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Why do many gay men like big dicks so much?

Is it an aesthetic thing, or is it because they feel better when they're inside you? I don't have enough experience with bottoming to judge if it feels better to get fucked by a big dick than by a medium one, but I find medium(-to-smallish) dicks much more aesthetically pleasing. To say nothing of the fact that they're much more comfortable to suck. But then I have a very small mouth - do all size queens have a mouth like Julia Roberts?

by Anonymousreply 20308/04/2018

As a top I really do not care anything about big dicks. My BF is happy that I have a big dick because it is more fun to play with than a teeny weenie

by Anonymousreply 103/02/2011

Because men are competetive. And we need to prove something

by Anonymousreply 203/02/2011

it's a male thing, not a gay male thing

by Anonymousreply 303/02/2011

Men are visual, which is why they like looking at whatever turns them on regardless of size. However, once the sex act is actaully underway and if the chemistry is good, I think the size issue goes away.

by Anonymousreply 403/02/2011

Why would anyone want a small one?%0D %0D I hate seeing a pencil dick or tiny little thing and thinking, yuck. Especially when you're expecting a good one.%0D %0D Aesthetic yes...just looking at one of those monsters gets my mouth a'waterin.

by Anonymousreply 503/02/2011

Why do straight men like big tits on women?%0D %0D OP, that is like asking why gay men are turned on by men. I like big pretty dicks because I do. I don't like vaginas because I don't. Nothing against them, I just like dicks, big ones are better. If I knew why, then I would have an answer to one of life's mysteries. %0D %0D I don't know any straight men who like big dicks per se. They might want to have one- not sure they care particularly to get up close and personal with another guy's. Don't know why except for their being being straight. Please dont tell me straight me want to suck dick- that's gay men.

by Anonymousreply 603/02/2011

Deep Thoughts by charlie.

by Anonymousreply 703/02/2011

It's a trophy.

by Anonymousreply 803/02/2011

Big dicks feel better in your mouth and ass. I love a thick dick that fills my mouth!!!

by Anonymousreply 908/29/2012

Cause I'm a low down dirty whore and I love big dick. Never met one I didn't like or couldn't take.

by Anonymousreply 1008/29/2012

I like small ones myself. Between 2 to 4 inches erect - I guess it's a dominance thing.

by Anonymousreply 1208/29/2012

Because it's a big dick?

Although, if it's an ugly big dick, all appeal goes away.

by Anonymousreply 1308/29/2012

Because men like to see something gigantic so they can think about how to compete with it.

by Anonymousreply 1408/29/2012

I'm sorry miss, but with all due respect, I've got problems of my own.

by Anonymousreply 1508/29/2012

I think anesthetics may be one reason. Showers tend to look better naked than our grower friends. As for the sex part, I think anything under 6 just can't get the job done. My personal preference is 7 and up, but I would never turn a nice 6er away.

by Anonymousreply 1608/29/2012

I'm half and half. I like to SEE big dicks, but I like to PLAY with normal-sized dicks.

by Anonymousreply 1708/29/2012


I love the idea of a penis spraying knockout gas.

by Anonymousreply 1808/29/2012

My favorite soda ain't 7up for no reason....

by Anonymousreply 1908/29/2012

It reminds them of their missing masculinity.

by Anonymousreply 2008/29/2012

Don't men have a prostate, so it makes sense? I can never figure out why a straight women would care (since almost none actually have a g-spot, and none have a prostate), but it makes perfect sense for gay men.

As for oral, must be psychological.

by Anonymousreply 2108/29/2012

Aaaaaannnddd DL hits a new low.

by Anonymousreply 2208/29/2012

True, when the big man goes up in the woman they're both going to be uncomfortable because she's only able to accommodate so much and no more, whereas when the big man goes up in the man he's got more room to stretch out, so to speak.

by Anonymousreply 2308/29/2012

I have to agree with R3. Lots of men are focused on size. I love the feeling of my big dick swinging between my legs. Why, who knows?

BTW, I F&F'd R11 given the choice of words.

by Anonymousreply 2408/29/2012

Not ALL straight men like big tits, some like small ones and others are more into legs or behinds. SOME ladies like big dicks and some like big hearts better.

by Anonymousreply 2508/29/2012

Size is a factor, but the shape is more important, as well as what he does with it.

by Anonymousreply 2608/29/2012

Fills me.up I feel it more

by Anonymousreply 2709/13/2012

R21, because even though we don't have a prostate (and I don't believe that g-spot bullshit either), getting fucked by a tiny dick is like getting fucked by a tampon.

You want big, but not too big. That said, there are more important attributes in a man. I'd never turn a small-penised man out of bed if he had other sterling qualities.

by Anonymousreply 2809/13/2012

my bf has a big cock and is a big guy full stop but i have found small built guys have lovely well proportioned cocks. ive had guys with big cocks who are hopeless in bed and vice versa so it doesnt always pay to be a size queen !

by Anonymousreply 2901/09/2013

R22, there can be no new low. We bottomed out around here years ago.

by Anonymousreply 3001/09/2013

Big is better, honey!

by Anonymousreply 3101/09/2013

As a bottom, guys with 7-9 inches are the best. Anything under 6 inches, unless there is a lot of girth, just doesn't feel as good. Over 9 inches and it is a lot of work to get in, which can ruin the fun. If the top is over 9 inches but patient and lets me get used to his size, it can be fun.

As other posters have noted, though, size really isn't everything. If you're big and you don't know what to do with it or you are lazy and think your size is everything, the sex won't be so great.

by Anonymousreply 3201/09/2013

[quote]Why do many gay men like big dicks so much?

Because big dicks hurt.

by Anonymousreply 3301/09/2013

Size does matter. I have a very small penis. Less than a inch hard. I can't even penetrate. I'm stuck being a bottom, but inside I feel like a top. I would love to be able to fuck, when I fantasize it's always as a top but I've never been able to. It's really limiting. I met the perfect guy once. We were friends. We connected. He was into me. But I never acted on it because he was a "power bottom" and I was embarrassed.

by Anonymousreply 3401/09/2013

A dick that's too big hurts. I will never understand size queens. I think they are nuts.

by Anonymousreply 3501/09/2013

Another thing, how can you get a huge dick in your mouth and give it a good blow job? It's stupid..."he's got a big dick, I've got to have him!" Well you can have him, I sure wouldn't want him.

by Anonymousreply 3601/09/2013

The most important attribute to me in a man is if he gives good head, and wants to suck me off. I have a physical reaction to seeing a big dick, it turns me on. I love to stroke big ones, but I won't even try to give head if it is too big. I have a strong gag reflex, and can give good head only if they have a small one. I don't do anal sex, either way. If they have a big dick that they want to rub between my legs, that can be good. I am real plain vanilla, and like other men who are as well, and we stay very healthy with frottage and 69. Size of dick is no problem.

by Anonymousreply 3701/09/2013

Was R34 actually meant to be a girl? I mean hard and an inch long? Is that even possible? I'd like to see that (to believe it).

by Anonymousreply 3801/09/2013

Shakespeare spoke of "an inch of raw mutton." It's not the best attribute, but it remains possible.

by Anonymousreply 3901/09/2013

R11 and R22 you are aware that enlarging breasts on women is a multibillion dollar industry ONLY because straight guys like em big too? Take your homophobia elsewhere please.

by Anonymousreply 4001/09/2013

This poll probably received more votes than any other in DL history!

by Anonymousreply 4101/09/2013

R2 sums it up.

Big cocks are great, smaller ones are fine, even a small one can work out nicely, if he's really hard and he's into me.

by Anonymousreply 4201/09/2013

gay men? how about everyone whether they would openly admit to it or not. it's called fascination.

by Anonymousreply 4301/09/2013

I hate sucking a big dig. They are jawbreakers. I can give a much better blowjob to a medium-size dick.

by Anonymousreply 4401/09/2013

Well, as an openly gay guy with a smaller penis (4.5" erect), I find most (if not all the above) comments rather sickening.

Yes, I would agree that aesthetically a 'huge' cock is nice. But I've always maintained that anything more than a hand full, is a waste!!.

In the past, I have turned guys down, due to their size...(if too big).

I don't want to be split in two thanks!!

by Anonymousreply 4501/15/2013

[quote]In the past, I have turned guys down, due to their size...(if too big).

Which reminds me....

A little Irishman gets into an elevator, looks up and sees this HUGE black guy standing next to him.

The big guy sees the little Irishman staring at him. He looks down and says: "7 ft tall, 350 pounds, 20 inch penis, 3 pounds of testicles, Turner Brown"

The little Irishman faints and falls to the floor.

The big guy kneels down and brings him to, shaking him... The big guy says, "What's wrong with you?"

In a weak voice the little guy says, "What EXACTLY did you just say to me?"

The big dude says, "Well, I saw your curious look and I figured I'd just give you the answers to the questions everyone always asks me... I'm 7 ft tall, I weigh 350 pounds, I have a 20 inch penis, my testicles weigh 3 pounds each... and my name is Turner Brown."

The Irishman says: "Turner Brown?!... Sweet Jesus... I thought you said,'Turn around!'"

by Anonymousreply 4601/15/2013

r46, that's the worse joke in the world. It just sounds like something that would be said in a smokey dark gay bar circa 1945.

by Anonymousreply 4701/15/2013

I like being stretched open by a big cock.

by Anonymousreply 4801/15/2013

I'm the quintessential WASP. I love to get fucked by hung, uncut, Latinos. Guys I would never admit to even knowing if I saw them in public. Best sex is getting done a just a mattress that's on the floor. It isn't good sex unless the cock has power over me. If it doesn't hurt I don't feel a thing. I can't be treated like shit with a four inch dick.

by Anonymousreply 4901/15/2013

"Guys I would never admit to even knowing if I saw them in public."


by Anonymousreply 5001/15/2013

Just being honest with you.

by Anonymousreply 5101/15/2013

1 AND 2.

by Anonymousreply 5201/15/2013

I WANT WOMYN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 5301/15/2013

I'm sorry, but if a man don't have at least 8 inchs he's gettin no play with me. I specify in my Grindr profile that I accept nothin less than 8" and if a scrub shows up with less (I don't care how pretty he is) he is shown the door. Guys with less than 8" have no confidence and can't fuck for shit. There are no exceptions to that rule. I gave up on needle dicks after years of bad sex. The only good sex was with more than 8". Any body who says they like less than 8" is just being "nice" or just aint had the good stuff.

by Anonymousreply 5401/15/2013

R54 To each their own, but I tend to judge the man by whether I'm attracted to him intellectually or conversationally first. Dick size does not matter. I have had great sex with smaller ones and great sex with larger ones. Of course, I tend to only fuck guys in relationships, so what they are like as people is far more important to me than how large a body appendage is. Incidently, the best sex I ever had was with a guy who was packing just under 5", so it's what you make of it.

by Anonymousreply 5501/15/2013

Amen, R55. I agree 100%.

by Anonymousreply 5601/15/2013

A nice six incher is all I need (give or take an inch). I'm easy to please.

by Anonymousreply 5701/15/2013

Most men are obsessed with the size of their own penises. It only stands to reason that gay men should be obsessed with the penis size of the men they have sex with.

by Anonymousreply 5801/15/2013

I love r54, even though his hole's diameter is probably the size of Lake Michigan.

by Anonymousreply 5901/15/2013

R59 - That's exactly what I thought when I read that one. That fucker's hole probably never snaps shut. Fucking Carlsbad Caverns back there.

by Anonymousreply 6001/15/2013

I don't know, but I like my partner's small one just fine.

I am a tall 7" top with a gag reflex that won't budge, and my partner likes my dick, says it is "perfect husband size" -- so (to paraphrase Babs Bush) this works out very well for me. Truly happy.

by Anonymousreply 6101/15/2013

As you get older you need penes to be increasingly larger in order to be able to feel them inside. Average size dicks don't even touch the sides.

by Anonymousreply 6201/15/2013

I hope R62 is joking. Regardless, I love his usage of the correct plural of 'penis'.

by Anonymousreply 6301/15/2013

I guess I am something of an anomaly in the gay world. I do not like huge dicks. I dated one guy with a massive dong and it was misery. No matter how much lube we used, it always hurt like fucking hell and my jaws were always sore. Give me an average sized shooter any day of the week over that oversized shit.

by Anonymousreply 6401/15/2013

You can tell who the guys with small dicks are just by reading their responses.

Everyone loves to look at a big dick, might it be harder to blow, maybe. But we know if there was a way all these bitter posters could get a bigger dick overnight they would take it IN AN INSTANT.

Every guy, gay and straight are obsessed with big dicks. In straight porn guys do not want to see a girl getting screwed by a small dick. Straight guys want to see a big dick on camera just like gays. Its not a gay thing its a GUY thing.

Lie to yourself if you want to but we all know the truth.

by Anonymousreply 6501/15/2013

I'm not one of the 'bitter posters' R65 alludes to, but I also don't want a bigger dick. It just isn't a priority for me - I'd rather inherit a million dollars, acquire a PhD, or travel the world, for starters.

Surely there have to be other gay guys who think this way?

by Anonymousreply 6601/15/2013

I like looking at big dicks in porn. They are visually stimulating. But handling them in practice is just more trouble than they're worth

Or they were, at least. I have to go back a lot of years to reach any personal experience with them. I've been happily and monogamously partnered with an average sized guy since I was twenty-one, for thirty four years now. Overall, it's been a great life, though the size-obsessed whores will be unable to comprehend that.

by Anonymousreply 6701/15/2013

I have a gag rlex that makes it painful to suck a big cock. I am also very tight in the ass and big cocks are again very painful. So I am very happy with men who have small to medium cocks. And yes, I am small to average in cock size myself.

by Anonymousreply 6801/16/2013

Every now and then you just want to get ripped open by something like this. NSFW

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by Anonymousreply 6901/16/2013

I'm a bottom and I love big dicks especially big black cocks cos I feel dominated when getting fucked by a big dick. It feels like I'm safe as I'm being breed by a strong man.

by Anonymousreply 7002/23/2013

I am a bisexual dude. Not only do I not care about big penises, I dont care about dicks period. The only reason I encounter them is because they happen to be attached to dudes I am attracted to. The things that attract to a dude are non-phallic: face, butt, pecs, abs, and biceps. It has nothing to do with genitals. Thankfully, I just get serviced by dudes. I don't suck or get penetrated. Thankfully, a lot of guys are totally receptive.

by Anonymousreply 7102/23/2013

It is interesting that there's an overemphasis on the length measurement--here, in profiles, in porn, in conversation.

Width plays a big role in the hole, but is more difficult to gauge or quantify visually.

by Anonymousreply 7202/23/2013

I vote for little ones. Cut. Nothing hotter for me than a cute little cut erection on a hot naked jock (who is fit without being too muscular like some gym rats get).

by Anonymousreply 7302/23/2013

way more interested in load size than hose size

by Anonymousreply 7402/23/2013

I don't care except for abnormally small ones. I don't have a measurement size in mind just that reaction in my mind: oh, that's it?

by Anonymousreply 7502/23/2013

I used to love big cock, then I had one was that was just gross and Voila! (that's French for 'How about that!") I was tired of the big cocks.

It was like the time I ate a cinnamon roll at the fair when I was 7. It made me barf and Voila! I didn't like cinammon rolls anymore.

by Anonymousreply 7602/23/2013

R76, you remind me of the grandmother in Sixteen Candles, who opens a box of donuts and proclaims: "Voila! Breakfast is served!"

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by Anonymousreply 7702/23/2013

She reminds me of me too. I typed my reply while holding a cigarette.

by Anonymousreply 7802/23/2013

I like ass, not cock

by Anonymousreply 7903/07/2013

To be honest I like feeling it stretching me,and the feeling of something big going in.The feeling of something huge going deep inside is total turn on. The pain is also a turn on. They can't just be a long cock, it has to be really really thick as well.The feeling of just purely being penetrated and long stroked by a hard c*** is the best turn on ever.

by Anonymousreply 8004/14/2013

I'm a bottom and I've always been with bigger than average guys. My ex-partner was very thick and the guys I've dated have all been about the same as my ex or bigger. For the first time, I'm dating a guy who is just average and not that thick. I really love him and the sex is good for the most part. He turns me on and I love getting fucked by him. But boy, does it take a while to cum. I feel like he's just not hitting the prostate like the bigger men I've been with. The last guy I dated was pretty big, about 8.5 and thick. He'd stroke it in and out in the missionary position and I could feel it hitting my prostate and stretching me out. Missionary with the guy I'm dating now can't even get me off. I have to ride it and really angle things before I finally cum. When I cum, though, it's intense. I don't want to hurt his feelings and ask if he can use an extender. Anyone else dealt with this?

by Anonymousreply 8106/06/2013

a perfect man to me comes with a cock size between 5,9 to 7,09 inches. If perfect but comes with a big dick, well, I will try to find a soluction. ;-)

while being single before, the more less-interesting was the person, the more I would expect for a big dick for compensation. I remember that!

I sometimes worry about my anal structure, as someday I will be old. That's why the preference for an average dick is also for prevention.

by Anonymousreply 8206/06/2013

Big dicks rule!

by Anonymousreply 8306/06/2013

Not all big dicks look better but some look amazing. For me the biggest turn on with a big dick is that it feels so amazing in my hand.

by Anonymousreply 8406/06/2013

Some gay men like big dicks for what they lack. Some do however, measure up. For the posts that I read some of you need a real adjustment. You want pain then get into the bondage, BDSM crap. I am a gay man with a 4.5-5" inch hard dick and it's truly sickening to read some of what I read. Just because it's bigger doesn't always mean it's better. Ya size queens need a big slap upside the head. Sorry to say, but you all are ridiculous. It's people like you who make people like us have low confidence in the first place not to mention the media portraying bigger as better. So maybe when ya say that we've got no confidence maybe look in the mirror and realize you size queens are one of the problems to that.

by Anonymousreply 8508/01/2013

Big juicy penises and bull testicles make me weak in the knees and cum like a MOTHERFUCKER. Nothing else compares.

by Anonymousreply 8608/01/2013

It is the reflection of gross vapidity, vulgarity, crudeness, and superficiality that is rampant among SOME, *not all, gay dudes.

by Anonymousreply 8708/01/2013

OP, women like big dicks, too. Humans have the largest penises (by far) among the primates. It's obviously a product of sexual selection.

by Anonymousreply 8808/01/2013

Don't want no short, short, man.

by Anonymousreply 8908/01/2013

grow up, dudes

by Anonymousreply 9008/02/2013

Hey therr big cocks are so hot they look good feel awsome just alittle pain it makes me feel like the women i should be but its all good because my big cock and my dd tits give me the best feeling also makes me feel like the women i should be

by Anonymousreply 9108/04/2013

[all posts by right wing shit-stain # a removed.]

by Anonymousreply 9208/05/2013

If you have a giant cock, you aren't topping me. I'd much prefer a hot body over a big dick.

by Anonymousreply 9308/05/2013

Hey so why do gay men like big dicks. Im 29 years old i have this freling that doesnt leave me alone. Its that feminine feeling im atracted to female products everything in general and i saw myself in the mirror and i fell inlove with a hot feninine women i was so passable as a women in reslity i looked like a women it was like a 78 percent. First time i used a 8inch dildo it hurt for a little then i bought a 10 inch long one inch thick it hurt a little but it was something making me real wet wentbout on my first sexual encounter i recieved another 10 inch real cock my god it feels so erotic felt like making me feeling i wanted more non stop having sex with another man is a great feeling. So do i sound or u guys think i am gay.

by Anonymousreply 9408/05/2013

So is anybody reading these posts. I love having sexuall encounters with other shemales crossdressers its very intresting erotic i love it its very comfortable .does that make me gay

by Anonymousreply 9508/05/2013

I actually like them smaller than average and uncut. If it's over 6 inches, it's kind of a turn off.

by Anonymousreply 9608/05/2013

R40 i love ur post about the big boobs cant decide wat size is the best for me i want a dd size fits me perfect matches the rest pf my body nervous of how my life is going to change and ill look more attractive of a feminine look so am i still concidered a gay man. Then i will feel a cock between my 38 dd.

by Anonymousreply 9708/05/2013

Some gay men are so immature and vulgar. They lack any depth, so they fixate crudest, basest things. Thankfully other gay men have depth and morals.

by Anonymousreply 9808/05/2013

I don't know Rose.

by Anonymousreply 9908/05/2013

it's the competition aspect. other than that I really don't care about the size, if it's HARD and he is INTO to me, I'm all for the cock regardless of size.

by Anonymousreply 10008/05/2013

Dear God R81, You don't need to have your prostate massaged to cum. Just ask billions of straight men. You are just lazy and spoiled. Have your partner work your dick while he's fucking you or do it yourself.

by Anonymousreply 10108/06/2013

Vulgar superficiality

by Anonymousreply 10208/15/2013

[quote]Vulgar superficiality

R102, you say that like it's a bad thing.

by Anonymousreply 10308/15/2013

SOME gay men are rather shallow and immature, which naturally leads, to crude phallic obsessions, which is often expressed in a size fixation. Very stunted emotional and psychological growth.

by Anonymousreply 10409/27/2013


by Anonymousreply 10510/02/2013

r94, have you gone to therapy, dude?

by Anonymousreply 10610/12/2013

Superficial carnality and sex addiction

by Anonymousreply 10711/30/2013

As feminine as the uterus is long.

by Anonymousreply 10812/02/2013

Depends on who has it. Love Milton Berle's humor, but no way would I even want to have seen it. Same with other famous superhung actors, and regular people.

by Anonymousreply 10912/02/2013

You can feel it and see it looks good

by Anonymousreply 11012/04/2013

I don't understand the question and I won't respond to it.

by Anonymousreply 11112/04/2013

r38 It is called having a micro penis. It is unfortunate, but it exist.

by Anonymousreply 11212/04/2013

Immaturity, sexual addiction, vapidness, and profane interests.

by Anonymousreply 11312/05/2013

WTF, R108?

by Anonymousreply 11412/05/2013

Big cocks are nice to look at but since I'm not into anal and trying to suck one requires you to be able to unhinge your jaw,I much prefer average ones when it comes to actual sex. Also most of the time guys with big ones are arrogant jerks due to constantly being fawned over by size queens.

by Anonymousreply 11512/08/2013


by Anonymousreply 11612/10/2013

I'm the same as R17. Big 'uns only look good in porn. For real life, I like normal-sized ones.

by Anonymousreply 11712/10/2013

Most (not all) big ones are ugly. Some of the ugliest ones I have seen are huge, mis-shapen, bent, crooked, and just gross to look at. I dated one guy that had a true 11" cock. It had absolutely NO HEAD on it. It was rounded off on the top and gnarly looking. I almost puked. Needless to say he had to bottom for me and no way would I put that ugly thing in my mouth. No way, Jose!

by Anonymousreply 11812/10/2013

I have never really cared for large ones. They are painful to my asshole and jaws. I like a nice average-sized one that I can suck on all night long. Mine is just over 7.5" and most guys can't take it (it's really fat). Some guys even cry, no matter how much lube I use. I wouldn't want to have a smaller one, but I would never dated a guy with a big one.

by Anonymousreply 11912/10/2013

Large ones look better and feel better I won't even talk to a man unless I know he's packing - much less date him I won't even be friends with small dick dudes - too much baggage and inferioirty complesses.

Big dick guys are more intelligent have more swagger are more confirdent better looking - a proven fact - and better lovers no exceptions.

by Anonymousreply 12012/10/2013

r120 I think you mean inferiority complethes.

But at least your honest.

by Anonymousreply 12112/10/2013


by Anonymousreply 12212/10/2013

As a 100% bottom, I love feeling a large man on top of me, and I love when a long, fat dick stretches me open.

I love the feeling of a cock inside of me, and the twitching of a cock when it cums.

by Anonymousreply 12312/10/2013

I've been riding monstacocks for so long my asshole sounds like an ECHO CHAMBER.

by Anonymousreply 12412/10/2013

My asshole sounds like the Vienna boys choir.

by Anonymousreply 12512/10/2013

My turdhole only like da big onez.

by Anonymousreply 12612/10/2013

R125 I LOL'ed

by Anonymousreply 12712/10/2013

Micropenis is a pathology; megalophallia is an honor.

by Anonymousreply 12812/27/2013

I'm a bottom and the big dick just seems to hit the spot for me. I'm sure even among gay men there are all kinds of preferences. I think that it doesn't matter the sex you are or your orientation, it is a personal preference.

by Anonymousreply 12912/31/2013

Penis is a symbol of masculinity, a bigger one equals more masculinity, so the faires love big dick. I like everything, but a big dick is nice now and again but not required, because I'm no fairy.

by Anonymousreply 13012/31/2013

I voted for medium. Big dicks are fun to look at and play with and suck, but if it's too big it hurts when you're getting fucked and if the top is too aggressive you might gag a bit if he tries to make you deep-throat against your will. Plus guys with monster dicks are lazy lovers and usually assholes with huge egos. They just rest on their laurels instead of honing their craft.

Sorry, I'm not a full-on size queen but even I can't do micropeen. By that I don't mean average, I'm talking like 3 or 4 inches and really thin like a pinky finger. Just being honest. Too hard to suck, not much to play with, and getting fucked you always have to pretend it's so amazing instead of just enjoying it for real. Plus the top knows he's small so he's insecure about it and always fishing for you to feign compliments.

Give me a nice guy who treats me well with a medium sized dick who knows how to use it but is still grateful to be getting laid at all any day. That's the type of top I want to marry. I wouldn't even make him use condoms if he wants to be monogamous.

Not too big, not too small, just right.

by Anonymousreply 13112/31/2013

Anybody been turned out by a guy with a big dick who WASN'T lazy in bed?

by Anonymousreply 13212/31/2013

Yeah I have and he was bisexual and wanted me as a top. But when I had him as a top he was careful and made me take deep breathes so I could thoroughly enjoy his big dick.

by Anonymousreply 13312/31/2013

Big dicks are nice but size queens are gross.

by Anonymousreply 13412/31/2013

R134, if you think they are "nice," why do you think you are not a size queen?

by Anonymousreply 13501/01/2014

I like the feel of a big dick inside of me. It is so fantastic to give head to a man with a big one.

by Anonymousreply 13604/01/2014

I am crestfallen at the first sight of a dick which is less than 6 1/2 inches. It just does nothing for me...but then I don't like receiving oral sex. I love giving it tho.

by Anonymousreply 13704/01/2014

for me..I just like them..theres nothing more of a turn on than seeing a big dick hanging waiting to be sucked..i love big cocks..period..

by Anonymousreply 13804/28/2014

Some really large ones never get as hard as a medium sized cock.

by Anonymousreply 13904/28/2014

Gays love big dicks because their hole is so stretched it takes a forearm sized dick to fill you up.

by Anonymousreply 14004/28/2014

I wanna suck on something. I've had so many men with tiny dicks, some the size of my pinky finger, and there's no fun in sucking that.

I'm a top with a good size dick but I love sucking big ones.

Not too complicated, hmm.

by Anonymousreply 14104/28/2014

I like pretty cocks with a bit if an upward curve. Preferably uncut and white. Size does not figure.

by Anonymousreply 14204/28/2014

I love men with big cocks because they feel so good inside of you. The hairier also is better and oh yes large balls

by Anonymousreply 14305/21/2014

Hi Guys,

My first experience with a huge cock was a white guy I met from CL. He had a huge cock close to 9 inches. I was totally infatuated by his size and loved to worship (stroke, kiss, lick, suck and deep-throat) his huge cock.

I really love to worship a huge cock and wish I could find a really well hung Stud. I want to bottom for huge horse hung Studs too. It would be a dream come true to experience even bigger cocks like 9+ Like I always say though, "The Bigger the Better"!

If there are any hung Studs out there who are visiting, or live in southern Alabama, Mississippi, Louisiana, or the Florida panhandle are hit me up!

LongCockLuvr at the big G email


by Anonymousreply 14407/31/2014

Not into phalluses, but I love nice bubble butts and big pecs.

by Anonymousreply 14508/02/2014

I am a sexy white boy who personally loves huge hung men so much.

It is so sexy and visually pleasing to see a guy with a huge flaccid cock strutting around a locker room with that huge meat swinging side to side. It makes my mouth water to think about how big it possibly could get. One of my favorite things is to suck on a huge flaccid cock and feel it grow and grow in my mouth and hands.

It is equally exciting to feel the amazing size of a huge cock once it is fully hard. The length, girth and mass are mesmerizing. It is so hot to stroke a long cock. I believe a long cock turns me on more than just about anything else.

I enjoy the manly smells I experience when sucking cock. The smell of a huge sexy cock and balls acts as a natural pheromone that has a strong aphrodisiac effect that makes me so horny.

The slightly salty taste of his cock and balls is so delicious. I cannot even begin to explain how much I love the taste of sweet and salty precum that flows from his big smooth shiny cock head. I love to coat my lips with precum as I rub that big silky smooth cock head on my lips!

I want to experience being a bottom for a long beautifully hung Stud. I can only imagine how amazing it would feel to slide down that long poly with my tight little bum!

I guess you can definitely tell that I really love huge cocks so much and want to worship and pleasure the hung Studs that are blessed with their endowment! I want to meet a guy that will let me enjoy his huge cock for hours..I mean kiss, lick, suck and deepthroat for hours..

I would love to hear from hung Studs out there. You can contact me at LongCockLuvr at G Male dotcom


by Anonymousreply 14609/23/2014

r146 has a way with words.

by Anonymousreply 14709/23/2014

I don't mind seeing big dicks out of curiosity but to play with and visually I prefer 4-6 ins.

by Anonymousreply 14809/24/2014

You guys are something else. Unreal

by Anonymousreply 14909/25/2014

Hardness more important to me than bigness.

by Anonymousreply 15009/25/2014

Having a 9.5 inch cock has its disadvantages. Short skinny guys, which I love, have turned me down because of my size. They say they cant stand having a 6'0"- 210 lbs on top of them drilling them over and over again. They don't enjoy. I spend most of the time releasing myself by my own.

by Anonymousreply 15110/05/2014

I prefer girth and big heads over length.

by Anonymousreply 15210/05/2014

They are easier to see with my glasses off

by Anonymousreply 15310/05/2014

It is more important to me that the cock is rock hard. If it stands taunt against the guys abs - now that's a stud cock.

by Anonymousreply 15410/05/2014

love to look at and play with a nice thick one, but my mouth is too small to do much with it and ain't no way a thick one is going in my ass.

by Anonymousreply 15510/05/2014


I would not pass you up on your huge cock..I can promise you. I am searching all the time trying to find a huge hung Stud.

All these women and guys who complain to the hung guy they are with..please send some my way.


by Anonymousreply 15610/10/2014

I can see where Cheryl is coming from. However I know a lot of masculine gay men. Masculinity, after all, is what turns us on.

by Anonymousreply 15710/27/2014

'Cause they hurt so good!

by Anonymousreply 15810/27/2014

I'm a bottom with a little one, and I love a top of average size--I love the difference!

by Anonymousreply 15910/27/2014

Yeah -- cuz they hurt so GOOD.

by Anonymousreply 16010/27/2014

r157, where do you find them, dude? for real.

by Anonymousreply 16111/01/2014

Shallowness and crudeness

by Anonymousreply 16211/03/2014

If it's hard and pointing in my direction, don't care if it's a slim jim or a salami.

by Anonymousreply 16311/03/2014

Not all the time. I'm 9" and I have been told that pain with me is unbearable. On the other hand I have been told that they could not get enough of me

by Anonymousreply 16411/13/2014

Wow, just enjoy tho coks

by Anonymousreply 16511/14/2014

It is what is expected, but we all like what we like. I love my husbands dick, and he loves mine. We fuck each other, but do not want a 8 inch plus in each of us.

by Anonymousreply 16611/14/2014

As a bottom I have to say that everything depends of the moment. By boyfriend is about 9". Because of his girth and length sometimes I have to tell him to take it slow. Other times I enjoy when he doesn't. He's 6' foot 220 Lbs guy. Guys like him have to have their needs met right away.

by Anonymousreply 16711/14/2014


I think you are the perfect size. I am hoping to meet a guy who is 9"+ The Bigger The Better!

I think hung guys are so damn sexy. I just want to worship and pleasure hung men. I would like to chat with sexy hung guys, so please hit me up..

by Anonymousreply 16811/20/2014

I prefer small with a nice bush.

by Anonymousreply 16911/22/2014

The big dick rubs on the prostate gland, causing orgasm. That's why we like the big dicks.

Use Google. It's easy.

by Anonymousreply 17011/22/2014

We can not forget that big cocks means power. The bigger the cock the more submissive you become. Having a big guy with a huge cock means you are surrounded, you have to give it up, or you have submit. Guys with huge cocks know the power of it and bottom ones loves it.

by Anonymousreply 17111/22/2014

I'm actually a trans/CD/femboi/twink chaser, but I really LOVE my own 10x6, 466CC's of Mandingo-meat. I'm very ver-sa-tile (I will make you smile) as a top/power bottom (oral and anal), and a big penis is nice to touch and feel...and look at. I certainly look and touch my own!

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by Anonymousreply 17212/25/2014

Vapid immorality

by Anonymousreply 17312/25/2014

r170 I think you mean THICK. That's what feels good.

by Anonymousreply 17412/26/2014

I don't just love big cocks I love huge thick dildos as well. For me its the extreme stretching and pounding up my ass.

by Anonymousreply 17501/09/2015

Not all of us do. I prefer approximately 6" length by around 5" circumference. That's perfect for me. Any larger is not comfortable for me. I hate sucking a fat one. My jaws hurt.

by Anonymousreply 17601/09/2015

R170, One does not need 14" to stimulate the prostate. It is not that far in. Even a 3" cock could hit it, in reality.

by Anonymousreply 17701/09/2015

precisely dude

by Anonymousreply 17801/27/2015

i have enjoyed reading these, some i agree ,some not. my pennys worth is this. the gold is not always at the back of a cave. be thankful for what you have got and what your getting. if 6 7 8 is not good enough ,you can always find a compromise with something , cucumbers and other big fruits etc. enjoy your sex!

by Anonymousreply 17901/30/2015

Dicks are the best

by Anonymousreply 18001/31/2015

I prefer a cock with girth.It is more stimulating although it hurts more.Im not gay but I love cocks and especially cum. I dont know why but I cant get enough of it. Its the awesome feeling of having your butt stretched that nothing else compares. Does any one else feel the same ?

by Anonymousreply 18101/31/2015

[quote]Im not gay but I love cocks and especially cum.


Seriously, R181, thank you for the laugh!

by Anonymousreply 18201/31/2015

Just know that a big cock will give me more pleasure. I am not gay but I do love the sex. I am addicted to cock. I also think the penis is beautiful. I know why women love it so. any one else feel that way?

by Anonymousreply 18301/31/2015

No, R183. No one else feels that way.

by Anonymousreply 18401/31/2015

I'd like to look at the big black ones all either used as dildos but they feel so good

by Anonymousreply 18502/16/2015

as John Holms would say, when the dick is big enough, even a straight guy wants to suck it. EVERYBODY loves big dick, because it is

by Anonymousreply 18602/25/2015

Not necessarily suck R186, but they certainly want to look at it.

All guys are fascinated by big dicks, regardless of their sexuality. It's a powerful appendage to have.

by Anonymousreply 18702/25/2015

I like a nice cut 6" piece, not too thick, but not too thin.

by Anonymousreply 18802/25/2015

R187, not really dude. Stop projecting and fantasizing.

by Anonymousreply 18902/27/2015

I like them for the feel being a bottom CD I love the feel of being full and on the edge you could say. Even for oral I love a challenge the big cock ion my mouth with the way it makes me feel is my preferences. Not that I do not like all sizes just prefer big either way.

by Anonymousreply 19002/27/2015

Its simple. If you are extremely gay your preference could be more physicall appearance whith a medium size and good hability. A huge dick is not also competitive but very stimulating to sight, it can turn many people like oh my f god what a huge dick to suck... u know what im saying. It is rare to find..

by Anonymousreply 19102/28/2015

Yes really R187. Big dick porn is popular with straight guys. Studies have shown that guys are likely to notice another guys crotch regardless of sexuality.

Just the way things are.

by Anonymousreply 19202/28/2015

I love getting fucked by a big dick. Nothing better. It actually can't be too big.

by Anonymousreply 19302/28/2015

Just got fucked last night by this older top, big cock it felt so good. Love to suck them and fuck them, small dicks feel like a finger in you,

by Anonymousreply 19403/11/2015

I am a vers. If a guy can keep hitting the right spot till I cum and tremble it doesnt matter how big. On the other hand I have a 6.5 cut. I try my best to make sure I top well and work on my stamina. One rule I have is any guy that asks me how big I am is just shallow; its a turn off. I have been with 100% bottoms with huge dicks. I guess they were attracted to my masculinity than my avarage cock and they always enjoyed the sex. Personally I will only bottom for avarage guys. My ass aint a gym: no pain no gain

by Anonymousreply 19504/15/2015

I love a big dick because it feel amazing as it's stretching my hole

by Anonymousreply 19604/23/2015

It's the girth that stimulates. Yes fat cock gives more pleasure. My cock is thick and I always hear that my cock gives pleasure.. My friend is a bit thicker and longer than me and i love the feeling of fullness. My wife loves his cock too.So long is good but thick is better. Of course he has a pair of huge balls to compliment his large member.

by Anonymousreply 19705/10/2015

Haha best comment ever. Fat cocks are the best.

by Anonymousreply 19811/28/2017

small cocks mean to much

by Anonymousreply 19911/28/2017

because sad songs say so much

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Pain and Pleasure. Us gays love to have our prostates mashed and thrashed on by big cocks!!!

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R203 Awesome whore!

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