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For the love of femme guys

Who else here loves pretty/beautiful feminine-looking guys? Yes, some of us prefer pretty boys to the masculine and muscular. Who are some famous guys who qualify as such? Off the top of my head I think of Zac Efron of about three or four years ago rather than the current incarnation.

by Anonymousreply 21005/25/2015

Princess Power!

by Anonymousreply 109/29/2012

OP = Teen Girl

by Anonymousreply 309/29/2012

Figure Skater: Taylor Toth

by Anonymousreply 409/29/2012

Christopher Palu on Project Runway

by Anonymousreply 509/29/2012

I love pretty guys, especially ones with pouty lips

Colton Haynes is one of my favorites

by Anonymousreply 609/29/2012

Adam Rippon

by Anonymousreply 709/29/2012

Drew Van Acker

by Anonymousreply 809/29/2012

model Andrej Pejic

by Anonymousreply 909/29/2012

They can look kind of femme, but they need to act masculine or it's a deal breaker.

by Anonymousreply 1009/29/2012

Emanuel Sandhu

by Anonymousreply 1109/29/2012

[quote] they need to act masculine

Please clarify.

by Anonymousreply 1209/29/2012

Jeremy Abbott flies low on the radar, but be assumed, he most definitely does fly!

by Anonymousreply 1309/29/2012

How can we possibly have a femme guys thread without mentioning Andrew Garfield???

by Anonymousreply 1409/29/2012

Mega slut Wilmer Valderrama

by Anonymousreply 1509/29/2012

Zac Efron, while definitely a femme gay, has no butt.

by Anonymousreply 1609/29/2012

R12- meaning they aren't prancing down the street or speaking with major gay voice. You know, acting normal and not like a vapid ditz.

by Anonymousreply 1709/29/2012

Cameron Monaghan, and the adorable guy featured at link:

by Anonymousreply 1809/29/2012

Bill Kaulitz -

by Anonymousreply 1909/29/2012

Some really good looking guys in this thread.

I love fems and pretty boys.

by Anonymousreply 2009/29/2012

The patron saint of pretty boys

by Anonymousreply 2109/29/2012

I thought R21 was going to give us Robby Benson. For shame!

by Anonymousreply 2209/29/2012

lovely

by Anonymousreply 2309/29/2012

Jensen

by Anonymousreply 2409/29/2012

Okay, so are we just posting pix of pretty boys now? I thought they also had to be fem. I don't think the last several are fem at all.

by Anonymousreply 2509/29/2012

please eat my ass

by Anonymousreply 2609/29/2012

R25 is correct; preferably they should be both pretty and femme/feminine.

by Anonymousreply 2709/29/2012

Gorgeous Adam Lambert with silver hair

by Anonymousreply 2809/29/2012

Chace Crawford

by Anonymousreply 3009/29/2012

More Pejic -

by Anonymousreply 3109/29/2012

I get why some guys are into the look. They are very attractive and it's also great to match up with a guy who is smaller in body stature. Makes sense to me.

I just can't get over the camp personality which is often part of the package. The clothes, the voice, etc. It's like dating a cartoon character.

by Anonymousreply 3209/29/2012

Pretty without being Prissy is gross. Who wants Pretty and Butch???

by Anonymousreply 3309/29/2012

R28

Got anymore pics of Adam Lambert?

I think he's sexy.

by Anonymousreply 3509/30/2012

Re: R31 ... is that a pic of Sarah Michelle Gellar when she was 11? Before the boobies came in?

by Anonymousreply 3609/30/2012

Recent DL denizens 1 Direction have introduced the ultra femme Louis Tomlinson to me.

by Anonymousreply 3709/30/2012

Welcome to JRock (Japan Rock). The music is dreadfully bad (but not as bad as KPop), but the guys are very pretty.

by Anonymousreply 3809/30/2012

Fallacy #1: Muscular does not mean masculine, and thin does not mean effem. T.I. is very skinny but he is very overtly macho and ultramasculine.

by Anonymousreply 3909/30/2012

I'd still like someone to explain why the use of the word "effeminate" is not acceptable on DL, but the shortened form, "femme," is not.

by Anonymousreply 4009/30/2012

The OP said Pretty, not Rice-y. (Asian American blend guys can be Pretty, but not Poison's anime offspring.)

by Anonymousreply 4109/30/2012

Most guys posted don't look femme. It me a femme is a girlie gay. A guy that wears some make up, tight pink t-shirts, usually bleached blond hair, listens to Britney, refers to himself and his friends as a woman. basically a tranny.

by Anonymousreply 4209/30/2012

R1, I just realised who Johnny Weir reminds me of! It's Ra from the Stargate movie! About to fry someone's face with his scary ring!

by Anonymousreply 4309/30/2012

yep, some people on here conflate thin/skinny with effem.

by Anonymousreply 4409/30/2012

r42 you can be feminine looking and not have a feminine personality...

I like guys that have both feminine looks and feminine tendencies

by Anonymousreply 4509/30/2012

More likely, you can be butch looking and have a femme personality, which is, at least, 50% of Gay world today.

by Anonymousreply 4609/30/2012

:)

by Anonymousreply 4709/30/2012

What about Matt Bomer when he's not acting?

by Anonymousreply 4809/30/2012

I may not share your zest for whom you find attractive but I will celebrate with the core of my being your lust for them.

by Anonymousreply 4909/30/2012

You boys examples in this thread are completely wrong. There is this guy who works at my gym who fits this description perfectly. His name is Blake and his pics are linked below. He is the guy with the blue hair.

What most of you don't seem to realize is that most femme boys are tougher on the inside than a lot of these muscle queens are just from having the courage to be themselves in the face of a lot of bigotry.

by Anonymousreply 5009/30/2012

the guy @ R45's link is probably a straight male model.

A fem is a flaming queen.

by Anonymousreply 5109/30/2012

No r50 and r51. OP clearly said we are talking about pretty and feminine LOOKING guys. Not limited to guys that are queens.

by Anonymousreply 5209/30/2012

Another figure skater, current US Mens Champion Jeremy "Alexandria" Abbott.

by Anonymousreply 5309/30/2012

Jeremy Abbott in NYC after dark.

by Anonymousreply 5509/30/2012

I like you R49.

by Anonymousreply 5609/30/2012

Remember me?

by Anonymousreply 5809/30/2012

Time to get this thread back on track

Zayn Malik

by Anonymousreply 5910/01/2012

josh Strickland1

by Anonymousreply 6010/01/2012

R61, Sashay away!

by Anonymousreply 6210/01/2012

R38, agreed on the music. JPop and KPop have a lot of very pretty guys.

by Anonymousreply 6310/01/2012

And what about the beautiful Cillian Murphy who is straight and more beautiful than many women even when he's not in drag?

by Anonymousreply 6410/01/2012

When fangirl declares a male straight on DL, it is a cover up of their homosexuality. I never suspected Cillian Murphy is Gay, but I do now.

by Anonymousreply 6510/01/2012

R59

I never noticed just how pretty Zayn is. He looks much better clean shaven.

by Anonymousreply 6610/01/2012

More pretty, feminine-looking guys please.

by Anonymousreply 6710/01/2012

I like both guy who look feminine or are pretty and act feminine, but this thread was intended primarily for those who are feminine in appearance. However, feel free to post about those who both look feminine and act "femme".

by Anonymousreply 6810/01/2012

I am as variable as the weather as is this thread.

by Anonymousreply 6910/01/2012

Pretty, pretty please?

by Anonymousreply 7010/01/2012

Pretty boy bump.

by Anonymousreply 7110/02/2012

Takahiko Kozuka

by Anonymousreply 7210/02/2012

Misunderstood Kate Moss-ex, Pete Doherty.

by Anonymousreply 7310/02/2012

Joshy is girly and gorgeous.

by Anonymousreply 7410/03/2012

Luke Montgomery

by Anonymousreply 7510/03/2012

Cillian Murphy is NOT gay. She's a beautiful straight woman!

by Anonymousreply 7610/03/2012

What makes you think Cillian Murphy is a woman, R76?

by Anonymousreply 7710/03/2012

Cillian has a very androgynous look, but it is his femme personality that really exposes him as gay.

by Anonymousreply 7810/03/2012

Maybe Cillian Murphy really is a woman posing as a guy?

Whoever he/she is -- she definitely looks better as a woman. And she should adjust her sex permanently to her stunning femme beauty.

by Anonymousreply 7910/03/2012

Thomas Dekker

by Anonymousreply 8010/03/2012

Chace Crawford is very femme in person, plus he looks like he wears mascara.

by Anonymousreply 8110/03/2012

More!

by Anonymousreply 8210/03/2012

Paul Boche:

by Anonymousreply 8310/03/2012

Hero JaeJoong

by Anonymousreply 8410/04/2012

getting fucked in Finland

by Anonymousreply 8610/04/2012

R79, what is femme about Cillian Murphy's personality.

by Anonymousreply 8710/04/2012

Wow he is beautiful r84

by Anonymousreply 8810/04/2012

Josh Strickland at R74 is very good looking but is he feminine?

by Anonymousreply 8910/05/2012

Kim Jaesop

by Anonymousreply 9010/06/2012

Eldergay thread. All you pervs need a dirt nap stat.

Give me lots of tats and some uncut cock!

Yum!

by Anonymousreply 9110/06/2012

[quote]Josh Strickland at [R74] is very good looking but is he feminine?

Hot like fiyah and just as flaming.

by Anonymousreply 9210/06/2012

Josh Strickland does seem to have a feminine personality, but his face is not at all feminine.

by Anonymousreply 9310/06/2012

Patrick Wolf

by Anonymousreply 9410/06/2012

Older Gays hate femme guys because they come from a time when guys with female qualities were considered weak, psychologically damaged and worse dangerously publicly visible.

This is not the case with the new generations of LGBT persons. Femme traits are a natural and healthy part of many gay mens psychological makeup, not something to hide or be ashamed of.

Welcome a more tolerant future, from within the gay community too.

by Anonymousreply 9510/06/2012

Chris Crocker

I was really disappointed in his porn.

by Anonymousreply 9610/06/2012

Elder Gays fear femmes, as do closeted celebrities.

by Anonymousreply 9710/06/2012

R94, I adore that video.

by Anonymousreply 9810/06/2012

I like girls, but I'm gay, so love femme beauty guys like CM.

No, not TVs, sadly, it only emphasizes their guy-ness, or too much like a woman, or just bizarre.

Wish my tastes more Catholic (I mean universal, not paedo) but I have a narrow, inflexible libido, damn it.

by Anonymousreply 9910/06/2012

A blast from the past, Luke Siss_y Fa_g.

by Anonymousreply 10010/06/2012

old school Johnny Depp

by Anonymousreply 10110/06/2012

Let's get girly.

by Anonymousreply 10210/06/2012

3 time UK Figure Skating Champion, Neil Wilson.

by Anonymousreply 10310/07/2012

I thought Josh Strickland committed suicide.

by Anonymousreply 10410/07/2012

^ That was a different Josh Strickland (the one from [italic]Suddenly Susan[/italic]).

by Anonymousreply 10510/07/2012

"That was a different Josh Strickland"

Lucky Josh. He doesn't have to have a lesser light angling to use his name.

by Anonymousreply 10610/07/2012

So who is this live Josh Strickland?

by Anonymousreply 10710/07/2012

^ Broadway musical star ([italic]Tarzan[/italic]), singer/[italic]American Idol[/italic] also-ran, head gay on [italic]Holly's World[/italic] on E!

by Anonymousreply 10810/07/2012

He's my future husband.

by Anonymousreply 10910/07/2012

[quote]head gay on Holly's World on E!

What does this mean?

by Anonymousreply 11010/07/2012

When did Josh come out? He was still straight when he was playing Tarzan.

by Anonymousreply 11110/07/2012

I have no idea if this guy is fem, but he is definitely pretty

by Anonymousreply 11210/11/2012

[quote]When did Josh come out? He was still straight when he was playing Tarzan.

He came out officially in [italic]The Advocate[/italic] a couple of years ago, but he was glass-closeted before then -- don't think he ever claimed to be straight.

by Anonymousreply 11310/11/2012

More pretty boys please

by Anonymousreply 11410/12/2012

You think Enrique Iglesias is pretty, R114, or is he just "Photoshop pretty"?

by Anonymousreply 11510/12/2012

Sexy -

by Anonymousreply 11610/12/2012

They are Uncle Toms

by Anonymousreply 11710/12/2012

[quote]Older Gays hate femme guys because they come from a time when guys with female qualities were considered weak, psychologically damaged and worse dangerously publicly visible.

Why are young gays so desperate to put people into such neat little boxes? Everybody must think exactly the same as everybody else. Or else! All older gays think exactly alike.

MARY! How boring and tiresome you seem R95.

by Anonymousreply 11810/12/2012

A little of both, r115

by Anonymousreply 11910/12/2012

If I wanted to fuck something feminine, I'd fuck a woman. Most of the pictures linked to this thread are instant boner killers.

by Anonymousreply 12010/12/2012

I second it, too middle-school for me. Pedophilia never looked so ugly

by Anonymousreply 12110/12/2012

Andrej Pejic

by Anonymousreply 12210/13/2012

Love the combination of a lean body and the pretty face

by Anonymousreply 12310/13/2012

I love Mascara on a guy with black hair. It really brings out the eyes.

by Anonymousreply 12410/13/2012

:)

by Anonymousreply 12510/13/2012

hot r123

by Anonymousreply 12610/13/2012

R124

I like mascara on guys, but he is using way too much imo.

by Anonymousreply 12710/13/2012

Alan Cumming

by Anonymousreply 12810/13/2012

Brian Molko

by Anonymousreply 12910/13/2012

Bisexual perverts.

by Anonymousreply 13010/13/2012

Ian Somerhalder (Damon Salvatore on The Vampire Diaries).

by Anonymousreply 13110/13/2012

More Ian.

by Anonymousreply 13210/13/2012

bump!

by Anonymousreply 13310/14/2012

R132

That pic is hot!

by Anonymousreply 13410/14/2012

sorry fem guys are a turn off for me, if i wanted to be with a girl, i'd go back to them. But more power to those who love them !!

by Anonymousreply 13510/14/2012

Bi Rain

(No he is not Bisexual. I wish though)

by Anonymousreply 13610/15/2012

Does Brad Pitt count as feminine? Click to enlarge photo.

by Anonymousreply 13710/15/2012

More feminine shaped guys please.

by Anonymousreply 13810/16/2012

Brad Pitt is not feminine, in either looks or demeanor, r137. As a matter of fact, at least half the guys mentioned are not feminine. Datalounge really needs to understand what a "feminine" face looks like.

by Anonymousreply 13910/16/2012

[quote]Datalounge really needs to understand what a "feminine" face looks like.

Which posts are actually feminine?

by Anonymousreply 14010/16/2012

bump

by Anonymousreply 14110/20/2012

I don't have the time to go through every post, r140. So I will just give an explanation of what I meant. A feminine face is a face that has soft or dainty features, which you don't see on most of the guys linked in this thread. Some of the guys are very young and their faces have a boyish look but boyishness is not "feminine". Cillian Murphy, who is mentioned in this thread and who datalounge often describes as a "beautiful woman" actually has an androgynous or ambiguous face. A female Cillian Murphy would sometimes be taken to be a handsome man. Last, some of the men suggested in this thread, like Matt Bomer or Ian Somerhalder, are neither boyish nor androgynous; they are simply stunningly handsome. There is nothing "feminine" about being really good-looking; nature intended for some people of both sexes to be really attractive.

Sorry it took me a while to get back to you, r140. I don't apologize, though, for the lenght of my explanation; I feel it was necessary.

by Anonymousreply 14210/20/2012

William Beckett from Cobra Starship is very, very pretty.

by Anonymousreply 14310/20/2012

Weird, R143. He looks like Ben Affleck with a woman's wig.

by Anonymousreply 14410/20/2012

I searched all over the place for a fitting photo, but on most of them he's on stage singing which doesn't give a proper idea of what you look like and on the rest he posing, trying to look evil. But the long-haried guy in this video is pretty feminine looking, IMO. (Before anyone jumps on me saying he's ugly, I never claimed he was particularly pretty.) Who is he? A Norwegian black metal multi-instrumentalist, and likely an example of a feminine straight guy. Oh, and at the time of this interview being made, he was in his mid-thirties.

by Anonymousreply 14510/21/2012

I wonder if the posts at r139/142 killed this thread!

by Anonymousreply 14610/23/2012

[quote]Some of the guys are very young and their faces have a boyish look but boyishness is not "feminine".

A lot of guys with young and boyish faces are considered "pretty boys", so there is likely some association with femininity there. You have to take into consideration that there are some super masculine males with big muscles, square jaws and big noses. A man doesnt need to look so feminine that he is confused for a female to be considered feminine looking.

by Anonymousreply 14710/23/2012

Buy guys with femme personalities, often change their external look, to match their internal self. Their look in an outward manifestation of their true self, not just genetics.

by Anonymousreply 14810/24/2012

I understand what you mean, r147, but I happen to disagree with that way of thinking. The guy in your link does NOT look feminine to me, just young and trying too hard to look sexy. But this is not an issue to argue about- I already made my position clear in my posts.

by Anonymousreply 14910/24/2012

Which famous guys are the ones with truly feminine faces and/or bodies?

by Anonymousreply 15011/02/2012

Andrej Peijic

Johnny Weir

Brian Molko

Gerard Way

by Anonymousreply 15111/02/2012

How is Gerard Way femme? Isn't he married, btw?

by Anonymousreply 15211/03/2012

R152, looks and demeanor. Yes, he's married to the bassist from Mindless Self Indulgence.

by Anonymousreply 15411/03/2012

The great thing about gay voice, is you can instantly identify the straights from the gays. It makes things so much easier.

by Anonymousreply 15511/03/2012

f

by Anonymousreply 15611/11/2012

I'll try again, since my post at r145 didn't get any response. Same guy as in the video, but this time a photograph. I'm curious what you think of him, r142, compared to some of the other guys in this thread.

by Anonymousreply 15711/12/2012

R145/157, the man you linked is named Apollyon or something. He is one of the few men linked in this thread who does look truly feminine, so good eye!

by Anonymousreply 15811/12/2012

[all posts by right wing shit-stain # a removed.]

by Anonymousreply 15911/12/2012

Gay Voice is Sexy! unless it is coming from a guy who looks like a Lumber Jack, then it is creepy.

by Anonymousreply 16011/12/2012

r157, if r142 didnt bring this thread to a screeching halt, then you did lol. Not only is that guy not feminine looking, he looks like he belongs under a bridge collecting tolls!

Can we please get some pics of guys with pretty faces

by Anonymousreply 16111/12/2012

Douglas Booth

by Anonymousreply 16211/12/2012

R157, that is not pretty or feminine at all. Long hair does not pretty make. Try again.

by Anonymousreply 16311/12/2012

Name a femme male athlete that is still active in sports. Skating and swimming do not count

by Anonymousreply 16411/26/2012

Dd

by Anonymousreply 16512/08/2012

Pretty guys are fine, but they have to have some sort of masculine quality. So Johnny Weir is out of the question.

by Anonymousreply 16612/08/2012

George Shelley from Union J.

by Anonymousreply 16712/08/2012

R167

He's pretty but how is he femme?

by Anonymousreply 16812/08/2012

Well.. he is quite femme in the way he's acting, his body language. I think he has a feminine face too, but I guess it doesn't come across as well in pics.

by Anonymousreply 16912/08/2012

I love femme guys, add in a layer or two of twink and I'm happy :)

it's a shame that many of them seem to have "issues" (just like their masc counterparts) and that for some it's not a natural femme-ness but a constructed bitchiness.....but for the truly pretty, naturally sweet and femme guys out there, I'm a fan for life.

by Anonymousreply 17212/08/2012

Anyone questioning what constitutes pretty and femme should refer to R167.

by Anonymousreply 17312/08/2012

anyone remember shane mercado? him.

by Anonymousreply 17412/08/2012

I agree, r173. The pic from r167 is one of the few guys linked in this thread who truly has a feminine face.

by Anonymousreply 17512/09/2012

R169

I've seen him in interviews, and he doesn't across as feminine to me.

by Anonymousreply 17612/11/2012

R176, I guess it's a matter of perception. People on this thread seem to disagree, and I've talked to other people who think he's feminine too.. it's not very obvious though.

by Anonymousreply 17712/12/2012

The "straight" underwear model/stripper Quinn Christopher Jaxon own this thread

by Anonymousreply 17812/12/2012

R139/142/147/158, I dont like you. You have ruined a thread that could have showcased a lot of pretty feminine looking guys.

by Anonymousreply 17912/12/2012

That dude at r167 is hyper femme

by Anonymousreply 18012/23/2012

Does Orlando Bloom count?

by Anonymousreply 18101/17/2013

Not really. Zac Efron does, however.

by Anonymousreply 18201/19/2013

Johnny Weir

by Anonymousreply 18501/19/2013

Brian Molko

by Anonymousreply 18601/19/2013

bump

by Anonymousreply 18703/07/2013

Gerard Way.

by Anonymousreply 18803/07/2013

That Gerard Way looks horrid.

by Anonymousreply 18903/07/2013

Where did you dig up that old fossil?

by Anonymousreply 19007/15/2013

Bump!

by Anonymousreply 19111/08/2014

Marius Hoiby

by Anonymousreply 19211/08/2014

Justin Bieber's first brush with controversy from a few years when a magazine cover showed him with makeup on of which the magazine denied photo shopping . The Biebs gets in touch with his feminine side.

by Anonymousreply 19311/08/2014

Dylan O'Brien

by Anonymousreply 19411/08/2014

Adam Ant.

by Anonymousreply 19511/08/2014

Ashton Kutcher. Masculine, but very pretty.

by Anonymousreply 19611/08/2014

Michael Pitt

by Anonymousreply 19711/08/2014

R196, you think Ashton is masculine?

by Anonymousreply 19811/08/2014

Boys Will be girls.

by Anonymousreply 19911/08/2014

You are so pretty omg

by Anonymousreply 20004/09/2015

So pretty!

by Anonymousreply 20104/09/2015

Who is that, R201?

by Anonymousreply 20204/09/2015

Kostas Nikouli, Greek actor.

by Anonymousreply 20304/09/2015

Thank you, R203.

by Anonymousreply 20404/09/2015

R204, here is the trailer for the movie..

by Anonymousreply 20504/11/2015

[quote]Who else here loves pretty/beautiful feminine-looking guys?

**crickets**

by Anonymousreply 20604/11/2015

perfect

by Anonymousreply 20704/11/2015

Bill Kaulitz with his black hair. Look up "automatic" by TOKIO hotel on YouTube. Completely gorgeous!

by Anonymousreply 20804/11/2015

Also....World behind my wall by TOKIO a hotel. Bill claims to be bisexual but I think it's just to keep his female fans interested. Totally gay.

by Anonymousreply 20904/11/2015

Let's hear it for shaving our tanned legs this summer!

by Anonymousreply 21005/25/2015
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