What is lesbian sex like?

Good?

Like swimming in a warm sea surrounded by affectionate dolphins.

They grey rain curtain of this world rolls back and all turns to silver glass. And then you see it: white shores and beyond. A far, green country under a swift sunrise.

It's weird that they don't seem to be that interested in talking about sex. Not too long ago I asked how common it is in the lesbian community to have exclusive "tops" and "bottoms" and iirc there were no takers.

Like eating the Best bread pudding, ever - for free!

maybe that should have clued you in, r4, that there are not all that many lesbians who assign top or bottom labels to their sexual exploits.

I see boundary statements being made as a substitute for foreplay.

Am I right, ladies?

R6, I tried to be as nice as possible in my thread because I know sometimes lesbians think they're getting made fun of. The reason I brought it up was because some lesbians in a Jodie Foster thread were saying they were sure Jodie was a bottom and I found that curious.

Is it quite common among lesbians to "strap on" during sex and do you take turns with that strap on?

I'm curious

It can be just as uncomfortable and boring as straight sex. Get somebody who is sensitive, caring, funny (important) is all that makes the difference. Wouldn't want to have sex with a female or male Rambo. You can find them in both sexes.

It feels wonderful. Ain't nothing like pussy.

Yes there are sometimes top and bottoms. My last girlfriend was a complete bottom.

Nothing. Women have a weha and men have a yahoo.

Two wehas and two yahoos still add up to nothing. You need a weha and a yahoo for sex.

Recently there was a guy on the radio talking about doing sexual research. He had data from straights and gay men but he found out that lesbians wouldn't talk to him about sex.

I'm a lesbian and I've found the same to be mostly true....gay women aren't likely to share that info with people other than lovers.

Sorry OP.

`Something like bumping cars`.

Where the woman go up in the woman?

"Is it quite common among lesbians to "strap on" during sex and do you take turns with that strap on?"

LOL,I guess if you're interested in imitating straight sex. Straight men love the concept because it makes them think the penis is indispensable. Since the clitoris is the female version of the penis, do the math. Lesbian sex for me is tons of foreplay and oral on clit. Repeat.

Is a bottom considered less lesbian than a top? I'm a complete bottom and don't enjoy women's bodies etc. I just like it when women do things to me. I'm a giver by nature but when it comes to sex I feel really uncomfortable being anything but a total bottom. Am I less gay or maybe not even gay, comes to mind, sometimes. Any insight appreciated.

Why can't some lesbian sit down here and tell us—in graphic or even clinical terms if need be—what the hell is going on there when two women "have sex"? I don't understand it either and have always been curious. This is an anonymous board. Your copulation is not some kind of hidden, mystical secret only granted to gold-letter lesbians. Maybe we'd like to understand you a little better. What does a bottom do? What does a top do? Why the secrecy? It makes you look more like some kind of coven.

Sex for me has not much to do with the way porn or TV shows/movies show it. It's not "softly stroking each others hair" and it's IMO more urgent and harder than what people think it is.

What do we do? There's a lot of grinding, pulling, kissing, nibbling, caressing the whole body. This includes mouth (or face), neck, chest, breast (especially breasts), stomach, thighs and of course the all mighty pussy. Sometimes it goes on for a long time, sometimes you just want to get fucked. Most of the time I use my finger or my tongue to fuck my girlfriend and I stop not when she comes but when she tells me to stop or my neck or arm hurt from thrusting. We alternate the fucking, sometimes it's enough to grind your pussy on her leg to come. There's a lot of sweat going on, neither one lies there and just thinks of England (apart R19 it seems who I wouldn't date). It gets loud and in the heat of the moment blood from a slight internal injury can happen. As one can see, I'm not really into the tender love making at the moment.

Does that answer your question maybe? You can always go to xhamster and search for lesbian amateurs and look at some of the videos - for research purposes of course.

there's lots of pussy

holy crap, swiss chick!

I would like to hear more. I think there are definitely tops and bottoms, but a lot of times with lesbians these roles can switch, or at least it feels like there is a lot of flexibility there. I'm very feminine but I like to be the more aggressive one sometimes. I think it's fun to bend the rules and it's sexy.

R13 is an idiot.

Is "How does it feel like" meant to be a signal that this is a troll posting?

Certainy the question is moronic, but the grammar has to be meant to tip us of that it's not serious.

No, R23, there are NOT "definitely" tops and bottoms in my world. I think that's another man-made fantasy.

The fact that lesbain sex mutual is one of the great things about it. Be more agressive sometimes, sure, but really, it's flexible.

Foreplay is sex, everything is sex to a female: touching, kissing on mouth and everywhere else, boob sucking, licking. Not in a hurray or rush -- women like long periods of arousal. THEN, oral to orgasm. This is pretty standard. You can stop and start the whole process over very quickly and cum multiple times. Unlike most males, females are MORE turned on after orgasm, they don't shut down and fall asleep.

The arousal thing is fantastic. I can make myself cum in 30 seconds with clitoral stimulation, I want so much more with a partner.

[quote]It gets loud and in the heat of the moment blood from a slight internal injury can happen.

Ouch!

Wang-a-lang...sweet poontang.

R16 is wrong. It where a woman go down on the woman

Probably a lot like eating air.

Thanks for the info ladies. This is very educational. In the movies they all scissor or use strap-Ons.

Do you ladies have a problem with period sex?

this thread is making me HORNY!

" In the movies they all scissor or use strap-Ons."

In all fairness, hetero sex in the movies and hetero sex in real life are also two different things.

My cousin (a lesbian) says there's nothing like clit-grinding (or female frottage). She says she's able to have multiple orgasms doing it.

Call me, R26.

[r36]: what's your damage?

Fishy.

Exhilirating! My first sexual experience was with a guy (I was trying to will away my same-sex attraction), and I wondered, "What's all the fuss about?". Tried it again a few times, and was still left wondering why it was so popular. When I had sex with a woman for the first time, I knew. I never looked back.

Just co-signing r20. Good answer.

any more responses about it? This board doesn't seem too popular with the ladies.

Is it like this?

Lesbo sex,I heard, is more pleasurable and intimate that the grunting you fags do in the back alley.

Lolz R42! Cute...

[R43]😘

I'd be very unhappy with a woman who was a top or a bottom and I've run away from women who have used those terms to define themselves (it's rare but it happens).

I love rolling around in bed lol. Sometimes I'm more in the mood to give and other times to receive but sex between two women is usually about both giving and taking.

I pity the butch/femme ones stuck in gender roles and imitating straight sex. God, that would be hell for me.

What do I love about sex with women? First of all, I love sex with a woman I love. I don't have much interest in casual sex. The love between two women makes it so much more passionate.

I love deep kissing, I love breasts, touching them, sucking them, I love having another woman's breasts against mine.

I love giving and receiving oral sex, love frottage when we're both very aroused, and I've had and given mind blowing orgasms through fingering and G-spot stimulation.

I like strap-ons once in a while as long as they don't look like penises. They can be fun.

I love making love with another woman much more than just having sex. It's about the body, mind and soul and not just the pussy.

I agree that top / bottom varies depending on the mood. Or in my case, my hormonal cycle. I'm a slave to my hormones. I don't want to do the same things or have the same things done to me every week of the month.

Any other lesbian like me?

Beginning of the cycle to ovulation I'm usually the agressor, I want to fuck and have control because I get off madly from making my partner orgasm. Like a very primal need to express my love for her inside of her body.

Ovulation period: Crazy urge for penetration, I want to get fucked. Preferably with a dildo because it's big and thus intense physically, I can grab my pratner's butt, adjust the direction to the right spot, kiss her all at the same time. I think it's my body *demanding* reproduction but not being into men at all sexually + not being interested in children, it will stay like that forever I'm afraid.

Rest of the cycle I'm mellow. Into sweet, mutual sex. Who does what varies.

Someone asked about sex during periods: it's not the "blood" (it isn't, btw) that is problematic to me, it's the pysical pain that goes with it that completely kills the very idea of sex during that time. Fortunately my periods last only for 3 days.

Some women have no pain at all during their periods. Lucky ones.

Anyway, sex for us is oral, tribbing and penetration with strapons.

Top/Bottom = I think most lesbians have to be both, because how the hell would you have a sex life? You go home with a woman, she tells you what she feels like doing sexually at that moment and you just say no, I don't do that, I'm stricly top/bottom? Doesn't happen.

Like this

Use your imagination.

Omg, ladies, you are very graphic. You whores! It's not primarily the mind that you are thinking of when you fuck somebody else, though, be true you wild egotistical amazons! You like tits and anything else that stimulate your G-spot. No more excuses! Soul, mind, that's all a fantasy you have, you crazy bitches!

R46 What is "tribbing"?

Ditto R46. Except i generally like to get something sexual when on the rag, and i like to give when the girl is on it. Not into casual sex like another poster said.

It feels like multiple orgasms daily. No tops, no bottoms, no penises or penis-like things necessary.

Tribbing is female frottage...rubbing clits/clit hoods

clit hoods, damn dat sound ghetto

Take a pill, r54.

Just watch "Blue Is The Warmest Color" on Netflix and it will show you exactly what lesbian sex is like.

Lesbos, what do you think about this?

Which movies (not pr0n) would you say have realistic lez sex scenes?

[There is nothing more tedious than a race baiting troll. Except the people that talk to it.]

Do lesbians ever do anal? I don't see what the point would be, but maybe they know something that I don't. I feel like it's one of life's great mysteries, like the Loch Ness Monster or the afterlife.

[quote]Just watch "Blue Is The Warmest Color" on Netflix and it will show you exactly what lesbian sex is like.

And then watch a video of lesbians reacting to the sex in that movie.

I had an ex that liked anal, r60. So I strapped up and screwed her that way. Wasn't my thing, I don't find anal stimulation pleasurable, but she liked it, so I did it.

It's nothing

A weeha and a weeha, like a yahoo and a yahoo = nothing.

Aw c'mon R14 spill! We are all girls here.

Wait a minute Not do straight sally R18. A lesbian bottom is like a gay top??

R63, so you have better sex than that?

This is a great lesbian scene. Perhaps my favorite lesbian scene in porn. Most lesbian porn scenes are not exciting, but with Samantha Ryan it can't get wrong. She is the best lesbian performer ever.

r61, I liked the cat in the video

OP = transwoman

This thread = j/o material

R67, lesbian sex is nothing like lesbian porn.

most lesbian women shy away from talking about sex because we're kinda used to being asked inappropiate questions by straight dudes and/or women with no chill. also, women end up being called sluts and whores way more than guys because we're expected by society to have no sex drive, so we just keep it shut.

so, what do you wanna know? sex is different with every person. lesbian sex is no different. it can be boring, it can be mind blowing, it can be vanilla, it can be kinky. there will be partners who enjoy initiating sex and being in charge, some like to be seduced. "pillow princesses" exist, but usually lesbians switch it up in the sense that we make each other come in the way we learned the other likes to be pleased.

scissoring is nice, but not the most effective move. i mean, i have wayyy better aim with my hands and my tongue. and the g-spot is located inside the vagina, so there's that. some women like penetration, some don't. i personally don't mind a couple of fingers, but can do without dildos/strap ons. i can't climax without clit stimulation, though. some like anal...but they are rather the exception and not the rule.

period sex is a matter of personal choice on both sides. some women don't like to be touched while menstruating (but will do their partner), some get horny. some women don't go near a menstruating pussy, some just skip oral.

what i like is that sex isn't over instantly as soon as one person comes, which is what a lot of straight women experience.

R70 lesbian sex and sex in general isn't narrowed down to your own (miserable perhaps) experience.

R71, aka tennis lezzie you are cool. Thank you...

The "Serrated Scissors "while maybe the most pleasurable is also the most dangerous!

Why is lesbian porn so different from lesbian sex?

R74, it is not THAT different. That's what some conservative women want you to believe, because they think lesbianism belongs only to a certain type of a woman. They feel easily offended and betrayed.

In fact, even in porn there are some women who clearly enjoy having lesbian fun, if they are sexually compatible. I know that it might upset some women, or even men, but It happens, even in this industry. There are some clear signs if one woman is really into the other woman and sometimes camera can show such evidences in porn (pussy becomes 'vocal', if you get what i mean...)

R74, lesbian porn caters to straight men, not to homosexual women. so what you see is a depiction of what gets dudes going, not necessarily what goes down between two females. same goes for straight porn. no woman on this planet would fuck a random plumber who came to declog her john - and yet this seem to be a popular setup. actually a lot of lesbians rather watch gay porn - obviously not for the dicks but because it's homosexual content that is made FOR homosexuals.

R76, i hope you know that it goes without saying that i disagree.

Change your tune. It's a weary one...

please R76, do tell. i'd love to have you explain my own lesbianism to me

R76, ALL porn is geared toward men. Straight and lesbian porn for straight men, gay porn for gay men. The way you see women act/react in porn is mostly a fantasy.

well, obviously i am too dense to quote properly. it should be R77. also: every kink/thing on this planet is going to have some takers. will there be ladies who enjoy the way sex is prformed in porn? yes, there will. does this mean porn is an objective depiction of what does down between people? i don't think so. but you are entiteled to your own theory, of course.

Welcome back, R80...

Yes, porn is not the best way to get really intimate with someone, but there are some rare occasions that sex can be beautiful and kind of intense even in porn.

Most porn scenes are very repetitive and not really sexy, but there are certainly some very pleasant exceptions to the rule. Everywhere there are exception, after all. Do we agree on that?

i think i get you now, R80. there IS porn that goes for the realistic aproach and is not too far off base. sadly, this type of porn seems to be rather hard to find. which is a pity, since good porn can be hot as hell...

goddammit, i need to stop drinking. it's R81. i swear i'm not too stupid to function in real life.

R81 rubs her pussy against R83's face and laughs away.

I usually get soaking wet when i rub myself against my queer doppelgangers. I love my mirrors, even the distorting ones. It's fun to play with them, at times...

R82, i knew that we could agree.

so...since we're at it. what is gay sex like? are y'all strict tops/bottoms? what happens if two of the same group get together? how much preparation does anal take?

If two feminine women who are really attracted to women, and not for political BS can bE MAZING SEX!! We know how to please the woman cuz we have vaginas lol

r76, I like feminine women, not a woman who resembles a man!

Do women like to sit on each other's faces?

I don't think lesbians do any fart hole stuff.

R88 hell yeah. we do eat pussy more than we eat ass, tho

Looks like it takes too much effort and imagination.

R79's pussy stinks!

Will explained it best to Jack from Will & Grace

Jack: "While we're here, can we check out lesbian erotica? I'm still trying to figure out exactly what it is they do."

Will: "I think it's like bumper cars."

OP, imagine the world's largest vat of smooth, silky hummus.

R92 = very upset at reality

You better not be on here HW

Who is HW?

So you are randy these days, gurls?

So am i.

seems like all the questions have been answered. nice.

There is always room to explore more pleasure, or disappointment, R99...

I am disgusted by this thread. DISGUSTED!!

am i the only 'GAY' that thinks he's lucky not to get a vagine? gay sex can be as boring, the only excitement comes when the top finds out was there shit or not

R101, what have you got between your legs, mon chouchou? Why all this aversion? You want to talk about it?

I find ass sex so disgusting, if it's white it smells like cheddar or something really putrid, if Arab putrid olive oil... black don't go there bitch, don't go there

Yes, ass is for groping, not for eating. We agree on that.

Now as it comes to ass pounding, i don't find it off-putting, but i don't want to get that.

Lets get this straight I am trolling, but I am not a lesbian

I find womyn humor to be different than gay. if they don't want to answer let it be.

telling them they are less or that they need to get a sense of humor is .... offensive(?)

if there are lesbians here, good for you lezzies. bump those pussies to dust

Nobody is less than any other, some have penises some have extensions that are below 5.1 inches good for you, can you feel anything in that micro peen? wel good! you are alive

in ending ... to each it's (his/her) own

R103 a vagina, of course.

Why do lesbians watch gay male porn? Or is that a myth? I've met lesbians who admitted to this, but never understood it.

R109 male on male porn looks more real and intimate compared to lesbian or straight porn (both are made for straight men to begin with) and idk, the homosexual aspect is more arousing to me rather than me finding the men attractive or wanting to have sex with them or even have sex /like/ them. lesbian porn never looks romantic or real so gay porn is kinda the next best thing lol

R110, you are wrong. Perhaps you have watched the wrong lesbian /straight porn and you've got that idea. I have witnessed intimacy in both lesbian and straight porn. It's all about the chemistry and not about gender.

R111 maybe that's the case, but not even feminist porn or porn made by and for lesbians appeals to me unless it's solo stuff. maybe I am to picky though, but it looks too performed to me. also intimacy ≠ chemistry, it's like comparing love and desire

Like getting dolled up and working your way down the carpet, and hearing thank you speeches afterwards.

R6 there are lots of lesbian and bi women who are vers but some are bottoms and some are tops.

You dug up a 31 month old thread for that comment R114? Oh the mysteries of DL.