wanting a guy to take control?

by Anonymousreply 15June 3, 2013 5:40 PM

Guys, stop being disrespectful towards bottoms. They are cute guys. What a pity, they usually are attracted only by men. A woman could love them more...anyway...

by Anonymousreply 16June 3, 2013 5:42 PM

Total bottoms make it possible for us total tops to exist. Thank you total bottoms!

by Anonymousreply 17June 3, 2013 5:48 PM

It seems only "straight", or closeted guys are the ones obsessed with the whole top/bottom thing, doesn't it?

by Anonymousreply 18June 3, 2013 5:50 PM

[quote]The top/bottom thing is only even recognized by efemo genderbending freak types

Oh dear, the 'genderbending freak types' troll is on the loose today

by Anonymousreply 19June 3, 2013 5:51 PM

R7 is missing!!!

by Anonymousreply 20June 3, 2013 5:54 PM

No r18, its more like some total bottoms are ashamed to acknowledge they only want it up the ass, so they shun both those who willing to admit they only bottom. They are also have difficulty dealing with the lust they have for total tops; if they let themselves go there it would make them do the very thing they judge others for doing.

by Anonymousreply 21June 3, 2013 6:00 PM

I'm a total top and thank God for total bottoms. But I don't get the ones who want to do it bareback. I mean is there any different sensation for them? I doubt it. But it's kind of terrifying how commonplace it's become.

by Anonymousreply 22June 3, 2013 6:01 PM

[quote]I don't get the ones who want to do it bareback. I mean is there any different sensation for them? I doubt it.

And you would be so wrong. I hardly ever bother getting fucked anymore because I hate condoms. Nothing feels like skin against skin.

by Anonymousreply 23June 3, 2013 6:04 PM

Guys, can i ask you something? Why you are so touchy and mean some of you? Gee...

Stop being whores and be more loving with your lust

You are evil now!

by Anonymousreply 24June 3, 2013 6:05 PM

[quote]It seems only "straight", or closeted guys are the ones obsessed with the whole top/bottom thing, doesn't it?

What do you get out of such blatant lying? I've never seen anyone but femmies talk about those roles as something exclusive.

by Anonymousreply 25June 3, 2013 6:06 PM

r13 is correct. The "bottom" thing sounds like something off the 700 Club. I can just hear Pat Robertson saying, "that's how they are, one has to be the woman."

by Anonymousreply 26June 3, 2013 6:12 PM

I don't understand being a "total" anything. The great advance of being gay is the ability to experience both aspects of penetration.

by Anonymousreply 27June 3, 2013 6:13 PM

Stop judging other people's pleasure when they don't harm you. What's your problem, if they like it to take it up the ass exclusively? Gee... It's interesting and strange to me, but it's not something so bizarre, really. People have different needs as it seems.

by Anonymousreply 28June 3, 2013 6:22 PM

I am a total bottom. I don't even want a guy looking at my cock. I can easily pass for straight but have little interest in doing so. I sometimes go to a straight bar and intentionally bonerizer the hetero guys without satisfying them.

Later, I open my hole for a total top gay guy.

by Anonymousreply 29June 3, 2013 6:34 PM

That's funny, R28, because I don't understand people who don't understand why there are total tops or bottoms. People like what they like. I have zero interest in sticking my cock into anyone, yet love and derive pleasure from being a receptive partner in penetration. Why is this rocket science?

by Anonymousreply 30June 3, 2013 6:35 PM

Maybe some guys are horny now and they tease our bottom guys here by wondering aloud...

hehe

by Anonymousreply 31June 3, 2013 6:40 PM

[quote]Guys, can i ask you something?

Is the poster who prefaces things with "guys" for real? It's sounds like a 13 year-old girl posting.

by Anonymousreply 32June 3, 2013 6:42 PM

R33 you are a silly poisonous funny snake

by Anonymousreply 33June 3, 2013 6:47 PM

r33, I extend you a most hearty welcome to Earth. What time did you get here yesterday?

by Anonymousreply 34June 3, 2013 6:49 PM

total bottom- woman trap in a man's body total tops-a myth

Don't trust labels kiddies.

by Anonymousreply 35June 3, 2013 7:53 PM

Are there less total bottoms in the US than elsewhere?

by Anonymousreply 36June 3, 2013 8:30 PM

R36 = closeted bottom.

Sometimes bottoms are the closet within the closet.

by Anonymousreply 37June 3, 2013 8:51 PM

without bottoms, i guess you "total tops" would have to just fuck yourselves!

by Anonymousreply 38June 3, 2013 11:01 PM

[quote]Are there less total bottoms in the US than elsewhere?

Oh, dear.

by Anonymousreply 39June 3, 2013 11:05 PM

Why would it make them transgendered though OP? It's not like we ladies come with some magic "likes stuff in not out" gene, it's just we happen to have the parts for it.

by Anonymousreply 40June 3, 2013 11:30 PM

fg

by Anonymousreply 41June 29, 2013 3:56 PM

H

by Anonymousreply 42May 5, 2014 11:44 AM

When a guy tells me he is a total bottom, i get an instant boner.... whereas if guy tells me he is vers, it makes me not as interested as I don't want any obligation or pressure to let him near my ass.

by Anonymousreply 43August 9, 2019 2:08 PM

R30 wins. It's not rocket science. We all like what we like. As for R2's description, there are variations in the total top category, my favorite of which is the guy who will fuck your ass and eat your ass, but he won't kiss you on the mouth because he's "all man." Uh huh.

by Anonymousreply 44August 9, 2019 2:56 PM

They don't trust that you cleaned it out enough.

by Anonymousreply 45August 9, 2019 3:58 PM

[quote]I know a dude that is only interested in dudes who have no interest in his penis.

That means he hates his own dick.

He probably just needs to get with guys that don't care about his small and/or gross dick.

by Anonymousreply 46August 9, 2019 4:02 PM

Not all total bottoms are submissive. You should meet this power bottom I know.

by Anonymousreply 47August 9, 2019 7:02 PM

Most total anything have major self loathing issues and therefore focus only on sex and not actual relationships.

The total bottoms who don’t even want their dicks acknowledged are usually chasing after closet cases. The closet cases always act like they only like women so the total bottoms play along with that delusion. By refusing to even acknowledge their own maleness they attract closet cases with greater ease.

by Anonymousreply 48August 9, 2019 7:31 PM

"you should meet this power bottom I know."

Is it a former congressman from Peoria?

by Anonymousreply 49August 9, 2019 7:35 PM

I love a total bottom as much as the next guy but I also love the stick. I don't want a bossy bottom swatting my hand away when I reach for a crank while I'm pounding him.

by Anonymousreply 50August 9, 2019 8:11 PM

I'm a total bottom, partly because I enjoy it, partly because of my size. I'm very short and have a small frame and even if I wanted to top, there's only so much I can do before physiology kicks in.

by Anonymousreply 51August 9, 2019 8:29 PM

R51, anyone can top doggie style. And if you stand on a book, you could do it standing as well. If you like bottoming, that's great, but don't blame your size.

by Anonymousreply 52August 9, 2019 8:32 PM

I'm quite short (5'3") but I'm a total bttm because it's physiological, not psychological. When I'm being topped, hands on my cock are really distracting, like someone trying to tickle you while masturbating. I get that's hard for tops and vers to understand, but why try to force someone to do something they say they don't want because you think it's "right"? Unless you want to make sure you're the only one enjoying the fuck

by Anonymousreply 53August 9, 2019 8:40 PM

R52 That's nonsense.

by Anonymousreply 54August 9, 2019 8:58 PM

I’m a bottom because being a top took too much work

by Anonymousreply 55August 9, 2019 9:01 PM

R54, doggie style is "nonsense"?

by Anonymousreply 56August 9, 2019 9:13 PM

[quote]When I'm being topped, hands on my cock are really distracting, like someone trying to tickle you while masturbating.

It seems like it would be like masturbating because that's what hands on cock is.

by Anonymousreply 57August 9, 2019 9:14 PM

A lot of gay men love dudes who are total 💯 % Alpha tops, guys who will never suck, touch, nor take penis, they want dudes as functionally straight as possible

by Anonymousreply 58August 9, 2019 9:16 PM

[quote]I’m a bottom because being a top took too much work

Really? all the bottom prep is too much work for me

by Anonymousreply 59August 9, 2019 9:59 PM

Whoever R57 is sounds really bitter about something, like maybe hot guys who turn out to be bottoms?

by Anonymousreply 60August 9, 2019 10:13 PM

Just seems like a waste of time fucking a eunach, R60.

by Anonymousreply 61August 9, 2019 10:15 PM

Eunuch*

by Anonymousreply 62August 9, 2019 10:15 PM

"Alpha" <-- LOL

by Anonymousreply 63August 9, 2019 10:16 PM

A committed bottom with a nice cock he likes having sucked every now and then, but never demands it = perfect.

by Anonymousreply 64August 9, 2019 10:18 PM

I’m a bottom, but not the type that exists to please you only. I love oral and am way more dominant with a man sucking my cock than any top who has ever fucked me. With the exception of 10 hour top guy, but he was high.

by Anonymousreply 65August 9, 2019 10:26 PM

OP, bottoming & T have nothing to do with each other.

The Ts tell us they “feel like women” trapped in men’s bodies. And that it has nothing to do with sexuality.

I personally don’t know any women who are total “bottoms” in that they prefer anal sex

by Anonymousreply 66August 9, 2019 10:34 PM

I can't believe there's still so much internalized homophobia. What does it matter to anyone else whether a guy actively uses his cock during sex?

by Anonymousreply 67August 9, 2019 10:54 PM

Because those who ask are looking for justification for the actions that make them feel guilty

by Anonymousreply 68August 9, 2019 11:00 PM

[quote] What does it matter to anyone else whether a guy actively uses his cock during sex?

Because that's the reason they chose the person to fuck to begin with!

by Anonymousreply 69August 10, 2019 12:14 AM

R69 You have a very simple view of sexuality. Are we from St Olaf, Dear?

by Anonymousreply 70August 10, 2019 7:03 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 71August 10, 2019 10:44 AM

[quote]You have a very simple view of sexuality.

No, I'm just normal and don't have a weird fetish.

by Anonymousreply 72August 10, 2019 7:49 PM

Uh huh dude

by Anonymousreply 73August 10, 2019 8:07 PM

R30 said it best, "people like what they like."

I consider myself a total bottom; I'm vers in the sense that if I partner really wanted my to fuck him, I would or if he really wanted to suck my dick, that'd be ok, but a Top who has no interest in my dick would, as you can see from my signature, be ideal.

by Anonymousreply 74August 10, 2019 8:08 PM

R72 There is no normal, Doll.

by Anonymousreply 75August 10, 2019 8:13 PM

Bottoms hate total Bottoms

by Anonymousreply 76August 12, 2019 1:26 AM

True

by Anonymousreply 77August 12, 2019 2:54 AM

A bottom that does not like their dick pleasured is a secret tranny that wishes it had a vagina and could take cocks in three holes, but does not have the guts to be a tranny in every day life. Some will deny it but deep down, they know it is true!

Getting your dick pleasured, is what every normal man enjoys ( top bottom vers, or tbe no anal types)

by Anonymousreply 78August 12, 2019 6:58 AM

I’m a recovering total bottom. For the first time, I’ve been with an inexperienced partner, and when that happens, I can be dominant. I didn’t even know I had it in me until it just came out, lol.

by Anonymousreply 79August 12, 2019 9:29 AM

R78 I can only speak for myself, but I'm confident that I'm a cisgender male.

by Anonymousreply 80August 12, 2019 10:12 AM

Oh wow

by Anonymousreply 81August 12, 2019 11:51 AM
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