Sexual Chemistry with Masc Straight Men

No response because they only want to say any gay encounter EVER, makes you 100% GAY!!!

Women can experiment though.

Yes. It happened quite a lot when I was younger. It was intense.

My first time as a teen was with a hairy, married, middle-aged Armenian daddy.

R2 did you ever pursue it?

OP, your writing is beautifully readable and descriptive. Keep posting.

They’re great in the sense that they just don’t care. And if they do, well that’s on them.

NEVER WORKS.

It's a great way to lose a good friend.

What R7 said.

I've had it with straight married women, you're just sexy op, enjoy it.

Yes, all the time. Especially now that I am older. Most guys that I encounter that I connect with are straight. They are younger by about 10, 15 years. I can't explain it. I am 48 now and the connections are with guys 30-45. I think they like having a gay friend they can talk about things with where they don't have to "dude bro," out all the time. They know I am gay but I don't hit on them - even though I would have sex with every last one of them. They get super comfortable talking about their sex life, so I get comfortable talking about mine. I think at some point they begin to wonder, why aren't you hitting on me, then? And they really start putting themselves out there for you. I have buddies who randomly send me pics of them fucking or dick shots because they know it I like it. Ultimately I think they like talking about sex without having to come across as some massive pussy slayer and they open up about what really turns them on, things they can't say to anyone else.

And as weird as this sounds - with gay porn being everywhere now online, so accessible with all types of people who aren't stereotypically gay - I think "Gay Sex" is becoming a fetish for a lot of guys, if that makes sense. The power dynamics when it comes to sex between men is a secret fetish. And that in my mind is different than being gay - submitting to a male, or dominating another male. The straight guys I get a long with are masculine Alpha types in the street (one is a former major league pitcher) but I think are a bit sub mentally and they gravitate towards me. Being gay has made me really confident in who I am and a lot of them are still figuring themselves out. That attracts them.

Mascular straight men.

Oh, and in my experience,, they all tend to be exhibitionist too. Even though a line is never crossed, they know that I am into them. And if you are not trying to get your hands all over them every opportunity you get, they end up giving you little treats here and there - showering while you're around, hanging out in their towel, taking a piss in front of you, showing you pics of them and their girlfriends together. They like to tease you a bit and the love the attention. Everyone wants to be desired, and I think they like being wanted.

Now just to be clear, these aren't the only relationships that I have. I don't seek out straight guys. I am actually married. So it's nice because I am not looking to do anything with anyone else, and they know it will never go too far, and we both enjoy it. Plus I am a great listener and give great advice. I have helped several of them through tough relationships.