I want to date fireman.

OP, date a butcher. They bring home the beef every night!

Staten Island.

Anyone know the term used by FDNY guys to describe gays who are hot for them? At NYPD we're known as Cop Suckers.

Knock yourself out, kid

As the son of a NYC Fireman - and with many childhood friends in the department - let me give you a little insight:

Any and all gay firemen in the NYC area are for the most part totally closeted, because most firemen - contrary to all of that "hero" shit - are complete assholes. And viciously bigoted.

My dad used to complain about the guys he had to work with for years: what pigs they were. Drunks. Racists. The list goes on.

I'm not saying they are all like that. But that is the prevailing culture. Always has been. They're worse than cops these days. (yes, I just said and meant that).

I could assail you with links, but the one below is a perfect example.

There was also the gay couple in jersey whose house was next to a fire station. The firemen there harassed and threatened them incessantly until they had to leave and sue the department.

There was also the brawl on new year's eve in a Staten Island firehouse with firemen beating the shit out of each other in a drunken haze (thank god no houses went up in flames that night!).

Get yourself a nice jewish doctor instead.

The fireman I want to date is Matt Casey, played by Jesse Spencer on "Chicago Fire." He could fuck me silly, and I could help him perfect his American accent.

There was a hot fireman who bartended at a place I frequented. Hot or not, was axed for dipping into register.

You can have Casey, I want Severide.

Go to Paris. Talk about hot firemen.

Was Steven Pasquale the gay fireman on "Rescue Me?"

R8, I haven't watched last night's episode. Is the new hunk who has a beef with Severide going to be a regular? He was HOTTTTTTTTT.

His name is Shane McRae.

The FDNY fireman who went on trial for beating up his TS girlfriend says he was ostracized after being outed.

[quote]Where do they hang out in New York City?

Let me take a wild guess -- firehouses?

r5, was this the house where a FF was severly injured after being bashed in the head with a chair because they suspected he was gay?

R10 No, the gay (or not) fireman was Mike Silletti, played by Mike Lombardi.

Can't someone start a thread about Sean Eldridge. Do I have to do everything?

In NYC, Ty's bar in the West Village has a firefighters night the first Tuesday of every month.

He was a fireman, R17?

I have heard that volunteer firemen (and many of them are still not bad as far as looks go) in smaller towns have initiation ceremonies for new members that isn't too far different from fraternity initiations complete with paddling/spanking. I have noticed that many firemen have nice shapely rear ends that probably need not only a good spanking but a wild fuck too. Is there anyone who knows more about initiations into volunteer fire departments? Found r5 to be very informative BTW.

Bal des Pompiers, every July 13-14 in Paris. Yes, the DJs are firemen.

r1, is Ambassador Hormel available?

I have had two fire fighters. One was an auburn haired guy who was married. Not gay, stopped for a BJ about once a week for several years. Didn't see him for awhile and then he starting making visits again. I currently have a married FF who is a very handsome man. He will do anything I ask him to do, very submissive. We get together every few months. About 6'1", 180, black hair, very fair skinned, hairless except crotch. Beautiful full rounded man ass

I have a married fuck buddy who is a volunteer fireman. He he's mid 40s, nice body, killer ass (like a soccer player's), average cut dick. We only get together a couple times a year b/c his wife keeps him on a tight leash. He is fun in bed, likes to make out, likes 69.

I want to ride my bicycle.

I used to have a female friend who was a bit of a fireman groupie. She was a sucker for the image even though they invariably treated her like crap. They'd lie about being married or having girlfriends to sleep with her. Arrogant bullies with God complexes. I guess I'd choose a fireman over a cop but it would be a losing proposition either way.

Light your house on fire. They'll come running.

A lot of precincts have monthly cook-offs when the firemen have a pot luck and charge $15 a plate. They're open to the public and you can meet firefighters that way.

Also most houses work with a particular charity. Volunteer to work on that particular charity drive and they'll be very appreciative.

R3, you're a holster sniffer.

So am I.

I've only known two gay firemen - a couple. They were both mellow and climbably tall.

I have grown up with firemen as neighbors - I'm on my third fire fighter neighbor right now. Each has lots of toys; snow mobiles, speed boats, skidoos, motorcycles, etc.

OP, take up a thrill seeker sport and you'll find firemen.

r22, do you ever spank him? How is it throwing a wild fuck up his ass?

Just present your hole at your local firehouse,OP.

I want a hot fireman too. A nice hairy one with a bubble butt that wants to be ploughed hard and deep. The kind that moans like a seal being beaten to death while he rides manmeat. He must keep his hat on while I'm riding his hot fireman mancunt.

My first boyfriend was a fireman. We were together (on and off) for years. Love of my life, wonderful man. His station was in a suburb of LA. He was exactly what you'd fantasize about: Insanely masculine, tall and beefy, a bit of a savior type, a very dominate top (I met him when I was 19, he was 32), the type of guy who'd just build me a book shelf or refinish the deck.

When he came out, he basically was forced to retire (this was right when I met him). It was very difficult for him. Being a firefighter wasn't just his job, it was his identity.

R33 "Dominate" is a verb. "Dominant" is the adjective you want to use in front of the word "top."

More people get this wrong than any word except "looser" when they mean "loser."

It was a typo, R34. I am ever so sorry.

[quote]More people get this wrong than any word except "looser" when they mean "loser."

Not common at all. I've never seen it.

R36, check out collarme.com.

Guys who look to fuck cops are known as "badge bangers" in nyc.

Private detectives tend to be more well-hung, in my experience. There's a reason they call them "private dicks."

OP/whore, please try really hard to suck a hose this weekend and be sure to tell us all the deets.

Post CL ads looking for one.

Who was the NYC area FF who posed for a calendar, then was in an amateur video made by a girl trick that featured his enormous dick? Sculpted eyebrows, I believe.

for r41

R5 is completely right about the FDNY. It is a throwback to another time. It is still overwhelmingly white and male. And the ranks are filled with many of Irish descent, who got their jobs through family connections. Just recently a judge ruled that the Department had to change its entrance exams to ensure diversity in the department.

Yes, R42, Michael Biserta. Thanks!

(Maybe not enormous, but it is quite large.)

I don't think they like it if you ask about the size of their hoses.

There's always this guy (bodybuilder/stripper/porn star Rodney St. Cloud) who got canned from FDNY for illegal steroids.

I imagine the occasional gay could be found at Anderson's fire house.

r39, only a member of a police agency can call themselves "detective." "Private Investigator" legally describes the well-hung men you've been with.

R48, how about "Private Dick"?

r43 said "the Department had to change its entrance exams to ensure diversity in the department."

We all know it means lowering the physical and test-taking standards to give jobs to those who shouldn't be hired. People will die thanks to this judge's decision.

I'd like to make a longer and even more inciteful post, but I have to get going to the Saturday slave auction being held down at the town square. I hear you can get some really good deals on Negro farm hands today.

That Michael Biserta guy sounds like an intolerable cunt.

I love firemen. I saw a fireman at a firehouse yesterday walking around lifting weights. He was built buff and tight. So hot. I have had firemen respond to my personal ads before, but what do ya know, they happened to be unattractive to me, not the buff masculine stud type.

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masculinity is hot

You want to date fireman?

I marry rich Russian.

Spend days at perfume counter Bloomingdale.

Why to date poor persons?

And I wish I was dating a hot midget. We've all got a sob story, sister.

easy- cut open and count rings

It looks like DL's favorite porn star was a DL regular, before he got drunk and invaded a fire station in Louisville.

My friend's ex-husband is a firefighter. There were some really nice ones but many were absolutely evil. Homophobic, racist, weird issues with women and they will rob your ass while your house burns down. He had drawers full of jewelry that he would sell at those cash for gold places. I considered him one of the "good ones" too. Last I heard he had a "back injury" and is retired with full benefits at the age of 37.

OP, how and when did you first develop a passion for taking care of verbally/physically/emotionally abusive alcoholics? Your type is so specific that it's not every day I come across people who harbor the same deathwish as you.

I love firemen

Colorado

I've fucked around with a fireman out at the beach. He was just a guy I wanted, turned out to be a fireman, his job. He could've been a clerk in a store. Local married guy, children. We never talked about firefighting. He was just a gay guy to me, a married one in a closet not wanting anyone to know about him, thinking they never would. He'd cruise about, people would follow him, get it on. He doesn't seem to be doing it much lately. Never heard him discussed as gay. I'd see him in town talking with guys a lot & get a twinge of jealousy, I wanted him to be with me. He thought of it as working the troops. He wanted to be fire captain. He got there. He was the appeal, not the job.

I don't think many of you know that many actual fire fighters in real life.

Most of the guys are too stupid to do anything else, including police work. Maybe one out of 20 or 30 has a truly fit body. Most are very average dumbshits.

[italic]Ash holes[/italic], R3?

R65, of course they are.

But the ones we want are the hotties on TV shows like Chicago Fire and in the calendars.

You know -- the ones with the massive, hairless pectorals, the kind you can rest your head on and say, 'Hey, Jake...my head's not too heavy on your chest is it?'

He'd let out a little laugh with a whispered 'shad up, buddy.'

And then he'd kiss my forehead.

[quote]But the ones we want are the hotties on TV shows like Chicago Fire

Those are actors.

R68, I'll compromise.

Join the Fire Island Pines volunteer fire department.

I'm currently fucking a volunteer FF. Monster cock. So big the damn thing can't even stand erect when it's hard.

One of the best fucks I ever had was a cop, tho. Damn.

real (not modeling) pics, please

Any firefighters on Craigslist? Find them, bros!

find some on Craigslist

[quote]I want to date fireman.

Me want explore indefinite articles.

Well I want to date a hair dresser. Skinny, flaming and wears women's clothes.

Firemen, hot, bro

Why not just buy a dalmation and walk it back and forth in front of a fire station? Wearing rubber boots wouldn't hurt. Just rubber boots.

Do firemen still get Dalmations? I think that is old school

It's a combination of hero, masculinity and fantasy.

yes

I dated a fireman in Seattle when I came out. He was a tall, beautiful, muscular, blonde Viking. Wonderful in every way. I went out with him a bunch of times - he always wanted to do me with excuses for why it was only one-way sex. He was religious so I thought that was a reason.

Well - to cut to the chase - he had a very small dick - seriously small - sort of a button. He was hugely embarrassed by it. Things didn't work out between us and I am sure he thought his small dick was the reason and I suppose it was.

i agree with the poster who said many of them are racists, homophobes etc. I have a few on my fb list and they always post right-winged shit.

I have seen firemen in my local drug store and supermarket. They are not hot at all, the ones I see anyways, the older ones always have facial hair, not my thing.

What [R83] said.

Considering the rigorous physical requirements at the academy, lots of FDNY guys with six packs turn into kegs. Bet they can't run up a flight of stairs to save someone's life.

I wish I could find a buff bisexual fireman in DC. The ones who have stepped to me have been unattractive, not the stereotypically hunky muscled firefighter.

I have dated several fire fighters. One was beautiful, he lived with a woman he was not married to and had a child. He called her the bitch. When he came over he was such a fucking sissy queen, begging for me to feed hims some dick and fuck him. It was actually a turn off. Instead of kicking him out I abused him, which isn't really my thing.

They usually have pick up trucks, eat white bread, use Axe body spray and have slightly smoky butt cracks...

What you really need to do OP is grow up.

OP sounds like a 14 yr old girl in 1990 who saw "Backdraft" too many times on HBO.

85, a few years ago a Fire Commish wanted the guys get back in shape. FDNY union said the guys would have to be given paid time off to join gyms. The idea was abandoned.

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There are a few firemen in my family. My dad was one. As some have mentioned above, fireman are now just as sleazy, angry and arrogant as cops.

I can honestly say the fireman of my father's generation were probably the last to be honorable and heroic.

There is a squad (?) of firemen that do the 4th St. Santa Monica stairs on a regular basis. Maybe one of them is attractive. The others are all weather beaten to hell.

My ex wanted to be a fireman so badly, he moved from Berkeley to Seattle because he was a tiny (5'6") but burly white guy. He eventually made it in. And yes, he had a great ass.

I am a fire fighter...Oh wait, you want a male fire fighter....Fair enough.....

Female firefighters are hot too

Firemen are ok but I'm more attracted to makeup artists.

A hot All American type guy in my neighborhood is a fireman. Not married, maybe 30 years old. Tall, blonde, blue eyes, almost a country guy type. Very friendly and chatty and will stay and talk your ear off if you run into him. He also goes to the church I rarely go to. It's Catholic. Once he came around trying to get nonactive members to be more active. He stayed a long time, sat with legs spread wide (wearing shorts), lots of staring and looks at me, friendly. He had a boner. I was too stupid and too scared to respond to him. I had given him iced tea and we sat for a long time talking, turns out I had gone to hs with his younger brother. Now I feel really dumb for passing up an opportunity, wondering how I can start something. Some of my friends say they have "heard" he is do-able.

Anyone see the Chopped repeat with dads? This firefighter widow is soooo hot! Here is another segment he was on.

I suppose you wanna check out their hoses.

Sad story of a hot firefighter who died in the line of duty.

Jeff Leech

R17, oh please. If they're at Ty's they're probably wearing something from a costume rental shop and are a relic from the 1980's clone era.

Me too bro

Ideal fantasy dude

There's been a tremendous uptick in borderline illiteracy in these posts. Invest in Grammarly, OP.

As a little kid, I remembered having a dream once about a firefighter saving me from a burning building, wrapping me up in a blanket, and snuggling naked with me on a roof somewhere. Ever since then, I've had a thing for firemen. I should have known I was gay then, but it took a few more years to really figure it out.

[quote] There is a squad (?) of firemen that do the 4th St. Santa Monica stairs on a regular basis. Maybe one of them is attractive. The others are all weather beaten to hell.

If only Wundy were here, she could verify this for us!

My city has hot buff firemen who are in The gym 24/7

Firemen are at the grocery store a lot (on duty, not joking). You could probably meet one or two in the stores. I think they're a hot commodity (no puns intended) and would be whores (some of them).

Heres the FDNY at last year's Pride march. Way more lesbianas and fewer hot Irish beefcakes than I was hoping for

[quote] There's been a tremendous uptick in borderline illiteracy in these posts. Invest in Grammarly, OP.

I agree. Like when you clearly didn't read that the original post of this thread was six years ago.

Reading IS fundamental!

R112 I was just about to post that as well. The firehouse in my neighborhood goes to the grocery store together to get their food - I love when I’m there at the same time - they are all so hot.

I can't read through this while thread but most fire depts. at decent sized cities have a refreshment truck so to speak that goes to bigger fires to provide drinks and some nourishment to the firefighters as they work. It may be volunteer run. Volunteer there and see what that leads to.

Great idea bro

OP call 911 and tell them your hole is on fire, then get naked and assume the position.

Firemen or "a" fireman, Quan?

Staten Island, NY here. Most of the civil servants around here are dumbfuck Trump supporters with big gaudy American flags emblazoned on their Ford F150’s. I went to high school with plenty of them 20 years ago. Still the same dumbfucks who get into drunken bar fights, have 4 sons all named Anthony and go to the gym but only do bicep curls.

That being said, I had insane sex over a period of years with a guy I went to grade school and high school with (though we were never in the same class) who I met online About 20 years ago and we realized we knew each other. He was a (then) FDNY probie who worked in the firehouse near my apartment. He’d come over in the AM after getting off his shift and before going home to his then fiancée (now his wife). He’d shower and then we’d fuck. He had dark Italian features (Staten Island after all...) a beautiful ass with a tight hairy hole and a perfect fat cock. Even though he was “straight” he loved to make out. I once secretly taped us having sex with my digital camera in the closet. Eventually, he got married and moved. After I didn’t hear from him did a while I texted him (for sex, I would NEVER text him. He would get in touch with me when he wanted me), and he gruffly said “yeah sorry bro I’m getting married I don’t do that anymore”. I’ve thought about him intermittently over the years. He’s one of those “I’m too heterosexual to have any social media” types, though I did find his wife’s Facebook through some simple sleuthing. She’s fat as a house. He got fat as a house. They have little kids. They seem happy. I wonder if he still has sex with guys. I’m mystified at the idea that he could just ... stop. She looks so unpleasant to have sex with. Like a fat, hairy Sicilian. I wonder if he ever thinks of me.

What a garbage thing for both of you to do. You knew he was married/engaged.

R113, both the lesbians and gay men show so much joy in those pictures!

There’s a guy on A4A I’ve been chatting with who has a hot picture of himself infront of a fire truck.

I imagine he’s a firefighter. Can’t wait until we meet and he fucks me

R120, ignore the pearl-clutching moralist who is R121. R120, you're better off without your smoke-eating lover. Be satisfied that he no doubt jerks off to the memory of spending mornings in your arms!

Your description of Staten Island fits to a tee, but it may be changing! Diversity is creeping up on the Goombas. They elected a Democrat as representative in 2018!

R123, he shows his face on that site?

I miss Craigslist...when I worked-lived in Philly, I lived 4 blocks from a firehouse in CC Philly.. I met 3 married firemen who were on C-list looking for "someone to suck their cocks". It was FUN...they never found out about each other( if they did they didn't tell me). I made them get tested with a Doctor fuckbuddy!! The "high-yellow Black guy" told me lots of firemen-cops were using C-list for hook-ups. No face pics(and I walked by the firehouse for yrs after work).. My cousin is a firemen(told me about a few str8 buddies-let me do the rest). Like the police, firemen are very "closed society-very bigoted". Every guy is STR8-LOVES PUSSY-BOOZE!!

I found an article about OP:

I'm getting a stalker vibe from R120.

EMT guys are hotter.

R129 OP wishes he could be a contestant on The Bachelorette

The correct term for firefighter sniffers is "buff".

Huh?

Ditto the closed society frat mentality. Many are hot and fun to fantasize about but you will usually do better bagging one of the gay softball/rugby players at the next beer bash.

In R127's link it says they are called buffs.

Not for me r133

Follow the yellow brick road ...

[QUOTE] I miss Craigslist...when I worked-lived in Philly, I lived 4 blocks from a firehouse in CC Philly.. I met 3 married firemen who were on C-list looking for "someone to suck their cocks". It was FUN...they never found out about each other( if they did they didn't tell me). I made them get tested with a Doctor fuckbuddy!!

Yeah...you "made" some hook up get tested...to do oral. And they agreed.

This Never Happened.

Fireman are hot! Cops have been getting better looking too. Lately I've noticed how gorgeous construction workers are. I saw one on the subway and he looked like Britney Spears 'boyfriend,' Sam Ashgari.

Russian

Most construction workers are coke/crack addicts.

Once in a while I see a Fire truck parked in front of Fairway Harlem. I see the fireman shopping in there. Some of them are definitely good looking.

Testing

Isaac

There is a gay firefighters group in NYC. I met a couple who both belonged to it. Unfortunately there were fat

I just posted in the “have you ever dated a guy in uniform” thread about the young fireman I hooked up with back in the day. When I was younger I had crushes on so many of my dad’s fellow firemen. They all, including my dad, knew the effect that had on women (and gays). Dad retired many years ago, after advancing to near the top of our city’s fire department. He is a good man, as were many of his contemporaries. He was not happy about a lot of the new recruits who were coming in.

I've noticed firefighters tend to be hotter than cops overall, at least from my observations. EMTs tend to be cute, too. I am a type 1 diabetic and had a low blood sugar episode once where I called 911 because it was dropping rapidly and I was by myself and afraid of it getting too low and losing consciousness. It didn't get to that point, but an ambulance showed up a couple of minutes later. I remember the EMT who helped me was gorgeous—I am 6'2" so I'm not short, but he towered over me (had to be at least 6'5"), was well-built, and incredibly handsome. They gave me some glucose intravenously, waited for a bit, and when my levels rose back up, asked if I wanted to go to the hospital. I didn't see it necessary and profusely apologized because I felt like I'd overreacted, but he couldn't have been nicer about it.

Some firemen took their firetruck OFF-DUTY, after hours, with their families, to join one of those Trump motorcade terrorist rallies in my city the night before the election. They were circling the capital city center.

So I circled in front of them with my car and flipped them off in front of their wives and daughters. Then they lost the election.

Good times!

Firemen, cops, truck drivers and mail men, yes mail men, are all whores, if you are ok with that then go ahead and date one, but just be aware of the whoring around they do. And they will whore around, straight or gay.

[quote] I want to date fireman

I’ve heard that they are very talented at working with big hoses.

R5, I believe you.

I live in LA and called 911 after I came upon a homeless man who needed help.

I watch entirely too much TV.

If this were a TV show, the paramedics would show up, take care of the guy; get him on meds, find his lost relatives, and get him a job mopping the floor at the firehouse.

In real-life, they said 'he's fine; YOU can get him some water...if you want.' and they drove off.

NYPD has a GOAL (Gay Officers Action League) chapter. Is there a similar group for FDNY?

Yes, NYC has a gay fireman group

My firefightin' man went inside me without a lick of warning or proper notice!!!!

I decided to date an oversized scientist with a smallish penis!!!

There is one at the fire station near my neighborhood who is one of the hottest men I’ve ever seen in my life. Tall, beefy, wild curly dark hair. Everyone in the neighborhood knows about him, but I don’t think anyone has ever spoken to him. See him at the grocery store a lot. It’s fun seeing everyone, male and female, do a double take when he walks by.

Isaac

Save a hose, ride a fireman?

While firemen are nice to look at, I don't think you're supposed to date them

So, I wanna date Batman. Tough, bitch!

Too stunned to speak

Twinnem

Handsome

OK, Melania, thanks for letting us know and have at it.

Gay bro

Firemen are elitist, selfish assholes.

And they suck municipalities dry, like the police, when they retire at 45 with 20 years.

R146, nice story. Many EMT's grow up to be firemen.

Biceps

Good luck with that OP. Fantasies made real. I too think FF’s are generally a bastion of homophobia, especially the volunteers in small towns.

I had two cousins who were firemen. They are arrogant and know it alls. They hate minorities and especially gays.

Hose

[quote]throwing a wild fuck up his ass?

Trying so hard.