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Sex with bodybuilders

What is it like?

Do they just lie there and expect you to do all the work?

by Anonymousreply 227Last Monday at 3:36 PM

Depends, but a lot are bottoms. You should try it sometime.

by Anonymousreply 101/07/2012

most are bottoms in my opinion. little children at heart. very simple

by Anonymousreply 201/07/2012

An acquaintance used to serve as a massage therapist and photographer at meets just so he could get his hands and mouth on the men - he'd bronze them up and work out their kinks and worship them. A blow jobbers delight, and since he looked like a flop-sweat Santa Claus they never took umbrage.

He branched out into massaging muscle porn and actor types - his claim to fame was sucking off Jeff Stryker when he was in his glory moment and blowing Lorenzo Lamas.

So in this case it was all service. I mention him because he built his life around it - an extreme case.

As for me - I've enjoyed relationships with muscular men, but not "bodybuilders," who have always seemed conflicted even when they want to get together. The narcissism and underlying lack of confidence don't make for a good combination. They want you to make the move - I had one guy stand outside his van for half an hour at night trying to get me to ask him to step inside it - uh, coy boy. No.

by Anonymousreply 301/07/2012

When you stick it in them, whisper in their ear, "No pain, no gain."

by Anonymousreply 401/07/2012

"and blowing Lorenzo Lamas"

Lorenzo was/is bi? That may explain the cookie-cutter types of female companionship he favors (eg. his ex Shauna Sand).

by Anonymousreply 501/07/2012

I have had a few. Most of them are not good at love making. All of them are self-centered. The interesting thing is, most of them are either average or below average when it comes to inches. I wonder if it is my luck (lack of it) or there is something with bodybuiders.

Oh, the other thing is, most of them are below six feet. -- just an observation.

by Anonymousreply 601/07/2012

I've only had one experience with a bodybuilder and it's exactly what r6 said.

by Anonymousreply 701/07/2012

R6 speaks the truth. Tiny meat and mostly bottoms. Not real intelligent, but if you are just having sex, rocket science is not really something to talk about.

by Anonymousreply 801/07/2012

I've never dated a bodybuilder. Because of their lack of confidence, they tend to only date fugly guys, it helps to boost their ego.

So that counts me out.

by Anonymousreply 901/07/2012

Get a load of R3.

And R9.

by Anonymousreply 1001/07/2012

I've had a lot of experience with bodybuilders. I'll agree with r6 that most bodybuilders are not attentive lovers. In general, they are very arrogant even if they are nice guys. If you want to sleep with a bodybuilder, the easiest way to make it happen is endlessly complementing their bodies. Even while fucking. They light up when you tell them how they look like Roman statues or how you don't understand how they can find clothes that fit.

In my experience, most are not bottoms. I'm top/vers usually, and out of around 20 muscleheads, I've only topped 3.

Of the guys I've been with, dick sizes span below average to slightly above average. None of them have had huge endowments, some have had smaller than average, but most were just adequate. I would not get with a bodybuilder with the expectation that he was hugely endowed. If you are like me, though, it doesn't really matter. I'm more into face and body than dick.

by Anonymousreply 1101/07/2012

I dated a bodybuilder 2 times, but didn't have sex with him. No chemistry with him whatsoever, plus he called 20 times on my caller ID.

by Anonymousreply 1201/07/2012

Could be fun.

by Anonymousreply 1301/07/2012

I've been with a couple of professionals, and I have since lost my interest in that type after my experiences. They were both too into themselves, very vain and self-involved, and very bad lovers. One of them had trouble cumming, had this problem for years, said it was a real nightmare for him, thought I could be the one who could make it happen. He kept his dick up for hours, but no cum. He said he did it when he jerked off, but never in front of another man. He was into sucking me off big time, but nothing spectacular to offer in that front. If there anything more to him personality-wise, it might not have mattered.

by Anonymousreply 1401/07/2012

Most of these responses ares bogus. You haven't been with bodybuilders. I haven't been with a bodybuilder yet but I am bodybuilding and will compete soon. Bodybuilding breeds confidence. I've experienced it. After a certain point in development you don't care if you are nude anywhere. Getting compliments is great. I think bodybuilders would be angry if their lovers don't appreciate the work it took to get a body they built. I can see how some see bodybuilders as self-centered because it is a 24/7 lifestyle if you are competing. The guys that compete monitor what they eat, how much they weigh, how many reps they do, how much they sleep etc.

by Anonymousreply 1501/07/2012

R15 just proved the point most all the posters in this thread are making.

by Anonymousreply 1601/07/2012

Have you started doing private posing/festish sessions yet, R15?

by Anonymousreply 1701/07/2012

R17 No.

by Anonymousreply 1801/07/2012

It depends if we're talking about actual competiton-level bodybuilders or just guys who muscle up a lot at the nearby gym. If competition-level, then ugh, it's like R15 said.

But in either case I have found the following tendencies:

- Amazing bodies to feel and explore

- Some flatulence issues due to their huge caloric/protein intakes

- Many are lazy/narcissist/inert sexually as R6 and others complain... but the ones who have tapped into their erotic/sex-partner potential can be interesting and hot. Especially re: kink. Extreme weight training requires intimate knowledge of pain and discomfort... BBers have the potential to make excellent BDSM bottoms (or tops if they have that energy)

by Anonymousreply 1901/07/2012

Why do people think experiences with bodybuilders would be the same across the board? That wouldn't be true of any other bodytype? Even if you want to say the fact that they wok out obsessively is indicative of a common set of character traits, that wouldn't even be true.

by Anonymousreply 2001/10/2012

Many bodybuilders are narcissists and exhibitionists. Their idea of hot sex is for them to stand still or make a pose while the other guys worship their muscles.

by Anonymousreply 2101/10/2012

And they have extra tight ass muscles.

by Anonymousreply 2201/10/2012

It's less fun than you'd think. There bodies are hard like statues and they are more fun if you're a muscle worshipper than if you are anyone else and want to cuddle as well as fuck them/be fucked by them.

They do tend to expect you to do all the work.

by Anonymousreply 2301/10/2012

Indeed. I prefer a bit of chunk on my hunk as it has more give when at play. Total BBers are beautiful but too hard (and vain)

by Anonymousreply 2401/10/2012

I've been with two body builders, one top who expected me to do all the work, and the other the complete opposite, a bottom who expected me to do all the work. Neither was at all interesting in bed -- if the lights were off, anyway.

The top, incidentally, was smaller than average, the bottom was much larger. Ah, irony.

by Anonymousreply 2501/10/2012

r23 brings up a great point - some of them are so thick and solid that they are not flexible in bed at all. It's like trying to roll a huge boulder over.

The bodybuilders I have been with were not at all exciting in bed.

by Anonymousreply 2601/10/2012

I used to be a bodybuilder. When I was in my prime shape, I would mostly just let guys blow me. You would be absolutely shocked and appalled at how forward and aggressive guys were about wanting to suck me off just because I was built. I almost never reciprocated. I'm far from narcissistic, but I realized these guys just wanted to worship my body, so I let them. I'm very well hung, btw.

I suffered some injuries from lifting, so gave up the heavy lifting.

I have a fuck buddy now who's a body builder. He's married with kids, but loves being used. I tie him up and just fuck his mouth and hole. He likes to feel humiliated and used. He doesn't want anyone to touch his body or his cock. Just his mouth and hole. He's hung average.

So...there's the story of two bodybuilders, and their experiences couldn't be any different. Ergo, you can't make any assumptions about what they might be like based on body type. people come in all shapes and sizes.

by Anonymousreply 2701/10/2012

OMG, r15 - you have proved everyone's negative experience with narcissists like you. Too funny!!! Unless that is supposed to be a mock post.

I met most of my bodybuilders off CL. Had a huge fetish for them. After three or four experiences, they all proved they were duds in the bed. It soon cured me of my fetish, and I started to appreciate the more leaner male form.

by Anonymousreply 2801/10/2012

Had sex with a bodybuilder in Boston and the sex was awful but we got along great otherwise. Really fun and nice guy but total bore in the kip.

by Anonymousreply 2901/10/2012

[quote]You would be absolutely shocked and appalled at how forward and aggressive guys were about wanting to suck me off just because I was built.

Gawd, get over yourself. We're gay, nothing shocks us, everything appalls us. So what? You think you're the only guy people want to suck off? I'm a power lifter, have a really big build and plenty of strength to go with it, plenty of guys are turned on by that and want to blow me, want me to fuck them, be their daddy, etc. What's wrong with that? I love those oral freaks, they'll just suck and suck and lick my balls and slurp and suck for hours and then I stand up and cum all over their face. Big deal. They like to suck, I like to be sucked. There's nothing shocking or appalling about that.

Not to mention, if you have a big muscular physique OF COURSE guys are going to look at you. It might not be what you're looking for or what motivates you but it's silly to act like that's somehow SHOCKING!!

Get over yourself, ya Big Mary.

by Anonymousreply 3001/10/2012

[quote]So what? You think you're the only guy people want to suck off? I'm a power lifter, have a really big build and plenty of strength to go with it, plenty of guys are turned on by that and want to blow me, want me to fuck them, be their daddy, etc.

I'm glad our bodybuilders are working so hard to disprove their stereotype as obnoxiously narcissistic.

by Anonymousreply 3101/10/2012

"You would be absolutely shocked and appalled at how forward and aggressive guys were about wanting to suck me off just because I was built."


by Anonymousreply 3201/10/2012

I am shocked and appalled!!!

by Anonymousreply 3301/10/2012

Beat you to it, R32.

R31, that's not narcissism. That's reality.

by Anonymousreply 3401/10/2012

Does sex with powerlifters count? Beefier but just as much narcissism.

by Anonymousreply 3501/10/2012

I can't stand that 2% body fat look. Along with the fake tan. This is my ideal body. It' perfection to me. SFW

by Anonymousreply 3601/10/2012

Two words:

Face Squats

by Anonymousreply 3701/10/2012

R3 need to be slapped [italic] QUITE [/italic] viciously.

by Anonymousreply 3801/10/2012

You queens need to give a looksy. That guy brings ont he crazy.

by Anonymousreply 3901/10/2012

Picked up a gorgeous one at a bar in Baltimore back in the '90s. Got him in bed and all he wanted to do was roll around (i.e. picking me up and rolling under me, over me, etc.). Plus, he kept asking me to say "I love you". I must have said it 1000 times before the big dumb fuck busted his nut, not sure I ever did. He left his wallet in my room - I had to call him and he had to come back and get it. That's the last thing you want from a bad one night stand, to actually have to SEE them again. Ugh all the way around.

by Anonymousreply 4001/10/2012

don't know about farting. but ... bad breath. not too big of a deal since exploring parts other than his mouth was fun

by Anonymousreply 4101/10/2012

Scaredy cats. Always ran away

by Anonymousreply 4201/10/2012

[quote][R31], that's not narcissism. That's reality. by: R30

Yes indeed: for you, narcissism IS the whole of your reality.

by Anonymousreply 4301/10/2012

Oh come on R43. If you haven't noticed that big guys with muscles get a lot of attention in the gay world, you haven't been paying attention.

by Anonymousreply 4401/10/2012

Great tits on the guy in R13's pic

by Anonymousreply 4501/10/2012


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by Anonymousreply 4601/10/2012

I've slept with lots of them, and almost every one was a nutcase.

by Anonymousreply 4701/10/2012

Have sex with one every time I'm on the West Coast. He's hot as hell, has done a fair amount of porn, has an ass to die for (and he loves me to eat it), cock and balls are small due steroids, but he's sexy as hell, gives great massages and loves my cock and balls.

by Anonymousreply 4801/10/2012

R38/R39 = roid snorter from her pinky nail, wearing WWF caftan.

by Anonymousreply 4901/10/2012

[quote]cock and balls are small due steroids,

Not true. Cock does not shrink from steroids. What else did you make up in your post?

by Anonymousreply 5001/10/2012

In my experience, bodybuilders are just as diverse as the general populace. Some make great lovers, others are not so good. I don't think I can generalize about them.

For me, some of them have been wonderful. Others not. Just like with everyone else.

by Anonymousreply 5101/10/2012

r51 is obviously a deranged troll. Fuck off r51 .

by Anonymousreply 5201/10/2012

I'm not sure what R43 is trying to sell us but I'm not buying that he even knows what word narcissism means. I'm pretty sure he needs to get laid though.

by Anonymousreply 5301/10/2012

Oh shut the fuck up, r46.

by Anonymousreply 5401/10/2012

[quote]I'm not buying that he even knows what word narcissism means.

Oh, you don't know yourself what it means, do you honey?

Oh poor dear--how lost and frightened you must be here!

by Anonymousreply 5501/10/2012

Um, bodybuilders are average to below average in dick size? Uh, you bitches havent seen Black Body Builders, huh!

by Anonymousreply 5601/10/2012

He has a pair of L'Eggs tied around his dick!

by Anonymousreply 5701/10/2012

Pretty pussies

by Anonymousreply 5801/10/2012

According to R43 / R55, I have sex therefore I am narcissistic. Thanks for that. I thought it just meant I was sexually active.

by Anonymousreply 5901/11/2012

Surprised no one has said it...the reason guys work on their bodies like this is usually because they:

1. are short

2. are ugly

3. are not hung

by Anonymousreply 6001/11/2012

Pics please of said sex acts

by Anonymousreply 6101/11/2012

As a pocket gay, I've been lucky to date big and short BBs. They seem to like having a little guy ride them. A few let me top them. great fun. one guy let me plow him doggie style while he crawled around on all fours. It was like an X-rated carnival ride.

by Anonymousreply 6201/11/2012

I briefly dated a semi-professional bodybuilder years ago (he's still in the biz now), and he was pretty good in bed. Attentive. He was a cranky bitch when starving himself before competitions though.

by Anonymousreply 6301/11/2012

Did yOu slap him?

by Anonymousreply 6401/11/2012

Bodybuilders fuck like champs, unless they bottom

by Anonymousreply 6501/12/2012

The bigger the boy, the bigger the bottom...

by Anonymousreply 6601/12/2012

More about big boys

by Anonymousreply 6701/13/2012

Gross, generally. If they're like this guy, sensibilities aside, sure. I've rarely seen guys this buff with big penises, to boot.

by Anonymousreply 6801/13/2012

usually good bottoms. they can hold positions longer (cowboy etc.).

by Anonymousreply 6901/13/2012

Stud bump!

by Anonymousreply 7002/11/2012

I haven´t fucked a bodybuilder, but i really would like to. There are many reasons, i have already read in the posts:

a) they can hold positions longer b) big tight muscle ass c) hot phantasie to top a stronger and bigger Muscleguy

tell me more about your experience with bodybuilder bottoms.

PS: i hope we all speak about the same, meaning what a bodybuilder looks like..;-)

Are more of them smaller guys or bigger? How did you contact them or what will help to find out, they like to be bottom or that they are straight/gay?

by Anonymousreply 7105/25/2012

I would love to have sex with a bodybuilder.I would encorage all the time to vet bigger.I love seeing them flexing on stage. If I get to date one I would go to all his shows. I love huve muscle men.

by Anonymousreply 7207/16/2012

If a bodybuilder see my posting let me know #65 here

by Anonymousreply 7307/16/2012

#65 mark:)

by Anonymousreply 7407/16/2012

i want to be fucked by 2 bodybuilders at once!

by Anonymousreply 7507/16/2012

Well, SMELL Miss R9!

[bold] M.A.R.Y. [/bold]

by Anonymousreply 7607/16/2012

I hope a bodbuilder respond to me. I would like to have a good time. Mark

by Anonymousreply 7707/18/2012

My first BF was a bodybuilder. It was a huge disappointment for me since I as I was new to sex and wanted more than what I got. Somebody posted above something that I had the same experience with. He had a negative image of himself. Our sex was always me rubbing him all over with oil him flexing and then JO or rubbing our bodies together. I had to discuss and describe each muscle as I was rubbing him. Very boring for me. He had a small dick and he's not tall. He had an obsession about loosing his hair. He is gigantic today, over-developed - he looks like a super-hero cartoon. I have talked to his current BF and he has to do exactly what I used to.

When we talk on the phone I have to spend the first 10-15 minutes commenting on the most recent pictures of him. Still he's sweet in his own way, it just couldn't work for me. I am 6'5" and a big blond guy, I never had any issues about my body, was never pushed around.

by Anonymousreply 7807/18/2012

Dated one for a few months. Fun to be seen in public with. He was always online trolling for encounters which he insisted went nowhere - but he had a CONSTANT need for adoration and approval. He had MAJOR daddy issues. Dick was average (on such a big build, it just looked small). He LOVED to have his ass played with and craved prostate stimulation.

by Anonymousreply 7907/18/2012

Is the sex good with a bodybuilder? Or, better than average?

by Anonymousreply 8007/18/2012

r56 I wonder if that cock would paralyze a person, from being raped with it?

by Anonymousreply 8107/18/2012

Body builders tend to be gassy and poor wipers. Good thing most of them are prissy enough to shave their cracks.

by Anonymousreply 8207/18/2012

R79 - I think you described my "boyfriend?" to a T.

by Anonymousreply 8307/19/2012

If there is a bodybuilder that reads this I would like to worship him.

by Anonymousreply 8407/20/2012

But i still think they have the best asses to be used

by Anonymousreply 8508/01/2012

Bump for all you whores that sucked off the bodybuilders love ya.

by Anonymousreply 8608/03/2012

Anyone made a experience with bodybuilder escorts? mostly they are straight acting and have, so i think, thight holes and also hard butts ;-)

by Anonymousreply 8709/10/2012

What we've learned here, phags, is that you should take the time to know a person's personality first. If he seems egotistical and boring, you can't expect the sex to be great lol. Talk about what he likes to do in bed...If you don't like the same things, it doesn't matter how hot the bodybuilder looks; you won't enjoy it.

by Anonymousreply 8809/10/2012

I want a lesbian bobby builder female to luck my pussy

by Anonymousreply 8911/12/2012

some more experiences?

by Anonymousreply 9011/30/2012

The guy who was described in R3 - when is his book coming out?

by Anonymousreply 9111/30/2012

Is Lorenzo Lamas as well hung as Daddy Fernando, who Esther Willians wrote had quite the impressive cock?

by Anonymousreply 9211/30/2012

Depends. Just like sex with anybody else.

by Anonymousreply 9311/30/2012

Can you luck my pussy?

by Anonymousreply 9411/30/2012

"The bigger the muscles, the bigger the Mary!"

Always true. But if you're into Mary's then go for it.

by Anonymousreply 9511/30/2012

[quote]Depends. Just like sex with anybody else.

I use Depends just like anybody else!!! Do boydbuilders?

by Anonymousreply 9611/30/2012

My bodybuilder would fill my mouth with creatine farts. I would then "present" them into his mouth while he struck various poses. We would reexchange gases all night.

by Anonymousreply 9711/30/2012

I would worship this guy -

by Anonymousreply 9811/30/2012

They look hot but the really big ones and the powerlifter types look really stiff and inflexable.I always thought Bob Paris was the ultimate stud,his boyfriend/ex-husband had a great body too but his face always looked odd.

by Anonymousreply 9911/30/2012

Well, R98, he's out of prison now, so maybe he'd be up for it.

by Anonymousreply 10011/30/2012

I would love a romp with Frank DeFeo or his bff Powerman Priest. I have dreams about those guys. In love with their own bodies. They have all the negative characteristics mentioned by everyone in this thread. .. Okay by me. I'd give it a try. Especially Frank. .. Anybody else got the hots for them?

by Anonymousreply 10111/30/2012

I posted before, but forgot to say, in my experience at least (just one guy), he was well-endowed, black, orally giving, so what others say about them being terrible is not across the board.

I can't remember for sure, but I think Damon was short. Good looking, though, drove a Porsche (which was too loud and I wished he drove an Acura like everyone else back then) and was sponsored by a semi-famous rapper who lived in our area (this was 20 years ago). He was also reasonably intelligent. I'd never before met a guy who read the nutrition facts on the licorice package at the movie theater.

As it goes, I didn't feel chemistry with him, and beyond enjoying the body as a novelty, I wasn't too attracted. The body was stiff, not cuddly. He always wanted to fuck at the hot tubs, and he never expected me to pay for anything.

It might be true that he had low self-esteem? I'm definitely cute, but not smoking hot. When he hit me up at the gym to hook up again months after we faded, I turned him down. He did expect me to compliment his large TV (was a big deal 20 yrs ago) but I'm not the type to be impressed with toys.

by Anonymousreply 10211/30/2012


by Anonymousreply 10312/01/2012

When offseason, I hitting 280 at 6'2". So, I'm a huge bodybuilder. I do like muscle worship like most bb'ers. But as I am aggressive in the gym, I'm also that way in bed. I am a alpha male top and hardly have bottomed. I've only had to bottom for bigger bodybuilder buds than me.

by Anonymousreply 10408/29/2013

R104 - we need pics.

by Anonymousreply 10508/29/2013

Come back R104. Tell us more. Photo please.

by Anonymousreply 10608/29/2013

Muscle queens bore me stiff. They are not as bad in bed as some are portraying but they are preferable to chubby men.I like a nice toned body but an overly built muscle queen looks exaggerated . In the same way that Nicole Kidman uses too much botox.....

by Anonymousreply 10708/29/2013

I have had sex with two. one would cry at night sometimes, i never found out why.

the other was a raging drunk, the worst I've seen, and would call me in the middle of the night wanting to be gangbanged.

by Anonymousreply 10808/29/2013

When I was 27 I had a fb who was 44 and had been a pro bodybuilder in his teens and 20's. Still had a bb build. He was bi (or so he said) and he loved for both of us (I was built like a brick shithouse back then but no bb) to put on speedos and posing trunks, stand in front of a mirror and flex. then we'd rub cocks, exchange massages and suck. never took the trunks off.. this was a turn on for him... we'd pull our cocks out of the leg opening. Used to tell me stories of how he'd go to bb competitions and would always hook up with another bb or they would be a group shower after a show and they guys would circle jerk. He got married about 10 yrs ago and moved away. Married a female bodybuilder who looks like a man. Go figure.

by Anonymousreply 10908/29/2013

Be prepared to do ALL the work. They're mostly lazy bottoms used to having their muscle holes serviced.

by Anonymousreply 11008/29/2013

Hairloss seems to be a big issue for body builders; maybe something to do with the steroids. I have had a couple who wore hair pieces. One was chill about his rug, but the other was very reluctant to acknowledge he was wearing. Touching his hair was strictly off limits, and he was always uneasy if it was windy or going in the sea in case it would give away his piece. The ironic thing was, it was fairly obvious anyway, because his side hair had receded and left his wig stranded and obvious looking.

by Anonymousreply 11108/29/2013

Anyone else into the muscle mafia porn or muscle Matt? I've never bought one of their videos because they're insanely expensive but I have enjoyed the free stuff on myvidster. Supposedly him and his body builder friends get into cock worship from adoring fans. They never show their faces which can be frustrating but fascinating as well while you wait for a camera slip.

by Anonymousreply 11208/29/2013

If I wanted a whole lot of issues, I'd subscribe to The New Yorker.

by Anonymousreply 11308/29/2013

I dated a bodybuilder for a couple of days, but didn't have sex with him...he wasn't my type. And yes, he was a bottom!

by Anonymousreply 11408/29/2013

[quote]Be prepared to do ALL the work. They're mostly lazy bottoms used to having their muscle holes serviced.

From past experience, you are 100% right.

by Anonymousreply 11508/29/2013

WellI had a long term relationship with one, (two years) and dated a few others. First one was a total bottom, average meat but he was amazing in bed. Loved his ass eaten it made him purr like a kitty. He was very loving and attentive, loved to fall asleep spooning me.

I have yet to be with one who is an asshole. I was wtih one who had a huge cock, was a top, other two were bottoms average sized. Being they work out a lot - they have some really good stamina.

by Anonymousreply 11608/29/2013

Any thoughts on the Mr. Olympia in October?

I think that Jay Cutler might make a good run for it, although Phil Heath has the more angular and shapely body.

Any opinions on Kai Greene? Does anyone here think he'll ever make it past third place? I love the guy, he's been poor his whole life but stays focused and determined. I do think that his hair style might be holding him back--it doesn't flatter him.

by Anonymousreply 11708/29/2013

It's similar to humping a pleather sofa, except the conversation's not as good.

by Anonymousreply 11808/29/2013

some of the Bodybuilders I've fooled around with have actually been kind of smart. but you just couldn't get them started on their workout routines.

by Anonymousreply 11908/29/2013

I know a guy who is a bb and his husband is an amateur BB and they fucking wear board shorts now when they compete.

Board shorts? How unsexy.

by Anonymousreply 12008/29/2013

I'm a bodybuilder. My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student. I work out a lot, so guys need to be patient and also flexible with my intense work out routine. I find that bros who are attracted to me tend to be college age, so they are busy too, so it's cool. Plus, they have the same sexual energy that I do, which is non-stop. Dudes who don't work out very much I tend to find them to be sloppy and have low testosterone. And, their loads are weak.

Young bros appreciate that I work out so much. I have a ton of energy so I like sex a lot. We relate to each other a lot, and I find I have more in common with bros who are 19 than dudes who are 50's. I tend to stay away from anybody who's 40 and older.

by Anonymousreply 12108/29/2013

Man, you and your bros are made for each other, dude at R121.

by Anonymousreply 12208/29/2013

r121 where is this fantasy land where you are 58 and mistaken for a college student?

by Anonymousreply 12308/29/2013

I believe that it is a joke of some sort

by Anonymousreply 12408/29/2013

I guess the only give-a-way must be your testicles hanging out of your board shorts r121

by Anonymousreply 12508/29/2013

I don't get why BB's wear boardshorts now when they compete? Why so shy? I thought the point was to show off as much as possible.

by Anonymousreply 12608/30/2013

[quote]My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student.

By the blind man who begs on the corner.

by Anonymousreply 12708/30/2013

The old muscleservice message boards were an interesting community that was a jarring mix of good nutritional and weight training info, bitchy commentary rivaling DL, updates on the health of famous (to them) bodybuilders and LOTS of porn clips and info on muscle worship. I haven't been on in years so I have no idea if it is still like this now.

by Anonymousreply 12808/30/2013

I believe the story from r121 was a parody.

by Anonymousreply 12908/30/2013

Black muscle god Samson Biggs is the 8th wonder of the world.

by Anonymousreply 13008/30/2013

Has the concept of sarcasm completely fled Datalounge? R121's post wasn't even subtle.

by Anonymousreply 13108/30/2013

Wow r130

by Anonymousreply 13208/30/2013


by Anonymousreply 13308/31/2013

R121 is mistaken for a student of the Electoral College.

by Anonymousreply 13408/31/2013

What a coincidence! I too am a 63-year-old bodybuilder who's constantly mistaken for a college student!

by Anonymousreply 13508/31/2013

SamsonBiggs is type of dude I seek.

by Anonymousreply 13608/31/2013

[quote]I'm a bodybuilder. My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student....I find that bros who are attracted to me tend to be college age... I find I have more in common with bros who are 19 than dudes who are 50's. I tend to stay away from anybody who's 40 and older.

Please tell us this a Tom Bianchi satire.

by Anonymousreply 13709/01/2013

"My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student."

That's hilarious, bro.

by Anonymousreply 13809/28/2013

I've had several encounters with a very sweet bodybuilder. He has a strong and a very nelly side. Extremely sensual - loves touch, great masseur, loves nasty talk, cum, but roids have shrunk his junk, and he's a total bottom.

by Anonymousreply 13909/28/2013

This is my hottie. Gay stage name is Nick Steel.

by Anonymousreply 14009/28/2013

R140 wonderful

by Anonymousreply 14109/28/2013

I got fucked for hours by a body builder while on a biz trip to Las Vegas. I had to change my flight and stay in bed the next day to recover. Best sex ever.

by Anonymousreply 14209/28/2013

[quote]roids have shrunk his junk,


by Anonymousreply 14309/28/2013

They like to milk loads with their power glutes.

by Anonymousreply 14409/28/2013


by Anonymousreply 14510/01/2013

r142 where did you meet?

by Anonymousreply 14610/02/2013

Jeff Stryker and Lorenzo Lamas are muscular, but not "body builders".

by Anonymousreply 14710/03/2013

They're nice to look at and they have great munchable asses, but they're not much more than that.

by Anonymousreply 14810/03/2013

Are any of the well know pros known to be gay/bi?

by Anonymousreply 14910/03/2013

Arnold Schwartzenegger was a body builder, what does that tell you?

by Anonymousreply 15010/03/2013

I'm right there with R140. He clearly abuses steroids, but Nick Steel/TJ Cummings is pretty damn hot. He was pretty twinky when he did gay porn in the late 90s, but now he's an aggressive muscle stud who does straight porn.

Oh, and he's also one those annoying assholes who tweets a thousand times a day.

by Anonymousreply 15110/04/2013


by Anonymousreply 15211/16/2013

I had sex with one and it was great.

He was very attentive. Very sensual. Everything about it was so erotic, even the way his big, fumbling hands slid off my manties before he took my penis in his mouth.

by Anonymousreply 15311/16/2013

I fantasize about getting my juicy on with Zeb Atlas. His face and body are so masculine looking. Is he for rent?

by Anonymousreply 15411/16/2013

500 a pop (r154)

by Anonymousreply 15511/16/2013

Wow, that's a lot, r155. Do you know what his limits are? Is he strictly stand and pose, or can you suck him off? I heard he's straight, so I'm guessing fucking is out of the question.

by Anonymousreply 15611/16/2013

Full service. But he won't bottom.

by Anonymousreply 15711/16/2013

Anyone who spends so much of their life doing a rather pointless repetitive task merely to achieve a rather unnatural and temporary look has got to be incredibly boring by definition.

by Anonymousreply 15811/16/2013

Well, r158, a lot of these guys make money escorting on the side, so I wouldn't exactly call it pointless.

by Anonymousreply 15911/16/2013


by Anonymousreply 16011/30/2013

My experience was pretty typical. He had a small dick and was a total bottom. I'm fine with both of those, but unfortunately he was a wet noodle in bed, which I wasn't fine with. All he wanted was his "pussy" worshiped.

by Anonymousreply 16111/30/2013

Small penii.



by Anonymousreply 16211/30/2013

who are the hottest bodybuilders now?

by Anonymousreply 16312/01/2013


by Anonymousreply 16412/23/2013

Even if the balls are shrunk, the muscles are hot.

by Anonymousreply 16512/23/2013

They're mostly like free-range plucked chickens on steroids -- checking their iPhones.

by Anonymousreply 16612/23/2013

One of my hookups is built like a body builder but isn't one, he has a huge 8 plus inch cock that is super thick but is a bottom. I don't get why someone who is hung would be just a bottom, but I appreciate seeing his cock dangle nonetheless.

by Anonymousreply 16712/23/2013

Yeah, great to see this conversation. I'm a former bodybuilder but still in pretty good shape at 6'2" and 250lb. I used to be a freak bodybuilder at 280lbs, 22 bis, 53.5 chest, 33 waist, and 31 quads. I like the pride I take in my body and the sex I get from it. Need it three times a day - before gym, after gym, and before sleep. Bodybuilding is now a social event for me and it complements my life. I used to be an alpha male but have mellowed out.

by Anonymousreply 16801/22/2014

was it fun to bag guys at the gym? just curious?

by Anonymousreply 16901/22/2014

You left out one measurement R168.

by Anonymousreply 17001/24/2014

I'm sure that he's well hung, no?

by Anonymousreply 17101/24/2014

Most of the really hung guys at my gym are the lanky, vascular types with natural V-shaped torsos. There are some bodybuilders, but most of them have average to small dicks. There was one bodybuilder showering last night. Huge muscles and hair in all the right places. He was probably off-season, so was just growing his hair out. His dick was totally average. Does nothing for me.

by Anonymousreply 17201/24/2014

average dicks are fine with me

by Anonymousreply 17301/24/2014

Too Narcissistic. All they do is lay there and expect to be worshiped. I no longer go for the beef cakes, just the athletic build.

by Anonymousreply 17408/29/2014

Read the whole thread , and I 100% have to agree.

Surprised no one has said it yet...the reason why guys work on their bodies like this is usually because they:

1. are short

2. are ugly

3. are not hung

My first REAL BF was a bodybuilder. It was a huge disappointment for me since I as I was a virgin and wanted more than what I got. Not to mention that most bodybuilders are not attentive lovers, and are often VERY narcissistic. In general, they are very arrogant even if they are nice guys. Tip: If you want to sleep with a bodybuilder, the easiest way to make it happen is endlessly complementing their bodies. Even while phucking. They light up when you tell them how they look like Roman statues or how you don't understand how they can find clothes that fit.

Picked up a gorgeous one at a bar in Denver back in the '90s. Got him in bed and all he wanted to do was roll around (i.e. picking me up and rolling under me, over me, etc.). Plus, he kept asking me to say "I love you". I must have said it 1000 times before the big dumb phuck busted his nut, not sure I ever did. He left his wallet in my room - I had to call him and he had to come back and get it. That's the last thing you want from a bad one night stand, to actually have to SEE them again. Ugh all the way around. I have since lost my interest in that type after my experiences. They were both too into themselves, very vain and self-involved, and very bad lovers, not to mention boring, I'd never before met a guy who read the nutrition facts on the licorice package at the movie theater, LOL what a loser. If there had been anything more to him personality-wise, it might not have mattered, but there wasn't. I now prefer skinny/athletic guys.

by Anonymousreply 17508/31/2014

[quote]All they do is lay there

Oh, dear.

by Anonymousreply 17608/31/2014

I once had sex with a non competitive bodybuilder who was huge like a house.

I am a rather thin guy who you would think would not be attractive for a bodybuilder, however, it was him who gave me the signal that he wanted me. I walked after him, went to his appartment and then he did his thing. He made great use of his physical capabilities due to him being a bodybuilder. He was hung because he is mixed racially (partly black). He is really handsome.

Despite him being so big he never tried to entince me with his muscles or looked for any ego reaffirmation from me. He was kind all the time and very humble about his muscles even though I was fascinated by the size of them :P

by Anonymousreply 17710/15/2014


by Anonymousreply 17810/16/2014

I have heard that regularly bodybuilders are horny as hell all year round, however, when they compete, their sex drive lowers drastically.

That's why when you see them compete almost 99% of them sport no boner considering the sexiness of the activity on a stage :P

by Anonymousreply 17910/26/2014

Sounds like a wife's tale

by Anonymousreply 18010/26/2014


by Anonymousreply 18110/26/2014

Let alone the fact that steroids cause testicular shrinkage for the period they are on them.

by Anonymousreply 18210/26/2014


by Anonymousreply 18310/27/2014

yes because they are all bottoms

by Anonymousreply 18410/27/2014

I have been with bodybuilders who are top.

by Anonymousreply 18510/29/2014

Middle Eastern bodybuilders top most of the time. It is less stigmatized of a role than passive is. Of course, all in the secrecy and privacy od a bedroom where no one else can see.

by Anonymousreply 18611/09/2014

What kind of guys are you guys who managed to attract bodybuilders? I live in England and the muscled men are only into the other muscled men.

by Anonymousreply 18711/09/2014

Doctor Lawson

by Anonymousreply 18811/09/2014

What's the percentage that DON'T do steroids though? 10%?

Steroids can really fuck you up. That alone is a turn off.

by Anonymousreply 18911/09/2014

Not all bodybuilders love bodybuilders. I am a thin guy, I think I am 6lbs below my ideal bodyweight yet I once had sex with a bodybuilder whose weight was almost twice mine.

I didn't approach him, there was a quick eye contact but it was him who then gave me the sign that he wanted me.

Different people have different tastes.

Perhaps the difficult part of all this is the chance coming to you that you can bump into a bodybuilder. In my case, I was sitting in a seat in the park and he passed by in front of me.

Fortunately, he was very kind amd humble and not arrogant as many of them are. He was even shy to flex his muscles even though I was expressing explicitly my satisfaction with his body type to him ever since I have a fascination with muscularity.

by Anonymousreply 19011/09/2014

It is rare for bodybuilders not to only be interested in other bodybuilders or fitness model type. It is a lifestyle and it helps to partner with someone who understands it. Also, bodybuilders tend to think the physiques of non-bodybuilders or fitness model types are inferior. They aren't building their bodies up like that because they think such physiques are unattractive. They tend to find muscled physiques attractive and alluring.

by Anonymousreply 19111/10/2014

It all depends on the person. There are bodybuilders who prefer other bodybuilders or people with muscular bodies in general and there are those who don't need a specific body type to feel sexually interested in someone. Just look at how many heterosexual bodybuilders have relatively fat girlfriends/wives.

There are more attractive characteristics in a person's body than having big muscles.

Their intimidating appearance though makes them unapproachable if you look skinny so you have to wait until one of them approaches you...

by Anonymousreply 19211/10/2014

Would you say there are more homosexual and bisexual bodybuilders than most people think?

by Anonymousreply 19311/23/2014

Wow dude

by Anonymousreply 19411/26/2014

If you have sex with a bodybuilder while in competition condition you might not get a rough night because their sex drive lowers dramatically so you need to wait until he eats properly to get his sex drive back.

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by Anonymousreply 19712/29/2014

Bodybuilders like to have their pecs mauled and nipples sucked.

by Anonymousreply 19812/31/2014

"Their intimidating appearance though makes them unapproachable if you look skinny so you have to wait until one of them approaches you..."

Very true R[192}!

Years ago, early 80s, I worked at a gay-owned/operated/frequented diner in Long Beach, CA. That's where a customer, a HOT 40s gym-rat musclehead visiting from NYC, hit on me. We went back to my place. Turned out he was a total bottom who liked nothing more than to lay back and get fucked for hours.

Here I was, this 23-year-old tall, gangly/skinny guy with (at the time) bad skin and very little confidence—I was a late bloomer who came into his own around 30—hooking up with a bodybuilder. I was beside myself; it was a first for me.

We stayed in touch. Shortly after that I hooked up with him again when I was visiting NYC. He lived on Cornelia Street. And there were a few times when he came back to LA and he'd call me. Driving up from podunk-central Long Beach to his friend's glamourous house somewhere in the Hollywood Hills. It was all very sexually-based and I knew that from the start.

I would ask myself, what does he see in me? Truth be told, he was a whore. And I was too. It devolved into me hooking up with him at the baths in LA a few times, where later on his door would be shut for extended periods of time. Lost touch with him eventually. Sure was fun at the time though.

by Anonymousreply 19912/31/2014

If anybody has the chance to sleep with a bodybuilder, don't put too much effort in your hairstyle, he will destroy it in one second.

Personal experience :P

by Anonymousreply 20012/31/2014


by Anonymousreply 20112/31/2014

Your hairstyle doesn't matter R200 when you can have sex with something like this.

by Anonymousreply 20201/03/2015

Who dis?

by Anonymousreply 20301/05/2015


by Anonymousreply 20403/06/2015

I need to find this dude.

by Anonymousreply 20503/07/2015

Looks like James Alexander-Ellis

by Anonymousreply 20603/07/2015

Great find, r206. JAE has the body of dreams. Unreal

by Anonymousreply 20703/07/2015


by Anonymousreply 20803/10/2015

Hotness bro

by Anonymousreply 20909/09/2015

Hugo Knox

by Anonymousreply 21001/28/2016

I was surprised how many of them are bottoms. My ex was a competitive bodybuilder and was a major bottom as were most of this bodybuilding friends.

by Anonymousreply 21101/28/2016

The only true one i've ever fucked around with was a btm too. Sweet but very insecure so the body building made sense for him. Problem was he was just pretty awful in bed. Just laid there taking it no passion no emotion to it etc. Barely made a peep no matter how hard you gave it to him. It quickly got boring and were better off as friends for a while. It was just really boring sex.

by Anonymousreply 21201/28/2016

I visited San Francisco once and hooked up with this very very muscular Asian guy Gregg. While we were lying in bed chatting he took off his shirt and I was totally turned off by how hard his chest felt; it felt unnatural. Obviously he spends a lot of time at the gym but he lacked personality and just sat there thinking I was going to do all the work, so I just left -- wasn't feeling it at all.

by Anonymousreply 21301/28/2016

Blech @ the guy in R204's pic.

by Anonymousreply 21401/28/2016

Uh okay dude

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by Anonymousreply 21607/28/2016

Asian Gregg in San Francisco had a great body but seriously nothing upstairs. Admittedly OCD he also came to understand that because nearly all of his free time was spent in the gym, he didn't know how to socialize and had very few friends. Sex with his was boring and lacked passion (which made me wonder if he was ever a rent-man at some point before).

by Anonymousreply 21707/28/2016

My friend just told me that his new boyfriend of 3 weeks can't have sex unless he's using poppers. I think he was looking for advise but I didn't know what to say. Are poppers addicting?

by Anonymousreply 21807/31/2016

Y'all need to hang with better, healthier people. Dysfunction

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by Anonymousreply 22109/04/2017

Been with a few bodybuilders that act like rabid animals if they don't have sex five times a day.

Only two bbers had big cocks - one white and one black guy. Both guys were tall. Both 8.5-9. Acted like animals and I loved the aggression. Both of these were guys that had been former dickdancers.

Others had small cocks and just weren't interactive.

by Anonymousreply 222Last Monday at 11:16 AM

Really, they needed to fuck 5 times a day?

Do steroids or high testosterone actually make them so intensely horny?

by Anonymousreply 223Last Monday at 11:21 AM

Like R22's experience, most I've encountered have small dicks. They're overcompensating for something, and it's usually that. I dated one bodybuilder for a month, but he kept avoiding sex. He said he was looking for something substantive and didn't want to rush into sex. I respected that. When we finally got to it, it took forever for him to take his underwear off. When he did, I saw why. I'm not a size queen, but this guy had a REALLY small penis, maybe three inches hard. I felt so bad for him because he saw the look on my face when he did the reveal. He actually cried.

The bodybuilders with big dicks usually turned out to be big, arrogant assholes. Nice muscles, nice dick, but please keep the douchebaggery to a minimum. They were usually lousy lays, too.

by Anonymousreply 224Last Monday at 11:48 AM

Agree with r2. 100 percent bottoms, with really deep cracks and impossibly located prostates. I'm a bottom, too, but fist topped for a couple and they liked handballing all the way up to the second sphincter. One of them had a fistula and it was gross because it was like I was stirring up his insides.

by Anonymousreply 225Last Monday at 12:02 PM

R224 I have a weakness for dudebros who can help me enact my queerbashing and findom fantasies. Bottom in his late 40s here. Love being physically and verbally degraded by unwashed jocks.

by Anonymousreply 226Last Monday at 12:12 PM

Not my case. The one I was with was a complete top. During oral sex I tried to finger him in the ass and flex his glutes really hard not to let my finger in. I'm a bottom and my tinky physical appearance at the time perhaps made it easier for top guys to guess my role so I attracted a specific subset of men...

He was a horny muscle man I could see his penis getting even harder, something I have not observed in average men, although I never heard of bodybulders having sex like 5 times a day. That's a lot and then they would run of of semen...

by Anonymousreply 227Last Monday at 3:36 PM
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