For the love of femme guys

Princess Power!

Ezra Miller. The most beautiful boy i have ever seen.

OP = Teen Girl

Figure Skater: Taylor Toth

Christopher Palu on Project Runway

I love pretty guys, especially ones with pouty lips

Colton Haynes is one of my favorites

Adam Rippon

Drew Van Acker

model Andrej Pejic

They can look kind of femme, but they need to act masculine or it's a deal breaker.

Emanuel Sandhu

[quote] they need to act masculine

Please clarify.

Jeremy Abbott flies low on the radar, but be assumed, he most definitely does fly!

How can we possibly have a femme guys thread without mentioning Andrew Garfield???

Mega slut Wilmer Valderrama

Zac Efron, while definitely a femme gay, has no butt.

R12- meaning they aren't prancing down the street or speaking with major gay voice. You know, acting normal and not like a vapid ditz.

Cameron Monaghan, and the adorable guy featured at link:

Bill Kaulitz -

Some really good looking guys in this thread.

I love fems and pretty boys.

The patron saint of pretty boys

I thought R21 was going to give us Robby Benson. For shame!

lovely

Jensen

Okay, so are we just posting pix of pretty boys now? I thought they also had to be fem. I don't think the last several are fem at all.

please eat my ass

R25 is correct; preferably they should be both pretty and femme/feminine.

Gorgeous Adam Lambert with silver hair

If I wanted a woman I'd be straight.

Oh, and R28 "Gorgeous" and "Adam Lambert" is a contradiction. Your friendly neighborhood optometrist is waiting to help you.

Chace Crawford

More Pejic -

I get why some guys are into the look. They are very attractive and it's also great to match up with a guy who is smaller in body stature. Makes sense to me.

I just can't get over the camp personality which is often part of the package. The clothes, the voice, etc. It's like dating a cartoon character.

Pretty without being Prissy is gross. Who wants Pretty and Butch???

All these creepers up in here. Why don't you just date women then?! Who needs pitiful wannabe women, when there are so many genuine fish laying around?

R28

Got anymore pics of Adam Lambert?

I think he's sexy.

Re: R31 ... is that a pic of Sarah Michelle Gellar when she was 11? Before the boobies came in?

Recent DL denizens 1 Direction have introduced the ultra femme Louis Tomlinson to me.

Welcome to JRock (Japan Rock). The music is dreadfully bad (but not as bad as KPop), but the guys are very pretty.

Fallacy #1: Muscular does not mean masculine, and thin does not mean effem. T.I. is very skinny but he is very overtly macho and ultramasculine.

I'd still like someone to explain why the use of the word "effeminate" is not acceptable on DL, but the shortened form, "femme," is not.

The OP said Pretty, not Rice-y. (Asian American blend guys can be Pretty, but not Poison's anime offspring.)

Most guys posted don't look femme. It me a femme is a girlie gay. A guy that wears some make up, tight pink t-shirts, usually bleached blond hair, listens to Britney, refers to himself and his friends as a woman. basically a tranny.

R1, I just realised who Johnny Weir reminds me of! It's Ra from the Stargate movie! About to fry someone's face with his scary ring!

yep, some people on here conflate thin/skinny with effem.

r42 you can be feminine looking and not have a feminine personality...

I like guys that have both feminine looks and feminine tendencies

More likely, you can be butch looking and have a femme personality, which is, at least, 50% of Gay world today.

:)

What about Matt Bomer when he's not acting?

I may not share your zest for whom you find attractive but I will celebrate with the core of my being your lust for them.

You boys examples in this thread are completely wrong. There is this guy who works at my gym who fits this description perfectly. His name is Blake and his pics are linked below. He is the guy with the blue hair.

What most of you don't seem to realize is that most femme boys are tougher on the inside than a lot of these muscle queens are just from having the courage to be themselves in the face of a lot of bigotry.

the guy @ R45's link is probably a straight male model.

A fem is a flaming queen.

No r50 and r51. OP clearly said we are talking about pretty and feminine LOOKING guys. Not limited to guys that are queens.

Another figure skater, current US Mens Champion Jeremy "Alexandria" Abbott.

I want a MAN. Femme "guys" gross me out. Blech.

Jeremy Abbott in NYC after dark.

I like you R49.

I want a man who's a man. Otherwise, I'd be eating pussy.

Remember me?

Time to get this thread back on track

Zayn Malik

josh Strickland1

Femme guys literally make me vomit!

R61, Sashay away!

R38, agreed on the music. JPop and KPop have a lot of very pretty guys.

And what about the beautiful Cillian Murphy who is straight and more beautiful than many women even when he's not in drag?

When fangirl declares a male straight on DL, it is a cover up of their homosexuality. I never suspected Cillian Murphy is Gay, but I do now.

R59

I never noticed just how pretty Zayn is. He looks much better clean shaven.

More pretty, feminine-looking guys please.

I like both guy who look feminine or are pretty and act feminine, but this thread was intended primarily for those who are feminine in appearance. However, feel free to post about those who both look feminine and act "femme".

I am as variable as the weather as is this thread.

Pretty, pretty please?

Pretty boy bump.

Takahiko Kozuka

Misunderstood Kate Moss-ex, Pete Doherty.

Joshy is girly and gorgeous.

Luke Montgomery

Cillian Murphy is NOT gay. She's a beautiful straight woman!

What makes you think Cillian Murphy is a woman, R76?

Cillian has a very androgynous look, but it is his femme personality that really exposes him as gay.

Maybe Cillian Murphy really is a woman posing as a guy?

Whoever he/she is -- she definitely looks better as a woman. And she should adjust her sex permanently to her stunning femme beauty.

Thomas Dekker

Chace Crawford is very femme in person, plus he looks like he wears mascara.

More!

Paul Boche:

Hero JaeJoong

Why do only some picture links show in the window?

getting fucked in Finland

R79, what is femme about Cillian Murphy's personality.

Wow he is beautiful r84

Josh Strickland at R74 is very good looking but is he feminine?

Kim Jaesop

Eldergay thread. All you pervs need a dirt nap stat.

Give me lots of tats and some uncut cock!

Yum!

[quote]Josh Strickland at [R74] is very good looking but is he feminine?

Hot like fiyah and just as flaming.

Josh Strickland does seem to have a feminine personality, but his face is not at all feminine.

Patrick Wolf

Older Gays hate femme guys because they come from a time when guys with female qualities were considered weak, psychologically damaged and worse dangerously publicly visible.

This is not the case with the new generations of LGBT persons. Femme traits are a natural and healthy part of many gay mens psychological makeup, not something to hide or be ashamed of.

Welcome a more tolerant future, from within the gay community too.

Chris Crocker

I was really disappointed in his porn.

Elder Gays fear femmes, as do closeted celebrities.

R94, I adore that video.

I like girls, but I'm gay, so love femme beauty guys like CM.

No, not TVs, sadly, it only emphasizes their guy-ness, or too much like a woman, or just bizarre.

Wish my tastes more Catholic (I mean universal, not paedo) but I have a narrow, inflexible libido, damn it.

A blast from the past, Luke Siss_y Fa_g.

old school Johnny Depp

Let's get girly.

3 time UK Figure Skating Champion, Neil Wilson.

I thought Josh Strickland committed suicide.

^ That was a different Josh Strickland (the one from [italic]Suddenly Susan[/italic]).

"That was a different Josh Strickland"

Lucky Josh. He doesn't have to have a lesser light angling to use his name.

So who is this live Josh Strickland?

^ Broadway musical star ([italic]Tarzan[/italic]), singer/[italic]American Idol[/italic] also-ran, head gay on [italic]Holly's World[/italic] on E!

He's my future husband.

[quote]head gay on Holly's World on E!

What does this mean?

When did Josh come out? He was still straight when he was playing Tarzan.

I have no idea if this guy is fem, but he is definitely pretty

[quote]When did Josh come out? He was still straight when he was playing Tarzan.

He came out officially in [italic]The Advocate[/italic] a couple of years ago, but he was glass-closeted before then -- don't think he ever claimed to be straight.

More pretty boys please

You think Enrique Iglesias is pretty, R114, or is he just "Photoshop pretty"?

Sexy -

They are Uncle Toms

[quote]Older Gays hate femme guys because they come from a time when guys with female qualities were considered weak, psychologically damaged and worse dangerously publicly visible.

Why are young gays so desperate to put people into such neat little boxes? Everybody must think exactly the same as everybody else. Or else! All older gays think exactly alike.

MARY! How boring and tiresome you seem R95.

A little of both, r115

If I wanted to fuck something feminine, I'd fuck a woman. Most of the pictures linked to this thread are instant boner killers.

I second it, too middle-school for me. Pedophilia never looked so ugly

Andrej Pejic

Love the combination of a lean body and the pretty face

I love Mascara on a guy with black hair. It really brings out the eyes.

:)

hot r123

R124

I like mascara on guys, but he is using way too much imo.

Alan Cumming

Brian Molko

Bisexual perverts.

Ian Somerhalder (Damon Salvatore on The Vampire Diaries).

More Ian.

bump!

R132

That pic is hot!

sorry fem guys are a turn off for me, if i wanted to be with a girl, i'd go back to them. But more power to those who love them !!

Bi Rain

(No he is not Bisexual. I wish though)

Does Brad Pitt count as feminine? Click to enlarge photo.

More feminine shaped guys please.

Brad Pitt is not feminine, in either looks or demeanor, r137. As a matter of fact, at least half the guys mentioned are not feminine. Datalounge really needs to understand what a "feminine" face looks like.

[quote]Datalounge really needs to understand what a "feminine" face looks like.

Which posts are actually feminine?

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I don't have the time to go through every post, r140. So I will just give an explanation of what I meant. A feminine face is a face that has soft or dainty features, which you don't see on most of the guys linked in this thread. Some of the guys are very young and their faces have a boyish look but boyishness is not "feminine". Cillian Murphy, who is mentioned in this thread and who datalounge often describes as a "beautiful woman" actually has an androgynous or ambiguous face. A female Cillian Murphy would sometimes be taken to be a handsome man. Last, some of the men suggested in this thread, like Matt Bomer or Ian Somerhalder, are neither boyish nor androgynous; they are simply stunningly handsome. There is nothing "feminine" about being really good-looking; nature intended for some people of both sexes to be really attractive.

Sorry it took me a while to get back to you, r140. I don't apologize, though, for the lenght of my explanation; I feel it was necessary.

William Beckett from Cobra Starship is very, very pretty.

Weird, R143. He looks like Ben Affleck with a woman's wig.

I searched all over the place for a fitting photo, but on most of them he's on stage singing which doesn't give a proper idea of what you look like and on the rest he posing, trying to look evil. But the long-haried guy in this video is pretty feminine looking, IMO. (Before anyone jumps on me saying he's ugly, I never claimed he was particularly pretty.) Who is he? A Norwegian black metal multi-instrumentalist, and likely an example of a feminine straight guy. Oh, and at the time of this interview being made, he was in his mid-thirties.

I wonder if the posts at r139/142 killed this thread!

[quote]Some of the guys are very young and their faces have a boyish look but boyishness is not "feminine".

A lot of guys with young and boyish faces are considered "pretty boys", so there is likely some association with femininity there. You have to take into consideration that there are some super masculine males with big muscles, square jaws and big noses. A man doesnt need to look so feminine that he is confused for a female to be considered feminine looking.

Buy guys with femme personalities, often change their external look, to match their internal self. Their look in an outward manifestation of their true self, not just genetics.

I understand what you mean, r147, but I happen to disagree with that way of thinking. The guy in your link does NOT look feminine to me, just young and trying too hard to look sexy. But this is not an issue to argue about- I already made my position clear in my posts.

Which famous guys are the ones with truly feminine faces and/or bodies?

Andrej Peijic

Johnny Weir

Brian Molko

Gerard Way

How is Gerard Way femme? Isn't he married, btw?

In a word: YUK!

R152, looks and demeanor. Yes, he's married to the bassist from Mindless Self Indulgence.

The great thing about gay voice, is you can instantly identify the straights from the gays. It makes things so much easier.

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I'll try again, since my post at r145 didn't get any response. Same guy as in the video, but this time a photograph. I'm curious what you think of him, r142, compared to some of the other guys in this thread.

R145/157, the man you linked is named Apollyon or something. He is one of the few men linked in this thread who does look truly feminine, so good eye!

[all posts by right wing shit-stain # a removed.]

Gay Voice is Sexy! unless it is coming from a guy who looks like a Lumber Jack, then it is creepy.

r157, if r142 didnt bring this thread to a screeching halt, then you did lol. Not only is that guy not feminine looking, he looks like he belongs under a bridge collecting tolls!

Can we please get some pics of guys with pretty faces

Douglas Booth

R157, that is not pretty or feminine at all. Long hair does not pretty make. Try again.

Name a femme male athlete that is still active in sports. Skating and swimming do not count

Dd

Pretty guys are fine, but they have to have some sort of masculine quality. So Johnny Weir is out of the question.

George Shelley from Union J.

R167

He's pretty but how is he femme?

Well.. he is quite femme in the way he's acting, his body language. I think he has a feminine face too, but I guess it doesn't come across as well in pics.

Femme guys make me want to vomit. Nothing is a bigger turn off than a swishy little bitch.

R70 has it right. Could not agree more.

I love femme guys, add in a layer or two of twink and I'm happy :)

it's a shame that many of them seem to have "issues" (just like their masc counterparts) and that for some it's not a natural femme-ness but a constructed bitchiness.....but for the truly pretty, naturally sweet and femme guys out there, I'm a fan for life.

Anyone questioning what constitutes pretty and femme should refer to R167.

anyone remember shane mercado? him.

I agree, r173. The pic from r167 is one of the few guys linked in this thread who truly has a feminine face.

R169

I've seen him in interviews, and he doesn't across as feminine to me.

R176, I guess it's a matter of perception. People on this thread seem to disagree, and I've talked to other people who think he's feminine too.. it's not very obvious though.

The "straight" underwear model/stripper Quinn Christopher Jaxon own this thread

R139/142/147/158, I dont like you. You have ruined a thread that could have showcased a lot of pretty feminine looking guys.

That dude at r167 is hyper femme

Does Orlando Bloom count?

Not really. Zac Efron does, however.

Andrej Pejic

Ezra Miller

Johnny Weir

Brian Molko

bump

Gerard Way.

That Gerard Way looks horrid.

Where did you dig up that old fossil?

Bump!

Marius Hoiby

Justin Bieber's first brush with controversy from a few years when a magazine cover showed him with makeup on of which the magazine denied photo shopping . The Biebs gets in touch with his feminine side.

Dylan O'Brien

Adam Ant.

Ashton Kutcher. Masculine, but very pretty.

Michael Pitt

R196, you think Ashton is masculine?

Boys Will be girls.

You are so pretty omg

So pretty!

Who is that, R201?

Kostas Nikouli, Greek actor.

Thank you, R203.

R204, here is the trailer for the movie..

[quote]Who else here loves pretty/beautiful feminine-looking guys?

**crickets**

perfect

Bill Kaulitz with his black hair. Look up "automatic" by TOKIO hotel on YouTube. Completely gorgeous!

Also....World behind my wall by TOKIO a hotel. Bill claims to be bisexual but I think it's just to keep his female fans interested. Totally gay.

Let's hear it for shaving our tanned legs this summer!

Bump

[quote]It's like dating a cartoon character.

Your point?

Since R208/9 brought it up....

The incredibly femme Bill Kaulitz has an identical twin...who is not femme in the slightest. They are both identically pretty and slender, of course, but where Bill goes to great lengths to show this off, his twin Tom does all he can to hide it; bulking up with more muscle, wearing baggy/gangsta/masculine coded clothes, growing a long beard, sitting or standing with his legs miles apart.

They share an extreme co-dependence and seem to act more like a high-femme sister and her young-tough overprotective brother than two twins. It's gotten better in the last 2 years, but still they are a prime example of how the femme/butch thing is a social/behavioural construct (formed through close/kin relationships) and has almost nothing to do with how you look physically.

They both started in the music industry as preteens though, so I'm putting this freaky bipolarity down to the twins internalising their branding, being isolated from their family from a young age, and/or being subject to E M I programming (or something similarly exploitative and gross) as kids.

Shame, because they grew up both very pretty and very hot.

(And before anyone yells about bumping old threads, I came looking specifically for Kaulitz T, and this is all I found, so kinda let me down there, DL. Surely a European poster has had one of them?)

[quote]Zac Efron, while definitely a femme gay, has no butt.

Huh?

My current obsession:

Not really feminine, R215.

Bump.

I love femme boys. I let them exercise and get all hawt, but their femme natures keep them supple and darling. And eager to please. My little family is very happy, and when I tuck them in they love the way I do it.

And did I mention I am invulnerable? Well, duh. OBviously!

Call me. That is, if you fit the description. You know the description, don't you? You don't shave because you don't have to. Or maybe a younger half-brother from your dad's third marriage? And maybe he has some younger friends? And they have younger friends? You know, like a set of Russian boxes, and the perfectly perfect femme guy is the one in the little middle one!

Taemin

Taemin

Does this guy have a feminine face?

Pejic at R31 is more androgynous than just pretty. I'm not sure what the difference is.

Femme isn't a look as much as behaviour--imho--so I don't think pictures are going to work as well as video unless the femme guy is already well known.

That guy who had a breakdown on twitter from ru paul's drag race, regardless of what he tweeted, is a hot feminine guy... well... was one, anyway.

I heard that if you act more femme and vulnerable in bed with a Top you're more prone to developing severe anal fissures after each session.

What R223 said.

Like I'm not sure I'd ever call Efron "femme" no matter how pretty a stylist made him look in OPs photo. He doesn't appear to have that personality.

Bill Kaulitz is now working a more masculine look, complete with facial hair. I like!

But is he femme, R226?

He is so pretty.

Young Matt

A little confused by your language, OP

Efron was pretty, but was never "femme" in the Chris Colfer sense. (And FWIW, that photo of ZE in your post is about as "femme" as he got--his body was never overly thin and womanly.)

Which are you referring to?

George Shelley

Oh, enough already with this George Shelley queen. We get it. You like him. But one thread was enough.

[quote]"femme" in the Chris Colfer sense.

In this sense?

Jackson

There is a difference between femme guys and pretty boys people. Pretty boys are not necessarily femme and vice versa.

My favorite types are a blend of pretty and masculine in their features, but totally masculine in their behavior.

Both Chace Crawford and Zac Efron are looking quite manly these days. I've seen Chace Crawford's last sex scene and he looks much better now.

Masculine men are still most popular but it's interesting how many gays and women find femme or pretty men attractive. Are butch women this desired?

My favorite pretty feature are definitely pouty lips.

Dylan Geick looks pretty and masculine.

I'm all yours!!!

I do. Love pretty femme guys. Thinking of you Andrew!

Joel from CNCO

Younger Travis Fimmel.

Rob Lowe. Beautiful both then and now, but not femme.

if the guy has a rocking bod I'll go for it, otherwise, send the girls back to school, please.

Luc

R248 Ewww

Why are you even here? Did you miss the thread title? This is for those of us who like androgynous and femme looking guys.

Hot in the sun

Fem looking - sure! Fem acting - gross no.

One can be a total pretty boy and be masculine.