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Why do many gay men like big dicks so much?

Is it an aesthetic thing, or is it because they feel better when they're inside you? I don't have enough experience with bottoming to judge if it feels better to get fucked by a big dick than by a medium one, but I find medium(-to-smallish) dicks much more aesthetically pleasing. To say nothing of the fact that they're much more comfortable to suck. But then I have a very small mouth - do all size queens have a mouth like Julia Roberts?

by Anonymousreply 203August 4, 2018 9:36 PM

As a top I really do not care anything about big dicks. My BF is happy that I have a big dick because it is more fun to play with than a teeny weenie

by Anonymousreply 1March 2, 2011 7:34 PM

Because men are competetive. And we need to prove something

by Anonymousreply 2March 2, 2011 7:36 PM

it's a male thing, not a gay male thing

by Anonymousreply 3March 2, 2011 7:38 PM

Men are visual, which is why they like looking at whatever turns them on regardless of size. However, once the sex act is actaully underway and if the chemistry is good, I think the size issue goes away.

by Anonymousreply 4March 2, 2011 7:41 PM

Why would anyone want a small one?%0D %0D I hate seeing a pencil dick or tiny little thing and thinking, yuck. Especially when you're expecting a good one.%0D %0D Aesthetic yes...just looking at one of those monsters gets my mouth a'waterin.

by Anonymousreply 5March 2, 2011 7:47 PM

Why do straight men like big tits on women?%0D %0D OP, that is like asking why gay men are turned on by men. I like big pretty dicks because I do. I don't like vaginas because I don't. Nothing against them, I just like dicks, big ones are better. If I knew why, then I would have an answer to one of life's mysteries. %0D %0D I don't know any straight men who like big dicks per se. They might want to have one- not sure they care particularly to get up close and personal with another guy's. Don't know why except for their being being straight. Please dont tell me straight me want to suck dick- that's gay men.

by Anonymousreply 6March 2, 2011 7:49 PM

Deep Thoughts by charlie.

by Anonymousreply 7March 2, 2011 7:58 PM

It's a trophy.

by Anonymousreply 8March 2, 2011 8:34 PM

Big dicks feel better in your mouth and ass. I love a thick dick that fills my mouth!!!

by Anonymousreply 9August 29, 2012 9:05 PM

Cause I'm a low down dirty whore and I love big dick. Never met one I didn't like or couldn't take.

by Anonymousreply 10August 29, 2012 9:18 PM

I like small ones myself. Between 2 to 4 inches erect - I guess it's a dominance thing.

by Anonymousreply 12August 29, 2012 9:43 PM

Because it's a big dick?

Although, if it's an ugly big dick, all appeal goes away.

by Anonymousreply 13August 29, 2012 9:45 PM

Because men like to see something gigantic so they can think about how to compete with it.

by Anonymousreply 14August 29, 2012 9:46 PM

I'm sorry miss, but with all due respect, I've got problems of my own.

by Anonymousreply 15August 29, 2012 9:48 PM

I think anesthetics may be one reason. Showers tend to look better naked than our grower friends. As for the sex part, I think anything under 6 just can't get the job done. My personal preference is 7 and up, but I would never turn a nice 6er away.

by Anonymousreply 16August 29, 2012 9:53 PM

I'm half and half. I like to SEE big dicks, but I like to PLAY with normal-sized dicks.

by Anonymousreply 17August 29, 2012 9:59 PM


I love the idea of a penis spraying knockout gas.

by Anonymousreply 18August 29, 2012 9:59 PM

My favorite soda ain't 7up for no reason....

by Anonymousreply 19August 29, 2012 10:01 PM

It reminds them of their missing masculinity.

by Anonymousreply 20August 29, 2012 10:03 PM

Don't men have a prostate, so it makes sense? I can never figure out why a straight women would care (since almost none actually have a g-spot, and none have a prostate), but it makes perfect sense for gay men.

As for oral, must be psychological.

by Anonymousreply 21August 29, 2012 10:07 PM

Aaaaaannnddd DL hits a new low.

by Anonymousreply 22August 29, 2012 10:10 PM

True, when the big man goes up in the woman they're both going to be uncomfortable because she's only able to accommodate so much and no more, whereas when the big man goes up in the man he's got more room to stretch out, so to speak.

by Anonymousreply 23August 29, 2012 10:20 PM

I have to agree with R3. Lots of men are focused on size. I love the feeling of my big dick swinging between my legs. Why, who knows?

BTW, I F&F'd R11 given the choice of words.

by Anonymousreply 24August 29, 2012 10:21 PM

Not ALL straight men like big tits, some like small ones and others are more into legs or behinds. SOME ladies like big dicks and some like big hearts better.

by Anonymousreply 25August 30, 2012 12:21 AM

Size is a factor, but the shape is more important, as well as what he does with it.

by Anonymousreply 26August 30, 2012 12:30 AM

Fills me.up I feel it more

by Anonymousreply 27September 13, 2012 8:02 PM

R21, because even though we don't have a prostate (and I don't believe that g-spot bullshit either), getting fucked by a tiny dick is like getting fucked by a tampon.

You want big, but not too big. That said, there are more important attributes in a man. I'd never turn a small-penised man out of bed if he had other sterling qualities.

by Anonymousreply 28September 13, 2012 8:13 PM

my bf has a big cock and is a big guy full stop but i have found small built guys have lovely well proportioned cocks. ive had guys with big cocks who are hopeless in bed and vice versa so it doesnt always pay to be a size queen !

by Anonymousreply 29January 9, 2013 9:05 AM

R22, there can be no new low. We bottomed out around here years ago.

by Anonymousreply 30January 9, 2013 10:40 AM

Big is better, honey!

by Anonymousreply 31January 9, 2013 10:52 AM

As a bottom, guys with 7-9 inches are the best. Anything under 6 inches, unless there is a lot of girth, just doesn't feel as good. Over 9 inches and it is a lot of work to get in, which can ruin the fun. If the top is over 9 inches but patient and lets me get used to his size, it can be fun.

As other posters have noted, though, size really isn't everything. If you're big and you don't know what to do with it or you are lazy and think your size is everything, the sex won't be so great.

by Anonymousreply 32January 9, 2013 1:35 PM

[quote]Why do many gay men like big dicks so much?

Because big dicks hurt.

by Anonymousreply 33January 9, 2013 1:42 PM

Size does matter. I have a very small penis. Less than a inch hard. I can't even penetrate. I'm stuck being a bottom, but inside I feel like a top. I would love to be able to fuck, when I fantasize it's always as a top but I've never been able to. It's really limiting. I met the perfect guy once. We were friends. We connected. He was into me. But I never acted on it because he was a "power bottom" and I was embarrassed.

by Anonymousreply 34January 9, 2013 1:44 PM

A dick that's too big hurts. I will never understand size queens. I think they are nuts.

by Anonymousreply 35January 9, 2013 1:47 PM

Another thing, how can you get a huge dick in your mouth and give it a good blow job? It's stupid..."he's got a big dick, I've got to have him!" Well you can have him, I sure wouldn't want him.

by Anonymousreply 36January 9, 2013 1:49 PM

The most important attribute to me in a man is if he gives good head, and wants to suck me off. I have a physical reaction to seeing a big dick, it turns me on. I love to stroke big ones, but I won't even try to give head if it is too big. I have a strong gag reflex, and can give good head only if they have a small one. I don't do anal sex, either way. If they have a big dick that they want to rub between my legs, that can be good. I am real plain vanilla, and like other men who are as well, and we stay very healthy with frottage and 69. Size of dick is no problem.

by Anonymousreply 37January 9, 2013 1:50 PM

Was R34 actually meant to be a girl? I mean hard and an inch long? Is that even possible? I'd like to see that (to believe it).

by Anonymousreply 38January 9, 2013 1:55 PM

Shakespeare spoke of "an inch of raw mutton." It's not the best attribute, but it remains possible.

by Anonymousreply 39January 9, 2013 2:00 PM

R11 and R22 you are aware that enlarging breasts on women is a multibillion dollar industry ONLY because straight guys like em big too? Take your homophobia elsewhere please.

by Anonymousreply 40January 9, 2013 2:03 PM

This poll probably received more votes than any other in DL history!

by Anonymousreply 41January 9, 2013 2:08 PM

R2 sums it up.

Big cocks are great, smaller ones are fine, even a small one can work out nicely, if he's really hard and he's into me.

by Anonymousreply 42January 9, 2013 2:09 PM

gay men? how about everyone whether they would openly admit to it or not. it's called fascination.

by Anonymousreply 43January 9, 2013 5:22 PM

I hate sucking a big dig. They are jawbreakers. I can give a much better blowjob to a medium-size dick.

by Anonymousreply 44January 9, 2013 5:33 PM

Well, as an openly gay guy with a smaller penis (4.5" erect), I find most (if not all the above) comments rather sickening.

Yes, I would agree that aesthetically a 'huge' cock is nice. But I've always maintained that anything more than a hand full, is a waste!!.

In the past, I have turned guys down, due to their size...(if too big).

I don't want to be split in two thanks!!

by Anonymousreply 45January 15, 2013 9:32 PM

[quote]In the past, I have turned guys down, due to their size...(if too big).

Which reminds me....

A little Irishman gets into an elevator, looks up and sees this HUGE black guy standing next to him.

The big guy sees the little Irishman staring at him. He looks down and says: "7 ft tall, 350 pounds, 20 inch penis, 3 pounds of testicles, Turner Brown"

The little Irishman faints and falls to the floor.

The big guy kneels down and brings him to, shaking him... The big guy says, "What's wrong with you?"

In a weak voice the little guy says, "What EXACTLY did you just say to me?"

The big dude says, "Well, I saw your curious look and I figured I'd just give you the answers to the questions everyone always asks me... I'm 7 ft tall, I weigh 350 pounds, I have a 20 inch penis, my testicles weigh 3 pounds each... and my name is Turner Brown."

The Irishman says: "Turner Brown?!... Sweet Jesus... I thought you said,'Turn around!'"

by Anonymousreply 46January 15, 2013 9:42 PM

r46, that's the worse joke in the world. It just sounds like something that would be said in a smokey dark gay bar circa 1945.

by Anonymousreply 47January 15, 2013 9:48 PM

I like being stretched open by a big cock.

by Anonymousreply 48January 15, 2013 10:01 PM

I'm the quintessential WASP. I love to get fucked by hung, uncut, Latinos. Guys I would never admit to even knowing if I saw them in public. Best sex is getting done a just a mattress that's on the floor. It isn't good sex unless the cock has power over me. If it doesn't hurt I don't feel a thing. I can't be treated like shit with a four inch dick.

by Anonymousreply 49January 15, 2013 10:02 PM

"Guys I would never admit to even knowing if I saw them in public."


by Anonymousreply 50January 15, 2013 10:04 PM

Just being honest with you.

by Anonymousreply 51January 15, 2013 10:13 PM

1 AND 2.

by Anonymousreply 52January 15, 2013 10:16 PM

I WANT WOMYN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 53January 15, 2013 11:08 PM

I'm sorry, but if a man don't have at least 8 inchs he's gettin no play with me. I specify in my Grindr profile that I accept nothin less than 8" and if a scrub shows up with less (I don't care how pretty he is) he is shown the door. Guys with less than 8" have no confidence and can't fuck for shit. There are no exceptions to that rule. I gave up on needle dicks after years of bad sex. The only good sex was with more than 8". Any body who says they like less than 8" is just being "nice" or just aint had the good stuff.

by Anonymousreply 54January 16, 2013 12:08 AM

R54 To each their own, but I tend to judge the man by whether I'm attracted to him intellectually or conversationally first. Dick size does not matter. I have had great sex with smaller ones and great sex with larger ones. Of course, I tend to only fuck guys in relationships, so what they are like as people is far more important to me than how large a body appendage is. Incidently, the best sex I ever had was with a guy who was packing just under 5", so it's what you make of it.

by Anonymousreply 55January 16, 2013 12:16 AM

Amen, R55. I agree 100%.

by Anonymousreply 56January 16, 2013 12:19 AM

A nice six incher is all I need (give or take an inch). I'm easy to please.

by Anonymousreply 57January 16, 2013 1:19 AM

Most men are obsessed with the size of their own penises. It only stands to reason that gay men should be obsessed with the penis size of the men they have sex with.

by Anonymousreply 58January 16, 2013 1:25 AM

I love r54, even though his hole's diameter is probably the size of Lake Michigan.

by Anonymousreply 59January 16, 2013 2:10 AM

R59 - That's exactly what I thought when I read that one. That fucker's hole probably never snaps shut. Fucking Carlsbad Caverns back there.

by Anonymousreply 60January 16, 2013 2:13 AM

I don't know, but I like my partner's small one just fine.

I am a tall 7" top with a gag reflex that won't budge, and my partner likes my dick, says it is "perfect husband size" -- so (to paraphrase Babs Bush) this works out very well for me. Truly happy.

by Anonymousreply 61January 16, 2013 2:19 AM

As you get older you need penes to be increasingly larger in order to be able to feel them inside. Average size dicks don't even touch the sides.

by Anonymousreply 62January 16, 2013 2:34 AM

I hope R62 is joking. Regardless, I love his usage of the correct plural of 'penis'.

by Anonymousreply 63January 16, 2013 2:38 AM

I guess I am something of an anomaly in the gay world. I do not like huge dicks. I dated one guy with a massive dong and it was misery. No matter how much lube we used, it always hurt like fucking hell and my jaws were always sore. Give me an average sized shooter any day of the week over that oversized shit.

by Anonymousreply 64January 16, 2013 2:42 AM

You can tell who the guys with small dicks are just by reading their responses.

Everyone loves to look at a big dick, might it be harder to blow, maybe. But we know if there was a way all these bitter posters could get a bigger dick overnight they would take it IN AN INSTANT.

Every guy, gay and straight are obsessed with big dicks. In straight porn guys do not want to see a girl getting screwed by a small dick. Straight guys want to see a big dick on camera just like gays. Its not a gay thing its a GUY thing.

Lie to yourself if you want to but we all know the truth.

by Anonymousreply 65January 16, 2013 3:01 AM

I'm not one of the 'bitter posters' R65 alludes to, but I also don't want a bigger dick. It just isn't a priority for me - I'd rather inherit a million dollars, acquire a PhD, or travel the world, for starters.

Surely there have to be other gay guys who think this way?

by Anonymousreply 66January 16, 2013 3:05 AM

I like looking at big dicks in porn. They are visually stimulating. But handling them in practice is just more trouble than they're worth

Or they were, at least. I have to go back a lot of years to reach any personal experience with them. I've been happily and monogamously partnered with an average sized guy since I was twenty-one, for thirty four years now. Overall, it's been a great life, though the size-obsessed whores will be unable to comprehend that.

by Anonymousreply 67January 16, 2013 3:16 AM

I have a gag rlex that makes it painful to suck a big cock. I am also very tight in the ass and big cocks are again very painful. So I am very happy with men who have small to medium cocks. And yes, I am small to average in cock size myself.

by Anonymousreply 68January 16, 2013 10:37 PM

Every now and then you just want to get ripped open by something like this. NSFW

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by Anonymousreply 69January 17, 2013 1:04 AM

I'm a bottom and I love big dicks especially big black cocks cos I feel dominated when getting fucked by a big dick. It feels like I'm safe as I'm being breed by a strong man.

by Anonymousreply 70February 23, 2013 3:31 PM

I am a bisexual dude. Not only do I not care about big penises, I dont care about dicks period. The only reason I encounter them is because they happen to be attached to dudes I am attracted to. The things that attract to a dude are non-phallic: face, butt, pecs, abs, and biceps. It has nothing to do with genitals. Thankfully, I just get serviced by dudes. I don't suck or get penetrated. Thankfully, a lot of guys are totally receptive.

by Anonymousreply 71February 23, 2013 3:37 PM

It is interesting that there's an overemphasis on the length measurement--here, in profiles, in porn, in conversation.

Width plays a big role in the hole, but is more difficult to gauge or quantify visually.

by Anonymousreply 72February 23, 2013 3:55 PM

I vote for little ones. Cut. Nothing hotter for me than a cute little cut erection on a hot naked jock (who is fit without being too muscular like some gym rats get).

by Anonymousreply 73February 23, 2013 4:21 PM

way more interested in load size than hose size

by Anonymousreply 74February 23, 2013 4:28 PM

I don't care except for abnormally small ones. I don't have a measurement size in mind just that reaction in my mind: oh, that's it?

by Anonymousreply 75February 23, 2013 4:31 PM

I used to love big cock, then I had one was that was just gross and Voila! (that's French for 'How about that!") I was tired of the big cocks.

It was like the time I ate a cinnamon roll at the fair when I was 7. It made me barf and Voila! I didn't like cinammon rolls anymore.

by Anonymousreply 76February 23, 2013 4:47 PM

R76, you remind me of the grandmother in Sixteen Candles, who opens a box of donuts and proclaims: "Voila! Breakfast is served!"

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by Anonymousreply 77February 23, 2013 4:55 PM

She reminds me of me too. I typed my reply while holding a cigarette.

by Anonymousreply 78February 23, 2013 10:39 PM

I like ass, not cock

by Anonymousreply 79March 7, 2013 12:24 PM

To be honest I like feeling it stretching me,and the feeling of something big going in.The feeling of something huge going deep inside is total turn on. The pain is also a turn on. They can't just be a long cock, it has to be really really thick as well.The feeling of just purely being penetrated and long stroked by a hard c*** is the best turn on ever.

by Anonymousreply 80April 14, 2013 9:14 PM

I'm a bottom and I've always been with bigger than average guys. My ex-partner was very thick and the guys I've dated have all been about the same as my ex or bigger. For the first time, I'm dating a guy who is just average and not that thick. I really love him and the sex is good for the most part. He turns me on and I love getting fucked by him. But boy, does it take a while to cum. I feel like he's just not hitting the prostate like the bigger men I've been with. The last guy I dated was pretty big, about 8.5 and thick. He'd stroke it in and out in the missionary position and I could feel it hitting my prostate and stretching me out. Missionary with the guy I'm dating now can't even get me off. I have to ride it and really angle things before I finally cum. When I cum, though, it's intense. I don't want to hurt his feelings and ask if he can use an extender. Anyone else dealt with this?

by Anonymousreply 81June 6, 2013 3:39 PM

a perfect man to me comes with a cock size between 5,9 to 7,09 inches. If perfect but comes with a big dick, well, I will try to find a soluction. ;-)

while being single before, the more less-interesting was the person, the more I would expect for a big dick for compensation. I remember that!

I sometimes worry about my anal structure, as someday I will be old. That's why the preference for an average dick is also for prevention.

by Anonymousreply 82June 6, 2013 5:08 PM

Big dicks rule!

by Anonymousreply 83June 6, 2013 5:10 PM

Not all big dicks look better but some look amazing. For me the biggest turn on with a big dick is that it feels so amazing in my hand.

by Anonymousreply 84June 6, 2013 5:18 PM

Some gay men like big dicks for what they lack. Some do however, measure up. For the posts that I read some of you need a real adjustment. You want pain then get into the bondage, BDSM crap. I am a gay man with a 4.5-5" inch hard dick and it's truly sickening to read some of what I read. Just because it's bigger doesn't always mean it's better. Ya size queens need a big slap upside the head. Sorry to say, but you all are ridiculous. It's people like you who make people like us have low confidence in the first place not to mention the media portraying bigger as better. So maybe when ya say that we've got no confidence maybe look in the mirror and realize you size queens are one of the problems to that.

by Anonymousreply 85August 1, 2013 10:10 AM

Big juicy penises and bull testicles make me weak in the knees and cum like a MOTHERFUCKER. Nothing else compares.

by Anonymousreply 86August 1, 2013 10:38 AM

It is the reflection of gross vapidity, vulgarity, crudeness, and superficiality that is rampant among SOME, *not all, gay dudes.

by Anonymousreply 87August 1, 2013 12:08 PM

OP, women like big dicks, too. Humans have the largest penises (by far) among the primates. It's obviously a product of sexual selection.

by Anonymousreply 88August 1, 2013 12:15 PM

Don't want no short, short, man.

by Anonymousreply 89August 1, 2013 2:11 PM

grow up, dudes

by Anonymousreply 90August 2, 2013 3:07 PM

Hey therr big cocks are so hot they look good feel awsome just alittle pain it makes me feel like the women i should be but its all good because my big cock and my dd tits give me the best feeling also makes me feel like the women i should be

by Anonymousreply 91August 5, 2013 4:08 AM

[all posts by right wing shit-stain # a removed.]

by Anonymousreply 92August 5, 2013 8:05 AM

If you have a giant cock, you aren't topping me. I'd much prefer a hot body over a big dick.

by Anonymousreply 93August 5, 2013 8:10 AM

Hey so why do gay men like big dicks. Im 29 years old i have this freling that doesnt leave me alone. Its that feminine feeling im atracted to female products everything in general and i saw myself in the mirror and i fell inlove with a hot feninine women i was so passable as a women in reslity i looked like a women it was like a 78 percent. First time i used a 8inch dildo it hurt for a little then i bought a 10 inch long one inch thick it hurt a little but it was something making me real wet wentbout on my first sexual encounter i recieved another 10 inch real cock my god it feels so erotic felt like making me feeling i wanted more non stop having sex with another man is a great feeling. So do i sound or u guys think i am gay.

by Anonymousreply 94August 5, 2013 9:35 AM

So is anybody reading these posts. I love having sexuall encounters with other shemales crossdressers its very intresting erotic i love it its very comfortable .does that make me gay

by Anonymousreply 95August 5, 2013 9:50 AM

I actually like them smaller than average and uncut. If it's over 6 inches, it's kind of a turn off.

by Anonymousreply 96August 5, 2013 10:04 AM

R40 i love ur post about the big boobs cant decide wat size is the best for me i want a dd size fits me perfect matches the rest pf my body nervous of how my life is going to change and ill look more attractive of a feminine look so am i still concidered a gay man. Then i will feel a cock between my 38 dd.

by Anonymousreply 97August 5, 2013 10:04 AM

Some gay men are so immature and vulgar. They lack any depth, so they fixate crudest, basest things. Thankfully other gay men have depth and morals.

by Anonymousreply 98August 6, 2013 3:49 AM

I don't know Rose.

by Anonymousreply 99August 6, 2013 3:55 AM

it's the competition aspect. other than that I really don't care about the size, if it's HARD and he is INTO to me, I'm all for the cock regardless of size.

by Anonymousreply 100August 6, 2013 3:58 AM

Dear God R81, You don't need to have your prostate massaged to cum. Just ask billions of straight men. You are just lazy and spoiled. Have your partner work your dick while he's fucking you or do it yourself.

by Anonymousreply 101August 6, 2013 8:31 AM

Vulgar superficiality

by Anonymousreply 102August 15, 2013 12:30 PM

[quote]Vulgar superficiality

R102, you say that like it's a bad thing.

by Anonymousreply 103August 15, 2013 12:52 PM

SOME gay men are rather shallow and immature, which naturally leads, to crude phallic obsessions, which is often expressed in a size fixation. Very stunted emotional and psychological growth.

by Anonymousreply 104September 27, 2013 3:49 PM


by Anonymousreply 105October 2, 2013 3:52 PM

r94, have you gone to therapy, dude?

by Anonymousreply 106October 12, 2013 4:08 PM

Superficial carnality and sex addiction

by Anonymousreply 107December 1, 2013 1:24 AM

As feminine as the uterus is long.

by Anonymousreply 108December 3, 2013 4:39 AM

Depends on who has it. Love Milton Berle's humor, but no way would I even want to have seen it. Same with other famous superhung actors, and regular people.

by Anonymousreply 109December 3, 2013 4:54 AM

You can feel it and see it looks good

by Anonymousreply 110December 5, 2013 6:41 AM

I don't understand the question and I won't respond to it.

by Anonymousreply 111December 5, 2013 6:53 AM

r38 It is called having a micro penis. It is unfortunate, but it exist.

by Anonymousreply 112December 5, 2013 7:23 AM

Immaturity, sexual addiction, vapidness, and profane interests.

by Anonymousreply 113December 5, 2013 12:05 PM

WTF, R108?

by Anonymousreply 114December 5, 2013 1:44 PM

Big cocks are nice to look at but since I'm not into anal and trying to suck one requires you to be able to unhinge your jaw,I much prefer average ones when it comes to actual sex. Also most of the time guys with big ones are arrogant jerks due to constantly being fawned over by size queens.

by Anonymousreply 115December 8, 2013 8:50 AM


by Anonymousreply 116December 10, 2013 5:19 PM

I'm the same as R17. Big 'uns only look good in porn. For real life, I like normal-sized ones.

by Anonymousreply 117December 10, 2013 6:04 PM

Most (not all) big ones are ugly. Some of the ugliest ones I have seen are huge, mis-shapen, bent, crooked, and just gross to look at. I dated one guy that had a true 11" cock. It had absolutely NO HEAD on it. It was rounded off on the top and gnarly looking. I almost puked. Needless to say he had to bottom for me and no way would I put that ugly thing in my mouth. No way, Jose!

by Anonymousreply 118December 10, 2013 6:11 PM

I have never really cared for large ones. They are painful to my asshole and jaws. I like a nice average-sized one that I can suck on all night long. Mine is just over 7.5" and most guys can't take it (it's really fat). Some guys even cry, no matter how much lube I use. I wouldn't want to have a smaller one, but I would never dated a guy with a big one.

by Anonymousreply 119December 10, 2013 6:17 PM

Large ones look better and feel better I won't even talk to a man unless I know he's packing - much less date him I won't even be friends with small dick dudes - too much baggage and inferioirty complesses.

Big dick guys are more intelligent have more swagger are more confirdent better looking - a proven fact - and better lovers no exceptions.

by Anonymousreply 120December 10, 2013 7:27 PM

r120 I think you mean inferiority complethes.

But at least your honest.

by Anonymousreply 121December 10, 2013 7:38 PM


by Anonymousreply 122December 10, 2013 7:42 PM

As a 100% bottom, I love feeling a large man on top of me, and I love when a long, fat dick stretches me open.

I love the feeling of a cock inside of me, and the twitching of a cock when it cums.

by Anonymousreply 123December 10, 2013 7:46 PM

I've been riding monstacocks for so long my asshole sounds like an ECHO CHAMBER.

by Anonymousreply 124December 10, 2013 7:56 PM

My asshole sounds like the Vienna boys choir.

by Anonymousreply 125December 10, 2013 8:00 PM

My turdhole only like da big onez.

by Anonymousreply 126December 10, 2013 9:27 PM

R125 I LOL'ed

by Anonymousreply 127December 10, 2013 9:35 PM

Micropenis is a pathology; megalophallia is an honor.

by Anonymousreply 128December 27, 2013 9:55 PM

I'm a bottom and the big dick just seems to hit the spot for me. I'm sure even among gay men there are all kinds of preferences. I think that it doesn't matter the sex you are or your orientation, it is a personal preference.

by Anonymousreply 129December 31, 2013 10:07 PM

Penis is a symbol of masculinity, a bigger one equals more masculinity, so the faires love big dick. I like everything, but a big dick is nice now and again but not required, because I'm no fairy.

by Anonymousreply 130December 31, 2013 10:35 PM

I voted for medium. Big dicks are fun to look at and play with and suck, but if it's too big it hurts when you're getting fucked and if the top is too aggressive you might gag a bit if he tries to make you deep-throat against your will. Plus guys with monster dicks are lazy lovers and usually assholes with huge egos. They just rest on their laurels instead of honing their craft.

Sorry, I'm not a full-on size queen but even I can't do micropeen. By that I don't mean average, I'm talking like 3 or 4 inches and really thin like a pinky finger. Just being honest. Too hard to suck, not much to play with, and getting fucked you always have to pretend it's so amazing instead of just enjoying it for real. Plus the top knows he's small so he's insecure about it and always fishing for you to feign compliments.

Give me a nice guy who treats me well with a medium sized dick who knows how to use it but is still grateful to be getting laid at all any day. That's the type of top I want to marry. I wouldn't even make him use condoms if he wants to be monogamous.

Not too big, not too small, just right.

by Anonymousreply 131December 31, 2013 11:01 PM

Anybody been turned out by a guy with a big dick who WASN'T lazy in bed?

by Anonymousreply 132December 31, 2013 11:09 PM

Yeah I have and he was bisexual and wanted me as a top. But when I had him as a top he was careful and made me take deep breathes so I could thoroughly enjoy his big dick.

by Anonymousreply 133December 31, 2013 11:12 PM

Big dicks are nice but size queens are gross.

by Anonymousreply 134December 31, 2013 11:32 PM

R134, if you think they are "nice," why do you think you are not a size queen?

by Anonymousreply 135January 1, 2014 2:22 PM

I like the feel of a big dick inside of me. It is so fantastic to give head to a man with a big one.

by Anonymousreply 136April 1, 2014 7:20 PM

I am crestfallen at the first sight of a dick which is less than 6 1/2 inches. It just does nothing for me...but then I don't like receiving oral sex. I love giving it tho.

by Anonymousreply 137April 1, 2014 7:38 PM

for me..I just like them..theres nothing more of a turn on than seeing a big dick hanging waiting to be sucked..i love big cocks..period..

by Anonymousreply 138April 28, 2014 5:40 PM

Some really large ones never get as hard as a medium sized cock.

by Anonymousreply 139April 28, 2014 5:46 PM

Gays love big dicks because their hole is so stretched it takes a forearm sized dick to fill you up.

by Anonymousreply 140April 28, 2014 6:00 PM

I wanna suck on something. I've had so many men with tiny dicks, some the size of my pinky finger, and there's no fun in sucking that.

I'm a top with a good size dick but I love sucking big ones.

Not too complicated, hmm.

by Anonymousreply 141April 28, 2014 6:04 PM

I like pretty cocks with a bit if an upward curve. Preferably uncut and white. Size does not figure.

by Anonymousreply 142April 28, 2014 6:51 PM

I love men with big cocks because they feel so good inside of you. The hairier also is better and oh yes large balls

by Anonymousreply 143May 21, 2014 10:31 PM

Hi Guys,

My first experience with a huge cock was a white guy I met from CL. He had a huge cock close to 9 inches. I was totally infatuated by his size and loved to worship (stroke, kiss, lick, suck and deep-throat) his huge cock.

I really love to worship a huge cock and wish I could find a really well hung Stud. I want to bottom for huge horse hung Studs too. It would be a dream come true to experience even bigger cocks like 9+ Like I always say though, "The Bigger the Better"!

If there are any hung Studs out there who are visiting, or live in southern Alabama, Mississippi, Louisiana, or the Florida panhandle are hit me up!

LongCockLuvr at the big G email


by Anonymousreply 144August 1, 2014 2:44 AM

Not into phalluses, but I love nice bubble butts and big pecs.

by Anonymousreply 145August 2, 2014 9:48 PM

I am a sexy white boy who personally loves huge hung men so much.

It is so sexy and visually pleasing to see a guy with a huge flaccid cock strutting around a locker room with that huge meat swinging side to side. It makes my mouth water to think about how big it possibly could get. One of my favorite things is to suck on a huge flaccid cock and feel it grow and grow in my mouth and hands.

It is equally exciting to feel the amazing size of a huge cock once it is fully hard. The length, girth and mass are mesmerizing. It is so hot to stroke a long cock. I believe a long cock turns me on more than just about anything else.

I enjoy the manly smells I experience when sucking cock. The smell of a huge sexy cock and balls acts as a natural pheromone that has a strong aphrodisiac effect that makes me so horny.

The slightly salty taste of his cock and balls is so delicious. I cannot even begin to explain how much I love the taste of sweet and salty precum that flows from his big smooth shiny cock head. I love to coat my lips with precum as I rub that big silky smooth cock head on my lips!

I want to experience being a bottom for a long beautifully hung Stud. I can only imagine how amazing it would feel to slide down that long poly with my tight little bum!

I guess you can definitely tell that I really love huge cocks so much and want to worship and pleasure the hung Studs that are blessed with their endowment! I want to meet a guy that will let me enjoy his huge cock for hours..I mean kiss, lick, suck and deepthroat for hours..

I would love to hear from hung Studs out there. You can contact me at LongCockLuvr at G Male dotcom


by Anonymousreply 146September 23, 2014 11:00 PM

r146 has a way with words.

by Anonymousreply 147September 23, 2014 11:04 PM

I don't mind seeing big dicks out of curiosity but to play with and visually I prefer 4-6 ins.

by Anonymousreply 148September 25, 2014 7:45 AM

You guys are something else. Unreal

by Anonymousreply 149September 25, 2014 11:09 AM

Hardness more important to me than bigness.

by Anonymousreply 150September 25, 2014 11:15 AM

Having a 9.5 inch cock has its disadvantages. Short skinny guys, which I love, have turned me down because of my size. They say they cant stand having a 6'0"- 210 lbs on top of them drilling them over and over again. They don't enjoy. I spend most of the time releasing myself by my own.

by Anonymousreply 151October 6, 2014 4:12 AM

I prefer girth and big heads over length.

by Anonymousreply 152October 6, 2014 5:33 AM

They are easier to see with my glasses off

by Anonymousreply 153October 6, 2014 5:37 AM

It is more important to me that the cock is rock hard. If it stands taunt against the guys abs - now that's a stud cock.

by Anonymousreply 154October 6, 2014 5:41 AM

love to look at and play with a nice thick one, but my mouth is too small to do much with it and ain't no way a thick one is going in my ass.

by Anonymousreply 155October 6, 2014 5:44 AM


I would not pass you up on your huge cock..I can promise you. I am searching all the time trying to find a huge hung Stud.

All these women and guys who complain to the hung guy they are with..please send some my way.


by Anonymousreply 156October 11, 2014 3:20 AM

I can see where Cheryl is coming from. However I know a lot of masculine gay men. Masculinity, after all, is what turns us on.

by Anonymousreply 157October 28, 2014 12:31 AM

'Cause they hurt so good!

by Anonymousreply 158October 28, 2014 12:33 AM

I'm a bottom with a little one, and I love a top of average size--I love the difference!

by Anonymousreply 159October 28, 2014 12:50 AM

Yeah -- cuz they hurt so GOOD.

by Anonymousreply 160October 28, 2014 12:59 AM

r157, where do you find them, dude? for real.

by Anonymousreply 161November 2, 2014 3:32 AM

Shallowness and crudeness

by Anonymousreply 162November 3, 2014 12:04 PM

If it's hard and pointing in my direction, don't care if it's a slim jim or a salami.

by Anonymousreply 163November 3, 2014 12:18 PM

Not all the time. I'm 9" and I have been told that pain with me is unbearable. On the other hand I have been told that they could not get enough of me

by Anonymousreply 164November 14, 2014 3:33 AM

Wow, just enjoy tho coks

by Anonymousreply 165November 15, 2014 12:44 AM

It is what is expected, but we all like what we like. I love my husbands dick, and he loves mine. We fuck each other, but do not want a 8 inch plus in each of us.

by Anonymousreply 166November 15, 2014 3:29 AM

As a bottom I have to say that everything depends of the moment. By boyfriend is about 9". Because of his girth and length sometimes I have to tell him to take it slow. Other times I enjoy when he doesn't. He's 6' foot 220 Lbs guy. Guys like him have to have their needs met right away.

by Anonymousreply 167November 15, 2014 5:04 AM


I think you are the perfect size. I am hoping to meet a guy who is 9"+ The Bigger The Better!

I think hung guys are so damn sexy. I just want to worship and pleasure hung men. I would like to chat with sexy hung guys, so please hit me up..

by Anonymousreply 168November 20, 2014 8:56 PM

I prefer small with a nice bush.

by Anonymousreply 169November 22, 2014 1:42 PM

The big dick rubs on the prostate gland, causing orgasm. That's why we like the big dicks.

Use Google. It's easy.

by Anonymousreply 170November 22, 2014 2:49 PM

We can not forget that big cocks means power. The bigger the cock the more submissive you become. Having a big guy with a huge cock means you are surrounded, you have to give it up, or you have submit. Guys with huge cocks know the power of it and bottom ones loves it.

by Anonymousreply 171November 23, 2014 5:53 AM

I'm actually a trans/CD/femboi/twink chaser, but I really LOVE my own 10x6, 466CC's of Mandingo-meat. I'm very ver-sa-tile (I will make you smile) as a top/power bottom (oral and anal), and a big penis is nice to touch and feel...and look at. I certainly look and touch my own!

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by Anonymousreply 172December 25, 2014 9:37 PM

Vapid immorality

by Anonymousreply 173December 26, 2014 4:18 AM

r170 I think you mean THICK. That's what feels good.

by Anonymousreply 174December 26, 2014 5:01 PM

I don't just love big cocks I love huge thick dildos as well. For me its the extreme stretching and pounding up my ass.

by Anonymousreply 175January 9, 2015 1:36 PM

Not all of us do. I prefer approximately 6" length by around 5" circumference. That's perfect for me. Any larger is not comfortable for me. I hate sucking a fat one. My jaws hurt.

by Anonymousreply 176January 9, 2015 1:40 PM

R170, One does not need 14" to stimulate the prostate. It is not that far in. Even a 3" cock could hit it, in reality.

by Anonymousreply 177January 9, 2015 5:52 PM

precisely dude

by Anonymousreply 178January 28, 2015 1:40 AM

i have enjoyed reading these, some i agree ,some not. my pennys worth is this. the gold is not always at the back of a cave. be thankful for what you have got and what your getting. if 6 7 8 is not good enough ,you can always find a compromise with something , cucumbers and other big fruits etc. enjoy your sex!

by Anonymousreply 179January 31, 2015 5:35 AM

Dicks are the best

by Anonymousreply 180January 31, 2015 11:42 PM

I prefer a cock with girth.It is more stimulating although it hurts more.Im not gay but I love cocks and especially cum. I dont know why but I cant get enough of it. Its the awesome feeling of having your butt stretched that nothing else compares. Does any one else feel the same ?

by Anonymousreply 181January 31, 2015 11:56 PM

[quote]Im not gay but I love cocks and especially cum.


Seriously, R181, thank you for the laugh!

by Anonymousreply 182January 31, 2015 11:59 PM

Just know that a big cock will give me more pleasure. I am not gay but I do love the sex. I am addicted to cock. I also think the penis is beautiful. I know why women love it so. any one else feel that way?

by Anonymousreply 183February 1, 2015 12:34 AM

No, R183. No one else feels that way.

by Anonymousreply 184February 1, 2015 12:44 AM

I'd like to look at the big black ones all either used as dildos but they feel so good

by Anonymousreply 185February 16, 2015 1:06 PM

as John Holms would say, when the dick is big enough, even a straight guy wants to suck it. EVERYBODY loves big dick, because it is

by Anonymousreply 186February 25, 2015 7:25 PM

Not necessarily suck R186, but they certainly want to look at it.

All guys are fascinated by big dicks, regardless of their sexuality. It's a powerful appendage to have.

by Anonymousreply 187February 25, 2015 7:29 PM

I like a nice cut 6" piece, not too thick, but not too thin.

by Anonymousreply 188February 25, 2015 8:43 PM

R187, not really dude. Stop projecting and fantasizing.

by Anonymousreply 189February 27, 2015 12:21 PM

I like them for the feel being a bottom CD I love the feel of being full and on the edge you could say. Even for oral I love a challenge the big cock ion my mouth with the way it makes me feel is my preferences. Not that I do not like all sizes just prefer big either way.

by Anonymousreply 190February 27, 2015 4:07 PM

Its simple. If you are extremely gay your preference could be more physicall appearance whith a medium size and good hability. A huge dick is not also competitive but very stimulating to sight, it can turn many people like oh my f god what a huge dick to suck... u know what im saying. It is rare to find..

by Anonymousreply 191February 28, 2015 8:43 PM

Yes really R187. Big dick porn is popular with straight guys. Studies have shown that guys are likely to notice another guys crotch regardless of sexuality.

Just the way things are.

by Anonymousreply 192February 28, 2015 8:45 PM

I love getting fucked by a big dick. Nothing better. It actually can't be too big.

by Anonymousreply 193February 28, 2015 8:57 PM

Just got fucked last night by this older top, big cock it felt so good. Love to suck them and fuck them, small dicks feel like a finger in you,

by Anonymousreply 194March 11, 2015 11:41 PM

I am a vers. If a guy can keep hitting the right spot till I cum and tremble it doesnt matter how big. On the other hand I have a 6.5 cut. I try my best to make sure I top well and work on my stamina. One rule I have is any guy that asks me how big I am is just shallow; its a turn off. I have been with 100% bottoms with huge dicks. I guess they were attracted to my masculinity than my avarage cock and they always enjoyed the sex. Personally I will only bottom for avarage guys. My ass aint a gym: no pain no gain

by Anonymousreply 195April 16, 2015 6:04 AM

I love a big dick because it feel amazing as it's stretching my hole

by Anonymousreply 196April 23, 2015 12:03 PM

It's the girth that stimulates. Yes fat cock gives more pleasure. My cock is thick and I always hear that my cock gives pleasure.. My friend is a bit thicker and longer than me and i love the feeling of fullness. My wife loves his cock too.So long is good but thick is better. Of course he has a pair of huge balls to compliment his large member.

by Anonymousreply 197May 10, 2015 5:58 PM

Haha best comment ever. Fat cocks are the best.

by Anonymousreply 198November 28, 2017 6:03 PM

small cocks mean to much

by Anonymousreply 199November 28, 2017 6:04 PM

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Pain and Pleasure. Us gays love to have our prostates mashed and thrashed on by big cocks!!!

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