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I hate it when big guys bottom.

Sorry, I just needed to vent.

by Anonymousreply 37710/26/2015

Oh, no, I LOVE when that happens!

by Anonymousreply 203/19/2011

No R1. I just hate it is all.

by Anonymousreply 303/19/2011

Have to agree with R2, love it.

by Anonymousreply 503/19/2011

A fat or wide butt is just not appealing.

by Anonymousreply 703/19/2011

No, r4, I'm 6'2", 210 lbs. I'm versatile and as long as the guy has a nice dick, I don't care if he's bigger or smaller than me, I'll lift my legs right up in the air. Conversely, if he has a sweet ass, I'll lift his legs right up in the air.

by Anonymousreply 803/19/2011

What if he was 4' tall, R8? Please tell me you wouldn't.

by Anonymousreply 903/19/2011

My ex was about an inch shorter than me, but wide and heavily built. When I tried to top him it was difficult. I couldn't even straddle him. I definitely want a guy smaller than me next time.

by Anonymousreply 1103/19/2011

I hate it when masculine guys want to bottom. I like the prissy ones.

by Anonymousreply 1203/19/2011

sorry that you are so uncomfortable with your sexuality op that you are bound up in rigid conventions

by Anonymousreply 1503/19/2011

[r10] that's tragic

by Anonymousreply 1703/19/2011

[quote]Small, short guys should be weeded out of the gene pool, plain and simple.

Small, short guys are more environmentally friendly.

by Anonymousreply 1903/19/2011

R10... thanks I needed a good laugh. LOL!!!

by Anonymousreply 2103/19/2011

Blind people are lucky since the holes are the same size regardless of their presentation array.

by Anonymousreply 2203/19/2011

[quote]I'm a big guy myself, and wouldn't dream of bottoming for anyone smaller than me. It's degrading.

Where did you receive your sexual education--Egypt?

by Anonymousreply 2303/19/2011

You have pedophilic tendencies. You know its true.

by Anonymousreply 2403/19/2011

let's keep it simple, you're a bottom who eroticizes bigger guys, so you want them to want to top you, and when they don't, you feel deprived. and this seems to happen to you a lot, so you feel frustrated.

therefore, keep looking for that bigger hot guy who will fuck the shit out of you, enjoy the hunt for it even when the quarry seems to allude you, and stop whining about it.

by Anonymousreply 2503/19/2011

I won't bottom for any guy who can't beat me in a fist fight.

by Anonymousreply 2603/19/2011

So anyone will do, R26?

by Anonymousreply 2703/19/2011

One of the reason bottoms like guys bigger than them, is the anti-bully theory.

They grew up being called every gay slur in the book by these bigger jocks and now, they have an emotional need to undue that damage - aka if they are having sex with me, they don't hate me anymore. Kinda twisted, but most if not all, short bottoms, won't touch other short guys.

by Anonymousreply 2803/19/2011

That is not true R28. I was the "big" bully in school. It has nothing to do with psychology, and everything to do with choreography and aesthetics.

by Anonymousreply 2903/19/2011

What does Choreography have to do with being a bottom, other than Choreographers are highly likely to be feminine and thereby exclusive bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 3003/21/2011

I'm a 5'10 top and I love plowing bigger guys.

It also helps that I'm a bigger built, muscular guy with an 8" dick and I'm generally more hung than the 6' and over guys I fuck.

Nothing better than making a big, tall muscular guy whimper like a bitch when I put it in.

Oh yeah...

by Anonymousreply 3103/21/2011


by Anonymousreply 3203/21/2011

LOL R32!

by Anonymousreply 3303/21/2011

I love it when big guys bottom. Ted Colunga is a great example. I think it's really hot, and fucks with stereotypes.

by Anonymousreply 3403/21/2011

I think that 2 guys who get together for sex and are different sizes should do whatever makes both of them happy- and of course that means turns them on. If the larger guy gets on the bottom, fine- and they have a ball, more power to them. In may sex life, variety and experimentation have been what has kept sexual relationships alive and fun. %0D %0D I think a heterosexual couple that enjoys the female sitting on top and controlling the thrusts should well, enjoy themselves. I don't think if they enjoy it that the male is immasculated or any silly prejudice like that.%0D %0D If you don't like the big guy underneath when you fuck him, or you only like to fuck guys smaller than you- well then find someone who agrees and have fun doing whatever you want to do. %0D %0D But do not presume that your likes and dislikes in bed are the right way and the way it should be done. Isn't that really kind of silly, prudish and exactly what is at the core of people telling other people the correct who how and what of sex?

by Anonymousreply 3503/21/2011

I like pocket gays and tall men too. Sucking getting sucked, rubbing boners, licking bodies: it's all good

by Anonymousreply 3603/21/2011

It's cool as long as they sit on it.

by Anonymousreply 3703/21/2011

Adorable if not a bit creepy, R32!!!!

by Anonymousreply 3803/21/2011

Wait. Whose the bottom in R32's picture?

by Anonymousreply 3903/21/2011

R32 proved my point. Can you even imagine that pocket gay topping Hercules?

by Anonymousreply 4003/21/2011

That photo is fake. Eduardo is not that big.

by Anonymousreply 4103/21/2011

Watching Dancing With the Stars, all I can think about is plowing Chris Jericho.

by Anonymousreply 4203/29/2011

The sexiest thing in the world is a big tall buff hairy masculine bottom who loves cock and is aggressive about it. I'll still fuck a twink if he's hot enough but I prefer guys who are bigger/stronger/older than me. I found a unusual video on gaytube that is a good example of the type of guys I've allways been attracted to. NSFW

by Anonymousreply 4304/07/2011

sex is degrading (and I LOVE it that way!)

by Anonymousreply 4404/07/2011

I'm 5'7" 165lbs. My boyfriend is 5'10" 225lbs solid mass and there is nothing like having sex with him. It is like heaven. There is something about feeling his power and strength. It's very emotional for me. I only prefer guys like him.

by Anonymousreply 4504/08/2011

I saw a funny vid on xtube once: this young nelly guy wanted to be plowed, and the person who responded to his Craigslist ad was even smaller and nellier.

They had an extremely difficult time fucking; the top was so damn much smaller, he could only get in a few strokes before having to change position.

It was insane, there was like 30 seconds of actual fucking in a 10 minute vid, lol.

by Anonymousreply 4604/08/2011

I think I saw that one, R46. Were they both blond?

by Anonymousreply 4704/08/2011

Luckily my husband had the balls to personally investigate what would happen if a tall, skinny corporate lawyer tried to top a big, brawny landscaper... he does it well, and often, thanks... of course, his having a big, thick, cock factors into the equation... and that he's not all that averse to being flipped doesn't hurt.

by Anonymousreply 4804/08/2011

OP = Japanese woman drawing gay porn

Small tops and talls bottoms are hot!

by Anonymousreply 4904/08/2011

that's because you are a bottom. next!

by Anonymousreply 5004/08/2011

OP, are you talking about guys that are bigger in height, build, weight, penis size? Or all of the above? To each their own, but I've always found the whole bigger top/smaller bottom thing very predictable. My former fuck buddy was a few inches taller than me and I loved the feeling of dominating a guy who was bigger than me. I would've bottomed for him from time to time, too, but he wouldn't even consider it - he HAD to bottom all of the time. Now I have the desire to bottom for a guy a few inches shorter than me, which I've never done before.

by Anonymousreply 5104/08/2011

"Honey, remove the pocket gay from your ass; we'll be late for brunch!"

by Anonymousreply 5204/08/2011

In my experience, big guys with big cocks normally can't work it well enough to top. It's a shame.

by Anonymousreply 5304/12/2011

How old are you people with this top and bottom shit? What's the point of being gay if you can't take advantage of versatility? %0D %0D Me and my bf are the same size as you can see, however, we refuse to define ourselves by the sexual positions we enjoy. We switch off, anyway.

by Anonymousreply 5404/12/2011

I like how some posters think the world should adapt to their preferences.

r16, replace "small, short guys" with Asians, blacks, gays, or Latinos. You're incredibly ignorant.

by Anonymousreply 5504/12/2011

r54 is that really you, because I'm pretty sure I fucked that guy on the left at a sex party in midtown.

by Anonymousreply 5604/12/2011

5'10, 8 1/2 inch dick r31 here again. I fucked another big, tall guy last night just to piss OP off.

6'4 of solid muscle. 8 pack and a delicious ass. Said he usually tops but couldn't resist me. I had him on his back and those looooooooong legs wrapped right around my waist.

And just to REALLY piss you off, I'm black and he was a tall white guy with blond hair and blue eye.

by Anonymousreply 5704/19/2011

r57 we will need to see a pic of your dick for verification purposes.

by Anonymousreply 5804/19/2011

[[R54]] I think the guy on the right is Dirk Caber, a.k.a. Jack. %0D %0D Here's the thing, though. As ridiculous as it sounds, some cuties just have that quintessential NELLY BOTTOM face, which I personally find it hot. EVEN hotter when 'em cute nellies get plowed by the handsome army types. %0D %0D

by Anonymousreply 5905/06/2011

"I don't think if they enjoy it that the male is immasculated or any silly prejudice like that."

Hey Charlie (R35), if you use Firefox, it does a spellcheck of your posts. You might want to look into that. Then perhaps you can impress more people here with your brilliance.

by Anonymousreply 6005/06/2011


by Anonymousreply 6105/14/2011

I love it when my big butt opens wide for a furry 5'7" stud who porks me until I am jello! When we come I wrap my big--muscular--legs around him as he pants into enormous pleasure. Fuck yea.

by Anonymousreply 6308/30/2011

Me too OP. big and muscular dudes should be total tops who never bottom.

by Anonymousreply 6407/27/2012

Muscle Mary Bear?

by Anonymousreply 6507/28/2012

Who notices height?

by Anonymousreply 6607/28/2012

Big dudes should be total tops.

by Anonymousreply 6708/10/2012

I agree with OP.

I'm medium-sized in terms of frame, ht., wt. and I would only want to top a guy smaller than I am and I only want to be topped by a guy bigger than I am.

Sadly, I find little of either.

by Anonymousreply 6808/10/2012

r69 there are a lot of dudes who are like you. That is why in porn, so many tops don't want to ever bottom. It taints their fantasy appeal.

by Anonymousreply 7008/10/2012


by Anonymousreply 7108/16/2012

The great dark man.

by Anonymousreply 7208/16/2012

what is the maximum height at which a dude can bottom?

by Anonymousreply 7308/27/2012

I love it when they do. I think the whole mental aspect of that is hot. When a guy who no-one expects to bottom bottoms, that's something that's always been a turn on to me, role reversal. I've never felt quite the same way when it comes to guys you expect to bottom topping, though.

I'm somewhere around 6'3 (although I do have a lean build) but although I've never considered myself a top or bottom and *legitimately* like it all, I end up bottoming like 75% of the time because guys want to fuck me. Guys who identify as bottoms in the past have hooked up with me and ended up topping me. Body size doesn't matter too much unless the size difference between the top and bottom is ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 7408/27/2012

I just view it as ruining a hot buff masculine guy by popping his cherry. Once it's popped, the guy is a masculine icon or fantasy anymore. At least Mike Branson never got popped.

by Anonymousreply 7508/29/2012

I prefer a short, petite guy for a BTM with a BIG Bubble Butt to play, there is plenty of room in the gene pool for them to play! LOL It's ALL good, guys! Enjoy life!

by Anonymousreply 7608/29/2012

I'm the opposite of OP. As a top into masculine men, I love seeing strong hot men dominated. Especially by a slighter guy or even a twink - the role reversal thing.

You don't see this in porn much, but it's a common thing in erotic ficiton. It's a niche no one has exploited in porn yet. God knows everything else has been picked up on.

by Anonymousreply 7708/29/2012

I love it too R77 - sends me over the edge. A big, muscled, hairy, hung, masculine guy being dominated by a slender twink is absolutely the hottest thing.

[quote]It's a niche no one has exploited in porn yet. God knows everything else has been picked up on.

I know! You do come across a similar themed scene every now and then, but so far it's been pretty rare.

There [italic]has[/italic] to be other guys that feel the same way we do. Right?

by Anonymousreply 7808/29/2012

R78, there seems to be a whole sub-genre devoted to that kind of role reversal in sex stories, just not in porn. And in a straighter - kind of an odd word for kink - form of porn, femdom is all about role reversal. Well, when the guy is a strong male and not some fat slob.

by Anonymousreply 7908/29/2012

I have friend that is 5'6" who is a strict top. He only dates dudes shorter than him because he thinks taller guys would not want to be topped by him. He will not date a taller dude because he fears people will think he is the bottom in the relationship.

by Anonymousreply 8008/29/2012

ok im a small guy who is 5'6inches i like a big muscle guy to top and i hate to differ but im small and have a country butch side and everyone tells me that im sexy as hell but i keep my self clean up along with it.

by Anonymousreply 8111/19/2012

Op what a profound statement. I feel shocked by your depth. Lol.

by Anonymousreply 8211/19/2012

I just got off fucking a hot, 6'-8" tall masculine guy with hairy legs. I want to do it again.

by Anonymousreply 8311/19/2012

R83 hehe, you sex maniac. You are so carnal...

by Anonymousreply 8411/19/2012

I LOVE a big tall guy who is friendly and lovable. If he has a nice bouncy ass that is all the better, more cushion to the pushin'. I wouldn't say no to someone 5'6" or 7 though, but it would be the same kind of vibe. I also love spanking a tall guy (or short one for that matter)--snug jeans are the key. I wonder if this is why marines like it up the ass so much? They must figure that if a little pansyish guy can take it up the ass then surely they, big bad marines, should be able to with no problem.

by Anonymousreply 8511/19/2012

Guys, what do you think of females asses? You find them fuckable? Female asses possessed by women i mean...

by Anonymousreply 8611/19/2012

I don't understand. Is OP a pervert, and the relative sizes of the couple he spied on while they fucked displeased him?

by Anonymousreply 8711/19/2012

I met a BIG beautiful, friendly guy who I want to top me so badly b/c I feel safe and trapped at the same time.

The idea of topping him just makes me laugh.

by Anonymousreply 8811/19/2012


Do you top at all, though?

by Anonymousreply 8911/19/2012

"Female asses possessed by women i mean"

Which men possess female asses?

by Anonymousreply 9011/19/2012

feminine men.


by Anonymousreply 9111/19/2012


Joe Jonas has lady hips. Does lady ass follow?

by Anonymousreply 9211/19/2012

You got my point, stop bulling me! :P

by Anonymousreply 9311/19/2012


I'll bull you, and you'll love it. Though I am 4ft11.

by Anonymousreply 9411/19/2012

Lol...i need really to relax. You want sex and sex causes tension before it happens... now, excuse me but leave me alone R94

by Anonymousreply 9511/19/2012

This thread must be about porn or one night stands, that's the only time that people are so superficial about appearances.

If you are in a relationship with somebody, you want to please them, you're not going to say, "Sorry you are too scrawny to fuck me."

by Anonymousreply 9611/19/2012

Not necessarily, r92. Who has lady ass then?

by Anonymousreply 9711/19/2012

Ok guys...i was just wondering if a gay man could find a woman attractive enough to fuck her from behind, that's all... God, you are all so nerdish with words and sentences...i need to know the plain truth...

by Anonymousreply 9811/19/2012

Some gay men, R98, yes. Others no.

by Anonymousreply 9911/19/2012

Hmm...ok. At least some can and want then.

by Anonymousreply 10011/19/2012

R96 and R99 are you happy with a man? Do you believe in monogamy or you find it not possible or funny?

by Anonymousreply 10111/19/2012

[quote][R96] and [R99] are you happy with a man? Do you believe in monogamy or you find it not possible or funny?

Yes and yes. I can also appreciate the beauty of a woman, but that doesn't mean I will stray.

by Anonymousreply 10211/19/2012

R96/R99...that's cool.

by Anonymousreply 10311/19/2012

Wow. Okay.

I wouldn't date someone who felt bottoming is "degrading"

Anal sex is an important part of gay sex, and if you don't partake in it, then what kind of bed partner would you be? Someone who isn't considerate, and interested in variety... AKA a Boring Lay.

by Anonymousreply 10411/19/2012

big man = big, warm, moist inviting anus!

by Anonymousreply 10511/19/2012

It truly is heart breaking.

by Anonymousreply 10611/19/2012

I luv it

by Anonymousreply 10711/19/2012

I'm 6'1" muscled at 220 lb, and I'm a total pillow-biting bottom. Contrary to the PC police on this board, I have absolutely no interest in topping. People assume I'm a top by the way I look. Truth is I love big dicks and the way they feel in my vaguyna.

by Anonymousreply 10811/19/2012

So which men have lady asses?

by Anonymousreply 10911/19/2012

[quote]Anal sex is an important part of gay sex, and if you don't partake in it, then what kind of bed partner would you be? Someone who isn't considerate, and interested in variety...

[quote]AKA a Boring Lay.

The irony is beyond belief. Having sexual preferences and making choices makes a person inconsiderate and not interested in variety? It sounds quite prescriptive actually.

by Anonymousreply 11011/19/2012

Will Zeb ever bottom?

by Anonymousreply 11101/05/2013

I like it like that.

by Anonymousreply 11201/07/2013

r104, you are a hot mess, dude

by Anonymousreply 11301/07/2013

Me too OP

by Anonymousreply 11401/07/2013

Is this a porn thread or (real life) sex thread?

by Anonymousreply 11501/07/2013

I knew a big girl who bottomed. But then she died.

by Anonymousreply 11601/07/2013

Birth, r115

by Anonymousreply 11701/07/2013


by Anonymousreply 11801/07/2013

I hear you. I'm five foot and change and I love finding men 6 feet and over that are interested in me.

And 95% of them, once we are behind closed doors, want me to fuck them.

I am versatile and I am into many other things about a guy, but I'm usually a little bummed because they presented themselves as something else in the beginning.

by Anonymousreply 11901/07/2013

Geez - some of you are so self-limiting. Who the fuck cares what size someone is?

Get over your hangups - life will be a lot better.

by Anonymousreply 12001/07/2013

[quote] Get over your hangups - life will be a lot better.

Smell you!

by Anonymousreply 12101/07/2013

R120 = Thumbellina

by Anonymousreply 12201/07/2013

I myself find it very hot when big muscular guys bottom(and seem to genuinely enjoy it). Who are some good beefy bottoms that seem to love what they do?

by Anonymousreply 12301/08/2013

Beefy bottoms are the hottest thing there is.

by Anonymousreply 12401/08/2013

I knew this would be a completely stupid thread.

by Anonymousreply 12501/08/2013

6'5" 254 muscle boy with 9 inch cock though I only bottom with my hairy jumbo ass, always cry when I cum

by Anonymousreply 12601/08/2013

Well I sure the hell like it. Especially when I'm balls deep inside him!

by Anonymousreply 12901/08/2013

Chihuahua on a Great Dane, not pretty.

by Anonymousreply 13001/08/2013

how tall, r129?

by Anonymousreply 13101/08/2013

[quote] Chihuahua on a Great Dane, not pretty.

Ah, so it's a porn thread.


by Anonymousreply 13201/08/2013

R131, I'm 6'3"

Love throwing a fuck into a strong beefy guy.

by Anonymousreply 13301/08/2013

I have a friend who is 5'6. He will not let a dude his size or shorter top him. He says it is dehumanizing to let a guy smaller than you get on top of you.

by Anonymousreply 13401/08/2013

[quote] He says it is dehumanizing to let a guy smaller than you get on top of you.

He obviously has a healthy attitude to sex.

Preference is one thing. His reasoning however, is fucked.

by Anonymousreply 13501/08/2013

R132...that big hunk is exactly the man I have been searching for! Who is that specimen?

by Anonymousreply 13601/08/2013

R136, I think you meant R32 and that pic is photoshopped. The smaller guy is Dean Coulter. The bigger taller guy's head is Eduardo, and he is (in reality) the same height as Dean Coulter. They were in a scene in a Titan flick way back in the late 90s. They are both short, like 5'7".

If you know porn, the pic is pretty funny.

by Anonymousreply 13701/09/2013

chihuahua on a great dane is definitely not cool.

by Anonymousreply 13801/09/2013

Whose the largest(tallest/most muscular)bottom/versatile guy in porn today?

by Anonymousreply 13901/09/2013

R140: That honor might have gone to Kevin Falk (6'4") of the huge long DL thread, except I think he left porn.

There is a huge new guy on RandyBlue named "Austin Wolf", approx the same dimensions as Kevin Falk and he is versatile in real life but I don't think he has bottomed on camera... yet.

by Anonymousreply 14001/09/2013

Has anyone else ever cried while having sex like R126? I have heard women say they do or even that their straight guys do...but do gay guys cry during sex out of the sheer release or pleasure?

(I never have.)

by Anonymousreply 14101/10/2013

I hate it when big guys poop.

by Anonymousreply 14201/10/2013

[quote]bottoming for anyone smaller than me. It's degrading

that's the fun part, stoopid!

by Anonymousreply 14301/10/2013

Subjugation, degradation, feminization=being topped by a guy smaller than myself.

by Anonymousreply 14401/10/2013

*slapping R126 across his face when he cries during sex*


by Anonymousreply 14501/10/2013

I used to hate it when big guys bottom also.... But now it is the total opposite for me. I love when big guys bottom and when the skinny/slim twink is a top. I am a masculine bottom myself who loves twinky tops but I do have urges to top a bigger guy which I think is hott!! =)

by Anonymousreply 14601/14/2013

me too, OP

by Anonymousreply 14701/25/2013

R144- you forgot fertilization!

by Anonymousreply 14801/25/2013

I love slapping a big fat hairy ass while I'm goin' in ballz deep. I love to watch em cry when I ram my fat uncut 9.5" pole in and out of their pooper.

by Anonymousreply 14901/25/2013

R149 Do tell, big boy. Come to momma.

by Anonymousreply 15001/25/2013

Back in the day, when he was really, really plump, I wanted to fuck the ever-loving shit out of Meat Loaf (in his Bat Out of Hell days). He's too skinny now, but back then... mmmmm.

by Anonymousreply 15101/25/2013

I am just 5'7", 68kgs and love to fuck a 6'3" fb of mine, but first I douche his hole to get him in that humiliated frame of mind...He has a huge meaty uncut cock but just wants to be fucked...of course, he is married too...When I fuck him he whimpers like a's great for both of us

by Anonymousreply 15201/26/2013

Oh, and I forgot to mention, I work with his wife!

by Anonymousreply 15301/26/2013

Guys over six feet should never bottom.

by Anonymousreply 15402/08/2013

I relish taking down and topping the big guys.

by Anonymousreply 15502/08/2013

I'm very small framed and short (5 ft 2) and I do admit it, I like when the big guy is the top.

Even in porn, I'm disappointed when the guy who looks bigger/broader/older bottoms out.

I am not 100% bottom and have some versatility, but at my height it's a real challenge for me to top someone who's more than a few inches taller than me.

On the flip side, I have a huge fetish for much taller men - 6 feet and over. I've been with a really lean, muscled guy who was 6 ft 8 and it was amazing.

He still got some facefucking action from me...and I tend to shoot a lot and shoot far, so most guys who top me when I'm on my back end up with several spurts of my load on their face : )

by Anonymousreply 15602/08/2013

Zeb Atlas will never bottom

by Anonymousreply 15702/15/2013

Muscle dudes should never bottom

by Anonymousreply 15803/14/2013

Muscle dudes should exclusively bottom.

by Anonymousreply 15903/14/2013

R31 you highlighted my favourite photograph. Two great guys, one large the other small and both perfectly proportioned. They can spit-roast me any-day and I would hope that they would change places from time to time ! Enjoyment and experiment are far more important than size.

by Anonymousreply 16005/27/2013

Need some pictorial examples

by Anonymousreply 16105/27/2013

Yes please

by Anonymousreply 16205/31/2013

Zeb Atlas is not my type

by Anonymousreply 16305/31/2013

I don't care about size or height, but masculine guys should never bottom. It is hard to even see a masculine guy suck penis.

by Anonymousreply 16406/03/2013

I don't wanna see dudes like Rex Chandler and Ken Ryker bottom. It would spoil their ubertop image.

by Anonymousreply 16506/08/2013

I don't want to see big dudes bottom. A big dude should be on TOP always and have a dominant, masculine Alpha Male demeanor.

by Anonymousreply 16606/15/2013

R73 The max height for a bottom is set at 5'10.

by Anonymousreply 16706/15/2013

Have sex once in while, losers.

by Anonymousreply 16806/15/2013

Honestly, Bottom or Top, whatever mood I'm in is the deciding factor. I am a "Big" guy but I love to have some hard cock plunged into my hole. Sex is sex as long as it is pleasurable for both partners. I'm in a long term relationship now and we both share the same likes and dislikes about who "Pitches" and who "Catches" as my straight friends refer to anal sex between males.

by Anonymousreply 16906/15/2013

Don't do it Brandon!

by Anonymousreply 17007/02/2013

Paddy should never bottom

by Anonymousreply 17107/13/2013

I hate it when people complain about who bottoms and tops. SEX is supposed to be fun, not a competition.

by Anonymousreply 17207/13/2013

It's unnatural!

by Anonymousreply 17307/13/2013

A big muscular dude has been plowed a few times on MenofMontreal

NSFW, naturally.

by Anonymousreply 17407/13/2013

So bizarre and unhot to see. That should not be.

by Anonymousreply 17507/13/2013

R175 - do people in your congregation know that you're posting on gay boards?

by Anonymousreply 17607/13/2013

It just aint right or natural.

by Anonymousreply 17707/21/2013

Then don't top them, ffs

by Anonymousreply 17807/21/2013

This or that person shouldn't bottom because it's degrading or feminizing? Some of you people have serious issues.

by Anonymousreply 17907/22/2013

What is with all this you have to do it one way or another crap. My sex life is not dictated to by anyone but the guy I'm sleeping with. No holes barred.

by Anonymousreply 18007/22/2013

My favorite porn video is Pa Rainey's Big Black Bottom.

by Anonymousreply 18107/22/2013

I hate small tops who bitch

by Anonymousreply 18207/22/2013

Some of y'all are seriously messed up in the head with your hyperconservative notions of gender and sexual activity. You actually think that to get fucked is to be a woman, a non-man, on some level? Free your mind, fool.

I love fucking a masculine man -- in fact I'm married to one, broad shoulders and beard and low rough voice, etc -- and he loves getting plowed by me.

by Anonymousreply 18307/23/2013

I don't respect dudes who use commas when they should use a period.

by Anonymousreply 18607/27/2013

I agree with R183.

by Anonymousreply 18807/30/2013

I'm 5'8. When a guy that is 6'4 asks me to top him I laugh. I did try once. Weirdest encounter ever. I practically had to use a ladder and the guy kept moaning so damn loudly. What a nelly bitch.

by Anonymousreply 19108/04/2013

Inferiority complex.

by Anonymousreply 19208/04/2013

I don't think it matters when most of the gay relationships I see out in public always have two male partners that are EXACTLY the same size. I rarely see noticeable body differences among gay pairings.

by Anonymousreply 19408/22/2013

Big guys aren't as clean. You know, down there.

by Anonymousreply 19508/22/2013

You don't have to hate it. Move on baby.

by Anonymousreply 19909/27/2013


by Anonymousreply 20009/30/2013

Some of you people have the most curious rules about sex. How odd.

by Anonymousreply 20109/30/2013

[quote]Small, short guys should be weeded out of the gene pool, plain and simple.

This is SO true. They're as bad as fatties.

by Anonymousreply 20209/30/2013

Small shorts dudes are necessary to service Alpha Male brolic dudes.

by Anonymousreply 20309/30/2013

John Magnum automatically wraps his legs around the waist of hunky Brock Avery.

by Anonymousreply 20410/03/2013

Didn't Matthew Rush finally bottom for some nasty looking twink?

by Anonymousreply 20612/01/2013


Yes. Michael Lucas.

by Anonymousreply 20712/01/2013

I like heavier set guys but prefer guys the same height. Better for 69 and kissing while fucking.

by Anonymousreply 20812/01/2013

I'll just say what others are scared to say. Big guys bottoming doesn't look right! A Fat wide ass isnt girly material, opposed to the 22 year old, 5'6 125lbs bottom guy like myself. And I'm a strict bottom, I wont let guys touch my penis. Big guys should take the role of a top and live with it. I hate to sound rude. Big guys shouldn't be giving bj's either! And I agree with R13. I just love the older stronger masculine guy to carry me off my feet, but you cant do that with a big bottom, now can you?

by Anonymousreply 20912/06/2013

So ... you're basically a woman R209?

by Anonymousreply 21012/06/2013

I love taking down a big guy.

by Anonymousreply 21112/06/2013

Well, you always have the choice whether or not you want to stick your dick up a fat ass, OP.

by Anonymousreply 21212/06/2013

How very dare you, r210! R209 is a lady!

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by Anonymousreply 21412/06/2013

Is the phenomena of strict bottom dudes not wanting their partner to not touch their penis a growing thing? They want total tops who do not want to touch another guy's penis at all. It seems like so many strict bottoms are saying that in personals ads.

by Anonymousreply 21512/06/2013

If a dude is effeminate, it is not disturbing to see him bottom Even if he is a big guy. However, I find big effeminate dudes disturbing in general. A big guy acting like a girl.....SMH

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by Anonymousreply 21812/23/2013

Abe will never bottom

by Anonymousreply 21912/30/2013

[r57] yeah show us ur cock puleaseee

by Anonymousreply 22012/30/2013

"... A Fat wide ass isnt girly material, opposed to the 22 year old, 5'6 125lbs bottom guy like myself. And I'm a strict bottom,..."

If I wanted a girl R209 I would date a girl. I can't stand queeny men, bois, or whatever you call yourself.

by Anonymousreply 22112/30/2013

People like R209 are mentally disturbed. These strict bottoms/please don't touch my penis types/I want some total top ideal who doesn't like to suck cock I can't run away from fast enough.

I wonder if some of them are actually trans at heart.

by Anonymousreply 22212/30/2013

R222 I had a friend in my early twenties like that. He wouldn't even touch himself during sex and said his penis was, "there as decoration mostly." He had all kinds of fucked up identity issues though. He hated feminine tops even though he was beyond womanly, uncut cocks, he even hated his own race. It was so strange I eventually gave up on that friendship. He was extremely damaged as a person and one of the most immature, ridiculous human beings I ever had the misfortune of knowing. He could possibly be trans, but he is not excepting enough of trans people to ever be a part of that group.

by Anonymousreply 22312/30/2013

I am 6'5" but I have a thin but very muscular frame. I mostly top guys that are shorter. (Hell usually all of my sex partners are shorter.) I find that I turn on tops and bottoms equally. I have learned to be more versatile and I think it works if you are somewhere near the same height and build visually. I have met some pocket tops that were so hell bent on "mountain climbing" that their pure zeal made for very memorable sexual experiences. So now I don't care as long as we are both happy and doing what comes naturally.

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by Anonymousreply 22501/20/2014

Colin Steele! 6'7"

Great top but an even better bottom. TIMBER!!!

by Anonymousreply 22601/30/2014

You have uh, interesting, "taste," r226

by Anonymousreply 22701/31/2014

I like his taste

by Anonymousreply 22801/31/2014

YUP! R227 and thanks R228

(The link gets REAL good at 24 minutes)

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by Anonymousreply 23106/11/2014

This is the most immature nonsense I've ever read. There's no height or weight requirement to getting fucked. Grow up.

by Anonymousreply 23206/11/2014

Hey, tall guys lose elections too.

by Anonymousreply 23306/11/2014

I love big bottoms, more meat, more action

by Anonymousreply 23406/11/2014

I won't top a guy under six feet.

by Anonymousreply 23506/11/2014

Yeah, a lot of people are attracted to stereotypes.That is why porn usually depicts popular sexual stereotypes.

by Anonymousreply 23606/11/2014

no, no, no

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by Anonymousreply 23906/25/2014

[quote]Yeah, a lot of people are attracted to stereotypes.That is why porn usually depicts popular sexual stereotypes.

This is so very true. Look at Craigslist m4m, aside from a few people with crazy fetishes, it's all about stereotypes.

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by Anonymousreply 24106/25/2014

Hot SLuts - he's perfect

by Anonymousreply 24206/25/2014

the big and the beautiful

by Anonymousreply 24306/25/2014

...and the meek shall inherit the ass!

by Anonymousreply 24406/25/2014

Yes! Yes! and more YES!!!

by Anonymousreply 24506/25/2014

R243 has some priceless method acting going on

by Anonymousreply 24606/25/2014

Come and get it!

by Anonymousreply 24706/26/2014

This is the dumbest thread I have ever read.

by Anonymousreply 24806/26/2014

Big boys, big asses, big bottoms

by Anonymousreply 24906/26/2014

naw, dude

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by Anonymousreply 25107/04/2014

Loved when Berke Banks bottomed for the twink called Fuller at Sean Cody. That's probably my favorite "Big Guy Bottoming For A Smaller Guy" video. The only problem with that video was that there was no kissing or even oral. It went straight from them talking to Berke bottoming.

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by Anonymousreply 25307/11/2014

Legs up!!!

by Anonymousreply 25407/11/2014

Tall men have prostates too!

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by Anonymousreply 25707/11/2014

I love them slutty and big

by Anonymousreply 25807/11/2014

If big guys don't want to bottom they should be FORCED to bottom.

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by Anonymousreply 26207/13/2014

Any thoughts?

by Anonymousreply 26307/14/2014

Looks hot to me R263

by Anonymousreply 26407/14/2014

What R19, a small carbon footprint.

by Anonymousreply 26507/14/2014

I've fucked bigger. I've fucked smaller. I find the same size is best for all sex positions. Oh yeah and you can wear each other's clothes :)

by Anonymousreply 26607/15/2014

Thanks R254 That's Devin Draz bottoming in that pic. He was always one of my favorites, especially whenever he bottomed.

Anyone know who the bottom is in R263's pic?

by Anonymousreply 26707/17/2014

@R267; Honey, that's Christian Power--power bottom! He's relatively new. He is a big boy! His story was that he was a bodybuilder (although I don't know if he ever competed), and a personal trainer. My question always is, why? Although I'm grateful, there is NO money in porn whatsoever, and yet these studios are inundated with applicants. Okay, these guys are very sexual. Some of them are narcissist. But, the only way you would ever get me to do porn would be the opportunity to meet a very rich guy who would take care of me forever, whilst I take care of him!!!

Very slow at work today, and I found this extremely fascinating link about bodybuilders, and their sponsors.

by Anonymousreply 26807/17/2014

Then don't fuck them.

by Anonymousreply 26907/17/2014

Mr. Draz has a past...

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by Anonymousreply 27107/24/2014

He always seemed sexy but shifty.

by Anonymousreply 27207/24/2014

big Girl, You are a beautiful. (To fuck)

by Anonymousreply 27307/24/2014

It should be illegal

by Anonymousreply 27407/27/2014

It should be mandatory

by Anonymousreply 27507/27/2014

I agree R275. In order to be a good top, the top should bottom every now, and then.

by Anonymousreply 27607/28/2014

I love to hear a big muscle bottom squeal like a pig. So hot!!

by Anonymousreply 27707/28/2014

Even big straight guys should bottom from time to time.

by Anonymousreply 27807/28/2014

[quote]Even big straight guys should bottom from time to time.

I agree with this too.

by Anonymousreply 27907/28/2014

Agreed, lots of big straight guys need it too, their partners aren't going to be bigger than them

by Anonymousreply 28007/28/2014

Christian Power AKA Timmy Maurer

by Anonymousreply 28107/28/2014


by Anonymousreply 28207/28/2014

Pics of Christian bottoming, please

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by Anonymousreply 28507/28/2014

and here! I'm sure it is all just about the prostate, though. In some interview he said he prefers to top...

by Anonymousreply 28607/28/2014

He's perfect, but he seems to get topped by some pretty big kitties himself.

by Anonymousreply 28707/29/2014

I love it

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by Anonymousreply 29208/08/2014

and here, he's a top!

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by Anonymousreply 29408/12/2014

big guys, admit it, LOVE getting it in the can

by Anonymousreply 29508/12/2014

Colby seems to get fucked more and more often

by Anonymousreply 29608/12/2014

I always felt the same way until I got into a relationship with my boyfriend who is taller and significantly heavier than me, as well as a near-total bottom. It's all about chemistry. I love fucking him.

by Anonymousreply 29708/12/2014

This big old slutty ex-con seems to love getting fucked

by Anonymousreply 29808/12/2014

Men of Montreal have so many big dudes bottoms. It aint right.

by Anonymousreply 29909/06/2014

All big men should bottom. We love it.

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by Anonymousreply 30109/07/2014

Austin Wolfe is not gonna bottom. Ever.

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by Anonymousreply 30309/18/2014

I'm with you R8

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by Anonymousreply 30509/19/2014

Love them

by Anonymousreply 30609/19/2014

What's to hate OP just don't top big guys. As we all age, sooner or later that's more or less whats available to older gents. But not all middle age stay slim and in shape like me.

by Anonymousreply 30709/19/2014

Are there any big guys in porn who were mostly bottoms? The only one I can think of offhand is Parker London. Always loved seeing him get pounded by smaller guys.

by Anonymousreply 30809/19/2014

What position hits the prostate best, doggy?

by Anonymousreply 30909/23/2014

me too, OP

by Anonymousreply 31009/27/2014

Too big too Bottom.

by Anonymousreply 31110/01/2014

dont we all, OP

by Anonymousreply 31210/26/2014

I'm 6'7". When I was younger I was an inch and a half taller. It`s pretty difficult for me to find a bigger fellow to top me and if I`d held out for one I'd still be an anal virgin.

And for those who think the mechanics of a short guy topping a tall guy are insurmountable, I have to ask. How inflexible are you? There are no issues whatsoever...I'm kind of an expert on this.

by Anonymousreply 31310/26/2014

Men over 6 feet should never bottom.

by Anonymousreply 31411/12/2014

R302, oh, YES, he will!

by Anonymousreply 31511/12/2014

Alex Cox again!

by Anonymousreply 31612/22/2014

Don't do it, big dudes!

by Anonymousreply 31712/22/2014

It doesn't really matter who bottoms. What is annoying is a 6'5" bottom with his ass in the air -- and zero awareness of what is going on -- snorting poppers in his Nasty Pig jock -- and doesn't give a fuck as long as he gets his hole pounded.

Meanwhile, me (5'9" top -- huge cock) is in the background trying to get the stepladder out of the linen closet to get the job done.

by Anonymousreply 31812/22/2014

You mean something almost like this R318?

by Anonymousreply 31912/22/2014

Have you ever topped, R313?

by Anonymousreply 32012/22/2014

Or, something like this?

by Anonymousreply 32112/22/2014

Any man over 130 pounds should NEVER, repeat NEVER, bottom under any circumstance. Disgusting.

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by Anonymousreply 32312/23/2014

R323 Well, that has to be one of the most profound postings ever on DL.

by Anonymousreply 32412/23/2014

r320 When I was dating I was usually the donor, mostly because a lot of guys have some fantasy about being dominated by a large-scale top. In my relationship - monogamous and going on for a quarter century - we're about 50-50 versatile when doing anal.

In my experience there are lots of smaller guys who want to top as well and, if I was into them, I'd let them. I'm not responsible for the disposition of my nerve endings and being the anal receptor can feel good!

I weigh 260 lbs. Perhaps you could just pretend I'm two 130 pound twinks.

by Anonymousreply 32512/23/2014

Sebastian: 6' 4"


by Anonymousreply 32612/25/2014

Another Sebastian!

The bigger they are, the quicker they bend over!!!

by Anonymousreply 32712/25/2014

Billy Santoro: 6'

by Anonymousreply 32812/25/2014

Another Billy Santoro

by Anonymousreply 32912/25/2014

Robert Axel: 6' 2"

by Anonymousreply 33012/25/2014

OP is crazy, nothing hotter than a big beefy man who loves to bottom.

by Anonymousreply 33112/25/2014

Another Robert Axel

by Anonymousreply 33212/25/2014

Woof R332, that's a big bottom having fun :)

by Anonymousreply 33312/25/2014

[quote]OP is crazy, nothing hotter than a big beefy man who loves to bottom.

Only if you can get them to the point of (and it ain't too hard either) where they are screaming; "Fuck me! FUCK ME HARDER, PLEASE!!!"

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by Anonymousreply 33501/12/2015

[quote]Another Robert Axel

Thanks for the Robert Axel pics! Always loved it when he bottomed. Anyone have a favorite "Big Guy Bottoming For A Smaller Guy" video? For me, I'll say it's a tie between the "Dan And Randy" video from Sean Cody and when Pat Bateman bottomed for Dayton O'Connor.

by Anonymousreply 33601/13/2015

dont we all, OP

by Anonymousreply 33701/27/2015

Top or bottom, you've got to admit: the smaller they are, the easier it is to hide the body.

by Anonymousreply 33801/27/2015

CHRISTINA!!!! ...bring me the axe!

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by Anonymousreply 34102/24/2015

Legs up!

by Anonymousreply 34202/24/2015

Right there...

by Anonymousreply 34302/24/2015

Wow, I actually know the Asian guy at R341 personally. I'll just say that he's been on my lap many times.

by Anonymousreply 34402/24/2015

freshman versus senior...

by Anonymousreply 34502/24/2015

R344 Ask him why he never bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 34602/24/2015

That Asian kid has a nice butt, he should try bottoming.

by Anonymousreply 34702/24/2015

He can hoist a guy who's bigger than him into mid-air. I've seen him do it several times.

by Anonymousreply 34802/24/2015

LOVE IT when big guys bottom!!!

by Anonymousreply 34903/16/2015

Ok for you, OP.

For me nothing hotter than when I start teasing a hot, manly big guy's ass and he shows me how much he wants to explore and expand the pleasure I am giving him.

by Anonymousreply 35003/16/2015

Are you a top or just a very competitive bottom?

by Anonymousreply 35103/16/2015

Bottom and 5'8" but whenever their dicks are smaller than mine and they want it, I enjoy being the top.

by Anonymousreply 35203/16/2015

Tomas Friedel

by Anonymousreply 35303/17/2015

Massaging the prostate....

by Anonymousreply 35404/04/2015

I LOVE it when big guys bottom, frankly I love it when ALL guys bottom, it should be compulsory.

by Anonymousreply 35504/04/2015

Great pic, R354. I love it when Aaron Bruiser bottoms.

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by Anonymousreply 35704/21/2015


Big things come in small packages!

by Anonymousreply 35804/30/2015

That's it. Like that...

by Anonymousreply 35904/30/2015

Not exactly related but what about a younger man toping an older one? Is this usual or not?

by Anonymousreply 36004/30/2015

[quote]Not exactly related but what about a younger man toping an older one? Is this usual or not?

Already a thread...

Twink fucks older or something like that.

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by Anonymousreply 36304/30/2015

r309. it depends on the curve of the dick. If the dick curves upward, then missionary position-bottom on his back. If it curves down, doggy style.

by Anonymousreply 36405/03/2015

it should be outlawed

by Anonymousreply 36606/23/2015

I'm 6'4 and my partner is 5'8. I love him, but I would never bottom for him. Ever.

by Anonymousreply 36706/23/2015

I would and have

by Anonymousreply 36806/23/2015

I love it when bigger guys bottom for smaller guys. Of the many porn sites out there I'm surprised there isn't one specifically for it. Unless there's one I've never heard of.

by Anonymousreply 36906/24/2015

This thread needs more pictures.

by Anonymousreply 37006/24/2015

graphic pictures

by Anonymousreply 37106/24/2015

[quote]I'm 6'4 and my partner is 5'8. I love him, but I would never bottom for him. Ever.

Just curious - is it because you feel you shouldn't bottom because you're so much bigger than him, or you simply just don't have any interest in bottoming?

by Anonymousreply 37207/13/2015

I love seeing big guys get fucked if they're really into it.

by Anonymousreply 37307/13/2015

I'm 5'3 and about 7-8". Thick cock. I've topped conventionally tall men (6'1), though it was a bit uncomfortable. Plowed his big muscular ass till we both came. At the end of the day....who cares who tops and bottoms. It's more interesting to have different flavors.

by Anonymousreply 37407/13/2015

Legs up!

by Anonymousreply 37510/20/2015

too much information

by Anonymousreply 37610/26/2015
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