This is something that I've been curious about. Can you provide details. This, of course, excludes your first time. I'm looking for responses from you seasoned pros.
Ladies, does it ever hurt when you''re getting fucked?
|by Anonymous||reply 299||04/18/2015|
No. At least not in a bad way.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||11/16/2010|
If you're dry or the guy is huge, yeah, it can hurt. But that doesn't usually last because I mean unless you're being raped you're going to get wet and your muscles are going to give to the dick.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||11/16/2010|
Like with men on men, I think it's a mix of pleasure and pain (nsfw).
|by Anonymous||reply 5||11/16/2010|
A friend of mine dated this guy when she did a semester abroad that was too big for her. Of course that just made me salivate, the thought of it. Too bad he was straight and on the other side of the planet.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||11/16/2010|
No because I'm a lesbian and don't take the penis. Goddamn, is this still a gay site?
|by Anonymous||reply 7||11/16/2010|
OP, No, it does not hurt at all.%0D %0D It is not built to hurt in any way.%0D %0D Anyone who says it hurts is a total screwball.%0D %0D The vagina expands to accomodate any size of penis.%0D %0D When a woman gets in her late 60's or 70's, it supposed can hurt a little from som dryness, but that is easily cured by using lubricant.%0D AND NOT EVERY WOMAN IN HER 60's and 70's HAS DRYNESS. (which a certain male poster has posted on Datalounge several times in error and exaggeration)%0D
|by Anonymous||reply 8||11/16/2010|
r8 has never had a dry cock or an over eager fuck.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||11/16/2010|
meant to type 'supposedly', not supposed
|by Anonymous||reply 10||11/16/2010|
John Cougar knew what he was singing about.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||11/16/2010|
r8 sounds boring as all hell.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||11/16/2010|
R8 here - the way it hurts is in a good way.%0D %0D Yes, as John Cougar Mellencamp wrote, hurts so good.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||11/16/2010|
r12 can't take his boyfriend's thumb-size cock and is jealous as hell of r8.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||11/16/2010|
Calm down r7. Every week there is a question for the straight ladies. I thought lesbians were supposed to be chill.%0D %0D %0D Here's another question. Is the vag always wet or is it dry and then it makes its own juices when stimulated? Are the juices like precum?
|by Anonymous||reply 15||11/16/2010|
I am so dry we have to keep a fire extinguisher by the bed cause my pussy is like kindling when my boyfriend's dick is all up in there.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||11/16/2010|
My vagina is always wet. Even when I'm not having sex.%0D %0D But during sex, it becomes even more wet. When stimulated more juices flow.%0D %0D But I'm stimulated just in every day life most of the time no matter where I am, so I'm wet almost all the time. (it doesn't drip - so don't get the idea that it drips)
|by Anonymous||reply 17||11/16/2010|
It's never totally dry but it definitely self-lubricates when stimulated. Yes, like pre-cum but much more of it.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||11/16/2010|
My vagina is always moist. When stimulated It becomes much wetter. Like R17, I'm stimulated just in every day life. Kind of like how you can get a hard on anywhere, anytime.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||11/16/2010|
R8, you might be speaking for yourself, but you certainly aren't speaking for all women. [quote]OP, No, it does not hurt at all. It is not built to hurt in any way. Anyone who says it hurts is a total screwball. The vagina expands to accomodate any size of penis. It can and does indeed hurt if a) it's the first time ever, or the first time in a long time b) the woman isn't very wet (think of in the case of rape). The vagina does tear and it can hurt like hell. Plus, some women have a condition called vaginismus, which causes involuntary spasms that can make penetration very painful.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||11/16/2010|
I have a small cyst on one of my ovaries, so it occasionally hurts (the cyst dries up and comes back). I wish the BF would curve towards towards the good ovary, then it wouldn't hurt at all. I suppose it's akin to someone poking you repeatedly in the ball with the end of a flashlight very hard and fast.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||11/16/2010|
It is often uncomfortable for me. It used to hurt a lot and I even asked a doctor about it. I think it was b/c neither myself nor my partner were that experienced. It is better now but never really feels great
|by Anonymous||reply 22||11/16/2010|
Hey [R5]!Thanks for the vid, but it looks like she's getting plowed in the pooper and not the vageen. Anyone else agree?
|by Anonymous||reply 23||11/16/2010|
R20, poor little wimpy thing, can you read?%0D %0D The OP specifically said we are NOT discussing 'the first time'.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||11/16/2010|
R20 sounds like a mental basketcase.%0D %0D Talking about rape, the first time, hardly every having intercourse, vaginal tears, and %0D vaginismus which is very rare.%0D %0D Only a mental basketcase which bring up these rare things in response to OP's question.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||11/16/2010|
'would bring up' not 'which bring up'%0D %0D 'hardly ever having intercourse' not 'hardly every having intercourse'%0D %0D
|by Anonymous||reply 26||11/16/2010|
r25, rape isn't rare at all. Someone is sexually assaulted in the US every 2 minutes and I'm not counting TSA groping.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||11/16/2010|
Yes, if a guy is too big, he's too big and if he hits the top of your cervix...yes, it can hurt.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||11/16/2010|
We are NOT friggin' talking about rape in this discussion, R20, R27.%0D %0D And the pain during rape with be extreme FEAR and TERROR rather than physical pain, but okay you can focus on what you think would be the physical pain with your pathetic overly dry vagina which you seem to have.%0D %0D Now, DROP the topic of rape, you nutcase.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||11/16/2010|
r25, if you ever listen to Dr. Drew's radio show, that vaginismus occurs more often than you think. He usually attributes it to some molesting trauma during childhood, which sadly happens too often.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||11/16/2010|
Lube is your friend.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||11/16/2010|
So R25 and R27 ... are you women? If not, how pathetic that you would denegrate someone who is female and is trying to answer OP's question.
Just because you don't like the answer doesn't make it less true.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||11/16/2010|
1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men report have been raped.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||11/16/2010|
[quote]your pathetic overly dry vagina
There's an insult you don't hear that often on DL. *tee hee*
How much cock is too much cock for a woman's ladyparts? Will a vagina stretch to accommodate a 12 incher? Am I wrong to assume that there is a lot of "give"?
|by Anonymous||reply 34||11/16/2010|
I'm R25 and I said that vaginismus is rare, NOT that rape is rare.%0D %0D But we are not talking about rape in this topic and to bring up rape in this topic one needs to be a mental basketcase and nutcase.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||11/16/2010|
Um, who is going to be able to answer this on DL? A lesbian who gets fucked with a cucumber?
|by Anonymous||reply 36||11/16/2010|
r34, it depends on the size of the woman.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||11/16/2010|
R36, there are plenty of we straight women on Datalounge.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||11/16/2010|
Yes it can hurt. It can hurt a damn lot if you have a selfish lover who doesn't bother to get you ready. Unfortunately that happened to me A LOT when I was younger and had inexperienced, selfish, over eager bf's. They would plunge right in with very little (or no) foreplay. Why do you think foreplay is so important to women? %0D %0D No, you don't walk around dripping. It's just moist---kind of like your eyes are moist all the time, but you're not crying tears. When you get turned on it gets wetter and makes everything smooth as silk. %0D %0D
|by Anonymous||reply 39||11/16/2010|
R29 has stated her boundaries.
Over and over and over again.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||11/16/2010|
I know a woman who leaves fucking puddle after getting screwed. Puddles.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||11/16/2010|
What a delicate little fragile flower R39 is.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||11/16/2010|
All sex is rape.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||11/16/2010|
Jesus -- I can't even read through this crap.%0D %0D %0D Yes, it hurts me. It did when I was young, and I did not enjoy any kind of penetration until I hit my mid-thirties. And not only am I a lesbian, but I'm a bottom (in whatever way you wish to interpret that).%0D %0D %0D No woman speaks for ALL women, R8. And yes, I get fucking soggy wet. But I still can't take more than a finger. ONE finger. ONE.%0D %0D %0D And you know what? I don't give a fuck what anyone else has to say about it. I have great sex.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||11/16/2010|
It can hurt a little when he's first pushing himself inside, but only until he gets it past a certain distance. But I actually like that feeling, when he's working it in, knowing that very soon he'll be totally inside me thrusting away. If he knows what he's doing, he'll slide it back and forth and gradually increase the distance. I only experienced tearing once, when the guy was really thick. It hurt, and I was rather alarmed at the sight of the cuts. I was surprised that it didn't take longer to heal. Oh, it can also hurt if they're long and slam the whole dick inside you. I had a guy do this to me who was 8 and a half inches.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||11/16/2010|
What a lousy lay R42 is.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||11/16/2010|
Have you not read my blog??? Don't get me started OP!
|by Anonymous||reply 47||11/16/2010|
Why was rape even brought into this discussion? It was directed towards women who have been fucking for awhile. %0D %0D I've always heard that size does matter, in regards to girth, not length. %0D %0D Ladies, is a dick ever too thick?
|by Anonymous||reply 48||11/16/2010|
Did you not read my post, r48?
|by Anonymous||reply 49||11/16/2010|
A long dick is lovely for aesthetic purposes but when it comes to physical sensation, girth is the more important measurement. I have yet to encounter a dick that's too thick.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||11/16/2010|
It is huge fallacy that size does not matter.%0D %0D The 'size does not matter' idea was propagated strictly to protect the egos of men.%0D %0D A wider girth is much better for physical sensation of a woman than a skinny dick is.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||11/16/2010|
It didn't hurt the first time but then again I was on top and thus more in control of the action.%0D %0D It can hurt a little if the guy is really big. I had a boyfriend who had a huge cock. If we were missionary and/or he was pulling my knees up close to his chest, he would wind up banging against my cervix and that shit would be a little uncomfortable/painful. In the end it was all good. He was huge though (10 inches minimum and thick) and was surprised that I never complained. Apparently, he was too thick and too long for some women.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||11/16/2010|
It's all about hardness.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||11/16/2010|
I was with a guy that was so huge that there was some discomfort as it felt like he was slamming against my ovaries or something. I wouldn't call it pain but it was discomfort.%0D %0D I've had a bit of pain during anal in the beginning but once that initial pain is experienced it doesn't hurt anymore.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||11/16/2010|
You dumb bitches take the bait every time.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||11/16/2010|
Hmm. Sometimes it hurts when he first slides in, before the wetness has a chance to work itself around the place.
Also, if he keeps going after I come, when am really sensitive, that hurts too.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||11/16/2010|
R7 and R36, bi chicks exist. Hi!%0D %0D R8, you sound oddly defensive. Younger women have issues with lubrication, too.%0D %0D And R28 hit on something else. While R8 is correct that girth is usually not a problem (but can be) length is, ironically, a problem of compatibility. Most women would prefer shorter and thicker, as others have stated. The actual length of a woman's vaginal canal has less to do with her height than you'd think, and yes, hitting the cervix HURTS. R54, that's what happened to you.
|by Anonymous||reply 57||11/16/2010|
Straight women are humans too....well, Republican straight women, not so much.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||11/16/2010|
[quote]Goddamn, is this still a gay site?%0D %0D Nope it stopped being that a long ass time ago!
|by Anonymous||reply 59||11/16/2010|
My sister, who I would call a seasoned pro, has told me that it can indeed hurt sometimes, but usually not. Yes, if a guy is simply too big, but that's usually not solely the problem. She has told me she has no problem with width. But, she described poor angles of penetration and a guy with a long dick ramming into her cervix wall.
More common is general uncomfortableness that really isn't too painful.
And, more common still is simply not that it's painful or uncomfortable, but simply not fulfilling.
So, according to her, definitely yes, but usually not.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||11/16/2010|
What about that little dab of spit the guy puts on his dick before he goes in (in porn). Is that really all the additional lubrication you need?
|by Anonymous||reply 61||11/16/2010|
[quote]And the pain during rape with be extreme FEAR and TERROR rather than physical pain%0D %0D WRONG
|by Anonymous||reply 62||11/16/2010|
[quote]A wider girth is much better for physical sensation of a woman than a skinny dick is.
Not for me!
|by Anonymous||reply 63||11/16/2010|
I prefer length to width.
|by Anonymous||reply 64||11/16/2010|
>>And the pain during rape with be extreme FEAR and TERROR rather than physical pain,%0D %0D And you know this how? I can tell you that rape physically hurts.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||11/16/2010|
This will only hurt for a couple seconds.
|by Anonymous||reply 66||11/16/2010|
|by Anonymous||reply 67||11/16/2010|
So, some of us are doing a public service by not fucking women.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||11/16/2010|
The last guy I brought over to see if he was FB material.. good lord. I'd never experienced "Coke Can Cock" before that night. I couldn't even get my hand around it.
Yes, it hurt so bad that I didn't bother to designate him as a FB. That was the only time I've ever had painful sex (and I've had a lot of it).
|by Anonymous||reply 69||11/16/2010|
Only when he is in my popper doing his business.
|by Anonymous||reply 70||11/16/2010|
Sometimes I wish men had vaginas and penises. Vagina sex seems better than ass sex. I just don't like everything else that comes with the vajajay.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||11/16/2010|
|by Anonymous||reply 72||11/16/2010|
Vaginal penetration of a willing woman doesn't hurt, it feels good.%0D Only ass fucking hurts.
|by Anonymous||reply 73||11/16/2010|
R71, I feel the same way.
|by Anonymous||reply 74||11/16/2010|
I think this has been an informative thread. I like the weekly "ask the straight ladies" segment. It builds bridges and understanding between our two groups.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||11/17/2010|
[quote]The OP specifically said we are NOT discussing 'the first time'.%0D %0D Thanks R24. We need more people like you to act as hall monitors to keep everything under control. Please to to the John Denver thread and state the rules for some of those thread hijackers who have been invading.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||11/17/2010|
No! I have a HUGE vageene!
|by Anonymous||reply 77||11/17/2010|
R75 if you are being serious, amen! It actually does..
|by Anonymous||reply 78||11/17/2010|
^ I don't think R75 is being serious.
|by Anonymous||reply 79||11/17/2010|
R44 you need to go to a doctor and get that checked out. It's not normal to only be able to take one finger.
|by Anonymous||reply 80||11/17/2010|
R48 some feminists consider any form of penile penetration rape. That's why it was brought up.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||11/17/2010|
What? I've never heard that before, R81.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||11/17/2010|
R44, you may have an enlarged womb. A friend of mine was never comfortable during sex. She finally had to have a hysteroctomy but things are normal now.
|by Anonymous||reply 83||11/17/2010|
An enlarged womb? How does the womb become enlarged.
|by Anonymous||reply 84||11/17/2010|
R84 I would guess fibroid tumors or some such problem.
|by Anonymous||reply 85||11/17/2010|
STRAIGHT WOMEN USUALLY EMIT MOANS AND EXCLAMATIONS OF PAIN WHEN GETTING FUCKED IN PORNOS. The "Ohs," "Aaahs," "Oh Gods" and screams communicate a sense of PAIN and STRUGGLE to accommodate the dick MIXED with pleasure, stimulation and calls for "More," "yeah!" and "fuck me like that!" But she usually sends vocal signals that express some pain, and these become sharper and shriller the more it hurts to signal to her partner when too much is too much. They can also accelerate to orgasm for either partner. But it seems to me there is no 100% comfortable sex. Are you going to argue that porn actresses always fake their noises for male consumption?
|by Anonymous||reply 86||11/18/2010|
No, but it hurts not getting fucked.
|by Anonymous||reply 87||11/18/2010|
The last thing I want to be is trapped on a huge ocean liner in the middle of a severe storm.%0D %0D Plus I don't want to be stuck in one of those tiny little cabins as my 'suite'.
|by Anonymous||reply 88||11/18/2010|
I believe R88 should have made a left toin at Albukoykee.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||11/18/2010|
Should I upload a photo of the offending member?
|by Anonymous||reply 90||11/18/2010|
This thread is useless without photos of what is too big.
|by Anonymous||reply 91||11/18/2010|
It hurts when my gf fucks me with a strap on. Go figure
|by Anonymous||reply 92||11/18/2010|
It hurts when the guy takes too long, contrary to pop culture.
|by Anonymous||reply 93||11/18/2010|
I used to have a bf with a dick that slightly curved to one side. Sometimes if we were going at it too long, I could get sore on one side.
|by Anonymous||reply 94||11/18/2010|
Sounds like R44 may still have an intact hymen.
|by Anonymous||reply 95||11/18/2010|
[quote]STRAIGHT WOMEN USUALLY EMIT MOANS AND EXCLAMATIONS OF PAIN WHEN GETTING FUCKED IN PORNOS.%0D %0D No, they do not. You are unfamiliar with female sexuality. Nothing wrong with that, but you're obnoxiously leaning on the CAPS lock to make statements about a subject you clearly know nothing about.%0D %0D R86, what you are reading as pain is not pain. I'm a woman and I've seen a lot of porn, and the expression of pain during vaginal sex in porn is pretty rare. No, it is not painful to "accomodate" the dick, unless the guy has an ENORMOUS girth, like in R69's situation. %0D %0D Lack of lube can be painful, but for the umpteenth time, the vagina stretches easily and naturally. Infants fit through this canal, and it's not the stretching that's painful; it's the uterine contractions. You are describing it as if it's similar to the rectum, and it's not. Stretching *may* be uncomfortable the first couple of times a woman has sex--if she hasn't stretched with a dildo/vibrator before. But after you've had sex even a few times, it's a non-issue unless you're too dry.%0D %0D And of course porn actresses often exaggerate or fake their noises for male consumption. They're actresses, and straight men are their primary demographic, obviously.
|by Anonymous||reply 96||11/18/2010|
Yes, and 7 pound to 8.5 pound baby fits thru the vagina, so a penis can certainly fit without pain and havoc.
|by Anonymous||reply 97||11/18/2010|
this is why nobody believes women .. they just make any shit up they want to fit wahtever they think they need to do to control or be in charge at any time and it is so tedious and borning. Freud was right.
|by Anonymous||reply 98||11/18/2010|
My boyfriend's dick is really long and sometimes when he thrusts really deep it hurts, like he's poking something.
|by Anonymous||reply 99||11/18/2010|
That's your cervix, honey.
|by Anonymous||reply 100||11/18/2010|
Yeah, RIGHT, r96!
GIVNG BIRTH NEVER HURTS AT ALL!
7 to 8.5 lb fit through the vaginas PAINLESSLY and EFFORTLESSLY, without any drugs.
GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK! Only a mental basketcase would use LIVE BIRTH to prove the vagina never feels pain!!! LOL!!!!
r96 = The Real Mental Basketcase
|by Anonymous||reply 101||11/18/2010|
Oh, pain, oh, pain; the wonderful, joyous pain of birth or girth.
|by Anonymous||reply 102||11/18/2010|
OP is getting off picturing females going through sexual pain.
|by Anonymous||reply 103||11/19/2010|
 Contrary to popular belief, the pain of childbirth has little to do with the vagina stretching; its the contractions - muscles in the womb that pull the cervix open, that cause the pain. The head sliding out the door is not the bit that hurts
|by Anonymous||reply 104||11/19/2010|
Nan Michiganwomyn has a blog - where is Nan's blog??
We (HEART) Nan!
|by Anonymous||reply 105||11/19/2010|
What the fresh fuck, R101? It's not the VAGINA that hurts during childbirth; it's the UTERUS contracting and the cervix dilating, you ignorant asshole.%0D %0D I do not understand how people get through high school without this knowledge. Are there hick parts of the country where biology is not required?
|by Anonymous||reply 106||11/19/2010|
I wonder how many of the answers in this thread came from clueless men?
|by Anonymous||reply 107||11/19/2010|
BTW, unless you've had enough foreplay to get lubed, it does HURT.
|by Anonymous||reply 108||11/19/2010|
Luckily, we addressed that about four hundred times, R107 / R108. Did you read the thread?
|by Anonymous||reply 109||11/19/2010|
Can a strap on hurt??
|by Anonymous||reply 110||11/19/2010|
Of course it can, R102. Worse if it isn't somewhat pliable like the real thing.
|by Anonymous||reply 111||11/19/2010|
R108, it doesn't hurt for most women even when not lubricated. Most woman have enough natural lubricant even without foreplay to make the insertion easy.%0D %0D R108, your statement that 'unless you've had enough foreplay to get lubed, it does HURT' is not only not true and exaggerated, but it is also a flat-out fallacy and blanket statement which does not apply to most woman.%0D %0D R111 seems to be talking about non-pliable dildos. Even if not, this discusssion is NOT about dildos. The OP wanted to know if woman feel pain during intercourse with a penis.%0D
|by Anonymous||reply 112||11/19/2010|
To the person who asked about porn, the women in porn are faking.
|by Anonymous||reply 113||11/19/2010|
R108 is absolutely correct. Every woman is different. For some, sex is uncomfortable. For others, it's not. To assume blanket statements is just ridiculous. For me, it is uncomfortable and has been since the very first time. More lubrication makes is better but it is by no means something I enjoy doing. I have never had an orgasm via penetration. I do enjoy oral and the emotional aspects of sex. The physical act is more for his pleasure.
|by Anonymous||reply 114||11/19/2010|
What I've learned from this thread is that women need to be worked up and nice and wet and they can take anything up there. %0D %0D The key is lots foreplay or a really big bank account.
|by Anonymous||reply 115||11/19/2010|
r112, I call bullshit or small penis men you are used to, but I need foreplay to have the penis enter with ease.%0D %0D So stfu because we don't get enough foreplay as it is to be ready without you added your nonesense. What's good for you isn't good for every woman.
|by Anonymous||reply 116||11/19/2010|
Does it help to play 'stink-finger' first?
|by Anonymous||reply 117||11/19/2010|
R116, you should know that R108 is the world's foremost authority on what all women feel. She knows everything. %0D %0D R108--just because you're juiced up and loose 27/7, don't assume the rest of us are. Maybe you're just a whore darlin'.
|by Anonymous||reply 118||11/19/2010|
Oops---R108 should be R112 (sorry 108)
|by Anonymous||reply 119||11/19/2010|
Not only does it hurt if there hasn't been much foreplay, it can't go in. Many of tofay's hooked-on-porn men don't get this.
|by Anonymous||reply 120||11/19/2010|
Quite a few frigid women who also have an aversion to penetration by men on this thread along with mentally unbalanced lesbians who have an aversion to penetration by men.
|by Anonymous||reply 121||11/19/2010|
Why is the unusual freak at R114 trying to pass her off her inability to find sexual intercourse comfortable as 'normal'?%0D %0D In no way is R114 normal. It is a rare, abnormal woman who does not find sexual intercourse normal.%0D %0D Also the nother abnormal freak up thread who posted that she can take only 'one finger' in her vagina is very abnormal and a medical case.
|by Anonymous||reply 122||11/19/2010|
meant to type 'it is a rare, abnormal woman who does not find sexual intercourse comfortable'
|by Anonymous||reply 123||11/19/2010|
Does it hurt when you're getting plowed?
Does it hurt when you're getting jack-hammered?
Shagged, screwed, or nailed?
Does it hurt when you're getting shagged, screwed, or nailed?
|by Anonymous||reply 124||11/19/2010|
NEW RULE for r106 and r104:
You can't just make up "facts" anymore.
If you want to claim childbirth causes NO DISCOMFORT to the vagina, you have to prove it by linking the results of a SCIENTIFIC STUDY INVOLVING OVER 400 WOMENS' TESTIMONIES where the majority say the baby's vaginal distance was care-free and cozy.
The scientists conducting such research would also have to corroborate the claims with measurements of vaginal nerve endings during childbirth.
Can you prove ANYTHING you say?
|by Anonymous||reply 125||11/19/2010|
R125, you have a comprehension problem - I was not saying that childbirth causes no discomfort.%0D %0D I was saying that the vagina is expandable.%0D %0D Your cognitive abilities are weak.
|by Anonymous||reply 126||11/19/2010|
VERY expandable, and able to easily accomodate most every size
|by Anonymous||reply 127||11/19/2010|
r126 is an idiot. It most certainly does have something to do with squeezing that huge baby through that much smaller hole. What do you think causes pain with sex when a woman is tight?
|by Anonymous||reply 128||11/19/2010|
And yes, it's expandable-duh! But it still causes pain while it's expanding.
|by Anonymous||reply 129||11/19/2010|
Actually, that was meant for r104.
|by Anonymous||reply 130||11/19/2010|
I never said that childbirth is not painful and I clarified that at R126, saying that I never said childbirth causees no discomfort.%0D %0D You have reading and cognitive and comprehension disfunction.
|by Anonymous||reply 131||11/19/2010|
No I don't, but apparently you do unless you were posting from another computer. In which case, you really are the idiot. (see r130.)
|by Anonymous||reply 132||11/19/2010|
meant to type 'dysfunction'
|by Anonymous||reply 133||11/19/2010|
And you have a spelling dYsfunction.
|by Anonymous||reply 134||11/19/2010|
[quote]What do you think causes pain with sex when a woman is tight?%0D %0D I don't understand why we have to keep saying this over and over again, but mostly lack of lubrication. Because inexperienced women are more likely to be nervous and less turned on. It's a myth that the tightness of the vagina is the primary problem. Yes, there might be mild discomfort with the stretching the first few times--MIGHT be. But it's not searing pain. The breaking of the hymen usually isn't either, mostly because the degree of pain is a myth to begin with, and because girls break it themselves during masturbation and inserting tampons and even horseback riding. So it's often not intact when they have sex for the first time. Frankly, either mine was totally painless whenever it broke, or I never had one. That's possible, too.%0D %0D [quote]More lubrication makes is better but it is by no means something I enjoy doing.%0D %0D Fine, but the question was as to whether it is [italic]painful[/italic].%0D %0D R86/R101/R125, you're really insane. Measurement of the nerve endings? They don't do studies like that as far as I know, because women are intelligent enough to know what they're feeling, and fortunately there are few deranged queens demanding scientific proof that the insertion of a Q-tip into the vagina doesn't cause excruciating pain. Besides, the uterine contractions are so painful that if the vaginal stretching is uncomfortable I can guarantee you none of us notice.%0D %0D We've pretty much established that it's lack of lube or hitting the cervix that hurts, unless there's sexual dysfunction involved--which is actually relatively common and calling women abnormal freaks is not going to help them. R122, I realize you're defensive because you don't want the myth perpetuated that women don't enjoy sex, but viciously attacking women who have sexual problems and increasing the social stigma attached to that is worse. Nice "feminism."
|by Anonymous||reply 135||11/19/2010|
sorry, I think they are abnormal freaks, R135
|by Anonymous||reply 136||11/19/2010|
Why does are you labeling women who do not enjoy sex freaks? Do you know how many women I know who are in sexless marriages? It is extremely common. Probably more so than not. In general, women just do not have the sex drive that men have. Sure, some women enjoy sex but many, many do not. It could be because they have a selfish partner. It could be because they just don't.
|by Anonymous||reply 137||11/19/2010|
R137, the women I know in sexless or almost sexless marriages say it's because their husbands piss them off so much they can't think of having sex with them. It's not because they don't enjoy sex; they just take care of themselves.
|by Anonymous||reply 138||11/19/2010|
"But I still can't take more than a finger. ONE finger. ONE."
R44, I had a friend with the same problem, she couldn't even use a slim tampon. Do you find painful getting a pap test, when the gynecologist inserts the speculum?
|by Anonymous||reply 139||11/19/2010|
R136 do you label everyone with a medical problem an "abnormal freak?" Somebody's projecting.
|by Anonymous||reply 140||11/19/2010|
Excuse me, r135/know-nothing
Sex the first time not only hurts the female, but it also hurts the guy who deflowers her, too. Sometimes it hurts so much that the girl can't continue and they have to try again another time. If you don't know this, then you either don't have a pussy or have never had any penetration whatsoever. Either way, you need to keep your mouth shut because you have no clue what you're talking about.
And I'll quote for you what my boyfriend said to me the day after he fucked me for the first time, which incidentally was our 2nd time trying BECAUSE IT HURT TOO MUCH FOR ME: "My dick never hurt from fucking a girl before."
|by Anonymous||reply 141||11/19/2010|
R141, did you see a doctor for your problem? That doesn't sound normal. Most cooches will open up to receive a dick even with minimal foreplay. And who says deflower?
|by Anonymous||reply 142||11/19/2010|
Why are you extrapolating your abnormal freakiness and problem to ALL other women, R141?%0D %0D Your first sentence applies your abnormal freakiness to ALL women by saying 'Sex the first time not only hurts the female, but hurts the guy....'%0D %0D Speak for yourself and ONLY YOURSELF. What you describe certainly does NOT apply to ALL women and applies to only a tiny few women.%0D %0D What you experienced is in no way prevalent.
|by Anonymous||reply 143||11/19/2010|
And as a side note I'd just like to say that my bf also said: "You weren't bad for a virgin."
|by Anonymous||reply 144||11/19/2010|
R141: Oh, honey. You couldn't be more wrong about me. Not a dude and not inexperienced.%0D %0D Were you 13? I'm genuinely sorry you had a difficult time, but unless you were very young, it's unusual.
|by Anonymous||reply 145||11/19/2010|
[quote]And as a side note I'd just like to say that my bf also said: "You weren't bad for a virgin."%0D %0D ...Which implies he'd been with other virgins before, yet somehow those experiences didn't hurt him. Hmm.
|by Anonymous||reply 146||11/19/2010|
Why are psychological freaks who have sexual problems which apply to no one else showing up on this thread?%0D %0D The psychological damaged people giving their experiences are not helpful. This is a thread for people with normal sex lives and for women without psychological problems.
|by Anonymous||reply 147||11/19/2010|
I think you, r143, are a man that's getting off on pretending to be a woman. I think you enjoy people believing you're a woman here because you wish more than anything in the world that you had a pretty little pussy and that you knew what it was liked to have a pussy with a big cock sliding in and out of. Well, you don't and you never will.
To the men on here: Ask any woman you're able to whether or not it hurt her first time. She will tell you yes. It's not the worst thing in the world, but it does hurt.
|by Anonymous||reply 148||11/19/2010|
No, it doesn't, r146. A guy would expect a virgin to not be such a great lay whether he'd been with one before or not, dumbass. Hmm.
|by Anonymous||reply 149||11/19/2010|
"Oh, honey."??? Oh, you're definitely a man!
|by Anonymous||reply 150||11/19/2010|
[quote]To the men on here: Ask any woman you're able to whether or not it hurt her first time. She will tell you yes. It's not the worst thing in the world, but it does hurt.%0D %0D ...Because of lack of lubrication. Which can be remedied by using artificial lube.%0D %0D And that does derail the thread a bit, because I think OP was asking about more general experiences than just first time experiences.
|by Anonymous||reply 151||11/19/2010|
And now I've decided not to upload the photo of the 8 and a half inch cock, which is one of the most incredible cocks I've ever seen or had inside me. You can thank the big ol' queen who's pretending to know what it's like to have a pussy for that.
|by Anonymous||reply 152||11/19/2010|
Sweetie, if your vaginal spasms crushed his dick, attacking me is not going erase that memory for you.%0D %0D [quote]"Oh, honey."??? Oh, you're definitely a man!%0D %0D Believe what you like, but no I'm not.
|by Anonymous||reply 153||11/19/2010|
Anyone that tight has a problem. If not physical, then mental.
|by Anonymous||reply 154||11/19/2010|
Only gay men use pet names. Straight women never do this.
|by Anonymous||reply 155||11/19/2010|
R148, why are you insisting that the first time hurts for all women or almost all women?%0D %0D The first time does NOT hurt for the vast majority of women.%0D %0D
|by Anonymous||reply 156||11/19/2010|
[quote]And that does derail the thread a bit, because I think OP was asking about more general experiences than just first time experiences.
Um, yes, it does, considering that this line is in the original post:
[quote]This, of course, excludes your first time.
So I would have to say that the chick shrieking about how her vag was made of concrete when she first tried to have sex with a man is derailing the thread.
|by Anonymous||reply 157||11/19/2010|
The Concrete Vagina
|by Anonymous||reply 158||11/19/2010|
I think OP originally asked the question because, for most gay men, getting fucked does hurt, and he wanted to see if maybe women felt the same type of pain. And this has been an interesting thread. But to make a valid comparison, it would help to hear from women who have also been fucked in the ass. Assuming women feel the same type of "pain" that men feel when getting fucked in the ass, these women can then offer a real comparison of the "pain", if any, of being fucked in the vagina.
|by Anonymous||reply 159||11/19/2010|
That's a good point, R159.
|by Anonymous||reply 160||11/19/2010|
R156. I would ask you the very same. How do you know what "the vast majority of women experience?" Clearly, you are a freak who's been playing with dildos since you were 12. That's why you felt nothing your first time.%0D %0D Real virgins get hurt and they bleed. It's a well known fact and has been written about for centuries and in every culture. It's really not something that needs to be debated here.
|by Anonymous||reply 161||11/19/2010|
That is a huge fallacy R161 - a falsehood which is perpetuated without accuracy.%0D %0D It is a myth.
|by Anonymous||reply 162||11/19/2010|
[quote]Real virgins get hurt and they bleed. It's a well known fact and has been written about for centuries and in every culture. It's really not something that needs to be debated here.%0D %0D And completely debunked by books like Our Bodies, Ourselves and the entire women's liberation movement. But you know, who was paying attention to that?%0D %0D There's a third choice beyond pain or feeling nothing, you know. Otherwise, no one would do it. You owe it to yourself to see a doctor and find out why that doesn't happen for you.%0D %0D Scroll down to the Frequently Asked Questions and read them.%0D %0D [quote]Is there pain in tearing of the hymen?%0D No. Normally, in her first sexual intercourse, if the person does not tighten herself up, the intercourse will be very comfortable, without bleeding and without any pain. However, the prejudices and the unnecessary fears embedded in the subconscious cause the person to tighten up and have a lot of blood and pain.
|by Anonymous||reply 163||11/19/2010|
University of California, Santa Barbara.
|by Anonymous||reply 164||11/19/2010|
Some women posting here think it is still 1957.%0D %0D They are relics.
|by Anonymous||reply 165||11/19/2010|
This thread surpasses the Food With a Key thread for surreal stupidity.%0D %0D A normal vagina in normal everyday sexual use hurts no more than a penis does when used. It doesn't hurt like an ass can. For most women, using their vagina feels neutral to exquisitely multi-orgasmic. It's what a vagina is designed for.%0D %0D Enough already.
|by Anonymous||reply 166||11/19/2010|
What??? I am female and the first time hurt and I bled. The same is true for EVERY woman I've discussed this with. I don't discuss it with every woman I encounter, but over the course of the last 30 years, I imagine I've heard the same thing from about 20 woman.
|by Anonymous||reply 167||11/19/2010|
Same for me. My first time was painful, then I felt a snap, then I bled. It was awful.
|by Anonymous||reply 168||11/19/2010|
Were you both very young at the time?%0D %0D Some hymens do bleed, for sure. But many do not. As for the pain, nerves and fear cause women to tighten up and prevent lubrication; that's why it hurts for so many. It doesn't have to be that way...of course, it's worse if you're younger.
|by Anonymous||reply 169||11/19/2010|
No! I had an orgasm when I gave birth! The first time! Underwater!
|by Anonymous||reply 170||11/19/2010|
Only women bleed!
|by Anonymous||reply 171||11/19/2010|
Kathy Greaves, PhD.%0D %0D [quote]For some women, the first time they have vaginal intercourse, their hymen is ruptured. For many other women, however, the first time they have vaginal intercourse, there's no cherry popping going on. Many hymens are torn by a finger, a tampon or some other object that has been inserted into the vagina. And yes, a dildo would do the trick as well. Also keep in mind that some hymens are particularly thin - thin enough to be ruptured at first intercourse without bleeding - so do not assume that bleeding is a given upon first intercourse. Many individuals and cultures are incorrect in their belief that bleeding during first intercourse is an indication that the female was a virgin prior to the act. For some women, the first time they have vaginal intercourse, their hymen is ruptured.For some women, the first time they have vaginal intercourse, their hymen is ruptured.Second, even if she does bleed, it's not like it's a pint of blood. IF, and that's a big IF, she does bleed, it's a very small amount.
|by Anonymous||reply 172||11/19/2010|
R169: I was 15. I was able to use tampons after that, but not before.
|by Anonymous||reply 173||11/20/2010|
By all means ladies, don't believe your own experience or that of literally EVERY other woman you know. Listen to this loon and her quackery. Afterall, she brings us evidence from the esteemed "sexpert" who writes for her college newspaper. LOL!%0D %0D Love how she's backing off now and saying that, "yes, it can INDEED hurt if you are young, tense, not lubed enough...on and on."%0D %0D Well, yes moron, most of us WERE young the first time and tight as a drum. Most of us WERE tense if we weren't roofied (like I presume you must have been) on such a momentous occasion. %0D %0D So...to conclude, for most normal women who haven't been sticking dildos up there since the age of 12 (like this crazy nut) it hurts like a bitch the first time.
|by Anonymous||reply 174||11/20/2010|
[quote]Love how she's backing off now and saying that, "yes, it can INDEED hurt if you are young, tense, not lubed enough...on and on."%0D %0D You do realize people have been saying that throughout the thread, right? And that more than one person has responded to you, right?%0D %0D And that the first time was never supposed to be the topic of the thread, right?%0D %0D And that PhDs who study human sexuality probably know more than you do, even if you talked to TWENTY WHOLE WOMEN, right?%0D %0D They often do write for college newspapers because it's usually younger women who need advice. If that's not you...at this point, nothing would surprise me.%0D %0D Nobody said the first time never hurts. Just that it's not inevitable and it has little to do with stretching, and the only reason anybody was talking about it in the first place is because your insecure ass brought it up even though the OP specifically said he wasn't asking about the first time anyway.
|by Anonymous||reply 175||11/20/2010|
[quote]So...to conclude, for most normal women who haven't been sticking dildos up there since the age of 12 (like this crazy nut) it hurts like a bitch the first time.%0D %0D Oh. My. God.%0D %0D People are trying to [italic]help you[/italic], you of the concrete vagina. Just do yourself a favor and go to Amazon, buy the latest version of Our Bodies, Ourselves and Dr. Ruth's Sex for Dummies, and read them. If you can't handle that, then shove them up your cunt to "stretch it out."%0D %0D But of course, taking a poll at your fucking knitting club that's full of women who are as clueless as you are will provide better scientific evidence than the experts who contributed to those books; what was I thinking? Those people with doctorates--especially the women with doctorates--are filthy liars!%0D %0D [quote]Well, yes moron, most of us WERE young the first time and tight as a drum. %0D %0D Really? Because in your little anecdote there, you had a pretty mature, sexually experienced boyfriend, considering he not only had the gumption to stop when you couldn't handle it the first time, but he announced later that it was the first time his dick hurt from fucking a chick. Doesn't sound like the description of a teenage boy to me, so it sounds more like you were at least 18-21 (which is how old I was, and it didn't hurt!). Unless you were fucking your biology teacher in the ninth grade or something, which would explain why you weren't paying attention to the textbook.%0D %0D I'm thinking you haven't had illumination on this issue before because you jump down people's throats every time someone tries to give you information.%0D %0D It's not everyone else's fault that you have convinced yourself that it's excruciating for all women the first time because it was for you--and you [italic]clearly[/italic] have problems--and because Desdemona bled.%0D %0D [quote]we're done now%0D %0D Yeah, we are. See a shrink, you frigid, Victorian bitch.
|by Anonymous||reply 176||11/20/2010|
R174 If you're not ready to have sex, then don't! I felt ready at 20, not before, and my first time was good. Not great, but good. It didn't hurt, I didn't bleed.
And no, I didn't used dildos before. I guess you and all your friends were 12 when you had sex, probably because your boyfriend wanted to and you were afraid he might leave you.
Different women, different experiences.
|by Anonymous||reply 177||11/20/2010|
Actually, speaking of Dr. Ruth...R177, she says that nothing permanently stretches the vagina until childbirth, so it wouldn't matter if you did use dildos. The concept of being "tight as a virgin" is a fallacy created by straight men and their fantasies.%0D %0D Youth makes a difference because you're smaller overall, you're more likely to have an intact hymen merely because you've had less time to break it--whether accidentally or on purpose--and you're more likely to be nervous and scared (so you tighten up and have less lubrication).%0D %0D So even if someone was "shoving dildos up there since she was 12," it wouldn't make a bit of difference. Women don't get "loose" after years of having sex. Men made that up.
|by Anonymous||reply 178||11/20/2010|
I think the lady with the concrete vagina should become a regular DL character.
|by Anonymous||reply 179||11/20/2010|
Since fish are not interested in sizemeat(over 8 inches), any sizemeat going into a fish is a HIDEOUS waste of natural resources!
|by Anonymous||reply 180||11/20/2010|
R179 / Cheryl is right. Time to welcome a new member of DL: "the lady with a concrete vagina".
|by Anonymous||reply 181||11/20/2010|
Should the lady with the concrete vagina have superpowers? Should she fly?
|by Anonymous||reply 182||11/20/2010|
I'd read all that stuff about it not hurting, the hymen probably already having broken, and I'd been using tampons with no problems for years. And I don't see why lubrication should be a problem, if you've been snogging a guy you fancy for hours beforehand. But it did hurt, and I did bleed. So many people pontificate, when apparently there's a huge variation in the shape and thickness of the hymen and nobody's ever done a proper survey.
|by Anonymous||reply 183||11/20/2010|
This thread is arousing!
|by Anonymous||reply 184||11/20/2010|
R121 and R165 (same person), you're the one from 1957. Your sound like my great-grandfather.
|by Anonymous||reply 185||11/20/2010|
wELL IT HURTS IF MY MUFFIN IS DUSTY
|by Anonymous||reply 186||11/20/2010|
Did any lesbians have a painfull first time with a woman? For some reason *I* did. Not sure why. When she fingered me (three fingers) I bled
|by Anonymous||reply 187||11/20/2010|
It sounded like it was her first time also, R187. People think what they see in porn movies is what their partners want all the time. Who wants to be jack hammed all the time:)
|by Anonymous||reply 188||11/20/2010|
lubricants are available to heighten intimacy between men and women as well, and less necessary than they are for gay fucking, in most cases they can effectively counter the rare instances where straight fucking might be painful.
|by Anonymous||reply 189||11/20/2010|
[quote]But it did hurt, and I did bleed.%0D %0D %0D Of course it did. The first time hurts everyone who hasn't busted their own cherry with toys like the kooky gaping vag who keeps posting her nonsense here.
|by Anonymous||reply 190||11/20/2010|
R8 you're a whore darlin.
|by Anonymous||reply 191||11/20/2010|
hurts so good?
|by Anonymous||reply 192||11/20/2010|
Wasn't this a question for seasoned pros? After you've fucked a lot does it ever hurt when you're getting fucked?
|by Anonymous||reply 193||11/20/2010|
About five years I had sex with someone who earlier in the day picked me up at a Blockbuster (don't laugh-it's true) store nearby. I hadn't been with anyone in quite a long while beforehand. The guy was very well hung, great body and VERY energetic (he was about 10 years younger than me). It went on for quite a while. And even though I was definitely not a virgin and had been with men whose cock sizes varied, I did experience some pain and discomfort. The next day when I was at work I kid you not, I was so sore I had to take friggin advil!! I told a close pal of mine at work (still a close friend/confidante of mine even though we no longer work together) and she couldn't stop laughing the entire day. But really I was in pain afterwards.
|by Anonymous||reply 194||11/20/2010|
Remember the Duke girl who had the PP presentation? One of her comments after a night with a hung guy was "could.not.walk." She repeated that a couple times.
|by Anonymous||reply 195||11/20/2010|
I was 17, R169.%0D %0D And R176, you can justify your gaping pillar-accommodating cunt all you want with your Our Bodies, Ourselves rhetoric, but it doesn't make you the norm.
|by Anonymous||reply 196||11/20/2010|
R196 is completely DESPERATE to think of herself as 'normal', but everyone knows she is not normal.
|by Anonymous||reply 197||11/20/2010|
troll bar is your friend, r176. You don't even know who has written what and who you're addressing, not to mention the fact that you make an awful lot of assumptions.
|by Anonymous||reply 198||11/20/2010|
r190: the person being contrary is either a man, or a woman with a head full of rocks who probably does have a gigantic snatch because that's all guys use her for.
And btw fucktard at r176, who can't keep track of who they're talking to, I was 17 and he was 18. And why you would assume what his sexual experiences had been before me is unbelievable. And I don't need "illumination" on my own experiences and what I have come to understand from talking about this with other females. You are fucking crazy. AND you are a man. I am convinced of it.
|by Anonymous||reply 199||11/20/2010|
So I gather the consensus on this thread is that sex with normal, sexually active women is "not usually" painful unless it's the first time, the man's penis is too huge for her or the man is extremely selfish (on a scale of Greedy to Rapist).
Only unusual circumstances or health problems seem to cause an experience that rates "painful" overall, or leaves an impression that it mostly "hurt."
But I always expected women to rate sex as mostly PLEASURABLE. My theory is that it usually accompanies a LOWER, manageable degree of pain or discomfort to accommodate the dick, and this discomfort is drowned out by overwhelmingly pleasurable feelings, especially when the clitoris is stimulated.
The emotions women convey through screams and moans in porn videos suggest this to me.
I don't buy the notion that areas of the human body with nerve endings are indifferent to the sudden introduction of new mass, or can effortlessly accommodate any size, speed, direction or way.
|by Anonymous||reply 200||11/20/2010|
When is ole concrete pussy coming back?
|by Anonymous||reply 201||11/20/2010|
R200, no the below that you write is NOT accurate.%0D %0D 'My theory is that it usually accompanies a LOWER, manageable degree of pain or discomfort to accommodate the dick, and this discomfort is drowned out by overwhelmingly pleasurable feelings, especially when the clitoris is stimulated.'%0D %0D The above is NOT accurate. Just friggin' forget your PAIN theory. %0D %0D Having PAIN WITH INTERCOURSE IS VERY RARE.%0D
|by Anonymous||reply 202||11/20/2010|
Correct, r200. Like I said in r45, it can hurt a little when he's first pushing himself inside you, depending on his thickness and your tightness. It won't actually hurt once he's gotten fully inside. That 1 time for me with the really thick guy did hurt a bit when he was entering me, but the actual discomfort and pain was on the outside where I was getting tears. I could handle it, but it burned.
|by Anonymous||reply 203||11/20/2010|
R178 is right. Years of sex and/or dildos may break the hymen, but it doesn't loosen the vagina. So the idea that someone who enjoyed sex her first time must have been plowing herself with dildos for years doesn't make any sense.
[quote]When is ole concrete pussy coming back?
[quote]And I don't need "illumination" on my own experiences and what I have come to understand from talking about this with other females.
Anecdotal evidence doesn't beat statistical evidence.
[quote]Wasn't this a question for seasoned pros?
Before concrete pussy showed up squawking about virgins and first times, that was the original question, yes.
|by Anonymous||reply 204||11/20/2010|
And I should add, r200, that it won't hurt if you go for a 2nd round of fucking when he pushes back inside you.
|by Anonymous||reply 205||11/20/2010|
Troll-dar *is* your friend for this thread, and as far as I can tell R176 was talking specifically to one poster. The lady with the concrete vagine.%0D %0D Some other women reported bleeding, but it doesn't sound like R176 was addressing them. She was talking to the one who keeps insisting that sex is bloody and excruciating for every woman the first time unless you mutilated yourself with sex toys in middle school.%0D %0D [quote]And btw fucktard at [R176], who can't keep track of who they're talking to, I was 17 and he was 18.%0D %0D That's not "very young."
|by Anonymous||reply 206||11/20/2010|
Why is R203 trying to pass off her slight difficulty as the 'norm'?%0D %0D R203 is not the norm.%0D %0D Just because R203 had slight difficulty does not mean that the vast majority of other women have any slight difficulty.
|by Anonymous||reply 207||11/20/2010|
But the fuck out, r206, since you obviously can't keep up either. What are you, his lawyer? Or are you just posting from another computer? He/or you was responding to someone else's comment when he thought he was talking to me. And who the fuck knows what your point is about 17 and 18 not being very young.
|by Anonymous||reply 208||11/20/2010|
So, if I'm reading this thread right, in about 200 posts, we've been arguing about whether penetration can be painful for a woman?%0D %0D And in 200 + posts we haven't agreed that if she isn't wet and stimulated enough it can be painful?%0D %0D All of you get an F.
|by Anonymous||reply 209||11/20/2010|
Whoa, whatever, sorry. So there are two crazy bitches on here.
Unless [italic]you[/italic] are posting from another computer.
DUN DUN DUN
Should the lady with the concrete vagina be a private eye?
|by Anonymous||reply 210||11/20/2010|
|by Anonymous||reply 211||11/20/2010|
It's not necessary to be wet and stimulated to make it not hurt.%0D %0D There NO HURTING for the vast majority of women - whether wet/stimulated or not.%0D %0D
|by Anonymous||reply 212||11/20/2010|
meant to type:%0D %0D There is NO HURTING for the vast majority of women whether wet/stimulated or not.
|by Anonymous||reply 213||11/20/2010|
Did someone on this thread actually claim that rape doesn't cause physical pain?
Fuck you, bitch.
|by Anonymous||reply 214||11/20/2010|
The question was DOES IT EVER HURT. And the answer is, yes. Lets' ignore rape, because that is an unforgivable act on it's own.%0D %0D If you're not excited by your partner and they penetrate you, it's likely to hurt or feel major discomfort. Especially if you're gay and have mostly been involved in oral sex; you may not like penetration.%0D %0D Doesn't matter first time or not, if that's not your thing, you move to another partner.%0D %0D Don't assume everyone gets immune to it...
|by Anonymous||reply 215||11/20/2010|
Who keeps trying to bring this thread to rape?
|by Anonymous||reply 216||11/20/2010|
[quote]I don't buy the notion that areas of the human body with nerve endings are indifferent to the sudden introduction of new mass, or can effortlessly accommodate any size, speed, direction or way.%0D %0D R200, puff your cheeks out like Louis Armstrong really fast. It doesn't hurt, because the inside of your cheeks stretched, right? It's kind of like that.%0D %0D If women have trouble their first time, it's because they have a thicker hymen than average and they're tightening up due to nerves--assuming they're not pubescent and tiny. Most women really don't have that difficult a time. They've either already broken it, were born without one, or it's thin enough that they don't even notice when it breaks. It has nothing to do with tightness because the vagina doesn't permanently stretch to a different size until you push out a kid. Then some ladies try to put a stitch or two in there to tighten it back up to what it was pre-childbirth, but I really don't know if that's wise.%0D %0D If at 17 you are in so much pain that you have to stop, you either have an abnormally thick hymen, which hey, some people do, or it's purely psychological, sorry.%0D %0D To the actual thread topic--after experience, it's all about lube and relaxation.
|by Anonymous||reply 217||11/20/2010|
"Who keeps trying to bring this thread to rape?"
Me. Who else ?
|by Anonymous||reply 218||11/21/2010|
I swear some queers are just too damn dumb to be believed. OP, don't you even have a hint or a suspicion that if you (man or woman) allow someone to ram something relatively hard from 4" to 9" (or maybe more if you're lucky) up inside a body cavity, there is a damn good chance at some point something inside is going to be rammed against too hard and it's going to hurt.
|by Anonymous||reply 219||11/21/2010|
r219 is getting awfully upset. Why? Are your nerves tightening up dear?
|by Anonymous||reply 220||11/21/2010|
When I had sex the first time, I didn't bleed (used tampons for 5 years). It didn't hurt during sex, but afterwards had the worst cramps. The sex itself was meh.
|by Anonymous||reply 221||11/21/2010|
I wish men would not answer this question. Info based on what you've read or what you're heard is irrelevant.
Women should provide answers that explain their experience, not make general statement for all women, like all women have the same experience.
Answer to the question, does it ever hurt when you're getting fucked, is:
IT CAN in my experience.
|by Anonymous||reply 222||11/21/2010|
No, of course it never hurts. There's only a ton of nerve endings there, but they are proprammed simply to register the immense pleasure only a penis can provide. That's why every woman's vagine is in a constant state of lubrication and arousal, so we can be every-ready to receive the pleasure of your glorious dick.%0D %0D Is that what you want to hear?
|by Anonymous||reply 223||11/21/2010|
R223, you should make it clearer that you're JOKING.
|by Anonymous||reply 224||11/21/2010|
Yes it was painful. We had to use lubrication to get his penis in. I was 25 and had used tampons since I was 15. And yes I bled for about a day; like I was on my period.
|by Anonymous||reply 225||11/21/2010|
Actually, R224, I should proofread my posts. Proprammed=programmed and every=ever.
|by Anonymous||reply 226||11/21/2010|
I still can cramp a little after sex sometimes, either with a man or a woman using a dildo. I think (don't know, never really looked it up), it's air getting caught up there. It's definitely what it feels like, gassy bloating.
Other than that? The guy I'm with right now is very long, not really thick. Can't give exact measurements, I'm not pulling out a ruler in bed, but it takes both of my hands to cover his entire cock. He absolutely hits my cervix, which can be a little painful when we first start, and only if he immediately starts going for the hard slamming action (he's very rough with me). Our first time together was a little uncomfortable.
If he starts slower with little taps I get a bit more used to it, and the bumping starts to feel really good. I never had an orgasm from vaginal intercourse until this...there's gotta be something to it.
Oh, and I'm 5'10, so height does not seem to relate to the length of a woman's vagina, which I kinda thought it would. I think that's neat.
|by Anonymous||reply 227||11/21/2010|
Lots of tough hymens on this thread. Horseback riding should be required for girls. Heh.%0D %0D I don't think men are answering the question, R222. Concrete vag just kept labeling posters who didn't tell her what she wanted to hear as male, when they're clearly not. Straight men don't post here, and no gay man would have gotten that pissed at her over vaginas.
|by Anonymous||reply 228||11/21/2010|
[quote]Straight men don't post here%0D %0D P6Esq. is a straight man who posts here.%0D %0D Female here. Sometimes it is uncomfortable if: I am not lubed. I am not sufficiently swollen to accomodate his size. He is too large. He is unable to follow the direction of my vaginal canal.%0D %0D When none of the above are happening, which is MOST of the time, it is a little uncomfortable for about a minute and then very enjoyable.%0D
|by Anonymous||reply 229||11/21/2010|
Any women have 2 dicks in their pussy at once? Please describe the feeling and also how it happened, the men's penis sizes, etc. I want stories, ladies!
|by Anonymous||reply 230||11/21/2010|
The bigger the cock the greater the pain. The first couple of times there is some discomfort yet the first time my god that shit hurts...but after you get pass that than the pleasure kicks in all the woman have to do is relax and b calm and inform the guy as to whether or not its her first time and he should be gentle when beginning to penetrate her then after the first 5-6 thrusts she should feel the pleasure...just ensure that shes wet and stimulated and there should be no problems...oh yeah foreplay works well too.
|by Anonymous||reply 231||01/03/2012|
Fucking depressing how long (and obnoxious) this thread is.
Proves we really don't need the straight women.
|by Anonymous||reply 232||01/03/2012|
I hope a monster eats the concrete vagine!
|by Anonymous||reply 233||01/03/2012|
I have the same experiences as r21- I have a very short canal (I think it correlates with having a short waist and neck), so it's easier to hit the ovary with the cyst, that's why I prefer thickness over length. And also the same as r221- started using tampons for 5 years before having sex. Sex didn't hurt, no bleeding, but horrific cramps after.
For those who say it's just the contractions that hurt during childbirth- do you know that most of the time, vaginas actually rip and have to be sewn up again? Tell me that wouldn't hurt.
|by Anonymous||reply 234||01/03/2012|
If blood and uterus lining hurt coming out of the cervix, imagine what a body feels like coming out of the same place.
|by Anonymous||reply 235||01/03/2012|
I hate NIGGER'S & RETARD'S & SPIC'S
|by Anonymous||reply 236||03/08/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 237||03/08/2012|
Bigots have low intelligence as evident by r236's rant with glaring punctuation errors.
|by Anonymous||reply 238||03/08/2012|
Yes, thank you R8 for sharing your knowledge of the sore, dry vaginas of 80 year-old women. You really should be on Jeopardy!
|by Anonymous||reply 239||03/08/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 240||04/03/2012|
I forgot all about Miss Concrete Vagine. How you doing girl?
|by Anonymous||reply 241||04/03/2012|
this got to 241 really? make that 242.
|by Anonymous||reply 242||04/03/2012|
It didn't hurt, but my first time was uncomfortable. It don't anymore. My pussy stays wet because I finger myself every chance I get. Also, love me some dildos when I can't have the real thing. And I ALWAYS swallow!!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 243||04/10/2012|
Yes, after I haven't done it in awhile.
|by Anonymous||reply 244||04/10/2012|
Nope, can't say that it does. They only time I can think of would be after many times a night at it and thank god for lube and we could keep on going.
Any more questions?
|by Anonymous||reply 245||04/10/2012|
Fuck the morons who want to make hymens un-pc and women who have hymens (almost every woman) freaks. It's completely normal to have a hymen that bleeds (and tears painfully) during the first time of penetration. For most women this happens only once and it doesn't bleed too much. Some women have no hymen or a very thin one that doesn't even bleed or hurt. Some women have a think hymen that bleeds a lot and maybe several times. This stands in no correlation to her ability to knit, you fucking crazy bitches.
And horse back riding does not take care of hymens. It only CAN theoretically. It MAY have happened sometimes, it's not something that usually happens. So stop with this ridiculous myth.
Oh, topic of the thread: Cervix or dryness.
The moans in porn are not about pain, as already said. It's meant to show discomfort of so much sensation, but not quite coming yet. Isn't it like that for men as well? Like you couldn't stop because it would be almost painful to not continue until orgasm?
|by Anonymous||reply 246||04/11/2012|
How about in the ass?
|by Anonymous||reply 247||04/11/2012|
no it doesn't hurt because I'm not taking it up the arse. thank you for your concern.
|by Anonymous||reply 248||04/11/2012|
I had a hysterectomy. We should have a hysterectomy thread. I would contribute.
|by Anonymous||reply 249||04/11/2012|
Anal doesn't hurt for me. And I enjoy it very much.
But I don't do it unless the guy suggests it first. I don't want to look like a whore.
|by Anonymous||reply 250||04/12/2012|
it doesnt hurt.my cunt is always wet and when stimulated it drips.i like fingering myself when im alone.whenever i see a man my pussy starts 'dancing' and wish to fuck him.i never feel the pain,only pleasure.ladies,finger fuck yourselves nw nd then.and u wont feel the pain,im as wet as a damp cloth right now
|by Anonymous||reply 251||04/13/2012|
What about those pron stars that routinely fuck huge cocks. They must prepare using toys, right? What about DP? What does that feel like?
|by Anonymous||reply 252||04/13/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 253||05/28/2012|
|by Anonymous||reply 254||05/28/2012|
Wow, DL chicks are just like DL dudes. A small majority of considered, reasonable responses, shouted down by an insanely loud minority of one-note psycho freaks with axes to grind.
|by Anonymous||reply 255||05/28/2012|
Aside from my first time, I never really had any pain until a few months ago. It was a one time thing with one guy and the sex I had inbetween then didn't hurt. But then tonight I had sex and it hurt really bad. I'm trying to figure out why it has hurt me just these two times, and I suppose I can understand why it hurt me today...the guy was pretty huge and he was pounding me and I hadn't done it in like a month. I mean it hurt like worse than ever. Then I tried to compare it with the other time it hurt a few months ago and the only thing I can think of about why it might have hurt that time was because it had been like 6 months since I had last done it. It's weird because I've had sex hundreds of times because I was in a 3 year relationship at one point, and we did it all the time, but it never hurt. So I'm trying to figure out why it's hurting sometimes now.
|by Anonymous||reply 256||06/01/2012|
r256 it could be age, hormonal changes, fribroids, etc. Ask your doctor.
|by Anonymous||reply 257||06/01/2012|
As someone who identified as mostly lesbian until recently, I have had a lot of discomfort with intercourse, but maybe that's because of nerves? I get terribly nervous and am always self-conscious throughout. Also doesn't help that most of my male partners have been young and rather selfish lovers.
|by Anonymous||reply 258||06/01/2012|
yes, it can hurt a little when you haven't done it for a while. and if they guy is really huge and/or bumps against the cervix whilst fucking you.
|by Anonymous||reply 259||06/01/2012|
"Mostly lesbian" R258? Do us all a favour and call yourself bisexual from now on. Lesbians don't fuck men, and you know it.
|by Anonymous||reply 260||06/01/2012|
It only hurts when he calls me "plump".
|by Anonymous||reply 261||06/01/2012|
i love fucking women in late 70s and 80s....most are very tight .but vaseline helps the dry ones...most yelp a little but soon are panting and moaning
|by Anonymous||reply 262||06/02/2012|
Use lubricant don't salivate the pennis
|by Anonymous||reply 263||07/30/2012|
if any one in the above is ready, my pinus is free now.....lets see how much lubricant you spill....
|by Anonymous||reply 264||08/21/2012|
overuse? mine hurt tonight, but i've been doing it a lot. a friend in college had bruising inside once after a few bouts of rough (consensual) sex. how long until my vagina feels better enough to fuck again? not sure... guess i'll just have to test it out myself.
|by Anonymous||reply 265||10/24/2012|
Only if it's exceptionally big and he goes too fast.
One time, a really large guy banged too hard on my cervix and uterus, and leftover lining from my last period seeped out for 2 or 3 days. His fault, not mine.
|by Anonymous||reply 266||10/25/2012|
I blame you r266
|by Anonymous||reply 267||10/25/2012|
Haha. The only thing I'll take the blame for is grossing you out!
|by Anonymous||reply 268||10/25/2012|
AS i seen if u had longer foreplay with your girl,she get wet and she never fill pain.....but u come and just fuck her without foreplay den she fill like hell but we enjoy cause we fill tightness in her vagina......
|by Anonymous||reply 269||12/06/2012|
where was the first cock you ever touched?
|by Anonymous||reply 270||12/06/2012|
Yes the first it go in it is bigger and harder and your getting spread wide to be able to put something 3to4 bigger they that hole he'll.yes it hurts. But only for a minute. Then he feeling and finger and you go with it and enjoy:):)
|by Anonymous||reply 271||02/01/2013|
I am also mostly into girls, but sometimes I just need a hard cock!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 272||02/01/2013|
if sex was not made to be pleasurable, making it hurt to haves ex, half the human race would have not been born
|by Anonymous||reply 273||06/27/2013|
You're naive, #273. It's all about the men. Up until quite recently in human evolution, women were treated like livestock.
|by Anonymous||reply 274||06/28/2013|
When I lost my virginity I was very wet so it didnt hurt that much... Ladies be wet
|by Anonymous||reply 275||01/01/2014|
NO, but a lot of black men like to think it does(because they're just so big, don't ya know).
I still remember former NBA player John Salley bragging out loud that he's sent women to the hospital.
I mean, really, what a fucking idiot.
|by Anonymous||reply 276||01/01/2014|
Really? 276 posts on a gay site? Also, WTF is wrong with r262 who likes to screw 80 year old women? How the hell did he get here?
|by Anonymous||reply 277||01/01/2014|
Ehat the hell is this? A gay site?
|by Anonymous||reply 278||01/04/2014|
Yea it can hurt if he's big but u should have porn with a baseball bat
|by Anonymous||reply 279||04/06/2014|
I've fucked John Salley and he is a whole lotta man...but I did not need to be hospitalized.
By the way, this took place back when he was a student at Ga Tech, before he was married.
|by Anonymous||reply 280||04/06/2014|
This is one of the most informative threads I've ever read on DL.
|by Anonymous||reply 281||04/06/2014|
R104, of course not, especially when the woman has just been cut so the head comes out.
|by Anonymous||reply 282||04/08/2014|
r86, yes porn actresses are hamming it up. I like to make a few moans to make my man feel like he is doing a good job, yes I am usually faking it for his benefit. And no it doesn't hurt.
|by Anonymous||reply 283||04/08/2014|
My husband is bigger than average and I'm smaller so certain positions are very uncomfortable to the point of displeasure. However now that I'm edging into menopause, I've noticed that it's becoming truly painful. I guess it's time to hit the lube! Also, I've not had any children if that means anything (some say it does; most say it doesn't - who knows)
|by Anonymous||reply 284||04/08/2014|
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|by Anonymous||reply 285||05/12/2014|
[quote]When I lost my virginity I was very wet so it didnt hurt that much... Ladies be wet
I'm very wet, I even female ejaculate. But it hurts when my gf is fucking me with her fingers. It's a pity, sex is not really that fun for me.
|by Anonymous||reply 286||05/12/2014|
She won't do oral, R286? Dump her now.
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|by Anonymous||reply 288||01/19/2015|
I've always had pain.
|by Anonymous||reply 289||01/19/2015|
No it feels good. Women like a good hard fuck. Especially doggy style. We like it fast and tough too. It does depend on how you thrust though, slowing down after a really fast fucking makes us climax quicker. We like begging you to take us faster, harder and deeper. I don't know what it's like for other women, but a quick thrust in the ass is much appreciated too, then slipped back into my pussy. Then you can have the satisfaction of a women saying, fuck me in the ass. We love it.
|by Anonymous||reply 290||03/10/2015|
When your bladder falls then yeah, it can be uncomfortable.
|by Anonymous||reply 291||03/10/2015|
R290, vaginal after anal is an excellent way to give yourself a pelvic infection.
|by Anonymous||reply 292||03/10/2015|
Yes, it can be painful depending on the position used and length of the penis.
A cervix isn't a trampoline. If something bangs up against it, generally it's going to be uncomfortable.
|by Anonymous||reply 293||03/10/2015|
It does when he first put it in but after that it's just amazing.!!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 294||04/10/2015|
You should try so that you yourself can find out what happens in that black mysterious hole
|by Anonymous||reply 295||04/18/2015|
I sometimes get sad when women are fucked
|by Anonymous||reply 296||04/18/2015|
I just started getting into anal
Two weeks ago it was my 22nd birthday & I went to the baths with my bf
I got into a sling & got punch fisted by a bunch of guys.
It was super hot, but my ass has been sore for a week!! Not sure I would do it again
|by Anonymous||reply 297||04/18/2015|
Yeast infection makes it hurt. And 97% of women have yeast infection.
|by Anonymous||reply 298||04/18/2015|
I miss the days when this was a web site where only the gays came.
|by Anonymous||reply 299||04/18/2015|