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Guys: How often do you need to get off?

If you're over 35, has it changed as you've grwn older? How much do you think your need to get off has affected the rest of your life?

When I was 25, I needed to get off about three times a day. Now that I'm in my 40s it's more like three times a week. My life is not ruled as much by needing to have sex or masturbate as much, and I consider it in a weird way a blessing.

by Anonymousreply 15605/14/2015

I feel the same way, OP.

Don't get me wrong... I did experiment with recreational drugs in my 20's that certainly raised my sex drive and lowered my inhibitions. But now, the urge is just not there as much. I'm 41, by the way.

by Anonymousreply 103/24/2012

Unless I'm sick, I'm still a 3-5 times a day guy. In my late 40's.

by Anonymousreply 203/24/2012

GEESh, R2, I'm forty 43 and once a day if fine with me. Twice is nice but not really necessary unless the hot guy is helping me out.

by Anonymousreply 303/24/2012

R2. Three to five times a day in your late 40s?

I don't believe you. There's no way you get off that often. Besides, how much time do you have on your hands? Do you work? Or do you sit in front of your computer and jack-off everyday? And even then, I still don't belive you.

by Anonymousreply 403/24/2012

I find it hilarious when people say "I don't believe you" when I state a simple truth.

Yeah, I jack off to internet porn a lot.

by Anonymousreply 503/24/2012

I'm as horny now as I was in my teen years, if not hornier. I'm almost 33. Getting regular exercise really boosts your sex drive, no matter your age, I think. I have no problem believing R2. More power to him!

by Anonymousreply 603/24/2012

I'm 31 and as a teenager I could get off 3 - 4 times a day. Now, I'm a once a day kind of guy.

by Anonymousreply 703/24/2012

Well... I don't know if I should be impressed or feel pity for you.

by Anonymousreply 803/24/2012

R2 Get a life. Or get a man. Seriously.

I usually only do it once a day although I feel the urge to do it two or three times.

by Anonymousreply 903/24/2012

I'm 38. I get off every day, whether it's by myself or with someone else. There are days I go twice, so I'd say I get off about 10 times a week. When I was younger, I would get off twice a day every day, but it's not much of a difference from what I'm doing now.

Come to think of it, the only reason why I don't jerk off every morning like I used to is because I have a dog now that I have to take out as soon as I wake up. If it weren't for her, I think I'd still be jerking off my morning wood every day.

by Anonymousreply 1003/24/2012

Before I started hormones around once a day. Now that I am on the female hormones more like once a month lol.

Sent from my iPhone.

by Anonymousreply 1103/24/2012

[quote]R2 Get a life. Or get a man. Seriously.

If I could get a man, you think I'd be here?

And I have no life.

SO... internet porn.

by Anonymousreply 1203/24/2012

I'm 52. About once a week for me. This is on average. Sometimes every day for a few days, then not at all for a week.

by Anonymousreply 1303/24/2012

I'm 56, and it's down to about once a week. Twice at most.

by Anonymousreply 1403/24/2012

Im in my 20s, I usually go one or two days out of the week without getting off. The other days I get off once or twice. Every few weeks I get super horny and I can cum five or six times in one day. And I hardly ever get off using my hands, handsfree cumming is way more powerful, more better!

by Anonymousreply 1503/24/2012

I'm 46. At least once a day-twice if I am very horny. When I am busy with work or on vacation never. If I am with a great guy I can still come twice- but that takes a lot.

by Anonymousreply 1603/24/2012


by Anonymousreply 1703/27/2012

I'm 36 and my average has always been twice a day, either through sex or beating off. Some days I'll go 3 or 4 times if I'm super horny. There are also days when I won't get off at all due to stress/travel/being sick etc. but those are rare. There hasn't been any decrease in my horniness level or my daily cumming habits since I was a teenager.

And I envy R15 because I have never been able to cum handsfree and always wished I could do it. I never even had a wet dream in my entire life. I believe that was because I was so busy beating off as a teen that there was nothing left when I went to sleep at night!

by Anonymousreply 1803/27/2012

If you're on blood pressure, cholesterol, or diabetes medicine you've lost the urge to get off.

by Anonymousreply 1903/27/2012

44 - once a day minimum.

by Anonymousreply 2003/27/2012

50 until the last year it was every day without fail (and when I was 40 3x a day still). But now it seems like an every other day thing.

by Anonymousreply 2103/27/2012

It varies for me. Typically a couple times a week. Sometimes a crazy horn shows up and I need to get off five times in one day.

by Anonymousreply 2203/27/2012

52, and only every other day.

by Anonymousreply 2303/27/2012

41 here, and it's every few weeks on average. Even when I was younger it was no more than a few times a week.

by Anonymousreply 2403/27/2012

48-once, maybe twice a week.

by Anonymousreply 2503/27/2012

56, once a month to six weeks.

by Anonymousreply 2603/27/2012

41 also.

It really varies. I don't like to masturbate, as it's involved, and I have to cleanup afterwards.

I get laid 3-5 times a week, and that's great for me. I probably actually masturbate 1-2 times a month, given my sex track record.

But yeah, when I was in my 20's, I would jerk off twice a day.

by Anonymousreply 2703/27/2012

Wait until you experience true suspension of sexual impulse. Most run to their doctor to artificially 'restart' themselves with viagra. But instead just experience it; the ability to identify and ward off manipulative behavior by others, the focus, the increase in other sense stimulation, the independence from need driven relationships, the personal power, all part of this new 'experience'. Also, you realized just how much time and effort was spent on satisfying compulsive sexual behaviors.

by Anonymousreply 2803/27/2012

I was having sex or masturbating at least once daily until I was 49, which was pretty much stable, give or take, with how things had been all my post-pubescent life. But then POW, MS hit, half my penis went numb ( ! ), and the drugs I take suppress things. Sometimes I get sick of it and go off the meds just so I return to normal for a while, and I'm right back to where I was - numbness is better or I'm used to it.

Yeah. Real sexy.

by Anonymousreply 2903/27/2012

I would tell you, but my face would turn red.

(blush, blush)

by Anonymousreply 3003/27/2012

Mid 40s here. Three or four times a week is fine.

by Anonymousreply 3103/27/2012

I'm 57. Not so much that I "need" to, but I get off 1 to 3 times/day, depending on how bored I am.

by Anonymousreply 3203/27/2012

Maybe a few times a week. Oh wait, is cupcake wars on? Maybe afterwards then.

by Anonymousreply 3303/27/2012

R2 here again... I should point out if I'm REALLY bored on a weekend, I've gone as much as ten times in a day.

by Anonymousreply 3403/27/2012

3 to 4 or 5 times a day, is not normal at any age.

Please tell me this thread is one big parody.

by Anonymousreply 3503/27/2012

"Normal" means average, R35. Not everyone is average.

by Anonymousreply 3603/27/2012

There's a difference between "Need" and "Want"...

by Anonymousreply 3704/26/2012

R28 = George Costanza

57 here - It depends what's going on. Average 2-3 times a week. Sometimes it will be everyday for 4 or 5 days but then I can go a week or 2 solid w/ zilch.

Pot used to make me super horny so that was always once or twice everyday but it's been a few years since I gave that up.

by Anonymousreply 3804/26/2012

67. I won't tell you because there's already too much sadness about the future for you young guys. Just keep believing you'll be doing 3-4x forever.

by Anonymousreply 3904/27/2012

in my 20's .Used to get of 3 times a day..but since i alway feel horrible after getting off i have decided just to be celibate till further notice

by Anonymousreply 4004/27/2012

50 here. Generally 2-3x a week. When feeling particularly randy, I can still do 3x in a day. But I generally do not feel like sex anywhere as often as I did in the past.

by Anonymousreply 4104/27/2012

Mid-40's. 2 times a day on average.

by Anonymousreply 4204/27/2012

It varies for me. If I'm with my partner, around once a day. Masturbating, it's probably once every couple of weeks, although that 'once' might mean a couple of times in succession.

by Anonymousreply 4304/27/2012

I'm 42. I get off 2 or 3 times a day. Definitely once in the morning and once at night and then once during the day if I find myself looking at porn.

by Anonymousreply 4404/27/2012

I'll be 59 in a couple of weeks.

At least once a day but usually more.

It wakes me up before I go-go.

And knocks me out before I snore-snore.

by Anonymousreply 4504/27/2012

I get that, but for me I prefer the build up when I wait util I can't wait any longer.

by Anonymousreply 4604/27/2012

Who are these two/three times a day people? What are you 16 with no job?

by Anonymousreply 4704/27/2012

why do you feel bad about getting off, r40?

by Anonymousreply 4804/27/2012

Serious question. How long does it take you guys? I could never do it several times a day even if I wanted to. No time. For us gals it's a whole ritual. I have to be relaxed and comfortable, have to read something sexy and warm up to it. It can take over an hour.

by Anonymousreply 4904/27/2012

R49. Girl, an hour? Hell no, guys aren't like that. We can take care of business in a matter of minutes.

by Anonymousreply 5004/27/2012

Once a day at least. Sex with my partner is great but we do that about 1-2 times a week. I jack off inbetween thinking about the facial he's going to give me!

by Anonymousreply 5104/27/2012

My doctor told me that I needed to ejaculate at least once / day. It keeps the prostate clear and is just good for overall health. So, I try to do it at least once per day, if not more. I'm 53.

by Anonymousreply 5204/27/2012

i am 63 and i do it every day... o i love it

by Anonymousreply 5309/06/2012

26 Theres no time period. If im horny and in privacy ill do it. I get off in a matter of seconds. I can never do it just once. Its usually 3 or more when I do.

by Anonymousreply 5409/06/2012

I hate the phrase "get off".

by Anonymousreply 5509/06/2012

28. Usually its 2-3 times a day.

But, how those people who don't jack off and don't have regular sex survive? I mean I tried to celibate for a week once but at the end of the week i wanted to RAPE everyrthing that was moving or even not moving!

by Anonymousreply 5609/06/2012

1-4 times a day, late 40s. It reduces your risk of prostate cancer so I don't care what prudes think of my jerk-off habits, I'm emptying my prostate as often as possible.

by Anonymousreply 5709/06/2012


At least daily

by Anonymousreply 5809/06/2012

[quote] have to read something sexy and warm up to it.

I usually jerk off in bed, not in front of the computer. But it helps a lot if I'd spent some time looking at porn beforehand, because it makes whatever image I focus on while masturbating more vivid. For some reason it's very hard for me to come up with a vivid image to jerk off to if it isn't something I'd seen in the last 6 hrs or so. With all the hours I've spent looking at porn, you'd think my brain would've permanently stored some favorites in high definition, but it doesn't seem to be the case.

by Anonymousreply 5909/06/2012

[quote] I should point out if I'm REALLY bored on a weekend, I've gone as much as ten times in a day.

I still occasionally have a 10 or close jerk off day, but that's not more than a few times a year. Have you ever gone over 10? I've said this before on DL and wasn't believed, but it's true a few times I jerked off about 20 times in a 24 hr period. The cum just got thinner and thinner until it was practically just water. If I did it I'm sure there are other guys who have.

by Anonymousreply 6009/06/2012

I agree with R59. It's like images become weaker if they aren't fresh in your mind. I guess that's why we're always on the hunt for new stimuli as well. You can't keep going back to the same images and get the same "high" you got the first time you saw it.

by Anonymousreply 6109/06/2012

44 Usually twice a day, once when I wake up and another before I fall asleep. Sometimes on the weekends, if I have nothing going on and a bag of tree, I will spend hours jerking off and nut 4 or 5 times.

by Anonymousreply 6209/06/2012

R19 go see your doctor. I was put on Bystolic for blood pressure and I lost all my sex drive. Didn't even think about cock or getting some. Told my doc and she said stop taking it immediately. Put me on another med and I'm back to normal, which is getting laid when I'm in the mood, or jacking off which is usually daily.

by Anonymousreply 6309/06/2012

Getting diabetes definitely changed my ability to get it up but with the help of pot and porno, I can squirt out a load but not anything like pre diabetes when I could hit the wall with a good shot.

by Anonymousreply 6409/06/2012

66 and still once a day. Occasionally, twice.

by Anonymousreply 6509/06/2012

I've never really been able to do it more than once a day. I remember once when I was 17, I got off 4 times in one day, but that's an all-time record that has stood for nearly 20 years.

Now that I'm in my 30s, I'm lucky if I feel the urge once a week.

I will never understand how people find the energy to have actual sex with other people multiple times a day. Besides, doesn't your penis start to hurt?

by Anonymousreply 6609/06/2012

Oh...I need it daily after working on the farm all day...The fresh air, tight jeans and jock really make me want some action.. At 54.. still at once a day...

by Anonymousreply 6711/04/2012

More than once a day is not natural and there is something wrong with you. You are a sexual deviant and should speak with a doctor.

by Anonymousreply 6811/04/2012

Bitches, please. 2-3-4 times a day?! Do you people work? Even once a day doesn't always happen unless your 16.

by Anonymousreply 6911/04/2012

Do most guys not wake up with a hard on as you get older? It rarely happens for me anymore

by Anonymousreply 7011/04/2012

I'm about the same as you, OP. It's changed my life considerably, not so much in the need to get off per se but in the loss of being sexually excited in visceral sense, feeling sexual, sexy and alive.

It seemed to change kind of overnight, and now I wish I could have experienced a happy medium. I was oversexed for most of my life, and find myself near asexual now.

by Anonymousreply 7111/04/2012

I'm 46 and I still get off at least once a day - sometimes twice and occasionally more. It's just part of my routine - if I haven't come yet that day I'll jerk off before bed. It's a big part of stress management for me. I haven't noticed a decline in my horniness level since my 20s. I do notice that it takes me longer to be ready for round two.

by Anonymousreply 7211/04/2012

R70. I still wake up with a hardon, but not with the rock solid intensity of my youth--and not everyday, but most days.

by Anonymousreply 7311/04/2012

In my teens I need to get off at least 4 times a day. In my 20s, I got it down to 3. Now that I'm 31, I need to get off at least 1 time a day, but can go up to 3 or 4.

by Anonymousreply 7411/04/2012

Well I'm 58 and I get off about five times a week. Don't laugh. I will say that it takes longer and it is extremely pleasurable. Nice and slow.

I take my time whether I am with someone (top) or enjoying a bj, or using my own hand. Sometimes I want it two or three times in one day, so maybe say 24 times a month.

Not bad for an eldergay. I will say when I come, I am drained. I want to sleep or at least drift for a while. It's not like it used to be.

by Anonymousreply 7511/04/2012

66 here...I jack off every day, and sometimes twice a day...always have. Been married 43 years and no intercourse for the last 10. My wife does not like oral as or receiving. She also doesn't know how often I jack off. If she did she would say I'm sick and perverted...but I don't care. I've been doing it since I was 12, and I love it. I jack off whenever I get an front of my computer...or with movies or pictures. It feels as good, if not better than it ever has! I will do it as long as I am able!

by Anonymousreply 7611/13/2012

If there's anything that will cause a loss of hornyness is hearing about old farts over 50 getting off.

by Anonymousreply 7711/13/2012


by Anonymousreply 7811/13/2012

I agree old people can get off too but please keep it to yourself. Nobody wants hear about it.

by Anonymousreply 7911/14/2012

I don't know what everyone does for a living here, but age and stress has greatly affected my urge. I'm 42 and I am down to 1-2 a week, with one of those being jerking myself. I am in a semi relationship and it seems like every Friday night has become my fuck night but I don't always look forward to it.

by Anonymousreply 8011/14/2012

I was kind of on the wrong side of the hill (the one where you are traversing downward)and then after discovering a community like BateWorld, where masturbating is the reason for the site's existence, lately I am back to jacking off a couple times a day in addition to "actual" sex. I am 55 years old.

by Anonymousreply 8111/14/2012


Once a month, believe it or not.

by Anonymousreply 8211/14/2012

I'm 32 and I don't believe I'm any less horny now than when I was a teenager or in my early twenties. Yes, I probably did jack off a bit more then, but mainly because I had more time. Nowadays, I jack off at least once a day - more at weekends and still have a pretty decent sex life. Jacking off is part of my morning ritual and its very rare that I don't start the day jacking off to relieve my rock hard morning erection.

by Anonymousreply 8301/10/2013

R80, glad I saw your post. I'm 45 and down to about once every week or two. When I was young, I'd do 2-3 a day up until about I turned 38. Then I noticed I'd have ups and downs. Sometimes daily, then sometimes just a few times a week. Gradually it lessened and now I'm down to once every week or two. It sucks. I miss my sex drive.

by Anonymousreply 8401/10/2013

I am 37, I jerk off about 2 times a day but since I have been working out and exercising my sex drive is back like the old days. I've been jerking off three times a day every day. I love it! I want to take one day off and just jerk off all day long to see how many times I can do. When I was in the 20s I used to jerk off 6 times a day. Feels great...

by Anonymousreply 8502/24/2013

I'm retired at 46 and wank up to 3 times a day most days. Even after that I still wank without intention of cumming, just enjoy pulling my cock and watching porn.

by Anonymousreply 8605/15/2013

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by Anonymousreply 8705/15/2013

Shit, wait until you hit 50

by Anonymousreply 8805/15/2013

I am 67, jo more days than I don't. About 20 times a month.

by Anonymousreply 8905/15/2013

48 years old, down to 4-5 times a week -- though I'm in the crowd that will hit a spot where I don't do it for 5 days or so, and other times I'll do it 3 or 4 times in one day.

As far as duration: 10 to 15 minutes is about the right amount of time.

by Anonymousreply 9005/15/2013

57 - about 6 to 8 times a week.

by Anonymousreply 9105/15/2013

50 - usually once a day, but twice sometimes

When I first met the man with whom I spent five years, we each came 14 times from Friday night at 11:00 pm until Sunday night at midnight.

Neither of us had ever experienced anything like it, before nor since.

He was 27 and I was 26.

Condom wrappers all over the apartment.

Good times.

by Anonymousreply 9205/15/2013

57...twice a day.

by Anonymousreply 9305/15/2013

41. 3x per day and usually get fucked at least 4x per week.

by Anonymousreply 9405/15/2013

once a year on my birthday I'm 55 :(

by Anonymousreply 9505/16/2013

57 - always twice a day, and now through masturbation only. I swore off relationships with the last one, a much younger borderline personality disorder who after 6 years is still following me when I go out and files one lawsuit after another and has vowed to destroy my life and is doing a good job. SO I have lost my urge for any type of intimacy with another. Jerking off twice a day keeps my drive diminished. I recommend lots of masturbation to my younger friends when they are in that falling in love mode... you become totally blind and controllable when you are too horned up and sexually under the love object's spell.

by Anonymousreply 9605/16/2013

42 years old.

I need to get off 1-2x a week, that's it. Sometimes it's 2-3x a month.

I don't really jerk off though, since that's about the amount of sex I have anyhow.

That's normally how it is.

But I've had a boyfriend for 7 months now, and we have sex 2-3 times a week. I think that increased my sex drive, somehow, because I still manage to jerk off 1-2 a week anyhow.

by Anonymousreply 9705/16/2013

In my late 20's and have not had an orgasm for a little over a year. I'm not joking. This has been of my own choosing. I wanted to experiment with celibacy, I guess an extreme celibacy where you don't even get off alone, and I kind of like it in its own way.

by Anonymousreply 9805/17/2013

My post killed this thread lol

by Anonymousreply 9905/19/2013

With all the masturbation being portrayed here, how do you bitches have energy enough left to come in here wielding your pipes and words at each other?

by Anonymousreply 10005/19/2013


by Anonymousreply 10105/19/2013

i am 75 years old and i like to get off at least 5 times a week, usually average 6 times

by Anonymousreply 10206/04/2013

Late 40's - Few times a week and I'm good.

by Anonymousreply 10306/04/2013

44 y/o male, just as horny and erection-prone as I was 30 years ago. Ideally I need to come at least once a day, but I could probably go two, easily.

The problem is, I'm in love with my partner of 12 years who, despite clearly loving me back, has almost zero interest in sex. We have sex about twice a year and its never great. So I jerk off about 3 times a week to porn and grit my teeth a lot.

by Anonymousreply 10406/04/2013

Varies depending upon what is going on in life. Sometimes I am just so worn out a week or better can go by. Other times, daily.

by Anonymousreply 10506/04/2013

oh, I am 60, BTW. (#105)

by Anonymousreply 10606/04/2013

I am 48 and unemployed, which is awful.

However it gives me a lot more time to masturbate, which I do at least twice daily.

My sessions with myself go for at least 40 minutes to an hour.

Since I watch Kelli and Michael Strahan each morning, my craving for interracial porn where the white guy bottoms (which essentially defines ALL interracal porn) is insatiable.

by Anonymousreply 10706/04/2013

I'm 55, and I usually get off once or twice a day. Once in a while I can still get off three times. Sessions usually last 45 minutes to an hour or so, depending how much I'm getting into it. Still wake up with erections, though not as often as when I was in my teens and twenties.

I go to the gym at least three or four times a week. And also unemployed.

by Anonymousreply 10806/06/2013

34 and try daily other wise every other day. depends on my work schedule. if no time i do a quick jerk in the shower and clean the drain too lol i'm just as horny as when i was a teenager and a college student. all my boyfriends ive ever had loved me for that...they nicknamed me the horny fucker. i like to pump it fast deep and hard an ass that is.

im also OCD and ADHD and bipolar. been off meds for 2 yrs. because made me gain weight and killed my libido. butt soon i have to get back on them since i had a manic episode in front of and went off on my mom and dad a couple weeks ago. Sometimes i feel like Patrick Bateman butt just the anger. no killing and no blood.

i love to jerk off lying in bed naked and i can edge for up to 2 hrs. touching my cock, balls and butt hole. i love to shoot on my stomach and since i got big balls im full of cum and can release 6-7 good size squirts of warm cum! i just finished jerking off 2 hours ago.

by Anonymousreply 10906/06/2013

Did you wash your hands?

by Anonymousreply 11006/06/2013

Once a day, but it exhausts me. It has to be before I go to sleep or when I can take a nap afterward, so mornings before work are out of the question.

Now in my 40s, I wake up in the middle of the night and jerk off. Then I can sleep a few hours and wake up feeling fine.

by Anonymousreply 11106/06/2013

Howard Stern openly admits to jacking it 3 times a day at 60!

And he says that meeting Beth didn't change anything...he loves masturbation. But then again, this is a man who can't have sex without a condom with his wife.

by Anonymousreply 11206/06/2013

You mean he openly admits to *being* a jack off.

by Anonymousreply 11306/06/2013

Mid-40s and I had gone down to about once or twice a week. But when I'm dating someone it can be at least once a day. After a few days of that, I need a day or two off.

In a long-distance relationship now and we've agreed to see only each other. We see each other on the weekends and due to holidays we've been able to spend a couple near full weeks together and fucked a lot. I'm struggling, though, with thinking about hooking up during the week.

by Anonymousreply 11406/06/2013

I was once 13 months without cumming - and I am married with my partner, we have an active sexual live, about 2 or 3 times a week. While he cums, I just let it go naturally as possible. Now I've cummed about 1 time every 2 or 3 months (handsfree, botton). I love the energy that becomes avaible for everything when I save the cum, I feel healthier and I fell less anxious too. Being a practicioner of meditation and into all those esoteric stuffs gives me a phycological support for keeping this way. Did some Tantra Yoga too. Until my 30 yrs I used to masturbate everydays, watching porn or not, but I got some signs from my body that I should stop with this, I believe every individual being is unique and has his own path, and for me to reach my life goals, which includes turning an old vitalized man, with brilliance and a brightfull sembland, I think is necessary to save cum. But, againg, it's what fits to my needs as a whole person. I began to think that the orgasm is not the goal, but is just a consequence.

sorry for the english!

by Anonymousreply 11506/06/2013

i get off twice a day. When my wife is around I do not since she might want some too. I am 45 and consider myself very hot yet.

by Anonymousreply 11610/07/2013

People who say they get off 5-6 times a day usually have no lives and just spend their days watching porn. No stress due to a job or relationship. Hell i'd be the same if that were me.

I'm in my early 40s and I get off once a day most days. Sometimes I go a day to a few days without due to a) don't really have the drive cause of other things in my life or b) if i go that long without getting back into it feels amazing

by Anonymousreply 11710/07/2013

r104, find a way to get him back into. You guys are killing it softly. Do something you don't think has ever crossed his mind and see how he reacts.

by Anonymousreply 11810/07/2013

50, everyday when home. No interest, too tired when on the road for work.

by Anonymousreply 11910/07/2013

67 and daily at least once

by Anonymousreply 12010/07/2013

No one over 13 is jackin it more than once a day. It's biologically impossible to be doing it up to five times a day if you're male. What a bunch of liars.

by Anonymousreply 12110/07/2013

Does anyone elses sex drive come in waves?

Like high for a while, but then low for a bit, and back and forth forever.

by Anonymousreply 12210/07/2013

Wow. What planet is R121 from?

by Anonymousreply 12310/07/2013

I am 54 yo I masterbait 3 to 5 times a day, because I work away. When at home love to have sex the same amount each day. I am always thinking about sex 24 hours a day.

by Anonymousreply 12410/27/2013

A planet called reality, R123.

by Anonymousreply 12510/27/2013

WOW, people, it is time for some of you to realize that everyone isn't exactly like you. Yes it is possible for some to masturbate 10 times per day and it is also possible for some to go years without masturbating. Not everyone is exactly like you. Get over it.

by Anonymousreply 12610/27/2013

I find this thread interesting with people disbelieving the fact that men that are a bit older can have more than one orgasm per day. I'm 55 and I always have my first orgasm early in the morning. I would go into my office before anyone arrived and would sit back in my desk chair while watching porn and blow my first load of the day. Sometimes, if I was very horny during the day, I would go to the bathroom, drop my pants and stroke a load into the toilet. In a few minutes I would be back in my office. At least three days a week, my secretary would have me sit on her desk and suck me off. Sometimes she would have me take care of her first, but always had me fill her mouth up. There were a number of occasions where I'd come home and my wife would want to partake as well. While my secretary has moved on, I still have between two to three orgasms per day and sometimes four. If my wife isn't in the mood at the end of the night, I will simply go into another bedroom, sit in a chair or lay on the bed and stroke myself off onto a hand towel. A quick cleanup and I get a wonderful night sleep. Will always keep it up!

by Anonymousreply 12711/17/2013

Once...every Leap year.

by Anonymousreply 12811/17/2013

I shoot a couple of times a week. I edge quite a bit while online even if I don't cum.

by Anonymousreply 12911/17/2013

If I had more time, I'd probably cum more. But I work a lot so I have to rely on jacking off when I'm online looking at porn, which is sporadic. I like making out and jacking off in the showers with this one guy at the gym when no one is around at 8-8:30pm. It's fucking hot. He and I have fun.

by Anonymousreply 13011/17/2013

Anti-depressants really put a downer on one's sex drive. About 5 times a week. And I'm 33.

by Anonymousreply 13111/17/2013

51 and I blow 3 to 5 loads every day. Without fail, my boyfriend swallows my first load before I get out of bed in the morning. If he keeps sucking after I cum, chances are good that he'll get another load out of me. When I come home and sit down he's usually on the floor with my cock down his throat. He just can't get enough of my cock which is fine with me. Sometimes I don't cum, but if he doesn't get my load before dinner, it usually winds up being his dessert. He says he loves to eat my cum and every time he gets a load out of me, it gets me hornier to give him my next load. So, yes, not only is it possible, but happens to me everyday.

by Anonymousreply 13211/18/2013

R121, !I am 49 & masturbate 2 or 3 times a day.

I have never smoked or gotten drunk or even had a single marijuana puff.

I work out a lot and simply avoid the processed food we all should avoid.

I also drink a lot of water to insure maximum ejaculation.

by Anonymousreply 13311/18/2013

I'm 43 and hornier now then when I was in my 20's. My hormones have me on a sexual overdrive. I am starting to think that something is wrong with me. I don't want to have this urge anymore I'm sick of it. All I can do is think about sex all day and it gets annoying!

by Anonymousreply 13402/25/2014

I'm 56 years old and I still masturbate at least three times a week. Cum levels are much lower, but my horniness level still runs right.

by Anonymousreply 13506/10/2014

41. Once a day usually before bed. Sometimes will skip a day during the week.

by Anonymousreply 13606/10/2014

54: Once every other day, sometimes twice a day. I don't like to go too long without cumming. I have a good fuckbuddy I see twice a month for man on man sex. We've been getting together for about two years now.

by Anonymousreply 13706/10/2014

So what if anything boosts the libido? Excercise, no smokes.... What else? Anything for the diet?

by Anonymousreply 13806/10/2014

every day,my wife said at 30 she did not want sex anymore that included jerking me off. I am catholic so i do not cheat but i need to cum. I stay at home alone but i get no pleasure, now i think of how she treated me all this time, i try to talk to her about it she says that's disgusting,do not talk about sex because i will never have it again. she is a beautiful women so i said i am normal she is not, she says i am a sex nut, so i decided to say fuck her and i wait till she comes home and sit on the couch jerking off, boy was she mad, so now i do it every day and in our bedroom when she is watching tv, i just go in lay down next to her and jerk off till i shoot a big load. She hates seeing my cum but tough shit. i can't drive due to meds i take. isn't this a rotten life

by Anonymousreply 13909/21/2014

You're a psycho, r139. You think that's gonna solve your problem or better your relationship to your wife? You're just making her more repulsed. Hope she kicks your sorry ass out. You're the rotten one, harrassing her like that. You're not happy? LEAVE

by Anonymousreply 14009/21/2014

58 here, I have a real shitty job and practically the only exercise I get is from aerobic masturbation 1-2x a day. I get really centered in the cool down of an afterglow, before (like Persephone) I return to Hell and am Satan's poke toy for the day.

by Anonymousreply 14109/21/2014

50- 3-5x per week

by Anonymousreply 14209/21/2014

42. It varies, but, yes, less than when I was younger. I'd say 5 times per week.

by Anonymousreply 14309/21/2014

I jack off at least once a day, more on weekends. Pot is incredible for heightening sensations but if you smoke it every day then you will get paranoid and develop body aches.

by Anonymousreply 14409/21/2014

Late 40's, about 2 or 3 times a day.

by Anonymousreply 14509/21/2014

I met 2 str8 guys (separately) in their 20's who told me the never masturbated ever. The reason being they can easily find a girl to have sex with. I told them I find it hard to believe but then i don't see any reason why they would lie?

by Anonymousreply 14609/21/2014

[quote]I told them I find it hard to believe but then i don't see any reason why they would lie?

Some people might lie about it because they think that admitting to masturbating may make them look desperate and unable to get anyone to have sex with them.

by Anonymousreply 14709/21/2014

1-2 times a day. I'm 50.

by Anonymousreply 14809/21/2014

r147, then you should have informed them that they are probably going to get prostate cancer if they don't drain regularly.

by Anonymousreply 14909/21/2014

r77 please kill yourself now to avoid the indignity.

by Anonymousreply 15009/23/2014

I'm 70 and it varys from 3 times in one day to once every two days.

by Anonymousreply 15105/05/2015

4-6 times a day. I'm 94.

by Anonymousreply 15205/05/2015

I am 78 years old and I still need to get off at least 4 times a week. Younger like 30 and 40 . ish at least 12 to 15 times a week.

by Anonymousreply 15305/14/2015

58 once a week. Real sex if I get lucky. Yeah really.

by Anonymousreply 15405/14/2015

I whack off until I get blisters and I'm 50 and single!

by Anonymousreply 15505/14/2015

52 here. Every other day, on average. Sometimes more on the weekends.

by Anonymousreply 15605/14/2015
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