What is it like?
Do they just lie there and expect you to do all the work?
What is it like?
Do they just lie there and expect you to do all the work?
|by Anonymous||reply 219||08/01/2016|
I've never dated a bodybuilder. Because of their lack of confidence, they tend to only date fugly guys, it helps to boost their ego.
So that counts me out.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||01/08/2012|
Get a load of R3.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||01/08/2012|
I've had a lot of experience with bodybuilders. I'll agree with r6 that most bodybuilders are not attentive lovers. In general, they are very arrogant even if they are nice guys. If you want to sleep with a bodybuilder, the easiest way to make it happen is endlessly complementing their bodies. Even while fucking. They light up when you tell them how they look like Roman statues or how you don't understand how they can find clothes that fit.
In my experience, most are not bottoms. I'm top/vers usually, and out of around 20 muscleheads, I've only topped 3.
Of the guys I've been with, dick sizes span below average to slightly above average. None of them have had huge endowments, some have had smaller than average, but most were just adequate. I would not get with a bodybuilder with the expectation that he was hugely endowed. If you are like me, though, it doesn't really matter. I'm more into face and body than dick.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||01/08/2012|
I dated a bodybuilder 2 times, but didn't have sex with him. No chemistry with him whatsoever, plus he called 20 times on my caller ID.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||01/08/2012|
I've been with a couple of professionals, and I have since lost my interest in that type after my experiences. They were both too into themselves, very vain and self-involved, and very bad lovers. One of them had trouble cumming, had this problem for years, said it was a real nightmare for him, thought I could be the one who could make it happen. He kept his dick up for hours, but no cum. He said he did it when he jerked off, but never in front of another man. He was into sucking me off big time, but nothing spectacular to offer in that front. If there anything more to him personality-wise, it might not have mattered.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||01/08/2012|
R15 just proved the point most all the posters in this thread are making.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||01/08/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 18||01/08/2012|
It depends if we're talking about actual competiton-level bodybuilders or just guys who muscle up a lot at the nearby gym. If competition-level, then ugh, it's like R15 said.
But in either case I have found the following tendencies:
- Amazing bodies to feel and explore
- Some flatulence issues due to their huge caloric/protein intakes
- Many are lazy/narcissist/inert sexually as R6 and others complain... but the ones who have tapped into their erotic/sex-partner potential can be interesting and hot. Especially re: kink. Extreme weight training requires intimate knowledge of pain and discomfort... BBers have the potential to make excellent BDSM bottoms (or tops if they have that energy)
|by Anonymous||reply 19||01/08/2012|
Many bodybuilders are narcissists and exhibitionists. Their idea of hot sex is for them to stand still or make a pose while the other guys worship their muscles.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||01/10/2012|
And they have extra tight ass muscles.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||01/10/2012|
It's less fun than you'd think. There bodies are hard like statues and they are more fun if you're a muscle worshipper than if you are anyone else and want to cuddle as well as fuck them/be fucked by them.
They do tend to expect you to do all the work.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||01/10/2012|
Indeed. I prefer a bit of chunk on my hunk as it has more give when at play. Total BBers are beautiful but too hard (and vain)
|by Anonymous||reply 24||01/10/2012|
r23 brings up a great point - some of them are so thick and solid that they are not flexible in bed at all. It's like trying to roll a huge boulder over.
The bodybuilders I have been with were not at all exciting in bed.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||01/10/2012|
OMG, r15 - you have proved everyone's negative experience with narcissists like you. Too funny!!! Unless that is supposed to be a mock post.
I met most of my bodybuilders off CL. Had a huge fetish for them. After three or four experiences, they all proved they were duds in the bed. It soon cured me of my fetish, and I started to appreciate the more leaner male form.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||01/10/2012|
Had sex with a bodybuilder in Boston and the sex was awful but we got along great otherwise. Really fun and nice guy but total bore in the kip.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||01/10/2012|
[quote]So what? You think you're the only guy people want to suck off? I'm a power lifter, have a really big build and plenty of strength to go with it, plenty of guys are turned on by that and want to blow me, want me to fuck them, be their daddy, etc.
I'm glad our bodybuilders are working so hard to disprove their stereotype as obnoxiously narcissistic.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||01/10/2012|
"You would be absolutely shocked and appalled at how forward and aggressive guys were about wanting to suck me off just because I was built."
|by Anonymous||reply 32||01/10/2012|
I am shocked and appalled!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 33||01/10/2012|
Does sex with powerlifters count? Beefier but just as much narcissism.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||01/10/2012|
I can't stand that 2% body fat look. Along with the fake tan. This is my ideal body. It' perfection to me. SFW
|by Anonymous||reply 36||01/10/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 37||01/10/2012|
R3 need to be slapped [italic] QUITE [/italic] viciously.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||01/10/2012|
You queens need to give hotgymnast.com a looksy. That guy brings ont he crazy.
|by Anonymous||reply 39||01/10/2012|
Picked up a gorgeous one at a bar in Baltimore back in the '90s. Got him in bed and all he wanted to do was roll around (i.e. picking me up and rolling under me, over me, etc.). Plus, he kept asking me to say "I love you". I must have said it 1000 times before the big dumb fuck busted his nut, not sure I ever did. He left his wallet in my room - I had to call him and he had to come back and get it. That's the last thing you want from a bad one night stand, to actually have to SEE them again. Ugh all the way around.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||01/10/2012|
don't know about farting. but ... bad breath. not too big of a deal since exploring parts other than his mouth was fun
|by Anonymous||reply 41||01/10/2012|
Scaredy cats. Always ran away
|by Anonymous||reply 42||01/10/2012|
Oh come on R43. If you haven't noticed that big guys with muscles get a lot of attention in the gay world, you haven't been paying attention.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||01/10/2012|
Great tits on the guy in R13's pic
|by Anonymous||reply 45||01/10/2012|
It has become evident that some of you do not understand what is expected of you on this forum. Please view the message at the link and adjust your behavior accordingly.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||01/10/2012|
I've slept with lots of them, and almost every one was a nutcase.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||01/10/2012|
Have sex with one every time I'm on the West Coast. He's hot as hell, has done a fair amount of porn, has an ass to die for (and he loves me to eat it), cock and balls are small due steroids, but he's sexy as hell, gives great massages and loves my cock and balls.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||01/10/2012|
R38/R39 = roid snorter from her pinky nail, wearing WWF caftan.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||01/10/2012|
[quote]cock and balls are small due steroids,
Not true. Cock does not shrink from steroids. What else did you make up in your post?
|by Anonymous||reply 50||01/10/2012|
In my experience, bodybuilders are just as diverse as the general populace. Some make great lovers, others are not so good. I don't think I can generalize about them.
For me, some of them have been wonderful. Others not. Just like with everyone else.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||01/10/2012|
r51 is obviously a deranged troll. Fuck off r51 .
|by Anonymous||reply 52||01/10/2012|
I'm not sure what R43 is trying to sell us but I'm not buying that he even knows what word narcissism means. I'm pretty sure he needs to get laid though.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||01/10/2012|
Oh shut the fuck up, r46.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||01/10/2012|
[quote]I'm not buying that he even knows what word narcissism means.
Oh, you don't know yourself what it means, do you honey?
Oh poor dear--how lost and frightened you must be here!
|by Anonymous||reply 55||01/10/2012|
He has a pair of L'Eggs tied around his dick!
|by Anonymous||reply 57||01/10/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 58||01/11/2012|
Surprised no one has said it...the reason guys work on their bodies like this is usually because they:
1. are short
2. are ugly
3. are not hung
|by Anonymous||reply 60||01/11/2012|
Pics please of said sex acts
|by Anonymous||reply 61||01/11/2012|
As a pocket gay, I've been lucky to date big and short BBs. They seem to like having a little guy ride them. A few let me top them. great fun. one guy let me plow him doggie style while he crawled around on all fours. It was like an X-rated carnival ride.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||01/11/2012|
I briefly dated a semi-professional bodybuilder years ago (he's still in the biz now), and he was pretty good in bed. Attentive. He was a cranky bitch when starving himself before competitions though.
|by Anonymous||reply 63||01/11/2012|
Did yOu slap him?
|by Anonymous||reply 64||01/11/2012|
Bodybuilders fuck like champs, unless they bottom
|by Anonymous||reply 65||01/12/2012|
More about big boys
|by Anonymous||reply 67||01/13/2012|
Gross, generally. If they're like this guy, sensibilities aside, sure. I've rarely seen guys this buff with big penises, to boot.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||01/13/2012|
usually good bottoms. they can hold positions longer (cowboy etc.).
|by Anonymous||reply 69||01/13/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 70||02/11/2012|
I haven´t fucked a bodybuilder, but i really would like to. There are many reasons, i have already read in the posts:
a) they can hold positions longer b) big tight muscle ass c) hot phantasie to top a stronger and bigger Muscleguy
tell me more about your experience with bodybuilder bottoms.
PS: i hope we all speak about the same, meaning what a bodybuilder looks like..;-)
Are more of them smaller guys or bigger? How did you contact them or what will help to find out, they like to be bottom or that they are straight/gay?
|by Anonymous||reply 71||05/25/2012|
I would love to have sex with a bodybuilder.I would encorage all the time to vet bigger.I love seeing them flexing on stage. If I get to date one I would go to all his shows. I love huve muscle men.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||07/16/2012|
If a bodybuilder see my posting let me know #65 here
|by Anonymous||reply 73||07/16/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 74||07/16/2012|
i want to be fucked by 2 bodybuilders at once!
|by Anonymous||reply 75||07/16/2012|
Well, SMELL Miss R9!
[bold] M.A.R.Y. [/bold]
|by Anonymous||reply 76||07/16/2012|
I hope a bodbuilder respond to me. I would like to have a good time. Mark
|by Anonymous||reply 77||07/18/2012|
Dated one for a few months. Fun to be seen in public with. He was always online trolling for encounters which he insisted went nowhere - but he had a CONSTANT need for adoration and approval. He had MAJOR daddy issues. Dick was average (on such a big build, it just looked small). He LOVED to have his ass played with and craved prostate stimulation.
|by Anonymous||reply 79||07/18/2012|
Is the sex good with a bodybuilder? Or, better than average?
|by Anonymous||reply 80||07/18/2012|
r56 I wonder if that cock would paralyze a person, from being raped with it?
|by Anonymous||reply 81||07/18/2012|
Body builders tend to be gassy and poor wipers. Good thing most of them are prissy enough to shave their cracks.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||07/18/2012|
R79 - I think you described my "boyfriend?" to a T.
|by Anonymous||reply 83||07/19/2012|
But i still think they have the best asses to be used
|by Anonymous||reply 85||08/01/2012|
Bump for all you whores that sucked off the bodybuilders love ya.
|by Anonymous||reply 86||08/03/2012|
Anyone made a experience with bodybuilder escorts? mostly they are straight acting and have, so i think, thight holes and also hard butts ;-)
|by Anonymous||reply 87||09/10/2012|
What we've learned here, phags, is that you should take the time to know a person's personality first. If he seems egotistical and boring, you can't expect the sex to be great lol. Talk about what he likes to do in bed...If you don't like the same things, it doesn't matter how hot the bodybuilder looks; you won't enjoy it.
|by Anonymous||reply 88||09/10/2012|
I want a lesbian bobby builder female to luck my pussy
|by Anonymous||reply 89||11/12/2012|
some more experiences?
|by Anonymous||reply 90||11/30/2012|
The guy who was described in R3 - when is his book coming out?
|by Anonymous||reply 91||11/30/2012|
Is Lorenzo Lamas as well hung as Daddy Fernando, who Esther Willians wrote had quite the impressive cock?
|by Anonymous||reply 92||11/30/2012|
Depends. Just like sex with anybody else.
|by Anonymous||reply 93||11/30/2012|
Can you luck my pussy?
|by Anonymous||reply 94||11/30/2012|
"The bigger the muscles, the bigger the Mary!"
Always true. But if you're into Mary's then go for it.
|by Anonymous||reply 95||11/30/2012|
[quote]Depends. Just like sex with anybody else.
I use Depends just like anybody else!!! Do boydbuilders?
|by Anonymous||reply 96||11/30/2012|
My bodybuilder would fill my mouth with creatine farts. I would then "present" them into his mouth while he struck various poses. We would reexchange gases all night.
|by Anonymous||reply 97||11/30/2012|
I would worship this guy -
|by Anonymous||reply 98||11/30/2012|
They look hot but the really big ones and the powerlifter types look really stiff and inflexable.I always thought Bob Paris was the ultimate stud,his boyfriend/ex-husband had a great body too but his face always looked odd.
|by Anonymous||reply 99||11/30/2012|
Well, R98, he's out of prison now, so maybe he'd be up for it.
|by Anonymous||reply 100||11/30/2012|
I would love a romp with Frank DeFeo or his bff Powerman Priest. I have dreams about those guys. In love with their own bodies. They have all the negative characteristics mentioned by everyone in this thread. .. Okay by me. I'd give it a try. Especially Frank. .. Anybody else got the hots for them?
|by Anonymous||reply 101||12/01/2012|
I posted before, but forgot to say, in my experience at least (just one guy), he was well-endowed, black, orally giving, so what others say about them being terrible is not across the board.
I can't remember for sure, but I think Damon was short. Good looking, though, drove a Porsche (which was too loud and I wished he drove an Acura like everyone else back then) and was sponsored by a semi-famous rapper who lived in our area (this was 20 years ago). He was also reasonably intelligent. I'd never before met a guy who read the nutrition facts on the licorice package at the movie theater.
As it goes, I didn't feel chemistry with him, and beyond enjoying the body as a novelty, I wasn't too attracted. The body was stiff, not cuddly. He always wanted to fuck at the hot tubs, and he never expected me to pay for anything.
It might be true that he had low self-esteem? I'm definitely cute, but not smoking hot. When he hit me up at the gym to hook up again months after we faded, I turned him down. He did expect me to compliment his large TV (was a big deal 20 yrs ago) but I'm not the type to be impressed with toys.
|by Anonymous||reply 102||12/01/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 103||12/01/2012|
R104 - we need pics.
|by Anonymous||reply 105||08/29/2013|
Come back R104. Tell us more. Photo please.
|by Anonymous||reply 106||08/29/2013|
Muscle queens bore me stiff. They are not as bad in bed as some are portraying but they are preferable to chubby men.I like a nice toned body but an overly built muscle queen looks exaggerated . In the same way that Nicole Kidman uses too much botox.....
|by Anonymous||reply 107||08/29/2013|
I have had sex with two. one would cry at night sometimes, i never found out why.
the other was a raging drunk, the worst I've seen, and would call me in the middle of the night wanting to be gangbanged.
|by Anonymous||reply 108||08/29/2013|
When I was 27 I had a fb who was 44 and had been a pro bodybuilder in his teens and 20's. Still had a bb build. He was bi (or so he said) and he loved for both of us (I was built like a brick shithouse back then but no bb) to put on speedos and posing trunks, stand in front of a mirror and flex. then we'd rub cocks, exchange massages and suck. never took the trunks off.. this was a turn on for him... we'd pull our cocks out of the leg opening. Used to tell me stories of how he'd go to bb competitions and would always hook up with another bb or they would be a group shower after a show and they guys would circle jerk. He got married about 10 yrs ago and moved away. Married a female bodybuilder who looks like a man. Go figure.
|by Anonymous||reply 109||08/29/2013|
Be prepared to do ALL the work. They're mostly lazy bottoms used to having their muscle holes serviced.
|by Anonymous||reply 110||08/29/2013|
Hairloss seems to be a big issue for body builders; maybe something to do with the steroids. I have had a couple who wore hair pieces. One was chill about his rug, but the other was very reluctant to acknowledge he was wearing. Touching his hair was strictly off limits, and he was always uneasy if it was windy or going in the sea in case it would give away his piece. The ironic thing was, it was fairly obvious anyway, because his side hair had receded and left his wig stranded and obvious looking.
|by Anonymous||reply 111||08/29/2013|
Anyone else into the muscle mafia porn or muscle Matt? I've never bought one of their videos because they're insanely expensive but I have enjoyed the free stuff on myvidster. Supposedly him and his body builder friends get into cock worship from adoring fans. They never show their faces which can be frustrating but fascinating as well while you wait for a camera slip.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||08/29/2013|
If I wanted a whole lot of issues, I'd subscribe to The New Yorker.
|by Anonymous||reply 113||08/29/2013|
I dated a bodybuilder for a couple of days, but didn't have sex with him...he wasn't my type. And yes, he was a bottom!
|by Anonymous||reply 114||08/29/2013|
[quote]Be prepared to do ALL the work. They're mostly lazy bottoms used to having their muscle holes serviced.
From past experience, you are 100% right.
|by Anonymous||reply 115||08/29/2013|
WellI had a long term relationship with one, (two years) and dated a few others. First one was a total bottom, average meat but he was amazing in bed. Loved his ass eaten it made him purr like a kitty. He was very loving and attentive, loved to fall asleep spooning me.
I have yet to be with one who is an asshole. I was wtih one who had a huge cock, was a top, other two were bottoms average sized. Being they work out a lot - they have some really good stamina.
|by Anonymous||reply 116||08/29/2013|
Any thoughts on the Mr. Olympia in October?
I think that Jay Cutler might make a good run for it, although Phil Heath has the more angular and shapely body.
Any opinions on Kai Greene? Does anyone here think he'll ever make it past third place? I love the guy, he's been poor his whole life but stays focused and determined. I do think that his hair style might be holding him back--it doesn't flatter him.
|by Anonymous||reply 117||08/29/2013|
It's similar to humping a pleather sofa, except the conversation's not as good.
|by Anonymous||reply 118||08/29/2013|
some of the Bodybuilders I've fooled around with have actually been kind of smart. but you just couldn't get them started on their workout routines.
|by Anonymous||reply 119||08/29/2013|
I know a guy who is a bb and his husband is an amateur BB and they fucking wear board shorts now when they compete.
Board shorts? How unsexy.
|by Anonymous||reply 120||08/29/2013|
Man, you and your bros are made for each other, dude at R121.
|by Anonymous||reply 122||08/29/2013|
r121 where is this fantasy land where you are 58 and mistaken for a college student?
|by Anonymous||reply 123||08/29/2013|
I believe that it is a joke of some sort
|by Anonymous||reply 124||08/29/2013|
I guess the only give-a-way must be your testicles hanging out of your board shorts r121
|by Anonymous||reply 125||08/29/2013|
I don't get why BB's wear boardshorts now when they compete? Why so shy? I thought the point was to show off as much as possible.
|by Anonymous||reply 126||08/30/2013|
[quote]My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student.
By the blind man who begs on the corner.
|by Anonymous||reply 127||08/30/2013|
The old muscleservice message boards were an interesting community that was a jarring mix of good nutritional and weight training info, bitchy commentary rivaling DL, updates on the health of famous (to them) bodybuilders and LOTS of porn clips and info on muscle worship. I haven't been on in years so I have no idea if it is still like this now.
|by Anonymous||reply 128||08/30/2013|
I believe the story from r121 was a parody.
|by Anonymous||reply 129||08/30/2013|
Has the concept of sarcasm completely fled Datalounge? R121's post wasn't even subtle.
|by Anonymous||reply 131||08/30/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 132||08/30/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 133||09/01/2013|
R121 is mistaken for a student of the Electoral College.
|by Anonymous||reply 134||09/01/2013|
[quote]I'm a bodybuilder. My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student....I find that bros who are attracted to me tend to be college age... I find I have more in common with bros who are 19 than dudes who are 50's. I tend to stay away from anybody who's 40 and older.
Please tell us this a Tom Bianchi satire.
|by Anonymous||reply 137||09/01/2013|
"My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student."
That's hilarious, bro.
|by Anonymous||reply 138||09/28/2013|
I've had several encounters with a very sweet bodybuilder. He has a strong and a very nelly side. Extremely sensual - loves touch, great masseur, loves nasty talk, cum, but roids have shrunk his junk, and he's a total bottom.
|by Anonymous||reply 139||09/28/2013|
This is my hottie. Gay stage name is Nick Steel.
|by Anonymous||reply 140||09/28/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 141||09/28/2013|
I got fucked for hours by a body builder while on a biz trip to Las Vegas. I had to change my flight and stay in bed the next day to recover. Best sex ever.
|by Anonymous||reply 142||09/28/2013|
[quote]roids have shrunk his junk,
|by Anonymous||reply 143||09/28/2013|
They like to milk loads with their power glutes.
|by Anonymous||reply 144||09/28/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 145||10/01/2013|
r142 where did you meet?
|by Anonymous||reply 146||10/02/2013|
Jeff Stryker and Lorenzo Lamas are muscular, but not "body builders".
|by Anonymous||reply 147||10/04/2013|
They're nice to look at and they have great munchable asses, but they're not much more than that.
|by Anonymous||reply 148||10/04/2013|
Are any of the well know pros known to be gay/bi?
|by Anonymous||reply 149||10/04/2013|
Arnold Schwartzenegger was a body builder, what does that tell you?
|by Anonymous||reply 150||10/04/2013|
I'm right there with R140. He clearly abuses steroids, but Nick Steel/TJ Cummings is pretty damn hot. He was pretty twinky when he did gay porn in the late 90s, but now he's an aggressive muscle stud who does straight porn.
Oh, and he's also one those annoying assholes who tweets a thousand times a day.
|by Anonymous||reply 151||10/04/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 152||11/16/2013|
I had sex with one and it was great.
He was very attentive. Very sensual. Everything about it was so erotic, even the way his big, fumbling hands slid off my manties before he took my penis in his mouth.
|by Anonymous||reply 153||11/16/2013|
I fantasize about getting my juicy on with Zeb Atlas. His face and body are so masculine looking. Is he for rent?
|by Anonymous||reply 154||11/16/2013|
500 a pop (r154)
|by Anonymous||reply 155||11/16/2013|
Wow, that's a lot, r155. Do you know what his limits are? Is he strictly stand and pose, or can you suck him off? I heard he's straight, so I'm guessing fucking is out of the question.
|by Anonymous||reply 156||11/16/2013|
Full service. But he won't bottom.
|by Anonymous||reply 157||11/16/2013|
Anyone who spends so much of their life doing a rather pointless repetitive task merely to achieve a rather unnatural and temporary look has got to be incredibly boring by definition.
|by Anonymous||reply 158||11/16/2013|
Well, r158, a lot of these guys make money escorting on the side, so I wouldn't exactly call it pointless.
|by Anonymous||reply 159||11/16/2013|
|by Anonymous||reply 160||11/30/2013|
My experience was pretty typical. He had a small dick and was a total bottom. I'm fine with both of those, but unfortunately he was a wet noodle in bed, which I wasn't fine with. All he wanted was his "pussy" worshiped.
|by Anonymous||reply 161||11/30/2013|
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|by Anonymous||reply 164||12/23/2013|
Even if the balls are shrunk, the muscles are hot.
|by Anonymous||reply 165||12/23/2013|
They're mostly like free-range plucked chickens on steroids -- checking their iPhones.
|by Anonymous||reply 166||12/23/2013|
One of my hookups is built like a body builder but isn't one, he has a huge 8 plus inch cock that is super thick but is a bottom. I don't get why someone who is hung would be just a bottom, but I appreciate seeing his cock dangle nonetheless.
|by Anonymous||reply 167||12/23/2013|
Yeah, great to see this conversation. I'm a former bodybuilder but still in pretty good shape at 6'2" and 250lb. I used to be a freak bodybuilder at 280lbs, 22 bis, 53.5 chest, 33 waist, and 31 quads. I like the pride I take in my body and the sex I get from it. Need it three times a day - before gym, after gym, and before sleep. Bodybuilding is now a social event for me and it complements my life. I used to be an alpha male but have mellowed out.
|by Anonymous||reply 168||01/22/2014|
was it fun to bag guys at the gym? just curious?
|by Anonymous||reply 169||01/22/2014|
You left out one measurement R168.
|by Anonymous||reply 170||01/24/2014|
I'm sure that he's well hung, no?
|by Anonymous||reply 171||01/24/2014|
Most of the really hung guys at my gym are the lanky, vascular types with natural V-shaped torsos. There are some bodybuilders, but most of them have average to small dicks. There was one bodybuilder showering last night. Huge muscles and hair in all the right places. He was probably off-season, so was just growing his hair out. His dick was totally average. Does nothing for me.
|by Anonymous||reply 172||01/24/2014|
average dicks are fine with me
|by Anonymous||reply 173||01/24/2014|
Too Narcissistic. All they do is lay there and expect to be worshiped. I no longer go for the beef cakes, just the athletic build.
|by Anonymous||reply 174||08/29/2014|
Read the whole thread , and I 100% have to agree.
Surprised no one has said it yet...the reason why guys work on their bodies like this is usually because they:
1. are short
2. are ugly
3. are not hung
My first REAL BF was a bodybuilder. It was a huge disappointment for me since I as I was a virgin and wanted more than what I got. Not to mention that most bodybuilders are not attentive lovers, and are often VERY narcissistic. In general, they are very arrogant even if they are nice guys. Tip: If you want to sleep with a bodybuilder, the easiest way to make it happen is endlessly complementing their bodies. Even while phucking. They light up when you tell them how they look like Roman statues or how you don't understand how they can find clothes that fit.
Picked up a gorgeous one at a bar in Denver back in the '90s. Got him in bed and all he wanted to do was roll around (i.e. picking me up and rolling under me, over me, etc.). Plus, he kept asking me to say "I love you". I must have said it 1000 times before the big dumb phuck busted his nut, not sure I ever did. He left his wallet in my room - I had to call him and he had to come back and get it. That's the last thing you want from a bad one night stand, to actually have to SEE them again. Ugh all the way around. I have since lost my interest in that type after my experiences. They were both too into themselves, very vain and self-involved, and very bad lovers, not to mention boring, I'd never before met a guy who read the nutrition facts on the licorice package at the movie theater, LOL what a loser. If there had been anything more to him personality-wise, it might not have mattered, but there wasn't. I now prefer skinny/athletic guys.
|by Anonymous||reply 175||08/31/2014|
[quote]All they do is lay there
|by Anonymous||reply 176||08/31/2014|
I once had sex with a non competitive bodybuilder who was huge like a house.
I am a rather thin guy who you would think would not be attractive for a bodybuilder, however, it was him who gave me the signal that he wanted me. I walked after him, went to his appartment and then he did his thing. He made great use of his physical capabilities due to him being a bodybuilder. He was hung because he is mixed racially (partly black). He is really handsome.
Despite him being so big he never tried to entince me with his muscles or looked for any ego reaffirmation from me. He was kind all the time and very humble about his muscles even though I was fascinated by the size of them :P
|by Anonymous||reply 177||10/16/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 178||10/16/2014|
I have heard that regularly bodybuilders are horny as hell all year round, however, when they compete, their sex drive lowers drastically.
That's why when you see them compete almost 99% of them sport no boner considering the sexiness of the activity on a stage :P
|by Anonymous||reply 179||10/26/2014|
Sounds like a wife's tale
|by Anonymous||reply 180||10/26/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 181||10/27/2014|
Let alone the fact that steroids cause testicular shrinkage for the period they are on them.
|by Anonymous||reply 182||10/27/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 183||10/27/2014|
yes because they are all bottoms
|by Anonymous||reply 184||10/27/2014|
I have been with bodybuilders who are top.
|by Anonymous||reply 185||10/29/2014|
Middle Eastern bodybuilders top most of the time. It is less stigmatized of a role than passive is. Of course, all in the secrecy and privacy od a bedroom where no one else can see.
|by Anonymous||reply 186||11/09/2014|
What kind of guys are you guys who managed to attract bodybuilders? I live in England and the muscled men are only into the other muscled men.
|by Anonymous||reply 187||11/09/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 188||11/09/2014|
What's the percentage that DON'T do steroids though? 10%?
Steroids can really fuck you up. That alone is a turn off.
|by Anonymous||reply 189||11/09/2014|
Not all bodybuilders love bodybuilders. I am a thin guy, I think I am 6lbs below my ideal bodyweight yet I once had sex with a bodybuilder whose weight was almost twice mine.
I didn't approach him, there was a quick eye contact but it was him who then gave me the sign that he wanted me.
Different people have different tastes.
Perhaps the difficult part of all this is the chance coming to you that you can bump into a bodybuilder. In my case, I was sitting in a seat in the park and he passed by in front of me.
Fortunately, he was very kind amd humble and not arrogant as many of them are. He was even shy to flex his muscles even though I was expressing explicitly my satisfaction with his body type to him ever since I have a fascination with muscularity.
|by Anonymous||reply 190||11/10/2014|
It is rare for bodybuilders not to only be interested in other bodybuilders or fitness model type. It is a lifestyle and it helps to partner with someone who understands it. Also, bodybuilders tend to think the physiques of non-bodybuilders or fitness model types are inferior. They aren't building their bodies up like that because they think such physiques are unattractive. They tend to find muscled physiques attractive and alluring.
|by Anonymous||reply 191||11/10/2014|
It all depends on the person. There are bodybuilders who prefer other bodybuilders or people with muscular bodies in general and there are those who don't need a specific body type to feel sexually interested in someone. Just look at how many heterosexual bodybuilders have relatively fat girlfriends/wives.
There are more attractive characteristics in a person's body than having big muscles.
Their intimidating appearance though makes them unapproachable if you look skinny so you have to wait until one of them approaches you...
|by Anonymous||reply 192||11/10/2014|
Would you say there are more homosexual and bisexual bodybuilders than most people think?
|by Anonymous||reply 193||11/23/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 194||11/26/2014|
If you have sex with a bodybuilder while in competition condition you might not get a rough night because their sex drive lowers dramatically so you need to wait until he eats properly to get his sex drive back.
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|by Anonymous||reply 197||12/29/2014|
Bodybuilders like to have their pecs mauled and nipples sucked.
|by Anonymous||reply 198||12/31/2014|
"Their intimidating appearance though makes them unapproachable if you look skinny so you have to wait until one of them approaches you..."
Very true R[192}!
Years ago, early 80s, I worked at a gay-owned/operated/frequented diner in Long Beach, CA. That's where a customer, a HOT 40s gym-rat musclehead visiting from NYC, hit on me. We went back to my place. Turned out he was a total bottom who liked nothing more than to lay back and get fucked for hours.
Here I was, this 23-year-old tall, gangly/skinny guy with (at the time) bad skin and very little confidence—I was a late bloomer who came into his own around 30—hooking up with a bodybuilder. I was beside myself; it was a first for me.
We stayed in touch. Shortly after that I hooked up with him again when I was visiting NYC. He lived on Cornelia Street. And there were a few times when he came back to LA and he'd call me. Driving up from podunk-central Long Beach to his friend's glamourous house somewhere in the Hollywood Hills. It was all very sexually-based and I knew that from the start.
I would ask myself, what does he see in me? Truth be told, he was a whore. And I was too. It devolved into me hooking up with him at the baths in LA a few times, where later on his door would be shut for extended periods of time. Lost touch with him eventually. Sure was fun at the time though.
|by Anonymous||reply 199||12/31/2014|
If anybody has the chance to sleep with a bodybuilder, don't put too much effort in your hairstyle, he will destroy it in one second.
Personal experience :P
|by Anonymous||reply 200||12/31/2014|
|by Anonymous||reply 201||12/31/2014|
Your hairstyle doesn't matter R200 when you can have sex with something like this.
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|by Anonymous||reply 204||03/06/2015|
I need to find this dude.
|by Anonymous||reply 205||03/07/2015|
Looks like James Alexander-Ellis
|by Anonymous||reply 206||03/07/2015|
Great find, r206. JAE has the body of dreams. Unreal
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|by Anonymous||reply 210||01/28/2016|
I was surprised how many of them are bottoms. My ex was a competitive bodybuilder and was a major bottom as were most of this bodybuilding friends.
|by Anonymous||reply 211||01/28/2016|
The only true one i've ever fucked around with was a btm too. Sweet but very insecure so the body building made sense for him. Problem was he was just pretty awful in bed. Just laid there taking it no passion no emotion to it etc. Barely made a peep no matter how hard you gave it to him. It quickly got boring and were better off as friends for a while. It was just really boring sex.
|by Anonymous||reply 212||01/28/2016|
I visited San Francisco once and hooked up with this very very muscular Asian guy Gregg. While we were lying in bed chatting he took off his shirt and I was totally turned off by how hard his chest felt; it felt unnatural. Obviously he spends a lot of time at the gym but he lacked personality and just sat there thinking I was going to do all the work, so I just left -- wasn't feeling it at all.
|by Anonymous||reply 213||01/28/2016|
Blech @ the guy in R204's pic.
|by Anonymous||reply 214||01/28/2016|
Uh okay dude
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|by Anonymous||reply 216||07/28/2016|
Asian Gregg in San Francisco had a great body but seriously nothing upstairs. Admittedly OCD he also came to understand that because nearly all of his free time was spent in the gym, he didn't know how to socialize and had very few friends. Sex with his was boring and lacked passion (which made me wonder if he was ever a rent-man at some point before).
|by Anonymous||reply 217||07/28/2016|
My friend just told me that his new boyfriend of 3 weeks can't have sex unless he's using poppers. I think he was looking for advise but I didn't know what to say. Are poppers addicting?
|by Anonymous||reply 218||08/01/2016|
Y'all need to hang with better, healthier people. Dysfunction
|by Anonymous||reply 219||08/01/2016|