Serving up this steaming pile of
Celebrity Gossip
Gay Politics
Gay News
and Pointless Bitchery
Since 1995

Hooking up at the gym

For those of you who do it, were is the most discreet place to have a little fun and not stand out or be obvious? I just joined a gym but, haven't gotten any action yet. I'm beginning to think this was a waste of time and money.

by Anonymousreply 13304/17/2017

Oh no, another slim ball creeping around around the locker room. Fuck!

by Anonymousreply 101/12/2012

OP, does your gym have a steam room?

by Anonymousreply 201/12/2012

The steamroom is best; suana is next; showers are your last option.

by Anonymousreply 301/12/2012

Why am I quite certain that OP weighs 450 pounds and wears a wrestling singlet to the gym?

by Anonymousreply 401/12/2012


by Anonymousreply 501/12/2012

OP, before you complain about wasting your time and money, I think you need to read the list of features details in the gym's advertising --

"25,000 square feet of space, free weights, Nautilus machines, yoga/pilates/aerobics classes, etc."

What? That's not what you were looking for?

Oh, sorry, I think you may have confused us with a BATHHOUSE.

by Anonymousreply 601/12/2012

OP, how are the showers set up?

by Anonymousreply 701/12/2012

God, my steam room was hot today. There was this guy I watched walking around working out with this big beautiful ass. Very straight laced cute white guy, with a tiny waist, lean muscular build but a very fat muscular god-given/squat enhanced bubble butt. He was in the steam room, sitting next to a sexy tight bodied pocket gay, and they both starting JOing, first just themselves, then rubbing each other's nips. Next to them was this tall lanky long-haired European looking guy with what I assume had to be a nice sized donkey schlong. I couldn't really see because the steam was really going then, but a girl can dream.

I love to watch. Not much of an instigator of those things. But under the right conditions I have played some myself.

DB is the best for sexy guys sexy time in the steam room. Even most of the trolls are tolerable.

by Anonymousreply 801/12/2012

What happens when straight guys come in there and see that kinda stuff going on? Don't they say something or complain to the staff?

by Anonymousreply 901/12/2012

I've wondered that too, R9. The women's locker room at my gym doesn't see that kind of action!

by Anonymousreply 1001/12/2012

I saw a super hot guy in the locker room today drying off after his shower. Very European-looking. We seemed to be the only ones in this locker room, and I wanted to say something to him, but I didn't know what to do. Could've been entirely straight, but I was hoping otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 1101/12/2012

i've hooked up 3 times with guys that i met at the gym.(actually 3 different health clubs) Once i came onto him, once he to me, and once it was a mutual come on in the shower, ogling each other ;) ...while he was toweling off, i went up to him, introduced myself & shook his hand. He later said he noticed me getting hard in the shower. Well...yeah!

That last time we had sex in his car after he drove to the top floor of the parking garage. He had great & eager cocksucking lips. Ahhh...those halcyon days!

by Anonymousreply 1201/13/2012

I would like to see photos of these men you are rhapsodizing over.

Vulgar trolls, one and all.

by Anonymousreply 1301/13/2012

something about a nacreous permacum lawyer

by Anonymousreply 1401/13/2012

Nothing like this ever goes on in the womens locker room, this is why the strait guys put on their underwear under their towel.

by Anonymousreply 1501/13/2012

trust me r13, the quality of some of the trade that goes through David Barton gym, is mind boggling. And the quality of trade you sometimes see getting off in the steam rooms is pretty mind boggling as well.

Not that these guys hook up in the steam, but to give you an example, google Joe Lazo, Thelonius Johnson, or Frank Acosta. All three are trainers there, all straight, and are good examples of the types of guys who workout there.

TJ of course trains Anderson.

by Anonymousreply 1601/13/2012

Any luck, OP?

by Anonymousreply 1701/16/2012

Best is to meet outside and go to the guy's house to get your dick sucked.

DB is a gay gym, no straight men venture into the steam room.

In a mixed gym you can get in trouble.

by Anonymousreply 1801/17/2012

How much is a David Barton membership nowadays?

I see and participate in a lot of action at Manhattan's New York Sports Club.

by Anonymousreply 1901/17/2012

[quote]something about a nacreous permacum lawyer


by Anonymousreply 2001/17/2012

r9, that happened in my gym a few weeks ago. I had just entered the locker room when I encountered a straight guy complaining to one of the managers about sex in the sauna. Now management does spot checks of the sauna and steam room on weekdays. This is the NYSC at 94th/B'way.

by Anonymousreply 2101/17/2012

R20, I'm sure he meant "layer" but I love the typo. There's something that just sounds so evil about a "nacreous permacum lawyer."

by Anonymousreply 2201/17/2012

Maybe if you used the gym for what it's made for you'd be happier dumbass! Join a bathhouse if you want to get laid. Thank you for giving straight people on more reason to hate us fucktard!

by Anonymousreply 2301/17/2012

Honestly, the straight guy's aversion to sex in the gym is pure homophobia, and has nothing to do them finding it improper. It's aversion to gay sex. Put them in a co-ed sauna/steam/shower situation, and they'd be putting the moves on chicks right and left. Besides, we're gay men. One of the great things about being gay is that we CAN have sex in these places. I don't know one gay guy who doesn't have sex in the gym.

by Anonymousreply 2401/17/2012

R24, would you want to be subjected to straight sex in the locker/steam room when you go to the gym?

Ya, didn't think so. You must be a heterophobe.

[quote]Put them in a co-ed sauna/steam/shower situation, and they'd be putting the moves on chicks right and left.

No, they wouldn't. Straight men and women don't have sex in public places as a rule

[quote]I don't know one gay guy who doesn't have sex in the gym

That's because you and all your friends are old trolls.

by Anonymousreply 2501/17/2012

r24, I'm a gay guy who doesn't have sex in the gym. Not for lack of opportunity. I've always gone to mixed gyms and frankly the few guys who've come on to me were revolting.

People who defend gym sexcapades seem to think it's gonna play out like a porn movie. I doubt that's the case for the vast majority. And it's beside the point.

I'll go to the gym to work out, thanks. I agree with the poster who said go to a bathhouse if you want to get off.

by Anonymousreply 2601/17/2012

I'm a young gay guy who has hooked up in gyms. Mostly steam rooms and saunas. Never showers or locker rooms. Most gay guys I know have. Some aren't into it, and I can understand that.

I don't view it as a right, nor do I view it as a given or the main reason I go to the gym. When it's happened, it's happened, and it's been hot. My experience has been that it's more likely to happen in mixed gyms in non-super gay neighborhoods, and if anyone's ever walked in or been not into it I haven't proceeded.

by Anonymousreply 2701/17/2012

R25 is wrong in so many different ways.

Straight couples have sex in public places all the time. Just consider how mainstream the idea of The Mile High Club is. Some people, gay or straight, get off on being watched and get turned on by having sex in public.

I have gotten off several times in the steam room with other hot guys. And no I am not a troll. You don't force yourself on someone else who isn't into it. Once the steam starts and obscures the view and your sitting next to me, I'm up for a little rub and tug.

I've never seen or been a part of anal sex. Oral sex happens very rarely. It's mostly a lot of jo and mutual masturbation.

by Anonymousreply 2801/17/2012

R25 says, "Straight men and women don't have sex in public places as a rule." The only reason straight people don't have sex in gym steam rooms, bars, bookstores, etc., is because women don't want to. If women wanted to, the straight men would be right there with them. The straight men aren't pickier than the gay men about where they get off -- they just lack for partners.

by Anonymousreply 2901/17/2012

R29 has it right.

by Anonymousreply 3001/17/2012

[quote]straight couples have sex in public places all the time.

No they don't. It's rare. No one would ever say, "I don't know a single straight person who doesn't have sex in bar bathrooms (or wherever)", like has been said of gay men/gyms in this very thread. If you are going to make a case that "every" gay man has public sex (which they clearly don't), then the comparison to heteros, while a nice try, is completely false.

by Anonymousreply 3101/18/2012

R31 is splitting hairs. It's so annoying around here how desperately people try to be right - at all costs - rather than contribute something meaningful to a thread. It's what is killing this place.

Of course straight people have sex in public! Haven't you ever been to a wedding?! I've seen many straight women put out in bathrooms at weddings with guests and staff alike. I'm sure it happens in bars and clubs as well and, as we know, airplanes.

What is it with the gays around here who buy into all the stereotypes and then put straight people on a squeaky clean pedestal? It's so homophobic. Gawd, you people must be so neurotic.

by Anonymousreply 3201/18/2012

Well said R32.

by Anonymousreply 3301/18/2012

A lot of guys get horny after a decent work out. I think it's quite a compliment for guys to check each other out at the showers and in the steam rooms to admire each other's body shaping process.

Of course trolls who don't work out and rush right to the steam rooms are a disruptive force and they should indeed get their thrill at bathhouses.

by Anonymousreply 3401/18/2012

[quote]I've seen many straight women put out in bathrooms at weddings with guests and staff alike.

Wait are you saying you've seen women at weddings getting fucked or getting blowjobs -- sometimes with building staff -- and this happened more than once? You might want to examine the kind of people you hang out with.

What r34 makes sense. But come on. Straight people just don't do this in public spaces. Behind a locked door in an airplane bathroom isn't the same as a gym steamroom.

by Anonymousreply 3501/18/2012

[quote]I've seen many straight women put out in bathrooms at weddings with guests and staff alike.

What a world you must come from.

by Anonymousreply 3601/18/2012

[quote]A lot of guys get horny after a decent work out.

Reminds me of a guy I knew who was in the Navy. His shipboard office was next to the Marines' gym. Some of them used to stop in his office at night following their workout.

by Anonymousreply 3701/18/2012

What I love about Datalounge is seeing how many of you get your ideas of reality largely from porn movies (and the opening sequence of "The Godfather").

by Anonymousreply 3801/18/2012

I've been using my gym for years, know all the staff, regulars, etc, so hooking up there would be tacky, embarrassing and, ultimately, out of question. If there's mutual interest, I live 5 minutes away from the gym, we can go there and it makes things so much easier.

by Anonymousreply 3901/18/2012

the issue is the lack of nice gay bathhouses, there is clearly a market for it, and they did exist at one time. they may still exist but are run-down and bad quality. the gyms are everywhere and nice looking.

by Anonymousreply 4001/18/2012

There was once a bathhouse in Canada that had two doors.

Hot men went through the green door, Trolls of all types went through the red. Separate but equal.

Bathhouses need to have a 'discretionary door' to keep out the trolls.

by Anonymousreply 4101/18/2012

[quote]There was once a bathhouse in Canada that had two doors. Hot men went through the green door, Trolls of all types went through the red. Separate but equal.

This never happened.

by Anonymousreply 4201/18/2012

Right, and who gets to distinguish hot or not?

by Anonymousreply 4301/18/2012

I've gotten so much quality straight, married dick in the sauna/steamroom. Best gyms for that are the ones down near Wall St. The hot straight alpha masters of the universe look to get sucked off on a daily basis, and my mouth has been only too happy to oblige. I guess all the stress of their jobs gets to them, so they look for release in the only places they can find it.

by Anonymousreply 4401/18/2012

Every straight person I know admits to having had sex in public at one time or another. On the beach, in a bar bathroom, an after hours party, etc.

Most gay guys I know wouldn't ever have sex in public, for fear of getting gay bashed or arrested, or at the very least embarrassed and made fun of.

Let's not forget the inherent 'gay guilt' we have over our heads, boys.

by Anonymousreply 4501/18/2012

[quote]I've seen many straight women put out in bathrooms at weddings with guests and staff alike

No you haven't, R32. Well, maybe in porn you have. BTW-- is "splitting hairs" the new code for "makes sense, rational, logical?"

Haha R44, you need to stop "occupying" Wall Street.

Poor R45 thinks it's opposite day.

by Anonymousreply 4601/18/2012

I find it silly that some posters insist that only gay men are wild animals who cannot hold back their urges and have to fuck and suck out in the open whenever they feel like it. There are a lof of straight people out there and quite a few do and enjoy outdoor sex where they can get caught.

by Anonymousreply 4701/18/2012

Well R47, I can say with confidence that no straight woman would spend a lot of time on Wall Street, on her knees, unless there was some money being exchanged.

by Anonymousreply 4801/18/2012

[quote]Every straight person I know admits to having had sex in public at one time or another.

EVERY straight person you know? Your mom? Your grandmother?

If some of you would just try to make reasonable claims people might actually listen to the points you're trying to make. But you rationalize like such idiots.

by Anonymousreply 4901/18/2012

Actually my grandma is dead...but my mom did admit to fucking my dad on the beach no, R49, I'm not exaggerating.

by Anonymousreply 5001/18/2012

R46, R48, R49 seems to have a lot invested in the purity of straight folk. For the record, the "world" I come from was that of a former event planner and waiter. I probably worked 100s of weddings in my time as well as other events and while, admittedly, it was never something I saw at Jewish weddings, there were plenty of times when straight people had indiscriminate sex in the bathroom, often with other staff members. Bartenders were particularly likely to get laid on their breaks because their stationary position lent itself to chatting up desperate single women.

I mean, you're fucking kidding if you think straight people don't have indiscriminate sex. It's called HUMAN sexuality for a reason, fool. What exactly do you have invested in this? Must be some 40 year-old virgin frau.

by Anonymousreply 5101/18/2012

My sister fucked her fiance in a utility closet at our nephew's bar mitzvah last year. I hooked up with a waiter in a vacant room at my cousin's wedding. Straight or gay, everyone likes the thrill of sex in public. It's human nature, with the thrill of being cought. We gays just probably do it more often because we have willing partners. If women were less uptight about their sexuality, straight guys would be fucking them in the ramble. Men-gay and straight-are dogs. To quote Blanche Devereaux, we'd "do it in the mud" if we could.

by Anonymousreply 5201/18/2012

I find it hard to believe that even 'desperate single women' would sneak into the men's room to get laid, especially at a WEDDING where she would be likely to know many of the guys who walked in.

"Oh Hi, Jim! Great to see you. Yeah didn't the bride look beautiful? I was just feeling a little lonely so I thought I'd hang out here and snag some cock. How does my lipstick look?"

by Anonymousreply 5301/18/2012

I don't see what is so hard about hooking up. IMO, I made the mistake of hooking up too many times that when I really did want to work out, I'd see AT LEAST two of my prior hookups there and I just wasn't comfortable working out with that sexual energy there. I've changed gyms three times! Lol.

by Anonymousreply 5401/18/2012

I remember a few years ago at a Bally's in NY. The showers face each other with curtains. This one guy across from me kept bending down to present his hole and began fingering himself. The guy in the stall next to me noticed and went on a homophobic rant, calling the guy a fag and claiming that he probably has AIDS. Although the gay guy probably shouldn't have been fingering himself, the straight guy went way over the top. I felt sorry for the gay guy. Management threw him out and revoked his member, while the homophobe got to stay.

by Anonymousreply 5501/18/2012

[quote]I find it hard to believe that even 'desperate single women' would sneak into the men's room to get laid, especially at a WEDDING where she would be likely to know many of the guys who walked in.

Nicole and Chook fucked in the laundry room on Tania's wedding day in Muriel's Wedding.

by Anonymousreply 5601/18/2012

Me and just about all of my friends have hooked up in parks. Van Cortlandt Park in the Bronx during the summer months is teeming with Latin trade and closeted married guys looking for sex. We all do it. Just one of the perks of being gay in an urban area IMO.

by Anonymousreply 5701/18/2012

r56, that's a movie.

by Anonymousreply 5801/18/2012

R31 obviously has never heard of DOGGING. Heteros are fucking each other all over the place.

Why you would go to such lengths to defend heterosexuals and their sexuality against homosexuals is beyond me. I really don't get it.

And DOGGING is purely heterosexual. The gay version is called COTTAGING.

by Anonymousreply 5901/18/2012

Yall some hoes up in here.

by Anonymousreply 6001/18/2012

Don't do it. I did it and ended up getting raped - and pregnant.

by Anonymousreply 6101/18/2012

Those were the days, young, hung and full of cum. A complete workout always included a quick "o" with a fellow hottie, in the steamer.

by Anonymousreply 6201/18/2012

ew, gross. have some self respect and for others. I am glad I wasnt around back in the 70s. Degenerate stuff.

by Anonymousreply 6301/18/2012

I sucked off a guy in the steam room last night. Big thick black cock, just what my mouth had been watering for. I think he's on the DL, cuz I've seen him working out with some chick who looks to be his gf. He seemed very affectionate. As I was on my knees servicing him, he kept stroking my face and hair. It was hot. When I think about him and his gf, I giggle at the fact that he probably went home and fucked her with my saliva on his dick. LOL

by Anonymousreply 6401/19/2012

"I remember a few years ago at a Bally's in NY. The showers face each other with curtains. This one guy across from me kept bending down to present his hole and began fingering himself. The guy in the stall next to me noticed and went on a homophobic rant, calling the guy a fag and claiming that he probably has AIDS. Although the gay guy probably shouldn't have been fingering himself, the straight guy went way over the top. I felt sorry for the gay guy. Management threw him out and revoked his member, while the homophobe got to stay."

So do a lot of people there not close the curtains when they shower, r55, or was that just part of this one dude's come-on behavior?

by Anonymousreply 6501/19/2012

Most men don't bother with the curtains at many gyms. Straight and gay alike curtains are often left open.

by Anonymousreply 6601/19/2012

None of the Ballys in NY has curtains. They're all open stalls facing each other, except for the Chelsea location which has doors half-way up and down the stall, so you can see the action but still have your goodies covered.

by Anonymousreply 6701/19/2012

R53, in fairness, it did seem that the lady would usually drag the fellow into the ladies room though I'm not saying it was always that way.

by Anonymousreply 6801/19/2012

So at the several weddings where you witnessed this behavior among straight people, did the couples know each other beforehand r68?

You caught a woman getting laid in the ladies room, so you're a female right? Or, you're a guy but you heard about it because ... all your straight macho guy friends brag about fucking skanks in restrooms at a wedding, or the women brag about snagging cock at a wedding?

I am doubting this ever happened.

by Anonymousreply 6901/19/2012

Liar at R68. You never saw any fucking, just drug use.

by Anonymousreply 7001/19/2012

I've noticed the 'towel dance' seems to be happening more and more in the past year or so. I think it's funny, but it's also kind of sad that people feel either ashamed of their bodies or victimized by leering trolls.

by Anonymousreply 7101/19/2012

Oh R69, you're so naive.

Get yourself to a Hostess Going Out Of Business Sale already.

by Anonymousreply 7201/20/2012

At my gym the guys doing the towel dance are often the ones jerking off in the shower.

by Anonymousreply 7301/21/2012

Speaking of the towel dance, its funny how some guy that you've just blown/rimmed/had mutual jo with/and, or fucked/been fucked by will all of a sudden get shy in the dressing room of a gym or sex club afterwards.

I was recently in a bath house in Tokyo and had a great time with this tattooed Japanese guy. Afterwards, we were both in the locker area - no one else around, and he did the towel dance as he put his underwear on. We just finished blowing/rimming each other and NOW you get shy?

Re; gyms. I've hooked up several times at a popular gym in Tokyo, which is/was pretty much known for sexual activity going on. One morning, this Japanese guy was in the shower stall across from me on the floor with his legs up over his shoulders fingering his hole. A+ for effort but it was a little over the uh... top. I did nothing with him, but there was the occasional brave soul that would come right into the stall with me or reach their hands around close to the wall and into my stall looking to jerk me off.

Then there were the guys who spent all their time in the showers. You'd never see them actually working out - but they were constantly either in the showers or in the locker room.

I met a pathological liar once in the whirlpool who started playing footsie with me. He was hot, built and we went back to my place. Turns out that nothing that he said was true so we only had sex twice but it was pretty hot.

Good times!

by Anonymousreply 7401/21/2012

In my younger days I was cruised incessantly. Of course I rebuffed almost all advances.

I'm more predator than prey. That's probably why.

by Anonymousreply 7501/21/2012

Last week I was in the locker room of my gym with this amazingly hot guy who was just finishing a swim. I'm 32, in good shape but nothing compared to this guy, I'd say he was 24 with the best ass and abs I've ever seen. Anyway, he went to take a piss and I was at the sinks. He leaned back from the urinal and basically showed me his impressive dick while he was peeing.

Then a few days ago I walk into the locker room after worrying out. He is in there buck naked again about to shower. He got to the showers before me and went into the farthest away shower stall but he put his towel on the hook on the one across from it. He now had to walk back and forth across the shower room to get his towel. He moved back and forth between the two stalls a few times. I watched from behind my shower curtain, aroused and confused.

We both were back in the locker room after showering. He was dressed first and when he went to leave he says to me "take care man". I said " see ya". We have never spoken before.

My question is: was he cruising me? Did he notice me looking at him and wanted to acknowledge that he knew I was staring? Or does he sound like he's just an exhibitionist? I want to hook up with him but not sure if he even pings.

by Anonymousreply 7601/21/2012

R76. He sounds like an exhibitionist who is glad he has found such an eager fan.

by Anonymousreply 7701/21/2012

[quote]I just joined a gym but, haven't gotten any action yet. I'm beginning to think this was a waste of time and money.

Before joining any gym, you need to read their Yelp reviews to see if it's a waste of time and money. See what the other customers are saying.

by Anonymousreply 7801/22/2012

Yelp is the WORST source of reviews. Hysterical Brittanies will be glowing over a gym because of their crush on a yoga teacher or trainer.

They are usually wrong and never objective.

Go and see the gym for yourself, ignore the yelpers.

by Anonymousreply 7901/22/2012

r61, is that some kind of sick joke? if not, I'm sorry, but i can't imagine this happening.

by Anonymousreply 8001/22/2012

ugly guys are the only ones trolling for sex in the gym. sickos

by Anonymousreply 8101/31/2012

and another nysc and troll search result.

by Anonymousreply 8207/13/2012

there were some very hot guys at the gym tonight and i had fun stroking cocks with them in the steam room -- i have to admit i enjoy the anticipation and the camaraderie. when you have a critical mass of gym fit guys who want to beat off together, and there are a number of other guys there who you know want to watch (not block the action), i think it's even better than the scene you would get at a sex club or bathhouse. i was flattered by the cute latin boy there who wanted to flirt with me and suck my cock.

what does it say about me that i enjoy the ongoing conquest of strangers?

by Anonymousreply 8302/22/2013

How do you talk to heteroflexible dudes that flirt with you at the gym?

by Anonymousreply 8410/07/2013

Acme Chop House, San Francisco, slow Saturday afternoon. Friend and I are getting nicely hammered at the bar while a hetero couple does the same at the opposite end of the bar. Woman stumbles off the bar stool and walks off towards the restrooms. Short time later, the guy, trying to look casual, walks off in the same direction. I had to piss, and I was curious so I waited a couple of minutes and went off to the men's room myself. Nobody in there, so I finished and went back to the bar. Str8 couple is nowhere to be seen.

Just when we think they must've skipped out on their tab through a back door, some middle-aged woman comes screaming out of the ladies room about a couple that is 'being completely inappropriate'. Female manager rolls her eyes, goes into the ladies room, drags the couple out, collects their tab, and shows them the door. Bartender tell us it happens all the time. My feeling is that their mistake was choosing the ladies room, not the mens room, as most guys would just laugh it off if they heard hetero fucking in the next stall.

So, yeah, straights do it in public too.

by Anonymousreply 8510/07/2013

The dudes on the basketball court are the hottest. Shoot hoops and meet hot dudes.

by Anonymousreply 8610/12/2013


by Anonymousreply 8701/25/2014


by Anonymousreply 8806/21/2014

Tired. Real tired.

by Anonymousreply 8906/21/2014

In my gym there are guys that seem gay and they (we) mostly get in, work out, shower up, leave. If you want a peek, no big deal.

The trolly guys just seem uber creepy. Don't really work out, ogle/glare at people (do you think you're invisible?) Most seem closeted. Two at my gym are married, they work out with their wives.

by Anonymousreply 9006/21/2014

The widespread perception is that the trolley dudes who lurk in the lockeroom or parade around naked are gross, unattractive, or perverted. The hot dudes are almost never engaging in that type of sketchy behavior.

by Anonymousreply 9106/21/2014

R91 speaks the sad truth

by Anonymousreply 9206/21/2014


by Anonymousreply 9306/27/2014

How do you know that women don't like sex in public. As far as bath houses and places like that there just are none for women. Society will not allow women to be free sexually like that.

I just learned from a gay friend of mine that New Orleans have a bath house and I would love to go, but since I am a female I can't. I do think that it is unfair.

by Anonymousreply 9406/27/2014

[quote]The hot dudes are almost never engaging in that type of sketchy behavior.

Maybe you should try a different gym.

by Anonymousreply 9507/05/2014

R94, just pretend you had trans surgeries and changed your damn mind.

by Anonymousreply 9607/05/2014

trashy sex addicts

by Anonymousreply 9708/04/2014

Some people lack the morals of sewer rats.

by Anonymousreply 9809/06/2014

[quote]Nothing like this ever goes on in the womens locker room, this is why the strait guys put on their underwear under their towel.

Not just the straight guys. Fuck I'm sick of my gym as a bathhouse.

by Anonymousreply 9909/06/2014

Yes R99. Cruising/trolling gays should not conflate gyms and bathhouses. Maybe specifically gay gyms where steam room or locker room sex is accepted would be okay, but otherwise, leave the gyms for those who come for fitness, not sex. That includes gays and straights.

by Anonymousreply 10009/06/2014

I think the difference between straight people and and gay men as far as sex in public places goes is that gay men deliberately go out to find sex in gyms, parks, wherever, whereas for straight people it tends to be one thing leading to another.

Would a straight woman start a thread on a forum asking how to get sex at her gym? Would she think it was a waste of time and money to join a gym but not get any sex at it?

R79, I wouldn't expect there to be many Yelp reviews for which gyms to have sex in.

by Anonymousreply 10109/06/2014

[quote]The hot dudes are almost never engaging in that type of sketchy behavior.

Keep working out and maybe they'll think you're worth trying for.

by Anonymousreply 10209/07/2014

I once had a friend ask me if there are public cruising areas for lesbians like there are for gay men. As if women operate like that at all.

by Anonymousreply 10309/07/2014

have some morals, dudes

by Anonymousreply 10409/26/2014

OP, you are why they HATE US. Well, you and Frankie Grande.

by Anonymousreply 10509/26/2014

I can't help but feel bad for the poor guy who goes into the sauna to relax after his workout and ends up sitting in some perv's leavings.

by Anonymousreply 10609/27/2014

In a public space like the gym?

Why don't you herpes-ridden perverts do it in the middle of I-95?

by Anonymousreply 10709/27/2014

R105? Let it go.

by Anonymousreply 10809/27/2014

[quote]Why don't you herpes-ridden perverts do it in the middle of I-95?

I-95 is too far from Omaha so we won't intrude on your cruising ground.

by Anonymousreply 10909/29/2014


by Anonymousreply 11010/09/2014

meet him in the sauna

by Anonymousreply 11110/10/2014


by Anonymousreply 11210/10/2014

I've had hotter sex at the gym than the bathhouse.

by Anonymousreply 11310/10/2014

WHat dym?

by Anonymousreply 11410/11/2014

R114, get help, dude,

by Anonymousreply 11510/11/2014

Vintage gym muscle rub

by Anonymousreply 11610/11/2014

I've always thought that David Barton gyms are essentially bathhouses disguised as gyms. Is that true?

by Anonymousreply 11710/11/2014


by Anonymousreply 11810/26/2014

It depends on the location and the staff R117.

by Anonymousreply 11911/06/2014

It's exciting and fun, and you know what you're getting.

by Anonymousreply 12011/06/2014

Another sleazy gym lizard.

by Anonymousreply 12111/06/2014

Did somebody say, "curtains?"

by Anonymousreply 12211/06/2014

I've never done anything at the gym, but I have invited guys home, and been invited likewise if there was a spark.

It's not a bathhouse. I go to those too.

by Anonymousreply 12311/06/2014

This thread is infested with mincing, nelly sex-negatives.

by Anonymousreply 12411/06/2014

So, to summarize:

1. The wet areas are the places you'll most likely find sexual action at the gym. Look for places where you can stop unwanted parties from joining in, such as closed-curtain showers and single-use restrooms (I've even messed around in bathroom stalls).

2. Straight couples hookup in the wet areas occasionally, too, but nowhere nearly as often as men having sex with men.

MANY straight women come to coed jacuzzis in bikinis, ready to socialize and PLENTY of straight men oblige them. Especially evenings on the weekends. They flirt, cuddle, kiss, make out, etc. LOTS of couples who already know each other do this regularly at my gym. They use the coed steam room for this, as well.

I once witnessed a heterosexual couple using THE SWIMMING POOL WHILE SWIMMING to frontage each other!

They were socializing loudly and laughing, swimming on top of each other, back and forth in the swimming pool for 30 minutes, groping and humping through swimwear, before the gym staff had to intervene. They were thrown out!

3. Very hot, openly gay men tend to avoid cruising and hooking up this way, whereas trolls are shamelessly always there.

I think the "A gays" at the gym have plenty of better options constantly without having to resort to gym sex. Plus, they're more closely watched and judged. Plus, they would set off a maelstrom. Whatever the case, hot gay men are usually too proud to suck and fuck in the sauna.

4. Hate or shame those of us who've cruised and hooked up in public spaces all you want. The truth is, most of us ARE respectful of innocent gym-goers who don't want to see this activity in public spaces. We, the fuckers, almost always take pains to ensure that nobody sees or experiences this activity who isn't on-board.

We do this by checking for visual confirmation (seductive stares) plus physical confirmation (self crotch grabs) from all parties present before going to town. We also try to seclude ourselves in areas sectioned off from the public or closed doors where the uninvited won't see or roam.

In every cursing situation I've ever witnessed, the participants all pulled up their pants and shut the behavior down if a stranger entered the premises.

by Anonymousreply 12511/06/2014

There are people who go to the gym only to hook up.

by Anonymousreply 12611/07/2014

Have some morals and self-respect.

by Anonymousreply 12711/13/2014


by Anonymousreply 12804/17/2016


by Anonymousreply 12904/17/2017

I suppose it was another era of lower security. I studied in Geneva and Paris and I was poor and always used the gyms in luxury hotels. I just walked in and used them. Things were sleepier. Pools, saunas, weight rooms, they were empty. This was before they all built "spas". The Ritz in Paris was good. Often empty in the basement. A couple hotels in Geneva. Strangest thing was extremely rich young men from oppressive cultures assumed I was the trainer. I was tall and buff and handsome. A couple of times I was asked for "massage" and I played along and we fucked. It was a kick.

by Anonymousreply 13004/17/2017

Sad and pitiful

by Anonymousreply 13104/17/2017

I got fucked on the steam room on Sunday. Gym was empty due to Easter, so we had some privacy. It was condomless, since I'm on PrEP. Jealous?

by Anonymousreply 13204/17/2017

I always peek into the sauna/steam room at my gym before opening the door, and there's usually guys jerking each other off. The second the door starts to open, everyone covers up. I've seen oral and only one time did I see anal. I've participated in the jacking, won't do oral with strangers and think anal in the gym is gross. If someone ugly enters, all action stops. Every so often a straight guy comes in and everyone covers up before he can realize what's going on. It's usually pretty easy to tell who's straight because the gay guys keep the towels open far enough to get a glimpse of a semi erect penis and look everyone in the eye.

by Anonymousreply 13304/17/2017
Need more help? Click Here.

Follow theDL catch up on what you missed

recent threads by topic delivered to your email

follow popular threads on twitter

follow us on facebook

Become a contributor - post when you want with no ads!