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I want to date fireman.

So many of them are hot, nice, and down to earth. They look like they'd make great bfs. They take their jobs (and thankfully their workout routines) seriously, but aren't bullies with a badge, which essentially characterizes cops. How can I meet a gay fireman tod date? Where do they hang out in New York City?

by Anonymousreply 10602/10/2017

OP, date a butcher. They bring home the beef every night!

by Anonymousreply 102/07/2013

Staten Island.

by Anonymousreply 202/07/2013

Anyone know the term used by FDNY guys to describe gays who are hot for them? At NYPD we're known as Cop Suckers.

by Anonymousreply 302/07/2013

Knock yourself out, kid

by Anonymousreply 402/07/2013

As the son of a NYC Fireman - and with many childhood friends in the department - let me give you a little insight:

Any and all gay firemen in the NYC area are for the most part totally closeted, because most firemen - contrary to all of that "hero" shit - are complete assholes. And viciously bigoted.

My dad used to complain about the guys he had to work with for years: what pigs they were. Drunks. Racists. The list goes on.

I'm not saying they are all like that. But that is the prevailing culture. Always has been. They're worse than cops these days. (yes, I just said and meant that).

I could assail you with links, but the one below is a perfect example.

There was also the gay couple in jersey whose house was next to a fire station. The firemen there harassed and threatened them incessantly until they had to leave and sue the department.

There was also the brawl on new year's eve in a Staten Island firehouse with firemen beating the shit out of each other in a drunken haze (thank god no houses went up in flames that night!).

Get yourself a nice jewish doctor instead.

by Anonymousreply 502/07/2013

The fireman I want to date is Matt Casey, played by Jesse Spencer on "Chicago Fire." He could fuck me silly, and I could help him perfect his American accent.

by Anonymousreply 602/07/2013

There was a hot fireman who bartended at a place I frequented. Hot or not, was axed for dipping into register.

by Anonymousreply 702/07/2013

You can have Casey, I want Severide.

by Anonymousreply 802/07/2013

Go to Paris. Talk about hot firemen.

by Anonymousreply 902/07/2013

Was Steven Pasquale the gay fireman on "Rescue Me?"

by Anonymousreply 1002/07/2013

R8, I haven't watched last night's episode. Is the new hunk who has a beef with Severide going to be a regular? He was HOTTTTTTTTT.

His name is Shane McRae.

by Anonymousreply 1102/07/2013

The FDNY fireman who went on trial for beating up his TS girlfriend says he was ostracized after being outed.

by Anonymousreply 1202/07/2013

[quote]Where do they hang out in New York City?

Let me take a wild guess -- firehouses?

by Anonymousreply 1302/07/2013

r5, was this the house where a FF was severly injured after being bashed in the head with a chair because they suspected he was gay?

by Anonymousreply 1402/07/2013

R10 No, the gay (or not) fireman was Mike Silletti, played by Mike Lombardi.

by Anonymousreply 1502/07/2013

Can't someone start a thread about Sean Eldridge. Do I have to do everything?

by Anonymousreply 1602/07/2013

In NYC, Ty's bar in the West Village has a firefighters night the first Tuesday of every month.

by Anonymousreply 1702/07/2013

He was a fireman, R17?

by Anonymousreply 1802/07/2013

I have heard that volunteer firemen (and many of them are still not bad as far as looks go) in smaller towns have initiation ceremonies for new members that isn't too far different from fraternity initiations complete with paddling/spanking. I have noticed that many firemen have nice shapely rear ends that probably need not only a good spanking but a wild fuck too. Is there anyone who knows more about initiations into volunteer fire departments? Found r5 to be very informative BTW.

by Anonymousreply 1902/07/2013

Bal des Pompiers, every July 13-14 in Paris. Yes, the DJs are firemen.

by Anonymousreply 2002/07/2013

r1, is Ambassador Hormel available?

by Anonymousreply 2102/07/2013

I have had two fire fighters. One was an auburn haired guy who was married. Not gay, stopped for a BJ about once a week for several years. Didn't see him for awhile and then he starting making visits again. I currently have a married FF who is a very handsome man. He will do anything I ask him to do, very submissive. We get together every few months. About 6'1", 180, black hair, very fair skinned, hairless except crotch. Beautiful full rounded man ass

by Anonymousreply 2202/07/2013

I have a married fuck buddy who is a volunteer fireman. He he's mid 40s, nice body, killer ass (like a soccer player's), average cut dick. We only get together a couple times a year b/c his wife keeps him on a tight leash. He is fun in bed, likes to make out, likes 69.

by Anonymousreply 2302/07/2013

I want to ride my bicycle.

by Anonymousreply 2402/07/2013

I used to have a female friend who was a bit of a fireman groupie. She was a sucker for the image even though they invariably treated her like crap. They'd lie about being married or having girlfriends to sleep with her. Arrogant bullies with God complexes. I guess I'd choose a fireman over a cop but it would be a losing proposition either way.

by Anonymousreply 2502/07/2013

Light your house on fire. They'll come running.

by Anonymousreply 2602/07/2013

A lot of precincts have monthly cook-offs when the firemen have a pot luck and charge $15 a plate. They're open to the public and you can meet firefighters that way.

Also most houses work with a particular charity. Volunteer to work on that particular charity drive and they'll be very appreciative.

by Anonymousreply 2702/07/2013

R3, you're a holster sniffer.

So am I.

by Anonymousreply 2802/07/2013

I've only known two gay firemen - a couple. They were both mellow and climbably tall.

I have grown up with firemen as neighbors - I'm on my third fire fighter neighbor right now. Each has lots of toys; snow mobiles, speed boats, skidoos, motorcycles, etc.

OP, take up a thrill seeker sport and you'll find firemen.

by Anonymousreply 2902/07/2013

r22, do you ever spank him? How is it throwing a wild fuck up his ass?

by Anonymousreply 3002/07/2013

Just present your hole at your local firehouse,OP.

by Anonymousreply 3102/07/2013

I want a hot fireman too. A nice hairy one with a bubble butt that wants to be ploughed hard and deep. The kind that moans like a seal being beaten to death while he rides manmeat. He must keep his hat on while I'm riding his hot fireman mancunt.

by Anonymousreply 3202/07/2013

My first boyfriend was a fireman. We were together (on and off) for years. Love of my life, wonderful man. His station was in a suburb of LA. He was exactly what you'd fantasize about: Insanely masculine, tall and beefy, a bit of a savior type, a very dominate top (I met him when I was 19, he was 32), the type of guy who'd just build me a book shelf or refinish the deck.

When he came out, he basically was forced to retire (this was right when I met him). It was very difficult for him. Being a firefighter wasn't just his job, it was his identity.

by Anonymousreply 3302/07/2013

R33 "Dominate" is a verb. "Dominant" is the adjective you want to use in front of the word "top."

More people get this wrong than any word except "looser" when they mean "loser."

by Anonymousreply 3402/07/2013

It was a typo, R34. I am ever so sorry.

by Anonymousreply 3502/08/2013

[quote]More people get this wrong than any word except "looser" when they mean "loser."

Not common at all. I've never seen it.

by Anonymousreply 3602/08/2013

R36, check out

by Anonymousreply 3702/08/2013

Guys who look to fuck cops are known as "badge bangers" in nyc.

by Anonymousreply 3802/08/2013

Private detectives tend to be more well-hung, in my experience. There's a reason they call them "private dicks."

by Anonymousreply 3902/08/2013

OP/whore, please try really hard to suck a hose this weekend and be sure to tell us all the deets.

Post CL ads looking for one.

by Anonymousreply 4002/08/2013

Who was the NYC area FF who posed for a calendar, then was in an amateur video made by a girl trick that featured his enormous dick? Sculpted eyebrows, I believe.

by Anonymousreply 4102/08/2013

for r41

by Anonymousreply 4202/08/2013

R5 is completely right about the FDNY. It is a throwback to another time. It is still overwhelmingly white and male. And the ranks are filled with many of Irish descent, who got their jobs through family connections. Just recently a judge ruled that the Department had to change its entrance exams to ensure diversity in the department.

by Anonymousreply 4302/08/2013

Yes, R42, Michael Biserta. Thanks!

(Maybe not enormous, but it is quite large.)

by Anonymousreply 4402/08/2013

I don't think they like it if you ask about the size of their hoses.

by Anonymousreply 4502/08/2013

There's always this guy (bodybuilder/stripper/porn star Rodney St. Cloud) who got canned from FDNY for illegal steroids.

by Anonymousreply 4602/08/2013

I imagine the occasional gay could be found at Anderson's fire house.

by Anonymousreply 4702/08/2013

r39, only a member of a police agency can call themselves "detective." "Private Investigator" legally describes the well-hung men you've been with.

by Anonymousreply 4802/08/2013

R48, how about "Private Dick"?

by Anonymousreply 4902/08/2013

r43 said "the Department had to change its entrance exams to ensure diversity in the department."

We all know it means lowering the physical and test-taking standards to give jobs to those who shouldn't be hired. People will die thanks to this judge's decision.

by Anonymousreply 5002/09/2013

I'd like to make a longer and even more inciteful post, but I have to get going to the Saturday slave auction being held down at the town square. I hear you can get some really good deals on Negro farm hands today.

by Anonymousreply 5102/09/2013

That Michael Biserta guy sounds like an intolerable cunt.

by Anonymousreply 5202/09/2013

I love firemen. I saw a fireman at a firehouse yesterday walking around lifting weights. He was built buff and tight. So hot. I have had firemen respond to my personal ads before, but what do ya know, they happened to be unattractive to me, not the buff masculine stud type.

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by Anonymousreply 5402/18/2013

masculinity is hot

by Anonymousreply 5502/23/2013

You want to date fireman?

I marry rich Russian.

Spend days at perfume counter Bloomingdale.

Why to date poor persons?

by Anonymousreply 5602/23/2013

And I wish I was dating a hot midget. We've all got a sob story, sister.

by Anonymousreply 5702/23/2013

easy- cut open and count rings

by Anonymousreply 5802/23/2013

It looks like DL's favorite porn star was a DL regular, before he got drunk and invaded a fire station in Louisville.

by Anonymousreply 5902/24/2013

My friend's ex-husband is a firefighter. There were some really nice ones but many were absolutely evil. Homophobic, racist, weird issues with women and they will rob your ass while your house burns down. He had drawers full of jewelry that he would sell at those cash for gold places. I considered him one of the "good ones" too. Last I heard he had a "back injury" and is retired with full benefits at the age of 37.

by Anonymousreply 6002/24/2013

OP, how and when did you first develop a passion for taking care of verbally/physically/emotionally abusive alcoholics? Your type is so specific that it's not every day I come across people who harbor the same deathwish as you.

by Anonymousreply 6102/24/2013

I love firemen

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by Anonymousreply 6310/04/2013

I've fucked around with a fireman out at the beach. He was just a guy I wanted, turned out to be a fireman, his job. He could've been a clerk in a store. Local married guy, children. We never talked about firefighting. He was just a gay guy to me, a married one in a closet not wanting anyone to know about him, thinking they never would. He'd cruise about, people would follow him, get it on. He doesn't seem to be doing it much lately. Never heard him discussed as gay. I'd see him in town talking with guys a lot & get a twinge of jealousy, I wanted him to be with me. He thought of it as working the troops. He wanted to be fire captain. He got there. He was the appeal, not the job.

by Anonymousreply 6410/06/2013

I don't think many of you know that many actual fire fighters in real life.

Most of the guys are too stupid to do anything else, including police work. Maybe one out of 20 or 30 has a truly fit body. Most are very average dumbshits.

by Anonymousreply 6510/06/2013

[italic]Ash holes[/italic], R3?

by Anonymousreply 6610/06/2013

R65, of course they are.

But the ones we want are the hotties on TV shows like Chicago Fire and in the calendars.

You know -- the ones with the massive, hairless pectorals, the kind you can rest your head on and say, 'Hey, head's not too heavy on your chest is it?'

He'd let out a little laugh with a whispered 'shad up, buddy.'

And then he'd kiss my forehead.

by Anonymousreply 6710/06/2013

[quote]But the ones we want are the hotties on TV shows like Chicago Fire

Those are actors.

by Anonymousreply 6810/06/2013

R68, I'll compromise.

by Anonymousreply 6910/06/2013

Join the Fire Island Pines volunteer fire department.

by Anonymousreply 7010/06/2013

I'm currently fucking a volunteer FF. Monster cock. So big the damn thing can't even stand erect when it's hard.

One of the best fucks I ever had was a cop, tho. Damn.

by Anonymousreply 7110/06/2013

real (not modeling) pics, please

by Anonymousreply 7210/06/2013

Any firefighters on Craigslist? Find them, bros!

by Anonymousreply 7310/12/2013

find some on Craigslist

by Anonymousreply 7401/22/2014

[quote]I want to date fireman.

Me want explore indefinite articles.

by Anonymousreply 7501/22/2014

Well I want to date a hair dresser. Skinny, flaming and wears women's clothes.

by Anonymousreply 7601/22/2014

Firemen, hot, bro

by Anonymousreply 7701/25/2014

Why not just buy a dalmation and walk it back and forth in front of a fire station? Wearing rubber boots wouldn't hurt. Just rubber boots.

by Anonymousreply 7801/25/2014

Do firemen still get Dalmations? I think that is old school

by Anonymousreply 7901/25/2014

It's a combination of hero, masculinity and fantasy.

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by Anonymousreply 8107/27/2014

I dated a fireman in Seattle when I came out. He was a tall, beautiful, muscular, blonde Viking. Wonderful in every way. I went out with him a bunch of times - he always wanted to do me with excuses for why it was only one-way sex. He was religious so I thought that was a reason.

Well - to cut to the chase - he had a very small dick - seriously small - sort of a button. He was hugely embarrassed by it. Things didn't work out between us and I am sure he thought his small dick was the reason and I suppose it was.

by Anonymousreply 8207/27/2014

i agree with the poster who said many of them are racists, homophobes etc. I have a few on my fb list and they always post right-winged shit.

I have seen firemen in my local drug store and supermarket. They are not hot at all, the ones I see anyways, the older ones always have facial hair, not my thing.

by Anonymousreply 8307/27/2014

What [R83] said.

by Anonymousreply 8407/27/2014

Considering the rigorous physical requirements at the academy, lots of FDNY guys with six packs turn into kegs. Bet they can't run up a flight of stairs to save someone's life.

by Anonymousreply 8507/27/2014

I wish I could find a buff bisexual fireman in DC. The ones who have stepped to me have been unattractive, not the stereotypically hunky muscled firefighter.

by Anonymousreply 8610/09/2014

I have dated several fire fighters. One was beautiful, he lived with a woman he was not married to and had a child. He called her the bitch. When he came over he was such a fucking sissy queen, begging for me to feed hims some dick and fuck him. It was actually a turn off. Instead of kicking him out I abused him, which isn't really my thing.

by Anonymousreply 8710/10/2014

They usually have pick up trucks, eat white bread, use Axe body spray and have slightly smoky butt cracks...

by Anonymousreply 8810/10/2014

What you really need to do OP is grow up.

by Anonymousreply 8910/10/2014

OP sounds like a 14 yr old girl in 1990 who saw "Backdraft" too many times on HBO.

by Anonymousreply 9010/10/2014

85, a few years ago a Fire Commish wanted the guys get back in shape. FDNY union said the guys would have to be given paid time off to join gyms. The idea was abandoned.

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by Anonymousreply 9403/09/2015

There are a few firemen in my family. My dad was one. As some have mentioned above, fireman are now just as sleazy, angry and arrogant as cops.

I can honestly say the fireman of my father's generation were probably the last to be honorable and heroic.

by Anonymousreply 9503/09/2015

There is a squad (?) of firemen that do the 4th St. Santa Monica stairs on a regular basis. Maybe one of them is attractive. The others are all weather beaten to hell.

My ex wanted to be a fireman so badly, he moved from Berkeley to Seattle because he was a tiny (5'6") but burly white guy. He eventually made it in. And yes, he had a great ass.

by Anonymousreply 9603/09/2015

I am a fire fighter...Oh wait, you want a male fire fighter....Fair enough.....

by Anonymousreply 9703/09/2015

Female firefighters are hot too

by Anonymousreply 9803/13/2015

Firemen are ok but I'm more attracted to makeup artists.

by Anonymousreply 9903/13/2015

A hot All American type guy in my neighborhood is a fireman. Not married, maybe 30 years old. Tall, blonde, blue eyes, almost a country guy type. Very friendly and chatty and will stay and talk your ear off if you run into him. He also goes to the church I rarely go to. It's Catholic. Once he came around trying to get nonactive members to be more active. He stayed a long time, sat with legs spread wide (wearing shorts), lots of staring and looks at me, friendly. He had a boner. I was too stupid and too scared to respond to him. I had given him iced tea and we sat for a long time talking, turns out I had gone to hs with his younger brother. Now I feel really dumb for passing up an opportunity, wondering how I can start something. Some of my friends say they have "heard" he is do-able.

by Anonymousreply 10003/13/2015

Anyone see the Chopped repeat with dads? This firefighter widow is soooo hot! Here is another segment he was on.

by Anonymousreply 10106/17/2015

I suppose you wanna check out their hoses.

by Anonymousreply 10206/17/2015

Sad story of a hot firefighter who died in the line of duty.

by Anonymousreply 10306/17/2015

Jeff Leech

by Anonymousreply 10401/30/2016

R17, oh please. If they're at Ty's they're probably wearing something from a costume rental shop and are a relic from the 1980's clone era.

by Anonymousreply 10501/30/2016

Me too bro

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